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The path is laid out prior to your encountering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:23 AM
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Some people have to just accept it isn't in the cards for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:11 AM
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Going to random events ≠ success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:43 PM
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Okay? Not everybody's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:38 PM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:31 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:02 PM
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They're not particularly knowledgeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:11 PM
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Regardless of what has to be taught what remains is that the majority of women orgasm. What has been done by people online is take the statistical truth, that more men orgasm than women and turn it into, the majority of women don't orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:55 AM
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It is. Majority of women orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:45 AM
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It actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:31 AM
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Yeah, men get much more from sex then women. That's actually exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:27 AM
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No ones courting. A chaperone is required to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:41 PM
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That's just what they told you as an excuse. Chicks absolutely dig older guys. Statistically that's only the case for 10% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:58 AM
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I can dance but can't sing. Must be where I'm going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:51 PM
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How could I possibly answer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:44 AM
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They are the numbers. And why didn't you list the lesbian, gay male, and straight male stats Because that's literally not what we're talking about. Yes, that is what the study talks about, the disparity or gap between the male orgasm and female orgasm in relationships with men. But, it is not what you were talking about. Most women don't orgasm during sex with straight men, so how will that ever help alleviate stress? You assert the above statement in the first clause of your question, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:10 AM
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No. 65% of heterosexual women orgasm during sex and 66% of bisexual women orgasm during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:18 AM
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That isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:38 PM
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It's been around since the 1950s when older men who missed out on fighting during war started telling teens and office workers that they are supposed to be warriors (see the adventure comics of the era). We then see these men read Soldier of Fortune in the 70s and head off to Rhodesia. Then in the 90s and early 2000s it manifested in the mythopoetic men's movement which introduced the term 'toxic masculinity' and led to the writing of Chuck Palahniuck's Fight Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:16 AM
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No. No guy is given a similar talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:45 PM
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Yeah, people (both men & women) like to kiss, hold hands, make a connection. It's not complicated. It's just whereever the questioner is that's the issue not dates in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:38 PM
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Studies also show that retirees are happier but no ones in a rush to get old. Marriage is a contract with its associated obligations and thus a serious thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:21 PM
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It's incredibly rare that I see him reference actual science & studies which a proper scientist does such as Macken Murphy. Also Carl Jung (if that's who you meant is not a proper example of modern science.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:24 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:20 PM
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Often times a confident & assertive guy will usually be a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:12 PM
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In one study of more than 50,000 people, 95% of heterosexual men said they usually or always orgasm when sexually intimate, while only 65% of heterosexual women said the same. In one study it was found that 40% of first-year female college students had experienced a hookup during their first year. So the orgasm gap isn't that big. The majority of women do not experience it and the number women who hook up is small enough that they likely fit within the number who do orgasm regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:27 PM
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The most upvoted post in this subreddit disagrees with you: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/X11L9HeraE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:35 AM
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It's so vague and used for such a broad range of types it's effectively useless and shouldn't be used. Also If it's specifically used to refer to criminals I think the person must be from a really shit area.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:35 AM
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A lot of anti-vaxxers claim to go with reason & common sense over academic research. Are you an anti-vaxxer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:24 PM
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Will you please just look at the research.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:21 PM
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Sure. Ignore the research. Ignore science. Forget about evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:17 PM
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Read the research. Look up William Costello's research.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:12 PM
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Incel?! He's a gay weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:09 PM
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Psychology research says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:08 PM
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Also why would I let a woman cook for me. None will be able to cook as good as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:48 PM
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Most men have the ability to look at the world around them and realize that looks matter immensely in dating. By the time I was in middle school it was very obvious that girls gravitated toward certain guys, who happened to be attractive. It seemed pretty obvious to me that it wasn't just a random coincidence. I think most men have picked up on this simply through observation without needing a "red pill" to inform them of this obvious truth. I'm always curious when men make these types of claims…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:19 PM
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The way it was being used above isn't redpill. In the red pill the top guys can compensate. Tallest & best looking ≠ top in the red pill. Confidence, assertiveness, & leadership, dominance matter a lot in the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:00 PM
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Well I'm a younger millennial and all this was the same back 2013-2017. The red pill subreddit was far more active back then. Except the black pill hadn't infiltrated this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:35 PM
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We can't advise you. We don't know you. That's the problem. Attraction is so many things, it's hard to actually help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:54 AM
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There's a book about it: The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life by Erving Goffman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:24 AM
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Generally what people interpretation cold approach to be is talking to a stranger in a public place with the intent for it to go somewhere sexually or romantically. Even regarding the pub you'd be there with friends and they might be friends of friends and in college you'd know them via your course. The Irish dating scene: https://youtu.be/PaXFsHMvTWk?si=w418ryh9XFfvegIV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 PM
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In a lot of western countries like mine you really only meet women through friends, hobbies, work, the pub on nights out, college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:21 PM
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Doesn't work in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:56 PM
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Dating apps use women like brothels use prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:57 PM
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It's done plenty in Scandinavia from what I've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:50 PM
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Have you tried women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:49 PM
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For people other than yourself sex is like 100x the pleasure of masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:14 PM
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He replied to the wrong bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:38 PM
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I've definitely seen people in the redpill subreddit take AWALT as applying to every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:25 PM
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Bro culture or not most guys prefer women giving them massages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:26 AM
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So. Also it's all over https://www.ft.com/content/2138e940-0c81-44b0-87a7-325f278413e1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:48 PM
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Night clubs have lost popularity hugely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:09 AM
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What does Nora have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:50 PM
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Sounds like something from Hoemath.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/25 02:16 PM
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Protect - ninjas, they're a deadly threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:58 PM
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There's a subreddit for that. Think it's called trasmaxxxing. Weird stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:37 PM
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You mightn't get it however that doesn't matter because the point is ultimately not whether you get it but that for other people it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:12 PM
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Passport bros are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:13 PM
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This is what it reminded me of.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/24 07:47 PM
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Actually I have read it and disagree regardless. Sure, fighting gives plenty of guys more confidence and that's great however there's more direct ways of achieving dating success.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/24 10:31 PM
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This is the sort of thing that sounds good but isn't actionable or all that useful.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/24 09:54 PM
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You need a lot more than that. Also most who find love don't have 6 packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:27 PM
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To quote the Greeks & Nietzsche: "become that which you are."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:34 AM
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That's not blue pill advice. Blue pill advice is stuff like: there's someone for everyone, you'll find someone when you stop looking. It's almost redpill. Just needs stuff about being the alpha and improving your career/earning more money, monk mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:01 AM
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What advice are you giving them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:55 PM
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It's not. To put it politely, that person needs to work on developing their intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:26 PM
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I guess fathers don't know this because they don't give a shit. What a weird response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:09 PM
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Yes it is. It doesn't matter whether it's valuable or whether you personal speak languages. It is expecting a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:13 PM
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how to speak multiple languages, That's expecting a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:03 PM
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It's more specifically to discuss the ideas behind what's called the redpill from its subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:03 AM
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This doesn't relate to this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:49 AM
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You've used the wrong word. Status us how popular you are or what job you have. That stuff is important but the word isn't status. The reason you've made this mix up is that status can lead to what you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:38 PM
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Just keep away from women. They don't deserve you. You've done so.much work to become the top alpha. What have they done?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:45 PM
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Have you ever thought that me going out to dinner 3-4x a week is quite normal Cook. Stop wasting money.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/24 03:20 PM
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I'm not in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:54 AM
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You think the only sex frat kids get is rape? That's a bizarre take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:48 AM
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I don't think frat boys are known to be virgins/struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:29 AM
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Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:04 AM
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one succeeds because they are better than others. Of course one succeeds because they are better than others. You don't need to get to Messi's level to do well with women. There are many, many women in the world. There are actually many people who just don't try. Many people in school don't manage jump the bell curve from C grades to A grades. Of those that do, they often neglect their looks, social skills, etc. Many people simply aren't implementing the steps the Red Pill advises. But you've fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:27 AM
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B: Most men succeed, but that causes hypergamy to consider this as the new average SMV, thus the advice fails again. The thing is though, one succeeds because others aren't putting in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:47 PM
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It existed at one point, somewhere around 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:35 PM
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That's why such a 'refresher' course wouldn't work. They aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:46 AM
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the "hardened convicted criminal in the bushes bogeyman" rapist. She wanted the world to see that the 70+ men, ranging in ages from 20s to 70s, who raped her in the modest-sixed town of Avignon, France were her neighbors, husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, a local councillor, a nurse, a journalist, a former police officer, a prison guard, a soldier, a firefighter and a civil servant, to name a few. These were "normal guys," many with families of their own. These weren't "Jeremy Meeks." It was Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:37 AM
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No. Redpill would state that with confidence, game, money you will succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:13 PM
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Words have means, redpill means something specific not someone who calls themselves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:03 PM
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They're blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:51 PM
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I think it depends on the person and you've to do both so the question isn't relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:26 PM
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They're extremely difficult to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:03 PM
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You may not be socializing as well as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:37 PM
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Yeah, this is a very dumb post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:16 AM
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It really depends on how bad your skin is to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:30 PM
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The redpill aspect is that you have to develop these things because of hypergamy. As a man you start in the valley, the woman on the mountain top. You must realize that you are lacking. You need to develop for dating success. The cards aren't dealt equally for everyone. Life is a bell curve and you're on the wrong side of it. There isn't someone for everyone. Not everybody will find somebody. You make your own success.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:06 PM
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Don't ask sales people about skincare. You need your face properly analysed. Ask a beautician or dermatologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:00 PM
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they admit they have zero interest in her education I don't think it's a 0 interest thing. It's that those things have 0 affect on their attraction. They may take an interest in it but having a PhD, being a manager/doctor won't turn a man on the way it turns on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:15 AM
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Sounds like nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:25 PM
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It's just an Instagram comedian: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7w1BZ5Ay3Q/?igsh=MXp1d3Y1dWszYjF5.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:03 PM
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Do you not know the purpose of this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:05 PM
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There's a bisexual woman on Instagram who said she's jealous of men as they get to be inside women. What do you make of that? It isn't a common sentiment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:40 PM
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More about love then lust. Less strife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:36 PM
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Do you think that woman with women relationships are more pure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:28 PM
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but I don't want to go through the situation of many women where they "build" a man a You're probably not building anything. In what way are you contributing to building anything at all? Stop taking dumb internet clichés for truth. You're way too young to get married. Especially him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:24 PM
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No. It's be Jacob Palmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:42 PM
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How do you mean? From an article I read he'd walk around the streets having weird fantasies without actually taking action himself. I might look for the article. Been awhile since I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:02 PM
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Elliot Rodgers didn't ask out women. If he did, he may have had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:56 PM
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Well it does greatly interersect with his area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:36 AM
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In general, Alexander Date Psych is an academic and does review a huge amount of literature dealing with dating and the red pill. We should have him and others in his area do an AMA here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:02 AM
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Where do we find them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:46 PM
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So to start off, I ensure the flowers I procure are suitably withered. When it comes to the car door, I closed it as she approaches it and inform her she's getting in the wrong side I sit down quickly to get the spot against the wall to ensure I have a good view of any potential attackers We'll sit outside where the coat is required. Maybe go somewhere where ordering isn't required like an art gallery. Well, I'm a sailor and Irish. I speak only in questions & riddles. I bring a veil for her in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:43 AM
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You've lost your common sense. People have a variety of reasons behind their motivations. It's not gendered. Women do stuff for their partners and family all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:30 PM
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What do you think the answer will be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:46 PM
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It's not a failure because that's not what parents do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:53 AM
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Yes, that where stuff like the red pill & pick up came in and get advice in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:50 PM
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Parents don't teach flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:43 PM
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I think he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:44 PM
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Blindfold her. Take off the Blindfold if you win.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 02:45 PM
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If I remember from last time I looked into this its a reinforcing of traditional gender norms repackaged as justified by 'mystical gender energy.' It's not scientific at all. It's also an excuse for women not to work or spend money. If you've feminine energy it shouldn't be some thing you need a man enter into. You should just embody it. Its talked about a lot by right-wing Christians when it actually comes from magick/the occult, which isn't usually seen as very Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:27 PM
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Oh but I do know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:46 PM
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provide safety for a woman to enter her feminine energy. Any time a phrase like this is used the take can simply be just dismissed. This gender energy thing is so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:57 PM
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The opposite of argumentative isn't submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:58 AM
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It really depends on if you drink much or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:34 PM
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I haven't found that to be the case. Where were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:50 PM
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That doesn't disprove it. Then you just say the attributes involved is top 20% in personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:35 PM
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3.5% of the population. That isn't much. I'm guessing then that you're including the North in this. We'll obviously there'd be an increase then however I wasn't including it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:49 PM
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Didn't expect to see Ireland featured here! I'll go through what I agree with and what I think is nonsense as an Irish man. Note: I've only dated foreign women. bad attitudes, ridiculous standards Can be the case. overwhelming obesity, Whilst people are getting fatter than ever the above is not the case. Its easy to find a slim woman. and a society bias against men. No such bias. Due to the small population, girls are extra judgmental and prude. ‘Bitch shields’ are through the roof Can be true. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:44 PM
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There aren't many red heads in Ireland.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:40 PM
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And there's a miniscule amount of Protestants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:29 PM
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No. There are very few practicing Catholics anymore and those that are practicing would have no problem with birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:28 PM
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You did say, if they don't try. As its so easy to just try and find success from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:17 PM
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The point is, that you're not getting is, that that's not so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:09 PM
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That's not how things work. Statistically incels don't expect a super hot model & how can you fix yourself if you don't know what to work on/what to fix? Especially if you lack a social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:40 PM
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That's a you thing, not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:31 PM
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This is just how you see the world. It isn't reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:28 AM
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Unless you're ugly this is a really dumb comment. But most people are not ugly. They're just okay looking and need to work on their flirting/social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:34 AM
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Mate, you're unlikely to get pussy abroad either. You have to become part of the community & learn the language to get a girlfriend abroad. And why does a white western woman even care, she wasn't gonna fuck him anyway, so why then the attacks "you can't get any in your own country"? Women just hate losing their power over average men. They don't care. You're taking this too personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:06 PM
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I haven't found it to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:27 PM
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People who research this stuff in academia are usually multidisciplinary, resulting in new areas syluxh as behavioral ecology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:49 AM
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Because dating is a market and economics studies markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:47 AM
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Myths come from somewhere. Maybe fix your confidence issues and live up to how attractive others actually see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:49 AM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:50 AM
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Women love black men. Women are into several archetypes not just some frat bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:02 PM
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It's likely that the actual changes came instead from working out, dietary changes, & just growing since you're a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 05:46 AM
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Girls have 0 interest in your personality. The ones that do aren't really your type either are they? The ones YOU my friend want, are all 100% looks 0% personality types. That's nonsense. It isn't so black & white. Looks + personality will get & keep the girl. Also chew gum and mew. Don't chew gum for this reason. It has found to damage your jaw after too long. Also mewing has been found not to be effective.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 05:25 AM
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Give it a go and tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:25 AM
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It may not even be their height. Just being a foreigners can make you more attractive. It's well known that Irish are attractive to Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:22 AM
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That point of saturation is a long way off. People are less active, there's more procrastination. But hey if you don't bother that just makes it easier for someone else. No skin off their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:08 AM
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Been to New York, New Jersey, & Florida. Regardless, even if they aren't fat I don't believe it's that common for them to be the whole package, (big muscles, low fat, good job, social). Most people would still be not muscular but not fat. You shouldn't be taken in by social media thinking all that stuff has been achieved by so many.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:55 AM
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Mate, your country is full of fat people. They're nowhere near the baseline. It might seem like there's loads of people achieving it because of looksmaxxing videos but it isn't the case. To paraphrase Marcus Aurelius, stop asking about becoming a successful man and become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:37 AM
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Look if you don't want to self-improve just don't. However in the real world not enough people will self-improve enough for that to be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:24 AM
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It's a totally different story for those with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:36 PM
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You're equating vaginal sex with something heterosexual men don't want. It's not a good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:43 AM
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Are you offering more than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:20 AM
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not actively having a close relationship with your parents. Isn't that a large part of the American population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:21 AM
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You definitely can. Change your mind and you can change your world. Can you imagine if you adopted that attitude towards employment? You can’t work towards being in demand by employers. The vital characteristics are predetermined. It sounds ridiculous cos it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:34 PM
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That's it. Next time I see someone hot I'm taking their parking space.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:33 PM
1

That's why some red pillers advocate for a mannderbund.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:23 PM
1

Therapy works mostly for neurosis which are more benigh anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:22 PM
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They're in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:09 PM
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I sent you a clip of an academic who linked numerous studies in his video. Your responses are dumb honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:02 PM
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What science? Attractive people are found to be attractive? Duh. It’s also pretty subjective No. The video. Please google Macken Murphy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:58 PM
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Well its not perfect however it is backed by science. I've asked the AskEconomics subreddit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:55 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/U5FNiNJy23Q?si=PR6xy6kwYH6ga-TD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:46 PM
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No. It's the next stage in evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:25 PM
1

Can't fight a battle when you can't get to the battle field.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:38 AM
1

Hey, doesn’t matter to me as I rarely get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:18 AM
4

It's a sign of low intelligence to be so affected by the symbolic use of language. The use of models, metaphors, and analogies allows us to analysis things on a higher cognitive plane rather than rely on conjecture & speculation. It is most unfortunate to observe individuals reject economic ideas which are academic in nature for the feel good and intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:09 AM
-1

I've found a cafe better for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:01 AM
-2

Why do you find it easier to have good conversation in that circumstance, especially with someone you may not know know very well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:57 AM
1

Dining out a lot is a great way to end up living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:52 AM
4

Most women won't feel comfortable doing that early on. They'd be concerned about how they look in a bathing suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:50 AM
2

Success in life starts with sparkling water.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:48 AM
2

Why do you want to do dinner dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:48 AM
3

Yeah, he said something like "sex is boring I just have it so the women will work for me."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:22 PM
2

That's a bit of a weird thing to ask. Why do you think of Friends as having that much influence? People have always seen it as normal to have friends. Having a big friend groups isn't mandatory. Having friends is. Even in friends there were only 6 characters. Having lots of friends isn't even common when you get close to 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:20 PM
1

Some of the best books to succeed are books on your specific industry.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/24 09:52 PM
1

Are you going to tell us about this essay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:37 AM
4

From who did you take this belief? It's not sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:30 AM
3

https://x.com/CostelloWilliam/status/1648014385883783220
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:29 AM
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a Texas university did the study You're referring to the work of Irish man William Costello.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:27 AM
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Of course it can be worked on. It's more nurture but changing it is very, very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:22 AM
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Not true at all. There's a load more variables at play. -your social skills -your flirting skilks -how many women you interact with -your smell -what other obligations you have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah, I'm just tired of the experience of talking to black pillers. Tell me what you agree with from it and we can work from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:32 AM
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Yeah not really much point explaining if you will just not listen to reason yourself. It should be kind of obvious that one can self-improve and learn what is required to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:17 AM
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Because the number of people that might actually like you is far smaller than that given that there are far more variables than you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:56 AM
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Yes I can. For people with minimum common sense it's idiotic. Furthermore from experience black pillers don't listen to reason an come up with their own nonsense reasons why it's true. I can just advice you to not entertain such thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:54 AM
1

You also need to increase your attractiveness so that a greater number want to be in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:33 AM
1

Do you not think that this hyperbole is extremely silly? What do guys want? Options. Look at situational comedies or the lives women think most men have. These fictional men might have a ONS. Then they might have a FwBs. Then they might get into a relationship. The possibility of having these things that seem to be normal in some distant part of the world somewhere. There are guys getting those 3 things. Why not you, why not me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:26 AM
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The black pill is just idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:14 AM
1

It could also mean that you were being too masculine. Look up the masculinity-trade off hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:00 AM
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Please give a bit more thought as to why you might be wrong & get back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:52 AM
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No you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:50 AM
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And I did just that, figuring that it was wrong to date or sleep with someone I can't provide for and marry. Honestly how did you end up thinking that? It's a bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:49 AM
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Redpill primarily recommends moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:44 AM
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Men cannot "build" attraction. You cannot make someone attracted to you if they are but what one can do is develop themselves such that the next women they meet are more likely to be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:31 AM
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Comfort is stage 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:17 PM
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We shouldn't get into it. It's an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:51 PM
1

What do you mean by no difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:20 PM
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If you don’t value a woman’s money then you won’t see her having a good job or vast wealth as a positive. It's more so that you don't find it as attractive to your life but if it was detrimental (i.e. she's in huge debt) than her RMV would go down. You’re also not “better” than your partner just because you make more money or are taller than her. If you rank attributes of individuals than some will be higher than others. Most people date and marry within their socio economic class. Did you forge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:17 AM
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I’ve never understood why people say only women are hypergamous, as if men aren’t. Are you attracted to wealth, a women being a CEO? For most guys the above is irrelevant that's why it's said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:41 AM
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This shows how the original claims have been stretched. Originally hypergamy was primarily about status within the social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:46 PM
2

What are you trying to say now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:47 AM
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such as the 80:20 rule) That was never an evo psych stat. At least critique properly if you're going to attempt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:09 AM
0

Based on the appearance of the red & Black pills growing I think autism is increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:35 AM
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I don't think anyone learns this from their parents. I think they learn it from their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:16 PM
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There's a married redpill subreddit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:44 AM
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Dude, the point was to show that being below 180cm tall does not mean you cannot have sex or attract women for a relationship. I think the redpill claim is rather that it becomes harder the less attributes of an attractive man you have, being 6 foot being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:36 PM
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I'd already explained that you're simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:52 AM
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"Nothing works unless you do" Maya Angelou The sooner you get started the quicker the results appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:13 AM
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It isn't limited. The time scale is just different. A women might only need to attend a MUA class to improve her looks, whereas a man may need 5 years to improve his social life, muscles, looks, finances. This all hinges on the idea that you can't change that stuff when, except for height, you simply can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:44 AM
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Trick driver? He claimed to be the art director of a vodka company
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:15 PM
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Also, I'm pretty sure if the government cared about women's opinions, then abortion would have been safe right about now. There are anti.abortion/prolife women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:03 PM
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No it isn't because they want the whole package in one guy. There's no dual, no mate switching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:20 PM
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I think the first bit refers to a. the masculinity trade-off hypothesis and the last bit b. the dual mating strategy. B has been disproven. A has not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:16 PM
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Ah, okay. I was looking at the other link.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:12 PM
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I did the same as before. Your text doesn't show up where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:09 PM
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I did ctrl + f on the quotes and couldn't find what you're quoting. What are you quoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:57 PM
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Could you clarify the point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:26 PM
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No. That's been disproven. Its different. Its called the dual mating hypothesis. https://datepsychology.com/why-dual-mating-hypothesis-research-has-failed-to-replicate/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:00 PM
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No, AF/BB scientifically is slightly different, the dual mate hypothesis and has since been disproven. Now here, I will agree with your assessment of The Evolution of Desire, although the book does use debunked research that echoes assertations made by MRA's and Red Pillers. One of them being dual mating strategy, which this article does a great job of debunking. Another one is the rates of extra pair paternity, which the latest research shows to be around 1-2%, debunking the MRA/Red pill claims…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:56 PM
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This is why you aim for the mid point between masculine & non-masculine traits. The masculinity traide-off hypothesis. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7872150/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:40 PM
2

et what happens happen” How is it possible to just do that? At some point you have to initiate some sort of flirting, escalate towards kissing, touching etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:52 AM
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Gross. Why would a non-sociopath encourage or enable you to use women? That's not "dating" advice. Why do you call having sex 'using women?' Women also like having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:03 PM
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https://moonshotteam.com/the-redirect-method/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:58 AM
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Fonzi bear!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:05 PM
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You've gotta show how its garbage not merely assert its so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:47 AM
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As a woman, I know that an ideal love would mean for a man I like to be always faithful and attracted to me, however this is impossible because women age and men are biologically wired to want variety. As for men, my observation is that they are always on the lookout for the next conquest, their own relationship status is largely irrelevant. Marriage is a socially acceptable status to have on the surface, but their ideal goal is of course to be with as many women as possible. Sorry but this is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:11 PM
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So let me get this right; it's not a catalyst for fucking? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:29 PM
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Victorians used to have picnics at cemeteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:45 PM
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They won't necessarily. They have enough going on in their own life to think about. Or if they know it it won't affect how they feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:13 PM
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You grow by listening to others and not just thinking you're right all the time. You have a flaw way of interpretation your experience of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:53 PM
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No they won't. They won't know that about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:51 PM
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This is dishonest, all people do view people with romantic and sexual experience way more positively than those with none. You're filling your head with nonsense. This isn't how people think at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:50 PM
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If you see abs only when tensed you've gotten there. Most images of abs are when the guy is tensed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 PM
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John does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:52 AM
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Most people, men or women, who live in countries where they earn enough to have luxury time and disposable income have some kind of hobby. It's not a debate, there's nothing to debate, this is just a fact of life. Unfortunately this isn't true. I have a good few hobbies and have looked around and found that not to be the case for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:47 AM
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and that last part is what will make him successful with women, not just in the short term but all the way through his life. To be honest there's a lot more skills required to get women then than. It's necessary but not sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:58 AM
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There's this notion that a man has an ulterior motive when he wants to do or join something. No. No there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:12 PM
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Not every relationship has to be forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:58 PM
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I don't think this that is the case but have you read the Myth of Gilgamesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:48 PM
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A lot of this stuff is just stuff you've decided to do, not things men in general do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:54 PM
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It simply isn't. Familiarity makes guys more attractive so long as you're framed as not a platonic friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:50 PM
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Something can have more than one purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:57 AM
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Regardless of it being different they do market themselves. Firstly via make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:53 AM
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Women don't have to market themselves so why should us men? Are we really selling things, btw? Should we really treat each other like products and consumers? Women definitely do. Especially with Instagram nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:43 AM
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Or maybe any type of neuro type can invent and autistic people aren't so special.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:15 PM
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Men aren't chasing women any longer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:47 AM
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Someone who wants to discuss intellectual topics like a framer or a garbage man? You're making my point. Surely you've heard of the distinction better practical know how and intellectual knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:16 PM
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All wealth tells you is that that person has a skill that they can use and market to make money. If you want to discuss intellectual topics you're better off finding a person who wants to discuss intellectual topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:20 AM
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Advice taking is like a ladder. Once past the first rungs they don't matter but until you're past them they do matter.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/24 10:43 PM
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Europeans mostly get with friends of friends or people they work with not strangers they've approached asking silly PUA questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:04 AM
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Usually only in the smoking area when friends of friends are gathered together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:45 PM
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It’s a fact women don’t go out as much as men If its a fact where's your stats? Women have more friends than men so are more likely to go out more than men. No, couples just over represent in those who leave the house. Never found this to be the case although it would be very age dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:18 PM
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Being attractive is about looks. Being the sort guys want to date is about offering more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:11 PM
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Filmed in my country!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:04 PM
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Because its often used to say things that while true paint women in a bad light without doing the same to men or mentioned virtues of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:51 AM
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This isn't true. As I've said before. Sure guys could live in a cheap house without furniture. Even if guys have no debts we still aim to be doing something interesting with our lives, be able to afford more than the cheapest food in the shop (a cake or pastry is nice when not on the grindset), reap more than our money is worth (investments), holiday, (because it can get freaking cold), put money into our pension (for obvious reasons), & fund hobbies. To add to that we want raises as it increase…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:21 PM
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It doesn't. Evolutionary traits take centuries to change. Look up evolutionary psychology researchers/human behavioural ecologists like Macken Murphy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:10 PM
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What's your point? That's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:03 PM
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If you're not doing it it's good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:57 PM
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Well if you dismiss it that easily of course its garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:40 PM
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If they're not doing it, doing it will help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:32 PM
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Utilising a term in a different field isn't stealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:44 AM
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I'm just going to point out that that book will turn you into a social weirdo as it says, "a person's name is the most beautiful sound they can hear, use it whenever you talk to them. Taking this advice will make you appear very odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:20 PM
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I've read a lot of comments on the red pill subreddit that pick up wasn't meant floor college campuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:12 PM
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This doesn't pertain really to this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:13 AM
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Forget about dating. Would you have sex with such a woman? I don't know why this topic of disparate age ranges comes up so often. It's a lot rarer than it's made out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:15 PM
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How can you assert that you could be friends with them if you previously asked how they'd get along?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:05 PM
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Sometimes people bond regardless of where they came from in life. You said people that don't have X & Y can't relate to people that have X & Y however you haven't actually justified this statement. People can bond over other things. You kinda ignore my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:47 PM
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how would a 30-year-old even get along with, for example, a 23-year-old? The way people normally do. They have good vibes. For example, I'm 27. I was abandoned at 17. I've been on my own for the past 10 years and put myself through college on my dime while taking care of myself and keeping a roof over my head. Talking to an average 21-year-old woman who still hasn't even lived alone outside of a college dorm would feel like talking to a literal child. Okay? Normal people don't talk about their t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:26 PM
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It isn't. I dance salsa & bachata. Doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:28 AM
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Well, that is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:44 AM
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And I don't think they actually do this stuff as often as they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:10 AM
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Your comments are just really silly and simply read like a female version of men who are like "when I'm 45 my value will be at its peak & I'll get all the women." The only correct thing you said is no.2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:04 AM
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Psychoanalysis applies here. Ernest Becker's Denial of Death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:53 AM
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Become religious (dating, marriage, etc. is intensely challenging with a secular or atheist worldview). As a Catholic, this is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:31 AM
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From an evolutionary perspective this thread looks like you trying to maintain your position in the sexual marketplace in the face of competition from stronger candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:52 PM
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No. That's daft. It would only affect what you say about women. Your self-image is a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:04 PM
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It's not your lack of experience. Its the weird ideas you've gathered due to a lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:54 PM
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No. They don't. They weep tears of torture from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:29 PM
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Because they don't want their partner putting his penis inside someone else. It's not complicated or even worthy of much discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:19 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sRrRxcAWuP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 07:42 PM
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That has very little to do with it. Read Max Weber, Durkheim, Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:39 PM
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Do you live in a poor area?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:41 AM
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Surely it isn't so bad in the U.S.?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:03 PM
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So he wasn't the art director for a major brand of vodka and liquor import company?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:54 PM
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They like women that dont sleep and that are interested in their money The Attack of The 100 feet tall Insomniac Gold Digger See it in cinemas now!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:06 PM
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They rationally analyse empirical studies that they have undertaken and learn new things. So they get a solid grounding in their knowledge not just speculation from idiots on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:10 AM
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Damn. You're really convincing. Guess the academics can pack up and go home. Job done. Darwin thought he was onto something. Guess it was a error of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:06 AM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:03 AM
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That's because they demonstrate other qualities that are evolutionary beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:01 AM
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No. Courting involves a chaperone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:44 PM
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I mean, that's a fair point, but if the girl is attracted to you, she's not going to worry about her safety. Case in point.. the Chads on the dating apps that can get a woman they've never met in person to just come over to their house and bang. If you're the 'Chad' seems none of this is a concern anyway. If you need advice it should be a consideration.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/24 08:18 PM
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It isn't low pressure on the women's side. There's the safety issue and not wanting to look red in the face from tiredness. It's a good third or fourth date. Do something banal & prosaic like drinks at a bar or go to a cafe. Leave the fun unique stuff for like the 3rd date. You might say, are drinks or a cafe boring. That's where you come in. You should be able to create interesting & simulating conversation. If you can't just talk to the person and need something else what's the point?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/24 08:15 PM
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Maybe try being a normal person instead of this submissive feisty dichotomy. Here's a few basics most guys will want: Good looks Put effort in. Don't have him do everything Smile Don't nag Be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:31 PM
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Also women are more concerned about their safety and not want to go to a remote area with someone they may not know well. Outside of a first, second date it's a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/24 09:05 AM
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if you go hiking on Thursday invite her out to go with you; You're giving advice and you advise this!? That's not good advice for a first date. I hope your story is metaphorical as your characters speak like weirdos.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/24 09:56 PM
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He's Spanish. I'm thinking of moving there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:16 AM
1

Looks fade. What's inside lasts forever. Guys shouldn't be treating supermodels/actresses as special.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:13 AM
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It's called escalating not going from step 1 to 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:11 AM
0

Well done. Its good you've realized this. People dating want a sexual/romantic experience not a friendship/non-sexual experience. A revelation come down from on high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:40 AM
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https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/postmodernism/ https://iep.utm.edu/lyotard/#:~:text=Lyotard%20famously%20defines%20the%20postmodern,legitimise%20knowledges%20and%20cultural%20practises
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:59 PM
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No. You don't know what postmodernism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:25 PM
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A playboy bunny!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:56 AM
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I think a lot of men have had the experience of truly being dedicated to something, to a mission or a drive or passion and inexplicably during that time in their life is when they attracted the most women. The tendency is not to be around many women during such a period.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/24 05:21 AM
3

Why don't you read into evolutionary psychology and do a more in depth analysis instead of thinking you've solved everything off one book?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:45 AM
6

American clubs are not like the ones in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:02 AM
1

You put time into writing such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:37 AM
1

Women favour stubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:16 AM
1

Our brains have evolutionary tendencies and that applies also to sexuality but we are not slaves to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:13 AM
7

That doesn't happen based on those jobs titles alone. Add a bit of mystery when describing what you do. Then clarify when they're intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:00 PM
4

What is it that you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:31 PM
18

Well that would be a bad response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:18 PM
2

They don't or tone of voice & words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:25 AM
3

Because people light up and appear enthusiastic when discussing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:12 PM
6

There's definitely women out there into art.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:53 AM
1

It is absolutely true in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:08 PM
2

Could be but the first one is more likely usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:04 AM
1

I mention that figure a lot myself but there's differences between three things, the hippies, the counterculture, & people who take small bits of what the hippies did & adopt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:50 AM
1

If you're bad at getting dates you lack the skills necessary to succeed anywhere at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:38 AM
1

Increased population, greater centralisation of state power, professionalisation of military.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:08 PM
1

It isn't. Courting refers to having a chaperone on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:54 PM
0

It means a chaperone accompanies you & your date on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:29 PM
3

Armies were significantly smaller prior to the 19th C.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:48 AM
0

I assume you mean Colombiana.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:07 PM
1

Why don't you ask the ask economics subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:23 PM
6

No, no. It's clearly that he needs a few wrinkles. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:18 PM
2

"Forever am I a stranger to myself" Albert Camus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:11 AM
1

What about countries where tipping is uncommon (except where the service has been exceptional)?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:59 PM
1

You just said you're American.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:35 PM
1

Europe is a vast number of countries. A blanket statement like that isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:26 PM
1

You're American I'm guessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:09 AM
1

Everyone should be able to sew even to sew on just a button. It's called self-sufficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:55 PM
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No. They are the same. You're just thinking of the older version.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:00 AM
12

Game is pickup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:49 PM
12

We have recently passed a threshold where the majority of women are childless at age 30. Evidence? Proof? Stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:56 PM
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I don't think that's true. Black guys are seen as more attractive by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:06 PM
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There have been studies and they're more dangerous to themselves than anyone. https://www.psypost.org/2023/09/new-study-delves-into-the-mating-psychology-of-involuntarily-celibate-men-185766
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:52 AM
1

What is with this sphere talking so much about single moms? They are not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:46 AM
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I'm going to keep it nice & simple. People are going to be online more. There will be less sex & less friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:49 AM
9

The point is that 'game' is just people vibing well enough to get to that point & you wouldn't like it the other way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:44 PM
12

If you just walked up to a woman, pulled down her pants and penetrated her without any build up it would be a bit awkward & weird, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:29 PM
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Don't be so rude. You simply don't have an argument and can't admit you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:40 PM
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What age are you? For so.e reason this is less & less the case. I see instrumental rationality being applied to relationships more & more. In the past, people would just doing things. Now I see questions online of people asking, "what's the point of a teenage relationship?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:32 PM
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You didn't give any info. You haven't even proven anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:28 PM
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If you're not going to prove your claims and just go, "you've been hoodwinked!" There is no point continuing. No, being apocalyptic isn't racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:17 PM
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You can be concerned about population changes without it having anything to do with great replacement theory. Cop on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:12 PM
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That's a really dumb take. Imagine adopting that attitude to our professional lives Career advice is toxic because the genuine only advice is be yourself and let things fall into place, anything else is manipulation!?!
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 06:59 AM
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The meaning changes so much in this sphere its meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:50 PM
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If their mamas are in India and you're not, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:19 PM
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Indians love white women. Why would you be laughed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:17 PM
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Go on Indian arranged marriage sites. You'd have to marry an Indian though & provide a dowry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:19 PM
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This line of thought isn't productive as society in the past wasn't set up for women to contribute in those ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:14 PM
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No one should abandon anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:04 PM
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It's not just to do with women. What I mentioned you'll get a lot out of physically, mentally, creatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:11 PM
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Grand but what about doing sports? Or something artistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:02 AM
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Why can't you take up hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:57 AM
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You only believe that because it benefits you. It simply isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:14 AM
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You being convinced of that does not make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:38 AM
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That's what's called fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:31 PM
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You'd be surprised how many people out there lack a lot of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:54 PM
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Whats your point? Of course you can't control that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:48 PM
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Men do have high standards, for relationships. Men also reject the idea that what you consider a high standard should be taken into account when creating a standard (height, money). Love is not about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:24 PM
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It's similar to this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/W53tnOPQ0J
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:25 PM
1

Have you written this before?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:17 PM
9

Do you want boring friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:21 PM
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Not everything is gaslighting. Different woman feel differently. Stop reading all this sexual stuff as you're not getting it anyway. Go study. Listen to Eminem's motivational music and crush those exams.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:53 PM
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Its made it different. If you're struggling now it wouldn't have been different in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:57 AM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:24 PM
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“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Jesus 33 AD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:04 PM
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Red pill says you need all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:55 AM
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That's not true at all! You match & they don't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:31 PM
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You might think, normal guys don’t read the redpill subreddit. But it's more pervasive than you think. They just won't talk publicly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:00 PM
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Asserting something doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:34 PM
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Yes. Women will approach men if you go to Nordic countries. The problem is there's no cold approaching there and it is extremely difficult to make friends there so you'll need a social circle there for the women to approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:16 PM
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When are you "free" frome external things? When you start to live authentically. How you do that is different depending on the philosopher and cannot be done all the time. You lapse into everdayness. Its also what led to the different types of existentialism. Kierkegaard's existentialism (freedom from the media & society) Heidegger's existentialism (society/technology/modernity is making us less authentic), Sartre's existentialism (society/religion), De Beauvoir's existentialism (the gender role…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:47 AM
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I didn't say that you do or don't have free will with responsibility. They don't really discuss free will. They discuss freedom. Frankl's unconscious is very different from Freud's as it deals with meaning rather than sex. To go back to the quote, between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” All that is saying is that as human beings we can choose stuff. By making a choice that is ours we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:47 AM
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If you're in prison or always conforming to societies expectations you're lacking in freedom. If you have no control over your choices and everything you do was predetermined you have no free will. For existentialist like Sartre, Heidegger, & Frankl, freedom comes from responsibility and moving towards authenticity. This comes often from, experiencing death. Free will is not an issue for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:22 AM
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Free will wasn't mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:04 AM
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Because without giving up you'll indulge in time wasting activities (read advice on dating, go on online dating apps) because of the miniscule level of hope you still have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:02 AM
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Actually I'd say that may of the tenets apply to the third world, Eastern Europe & America more than Western Europe as in a patriarchal culture hypergamy is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:59 PM
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Stop with the black pill nonsense. It won't do you any good. Will good looking guys have it easier? Yes. Will it be impossible for everyone else if they have good photos & game? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:35 PM
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https://www.quora.com/What-benefits-do-Native-Americans-receive-for-being-Native-American/answers/19199387
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:36 AM
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Men do participate in the social sphere. That's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:36 AM
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Yes, supermarkets are full of tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:33 PM
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Not all dating is online, even now. I read an article that stated the best OF men with a straight woman following had a lot of humorous content so I'd say that would even help online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:09 AM
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wedding/family reunion Those are weird to me as it's usually family there. I suppose it's different at the age where everyone is marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:04 PM
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You can be average looks & high in personality & it will matter a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:34 PM
3

You already posted this. For the second time you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:20 AM
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This simply isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:30 AM
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It's just that they're working.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:22 AM
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Just ignore all that. What matters is good communication & similar lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:27 PM
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I don't know what you're quoting but look at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:41 AM
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You're focusing on totally the wrong things. Use your money for good skin, the gym, a haircut, & style (style doesn't have to be the most expensive thing). Spend money on cool hobbies that you enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:07 AM
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Rihanna isn't masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:59 AM
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Provision in this case refers to material provisioning. Sex is an act done together, not something given from one to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:22 PM
5

It's what the frontal lobe does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:24 AM
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Should I keep learning more about masculine vs feminine energies No. Just get on with life and forget all about this gender energy crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:26 PM
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What part of it? I'm definitely seeing more women becoming promiscuous than the last decade. Statistically people are having less sex than the last decade. More men are convinced to take part in sexual acts and kinks that are the definition of emasculating and degenerate. You haven't said what acts you're referring to so I can't address this.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 07:00 PM
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This isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:32 PM
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More men are becoming more feminine and submissive, more women are becoming less feminine and more promiscuous, relationships are crumbling, sexuality has gone to shit (We've basically convinced men to take feminine sexual roles) I don't think this is true. men are getting less and less degrees and jobs, they're disadvantaged in many aspects of life and are not given the same privileges "minorities" get. Men's mental health has been on the decline since forever and we're also seeing a steady dec…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 05:16 PM
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Are you so virtuous yourself?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 05:08 PM
2

One of the most upvoted posts from a woman agrees with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:05 PM
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Financial stuff is often considered a baseline. You should be saying what makes you rise above the baseline. When people are in a relationship they want the super good stuff not the defense against the bad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:15 PM
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Nobody likes that question. It changes the vibes from flirty/romantic to transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:32 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/roMWZYTDT8
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:25 AM
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C'mon now. You know you need to show causation not correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:20 AM
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That doesn't contradict anything really as that's not about birth rates. That's about who dates who. When secular economics are developed people, coupled or not, focus on other things then children. Especially the professional class as there's so many hoops to get through to get places professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:34 AM
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Do you want to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:13 AM
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Dropping birth rates are multifactorial and have more to do with secularism & a developed economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:10 AM
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We're discussing Italy. In their case its economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:54 AM
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This is a lot more an economic problem. Italy does not have a good economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:25 AM
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Obviously but sometimes it's too difficult to do for that person as they can't figure out what's wrong with them. To fix it would take five life times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:02 AM
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And some people just aren't able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:51 AM
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Are you trying to say that people don't naturally expect that they will have the normal life trajectory I've outlined?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:48 AM
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Some things some people just can't get. We go through life thinking that everyone will follow the normal life trajectory of school, job, girlfriend, marriage, kids; but life is a bell curve and someone has to end up on the wrong side of the bell curve. People have this weird idea that dating/one's sex life is different from anything else in life, that everyone will have a happy ending every after. But that just isn't reality. Every generation will have people on a dating bell curve. Someones goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:36 AM
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Get further in my career. Learn Spanish Travel Learn first aid Improve at bachata & salsa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:26 AM
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The person I addressed. Well it's not the way it is in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:22 AM
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This must be some weird subculture in America because where I am our friendships are a lot more chill than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:20 AM
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Men finding it difficult to date is different than whatever the initial questioner is on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:58 PM
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You really do have to explain it because most people don't interpret it the way you do. You can do it in a cringey manner. You can also do it differently and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:34 PM
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No. This hasn't happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:40 PM
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I amn't against the hair transplant. What's innate? Game? Would you go on Alex PWF's youtube dating to practice it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:06 AM
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Don't go getting surgery unless you're extremely disfigured which you are probably not. Focus on game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:58 PM
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There isn't anything to explain because people just assume that it will happen so they don't question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:04 PM
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Nagging & undermining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:20 AM
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Considering that a lot of incels have black pill beliefs you probably don't. Watch this: https://youtu.be/8d7pvJsZexg?si=yrh0tEyOnmtK89eZ You probably haven't done enough in the right areas. You need to know game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:38 PM
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Why are you so sure of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:30 PM
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What type of social gatherings are you referring to? That might make the difference. I've gone to dance classes, Martial arts classes and it isn't true there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:38 PM
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It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:32 PM
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If average men went to social gatherings and tried to chat with others, they would be assumed creepy and just be treated like shit. They would be just isolated in a “polite” way at best. Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:32 AM
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I doubt they had that much free stuff. Hobbies have always cost money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:08 AM
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No ones shaming you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:01 AM
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It depends on their age. As the woman matures her gaze moves from the more boy-ish look in the male to a look with more masculine, rough features.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:43 AM
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We should rather date a ugly men and eat, then date a sexy man and starve Or make your own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:37 AM
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No. It is vague and I've already specified why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:09 AM
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The whole 'mildly' successful thing is very vague. Could actually mean quite successfully. Or could be like like me, just looking for someone that can support themselves with little to no debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:27 PM
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Yes he did ask her to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:42 PM
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What was said, if you won't have sex, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:40 PM
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I do feel that there's a more caring way to go about it than "give me sex or get out." We humans have social decorum for all sorts of situations. Why not this? A hug goodbye even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:04 PM
1

That's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:54 PM
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No. Unattractive is definitely not a synonym of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:47 PM
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No. I asked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:42 PM
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Used the word ugly did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:26 PM
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You're probably better looking than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:56 AM
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I had no idea how to get a girlfriend, how to make money, how to command respect or be assertive. I didn't really know how to dress and so on. Do you think this is a father's job? If you do think that why do you think that? Who or what gave you that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:24 AM
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It's honestly a lot harder to try nowadays with more of things online. Like where would guys even meet girls if their social life is gone? More & more guys have very few friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:18 AM
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The Pareto ratio is like the golden ratio. It shows up everywhere e.g. crop yields. It would not be surprising if it were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:58 AM
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Why do you think having positive role models will make you successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:52 AM
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Obviously. However, my point is that the conditions that lead someone to the redpill (lack of proximity to women, not knowing what to say etc) is likely to lead them to seek answers through praxis but from further study of the subreddit. That's the problem with all self-help. It can lead people to focus on the mets and think about self-improvement in the abstract divorced of concrete application.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:51 AM
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Married men often being betabuxx know full well the value of holding frame as its lack shows daily within their life. Have you never heard of the common phrase, a nagging wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:46 AM
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One of the biggest problems with the redpill is that how to do stuff like hold frame, amused mastery, playful teasing is so situational it's near impossible to learn so you just end up reading reading more & more in the hope of learning theoretically what can only be learned practically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:43 AM
2

They visit it more often but it's the opposite. The visits aren't unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:17 PM
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You haven't said why the divorces happen and your other point is anecdotes. You haven't provided proof that emasculation happens if the man isn't the leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:28 PM
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This is how people act in Nordic countries. Men only ask out in established social groups. It has led to women asking out men and men not having to pay the bill on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:27 PM
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Do you have any evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:05 PM
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The things you've mentioned have nothing to do with being a man or woman. Nobody else of any gender this it's a good idea to have to pull out your own teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:28 PM
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It can take you from a maybe to a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:15 AM
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That's not a sensible reply. Her being like in the Nelly Furtado song does not mean she'll be that way with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:14 AM
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Just throwing out more comparisons does not make your argument stronger. Relationships are not similar to any of those things. You have provided no evidence that people do not do dual-leadership relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:35 AM
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That's a bizarre inference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:29 PM
2

There's no point asking. It's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:24 PM
0

Of course it's a good idea to do a hobby for its own sake. If you already do hobbies the advice isn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:37 PM
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How do you mean? I just think if women want a relationship, want more than sex; they need what I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:33 PM
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Have hobbies & interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:52 PM
2

What is a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:16 PM
4

You can't start calling women women otherwise you invalidate birthing people/persons. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:45 AM
1

Who said they are complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:14 PM
1

Lack of one or more of: proximity to women, social ability, ability to flirt & escalate, style, money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:33 AM
2

Stop presuming things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:04 AM
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I explain something to you. You disregard it when you don't even know me. Why did I even bother replying to you. Do you see how ridiculous your response is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:23 AM
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Nietzsche tells the ancient story of King Midas hunting in the forest for the wise Silenus, the companion of Dionysus. At last, after many years, the King manages to capture him and asks what is the best and most desirable thing for man. Silenus maintains a surly silence until, goaded by the King, he bursts out with a contemptuous laugh and says, “Oh, wretched ephemeral race … why do you compel me to tell you what it would be most expedient for you not to hear? What is best of all is utterly bey…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:02 AM
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Because the fact is that some of us can't get any women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:58 AM
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We are much more likely to listen to someone like is who gave up on dating and found happiness elsewhere and even that's pretty unlikely Hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:13 AM
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It's called an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:09 AM
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himself. I dont know why men on here can't grasp that a young woman is bombarded with men hitting on them It's not that they can't grasp that. It's it's that they don’t want to appear creepy, sex obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:33 PM
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If you can manage this you will solve a lot of problems. Moving too fast or too slow isn't as big as s problem as not moving at all. You need to make your intentions clear. I want our relationship to be sexual not platonic. That is what you need to convey. How? Start off with flirting & hand holding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:09 PM
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That is incredibly unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:55 PM
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Sometimes the solution isn't ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:33 PM
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I was slow in graduating college, and slow in getting started in my professional career. A good husband is a good provider and thus I had no business dating anyone until I knew I could provide for them. But for most folks that happens before their mid-twenties. For me, I wasn't really there until nearly 30, and getting fired from a job for underpreformance set me back at a critical junction then. No. This is how you get no experience and go on to totally fuck up your relationships. You can date …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:40 AM
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Because it took me too long to get to the starting line. All the good marriageable women are taken now. Could you expand on this? It could simply be all your fault. I get the impression your lack of relationships may have impacted you communicate skills. Why do you figure that? Because you're building marriage up to be something different than it is and I think you may be developing the wrong skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:24 AM
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Why do you think that might be? You're probably going to be very disappointed by marriage when it comes it and actually not all that suitable for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:03 AM
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Have you dated anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:36 AM
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What's she done that's racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:00 AM
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www.thesun.ie/fabulous/11169132/im-tinders-most-swiped-right-man-margot-robbie/amp/ From Tinder though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:52 PM
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In those countries dinner dates are less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:07 PM
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Drinks or go to a cafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:33 PM
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Everyone is unique. I'd do what appeals to their tastes once its not dinner unless it's just dessert. Also outside of America, & maybe parts of Eastern Europe/Arabia, people don't do dinner for first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:25 PM
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Loads of countries have changed this expectation regarding paying for dates. It's not as immutable as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:20 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:32 AM
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I'm saying that American has certain things more in common with developing countries than Europe and these may point to it being regressive. These attributes may be regressive but require further investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:12 PM
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To be clear, I'm not really saying that it is regressive but pointing out that it has that as an attribute in common with developed countries and that may have certain implications. You asked about regressive attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:02 PM
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It seems that Americans marry earlier than Europeans, often in their early twenties. Megachurches with preachers are common in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:54 PM
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Loads of men in Europe. Men in Europe marry much later than in America. America has some really regressive attributes for a developed country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:34 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/12/health/metabolism-weight-aging.html
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:33 PM
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You don't know what postmodernism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:45 PM
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Alex PWF states that he doesn't believe in the redpill & is just a PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:49 PM
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America.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:55 PM
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No, the term came from the PUA community where it typically referred to approaching complete strangers on the street, not in warm to lukewarm situations. Also, if you refer to chatting up in a pub or club as cold approaching you're going to confuse people & derail the conversation as that's not how it's commonly taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:42 PM
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No, it's more lukewarm approaching cos' at a bar or club it's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:17 PM
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So you think what, they'll care for their relatives, parents, siblings, friends, colleagues but not their spouse? That's a ridiculous idea. Also if work makes people less caring then women should be concerned about that when it comes to a relationship with a man also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:15 PM
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Some say at the start the man does more. Later on the women does more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:56 PM
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I think it's more like I'll take care of you in the way I decide once you provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:52 PM
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Men are not what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:29 PM
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So you agree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:26 PM
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I think women do have a very difficult time putting anyone else's wants and needs before their own, It's the opposite. Women are socialized to take care of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:11 PM
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What do you mean by broke? When woman online use the word it seems to refer to having a low income when elsewhere it means being unable to pay your bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:04 AM
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You want your partner to be different from you in some ways too. If we are both struggling financially, why would I seek another partner who is also struggling financially. If I’m successful, why would I seek a partner that’s struggling or can’t do their own thing? Especially with the way motherhood and relationships can take women from the workforce. Why are you now discussing struggling financially? You can have a low income but still live within your means. But saying that you’re dating down …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:25 PM
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Some attribute or other. Money, status or looks. Surely you've heard of the concept before being here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:05 PM
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It seems like you don’t consider yourself worthy of love or affection from someone that you actually like. I don't think in terms of stupid ideas like 'not worthy of love.' Do you know what hypergamy is, if women want someone better than them then that entails that if a woman wants you you're better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:55 PM
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No, it's basic hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:30 PM
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Some guys also talk about how guys don’t care about status, and would be happy with a pretty McDonald’s cashier. This is partially true- most guys would be happy to sleep with her. But when these same guys are deciding who to bring back to their family, they’re probably going to pick a girl from a more “respectable” background. This is because, a long-term partner should be someone with interests that they're working on; that could be a career or a hobby someone does intensely. It's just the cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:29 PM
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You really need to have good photos & be good at copywriting to get such success on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:11 PM
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The feminine energy is receiving, the masculine energy is giving Where did you come with this nonsense? So based on this when a woman gives a blowjob she's masculine. So apparently the most masculine are those who give the most to charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:34 PM
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There are passport bros moving to Germany. Seems the U.S.A. is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:07 AM
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There's a conception of responsibility, where, let's call it total responsibility, in any circumstance where you are only partially responsible you assume total responsibility because you learn & growmore that way. So, in this example what do you need to change to attract a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:00 AM
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There's a higher number of good looking women than there are good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:12 AM
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It's an issue for both but do you accept that it's worse for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:02 AM
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What do you even mean by entitled? It seems that's just used to put in a negative light men's natural desires for a partner/sex especially in situations where it's near impossible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:50 PM
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I worked a job with women. They were all friends. I wasn't. It's been irrelevant to my dating/sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:41 AM
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That's quite a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:11 AM
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The problem is that for the vast majority of men it isn't an issue. And women go on about it as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:37 AM
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Because there's a greater tendency for one gender to act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:25 AM
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Because its about conforming to a certain gender expression not testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:24 AM
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It's not just that. Men being less likely to go to the doctor regardless of It's detrimental effect on health. Male dominated work places are more likely to push people there to burn out. It's a phase that went from MRA adjacent to academia to the feminists. It would have been better staying in academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:23 AM
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There needs to be a balance & every women is unique so depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:27 PM
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I didn't say that. You do know that this phrase we're discussing is in regards to dating/sex and improving one's life in that area?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:32 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:36 PM
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Thinking of women as people/human beings is a terrible idea, or at least not sufficient because you treat your postman as a person but if you treat a woman like your postman you'll get nowhere with her. You need to act sexual to get results; flirt & escalate. That's not to say that you shouldn't see people as whole human beings & people but that it isn't good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:34 PM
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Might be a small bit different in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:29 PM
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Can't say it's worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:40 PM
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Irish people call all Americans yanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:36 PM
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On the internet nobody knows you're a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:36 PM
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If being single makes you suicidal you need psychological help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:08 PM
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It's not the they've conditioned their dick and their brain to be turned on by pixels on a screen. It's that they're overexposed to sexual stimuli and use different means of stimulation than if a woman did it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:15 PM
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Yes, it could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:00 PM
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Or you could find it difficult to make conversation in certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:01 PM
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Internal problems would be "I have low self esteem." External would be "I need more friends/a better job."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:58 PM
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What's easier probably depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:17 AM
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Red pill starts from the premise that women are hypergamous. That is to say that they are attracted to someone better than them; often monetarily & status-wise. Thus to get with women you need money, game, muscle, & looks. There's a shit load more but that's the main area of discussion around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:47 AM
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Parents shaping ideas on relationships can be a thing without necessarily being Freudian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:24 AM
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Continually go to metal gigs and get involved in the metal scene in my city. This can be done by going to these events, talking to people at those events, and finding out how I could potentially help organise, add to the community or at the least meet a group of people who regularly attend these things. This can be done by, well, finding a regular metal night at a bar or a club and showing up consistently. I keep doing that, I’ll eventually become a known face there, people I talk to at one even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:58 AM
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You are exactly the person I'm talking about. In the past 7 years you could have been out there trying, but you didn't. Because effort, self improvement and repetition is hard. It's easy to give up, because giving up frees you from the obligation of your own goals and desires. It's comforting. Giving up is easy. Trying is hard. You could spend the next 7 years of your life trying, getting back into socialisation, taking stock of your fitness, life and resources and making plans to improve them, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:08 AM
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I told you what I've been doing. I also went on a hike recently with a hiking group. I'd join St John's or the Red Cross, & doing language exchange meetups if my schedule wasn't so chaotic. A big problem us that I've lost the ability to make conversation in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:51 AM
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How is it even possible for a man to make more than 90k a year, projected to make more in the future, who has a good career and great potential to still struggle with dating. We know that women like success, they don't necessarily only like you for your money but they like the man behind all that money because you have to be THE man to be able to make that kind of money (so it's not golddigging perse). We know looks matter and everything but success, ambition, wealth and stability matters most, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:18 AM
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For a lot of men whatever their lacking area is it would be so difficult to fix they should just give up. Take me for example, I haven't had much social contact since 2016. I have done various hobbies martial arts & Latin dance since leaving college and only the dancing had women and there wasn't much opportunity to talk & socialize, just dance. Even in college I knew few on my course & had no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:17 AM
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These conditions involve a set of attributes some that disadvantage the individual others that don't. They remove some of the disadvantageous attributes without removing the more neutral or positive attributes. They cannot remove these conditions but just deal with any negative affects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:32 PM
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Just look into it first. It's proper psychology. Some people find certain conditions affect their life in negative ways and these help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:28 PM
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Please look into the Feurstein method & Johansen sound therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:24 PM
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Be more specific. One can only work on their own life unless they're in government.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:44 AM
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By then the objective will have been fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:39 AM
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Really productive response!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:24 AM
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I said solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:36 AM
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What else would I be talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:33 AM
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I've been on this sub too long and haven't come across this https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0uTrcaMCMO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:27 AM
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Give me evidence that this is said about virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:15 AM
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TF are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:13 AM
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People can redirect their focus. I don't think that's still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:12 AM
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It's a new era. Strippers for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:01 PM
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That's just what you tell yourself. Fix your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:55 PM
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There are solutions but they often take ~5 years and you many not get many opportunities with the other sex. But the guys here are too blackpill to implement them. For some reason this place has been replaced with blackpillers instead of red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:47 PM
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But the strongest shame comes from the way you feel about yourself. Does it? Just stop feeling that. As I said, get busy with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:02 PM
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Stop saying dumb stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:59 PM
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Just get busy with life & you won't be able to feel bad about it. Where do you live that that's a normal question for people to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:51 PM
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This is nonsense. Nobody knows if you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:44 PM
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Don't think that was ever the old school method.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:47 PM
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Warm to luke warm environments. Bars, night clubs, hobby classes, evening classes, friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:39 PM
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You shouldn't need anybody. It is better to marry for love & not need. For everyone security means being secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:38 PM
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Cop on with this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:35 PM
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Doing something other than online dating ≠ only cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:23 PM
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What country are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:25 PM
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Should have told him you're a vampire 🧛‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:04 PM
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They can reach a certain level although the deficiency will hold them back keeping them from going beyond a certain point however they can reach a reasonable level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:39 PM
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No. I'm not arrogant at all. There's a difference between being great at something and getting the very basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:37 PM
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These are such dumb takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:17 PM
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I have never said anything of the sort. I'm actually the least arrogant person you'll find. I'm not arrogant at all! I agree, stop digging if it's getting nowhere but some people can get good but just don't put enough effort in. It's rare to start off good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:11 AM
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No. It's not an arrogant assumption. People may not be able to learn enough for quantum & special relativity but put enough effort in and you can learn the basics. How long did you do it for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:48 AM
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I'd say it doesn't work but for a different reason. The first problem is you actually have to be able to dance, women aren't interested in the guy with two left feet. You go to classes & get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:39 AM
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A lot of women are anxious and have trouble making friends, and therefore rely on their partner to be a leader in this regard and bring them around. That's not true at all. It's the opposite. Men lose friends in relationships and end up hanging out with their spouses social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:43 AM
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The same sky under which you experienced joy; many have experienced pain. You can see any perspective on life but it's indifference will remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:07 AM
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Anyone can join a dance class and there's single women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:23 PM
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It's your prerogative to do the best you can with what you can. You, as a human being have the freedom to actualize your potential. You can't do anything about the facts of your life, but you can put your best foot forward as you move into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:20 PM
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That's only true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:12 PM
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Well that like a lot of things all depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:13 PM
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Just because such people are highly represented here dies not mean that normal people have not taken redpill advice & ran with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:33 AM
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The comments are a mess. They are talking across each other. There's a difference between having a partner you can have fun with & someone who entertains you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:49 PM
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Very few people play sports when they grow up and get real jobs. Nonsense. Loads of people do sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:09 AM
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Many athletic activities that men do don't involve women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:08 AM
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Just because such people are highly represented here dies not mean that normal people have not taken redpill advice & ran with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:06 AM
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Talking about gender energy is so cringey, stupid, & regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:23 AM
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What percentage of women do you think are ugly? Don't include the elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:07 AM
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They don't think that there will be any overthrowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:46 PM
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https://youtu.be/PaXFsHMvTWk?si=7vNxR8oWVXr-gN_c
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:02 PM
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Sometimes you have to move to do your hobby. There is loads of hiking in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:57 AM
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The ruling class don't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:28 AM
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C'mon now. Bit OTT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:31 AM
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Not everyone here is American.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:18 AM
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Monetisation does not negate somewhere being a third space. It does, however, make them less accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:07 AM
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As true as it is it's also exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:44 AM
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Hobby clubs is mostly people turning up with existing friends. No, they're for people doing that hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:39 AM
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I don't know why you think I blocked you. I didn't. And regardless the American way isn't the way here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:27 AM
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So I'd the question similar, how does dating work in Ireland? So I found the following: https://www.reddit.com/r/ireland/s/LqJo8LzzFF (link is within the link) I wonder if you met these people online? They don't know they're own country's etiquette & go with what they find online, the American way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:03 AM
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It doesn't. Ireland's dating custom is to go for drinks and for each person to pay for a round. I suspect that what's going on here is that she's going out with people with not much of a social life who don't know their own country's etiquette and they look up what to do online & end up following the American way. No, it isn't just me. One story doesn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:48 AM
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Suburbs in my country ≠ suburbs in your country. I live 30 mins from the City by bike. You are more like to find a dog park in an urban area because unless you go to the biggest park in the city which is the biggest in Europe there are not many people near as not many live in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:37 AM
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Irish dating is nothing like American dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:33 AM
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I live in the suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:17 AM
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What do mean self-control? If men don't go for women they won't get women. They are control in going after what they want. The problem is that more men want women than women want men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:13 AM
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Whilst women do do a lot to look good to get big muscles requires far more effort. Also many guys now feel they must take drugs to get the look required.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:07 AM
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It may not. If someone is happy and doesn't mention it you won't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:53 AM
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Do average dudes really require veneers? The only person I know with them lost their teeth in an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:51 AM
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Move out of America. Stop driving everywhere. I've ~15% body fat. It is not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:49 AM
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Appearance-wise definitely but otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:45 AM
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You have no idea the planning it takes to make woman think 'it just happens.'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:44 AM
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As a women you don't even have to think about it. Privilege is unnoticed by those who have it. You are being myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:42 AM
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As a women you don't even have to think about it. Privilege is unnoticed by those who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:42 AM
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Pretending that everyday they wear a tuxedo. I hope you don't do that. Presenting yourself well isn't deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:50 PM
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Why do you think flirting involves deception?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:34 PM
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Flirting, knowing how & when to escalate is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:17 PM
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Furthermore he 'bought.'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:10 PM
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This shouldn't even be a discussion. Nobody wants to be on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:00 PM
4

What hobbies or volunteering have you actually done?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:57 PM
4

It is not unrealistic to get into a good job and succeed in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:56 PM
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Where do I even find a woman? "Go to church, go to the gym, a bar, join clubs, take classes... touch grass!" Okay, I've done all those things and there are no women there. This says more about your location than women. "Get a better personality! Self improve! Love yourself first!" Let's just type out random generic advice I haven't seen a woman under 40 off campus since graduating 6 years ago. Everyone I see in public is old, male, or both, or on extremely rare occasion I'll see a young couple w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:26 PM
1

Move to Western Europe where women are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:25 PM
1

You're in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:06 AM
9

I had a dog. In all the dog's years I never came across a sexy woman walking her dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 07:47 AM
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No. It says I can give you stuff and we can have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:47 AM
0

At what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:32 AM
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You need to fix your attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:33 AM
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Right, which increases autism etc. But women go through menopause and most men aren't going to be marrying women a decade younger than them. Some women don't want kids. Most women would go for someone 6 years younger than them. I feel like you're not really getting the point. The only women who would be interested in a guy who is short and feminine looking are women who are drastically settling. Then become more attractive in other ways. Become more masculine. You can't really change your height…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:00 AM
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You can. No, no you can't. You don't have kids with someone the week you meet them, dude. You can. Mens sperm degrades but there's no male menopause. Because there's no passion or attraction. You're being settled for, simple as. Nobody ever had a whirlwind romance where they finally found the love of their life in middle age. I don't know why you think at 33 women won't be attracted to you if you look attractive. There's going to be no new shared experiences because they're just jaded at that po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:12 PM
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You can't have kids You can. they won't really be attracted to you, Why wouldn't they be? If you're unattractive fix it as much as you can. there's no more energy or fun, there won't be any new shared experiences, they've seen it all and done before with someone else and done it better etc. None of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:38 PM
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To not find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:37 PM
1

33 is too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:34 PM
1

What age are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:25 PM
4

It's this social media thing where she wants you to give to her but not for it to be reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:01 PM
0

You can split and terminate. It doesn't stop you doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:26 AM
3

That book is not good. It advises you to use a person's name every time you talk to them which will make you come across as a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:02 AM
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Going out does absolutely nothing for you if you've no friends & lost any idea of how to converse with people. The idea that porn is preventing people from having sex is just wrong. No one gets invited to go to where their friends & women are and stays at home to watch porn or is talking with a woman and then goes, fuck this I'm going to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:26 AM
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The 3nd sentence isn't true. Because as I've said before: "No. Because it's not choose between option A (getting sex) or option B (porn). There just is no option A for many guys." If a guy stops watching porn social skills don't magically develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:20 AM
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What solution would you give to men who lacks healthy masculinity that women desire the most? Ignore women's opinion on the matter; especially people who talk about dumb stuff like gender energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:16 PM
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People don't become lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:13 PM
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Why are you bringing money into this? Don't say dumb stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:20 PM
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Stop succumbing to loserdom. At least you can have a better life in the future in different ways even if its without women or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:17 AM
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You think I am letting a man live off of me for free and not contribute financially to his children? 🤣🤣🤣 Nobody said that. What you're saying isn't making much sense. Child support isn't the financial providence of parents. It's a ordered legal or mediated outcome of a divorce or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:04 AM
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The point is, people pay child support if the couple are not together. That isn't your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:53 AM
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It's odd alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:39 AM
1

Askredpill is the advice subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:25 AM
1

Many people believing something does not make it true nor does tradition (which I'm not sure is true either) make something true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:34 AM
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Why would you want to show emotion? What do you even mean? Are middle class men even discouraged from showing emotion in this modern era? Just get on with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:18 PM
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What is bad about learning how someone is that it should say something bad about you for knowing that? Nobody said it is bad to know someone. Look if you want to believe in this gender polarity thing I can't stop you but it's not scientific, there's not evidence for it, & it's regressive. + Your last paragraph is silly, X exists therefore Y exists. Why does X entail Y? Men learn about womens likes and interest firsts to attract them even more and showcase those likes/qualities if they have them …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:57 PM
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I think believing in this feminine/masculine energy thing you're filling your head with nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:50 PM
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This isn't relevant to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:41 PM
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The point is that some women have higher expectations on heterosexual dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:43 PM
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I don't think you know many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:16 PM
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How do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:37 PM
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As a female, I don’t need to feel how love feels for a man. It’s masculine. Likewise, men don’t need to feel what love feels like for a woman. It’s feminine. If people learn new ways to love I can only see good things. If these opposites of masculine and feminine are meant to attract then they would become confused by intermingling. What do you mean? Men ‘learn’ the women they are dating. While there is a general consensus on a few things in relationships, every relationship is different. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:53 AM
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You're American? My pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:32 AM
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And you can't give a good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:55 PM
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No. It has always advocated going to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:38 PM
3

Well, it all depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:35 PM
5

Why on earth do you think therapy will help?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:35 PM
2

Why? You can do loads of other fun things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:33 PM
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That's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:07 PM
2

Nobody has mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:32 AM
3

That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:48 AM
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Why did you mention the word entitled? It's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:00 AM
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Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:21 PM
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In my country it would be difficult to find fat women & single mothers. It's calories reduction and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:17 PM
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No. I don't think that's being told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:19 AM
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Yes! Did you not know that? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:08 PM
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redpill denies that regular people live happy lives despite not being exceptional. Does it? Happiness dies not entail sexual happiness. There are other types. I think it started off saying that most are betas and now it's verging towards most being near inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:59 PM
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You'd agree that outliers don't negate the modal average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:55 PM
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They had someone on with a masters in psychometrics on FnF & a psychologist on the Whatever podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:18 AM
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Fix your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:13 AM
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No. It's just something you've to decide for yourself. There's a lot of relationships where the guy is losing out and there's nothing wrong with having better relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:21 PM
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In a long term relationship like marriage with joint bank accounts this isn’t an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:51 PM
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It's not an obssesion. It's simply that it seems that women are getting more benefit from something that shouldn't be one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:50 PM
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This post makes you very unattractive & unfeminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:43 PM
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I don't live in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:58 PM
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They are the opposite. TRP says "be accountable." Become someone women want to date. Currently you are not that person. We don't want what TRP says about women's desires ( hypergamy, looking to be led) to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:55 PM
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Where would I even meet women? Since 2017 I've had no social life and no friends. I've tried salsa & bachata but it didn’t work for me. Truth is, it isn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:51 PM
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If you find it do easy, good for you but for many of us it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:38 PM
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You've got problems understanding social interaction. You will continue to have problems so long as you have difficulty understanding social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:29 PM
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That doesn't quite make sense. Bartenders would be finished at the end of the night. By that time the woman will have gone elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:29 PM
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You could have suggest dressing well. Now you've just got us looking out of place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:12 PM
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Why are you not confident? What sort of confidence do you want? If it's that you're trying to escalate & don't know if she's okay with it use words (flirt), & do it slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:06 PM
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Because people do get in relationships whilst living with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:29 PM
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It is because a lot of guys tell themselves it makes a difference even if it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:44 PM
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It's simpler than that. Sex isn't that common because people are studying, seeking internships, working, online more, & lack game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:11 PM
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Living on your own doesn’t lead to sex. You can get a girlfriend regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:06 PM
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They're limited by the subset that ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:03 PM
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Unless you've approached yourself you've no right to criticise. Some people can't get into the circumstances required to approach. It requires certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:56 PM
2

You really don't see how this isn't a good comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:54 AM
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Do you really see this comment as sensible? Heterosexuality is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:01 AM
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I think normal women who like those things are more common than is being asserted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:49 AM
1

Again money is the concept. You're referring to the material form it can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:32 AM
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Money takes on many forms which are not in themselves abstract but it is abstract. Every since we decided our labour could be equated to an amount it gas been abstracted. A good example of this was the tribe that used boulders as money. Possessing the boulder mattered little because it's an abstraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:47 PM
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When something represents something it is an abstraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:00 PM
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There are examples of companies engaging very successfully in imperialism e.g. the East Indian Company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:29 PM
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It seeks a mid point between the two extremes, hence the third position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:27 PM
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They might want it whilst stating strongly otherwise. Also third positionism has elements of socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:25 PM
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Do you think there are guys who date/get sex successfully without female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:05 PM
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Yeah if they're not single keep the distance but if they're single I wouldn't aim for friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:55 PM
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I didn't say anything contrary to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:32 PM
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Surely this is obvious?! If you are attracted to someone you want to be more than friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:19 PM
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There's a problem there. You've got to go looking for female friends you're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:12 PM
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I'm not sure how that goes against what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:14 PM
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I'm saying that the vague advice given by women is worse than that given by men. “Work on your flirting” - what works and doesn’t varies from woman to woman. This isn’t something where one size fits all. The kinds of woman the man is capable of meeting and where is relevant here. What works on one woman might not work on another but you can still be better at it than you were in the past. Same for “groom”. If the guy is clueless about grooming and open to actually acquiring a style, “groom” does…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:24 PM
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I really don't see it as too vague. If it is too vague you can just ask follow up questions and if you do have good advice it will show. Except for where do you go? Those questions aren't necessary. Simply you start at point A & work up. You start with looks, hygiene, & fitness then you work on your social skills. Then you work on your flirting. Along the way you work on your finances & career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:19 PM
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The advice given online rarely works. Their reactions are crazy! "Hi guys, i want to get with/seduce, hook up with women? Y'know have a normal dating sex life." Response: "what is wrong with you? Wanting to seduce? Your first problem is that you're thinking of women as something to get."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:07 PM
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Anyone can give good advice or bad advice but some of the dumbest advice comes from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:54 AM
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You can't really ask people out if you don't have friends. I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:34 AM
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The only signals I've ever gotten was when I was 13 3 girls went up to me and asked for my number. Since then nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:04 AM
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In fairness, it does if you were shite at putting it on when you started using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:44 AM
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I'm saying even if you like that sort of thing it's unlikely to work unless you know what to do to get with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:20 AM
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Do you have the stats on that for say 18-35?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:25 PM
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Jarhead & Fury lowered my view of the military. We don't need rite of passage stuff. That's for people who are going to kill, hunt, & fight. We've moved into the technocratic society where technical skills are prized over old tribal virtues. You can chase away a predator or vanquish your enemy but that does not mean you know what to say to a woman. In fact, that's the sort of person who could become a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:42 PM
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People don't underestimate it. You just underestimate how much it just doesn't work for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:42 AM
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I'll just avoid being cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:02 AM
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It's cringey. You're commoners, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:08 AM
1

That seems misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:17 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:29 PM
1

There's a common stereotype of the nagging wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:25 PM
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Except for financially secure I would say that are a lot more guys in their twenties with those traits than you claim. Most don't date outside of their age group due to proximity anyway. Simply when you're older you've more experience dating so you've a better idea what to do all stages of the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:25 AM
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Wouldn't be high priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:15 AM
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TF, it's not LinkedIn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:01 AM
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From I've read no one ever does the American dinner dates in my country anyway. It's either a cafe or a bar or could be some activities. You can bring them to a cool bar like a modern speak easy bar or go to an art gallery & have tea/coffee after. I'm really not looking to impress anyone. The instead is to see if we vibe well together. I'm not going to treat someone better better based on their looks since we all get old. We are old, decaying flrsh, & skeletonem for far longer than we are youthf…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:53 AM
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Margot Robbie herself, we'd go to a local pub. She enjoyed the one she went to in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:58 PM
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The average for women is higher looks-wise (if men were a class most would be a C, most women a B looks-wise.. Although not often character or personality-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:06 AM
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Why are you under the belief that 3rd spaces have disappeared?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:02 AM
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I've seen women on Instagram reels saying that men are boring. Seems like certain people have a tendency to find boring people. I'm not sure it has anything to do with selecting on visuals as I've read intelligence correlates with beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:32 AM
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I don't go around asked people's politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:46 AM
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Most people can't handle open relationships so most people don't do open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:21 AM
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You want someone else to pay for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:08 AM
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What age are you talking about? Do you honestly think that if you're the perfect boyfriend they'd be like, "nah, I'm looking for something casual,fuck off. People want casual until perfection comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:06 AM
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You have really weird ideas about liberals. Some want open relationships. Most do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:57 PM
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Currently I do bachata & salsa. Before that I did Brazilian jiu-jitsu. In college I did bouldering, hiking, debating, judo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:30 PM
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Toxic & sex object are negative words. You can and should have things in common and things you enjoy doing/talking about with your partner. It’s good to have separate interests as well, but connection requires you to have things in common. I think back to my exes, and I can see what was different and what was similar. I’m into MMA and video games and am very social. My most recent ex was more quiet and shy and artsy. We were different in those ways. But we both really liked to sing karaoke, had …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:25 PM
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But you framed that in a negative way. That's often just the way it is. Imagine if you will, two unlikely future partners, Jane & Joe. Jane watches the Kardashians & does Make up artistry streams. Joe does MMA & computer programming. Never the two shall meet, content in their routines. But of course, desire hits their hearts one day and both coincidentally go to a speed dating event on the same day. Thereafter their story ends happily ever after. Neither had anything in common except for the att…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:17 PM
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Contrary to your assumption, I have tried. I didn't say your odds don't go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:46 PM
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They aren't spoon fed. There's other factors. I've done stuff like that. You just end up getting good at the activity; little else, often with new acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:45 PM
1

David Buss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:26 PM
1

Same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:01 PM
0

No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:59 PM
1

I don't know if he owns a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:56 PM
1

The main theorist on this is Dr. Buss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:40 PM
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You don't want dead weight but you're not entitled to others wealth. It's disgusting to think otherwise; to see the value and attractiveness of a person as in their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:38 PM
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Why would that be creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:28 PM
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The success of what I do is dependent on the cultural background of the woman. What do you even say to them? I don't think Irish women are as attractive as the rest of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:25 PM
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Where in Europe? Most of Europe doesn't do cold approaches. At public places outside of universities in my country there aren't many attractive people around randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:43 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:19 PM
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It's not hard to meet women. Literally just go to any public place, walk up to someone and start a chat. You don't need a social circle for that. It is hard. That doesn't work for most. Cold approaches aren't done in Europe. Unless you're on a college campus where are you finding all these attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:16 PM
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Banging women is easy, If that was the case this subreddit wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:08 PM
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Making friends is actually insanely easy if you actually just go do stuff. After college that isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:07 PM
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It's easy to say you chose not to build one but it is really difficult to just build one. Unlike study or work the results of your efforts are not entirely based on your efforts alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:30 PM
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Just admit you misrepresented his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:01 PM
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Partner dancing. Usually there's 1man more than needed in the lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:47 AM
0

No, no it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:01 AM
1

There are a good few in Manaus. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:02 PM
1

What about the indigenous women? I saw one on Instagram. Absolutely gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:40 PM
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Looking at that, it's not quite the weird take I've seen from women on Instagram where masculinity = giving & femininity = submissiveness therefore men should give and women don't need a job or to give anything to the relationship. Women require what they call princess treatment (where a rich guy gives her stuff for being a woman). It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:42 PM
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It's just a repackaging of old outdated gender norms and is used by women to avoid contributing to a relationship especially monetarily. It's also not scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:24 PM
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Not this gender polarity crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:38 PM
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Do women even ask about your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:59 AM
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if you are not careful that can turn into deep misogyny, which will definitely ensure you remain lonely and angry until you die. Do you think there are misogynists that have dating/sex lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:29 AM
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Sometimes the only one who can advise you is someone who knows you in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:14 AM
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I'm not sure what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:06 AM
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I mean how many women have you talked to. Of those you've talked to how many have flirted with? Of those you flirted with how many have you asked out? Me? There's not much hope for me. I don't have many social opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:01 AM
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That'll do fuck all for you. What have you actually done to get with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:40 AM
3

That's a totally idiotic thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:43 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:39 AM
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There's a story on this subreddit where some woman was arguing with her husband and he uttered that phase under his breath. That's when she decided to leave him. https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0zqpCrqCxJ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:27 AM
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That's assuming there is a ladder for you to climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:21 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:59 PM
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I didn't say that OP's beliefs aren't redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:52 PM
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Do you think most guys are stupid for still being on online dating then? Stupid?! That's a bit harsh. They're hopeful. Why are there so many men on online dating if doesn't work for them? They're wishful. Works once in a blue moon. Wouldn't the right dating advice then: stop being on online dating apps? Why is everyone so obsessed over online dating if they get nothing from it? Are people obsessing over online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:54 PM
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These takes are rare here and are contrary to red pill beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:08 AM
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He could be talking from an American perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:17 AM
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The one thing he is right about is that online dating does not work for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:19 AM
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You don't and I don't suggest you do. If it was something you might be interested in it could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:54 PM
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I don't think you're just introverted. The real problem is that you're also socially anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:50 PM
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There's a sport out there for you. You just have to try different ones. Also loads of people in their 30s take up dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:38 PM
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I doubt this. Sure guys could live in a cheap house without furniture. Even if guys have no debts we still aim to be doing something interesting with our lives, be able to afford more than the cheapest food in the shop (a cake or pastry is nice when not on the grindset), reap more than our money is worth (investments), holiday, (because it can get freaking cold), put money into our pension (for obvious reasons), & fund hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:07 AM
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Your second paragraph & link are pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:12 AM
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Well you did say: the same interests Most people don't have that well developed a personality. They have their 9-5 or may be they're studying. They have their time off and that often involves 1-3 hobbies if even; & spending time in a pub, on the internet. Like any relationship its success is dependent on each parties' lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:14 PM
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I never got this argument. If I'm into hiking, comedy, & the gym they're things a person of any age may do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:58 PM
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No one said it isn’t important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:23 PM
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People want sex. Why are you trying to make out it doesn't matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:15 PM
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You won't be. I've never changed. I'm 29 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:57 AM
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Is that what you tell yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:44 AM
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Why is it that the “sexless epidemic” is only mentioned in this sub on posts like this? Why is the rest of the world not aware of this? Look up Scott Galloway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:34 AM
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There are exceptions: short term jobs & interdepartmental dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:49 PM
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They don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:49 PM
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I specifically wasn't discussing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:42 PM
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All that is required for something be leisure is for it to not be work and not be enjoyable. You're really reaching here and digging a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:47 PM
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Cooking is far more akin to leisure than lawnmowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:12 PM
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Why do you think those men are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:58 PM
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It's a really bizarre way to view a relationship where both parties want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:42 PM
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How can you fake emotional connection? Either you're emotional connected or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:30 PM
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If you're going to advocate sex as a need don't go so over the top. It ruins your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:17 AM
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But they are likely to not be 6'4 because of bad habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:25 AM
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No. It's not the same at all. Curves change the shape of the body. Height doesn't. It doesn't give a man muscles, a V shape, or help him lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:23 AM
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There could be all sorts of other reasons for that. Sufficient sleep is important for optimal functioning & also results in optimal corporeal growth. Thus taller people may live more ordered lives with better sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:11 AM
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The thing about the height issue for me is that it has no bearing on looks as there are good lookers who aren't tall. It's just how high off the ground you stopped growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:07 AM
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You must be able to trigger emotions. https://youtu.be/eKyj0H7Ot4w?si=aWpmmWdqbPDUn8sT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:55 PM
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That's such a weird thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:02 AM
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This applied to him in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:46 PM
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It's a truism that one is entitled to disagree. One is also entitled to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:43 PM
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The problem with it is, that's not how men act with each other for large swathes of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:37 PM
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Do you ever listen to romantic songs? That's what they're looking for. Emotional expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:24 PM
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It's not that we need high birth rates. It's that there needs to be a greater number of young people than old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:50 PM
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No one is saying nobody does. But a lot less people do nowadays. It's harder. Many men will settle. I've already explained. Become beta but.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:36 PM
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Here we have it ladies and gentlemen; the ugly truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:38 PM
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It sounds like Americans spend a lot of time moving furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:33 AM
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I really don't think that's true. Women get baby fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:46 AM
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Go to Scandinavia. The women ask men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:33 AM
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You tell me. You think you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:13 AM
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Cold approaching majority of the time really does not work. Never worked in Europe and now not working in the USA. That is where you're going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:56 AM
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What do you mean by you approached? I don't think height actually matters so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:30 AM
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And I am disagreeing with you that most guys don't achieve this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:20 PM
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Why are you contradicting yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:10 PM
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A little bit of effort by a man goes a long way, considering how bad the competition is. Get a career job. Work out for a year. Buy fitting clothes. Get a professional haircut. Congratulations, you are in that magical top 20% of men. Sorry. This is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:00 PM
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It's getting a lot harder. Many of them won't. You can become the beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:58 AM
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What a stupid post. You're going to judge all men based on that embarrassment!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:41 AM
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When I was around 16 I went to this camp with others of a similar age for 2 wks in France. One guy there was good looking and the girls expected he'd be really cool but he turn them all off with what an awkward weirdo he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:38 AM
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How about neither. Just someone normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:01 AM
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I'm genuinely interested in apple pie. Sprinkle cinnamon on top and I notice it more and like it more. Present yourself well. You don't present yourself badly in your work life so why would you do it in any other part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:20 AM
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you're not interested in finding a style? How could it be worth it if you're not interested in the end goal? putting mental health and self-respect aside, people would probably think you're soulless and desperate to get social acceptance People don't give a fuck. They've their own problems. They'll just think that's your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:15 AM
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Don't mind all this stuff. It's actually not that important. It is good to know how to do however. The ability to simply talk, & sexually escalate is far more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:11 AM
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It's not so easy to start a cult any more. People aren't like back in the 60s/70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:08 AM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:52 AM
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The thing is for guys unless you've major defects there's not much you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:40 AM
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That probably says more about your friends than anything else. Obviously if you keep your looks your looks won't fade and the affects of lost looks won't occur but most people don't manage to maintain the blessings of their youth. However, in our modern times people are staying younger looking for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:35 AM
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Start with hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:20 AM
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One of the highest voted posts here states the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:31 PM
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No there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:32 AM
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The real problem is that many of us aren't good at making friends, conversation or flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:54 AM
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Look it's hard but this, 'treat like lepers' thing of yours is complete & utter nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:50 AM
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They definitely are not. That's such a stupid thing to say. Nobody turns up with your relationship status on your head and people rotate partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:47 AM
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No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:46 AM
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MUA & discussing the Kardashians are not very productive endeavours. I really don't know are that many guys playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:18 AM
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Give up. Focus on your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:42 PM
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good profile/picture combination and I started cleaning up. Good? Musta been exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:51 PM
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putting yourself in situation where you are going to be around women. Thing is, I do all of the above right except for the above, also not good at making conversation. I do salsa & bachata which requires women but that's mostly dancing & not much of a chance of conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:48 PM
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You're poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:43 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:42 PM
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Because women enforce such social norms in certain countries still.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:09 AM
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Getting sex has an awful lot, possibly even more to do with your ability to make conversation & escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:02 AM
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There is a loneliness epidemic but you're not a great advocate for solutions to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:34 PM
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I think there's a sport out there for everyone. There's probably a sport out there that you'd love that you haven't tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:58 PM
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Then put on your thinking cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:54 PM
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The only words I see used around here from that list are, entitled & occasionally shallow. Because people are people. Just because some have some traits does not mean the they all do. You can not find a diamond in the rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:34 PM
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Who said they don't like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:23 PM
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Wtf, as a virgin that's not how I think. People don't walk around with their virginity status on their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:46 PM
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In the real world nobody talks this weird way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:12 PM
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I didn't say it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:47 PM
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They initiate, make moves, engage with others, but they do not chase because they do not need the other person. You proved the poster right. As a guy you still need to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:12 AM
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No, no it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:09 PM
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Because when you want things to proceed beyond "hi" you need to create a connection, a spark. A reason for her to be as interested in you as you are in her. This could be humour, a common interest, a vivid description, a charming comment. If you walked up to someone, "hi, you're really beautiful. Want to go out?" It can work but it has a high change of going badly as there's millions of beautiful women on earth. There's no connection created & nothing unique in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:59 PM
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What sort of yacht?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:42 AM
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There's no limit to what is said on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:48 PM
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Whenever it is described by a women on Reddit it's described as better than sex with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:51 PM
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Because men only use women as confidants their emotions are like a dam burst rather than a gradual leak is the suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:51 PM
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Are you going to start tribbing each other next?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:48 PM
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There is, but it's not your one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:10 AM
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If you really believe it’s so much easier and better to be a woman today in the USA, you’re in luck — you can change your gender, or even your sex! You could apply that to women believing men are so possessed of greater advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:20 AM
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A great personality & character becomes a girlfriend & wife. But we've to make the most of what we get. We're in no way guaranteed the fun, playful girl who gives far more than her mere presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:52 PM
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Pick up a new hobby, go to more parties, develop your Instagram & online dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15yowvt/assuming_traditional_gender_norms_in_dating_what/jxebn8k?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:39 PM
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It doesn't work like that. You've got friends anyway so why are you asking about how to build it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:26 PM
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If you think it's hard now, just wait & see. Unless you're in an incredibly unique situation this is the easiest it'll ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:39 PM
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There is no talking to such close minded idiots. As what she is advocating for is self-advantagous she cannot see beyond it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:18 AM
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In my country we do rounds for drinks if you know what that means but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:30 AM
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There is nothing stopping you choosing & going Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:07 AM
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and many RP Podcasters Who are on the East Coast? F&F are in Miami.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:05 AM
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That's the thing. So many of these conversations focus on what's going on in America when many of us don't live in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:55 AM
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I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:14 AM
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It's easier at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:48 AM
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I don't see where entitlement was mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:13 AM
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25 is too low a threshold but if being attracted to youth is a fetish its one all men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:03 AM
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Because someone not being wealthier than you says nothing about their personality, their ability to love & care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:08 AM
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Some women will pay for you on the next date. I'm not saying much. I'm hoping for some better answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:56 AM
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What!? If you read it, you'll see it's all relevant. I literally quoted you and commented on each part of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:36 AM
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Do you really not see that you're the one with comprehension problems? Your comment to a question as to why men should pay and what women offer in the circumstance. The way you think about dating, like it's some sort of give and take transaction, is also the reason a lot of dates don't work. For you the opposite of this would be him paying therefore you think for him to get dates that work he should pay. See, treating someone to dinner isn't about the money or the food (unless you're dating a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:31 AM
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If everyone thinks you're at fault, reevaluate what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:17 AM
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Both parties shouldn't be going into a date worrying about money. They should be going in with the idea that they appreciate each others' company. The money shouldn't be an issue at all. If a guy has to pay for both parties, which is the topic of discussion, then yes money is a concern. When did I say it's necessary for someone to pay? Read it again. That's what the question asked. That is what you were pointing at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:13 AM
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You've found out two interesting insights. Women will let above average guys get away with more. What is possible for you to get away with you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:09 AM
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The way you think about dating, like it's some sort of give and take transaction, is also the reason a lot of dates don't work. The questioner already said his dates do work for him. I treat my friends all the time to dinners. Coz I appreciate their company. And they treat me all the time as well. Coz they appreciate my company. I have discussed this online previously and what has become clear is that this is a gender divide. Unless you're arab men don't do this. I don't even think friends of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:04 AM
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Thinking of women as people is a terrible idea because you treat your postman as a person but if you treat a woman like your postman you'll get nowhere with her. You need to act sexual to get results; flirt & escalate. You need to recognise that women aren't special. Some of them will be actually nasty. Women have a very different way of perceiving the world than men. Don't do hikes or swims as first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:28 AM
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For me dinner dates should be a rare thing. There's funner or more relaxed things you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:20 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:44 PM
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Modeling dating as a market matching problem does not equal commodification of individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:09 PM
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Average or not, no man should be doing dinner dates. Go to a cafe & walk for the first date. I think she won't care if the conversation is good. Express yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:07 AM
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What is a ski jump nose? I don't think that is true. There is a spectrum that goes from thin slim to Mimi Pabon/Salma Hayek/Debora Caprioglio that is found attractive. Also, I doubt that most guys would dislike older examples of women's beauty: https://www.reddit.com/r/AltarOfVenus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:53 PM
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cookie cutter idea of beauty Could you elaborate? I don't think that is the case but perhaps you mean something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:34 PM
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Sometimes when you spend too much time online it looks a lot more like something is happening than it is actually happening. A lot of what you are saying the "left" does is it actually really happening? That's the thing. Everyone is online nowadays. Or is that just shit manosphere men say because they want to take women's rights backwards so they can't have careers anymore? When people like Myron talk, it's like what do you want women doing since you don't seem to want them working?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:14 PM
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AKA nor making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:50 AM
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You attempting to show some semblance of knowing what you're talking about has nothing to do with the rest of the internet. It's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:32 AM
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Everything you say further points to your cluelessness. You expose yourself as a fool or you're just a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:22 AM
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So why did you pose such a clueless comment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:09 AM
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instead of making one up Didn’t make anything up. But if that is what you believe I can't stop you. Maybe clarify where you think I misunderstood you instead of presenting nothing but stupidity. Or perhaps you can't do anything to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:08 AM
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Learn to read dude. If that's the way you converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:57 AM
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But you realize the exact same statement would be true of a man right? Virtually every man would select the woman who's making more money as well. Doubt this. Most do not care. Love should not be about money. If you want more money, earn it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:50 AM
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And you're clearly not an old money man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:43 AM
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how submissive a woman is and how she makes him feel. When she is all submissive and obedient, this makes him feel like a man. Whatever about the rest of it, I couldn't give a fuck about submissiveness. This submissiveness thing seems to be a weird American, maybe Caribbean obssesion. Have about just a norm relationship where two people come together and make each other happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:39 PM
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There are black passport bros going to Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:43 PM
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You probably don't have an accurate view. Tell us more about yourself then we can advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:15 PM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:13 PM
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No, it isn't. You're obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:04 PM
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Stop advising therapy. It's not always the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:56 PM
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The world population isn't relevant. It's oiw many are in your area. For example, there's 744,548 females in my county. Of that population the cohort who will be attracted to me, the right age, near enough, & attractive to me will be a lot smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:55 PM
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Most men wouldnt bother getting in crazy good shape or making a ton of money just for themselves personally. IDk man. I want to get in good shape cos' I have hobbies that I want to be better at and the strength would hel I want to make loads of money to gave loads of adventures & retire early.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:31 PM
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Short people do date. Problem is more likely to do with one's ability to socialise & flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:50 PM
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Most financially rewarding jobs out there are not meaningful enough to be a mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:45 PM
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Let's say you read that you need to improve X, so you improve X. But your X was fine. What you needed to improve was Y. You need to figure out what you actually need to improve. Not take generic advice that applies to anyone and no one in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:44 PM
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You didn't respond fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:07 AM
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Is that what you think happened to you? Give us a breakdown of your hobbies, interests, personality, & characterm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:57 PM
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It's also the case in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:46 PM
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At least not being lean is fixable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:27 PM
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Please dont ever date crazy then! oops. Thats... Most women? Maybe go for men then. Men: Respond immidiately coz when I need you I need you - if youre interested, f your obigations, job, friends, family, anything, prioritize MEEEE and ME aloooone. Also men: We're only dating I wont do shit for you. Did you read something else? This wasn't said. If someone is busy then you move onto the next person. You don't start doing chores for the person. Especially if you've never dated them before. Most no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:18 PM
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Yeah, that's a crazy POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:39 PM
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Sure depends on the woman. There's probably a silent majority who do step up. I suspect you're from a country with loads of fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:41 PM
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The body positivity movement?? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:48 AM
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The difference is, blackpillers just moan, women step up to the mark. Most women are gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:25 PM
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If you want to fuck up your dating life as a man, don't ever escalate. If you want to get arrested, women staying away, over escalate all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:47 AM
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That doesn't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:59 PM
1

Grand, we'll take the jacket. Leave the eye candy at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:56 PM
1

Have you any evidence that it fines people for saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:05 PM
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I don't think you're from either of those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:31 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:49 PM
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It refers really only to looks. Maturity & intelligence is part of RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:51 PM
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What race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:43 AM
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I wanted to ask her for her number, but I couldn't because I could not find an "indirect" way to ask. My name isn't Casanova but you're doing this all wrong. If you want a number just ask for it. She might wonder why you're asking for her number. And that brings me to my next point. You need a reason to ask for her number. If a classmate you didn't know so well asked for your number you might be like why also. Engage in conversation and if getting her number is solely to go out with her be strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:07 PM
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Could you give an example? You really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:22 PM
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No. Because it's not choose between option A (getting sex) or option B (porn). There just is no option A for many guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:07 PM
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OP is basically admitting to being an escort/prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:56 AM
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With takes like this you're telling us that you're to be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:54 AM
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It's being like really cool & successful according to some online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:53 AM
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I don't think anyone (of any gender) is okay with boring for a relationship. Just sex is a different story. Unless you mean something different by boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:27 AM
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There's a Turkish women who helps passport bros going to Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:52 AM
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It’s also interesting that men believe women care what a man thinks about her earnings It has something to do with an article in the redpill about a woman that got a PhD & promotions and was wondering why guys weren't attracted to her as a result of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:34 AM
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Where do you get such nonsense from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:26 AM
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What I've suggested isn't that big a change if you know how to do it. I thought similarly and then I thought, wouldn't it actually be weird to expect it to go for 0-100 suddenly? I mean the whole heterosexual sex thing is very intimate. There's things going inside another person's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:57 PM
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In 8 years online dating I've had 4 dates. It's a waste of time. Value is not situational. Women arent stupid. They dont forget the man they met last week online just because you are with them right now. that's not reality. Women want the top guys regardless of where they are. You have more of a chance than the guy from last week if you're in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:47 PM
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My point is that if guys are aware of this they'd be less as you put it resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:45 PM
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I would like to kiss you. You can create this arousal a lot easier than.you think. You gotta say the same think but more subtle, more flirtatiously. For example, instead.of the above, ask "how good are you at kissing out of ten?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:35 PM
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It would be kinda terrifyingly to have sex without a spark. Sounds like they'll be uncommunicative and disinterested. Could lead to a rape accusation from a miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:29 PM
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Many have found real life works better than online and you're still asserting this? if there are only 3 women a mediocre man has a very very low chance one would be interested in him. And of those 3, maybe he himself isn't attracted to them for one reason or another. The point, that value is situational. You're value increases relative to the value of others. A tiny bit more value will go a long way in real life. Better to have 100 options from online, than 3 even in real. Believe me. This isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:26 PM
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This. People on the internet don't seem to understand that in the real world things often romantically progress based not on formal rationality but on a vibe & emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:08 PM
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It isn't. If you go to say, a language class with 3 women & two guys; that's less competition than online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:30 PM
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Do you really not get what I mean by self-sufficient in this context? Most people are. Do you pay your own bills, cook your own food, take care of yourself, do your own washing & cleaning/household chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:27 PM
2

The woods are lovely, dark, & deep. But I have miles to go & promises to keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:22 PM
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No. Most have no chance online. In the real world there are other factors that are in your favour such as you may be the HVM in the woman's proximity so she will go for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:17 PM
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Love and lust are literally the definition of want rather than need. You don't need the person you lust after, you just want them a lot. Care in sickness and health isn't really a need if you have money. You can pay someone to take care of you, or go to the hospital. Obviously. Nothing I said contradicted the above. The financial is what keeps most women around, it's just a fact. That primal lust will fade in time, so if your relationship is entirely based on want, it's much more likely to end e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:14 PM
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No. As someone who does mostly salsa & bachata it's not good advice. I really wish it would stop being recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:49 PM
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What other reason does a woman NEED a man for, other than financial security? Love, lust, companionship, care in sickness & in health. Can you seriously not see beyond the financial. You shouldn't need anybody. You should start off wanting and desiring, & getting on with. Then the love grows and you need them because they have become indispensable to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:36 PM
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Why are you seeing someone else's relationship as a competition between the sexes? That's weird man. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:33 PM
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Its just like ugly below avg looking men who don't believe a men can swipe dating apps and get a girl over for fast casual sex at his place on "first date". Sadly it will never be in their experience. It's not this he's talking about. It's the bit about you being sent sucking other guys' dicks. Why do you even want such videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:38 PM
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You believe in the redpill. You said you realised it a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:12 PM
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So you believe it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:09 PM
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Would you be friends with someone that is really boring? It's the same thing. They want someone with a personality, that they will feel emotional highs around. You can't extrapolate from the subset of women that dare criminals to the superset of women at large. Most women will be happy with someone funny, who has things to talk about. You don't need to go sky diving. What constitutes a rush of excitement for one person will be too much for another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:49 PM
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No, look it up. There's a cultural & biological element to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:38 PM
1

So you think people who scroll social media, work, & go to pubs & clubs are looking for extreme sports people & adventurers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:07 AM
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If a man cries easily he's probably lacking in testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:27 AM
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Because sex is pleasurable and they aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:25 AM
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Most of humanity is boring. I'm not sure why people who do equally boring shit all day long are seeking avid base jumpers and extreme rock climbers. They're not. They're too boring to seek the extreme. But dial it back a bit. You just have to have something to talk about, even if you're just into tennis and gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:07 AM
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If he asked her on a date, isn’t he inviting her to dinner? How does that follow? Hint: it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:07 AM
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We don't do dinner dates until much later in my country but you shouldn't have to ask do you mind going Dutch? It's quite presumptuous to assume someone else is going to pay for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:07 AM
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Why be there then? I'd feel a bit odd if I had someone in the rain for something they'd no interest in. I'd prefer they care about a hobby of mine that they give a fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:57 AM
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Women found the following qualities to be more desirable in long-term marriage contexts than in short-term sexual contexts: “ambitious and career-oriented” (average rating of 2.45 in the long term versus 1.04 in the short term), “college graduate” (2.38 versus 1.05), “creative” (1.90 versus 1.29), “devoted to you” (2.80 versus 0.90), “fond of children” (2.93 versus 1.21), “kind” (2.88 versus 2.50), “understanding” (2.93 versus 2.10), “responsible” (2.75 versus 1.75), and “cooperative” (2.41 vers…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:18 PM
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Don't be silly!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:57 PM
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A mma fighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:49 AM
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For example, how many genders are there? And can someone change their gender? You're going to have to help them make sense of the world around them. What you choose to teach is informed by your beliefs. Give them the tools to think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:43 AM
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Some men do. Many just want to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:31 AM
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Many women have no idea how men think. But dont worry. Sure I agree. But I know how I as a guy thinks. So... why would he go out of his way to show anybody their interests? I The thing we're discussing was you stating that men just do things to get sex. This is a counter example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:03 AM
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Do you need to decide that? Children need to be kind and respectful, & responsible. They can deal with abortion & taxes later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:52 AM
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What if he had the personality of Khabib Nurmagomedov?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:50 AM
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It shows you dont understand the male mind. No, you think most men think that way. I don't I think most men think the opposite way. That's it. I dont know you but missing one of the major aspects of your husband's career, preferences and skills for 4+ decades is to me not exactly good. It is incredible that because I shared his interest knew of his standing and skill. But not his wife. Obviously, but he wasn't doing it for to attract her then which you claimed men do to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:38 AM
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I don't care. I'd tell her if it came up but I don't think it does or will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:21 AM
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The Barbie movie? Apparently it was surprisingly insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:15 AM
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But like why do you feel the need to mention it. Last women I kissed I didn't preface it with, "it's been years since I've done this." We just kissed. If you do tell someone, and they have a problem with it they aren't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:14 AM
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No, that's a standard human view of movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:12 AM
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A meaningful movie is ideas in motion, not the mere blinking of lights on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:04 AM
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Duh. That's like saying being a gay man back in the 1940's was totally accepted because most gay men back then were in the closet and rarely exposed themselves. No it's not. How would anybody know if you're a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:00 AM
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Well they are great movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:58 AM
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Could you give examples? From what I remember it says that women are hypergamous. That means that they are attracted to money, status, & looks. So they will shit test you to check are you better then her. They are also emotional. These two things make her the oldest teenager in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:53 AM
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Well, I'm here to listen - what is it about, then? The complete opposite of what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:49 AM
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People can take metaphors and apply them to complete different contexts. And you thought you had a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:46 AM
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The redpill sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:45 AM
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A male virgin past a certain age is the lowest status a man can ever have in the U.S. only beaten by being a jobless bum. That's a stupid thing to say. Nobody knows whether you're a virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:22 AM
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I said that regarding specific things, not the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:00 AM
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If you are reluctant to eat with a person, how would you have them in your home for extended times to work towards some sort of full partnership including sex and kids and medical stuff? I am not reluctant to eat with another person. I eat at home mostly. If I was living with them we'd cook. If we finish an activity and we're starving we'd get dinner. But I just amn't into dates where dinner is the theme. It's not that complicated. Hiking and open water swimming became very popular here during C…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:57 AM
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Generally the weather in my country is too cold for women to be wearing dresses. Honestly I'd be reluctant to go on a dinner date at all. After coffee dates, probably move on to hiking, swimming, maybe go to a shooting range, art gallery, bouldering, dancing, aquarium. Depends on the intersection of our interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:48 AM
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People are free to hate what they want. Also, you can sit on a couch in a cafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:38 AM
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If that's what she wants, that's what she wants. Don't knock her. Cafes are more relaxing than restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:28 AM
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Why are your coffee dates only taking fifteen minutes? Would take half an hour to drink tea and then go for a walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:26 AM
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So many things you read from this sub about women is wrong and regurgitated crap from men who do not have any experience with women at all. And yet you bring the worst of it. I just got engaged. I am a 30 year old woman who Is a high earner, working in tech and has a start up and 2 cats. Nobody cares. I met my fiancé at a tech conference he hosted at the start of the year. Once again, nobody cares. He asked me out on a proper date Coffee dates are proper dates. I enjoy cafes and not dinner dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:22 AM
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Well them what's being discussed doesn't apply to to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:41 PM
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So he didn't have many options then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:29 PM
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Only if the guy I really like only likes me for sex…..then yes, he will not get what he wants. Which is what I intend by this. People can pretend to like you for more than sex. Guys with options will just move on. If the guy I really like, really likes me back, then a relationship is worth more to him then quick sex and we both get what we really want A guy that finds out you're pulling this crap won't stay with you. With this you're either making yourself a fool or making the guy you like a foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:23 PM
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can be madly attracted/crushing on a guy and NOT want to sleep with them But are there guys you're madly attracted to and you'd sleep quickly with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:03 PM
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