El_Picaflor215 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	My kids basically begged me to stop the big weekends… so I said forget it and bought a $30 soccer goal This also resonated with me. In my case, their mom is the active one taking them EVERYWHERE. Plane rides to Florida, long drives to the beach, arcade, cousins house, friends house, etc. I also have the soccer net and take them fishing and they honestly love those activities which allow us to bond while staying level headed and not all exhausted. The change of pace from moms super active non stop lifestyle to my more laid back approach is a good balance for them at this age (6 & 9)	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/26 12:57 PM
7	Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is Cowardly RS. It’s in their “nature”.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 03:02 AM
7	Overlooked the Childhood Trauma — Key Mistake Add me to the list unfortunately	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/25 07:37 PM
1	Hate missing out on my son's life Add my BM to the long list of women that fuck it all up even with co-parenting.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/25 03:21 PM
3	Can’t sleep Good luck brother. We’ve all been there.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/24 12:27 PM
3	Talking about his for the first time. That Thanksgiving part hit home as it sounds similar to me except she went to her Family’s place with the kids where her AP would be. 2021 too.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:35 PM
5	Do you wish her happy birthday? Fuck. No.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 03:11 PM
2	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? I got 32k from her but she kept the house !	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/24 09:25 PM
2	Time heals all wounds Amen	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/24 10:35 PM
4	18 months later and still dreaming about her every single night. I’m with you ! I’m entering year 3 and I still get those dreams. Doesn’t help we co-parent young children. Stay strong brother and keep pushing!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/24 05:42 PM
4	Second week of divorce I started with my COMPTIA A+ cert and was able to get in the door of a nice company doing just that as a contractor. Eventually I was hired and have been at the company 10 years. Invest in yourself my brother and you will succeed. Blessings.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 01:20 PM
1	If you are newly separated, please heed this advice. 4 months out, here are my biggest regrets and the best things I've learned. Thank you.. same to you !	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 04:05 PM
2	If you are newly separated, please heed this advice. 4 months out, here are my biggest regrets and the best things I've learned. Lesson #1 hit me the hardest… literally 2 days after leaving the house in what I thought was a separation, she already was hanging out with her new lover.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 03:41 PM