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wrong person to have a relationship with The problem is women with these attitudes towards men are so common, and the views so commonly accepted and ubiquitous.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 03:32 AM
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This is almost entirely an economic problem. We are the first generation that is going to have a worse quality of life than those before us and many people are rationally waiting for the right personal economic conditions to raise a child. In nearly every developed country we’ve mistakenly embraced Neoliberalism and the result is in every country when people are surveyed the number of children they say that they want to have is larger than the number of children people are actually happening. Th…
/r/MensRights22/04/24 01:59 PM
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I have my standards for myself. If those are not good enough for her or “too much” and she’s secretly decided to sabotage me to fill her little mold of what kind of man she wants, I would rather be single than be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:55 AM
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I absolutely do not, in any way, shape, or form, under any circumstances, ever, ever, EVER want my relationship with my wife to be the challenge I struggle with in life. It’s better to be single or dead than live with your relationship being the challenge you have to struggle against.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:49 AM
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I can see it being a problem in the USA where they have a bizarre public school funding system based on postal codes instead of the money just going to the State and then the State gives the same funding to every school on a per-student basis.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 07:26 PM
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No. The problem is that university is designed to cater to single people with no kids because it was originally designed to cater to the needs of childless bachelors of wealthy families. Camille Paglia agitated about this decades ago. The problem is that family has been excluded from the major institutions. All of the other needs for supporting a human life were externalized to the wealthy family sponsoring their son and we've never adjusted from that mold to adapt to the needs of the general po…
/r/MensRights18/04/24 06:36 PM
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What an absolute crazy person. An insanely entitled POS.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 04:28 AM
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Umm…. There are random sucker punch attacks on everybody of every demographic all the time.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 01:51 AM
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When you have a marriage-quality partner. I don’t care if you’re 18 or 50. When you have the right partner and not a day sooner. If there are red flags, do not proceed.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 04:47 PM
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Every. Single. Time. Even my own mother. Got uncomfortable and left. I can’t even show emotions in front of my own mother, the new age be in touch with your emotions woman.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 12:48 AM
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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" -- Wayne Gretzky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:39 PM
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So do women. Reject the advances of a woman and look out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:42 PM
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ShitLibs saw how systemic oppression worked and thought “that’s terrible, let’s undo that by doing it to the children of majority groups without considering wealth privilege because that would mean Ivy League brats like us couldn’t claim to be oppressed” instead of what any decent reasonable human being would say “that’s terrible let’s stop doing it and do everything we can to create an even playing field so that merit decides as much as possible.”
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:26 PM
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If large numbers of people are behaving a certain way you assume that their behaviour is a rational decision given the choices available to them. If you don’t like their decisions then change that demographic’s conditions so that they have better choices available to them and then they will start to make better choices.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:39 AM
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The Rationality Assumption For these men these choices are the most rational ones given the options available to them under their real life day to day conditions. If we want them to change their choices we need to change their conditions.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:37 AM
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When she can do pull-ups
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:57 AM
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AmberTheValkyrie amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:54 AM
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Canada is no longer amazing we are being destroyed by the same forces of neoliberalism that you and the rest of the developed world are. However we are still way better off than this and any politician who tries to change that will be the first Canadian politician to be assassinated.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 05:27 PM
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Just call yourself socially libertarian
/r/MensRights15/03/24 01:07 AM
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Buddy I have lived right next door to you for forty years guy shut yer face
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:51 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me? You people have been lecturing the world on a non-stop 24-hour loop for the last century.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 11:40 AM
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It’s true, they’re both right wing political groups they only care about entrenching the dominance, wealth, and power of the currently dominant, wealthy, and powerful against everyone else. They fund the liberals to provide lip service to caring about anybody else while riling up the non-dominant groups against the dominant groups, blaming the dominant groups for all of their suffering. They fund the conservatives to rile up dominant groups against non-dominant groups, blaming them for all of th…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:57 PM
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It’s true there are problems in SS they even had to bring a Canadian consultant in from the CPP program in the 90s to find the problems and it was all just obvious skimming by middle men that we don’t have up here. Like the people in charge make commission when they buy bonds so they would buy medium term bonds so that they could get more frequent commissions. So when the Canadian showed management the math on how they were losing money on paying commissions on medium term bonds instead of takin…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:48 PM
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K, hear me out. I’m dead serious this is not a joke and people often mistake it for one. IF: you are not planning on having children, go for women who have something “wrong” with them that would turn off most men that doesn’t have anything to do with their character and compatibility. Hereditary disorders in the family, ADHD, Level 1 and 2 autism, a disability necessitating wheelchair or crutches like spina bifida or cerebral palsy, deaf, blind, Turrets’(?) syndrome, amputee, scars from an injur…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:27 PM
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^ This. Look at couples in real life. The dating market is not only over represented with people who have problems forming long term relationships, but that problem increases in severity as we get older, as the people who CAN get into relationships DO get into relationships and leave the market. What is left over time in increasing proportion are people who are single for a reason. Those reasons are varied and in unique combination to every individual, but overall more singles at 30 are single f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:59 PM
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We should be encouraging this kind of AI development not censoring it. What if that technology can be used to detect cancer and other health problems years before a human radiologist could?
/r/MensRights20/02/24 07:46 PM
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People seem to be naturally more protective of women than they are of men. Combine that with people seem to be naturally more suspicious of men than they are with women.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 10:12 PM
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As the former older man in that scenario it was a process of telling my younger friend “no” for several months then one day being pounced on and forcibly kissed and mounted by my suddenly now-naked friend and “no” turned into “oh, shit” followed by “well, okay if you insist”. The lack of GAF about social norms is definitely a factor. It’s their world and we just happen to live in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:16 PM
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High five great success
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:29 AM
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Ok let’s rerun this experiment but only with women who have good relationships with their fathers and then see how the guys with boyfriend vibes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:32 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:57 PM
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I’ve never understood why anyone in their right mind would just go out for walks at night.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:33 PM
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Norah Vincent - “Self-Made Man”
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:31 PM
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It’s true the rise of obesity is almost entirely a function of processed foods and sugar-added beverages starting in the 60s and 70s and steadily increasing in popularity from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:44 AM
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This. Everyone is instinctively prewired to be knee-jerk pro-female and male-suspicious.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 09:36 PM
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I really like that aspect of their personalities as well in fact I love it it’s just that a lot of teen/twenty-something girls also enjoy being cruel, petty, manipulative, and generally shitty in ways that most grown adult women do not. They do a lot of that “I wanted him to be/do this so I did this/that shitty thing on purpose to make him do/be that thing—-but then he DIDN’T, he did a reasonable thing instead why is he such a jerk?!” and I really hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:38 PM
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Can we all just admit that we want a woman with the brain of a forty year old in the body of a twenty year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:10 PM
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What a horrendous human being.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 01:43 PM
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That’s the problem with professional activism. Once these organizations are in place and there are boards of executives making six and seven figure salaries they can never admit that their problems have gotten better. As the conditions they’re agitating for improve they have to find ways to constantly raise the bar and discover new avenues for outrage to keep their organization afloat. Which would be great if they were focusing on the women who actually need help, that being women in the working…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 01:23 PM
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I think a big part of the problems in the state of dating and relating between the sexes right now is too many people see delaying sex as an outdated patriarchal cultural practice meant to shame women instead of a wise and time-proven method of ensuring an acceptable amount of compatibility and commitment in a partner before engaging in an activity that emotionally bonds you and introduces the risk of conceiving pregnancy. And so too many of us too often are having sex with people we are sexuall…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 02:50 PM
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Anxious and avoidant attachment styles attract one another
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:53 PM
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Iceland legislated decades ago for equal pay and that jobs had to be at least 40% one gender or the other I don’t see what they’re angry about.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:12 PM
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Because players have an avoidant attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:41 AM
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Red pill properly describes immature and narcissistic women, not the majority of women, just like women’s stereotypes about us accurately describe about the worst ten or so percent of us. Be up front about your intentions. “I am looking for a long term partner/I am looking to get married” and let this send the commitment-phobes running for the hills. Figure out if you’re compatible before having sex. Sex does terrible things to your judgement and you’ll end up putting up with shit you wouldn’t o…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:02 AM
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Not to mention the advent of social media and Gen Z being raised on smart phones and unlimited on demand access to internet porn skewing their perceptions of healthy sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:18 AM
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I’ve also considered if the necessity of having a two-income family just to survive has also created an entire generation of avoidants who cannot form healthy attachment since both parents have been too absent their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:25 AM
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Talking about marriage as a goal on the first date would definitely send avoidants running
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:00 AM
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My wife got straight to the point on the first date and I loved it. Why are you on dating apps? What are you trying to accomplish with them? Do you want to get married? When? How many children do you want? What are your financial goals? Unromantic as hell but these are the important questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:55 PM
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I wonder do gay men feel any kind of revulsion thinking about their male partner having been with other men, or does being attracted to men themselves cancel it out?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 04:28 AM
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Ladies, this is the gut reaction every man has to overcome because you’ve had sex with other men. We get over it, why can’t you?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 04:26 AM
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I don’t think there’s a hookup culture so much as dating apps are a filter for people with avoidant attachment styles. People with anxious and healthy attachment styles will only be on apps a short time before they find a relationship and close their account. People with avoidant attachment styles are going to get on there and stay on there for the long haul since the constant churn of new partners caters perfectly to their fears of intimacy and commitment. So any person who joins a dating app a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:34 AM
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The problem with men complaining about women in their 40s and 50s are that they’re interacting with single women in their 40s and 50s and that is not by any stretch of the imagination a representative sample. Anyone who’s dated after 30 knows the older a person is and they’re still single there’s more and more likely a reason they’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:40 PM
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I’m 40 and in Canada where decades of neoliberalism has destroyed our once great social democracy and replaced it with a system that is designed to squeeze working class people for every penny from every direction while giving a free ride to the wealthy elite. The decline really accelerated with the fall of the Berlin Wall and Perestroika because the business elite no longer had a powerful pro-worker rival to fear. I’m sick of it. I’m sick of this system. I’m sick of established wealthy interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:07 PM
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And when that is available, sure, 100% I will support a man’s right to sue for an extraction and transfer to artificial womb procedure instead of an abortion.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 04:02 PM
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It’s not that I’m no longer a feminist, it’s that I have grown to include men’s rights. It’s “rich white woman” feminism that I’ve tossed in the garbage. Rich white women have more privilege than working class white men. Rich women of any race, culture, orientation, or ability have more privilege than working class men. The world wasn’t designed for white men, it was designed for rich white men. So when rich white feminism preaches that our society was designed for white men they’re only correct…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 04:00 PM
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Where is the growing future child physically located?
/r/MensRights27/11/23 11:57 PM
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It’s ok to be Soviet nostalgic with me I’m of the mind that they were closer to discovering the ideal system than we’ve ever been in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:45 PM
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That is always an option yes but how does that help single women with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:33 PM
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Well shit it sounded like a great idea. This was around the time of the Sohi Olympics when Putin was working hard at creating a friendlier public image in the world. Do you remember what the system was like under the USSR? If not, do your parents remember? I imagine there would have been a similar kind of public daycare service.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:34 PM
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It was from an interview of Vladimir Putin I watched years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:40 AM
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Maybe if our entire system were more friendly and supportive of women having children and careers at the same time, instead of having to choose one to the detriment of the other, more women would be open to settling down in their 20s. Camille Paglia advocated decades ago for feminists to push for spaces to be radically more accommodating to young mothers so that they could go to work or attend university and have young children at the same time. Universities regularly waste millions on ridiculou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:47 AM
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Basically the longer a person has been single the more likely there is a reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:26 AM
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Even without these incentives all dating apps will have an overrepresentation of people with personality traits and attachment issues that prevent them from forming secure attachments and healthy long term relationships. The people who can do those things eventually find each other and leave the app. The people who cannot remain. Over time this leads to apps that are full of people who are unable to form attachments and build relationships. I found my wife in PoF by crunching sheer numbers of fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:33 AM
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But hey they’re prisoners so forcing them to work is okay you see, because they’re bad people… /s
/r/MensRights17/11/23 01:03 AM
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Why would you have to amend the constitution? Perhaps we could look at developing Justice Field technology and have no need for prison guards at all.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 06:08 PM
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Norway’s prisons are so effective at rehabilitating prisons they had to shut down prisons for lack of criminals. Maybe America could finally stop the we’re number one bullshit and follow another country’s lead for once.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 05:00 AM
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Theft under $5000
/r/MensRights16/11/23 04:58 AM
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Also you get the anaesthetic injected straight into your testicles with a needle no thanks
/r/MensRights11/11/23 05:11 AM
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If they were using proper therapeutic language they would be wording it in ways that they own their reactions, like “when he is around I feel so uncomfortable” instead of making him the one responsible for her feelings “he MAKES me feel so uncomfortable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:36 PM
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I don’t know man I’ve found men’s spaces to be heavily slanted towards either auth-right traditionalism or lib-right anarcho-capitalism with little tolerance for centre or left wing perspectives.
/r/MensRights28/10/23 03:53 PM
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And it shouldn’t matter that she was anyway. Most countries have reasonable close-in-age exemption laws. America is stuck in backwards ways.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 03:38 PM
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This is what happens when critical theory is applied with the omission of economic class as an identity factor.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:14 AM
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I have so many memories of being rejected by countless girls with the “you’re so amazing what would you ever want to do with me, you’ll just leave me for somebody better” line. It made me think that there was something big wrong with me that was so terrible and unspeakable that none of them had the heart to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:48 AM
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Men like to feel valued. Being in a teacher role makes a person feel valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:12 AM
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Not to derail the conversation but America is also such a consumer and capitalism driven society that from the time they are born Americans are subjected to marketing and propaganda that tilts their development over their entire lifetime towards childishness and narcissism. Me, me, me, I want, I want, I want, more, more, more, now, now, now, gimme, gimme, gimme. Then they go on a date and are shocked that women kind of low key treat themselves like a high value product that the man is trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:25 PM
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“He just wanted me for sex!” Orrr… he was hoping to get married, have children and grandchildren, and ultimately be buried next to each other, and spending a lot of time and energy on a friendship with you when you don’t feel the same way about him is directly in the way of him finding that with someone who’s interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:43 PM
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I would feel sad and empathetic towards him if he wanted me for a loving, committed, romantic relationship leading to marriage, adopting children, growing old together, and being buried together, and I simply could not reciprocate those things, ever. I would feel sad that he needs to maintain distance in order to protect his emotional well being, but I wouldn’t resent him or be angry at him. My heart would go out to him and I would genuinely wish him well. Feelings are something that happens to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:37 PM
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Absolutely true. Horny 5 enthusiastically making out with me and aggressively rubbing against me is a 10/10. Whatever her number it is automatically doubled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:48 PM
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Best day ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:58 AM
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Out of these pictures? The fifty year olds by far, in particular 6/6, and I’m calling up my old bodybuilding buds for some of that underground lab knockoff Viagra so I can perform like a 20 year old because 6 and I are going at it a lot more than just once. We’re gonna role play as Pool Boy and Dixie Wetsworth. You like? I like!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:27 AM
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Who could have predicted a skyrocketing cost of living coupled with stagnant wages and ever-decreasing workers’ rights would have resulted in a generation without enough free time and disposable income to support social venues and their own places to go back to and bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:52 AM
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In my experience she has to be especially un-attractive or have extremely poor hygiene for me not to be able to experience arousal with her. Plus a lot of women overestimate their unattractiveness due to one or two traits she feels insecure about, like a lazy eye or a visible facial scar, that they seem to believe ruins their entire appearance meanwhile in all of the observing men’s eyes their brains just go “minus 0.1 point each for minor, barely noticeable face things” and instead of an overal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:54 AM
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I’m confused as to where the confusion is. Just because somebody is physically appealing to look at does not equal a person having an emotional romantic attraction to them. There must have been tons of pretty girls back in school that you never had a crush on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:08 PM
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I’m 40 and married now with a good stable career. If I had to start all over again right now I’d have the exact same dating filter I did at 31 when I started looking seriously for a wife: a healthy family-oriented woman between the ages of 25 and 30. Why any single woman in her 40s should expect a man to marry her makes no sense. It’s not like they’re going to have children at that point. Better to just date. We really need to normalize long term dating in couples who aren’t going to have childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:42 AM
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Umm… how do I put this? If you marry a woman solely based on how sexually attracted you are you her you’re going to have a very, very bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:48 AM
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No argument here. Every species has a general map in their consciousness (how that works at the neurological level has yet to be fully explained) that identifies generally what other members of their species look like and what to be attracted to in a mate. In women we look for waist to hip ratio and in men we look at shoulder to waist ratio. Most fat men and women have terrible ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:48 PM
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All I heard was be careful…… because she was hurt in the past, probably. As in be careful about MY actions not be careful about who SHE is but what else was there to go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:10 PM
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That’s a good point. I only have one ex who was truly a monster and in the first six months during the love bombing period I had women I barely knew come up to me at work, ask me how things were going, and tell me “be careful around (Monster Ex)”. I just chalked it up to weird female jealousy or something but I didn’t even remember it or think about it until years after I’d broken up with her. It doesn’t help that when you ask for more detail and clarification women clam up and won’t say any mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:50 PM
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But don’t forget society treats men and women differently and so men and women have drastically different experiences growing up as boys and girls leading to discrepancies in things like attachment styles and perceptions of what is and isn’t appropriate behaviour from and between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:45 PM
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Also take the sex and gender out of this issue for a second and remember: Anxious attachment styles and avoidant ‘sattachment styles gravitate towards each other. An attractive person with an avoidant attachment style is going to be terrified of emotional intimacy and commitment so they will constantly be dropping the person they’re seeing for the next shiny thing to catch their attention because staying in a relationship means that they are in danger and need to flee as soon as an opportunity a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:20 PM
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Since we’re doing generalizations: Women are terrible at judging character and misinterpret assholes to being men with confidence. Men are terrible at judging character and misinterpret men with confidence to being assholes. Also on the topic of good men dating horrible women it’s not just their physical qualities it’s the fact that they put in effort to pursue the good men. Unfortunately this is part of their love-bombing routine and not genuine interest, but the majority of men are so attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:11 PM
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The top row is more attractive but I wouldn’t say no to any of the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:35 AM
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The irony is female teachers love me Then delete all apps and go to the pre-internet dating strategy of asking your female peers if they know any single female teachers around your age who might be a good match for you.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 03:24 PM
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Ahh. So “respect” in terms of old fashioned upper class ideas of “respectability” as in accomplishments and social status. The sort of things obsessive high achievers crave. Awards, accreditations, notoriety, etc. Totally agree. Couldn’t care less. Where my mind goes when the notion of respect is mentioned is “she was rude to the waitress and didn’t tip” so I lost respect for her. “When we were done shopping she just left the cart right there in the middle of the next parking spot and got in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:44 PM
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What do you mean by respect in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:22 PM
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They never will. It’s not instilled in them over millions of years of evolution. If a man is born with a preference for promiscuous women how many grandchildren does he create? Not many because most of them are actually other men’s babies and he got scammed. If a woman is born with a preference for promiscuous men how many grandchildren does she create? Tons because her children have the attractive qualities of the kind of men who can attract tons of women. There is no natural selection reward f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:50 PM
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It’s not like men are making a conscious decision to be attracted to a healthy woman, it’s that our biology is prewired to find certain body features more or less attractive than others. Men who were attracted to women with features associated with health ended up having more descendants than men who were attracted to women with features associated with poor health. It’s not like it’s something you can argue with any more than you can argue with your own skin into having a different amount or to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:53 PM
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That’s the bizarre thing they actually do want the playboy who’s with a different woman every night because they think they will be the special one that makes him “change” and then it would mean that she’s special above all the other girls he’s been with before. It also means if she has sons with him they have a chance at being playboys who spread her genes far and wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:39 PM
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Deliberately become more and more physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy. Also if you work out focus on improving your v-taper (ie; lats and delts), shoulder-to-waist ratio (the higher the better), and waist-to-hip ratio (the closer to 0.9 the better).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:46 PM
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This is probably true, I only found my wife after paying for PoF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:45 PM
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It’s ok I finally got married but the “wtf?!” memories still remain. I’m so glad I don’t have to date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:37 AM
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When you’ve dated a long string of women from dating sites who seem to all have an avoidant or anxious-avoidant dating style it can seem very very personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:26 AM
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That’s a brilliant way of putting it. “Women are nearly always in a state of post-nut clarity”. That’s something any man can instantly relate to. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:07 AM
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Waist to hip ratio on point (~0.65 to 0.75) Anywhere from AA to DD cup Cute, beautiful, or pretty face Any hair, any eyes, any skin tone Clear skin, freckles definitely ok CrossFit or athletic type musculature (runner, gymnast, dancer, Olympic weight lifter, fighter, track athlete) Body fat in athletic through healthy range (~12-30%) 5’ 0” to 5’ 9” tall and 18-55 years old with more points at the lower end of both ranges Great sense of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:22 AM
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But I was promised handing everything over to the hypercapitalist ideology of neoliberalism was more… checks notes… “efficient”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:09 PM
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People really need to dial down their dating expectations in general. If you’re a dude who’s fat and over 300 lbs, you are in the “dating women over 200 lbs” category. If you are a woman 5’0” or under you can’t expect to only date men over 6’0”. You are entitled to maybe 5’4” or 5’5” as your minimum. That’s it. We need more “half your age plus seven” rules but applied to every dating variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:06 PM
10

The other person doesn’t get the impression that you’re going to turn out anxious and clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:01 PM
10

I was dating only 6 years ago. It’s terrifying. They’re terrifying. Nothing they do makes sense. It’s all just satisfying short term impulses and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:33 AM
3

I thought that this post in the YSK sub was rather relevant to the discussion here. 52% of 18-29 yr olds living with their parents makes it rather difficult to invite a partner back to their place for sex, whether the one living with their parents is male or female. Either the inviter or the invitee is going to have parents asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:31 PM
3

Ok now do long term relationships and be even more concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:45 PM
1

Why don’t you try not making stupid assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:52 PM
5

Average people need to get over themselves and date other average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:56 PM
3

I can’t help it I’m autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:47 PM
3

Entirlya?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:50 PM
1

Healthy attachment bonding, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:23 AM
2

Honestly if she treats me like shit to the point I have to “put her in her place” I’m already done with her and never want to see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:02 PM
9

No disagreement here. You’re absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:32 PM
3

I think waiting to have sex is the number one practice that needs to make a comeback. The purpose wasn’t so that traditional religious power structures could “control people” it was so that young people of both sexes with more balls than brains were forced to evaluate partners based on personality compatibility before engaging in the far more exciting sexual activity. That way they didn’t just have sex with the first sexually attractive person of the opposite sex who also found them attractive a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:25 PM
15

Like, yay, in return for committing yourself exclusively to her for the rest of your life, she punishes you by toning down her sex until you basically don’t want to do it anymore. “Why don’t men want to get married anymore?!” Ladies are you even thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:36 AM
1

Top 1% of family wealth doesn’t necessarily mean wealthy enough to pay for all their kids’ university it can mean owns a house and a 401k.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:47 AM
2

I never paid or didn’t pay based on attraction it was more like I’d pay by default unless she insisted on splitting and then after enough repetitions to notice a trend I stopped paying ever. Until I met my wife when she insisted on splitting and then I figured I’d probably see her again so I secretly paid while she was in the washroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:45 AM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:38 PM
8

It’s bizarre because every date I ever went on where I paid I never saw her again. When I split the bill she seemed grumpy about it but then she’d want to go out again. People don’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:48 PM
1

The Madonna/Whore complex is real, it’s just that we want Madonna and Whore qualities in different women for different purposes. We want to marry and have children with and put all our resources into a Madonna to best provide for the children we know are ours. We want to have fun little flings with “whores” whom we don’t invest in because they’re promiscuous and it’s anybody’s guess who the father of her children are so best have your fun with her but then keep your distance. Whether or not you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:26 PM
21

It’s also a matter of who’s left in the dating pool. The high value men often are married or in a relationship by that time while the women who hooked up with attractive narcissists in their 20s are finally wising up and realizing those men are trash. That leaves the average to high value but aging women to have to actually go after men from their proper “level” instead of trying to turn sex with a super high value man into a relationship with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:12 PM
3

Jesus. I had a wall of text and now it’s gone. Basically if the YouTube lectures before 12 Rules were the 8-part novel series the author took decades to write, 12 Rules is the shitty Hollywood 2-hour movie adaptation. It’s also more about before 12 Rules he was running his own show as a university professor mired in some controversy explaining his concerns while post-12-Rules Peterson is a man with a publicist whispering in his ear on attracting attention and selling more books. It’s like those …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:22 PM
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This. Also basically anything he did before he became famous and started pushing 12 Rules for Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:50 PM
1

I didn’t. It was in my Google News feed maybe two weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:46 PM
-1

I recently saw a stat that 60% of the seats in American universities are occupied by the children of the top 1% of wealthy families so it’s not like this is going to have much of an impact on the people who matter, that being the 99%. Rich trust fund babies won’t be able to find a highly educated trophy man to show on her arm to impress her trust fund bunny friends. Boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:50 AM
2

Nicely done!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:26 AM
1

10/10 great success
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:24 AM
10

Right? It would have been easy the entire time I was single to just go to a bar and find “somebody” willing to have sex with me. Would it be someone I was interested in? Probably not. Somebody I was attracted to? Maybe? Maybe not. I also was not interested in casual encounters, only women looking for serious long term. I can’t really sympathize with guys who want casual sex but then won’t have sex with a woman who’s a tiny bit overweight or has some other feature that’s “wrong” with her, like, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:29 PM
1

These are really good points. Which is why I support everyone dropping the hookup culture entirely and pursuing long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:10 AM
6

Have your filters and stick to them. Make sure you’re dating people on the same page. If you’re looking for a wife or husband only date people who are looking for a wife or husband. If you are looking for casual sex only date people who are looking for casual sex. Do not mix and match. Have your boundaries and stick to them. I made it clear I wasn’t going home with or hooking up with anyone on the first date and it helped me eliminate a lot of bad matches without having to go to coffee first. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:59 PM
1

Men don't have anywhere near as many photos of themselves the way women do. Males as an aggregate are less attention-seeking than females. When I made up my dating profile years ago a lot of photos of me were from group selfies taken by female friends that I had to crop her giant face out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:26 PM
3

Sex is real and does have consequences though, no matter how we feel about it or wish everything was socially constructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:24 PM
2

What does she actually think men "have come to expect" in relationships that she needs to "balance out"? Work a ton of hours, get no sleep, be complained at constantly, and no matter how much you do it's never enough? That's the norm: nagging and complaining. Where does she get off thinking men are all out getting all this fulfilling attention and praise from strange women while they're married? She must not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:18 PM
11

Hitting somebody to stop them from viciously hitting you after trying all other avenues of de-escalation in your personal set of resources isn’t abuse it’s self defence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:40 PM
2

The last paragraph of that article is the most delusional garbage I’ve read in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:16 PM
6

I met my wife through PoF but we both had good filters, like telling the person in chat that you don’t go home with anyone on the first date and see how they respond. I had one girl say that it was “creepy” and “sex negative” and started to lecture me so I blocked her dysfunctional attachment style ass. My wife would ask men on the first date if they were looking to get married or not and their answer would dictate whether there was a second date. Gotta have your filters. Know what you want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:11 PM
3

It doesn’t matter what the intention is behind the phrase it’s what it actually communicates to the receiver: you are worthless and easily replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:41 PM
4

There’s some bizarre kind of abuse going on behind whatever that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:52 AM
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Men love low body count women for relationships and high body count women for short term no strings sex. Come to think of it women look for the same things in men, “having fun” with high body count men until they’re “ready to settle down” and then try to find a low body count man to marry. We’re really not all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:51 AM
15

If your best girl friend constantly went out of her way unprompted to let you know “I don’t need you I can get other friends” how much longer would you want to be her friend? Imagine a parent telling their children every day “I don’t need you I can give you up any time I want” or an employer every day “I don’t need you, you can be replaced”. It’s abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:32 AM
3

A lot of us also get married when we're ready to have babies and that puts a damper on things since we're both too tired to get in the mood or have little ones in bed with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:52 AM
2

I was from 18-20 and kept waiting for her to be ready to “go all the way” (ie; protected PIV sex). Even though she was enthusiastic about manual and oral it still made for a bad sex life and ultimately was about 50% of the reason the relationship failed. So no. Never again would I have a sexless relationship unless it was one of those open relationships even though I don’t think those are healthy or sustainable long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:46 PM
1

What does your diet, sleep, and exercise routine look like currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:13 AM
1

It's okay skinny is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:36 AM
2

Everybody is just plain hotter in their teens and twenties and we should all just accept that. I was way hotter at ages 16-19 living at the gym across from my high school and working out 5-6 days a week, getting way more inappropriate attention from grown-ass women than I am at 38, a shift-working dad with 30% body fat, a receding hairline, and two young kids who never sleep. That's just part of being a living thing that ages and dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:14 AM
1

Women generally: Start being attractive sometime in their teens. Peak sometime in their late teens to late twenties. Start to decline sometime in their 30s, 40s, or 50s. The steepness of that decline depending heavily on lifestyle and genetics. Attracted to women. (Of course YMMV, for example an individual woman with a terribly unhealthy lifestyle in her teens/twenties then cleans up her life from alcohol, drugs, junk food, etc, in her early 30s and becomes a clean-eating yoga and pilates instru…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:04 AM
1

Yes, but only because I already have two kids of my own and if God forbid I end up single again I would be a hypocrite not to leave that door open and selfish for expecting a stepmom kind of commitment from a single woman with no kids. When I was single with no kids the answer was a solid NO since I wanted to have my own family with my own kids without the baggage of a third parent in the relationship and taking responsibility for somebody else’s kid(s). Kids take up ALL of one’s time and energy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:02 PM
1

That’s not overcoming weakness that’s processing your fear and anxiety in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:00 AM
3

Huh. The top 5 kinds of men women are attracted to are narcissistic abusers. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:19 AM
15

This. Everyone thinks everything was like the 1950s for centuries before the 1950s when really it was this strange reactionary blip in our history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:07 PM
1

Most people would not be able to afford it and will continue to have babies the normal way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:04 PM
2

Trying to solve why I was always the good friend who would make some girl happy some day while the girls who were saying it were always dating abusive assholes who anyone with two eyes and any sense of intuition could tell didn’t actually care about them and were just using them for sex. Turns out concepts like the friend zone and being too nice are real, and if you’re too nice by nature you get punished for that. The only place that would actually help is the manosphere/redpill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:36 PM
1

Just because some guy makes it the title of a post doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:59 AM
2

a handful of potential partners Somehow reads as: the only other boy their age Not to mention girls have the advantage of being able to choose from a wide range of ages for their partners while boys are generally restricted to their own age and younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:10 AM
9

Just take a break from porn until soft-core with just one model lounging erotically is hot again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:17 PM
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I’ve never thought about doing it with a panther before but now I’m intrigued. opens incognito window
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:36 AM
161

What if I told you... there's porn without any men in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:04 AM
25

It's true. The more natural route is you grow up in a small community of hunter-gatherer-gardeners and sometime in your adolescent years find a handful of potential partners you have a strong mutual affection for and then when you're old enough the community recognizes a pair of you as a couple and performs some ritual to make it "official" in the eyes of the community. You literally grow up together and know each other in detail before deciding to pair up to start a family together. You grow up…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:10 AM
2

I’d Leonardo DiCaprio my way through that situation, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:12 AM
3

If a guy is looking for a good long term partner it would just turn his problem into the typical female’s problem of too many overly eager bad matches washing out the few and far between good ones and trying to discriminate between them based on very little information and few interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:27 AM
3

“Father, please!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:48 PM
1

This really goes both ways you can see a mediocre looking girl out at the swimming pool but then she gets on the diving board and it turns out she spent her entire childhood in gymnastics class and she busts out some impressive complex diving move and suddenly you have a crush on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:50 PM
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finding the other partners interesting is key Honestly we need to make more of an effort to hammer into people’s heads from a young age that the primary factor they should be looking for in a partner is personality compatibility and not appearance. Appearance is important but it should not be the primary driving factor when looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:47 PM
3

That’s how it should be it’s just I’ve also overheard conversations between young guys with seemingly no idea that they are 4s and 5s ripping on girls who are 6s and 7s as if they are 2s or 3s. Maybe they’re the male equivalent of the girls on dating sites who look like a sack of potatoes in a dress with “don’t message me unless you make six figures and are at least six feet” in their headlines. Maybe it’s “reject them first to cope with knowing that they’ll always reject you”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:08 PM
1

Porn was certainly a much safer way to satisfy those biological urges without opening up and getting hurt again, and again, and again, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:04 PM
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As an older millennial (38M) I’m often shocked and confused by younger men’s bizarrely high standards of attractiveness especially when they are far from being “10/10s” themselves. I wonder if unlimited access to internet porn on-demand from the time they were preteens has warped their brains’ idea of an acceptable mate at the neurological level. When I went back to college in my early 30s pretty much 80% of the women there were attractive to me and the guys are talking amongst themselves rippin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:57 AM
1

She was overall unattractive but we were room mates at the time and got comfortable with each other and then a few months in one friendly platonic back rub later and suddenly we’re naked with our pubic bones pressing on each other like two bucks in rut locking antlers over a doe in heat. When you’re really in the heat of it what do looks matter anyway? It’s more about the smell and feel and the feeling of your partner pressing back against you and lusting back at you. She could be a 3/10 but if …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:19 PM
4

This. The older I get the more anybody under 25 is still basically a child to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:55 PM
1

Age Appropriate = ( 20 years old / 2 ) + 7 = 17 years, making 16 and 20 only one year outside of the unofficial universal appropriate age equation. AA = (45 years / 2 ) + 7 = 29.5 years, almost a decade outside of acceptability. Also I do not like the way the question is worded as it frames the scenario as the older partner doing something "to" the younger partner as opposed to "a 16 and 20 year old having sex vs a 20 and 45 year old having sex". Not knowing any other details about the people in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:40 PM
1

Make it $50,000 isn't that the median US income anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:30 AM
3

Wow, no emotional attachment until after they've had sex? That sounds like garbage. I guess they've never fallen in love with a friend, never fallen in love as a preteen, nor ever had a crush in their entire lives. It sounds like an attachment problem, a them problem, that they need to work out with a qualified therapist. The number of women I've felt an emotional attachment to dwarfs the number of women I've actually had sex with. Those guys are full of it. It's just a line to try to get women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:49 PM
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I don't like to use the number system (because a 10 with a terrible personality is a 1) but yes. I also see that attitude in a lot of the red pill and incel forums because when you finally see a picture often the guy isn't even bad looking but in his comments he's discounting nearly all normal looking women thinking he deserves to date a Hollywood movie star in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:59 PM
2

They understood that they're just a normal average person and they expected to marry a normal average person based first and foremost on personality compatibility, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:08 PM
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Honestly the geeky "unattractive" girls from my high school who were in drama club and obsessed with Sailor Moon had no problem finding husbands by their mid-twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:21 AM
3

Haha. No.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 02:06 AM
3

This is an incredibly important counter talking-point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/21 05:19 AM
4

The working class is not privileged no matter their sex or skin colour. The primary privilege in life is familial wealth. All other privileges tie for a far distant second place. It is better to be a black lesbian with a multi-million dollar trust fund than a working class heterosexual white man. Mainstream “liberals” and social justice fanatics don’t want to admit this because they are usually the ones with trust funds being sent to university on mommy and daddy’s dime. And if they don’t have a…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 01:58 PM
5

Well dang nabbit where in ‘tarnation is this phrase from?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/21 07:12 PM
1

I say all of the above.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/21 03:40 PM
22

I’ve always thought the “boys will be boys = rape” thing was some kind of bizarre southern USA cultural thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/21 03:05 PM
4

Legalization and regulation?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/21 12:37 AM
15

This. It would take some googling but the survey I read years ago showed that: 4% of men commit one or more rapes 2% of those men only commit one or two The remaining 2% are super-offenders who commit between 8 and 50+ rapes. For them rape is a lifestyle. There’s also evidence from untested rape kits that nearly all rapes are committed by a small number of super-offenders. Even sexual assault has a Pareto distribution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 01:35 AM
7

And the ones that do are excommunicated from the sisterhood, like Cassie Jaye for daring to make a fair minded inquiry into the men’s rights movement with The Red Pill (2016). She was already a pariah before the film was even made.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 09:36 PM
2

Zing!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/21 07:35 PM
2

It’s like a real life Uno reverse card.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/21 06:10 PM
5

It’s basically “if you have a majority/dominant intersection of any kind shut up about your problems you are the enemy” 🙄
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/21 07:03 PM
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In the “intersection” of intersectionality, class gets ignored when in reality it’s a fifty-lane freeway that dominates every other road at the intersection.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/21 03:53 AM
1

I’m 37 and in my lifetime the tone of mainstream discussion on gender issues has shifted considerably. When I was 20 transgender people basically didn’t even exist and there was no such thing as “men’s issues”. Change takes decades to centuries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/21 02:58 AM
3

Patience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/21 12:45 PM
1

The same advice I’d give any other man. On any metric women are judging you by, search for women who are equal to or lower than you on those metrics. Whatever level of education he achieves, date the same or below. So if he gets a masters, date masters or lower. Whatever he makes per year, try dating someone who makes the same or less. In terms of height look for women shorter than him. If he’s 5’ 6”, date women 5’ 4” or less. He’ll likely have to date outside his ethnicity to keep his options o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:52 AM
3

Literally every normal heterosexual man with normal sexuality would, given the opportunity. It’s just not polite to say out loud.
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 02:04 PM
1

17, almost 18, and 22 is just normal young people behaviour.
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 02:01 PM
2

Walking alone at night is a great way to end up stabbed by druggies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/21 02:20 PM
25

Judging by events over the last several years culminating in the storming of the Capitol, the first wave of those boys have already grown up and are already acting on it.
/r/MensRights15/01/21 02:45 PM
18

Yep. I would immediately assume she’s about to take me to a second location where I’m going to get robbed and stabbed by her accomplices.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/20 05:11 PM
3

That’s odd. My very female ex-girlfriend did all of these things.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen23/12/20 03:51 PM
4

I had some results putting something like “I’m not messaging anyone first. Message me if you’re interested,” and I got a few “why aren’t you messaging anyone?” openers a month. It was way better than the complete nothing I got before. Six years later I’m married with a kid so it worked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/20 01:15 PM
1

Almost as if workers in a union environment are significantly less likely to be abused.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 05:29 PM
12

This kind of hate has been going on in online feminist spaces since the 1990s. I think it’s the influence of Critical Theory on the left and the rabbit hole of ever increasing standards of purity it inevitably leads to. No matter how much you try to address any given problem there’s always another level of escalation past that solution, making your solution now part of the problem because it doesn’t automatically support that new more extreme position. Fight the patriarchy? Ok cool. No wait, now…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 12:29 PM
2

It sounds like she was mentally ill and intoxicated. Please consider that may be the bigger factor in her behaviour and instead of her association with BLM.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/20 07:09 PM
5

I am very sorry that this happened to you and wish you the best in your recovery, physically and emotionally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/20 07:06 PM
6

Those women..... they all legitimately looked good in cargo shorts. I don’t understand the hesitation.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 01:36 PM
1

It is literally a textbook example of competition within a species. In this particular case sexual competition and/or competition for hierarchical status.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/07/20 03:01 PM
6

So do chimpanzee females also gang up and bully other chimpanzee females because of the patriarchy too, or...?
/r/MensRights09/07/20 08:56 PM
30

They are given a free pass instead of held accountable like adults.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 09:32 PM
1

But when 2/3 to 3/4 of the bill for their education is paid for by tax payers depending what country you live in, it's a bad public policy investment to be artificially boosting the numbers of women with all these incentives, bursaries, scholarships, and other programs when a good portion of them only work part time or drop out to have kids. Better to just have a level playing field, assistance programs completely blind to sex, and let people choose programs based on the kind of life they want t…
/r/MensRights07/05/19 03:01 PM
1

Right? Why are doctors doing shit like back to back 24 hour shifts? I'd rather see them restricted to 12 hours and employ two well rested and alert doctors instead of one worn TF out doctor living in hell and making deadly mistakes.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 02:50 PM
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My family doctor wants to retire and sell his practice to one of his employees, but his staff is entirely female doctors and not a single one of them wants to inherit the practice from him. They all want to work less than full time and take a ton of time off for babies. None of them want the responsibility of running the practice. He's stuck.
/r/MensRights05/05/19 11:56 PM
3

They're instinctively disgusted and turned off by men who are too high on agreeableness. Men high on agreeableness are also usually very nice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:49 AM
9

>Why not save 500k and spend the rest of my life paying $0 of tax and travelling perpetually? ​ That's actually a really good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 06:29 PM
14

Just like my ex wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:29 PM
8

When she's been at work all day, don't expect her to help with anything around the house. If you've been at work all day, even a 12 hour shift with 2 hours commute time, expect to have a pile of house work to "help" with before you even have one foot in the door because you don't "contribute enough" around the house. Men's work is seen as a given that just happens magically without any stress or effort. The money you make just magically appears in the bank account and you are seen as contributin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 05:38 PM
2

No, definitely not all, but it's a very good start. In terms of the 80/20 rule getting yourself to those physical guidelines versus being a sedentary blob are the 80 of results coming from only 20 percent of the effort that it takes to get a Hollywood actor or physique competitor's body. Instead of wasting that other 80% time and energy that it takes to get to an elite level physically, spend that time on other aspects of one's character as per Red Pill advice, PUA, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 02:20 PM
2

From what I've gathered over the years the research says that women are attracted to men with a 0.9 waist to hip ratio when it comes to leanness, and as great as possible a shoulder width to waist ratio with no upper limit when it comes to buffness. Pecs, arms, and back of course should have some proportion to those delts as women say in surveys they like chests and arms on men. Other than that be taller than her. Make the same or more money than her. Be reasonably emotionally secure. Be mentall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 07:05 PM
1

+/u/User_Simulator ElbowStrike
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:39 AM
1

+u/User_Simulator Elbowstrike
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:33 AM
2

She'll do anything you want for a bottle of rum!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:33 PM
13

Indeed. If you're bisexual and regularly make loud comments about attractive women outside your truck window in the crew cab, don't turn around and report your coworker for making you feel uncomfortable for making comments about attractive women (not you) outside of his window in the crew cab. You set the standard that this sort of thing was "ok" in your books. Don't just change the rules one day because you're in a mood.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 10:41 AM
2

I think it's best to assume a conservative number like one in ten. In prospecting for personal training clients the rule was you need to talk to ten gym members to book a consultation, do ten consultations to get a short term client, ten short term clients to get a long term client, and ten long term clients to have a comfortable 30-40 hour a week schedule with a good income. Then we'd go out and play the "no" game where the intention was to talk to as many gym members as possible to sign up for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:13 PM
1

How did I go all these years on Reddit and not know what an auto mod is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 04:18 AM
3

You can treat women differently from men without coddling them. For example, if your male friend is attempting some task in a game at a party, like darts or whatever, and before he throws you might say, "you f***ing suck!" as a friendly jab. You can just refrain from doing the same with a female friend. You don't have to coddle her and say, "you can do it, we believe in you!" in cringe-worthy after school special fashion. You can just say nothing at all. If you have a male coworker who you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:37 PM
1

Well damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:29 PM
1

It's almost like text is a terrible way to communicate. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:29 PM
1

A huge problem with this is defining "Red Pill". Ten years ago, following something like David DeAngelo's "Deep Inner Game", Dr. Paul's "MindOS", David Deida's "Superior Man" would be great advice and today falls under the broad category of "Red Pill" or "Manosphere". The problem is so do all of the extremely unhealthy attitudes that come along from the PUA, MGTOW, Incel, traditionalist, and radical/reactionary MRA camps. So I can agree insomuch as the positive elements of TRP encourage men to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:27 PM
1

> Welcome to PPD, read the rules. You were very clearly not very nice first. My responses were neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:05 PM
1

All I see is "Top-level comments to CMV posts must challenge the OP's view", nothing about all comments must challenge OP's view. Click on "8. Responses to CMV/Q4X Posts Should be Appropriate". That's all they say. If all comments must challenge OP's view then someone should make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 05:01 PM
1

I hope you find happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 04:16 PM
1

I did. They're right there on the side-bar. I broke none of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 03:58 PM
1

32 years following my mother's and female friends' advice? Chronically dumped and heart broken, verbally/emotionally abused, anxious, depressed, life without purpose. 3 years following RP advice? Married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 02:32 PM
2

Headline: Millennials Are Ruining Divorce!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 04:20 PM
9

Girls and women are literally selecting FOR the guys who are most likely to abuse and assault them. It's such terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 11:47 PM
0

Why are women more violent in relationships? Because everybody lets them get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:18 PM
1

The audiobook is out on audible now and after watching the lecture series twice already I think I get so much more out if the book than someone who's never been exposed to the material before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 03:43 PM
2

People need to stop reading hit pieces about him and go straight to the source: the Maps of Meaning lecture series. It's a third and fourth year level psychology course and it's on there for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 12:11 AM
1

There's this professor that's obsessed with lobsters that has these 12 Rules for Life that might help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 10:42 PM
5

TRP is a great description of women with B-cluster personality disorders and otherwise emotionally immature women. Basically teenagers, women in their early twenties, and women who've never had to deal with real life shit yet to smack the puppy out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 02:12 AM
2

The women have stopped acting like little girls with all the time in the world and have actually serioused the fuck up. The power level has evened out. We're on the same level instead of the women having all of the approval power. Also I can't stand any women under the age of 25. They annoy the shit out of me with their teenage girl level thoughts, opinions, and concerns. Or rather this should all be in the past tense because I found someone equally as pissed off about people just dating and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 01:00 PM
3

If he's unattractive everything he does will be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:07 AM
2

I don't know about anyone else, but when I used Tinder I just swiped right on everybody and just sorted through my matches from there. Why waste any time judging a profile when she hasn't already swiped right on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 03:43 PM
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I love each and every "lived experience" of butch lesbian radical feminists who undergo testosterone therapy to transition only to discover it's all lies. There is no pot of patriarchal gold at the end of that male privilege rainbow. It's all lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 11:34 PM
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To the author: welcome to "male privilege" sir. It's just like becoming a genie at the end of Aladdin. You get the perks of being a genie but everything that comes with it. Phenomenal cosmic powers... Itty bitty living space. Marginally more power over women in a select few situations in exchange for zero empathy from others and no inherent value as a human being. Completely expendable and replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:30 PM
1

That's more like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:17 AM
1

Give up and wallow in despair forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 12:28 AM
1

Yep. That's pretty much all the relationship training I got in my secular household, too. Several years of work to undo all that toxic brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 12:48 AM
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Always keep in mind in these ____-pill discussions that the majority of people who have a healthy relationship with the opposite sex generally check out and have better things to do with their life. Just like feminism. Healthy functioning women with healthy relationships with men are off doing healthy woman things and enjoying life. The women who frequent women's issues forums are going to be suffering from women's issues. The men who frequent men's issues forums are going to be generally suffer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:37 PM
0

Great respect. That's one thing missing from many men's education, that we're supposed to stand up to the woman in our life. The one person we're trained and conditioned from birth to never upset. She's going to be our biggest enemy if we don't stand up to her and correct her when she crosses the line. If you have to all out fight with her every other day then she's not the right one and is probably a narcissist or borderline disorder case. But a mentally healthy woman you only have to conflict …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:34 PM
2

Maybe it does, but I presume it would be outweighed by the opportunities of a wife bringing home sex friends that she won't be jealous of if he had sex with them, too. Male friend in my real world example did seem a bit uncomfortable with it when it was still only girls being brought in. I'd have to ask him but that's a hell of a personal question to Facebook message him with out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:00 PM
2

Because a man's mate's female lovers don't get her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:51 PM
3

bows Thank you, thank you, my mother was a sociology major before critical theory was a thing. My siblings and I were raised to have a sane and science based understanding of the world. I cannot take credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:49 PM
2

I'm getting married next month, at 35, but not for lack of trying. A few of my exes just realized, after three years together, that they never wanted to get married. Like... Well thanks for only wasting three years of my life? Those ones still aren't married so it's not like they were giving me a line. They're always single or in a new 6-12 month relationship with a new guy. I can't imagine that life. But yes if I'd married any of them young I would have probably wound up divorcing them young. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:47 PM
1

Absolutely, 100%, without a doubt yes. When you do find that rare woman who takes responsibility for her actions you lock her down for the long term. That's true character because all of the rest of society will never hold her accountable for her decisions, she does it deliberately all by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:23 PM
3

I've just sat down for coffee with so many women, even in their 30s, and they're like, "I just want to have some fun and see what's out there. I don't any to get into anything serious," and I'm thinking, "You. Are. Thirty... Okay how long do I have to sit here until it's not totally weird to leave." Here I am this crazy person I started looking for a future wife since seventh grade. I didn't date anyone if I didn't see it was going to go anywhere. I've watched so many peers smashing themselves o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:19 PM
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My parents got together in high school and have been married for over 42 years. Whatever combination of genetics and upbringing leaves me feeling like the entire dating and hookup scene has lost their minds and it's indescribably obvious how a dating scene based primarily on finding a long term partner would be much better for most individuals and society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:38 PM
1

Good, that relieves you of any responsibility for the inconveniences of personal development. I hate that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:08 PM
1

It sounds like you've just got it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:04 PM
1

Almost as if thousands of years of monogamous cultural tradition was there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:01 PM
1

Over the next month try to take note of all the people you see who are in relationships and pay attention to how fugly many of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:58 PM
1

Have you tried seducing fat and/or unattractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:26 PM
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I'm getting so sick of reading these posts by young guys ripping on how physically unattractive they are and how no women will ever want them. Look at photos of couples getting married on your Facebook feed and pay attention to how many full on fugly people are getting married and look genuinely happy in their photos. Fugly people get laid and find love all the damn time. Disabled people with missing limbs and malformations do the same. Stop assuming your looks are limiting you. Just keep runnin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:39 PM
1

The mix is that not all humans were nomadic, hunter gatherers or engaging in agricultural practices at the same time. Lots of people are still hunter gatherers today. Most aren't but some are. As well many native tribes engaged in pseudo-agricultural practices where they were aware that seeds made new plants and would make an effort to throw seeds around for food plants, but didn't engage in full time farming. I think it's safe to assume this could have been common practice throughout our histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:34 PM
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It's well illustrated by my friends who decided to open up their relationship because the female partner was bisexual and male partner obviously couldn't satisfy female partner's attraction to women so they opened it up to some female FWBs. A year later she's performing at a gig with some friends. Afterwards a little drugs and weed were had, and she wound up in bed with a male friend. Relationship was over immediately. Male partner was packed up and gone within days. Edit: This ties in with what…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:13 PM
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So far as I'm concerned everything makes the most sense through the lens of the last 40,000 years of mixed hunter-gatherer and agricultural society. A bisexual male partner is splitting away his attention, energy, and resources from her with another man. It's basically like cheating with another woman. If the relationship is in trouble, he may just leave and get his affection and sex from that other man. Just like another woman. A bisexual female partner opens up the door to bringing in new fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:00 PM
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I think the overweight and obesity epidemic massively skews the perceived attractiveness of most men. We come from a common ancestor with bonobos and chimpanzees who are not very discriminatory maters. We'd have to take data from countries where people aren't massively overweight in order to see if the Pareto distribution in females' attraction to males stays constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:02 PM
1

Yes. It will be a great disincentive for ill-intentioned girls and women to have happy little "accidents" where they "forget" to take their birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:48 PM
1

A lot of those prized immigrants we brag about bringing in here in Canada are from very traditional cultures with strong traditional values. We see how the kids from those families do way better in all aspects of life compared to the broken home native born kids and think maybe those traditional households were into something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:59 PM
1

Thanks! I just want people to have better relationships with their partners, no matter what sex they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 02:54 PM
2

Thanks for the tip. But yes eventually I did learn (or more specifically un-learn) what I needed to in order to be more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 04:37 AM
4

I'm 34 now so my awkward teenage years during the date rape scare and the 90s "girl power" phase are long over. I just wish the internet had offered things like TRP and PUA information back then. Maybe it did but teenage me didn't stumble across them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 03:21 AM
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Be "nice", be friends first, listen and be there, be completely non-sexual (women are fragile, don't you know) and non-threatening, openly share your feelings and struggles. I'd have to actually sit down and brainstorm from there. Basically "mom" advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 02:32 AM
1

^ This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 07:29 PM
2

The rule in our relationship is that we can't demand that the other one be or do something that we are/do not. I can't demand that she lose more weight when my weight loss has stalled due to my falling off the wagon. She can't demand that I have abs when she doesn't. So unless she is eating better and eliminating snacks and sugars, she can't demand that I do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:48 PM
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I'm highly suspect of people who self identify with group labels, so no. There's a world of difference between "I agree with a lot of what feminism/redpill says, but..." and "I AM a feminist/RedPilled."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:45 PM
2

Income tax credits only apply to the custodial parent unless the couple is married then they get double the credits, one per parent. Student loan forgiveness for getting married. Student loan forgiveness for the birth mother of x amount per child, unless married then both mother and father get the same amount of forgiveness. No mandatory court ordered child support unless it's part of a divorce. No single ladies trapping men with happy little accidents. No spousal support after divorce no matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:54 PM
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Simple things like resisting the urge to text back right away no matter how much you want to, not freaking out when she doesn't text back for a few days when you've only been seeing each other a few weeks, not showing vulnerability, recognizing shit tests, simple things your mother never warns you about but should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:49 PM
7

A little bit of red pill is useful when you're genuinely confused as to why you seem to be doing everything "right" and yet women just aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 03:39 PM
1

Of course I like being purple pilled. The "blue pill" conventional wisdom taught me to be a wet noodle who is really in touch with his emotions, infinitely patient, infinitely compassionate and understanding, a really great "friend" who lacks any shred of so-called "toxic masculinity". Then there's "red pill" ideas and practices which helped me to overcome severe depression and anxiety, start getting laid and having girlfriends who weren't abusive and/or radfems, and in a few weeks I'm getting m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:34 PM
1

A thousand years of the people who don't see men as the more disposable sex out-reproducing the people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:18 AM
2

Gynocentrism in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:49 PM
5

Oh, okay, cool, by their rules I guess this means after I get married I can take up smoking, drinking, some drugs, and a gambling habit that constantly puts us under financial strain and she just has to deal with it "because monogamy"? Reddit's reasoning sometimes, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:59 PM
8

Why does every one of your responses finish with "do you understand the science"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:49 AM
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Me too. At first anyway. By the description it sounds like 30 seconds into the BJ she said "fuck it", changed her mind, and climbed on top of him.
/r/seduction02/12/16 02:15 PM
5

Morning sickness doesn't start that quickly. Relax. If she's pregnant it's not yours.
/r/seduction17/01/16 05:01 PM
9

I'm really starting to see the benefits of never getting married.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 01:29 AM
2

Signed!
/r/MensRights20/05/15 12:55 AM
9

I'm pretty sure her overall size and strength matters very little to the effect of her teeth on the flesh of his thumb. Regardless, she was attacking another woman with a closed fist when the boxer, who had not seconds before just had his thumb bitten into, threw only two punches. I'd even forgive him if he'd lost control and thrown a flurry of punches knocking her unconscious. Two punches is great control given the circumstances (suddenly attacked, bitten thumb, and your loved one being vicious…
/r/MensRights20/05/15 12:46 AM
6

The only person in this interaction who deserves sentencing is the ex-girlfriend.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 12:41 AM
2

I'm saving judgement until I actually see it.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 01:23 AM
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Excellent. It looks like we're changing the narrative towards true equality. Keep up the good work everyone.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 08:49 PM
7

Sounds like it worked out well. I don't know how to help you with the douchebag but he's definitely the kind of guy you hear about getting stabbed at the bar. He'll get his.
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:19 AM
1

Hopefully the NDP win here in Alberta with the Wild Rose and PC splitting the right wing vote. Then all the angry right wingers will suddenly understand why the current system is garbage and start demanding change.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 04:12 PM
0

Gross. Yeah the Conservatives do snag 1/3 of the popular vote (and get more than 1/2 the seats thanks to the shit-tastic FPTP system) and if you look at the election map it's almost exclusively those "God fearing" rural folk who don't like things like scientists and edumacation.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 04:01 PM
3

Oh, rural Alberta. So creepy and quaint.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 03:43 PM
11

Actually, yes...
/r/MensRights15/04/15 03:36 PM
5

"Awarded"...
/r/MensRights13/04/15 11:55 AM
1

Plus plus: if you end up with the fat girl, still had sex.
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:39 PM
1

Reed College: not even once.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 11:14 PM
8

The current state of academia and its embracing of the social justice cult is thoroughly disgusting.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 09:16 PM
0

I think there is some discrimination against men in nursing, but if you want to be a nurse it's not going to be significant enough to stop you. The only legitimate reason for these gender differences in work is that, yes, biology and neurology are real and the differences between the sexes are significant. Men are more interested in working with 'things' and women are more interested in working with people.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 03:27 PM
3

It's difficult because the common perception is that they all get "free money and benefits" from the government, yet I've known natives whose treaty only gets them free dental hygiene appointments and tax free cigarettes. When she went back to visit the reserve from her childhood, a lot of her childhood friends didn't even know what a university was. She had to explain it to them. There's also a cultural problem with negative attitudes towards education. I've been in social circles with several …
/r/MensRights01/03/15 05:09 PM
5

So there aren't any women complaining about their male partners in /twoXchromosomes?
/r/MensRights01/03/15 02:26 AM
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