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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction25/07/26 11:40 AM
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Wow, lot of comments dogpiling here. READ THIS: 1) The mods here are not "anti-pickup". We're here for the love of the game, and to make sure knowledge gets spread in a healthy and safe way. 2) A lot of comments here complain that mods allow tons of posts that are against the rules while removing posts that have good information. This is pretty obviously not accurate. I don't think most of you realize just how many posts and comments come through this sub every day. It's a lot. When I open reddi…
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:30 PM
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Well, when they brought me onto the mod team, that's one of the things I wanted to help with and I've been trying to remove it where I can. FYI, someone reported your comment for not being civil, lol. Fair point, considering you called us "incel cunts".
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:03 PM
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I'm gonna go ahead and sort of ... disagree with you there. Some incel posted in here once that he was going to do a school shooting. I reported it immediately and others did as well. The FBI called me directly to ask about it. I don't know if they reached out to actual reddit employees or what, but even after that call i could see the post if I went and looked for it (I removed it, so non-mods wouldn't see it). But yeah, I really don't think there's an automated removal of posts happening to st…
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:44 PM
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Yeah, so, to your points: I'm not anti pickup. I help guys irl learn things about it all the time from my unique experience over the years. If someone posts "men are brutes...", report it. I'll remove it. If someone breaks rule #1, REPORT IT. This sub gets way more posts in a day than you probably realize, but very few of the posts or the comments on them which break rules get reports. Reports literally put a notification on my phone, even if I'm not in reddit. I can't speak for other mods but i…
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:41 PM
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You're not blacklisted.
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:35 PM
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You have to report posts or comments like that. This is a pretty large sub. Even if all the mods were scrolling it every day we wouldn't see all the posts or comments. Please report anything that breaks rules and we get a notification about it.
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:35 PM
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I'd love to see an example of this instead of hearsay. Every post that I remove has a message sent directly to the poster telling them why it was removed.
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:29 PM
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Which mod is that?
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:25 PM
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Report them. Help make useless posts more visible to us and then we can do something about it.
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:25 PM
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You can think a post is good and it can still be breaking the rules...
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:24 PM
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There are LOTS of posts every single day and we can't possibly see them all just by scrolling the sub for hours. And honestly, who even has time to do that. If you see posts that are off topic, report them. That's how we see most posts that need to be removed. We check all the reports. Try to help us out instead of just complaining about it in a post reply
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:23 PM
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COLD APPROACH IS NOT SEDUCTION
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:31 PM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:09 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:08 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction16/06/26 04:33 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:52 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:24 PM
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Holy shit, these are some of the biggest lies and worst advice I've ever seen posted here. Nobody should do any of these things, and a 22 year old doing these things has NOT been with 150 girls. This is so bad it's hilarious and I'm leaving it up for reference.
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:01 AM
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Please just report these posts.
/r/seduction30/12/25 11:16 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction29/12/25 07:06 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction08/12/25 03:08 PM
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Just report posts that break the rules so we can remove them faster
/r/seduction02/12/25 03:00 AM
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On the contrary... cold approach is off topic for this sub and I remove posts about it all the time. Seduction is warm approach at a minimum. If you're doing cold approach, you're not seducing.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:24 PM
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If you were a hot dog, would you eat yourself?
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:36 AM
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Y'all gotta report this shit so we see it faster
/r/seduction21/11/25 04:16 AM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:31 AM
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Funny how your two guesses for why your results are so bad focus on it being the women at fault somehow. And not at all the fact that you're 40 on a college campus you don't even go to.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:58 AM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction03/11/25 07:25 PM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:23 PM
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Did you miss the part where he's 19? Lol
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:23 PM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:23 PM
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THE ANSWER IS FUCKIN NO
/r/seduction27/10/25 06:34 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/10/25 07:50 PM
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I did notice the em dashes but I was curious about the other stuff. Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction17/10/25 08:37 PM
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How can you tell?
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:15 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction03/10/25 01:12 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:35 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:35 PM
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Communicate with body language more than words
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:32 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:13 AM
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They very rarely fuck customers at all. Same as other girls who are hired for their looks like bartenders, etc. It's a whole different challenge in pick up vs random girls out in town like at the grocery store or something. The guys the do fuck usually have pretty solid game or they are just very physically attractive (one of the few places this truly matters). Most of them have boyfriends they met somewhere else who are overly jealous and hate their job. Some have husbands. The smarter ones won…
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:33 PM
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You need to learn to spot trolls better.
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:08 AM
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I was a bouncer in 3 strip clubs in 2 different states. What you wanna know?
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:30 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:30 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:30 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:29 AM
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There's a word for that. It's called a girlfriend.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:41 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction16/08/25 12:24 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction16/08/25 12:24 AM
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Save some pussy for the rest of us
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:54 PM
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I cold approached Well, there's your problem right there. You're in the wrong sub. This is r/seduction. It's the art of warm approach. I don't know if there is a r/randomlytalktostrangerswithnogameplanorunderstandingofsocialdynamics
/r/seduction18/07/25 08:22 AM
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Be flirty
/r/seduction18/07/25 07:07 AM
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Keep that up until you have no anxiety about approaching strangers. If you continue a conversation beyond a greeting or compliment, be flirty. The very nanosecond the girl is not interested in talking to you, walk away. Do not try to push it. Do not try to convince them to give you a chance. Walk away.
/r/seduction18/07/25 01:40 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction17/07/25 11:26 PM
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THIS. Still removing for being off topic though
/r/seduction17/07/25 11:25 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:32 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:31 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:28 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:24 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:23 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:22 PM
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Using body language to communicate my interest, whether true or false. Secret weapon
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:17 PM
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This sub is specifically for everything BEFORE sex. This post is wildly off topic
/r/seduction04/05/25 08:33 AM
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Because something in it gets caught by the automod filter. We can't see what that is when it happens
/r/seduction22/04/25 03:34 AM
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I agree with you, though... if they aren't giving specific examples, they aren't very helpful. So they're basically off topic
/r/seduction22/04/25 01:13 AM
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You're not. Your posts break the rules
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:37 AM
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Both of your recent posts were removed because they break rule #1
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:36 AM
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Stop tagging me. Once works enough.
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:32 AM
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Just report them for being off-topic. There's too many posts for us to see every single one. I agree with you. Posts here need to give specific advice or ask for specific advice. WAY too many people are breaking rule #1. I remove multiple posts per day because people don't read the rules. More people need to report posts to help us clear out the rule breakers.
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:32 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction28/03/25 02:32 PM
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I think she might have been a racist
/r/seduction18/03/25 09:18 AM
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Changes in style? I started wearing suits to casually go out. That helps a lot. Suits are basically lingerie for women. Especially if they fit just right. Spend the extra cash to get them tailored to your body. The biggest thing that worked wonders from the book is body language. It's an incredible secret weapon that is unbelievably powerful. You often see posts in this sub where people are like, "There are no tricks that help you talk to women. It's up to your confidence and first impression, b…
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:55 PM
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I was surrounded by women that for my entire life before that I thought were miles out of my league. This was years ago, so The Game was the main source of advice for guys trying to up their game. I started trying some of the things in the book, and it worked like you wouldn't believe. I gained an immense amount of confidence after getting with girls who were unbelievably hot, and I never would have even spoken to before working there. It also really opens your eyes on how shitty many, MANY men …
/r/seduction15/03/25 11:34 PM
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At most places, no. But the club i worked at hired lots of short guys. It wasn't really about fighting, and we tried to resolve most things with just a large presence of all the male staff. Simply telling people to leave was like 90% of the "bouncing".
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:27 AM
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I was a bouncer in a strip club which changed my life entirely, but being a bouncer anywhere works pretty well.
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:01 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction07/03/25 10:30 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction26/02/25 07:53 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:45 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:44 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:44 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction14/02/25 07:22 AM
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If a girl gets mad because of something you said, it's not a shit test. What you said WAS offensive, and you need way more experience at reading their emotions.
/r/seduction13/02/25 09:30 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:01 PM
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i walked up to her, started a conversation, and she was very open right away What did you specifically say? Don't gloss over the only details that will actually teach people something. ... Well, you can guess what happened next. You fixed her fucking cable? This sub isn't for bragging about having sex. It's for helping others with women and asking for help. Discuss the details of how you're getting to the end of the story or stop posting. You're so close to being banned. Seriously.
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:16 PM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:03 PM
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Yeah... I'm starting to agree with you on that.
/r/seduction07/02/25 03:35 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction07/02/25 03:31 PM
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The Ws.
/r/seduction28/01/25 05:42 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:20 PM
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OP, start by going to a chill place. Acknowledge your fear. Put it aside as you're not going there the first couple times to talk to women. You're just going to ease into being comfortable going out alone. Go in, have a drink, be friendly if people talk to you. Maybe watch a game or something. Get home safe. Now go back to THE SAME PLACE. Do this every weekend. You'll get comfortable doing this much faster than going to different places. The bartenders or waitstaff will start to recognize you, a…
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:58 AM
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Hey OP, the comment above is an excellent example of how to get thrown out and banned from an establishment. Do not say this shit if you're working on just going out alone for the first time.
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:54 AM
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Cold approach is not seduction. This post is off topic.
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:22 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:15 PM
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You should learn seduction. It's amazing. Cold approach is not seduction. You talked about the weather?? Jfc
/r/seduction12/01/25 10:30 PM
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What you say SETS the vibe
/r/seduction12/01/25 01:17 AM
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Bread is bad for ducks. Google other things to feed them. Otherwise, solid date idea
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:49 PM
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Women are not a monolith
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:26 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:14 PM
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That isn't something within our control
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:30 AM
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Use the report function on posts that break rules
/r/seduction02/01/25 01:11 AM
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It's not allowed. Use the report button. Your posts get removed because they are breaking the rules.
/r/seduction01/01/25 04:07 PM
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Ice skating. It's uncommon which they'll appreciate and if you live in a big enough city or somewhere where it's cold and hockey is common, some of the rinks will have a bar upstairs where you can people watch and drink afterwards
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:30 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction26/12/24 08:11 PM
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Buddy, just talk to women like a regular human being. You'll be surprised how much they appreciate that.
/r/seduction22/12/24 07:08 AM
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OP simply asked for more resources to meet women. Hopefully, people with experience doing so will help him understand how in the comments. I have removed posts solely about cold approach more times than I can count, so it gets tiring to write out the full explanation why. Sometimes, I simply don't have time to write it out as I'm at work or something. But in case you haven't seen it before, here goes: Cold approach isn't seduction, which makes it off topic. Seduction is about learning skills and…
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:13 PM
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Just another online dating resource. Only difference from tinder or bumble is that the women are far more direct about what they want. You still have to be able to close the deal, though.
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:34 PM
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They all have different names. Start typing your city name in the search and see what pops up. Large cities only.
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:10 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:45 AM
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Again... your initial statement said no. That is incorrect, as I've had more than one FWB from reddit subs, as per OPs question.
/r/seduction19/12/24 12:36 AM
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You are incorrect based on my personal experience.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:52 PM
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You are incorrect based on my personal experience.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:52 PM
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You are incorrect based on my personal experience.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:52 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. Your reply is incorrect based on my personal experience.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:51 PM
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I don't take dates to dinner. I make enough money that I don't care about paying for drinks.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:49 PM
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When the waiter asks, "one check or two?" You reply, "two". Good luck.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:44 PM
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will the population still be as socially inept as... My brother in christ, YOU are the one who is socially inept. You don't have to drink to go to parties. There are plenty of women who don't drink at parties. They are there to be social.
/r/seduction12/12/24 03:37 PM
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Cold approach is not seduction. You didn't even read the rules before posting, so we can all correctly assume you didn't read the FAQ or top posts for advice either...
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:26 PM
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This is why you should always get a 2nd opinion from doctors, kids. This guy is a fucking surgeon and couldn't be bothered to read LITERALLY THE FIRST RULE before posting.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:27 PM
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This is not a sexual advice subreddit. If you're having sex, you're beyond the topic of this subreddit.
/r/seduction15/11/24 06:59 PM
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It's very expensive and there's no parking anywhere. Also - car break-ins downtown are real bad. KINDA OFF TOPIC THOUGH, NO?
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:11 PM
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There's a lot of trash sources to get info from that get posted in this sub, and we allow most of it. But I'm not going to allow it to come from Ol Dan. He bankrupted a company because all he did was spend money trying to make himself look wealthy on social media. All the women around him are paid models. His company brought in an experienced CEO to get it on track and the CEO took a look around and was like FUCK THIS. The fucking CEO quit, lol. Not only did he quit, he had no issue telling ever…
/r/seduction05/11/24 08:13 PM
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I'm curious what religion teaches these things? The way to overcome it is very simply just to practice. Talk to women. Learn to be friendly and not weird. Learn social cues like when you should end a conversation and walk away. Practice, practice, practice. Eventually it will feel normal to you.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:10 PM
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There you go talking about evidence again without providing any
/r/seduction01/11/24 03:06 AM
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I was a bouncer for years in 3 different strip clubs in 2 different states. I'm not going to allow misogynist stereotypes to be perpetuated in this sub. It has nothing to do with me disagreeing. Also, don't say "it's data" without providing said data.
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:04 PM
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Don't stereotype strippers. The large majority are just average women making easy money.
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:33 AM
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Ice skating.
/r/seduction30/10/24 03:42 AM
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If you're relying on luck, you're bad at seduction.
/r/seduction26/10/24 08:17 PM
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Trollololololol
/r/seduction26/10/24 08:16 PM
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Yeah, man. That's not a skill. Cold approach is literally just walking up to people. To get numbers and dates requires more social skill than that. It's literally the point of this subreddit. Cold approach is NOT seduction
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:58 PM
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Tell me what skills are required to cold approach a woman
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:27 PM
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Have you tried learning seduction? It works really well compared to cold approach. You know, since cold approach requires literally no skills whatsoever.
/r/seduction26/10/24 05:22 PM
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Drive somewhere else?
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:45 AM
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It's fucking Instagram. Go talk to women in the real world
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:41 AM
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Wat. Yeah, you're gonna need to read the FAQ in this subreddit and several of the top posts, as well as recommended books before you post again. offer a handshake Just stop. Go spend time learning about the basics before you ask any questions.
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:02 AM
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That helps for sure, but they still associate the job with LEO. Especially if you carry a gun
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:34 PM
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Something nobody has mentioned yet that I've seen women talk about is that a lot of women consider security jobs to be on the same level as police. And they associate police with republican ideology, so it's a hard no for them. Find a way to talk about it that separates you from law enforcement. Don't talk about carrying a gun if you do. Emphasize the boring hours you spend on your phone, etc
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:01 PM
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No, but you should have read the rules before posting.
/r/seduction07/10/24 05:01 PM
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Women don't give a shit about dudes being "masculine"
/r/seduction04/10/24 11:14 PM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction03/10/24 04:28 AM
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Have you tried not breaking the rules?
/r/seduction02/10/24 11:28 PM
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Just use the report button, you don't have to tag me
/r/seduction02/10/24 01:57 PM
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JFC these answers are terrible so far. OP, warm approach is having a plan of things to say and where to steer the conversation based on possible replies that you think of ahead of time, before you start approach. Learn about neutral openers. You never want to appear as if you're talking to them specifically to get a number or ask them out. It's much less threatening, and generally, you'll get a warmer response. Based on the opener you plan to go with, try to think of common responses to it, and …
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:26 AM
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Wildly inaccurate
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:22 AM
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It's not gonna be the same for every girl. Ask questions about something they've indicated they're interested in, or their hobbies.
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:02 PM
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Grats on your new flair
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:12 PM
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Be confident in yourself and drink whatever you like. If you want to branch out, just try new things from time to time. If you order something that's complicated and takes the bartender some time to make, tip BIG. Especially if the bar is super busy. Remember, only have 2 or 3 if you're trying to game. If you get too drunk, you'll likely fail every time. NEVER drink and drive.
/r/seduction03/09/24 07:52 AM
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It isn't enough to just keep trying. You need to evaluate what's going wrong and make changes before trying again.
/r/seduction01/09/24 03:04 PM
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If you were a hot dog, would you eat yourself?
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:08 AM
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This is probably the best reference I've ever seen on reddit, lol.
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:44 AM
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Cool
/r/seduction29/08/24 11:54 PM
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Take off your suit jacket and roll up your shirt sleeves, showing off your perfectly sculpted forearm muscles.
/r/seduction15/08/24 05:06 PM
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I'm aware.
/r/seduction13/08/24 08:09 PM
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Hey OP, can you give us a breakdown of what it costs you to run it on the 4o? Some guys might be willing to pitch in so you can continue to improve it faster.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:23 AM
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Hints are absolutely terrible ways to communicate. Just be direct and say what you think or feel. You'll get the message across much, much faster, and then you don't have to keep dealing with the situation if the guy isn't much of a detective.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:20 AM
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Krieger, is that you?
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:10 AM
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Only at shitty ones. Don't go there.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:00 AM
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You don't have to spend anything beyond the door fee. It can be cheaper than most bars
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:45 PM
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"If you were a hot dog, would you eat yourself?"
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:08 PM
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Go to a very public area. A shopping center or busy park with walking trails. Say hi to everyone you walk past. Everyone. Women. Men. Old ladies. Groups of people. Say hi. And then here's the key: keep walking Say hello and keep moving past. Even if it's a really hot girl. You're not trying to start a conversation. You're simply greeting people and moving on. Set a goal before you start. 50 people. 100, maybe. Keep walking around until you hit your number. Eventually, you will get so used to gre…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:35 PM
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They aren't getting auto filtered. They are getting manually filtered. Stop breaking the fucking rules. READ THE RULES BEFORE YOU POST.
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:39 AM
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Cold approach is not seduction
/r/seduction01/08/24 03:06 PM
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Go to places that are generally social and practice conversing in ways that are not flirty. Get used to just being normal and not weird. Add flirting later as you get comfortable talking to strangers
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:13 AM
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I think you mean mods. And we have jobs and shit. There are a lot of messages. It takes a while.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:11 PM
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Cold approach is not seduction.
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:42 PM
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Cold approach is not seduction
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:38 PM
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It is. It covers the basics really well. People shit on it because it's old but the fundamentals never change.
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:07 PM
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There are subreddits in every city for meeting people. Some of them are explicitly for sexual stuff
/r/seduction20/07/24 05:15 PM
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You should learn seduction. It's really useful and provides good results. Cold approach is not seduction.
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:39 PM
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Plan what you're going to say and what kind of responses you might get. Then, come up with something to say to those responses. The better you plan, the better your results will be. The right banter can earn a girl's interest in you even if they aren't initially physically attracted. Cold approach relies entirely on your first impression, which is like 90% just what you look like. That's why it's garbage. It's a shitty numbers game. You approach 1000, you might land a few times. The entire point…
/r/seduction15/07/24 03:42 AM
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No, it's not. It's having prepared things to say ready to go, and having planned out what responses you might get and where to go from there.
/r/seduction15/07/24 03:25 AM
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Try warm approaches. Cold approaches don't have anything to do with seduction. They are just blindly shooting your shot.
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:24 AM
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u/Gov_Grov Read this reply to your comment. Every word of it is the reality that actually happened.
/r/seduction12/07/24 02:47 PM
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You just listed everywhere that you should make changes in your life.
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:16 PM
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I've been going out to day game Work on your game. Or maybe your appearance. Pay close attention to their reactions when you ask. Are they making subtle facial expressions? Are they looking you up and down before saying no? Find clues to what is making them say no so you know what to work on
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:40 PM
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Go search r/AskWomenNoCensor for this. You'll see comment after comment saying shirtless pics on dating profiles is an immediate no from them. The exception would be doing something active outdoors that requires being shirtless like water skiing or surfing, etc
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:24 PM
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Thanks. OP was banned for not having the slightest understanding of how to be respectful to other human beings, so I don't know if he saw your advice or not.
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:17 PM
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https://youtu.be/wBDg5F9jxp4?si=4yPfkV27ODQbR7KR
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:02 PM
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Sup, dawg?
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:04 PM
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none of them care about my career, hobbies, fitness, style, or anything I was told women look for. Sounds like you're a salesman trying to sell yourself, when in reality you need shut up and let the girl speak while you actively listen. Try to let them do all the talking.
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:34 PM
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"If you were a hotdog, would you eat yourself?"
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:04 AM
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I was about to ask this myself.
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:34 AM
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Best I can do is remove it for being a bunch of contradictory misinformation.
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:04 PM
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Once again - if you have prepared openers, it's NOT cold approach. Cold approach is off topic in this subreddit, as it involves zero preparation before approaching.
/r/seduction14/05/24 03:33 AM
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I disagree. I think this OP is confusing cold approach with direct approach. If you have prepared openers, it's no longer cold approach.
/r/seduction14/05/24 03:32 AM
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Read my sticky comment here for more clarification.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:26 PM
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Nobody is saying cold approach doesn't work. Seduction and game exists precisely to get around those "beauty standards" you mentioned. Many girls will still give guys a shot if you've got the right personality. But you aren't giving your personality a shot in a cold approach. You're giving them 10 seconds to look you up and down and make a judgemental call. Cold approach simply isn't seduction at all. It's just shooting random shots and playing a numbers game. Good luck.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:25 PM
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Please see my stickied comment here. You're making my point as well... "best openers" is no long cold approach. There's a difference between approaches and cold approaches, and if you want to learn game and seduction, it won't be using cold approaches.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:23 PM
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🤛 AcTUaLlY... we don't intentionally leave posts up for advice. There's just WAY too many to get to in a timely fashion. People in this sub are SUPER bad about reporting stuff that breaks the rules. Reports are the fastest way for us to see stuff breaking the rules, but they are rarely used. They are completely anonymous. I've seen reports that call out how a poster is breaking a specific rule while also attacking the way my mother chooses to make a living. And there's nothing we can do about th…
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:18 PM
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Took me like 9 minutes to remove all of it, too
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:17 PM
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I'm so glad you asked. Please see my stickied comment
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:16 PM
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Okay byyyyyyye For those curious as to why I would say "cold approach isn't seduction," allow me to elaborate: Cold approach is just walking up to girls and shooting your shot. It's not clever openers. It's not methods to be more subtle and get them more comfortable before you shoot your shot. It's just HEY I FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE AND WANNA TAKE YOU ON A DATE. The very moment that you plan ahead about what to say, or how to steer the conversation in your favor... it's now warm approach, and you're…
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:05 PM
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Cold approach is not seduction. Off topic
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:00 PM
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Lol, I would sticky this reply at the top if I wasn't about to delete the entire post.
/r/seduction13/05/24 11:52 AM
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OP specifically said audio. And while, yeah, it's weird, it's just some voices on a recording. So long as he's in a 1 party state, it's even legal. And while, again, I don't condone it, it's not as serious as you're making it out to be. Please calm down.
/r/seduction11/05/24 08:01 AM
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Stop defending him. Guys like that don't change. He only cares about himself and will always get in your way. Stop going out with him when girls are involved.
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:34 AM
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Late 20s at a minimum. You can't get a Burt Reynolds or Tom Selleck until at least 35.
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:57 PM
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All posts have a report option. It's in the 3-dot looking menu at the top. Reports help us see stuff like this much quicker. There's a TON of posts happening all the time. We simply can't filter it all. That's what reporting is for. Thanks for the heads up
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:55 PM
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Please read the rules and FAQ, especially before you make any posts
/r/seduction09/05/24 05:22 PM
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Gandhi was racist against black people. He basically said they are all lazy and wrote an article about it in 4 different languages.
/r/seduction09/05/24 05:14 PM
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If step 3 is normal for you, your conversation skills are lacking. And you aren't supposed to be talking that much. Texting is for setting up dates and getting together. You're 18, and you think you have a mustache and goatee. You don't. Unless you're the hairy-est kid on this side of the Atlantic Ocean, your facial hair is an absolute joke, and it makes people cringe. I'm sure you're proud of it, but it's not full facial hair yet, and it looks ridiculous. At best, it looks like you need to wipe…
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:54 AM
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this sub has gone to shit doesn't report the post or comments so we can help keep the sub a better place Come on man, do your part. This sub has way too many posts for us to catch them as soon as they pop up. Reports are how we see the bad content faster.
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:16 PM
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Si vous recherchez uniquement du sexe, dites-leur à quel âge vous ressemblez. Si vous voulez quelque chose à plus long terme, vous devez être honnête avec eux et espérer le meilleur. N'ayez pas honte de vous. S'ils n'aiment pas votre âge, passez au suivant.
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:02 PM
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Cold approach is not seduction.
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:23 AM
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I saw an actual scientific study done a few years ago where they determined that short stubble was more inclined to be viewed as a candidate for short term sex, and actual beards (even short ones) were more associated with long term relationship material. But keep in mind that all women have different opinions, and some just don't like facial hair at all.
/r/seduction23/04/24 08:26 PM
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They don't give a fuck. It's an immediate turnoff. You have to be attractive to them in all the normal ways first. If you bring up anything sexual too soon, your chances are zero. Let them learn that you love doing it once they've let you do it. You might actually get a call back after that
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:06 PM
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE GROUND
/r/seduction14/04/24 11:53 PM
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I'm not someone who's going to go out of their way and try to talk to someone. Then you're in the wrong subreddit. Get off your ass and make an effort; otherwise, stop complaining that nothing is happening.
/r/seduction13/04/24 06:58 AM
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Read the FAQ
/r/seduction05/04/24 08:56 PM
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I love you
/r/seduction28/03/24 04:50 AM
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It isn't talked about here because this sub is for everything leading up to sex. If you are having sex, congratulations, you are past the purpose of this sub.
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:48 AM
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Locking comments because this "no fap" and "stop watching porn" bullshit is wildly off topic. OP didn't once mention porn and everyone immediately suggests to stop watching porn. You can watch porn and slap your dick around until it can't stand up anymore and still approach women and get dates. Take that shit somewhere else.
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:30 AM
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I don't think there's a type for that. You can talk about your interests and see if there's something y'all share. If she's into a topic that you're also into, ask her stuff and turn the talking over to her. Then you won't be bored. There's no shortcut to turning dates into sex if you're only interested in sex. Girls don't care if you're a 9, and they know for a scientific fact you're amazing in bed. They don't think about sex the way we do. They are generally more interested in also being attra…
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:26 AM
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I am analyzing every bit of her behavior But you aren't paying attention. You aren't noticing her subtle facial expressions or body language when you say something that bothers her. Otherwise, you wouldn't be so confused as to what is turning women off. I look at dates like job interviews. It's not the worst mindset to have, but it is a completely different way to behave. If you are trying to sell yourself the way you would in a job interview, this is DEFINITELY your biggest problem. If you do t…
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:40 AM
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If you're on a date with a girl and she seems nervous, you aren't interacting with her in a way that makes her comfortable or makes her feel safe. You are probably saying things that make them think twice about what they saw in you. If you are talking way more than she is, you probably come off as completely full of yourself, and most girls do not like that. There is some REALLY solid advice in some of these other comments, but you don't appear open to the idea that you are absolutely doing some…
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:46 AM
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What city do you live in?
/r/seduction07/03/24 02:29 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction10/02/24 05:22 PM
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Yep, that checks out. I worked with a girl who used to go to male strip clubs a bunch. She once showed me a picture of her doing coke off a male strippers dick lol.
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:09 AM
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It's hard to put into words without demonstrating in person. It's pretty easy to figure it out with a little practice. It's actually hard to do it too much in the beginning because it goes soooo against your regular nature. You will constantly notice that you have to correct yourself because human nature tells you to be more open and direct with body language. You'll notice every few minutes that you have to manually correct yourself. After a while, it just becomes a habit, and it'll come natura…
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:00 AM
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Not without illustrating it in person, sorry. Hard to put in words accurately
/r/seduction10/02/24 03:54 AM
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Don't refer to an entire group of women you've never met as skanks. You don't know anything about them, and you're passing judgement. That's a shitty way to be.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:38 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:37 PM
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You're not wrong
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:33 PM
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I'm 6'4 and decent looking with a great sense of humor, but I never had self-confidence about my looks, and I was super shy. So I got laid through my 20s here and there and had girlfriends, but I missed sooooo many chances that were right in front of me. The strip club helped me realize my actual potential, and the girls were very honest with me, which helped to figure out where I stand amongst other guys, as well as learn how to talk to lots of different types of girls. After a while, I grew to…
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:33 PM
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Haha, I thought about that. I think if I stayed in the industry, I would probably do a YouTube channel about it. The #1 technique that yields the best results is learning to use body language to convey disinterest. The way you always see guys in this sub talking about making a girl think you're not really into them because otherwise you look desperate and it is a turn-off. Yeah, do that with body language. It is unbelievably effective.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:28 PM
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All these comments are decent answers, but the BEST answer is to be a bouncer or manager in a strip club. I did that for about 4 years in 3 different clubs, and it changed my life. Or be a male stripper. All you gotta do is get jacked and go apply. Even the waiters in a male strip club do well. Still gotta be jacked though
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:51 PM
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It's a fucking dance floor. LEARN HOW TO DANCE.
/r/seduction01/02/24 08:46 PM
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I have a friend whose standard is "if she got pregnant, would I be ashamed to tell my friends?"
/r/seduction01/11/23 08:57 PM
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It's okay for you to not censor "rapey". If that's the behavior someone is suggesting, I would prefer it not be censored so men can better understand and contemplate the severity of their actions.
/r/seduction21/05/23 09:43 PM
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I normally would remove this post for encouraging men to be very sexually pushy and ignore a woman's clear signs of SAYING NO, but there's an excellent comment down below explaining in even greater detail why this post is terrible advice. So I'll just lock the comments where they are.
/r/seduction21/05/23 09:41 PM
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1) if you're not going to keep the conversation civil, at least check the flair of the person you're responding to before commenting. 2) this isn't about me. My comment was about Trump. Someone that anyone aspiring to be good at seduction should never attempt to emulate. 3) https://www.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/13d2yld/jury_finds_donald_trump_sexually_abused_e_jean/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/seduction09/05/23 09:38 PM
-4

the man was a rapist in New York Ftfy
/r/seduction09/05/23 09:23 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:55 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction01/11/22 02:17 AM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:25 PM
1

Wrong sub. If you've already had sex then you are no longer posting about the topic of this sub, which is everything leading up to that point
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:27 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:01 PM
1

Step 1: be female
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:59 PM
1

Natalia Poklonskaya
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:42 AM
1

The sub was completely banned by reddit admins. None of the posts are accessible
/r/seduction19/10/22 11:27 PM
1

Read the game, and read stuff by Mystery, but I'm removing your post because nobody should be emulating serial killers
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:28 PM
1

She's not a real person. Or she's a guy
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:41 PM
1

I've read the game but I haven't really seen a full infield of mystery/style applying everything in action. There are videos of mystery but they're mostly clips. And also those mfs were legends. Getting a girl attracted to you without being super direct is a skill. That is the Game . Not just cold approaching every girl in sight playing the numbers game.
/r/seduction14/10/22 03:50 PM
8

Talk to the whole group. Include everyone in the conversation. Don't single out the one you're into. Don't say weird shit
/r/seduction14/10/22 03:40 PM
17

Go out in the world and talk to women is step 1
/r/seduction14/10/22 02:13 PM
1

Read 'The Game' if you haven't yet. I think what you're looking for is neutral openers. Stuff that gives you a way to start up a conversation but they don't feel as if you're hitting on them. Everyone these days is too lazy to learn this stuff so they're all obsessed with "cold approach" and being super direct. It's cool that you're learning more skills. I think you'll see a lot of positive results from it. Best of luck!
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:42 PM
1

Or you know... maybe you could try staying on topic and within the rules of the subreddit
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:18 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:12 AM
178

A simple nod or wave to a guy who is looking at you is all he needs to come talk to you. It lets him know you might also be interested and gives him permission to put his approach anxieties aside. If you do that one easy thing, I bet you'll see a lot more guys coming to talk to you. And if they don't, nothing is lost to you.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:34 PM
2

I'm sure your little rant will get you a lot of upvotes Nah, post removed. This sub isn't for generalizing women in blatantly negative ways. Contrary to some beliefs we see posted here almost every day lol
/r/seduction07/10/22 06:19 PM
0

If i had to guess, OP, I would say you don't approach women because you smoke weed and play video games all day. Looking at your post history, there are tons of clues as to why you don't succeed with women. I don't think any of it has to do with your race.
/r/seduction07/10/22 12:59 AM
2

Honestly, put off gaming until you get in a better place. I've been in your exact shoes. The GI bill is a supplement. It's absolutely not meant to be sole income. I tried that too and u struggled so hard. You need to find employment and also go to school. You need to focus on passing all your classes or you'll lose that money. You might be able to date here and there in your very limited free time, but it doesn't really matter. Once you finish your degree you can probably get a way better job an…
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:44 AM
4

Dallas, Austin, Vegas, Seattle, Atlanta, Chicago. There are a lot more cities out there friend.
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:39 AM
2

I already had it from a Santa Claus bar crawl. It was like 40 bucks at Party City. I recommend one made to be in hot weather. It gets real sweaty if you use a cheap one. Or if Halloween is pretty cold in your area it'll be decent. Just go outside when you start sweating and hang out a second to cool off
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:04 AM
12

I once went as Santa Claus. It went extremely well. Girls will sit on your lap and tell you what they want. Nobody ever thinks to wear it either so you'll always be the only one. Works best at house parties.
/r/seduction04/10/22 08:32 PM
1

Keep being social. Make new friends. Travel.
/r/seduction02/10/22 12:10 AM
12

I never went to a big college and my dating life has been fine. Just go talk to people
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:10 PM
51

You're 22. You have literal decades ahead of you for dating. When you're 35, you're still gonna have the mindset of 26. This age thing is absolutely not something to stress about. Worry about getting a good job. Be social. Make friends.
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:48 PM
1

Wrong sub.
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:06 AM
1

am I being stupid I'm not gonna say yes or no to that but you didn't appear to read the rules at all so...
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:32 AM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:29 AM
1

There are over 600,000 users in the subreddit. If we let everyone post specific stories that aren't applicable to every other person's situation the subreddit would be useless because it would just be flooded with those questions that are way too specific. If you bothered to read the rules before posting you would have seen that there is a DIFFERENT SUBREDDIT for those types of questions.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:41 PM
1

Your question does not make sense
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:32 PM
1

Nothing. I've already removed it. A field report does not ask for advice or clarification. It is simply telling a report of what happened so other readers can use it for their own knowledge
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:30 PM
1

Incorrect. Your story is an extremely specific situation.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:26 PM
1

This is not a field report. This post breaks rule #1
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:15 PM
426

It's likely your conversation/social skills or a lack of confidence.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:00 PM
3

Tons and tons of girls have experiences where a simple no turns into physical violence and a few girls have even been murdered. It's not an exaggeration. There are news articles about it. You just have to get used to the idea that women have to worry about their safety in even the most innocent situations because they never know when it's going to turn.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:24 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:23 PM
3

I've done it. Be honest. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:43 AM
1

I'm sure by "pissy" you mean "I can't believe I have to tell yet another man to not touch his coworkers at work" You're at work dude. Keep your hands to yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:02 PM
4

The game is a perfectly good book for learning and understanding the basics and how to get started. People only hate on it because it's old, and they think old means bad. Notice how he didn't give you any actual reasons why it's bad, but he just recommended a different book?
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:14 PM
1

You will have a LOT of problems trying to travel into Russia with a recent Ukrainian stamp in your passport, or vice versa. Pick one, but do not do both unless you really like being in jail for no real reason.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:48 PM
1

This sub is for everything leading up to sex. If you're having sex or in a relationship, you don't need anything more from this sub.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:06 AM
1

Have you tried moving to Korea where you will massively stand out from the average? Or any other Asian country
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:46 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:42 PM
1

And so was the second. Cold approach is when you approach someone for the first time with no preparation. You are starting cold. Everything after that is warm, or just "approaching".
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:18 PM
1

If you have met her or talked to her before then it's not cold approach.
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:47 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:39 AM
1

Read the rules
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:32 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:29 AM
1

Chin up, lil pup. Like 25 to 50 percent of my sexual partners happened between the ages of 31 and 35. You're still young. It's okay to be patient
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:47 AM
2

This advice is so terrible I'm inclined to delete it, but it's technically not breaking any rules so... good luck trying it out. Definitely report back if you do; I'd love to see the results.
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:54 PM
1

🤣
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:52 PM
-5

Highly suggest you edit out the "pimping" at the end. Pimps are absolute pieces of human trash. It's not something anyone should aspire to be, and unfortunately our popular culture has shifted the meaning of the word so people often don't understand what it really entails. Pimps are people who give women drugs to keep them addicted so they are easier to control. Pimps regularly abuse women physically, but often emotionally. I used to work with a girl who had a pimp and if she didn't make enough …
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:50 PM
1

I removed this because you're just ranting about something that frustrates you. It's off topic and not really helpful to anyone else who might read it.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:54 PM
2

Thanks
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:24 PM
1

Wildly off topic.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:47 PM
4

Yes, but not the outrageous shit that mystery wears. Just dress the opposite of what the norm is in whatever venue you're going to. Wear a suit to a dive bar, etc. I frequent a bar wear a lot of wealthy douchebags hang out. Like 99% of them wear simple collared shirts. So I either wear a suit or I dress like I just came from a dive bar where police had to break up a hobo knife attack. It does work, despite naysayers comments here. Girls comment on it and it gives you an easy in to start conversa…
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:44 PM
1

Mods will delete this thread because it directly violates the rule about unapproved AMAs. FTFY
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:34 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:41 AM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:29 AM
0

I removed this earlier because it breaks a rule. Please do not post it again
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:35 AM
2

This subreddit isn't meant for that context of "seduction", but in some cases your question might apply so I'll leave it up
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:37 PM
1

Rule #7. You approach exactly the same as fit guys. You're probably just going to see fewer successes.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:38 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Rule #7
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:16 AM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit, sorry bud. If you're getting so far as making out you're past the real content of this sub. Everything beyond that should just happen kinda naturally. Remember: communication is always the best bet.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:45 AM
1

No. So much so that I'm removing this post.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:43 AM
4

Is there some special reason you're asking for numbers? https://youtu.be/I9ww2bEoSDk
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:42 AM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:38 AM
3

https://youtu.be/N_j5tDuakKU
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:39 AM
1

Not really on topic for this sub. But yeah he just really likes your ass.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:05 PM
1

Porn is not on topic for this subreddit.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:44 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:02 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:44 PM
1

Nah, that's Dredd game
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:43 PM
1

This still breaks rule #1, but if she's telling you she has a boyfriend but NOT telling the bigger group about a bf then she's interested in someone else in your group.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:49 AM
1

This has nothing to do with seduction, and you can just say "feminism". It's not a prohibited word.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:28 AM
1

This is not a relationship advice subreddit
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:38 PM
2

Rule #1, also this subreddit isn't for shitting on other subreddits
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:45 AM
1

This subreddit isn't for complaints about dating culture. Your post should offer something for others or ask a question.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:40 AM
2

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:50 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:16 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:34 PM
1

If you post this again I'm banning you for spam. Read the rules of the subreddit before you post. You're breaking one of them.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:25 AM
3

Your sample size is laughably small. Please do not make blanket statements about an entire gender like this
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:01 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:27 PM
1

I would have read the rules before posting
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:44 AM
2

No such thing as too forward. Guys appreciate honesty
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:37 AM
2

Lol this is not seduction related but maybe you should go to her place?
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:48 PM
1

Done and done
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:40 PM
19

Hahaha whoops. Sorry. Well actually, going out with some gay friends might get you a lot more attention from ladies in public. It's not the worst strategy. Plus they'll be inclined to help you in any areas you need like conversation, texting, fashion, etc. Give it a shot, just be up front about being totally straight.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:23 PM
4

Bumble has a setting to find friends instead of dates
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:19 PM
1

I'm removing this because it's riddled with typos and women really don't like when men can't communicate well.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:16 PM
1

This isn't seduction related. You're talking about aspects of a relationship.
/r/seduction07/08/22 06:12 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:58 AM
2

I'm familiar with Coco. She posts a lot of useful info. I've not seen anything from her that would be personal attacks. If you see those please just use the report function to point them out to us. he's a loser You need to check yourself. Keep it civil.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:43 PM
2

Off topic
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:30 PM
8

Knowing what i know now and looking back at some situations I've been in, you should make a move if you think the vibe is right. I've missed out on several chances because I second guessed myself and didn't pull the trigger. Only to realize later on what was happening in that moment were obvious signs. So yeah, if you wait for them to make a move you're going to miss out on some for sure.
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:21 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:54 PM
2

The more you get know some 9s and 10s, you'll realize that most of them don't think they are as hot as they are. Only a few who have a massive following on IG or OF will have been convinced of their hotness and let it go to their head. I've met absolutely gorgeous women and seen multiple people tell them how beautiful they are and they simply refuse to believe it. Go after what you're into. If she's arrogant and conceited just go to the next.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Read the rules
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:01 PM
3

Please cite peer reviewed study
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:55 PM
4

"Hey real quick, could I just see two forms of government ID? You understand, right?"
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:01 AM
1

Occasionally. I don't game much these days
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:54 PM
1

I get that it is but some people might get the wrong idea. We have to cater to the lowest denominator
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:21 PM
1

Yeah I locked the comments. I added more points to my post on why I removed it. You can't generalize women like that. You need to interact with more women and listen to what they say. You have a warped frame of mind to the point that I don't even think you view them as people, let alone equals. Women are human just like you. Please treat them as such.
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:41 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:25 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:29 PM
1

Take your anger out at the gym
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:25 PM
1

Learn how to moonwalk
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:23 PM
1

People always forget the part where he said "if you're famous". Do not do this.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:22 PM
1

Are you kidding? You know he bankrupted a casino right?? A business that almost prints money. Lol Also an airline, a steak company, the list goes on... but a fucking casino.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:22 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:18 PM
2

Yeah man - you need to stop posting this. More than one of your points is overly misogynistic, and we're not okay with people propagating that type of message here. women don't know what they want Yes. Lots of women know what they want. women want attention. Everything they do is to get attention. No. girls want only one thing. To have fun. You certain? You've never met one girl that wants children? Or to start an animal shelter? Or be an astronaut? Or become the CEO of an emerging maple syrup c…
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:16 PM
2

I used body language from one of Mystery's teachings and jealousy from one or two other sources together to land multiple girls that I had no business even saying hi to, lol. Shit works
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:11 PM
5

This is key. I wear a more obscure one that most people don't know about, and when people ask me what it is I don't tell them. Only ever had one girl recognize it because it was her favorite, and I've been wearing it like 10+ years
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:09 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:59 PM
1

Sup
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:07 PM
1

Between learning game and just doing cold approaches
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:38 PM
1

Then why call it cold approach? What's the difference then?
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:20 PM
1

You make good points but where I disagree is where people draw the line between cold approach and "game". IMO cold approach is simply going up, very quickly asking for a date or phone number, and then leaving. Anything beyond that and you've crossed into game territory. If you need to know how to carry a conversation - game. If you need to know how to flirt - game. If you're using your body language in a subtle way to non-verbally communicate - game. In that sense I don't think cold approach sho…
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:11 PM
1

Cold approach, IMO, is just walking up to someone, greeting them, maybe introducing yourself, asking for a date or phone number, and then leaving. Sometimes the situation calls for more interaction before getting the number which is where a lot of the posts in this sub ask for help. My point is that this method is not really a method at all. It's just walking up, saying hello and asking for a number or date. What's game about that? It's just basic interaction. Game is about being prepared. Knowi…
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:05 PM
2

All game is a numbers thing but you'll notice that you get way better results with actual game instead of cold approach.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:41 PM
2

As soon as you learn game, you're not doing cold approach. You're doing game. Cold approach is just unprepared approaching women. Anything beyond that is just game and should not be called "cold approach".
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:41 PM
2

Well I had the lucky benefit of being a bouncer in a strip club. I got to practice every night and see what works, and what doesn't. Make tweaks, try again the next night. Etc etc
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:39 PM
2

No, you learn the game, then you approach the girls. They are all over the place. Everyday
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:38 PM
1

There's plenty of books. I used like one and a half books and it completely changed my life
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:15 PM
1

I was never confident until I started doing Jiu Jitsu. Learn how to fight. It works wonders. Hell, it's practically the basis of the plot in Fight Club. The dude was a little bitch until he learned how to fight. (Do not learn to fight and then go get in fights. Nobody wants anything to do with those guys. Learn it so you are confident you can defend yourself and keep it in your back pocket.)
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:04 PM
0

It's the new hotness. People get bored of stuff that's perceived as "old" even if it gets reliable results. Cold approach is for people who are lazy. People who can't put in the effort to learn game or practice the elements within to achieve better results. People want a faster way to the end result, but there is no substitution for hard work. As soon as you switch from learning game to doing cold approaches, you're just back to square 1 which is walking up to people and saying hey. That's why y…
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:02 PM
2

Yeah but we need more non loonies to help change that. You could be part of the solution. Every year we're getting closer and closer to flipping blue
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:50 AM
1

Austin, you big dummy. LA, Miami, and NYC are not "tech hubs" IMO. Sure, tech companies exist there because they are huge cities, but places like silicon Valley, Dallas, and Austin are where tons of tech companies are. Besides, Austin has a big college right downtown. The nightlife scene there is fantastic. Texas girls are crazy hot, and there's lots to see and do. It's not cheap to live there but it might be cheaper than those other 3 you listed. Dallas has a huge tech industry but the nightlif…
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:23 PM
1

Wrong sub, please read the rules
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:12 AM
1

Y'all aren't rocking the one sided thong? I thought this sub was all about self confidence! https://www.ebay.com/itm/Mens-Sexy-Single-Side-Thong-Underwear-Gay-Pouch-G-string-Nightwear-Size-M-L-XL/392131711815
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:29 AM
21

I wanna be clear here OP: This subreddit isn't saying that. Guys who haven't yet learned how to listen to women are saying that. You should always communicate with someone you're interested in, and women are people just like men. Lots of them have fantastic advice for you. Pay attention
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:18 AM
1

Happy for you buddy but this post is breaking rule #1, sorry
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:09 AM
1

The post comes off kinda rude. But really it's all of OP's responses in the comments that are totally against the rules, so I'm removing this post.
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:07 AM
2

Okay
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:25 AM
1

r/holup
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:35 AM
1

I think it's off topic
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:34 AM
1

The comment you replied to literally answers this question.
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:35 PM
1

This is vague and pretty much off topic.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:41 PM
1

Thanks, but just report it. That's the fastest way for us to see it
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:05 PM
1

the post was taken down for some reason Try reading the rules of the subreddit
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:08 AM
1

Sure, why not? I mean, you'll have better odds if you don't come to the same place often
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:07 AM
1

strippers know how to manipulate men right? No. Most don't. I mean some do to a very, very small degree but you would be blown away if you saw what I mean by working in a club for even a week or two. We had regulars that would come in all the time. Several of them were able to fuck more than one girl. And I mean outside the club and for free. Some of the girls fully dated customers. It's a thing.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:08 PM
1

OP, DM me. I was a bouncer in a strip club and it's where I learned and practiced game. To wonderful success.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:30 PM
2

You would think this, but like 95% of strippers don't have that mentality or know how to cultivate it. The very few who do are the ones who are the top earners. Source: have worked as a bouncer in 3 strip clubs in 2 states.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:29 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:23 PM
8

the girl has the first move Never gonna happen. That card's going straight in the trash unless you're like a 9.5/10.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:11 AM
19

Just spend the money on a therapist. The end result will be way more worth the money
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:47 PM
1

Of this subreddit. You should read all rules of a subreddit before you post in it.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:43 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:00 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:54 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:11 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:41 PM
2

There's a "hot potato" joke in there somewhere
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:48 PM
0

Okay, byyyyyeeee
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:18 PM
1

Tell her "we're gonna take off our pants and play slip and slide". I'm kidding, I always just immediately break out into singing "I can show you the world" from Aladdin. Never fails.
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:44 AM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:34 AM
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Off topic.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:30 PM
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Rule #1. Rewrite it without the specific situation to address the issue at hand.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:03 AM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:40 AM
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Why would you try to talk... on a dance floor?
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:06 AM
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If she's hesitant at all I wouldn't push the issue. If you "convince" her to try it, she's not going to be fully committed. She has to want it herself. If you haven't even done a full overnight yet it might be kinda early but I guess we'll see! Best of luck man
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:39 PM
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Rule #1
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:07 AM
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Yeah, I told her I loved her after about a year, and then we would say it all the time like bf/gf. Once I had the paradigm shift in my mind about what I wanted, I started looking back on stuff and I realized that I was so so so happy with her. Like all the time. We were together almost every day without getting tired of each other. If you can do that for even a few days, I say that's your litmus test. If you spend a lot of time with her and still want to spend more, that's huge. When you are hes…
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:47 AM
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Lolol I said congrats. But that's not what a field report is. It doesn't contribute anything to help others. The body of the post doesn't contain help or questions (stand on its own). I get the pride and wanting to shout it from a mountain top but it's simply not what this subreddit is for. (Off topic) You don't have to remove it. I already did.
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:35 AM
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Grats man. Now I have to remove this post. Sorry
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:05 AM
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What I'm hearing is you're giving up without trying. Got it.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:03 AM
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It's a fine line. If they are being rude and disrespectful they aren't doing it right
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:48 AM
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If you give up before you even try then you're not ever going to be successful at anything
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:51 AM
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Your city has night clubs, but not libraries or grocery stores or bars in a restaurant?
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:15 AM
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We all gotta learn the hard way ourselves
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:54 AM
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I know it kinda doesn't make sense but that's not what this sub is about sorry
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:51 PM
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Take salsa or bachata lessons. Hang out where they hang out.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:02 PM
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OP, do NOT do this.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:01 PM
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I mean if she doesn't want to change the dynamic it's very likely she is or wants to see other dudes. Because making it official makes other dudes truly off limits. And try not to be mad at her for that, this is how it goes with unofficial exclusivity lol. If you wanna keep fucking you're gonna have to go along with whatever. If you ask her if she fucked someone else and she admits she has are you gonna cut her out of your life? Are you gonna be mad about it and try to get her to commit? Picture…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:59 PM
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About 3.5 years. My take on your situation is that if you didn't fully commit you don't get to complain if she steps outside the agreement. If she fucked another dude it's because in her mind she's technically single so what's the point in keeping up the agreement if it just keeps her from living her life how she wants? If you expect exclusivity you gotta commit. There's a lot of guys in this sub that post about not wanting relationships but they get mad jealous when a girl they're smashing even…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:36 PM
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At the time I was very set in the idea that I never wanted to get married, but she did. I made it very clear more than once and she was okay with it. But I also told her that I know someday we're going to end. She's going to get bored of me or she's going to find someone that wants to get married. Eventually she did. And I didn't know it was going to affect me so hard. I got so depressed I actually got fired from a job lol. And part of me refusing to commit was - I would find these little things…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:16 PM
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Yeah we discussed it multiple times. She left me for a couple weeks twice but came back, which made me take it for granted. One day she was at my house and she just got up and left and I never heard from her again.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:54 AM
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I will give you some feedback though. You don't get to be exclusive if you refuse to put a title on it. You're either together or you're not. The only difference between her being your gf and not your gf is exclusivity. As soon as you verbally agree to not have sex with anyone else, that's now your gf. If you're scared of the title then she's going to leave you for someone who isn't. She probably won't respect the exclusivity agreement because you aren't officially dating. I've been in the exact…
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:13 AM
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You can't. Read the rules. I'm not going to tell you which one. It should be extremely obvious.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:09 AM
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If you post this again you're getting a temp ban for spam. Read the rules before you post.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:04 AM
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It's generally a lot more sensual with more body to body contact
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:02 AM
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Lol, agree
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:01 AM
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Wrong sub. This sub is for discussions about seduction.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:38 AM
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Check out r/askwomennocensor Or r/askredditafterdark
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:53 AM
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Understandable
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:52 AM
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We can remove it faster if you report the post
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:35 AM
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You're looking more for sexual advice. This sub is referring to all the interactions that occur leading up to sexual interactions. If you've made it that far, you've advanced beyond this subreddit. 😄
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:16 AM
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These posts are a bit much. Any city with a decent sized population is fine. There's not a better city in comparison to other cities when considering any random guy. There might be some that are way better for a specific guy. Like someone with a lot of money is going to do better in LA or Miami than a guy with even an above average paying job. Let's say you take any random city that has a population of over a million people. I'm going to use Dallas, where I live. This year the population is 1.31…
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:17 AM
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It's a common term for people from New Zealand. The Kiwi is their national bird.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:54 AM
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Yeah... NOT NYC or LA. Lol. There's a lot more to consider in moving here. Falling on ice or getting hit by a car and breaking your arm could cost you literally thousands of dollars. Healthcare problems that you see online are not exaggerated. I got a 30,000 dollar bill for a 6 day hospital stay last year. Location also depends on your age. If you're under 30 and don't mind the heat, try either Phoenix, Arizona or Austin, Texas. These two cities have big party colleges right in town so there are…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:41 AM
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For a kiwi, yeah it might be the best. I normally recommend that if people are going to travel they should try somewhere where they are not the majority race or height, etc. If you can really stand out from the norm (like a Hispanic person going to Germany, or a tall white guy in Korea) then you'll usually do way above average. But having known a couple kiwi guys, your accent alone is going to kill it over here. Just be in decent shape and not broke.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:19 AM
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Now go out and do it to girls you are attracted to. It's not the same as old customers you don't give two shits about.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:30 PM
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You literally know exactly what your problems are, yet you don't try doing something differently?
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:27 PM
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Just say hello and keep walking. Do it 50 times and you won't care about their reactions anymore. It makes approaches vastly easier once saying hello is second nature.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:22 PM
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Please try again without referring to women as "hoes". You're not going to get many women when your average manner of speaking involves putting down their entire gender. Also, you're a teen. You have literally decades ahead of you to figure this shit out. You're still gonna feel like you're 19 even when you're 27. Slow down.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:09 PM
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Wrong subreddit
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:23 PM
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No.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:10 PM
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Rule #1
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:10 PM
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I used to work with a bunch of hot girls. I'm talking like 50+. Mostly the same girls every night. I would flirt with the few I was interested in front of all the other ones. Never slowed me down or affected my results. The key is your body language. If someone is watching you talk to other girls but can't hear you, it should look like you're hanging out having a great time being social with people. But the moment your body language says you're escalating beyond social good times, they might cha…
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:16 AM
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That's cool and all but your post is just complaining about your results. Maybe focus more on the basics and search through top rated posts for good info? Or ask about specific aspects of seduction. Or tips about something you've learned or heard of. Instead of dwelling on the struggles, put your energy into improving. Everything in life takes effort, and there is no shortcut to hard work.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:45 AM
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This sub isn't for venting, sorry
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:39 AM
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👆
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:44 AM
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This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:53 AM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:49 AM
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This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:39 AM
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Not what this sub is for
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:41 AM
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firstworldproblems Your post violates rule #1
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:56 AM
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Discipline is doing what you know you have to do when you no longer have motivation to do it.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:27 AM
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Your account is too new to post in this sub, so take some time and read some of the top posts. Ask questions on other posts. Get some good info from the community. You might find your questions answered sooner than you think. And once your account has some karma and a little more time you can post again if you're still looking for answers.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:08 AM
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You're on the right track, just keep doing what you're doing. But this post violates rule number 1 so I'm taking it dooooowwwwnnn
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:07 PM
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Wrong sub, sorry. This sub is about the initial stages of meeting someone new. Once you've entered an actual relationship you're gonna want to try something like r/relationship_advice or another sub similar to that. Also, a therapist that focuses on sexual stuff could help a lot if you can afford it.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:55 AM
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Counter point - maybe she is looking for a serious relationship and she wants to save time by not spending it with guys who don't want the same. So she could be just absolutely super into you, but she asks that to know if you're worth investing more time. So sometimes, "what are you looking for?" actually means "what are you looking for?"
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:08 AM
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Have em throw a lime on the rim and people will think it's a cocktail
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:38 AM
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Yep, exactly. You're not impressed by them simply being hot, etc etc. Do NOT be their customer. The moment you hand them money you're the same as all the other guys
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:35 AM
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I think it was in Mystery's ridiculous TV show... they call girls who were hired for their looks in places like bars and restaurants and strip clubs "hired guns". You have to change your game to go after them, because they immediately discredit almost any guy that talks to them on the job because 99% of those guys are hitting on them... poorly. Strippers get a bad rep, and I understand why, but having scene behind the curtain for years... most people would be surprised. A LOT of them are the upt…
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:20 AM
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If night game is tougher, I recommend thinking of places where you have less competition. Bars and night clubs are jam packed with dudes you have to compete with. Go to places that are more populated by women than straight men. If you have game that works with hired guns, go to a strip club. This sounds counterintuitive, but like 98% of guys in strip clubs aren't competition for decent looking guys with game (I used to be a bouncer in one, trust me). The trick is to never be your targets custome…
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:58 AM
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Fair point - It's body language
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:29 PM
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Maybe the girls are into making out with a different type of guy than the guys you usually make out with? People have different tastes, and women generally are more forgiving on physical appearance than men. You might think he's ugly, but you don't know anything about his personality.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:16 AM
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It's a perfect idea, but please read the rules before posting.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:21 PM
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I do, but I'm also hesitant for it to become widely known because then it won't work as well, ya know? I might make a full post about it in the near future though
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:20 PM
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It works like a charm and people mostly hate on it because newer ideas have come out and they see it as old but it still holds true today. One of the best things I ever learned is in that book and nobody ever talks about it in this sub for some reason. Weird.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:46 AM
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https://youtu.be/ZLTLfIXc0Fk
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:31 PM
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Dallas, TX
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:46 PM
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If you read the rules before posting you'd know. And she's keeping you at a distance because it's the same as when people try to pick up girls at a gym. If it doesn't work out they don't want to see you at the gym going forward. That's gonna be an even more serious issue with something like BJJ because it's not as easy to just switch gyms and people are way more committed to sticking with BJJ than a regular gym
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:26 AM
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Nah, OP is correct. I used to be a bouncer and when we told someone they're banned we would watch and make sure they leave and if not we would call the cops to come arrest them for trespassing. We would often take a picture of their ID and post it at the front door and the door girls would alert security if anyone who was banned showed up again.
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:07 AM
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I didn't become a fuckboy til I was 31. Live your best life. Just realize that you might want to stop being a fuckboy before you think you're ready. Don't drag it on too long if it doesn't fulfill you any longer.
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:39 AM
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Please read the subreddit rules before posting
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:14 PM
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I think you'll find it easier to include the guys in a group in your conversations and interactions because you aren't trying to number close them. There's much less anxiety when you're being social with people you're not interested in. You can apply the same mindset to girls in a group where you're only interested in one. You should always include a girl's friends in social interaction or they usually won't like you.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:14 PM
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Good effort, OP. You went out and were social. A lot of people struggle just that when they are starting out. As for the guys in the group I highly recommend interacting with them and including them in conversation. If one or two in particular are being really douchey towards you, you have to kill them with kindness. Women will notice that you're not antagonizing the guys back and you're keeping the tension down in the group. Read up a little on dealing with the AMOG, you'll see what I mean.
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:17 AM
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There's a huge difference between feminine looking women and gold diggers. If it's gold diggers you want to avoid, you need to leave Miami.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:33 AM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:06 PM
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You rang?
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:58 PM
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And yet.... you're still here? Your post was removed because you were making scientific claims that completely generalized ALL women, without providing proof of said claims. Basically misinformation.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:57 PM
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Your questions are about a relationship issue, not how to seduce women
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:38 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:14 PM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:02 PM
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I believe the phrase you're looking for is "mind boggling". Also, this post breaks at least 2 rules so I'm removing it
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:10 PM
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You wouldn't believe how many posts violate rule 1 that we ARE removing. And you can help make the sub better by just reporting them as soon as you see them. We see posts with reports WAY faster than finding them on our own. enforce the doctrine of PC virtue signaling What? Can you be specific? I don't follow. Why would I care if someone stays a virgin? I'm not Mormon
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:21 AM
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Mods aren't here to teach people, although sometimes we do. We're here to enforce the rules. Being familiar with the community obviously helps with that and I have years of experience in it. I'm sorry that you don't believe me because I don't post it incessantly on reddit.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:13 AM
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I just checked and I'm not sure why it was removed so I put it back up
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:08 AM
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Ah yeah, that was the other one
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:01 AM
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Lolwut? I don't constantly post about approaching or picking up women so I'm not "qualified"? Hahaha solid logic. 👍
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:56 AM
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I'm not sure which post you're referring to but one posted recently was riddled with misogyny and racism. Like... straight up using the n word. So yeah, it was removed.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:36 AM
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I don't follow... how does doing something that all humans do and is completely natural lower a person's value as a human being?
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:30 AM
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That's not a field report. Try r/sluttyconfessions
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:19 AM
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Your question doesn't make any sense
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:15 PM
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Some do but there's no logic in it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:58 PM
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I don't follow... what makes it a red flag at all?
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:52 PM
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Rule #1
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:52 AM
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Don't post stuff that comes off as wild misinformation along with "I'm the CTO of a hedge fund" without any proof whatsoever.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:57 PM
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Off topic
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:49 PM
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When women want to discuss serious things with you, and you "laugh it off" instead of engaging in a thoughtful discussion... you're gonna have a hard time dating in general. Dating is about communication, and it seems you're not very good at it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:46 PM
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Click on the subreddit. Click "about"
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:43 PM
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Rule #1
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:36 PM
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Wrong sub. r/seduction is for all the stuff before sex
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:01 PM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:22 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:29 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:22 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:10 AM
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Google "zyzz" and click videos
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:29 PM
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Hey OP, I'm in Dallas. Hit me up when you get to town; I can help you with pretty much all that stuff. Do you already have housing sorted? Message me
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:31 AM
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I hope this is the right sub for this. It's not. All you had to do was read the rules before making a post (something you should do in any subreddit) to get pointed to the correct subreddit.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:29 AM
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This subreddit isn't for ranting about gender stereotypes.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:23 AM
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pulling girls this far 30 minutes laughs in Texan
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:21 AM
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OP, "thath" is not a word in English. You are looking for the word "that".
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:27 PM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:59 PM
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Wrong subreddit
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:19 AM
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Wrong subreddit
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:04 PM
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What you're asking about is literally what this sub is about so I've removed your post as it is so incredibly basic
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:41 PM
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It's a bot. We remove this shit multiple times a day
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:28 PM
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Not what this sub is for
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:17 AM
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It's so unimportant I'm removing this post!
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:25 PM
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Rule #1. But yeah like the other person said, just kill them with kindness. The girls will notice and be pleasantly surprised.
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:35 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:52 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:45 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:19 PM
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We see it faster if you report it. I just happened to be scrolling just now.
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:46 AM
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Lol. Dude. Instead of reposting over and over, why not check the rules and see if you're breaking one of them? Hint: you are.
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:44 AM
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Don't feed the troll, just report him. He's banned. That kind of misogynistic bullshit is not welcome here. And certainly not how the large majority of men think.
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:43 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:37 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:08 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:06 AM
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/r/seduction30/05/22 05:01 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. This is way off-topic
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:34 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:10 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:10 PM
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Nah man you'll be fine
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:57 AM
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Wrong subreddit
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:55 AM
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Orchard Towers are commonly known in the US navy as "the four floors of whores". It's a brothel. Fun fact, it's been off limits to military personnel for like 20 years now.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:07 AM
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This is not a sex advice subreddit. This subreddit's content ends when sex begins.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:02 AM
1

He spams this on an almost daily basis from new accounts. Usually multiple times a day. We remove it as we see it, so if you see it in the future just toss a quick report on it and we'll see it much faster.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:20 AM
1

Baby steps - don't do full on approaches. Just say hello in passing. Do it a hundred times. Say hi, and then keep walking. Don't try to stop, don't try to talk. Just a nice greeting, and then move on. Eventually you will get so used to it that saying more will be much, much easier.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:53 PM
2

This sub is not r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:58 AM
1

Not what this sub is for. Cellulite can be managed with exercise; especially when you're young. You're female. You could be out here lookin like a swamp donkey and some dudes are still gonna want to smash.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:08 AM
1

That's not really what this sub is about
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:56 PM
1

Wrong subreddit, sorry
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:56 PM
0

So you don't get defensive and uncivil when people start bringing it up. Just trying to help
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:36 AM
0

Ugh. Fair enough. People complain nonstop about that sorta content in this sub though. Fair warning
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:21 AM
0

Hey, OP - remove the first long paragraph about losing your crush. It's breaking rule #1
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:17 AM
6

Lol, I'm down
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:16 AM
1

Because, in and of itself, cold approach is basic af. As soon as you add other seduction techniques to it, it's no longer cold approach but just "approach". Which is what all the other stuff in this sub is about.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:46 AM
1

Stop posting your cougar fetish stuff in here. This sub is for discussion about seduction.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:42 AM
1

I've removed this because I don't believe you've used the word "retardation" properly in describing your issue, and the word is touchy enough that it got reported by some people. Used properly, I wouldn't remove it
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:33 AM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:32 PM
1

Off topic
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:32 PM
1

Getting "sexy pics" is not what this sub is about
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Have you tried facial hair?
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:36 PM
1

Removed because completely incoherent, but also maybe don't use the phrase "slay attractive girls". It might have a completely different meaning when it's read back to you in a court room.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:35 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:01 AM
1

It means you didn't read rule #1.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:49 AM
1

It's really not seduction
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:06 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:34 PM
1

I think you should stop posting your weird, borderline stalker story in this subreddit. It breaks the subs rules and it's also cringey as hell. The only thing people could learn from this story is exactly what not to do.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:30 PM
2

Username is actually a song title. Google it. I dare you
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:23 AM
1

As someone who has been in a long distance relationship for 3.5 years that almost worked... I can assure you that the only way they work is if you make a plan for when it will no longer be long distance and then stick to the plan. Also I've removed your post because it breaks rule #1
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:20 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:09 PM
1

I think so? Doesn't it still show the notifications and you can go to it from those?
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:27 PM
1

So it turns out what you're doing wrong is not reading the rules of the sub before posting
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:27 PM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit. The content of this sub ends when sex begins.
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:24 PM
3

That seen in lord of the rings when Liv Tyler watches aragorn talk to that lame girl about swords and she realizes she gave up immortality for a dirty stomparound. /s It doesn't matter just tease about something in a joking manner
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:23 PM
1

Best to phrase it as girls plural, and don't make reference to anyone. Just make a new post. And yes, many posts are breaking that rule. It's quite difficult to catch them all when there's 600,000+ users in this subreddit.
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:20 PM
2

Yeah I'm gonna go ahead and remove this because it's just trolling at this point. If you're not trolling, you don't need to worry about shit. Guys who are in the minority don't have too much trouble. Everyone likes what's out of the ordinary. If you're Asian living where everyone is white, they aren't going to care if you're 4'11. You'll still get plenty of attention for being different.
/r/seduction13/05/22 06:02 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction13/05/22 05:58 PM
6

Aging in general is just the constant realization that things will never go back to what they were, and wishing you would have lived in the moment every minute of the day because you can't go back and do it again. Ever.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:32 AM
2

Oooh yeah I second this. As long as any of the comics are good you'll leave in a really good mood
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:53 PM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:44 PM
4

Why not? You're just going around in circles together. Laughing at how bad you both are. It allows for plenty of physical contact, etc.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:39 PM
12

Ice skating
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:37 PM
1

There's another sub, check rule #1
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:09 PM
5

A lot of guys post here asking for help in nightclubs when they aren't super experienced. Consider this: nightclubs are the hardest place to game. It's basically the boss level. Everyone is trying to stand out. Every girl knows they're about to be approached by like 16 dudes. It's loud as shit so trying to have a conversation is just stressful. Most girls have a whole bunch of friends ready to jump to her defense if they don't like you. Everyone would be better off practicing game at more chill …
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:03 PM
2

What he's talking about is the fact that you do hard drugs. That's gonna be a big turn off to most girls unless they are also users. The only guys who have their shit together and do hard drugs are the very wealthy. If you're an average guy doing molly and coke, girls see it as low value.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:58 PM
1

Most likely not, but we'll need to see it first to verify
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:52 PM
1

This subreddit is not for seducing your parents.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:12 PM
1

Fwb assumes no emotional attachment. This means you both find each other physically attractive but dislike the personality. This is the only way it works without feelings being introduced
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:24 AM
1

Not what this sub is for
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:00 PM
1

Against subreddit rules
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:16 AM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:10 AM
1

This is not a sex advice subreddit. If you're taking clothes off during foreplay - congratulations. You're past the seduction stage.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:40 AM
1

This really isn't on topic
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:25 AM
1

Rule #1
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:45 AM
5

Lol that's not a sexual innuendo; that's a sexual suggestion.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:34 AM
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Not what this sub is about
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:55 AM
15

There's not really an equivalent because women don't have to use psychology or other things to their favor. They can just walk up to guys and be like "sup", and then they chat and see where it goes. Very few guys are going to reject women the way women reject guys. But women are welcome to post in this sub. You're frequently going to get advice like "be direct". Or "be straightforward". And it's good advice. It's refreshing because many women aren't.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:03 AM
0

Say you're surprisingly profitable on Onlyfans
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:34 AM
1

Removed. You need to slow down and proof read before you post. A lot of it is hard to understand because of all the errors. On top of that, you need to have a real point that aids others or asks a question. Don't just ramble.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:57 AM
5

I always tell guys to wear suits because nobody does. They are like lingerie to women. Especially in a crowd where most guys are in their 20s. You want to look amazing and stand out at the same time? Up your suit game.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:59 PM
1

It's 100% still the deadly disease it once was. If you go out you risk spreading it to anyone around you. Dozens of people. People who might then go interact with someone who is immune compromised. It does not matter at all how you feel. If you are positive, you can spread it to others. Do not be that asshole.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:40 PM
1

That's not random lol. It doesn't matter. A short guy at the club I worked at was pulling way more than me.
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:31 PM
3

Well I'm old so the game was a big one, and maybe one of the mystery ones? I don't remember. Anyways, most of the stuff in them works really well.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:12 AM
15

Sorry I thought that part was obvious. Yes.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:11 AM
14

100% YES. Source: I was a bouncer in 3 different clubs in 2 different states. I was wildly shy and missed literally dozens of chances before being a bouncer in a strip club. I practiced stuff from several of the well known game books and it blew my mind how well it worked. Someone earlier today posted asking about guys having a hoe phase. A commenter said they can only have a hoe phase if they lower their standards. Not true. I had a hoe phase with 8s and 9s. And I'm like a 6 on a good day. If y…
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:38 PM
2

Try starting out with learning basic things that would come in handy if society collapsed next week. Can you make a fire without a lighter? Can you make a simple shelter with limited tools? Can you find food/hunt? Can you defend yourself against humans or dangerous animals? Can you navigate a boat across a body of water? How about a sailboat? Can you operate a short wave radio? Can you make a radio? Can you set up something to produce electricity? A lot of this stuff can branch off into its own …
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:24 PM
1

Please read the rules
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:02 AM
1

Good effort on the grammar. I think you were looking for the word "albeit". Your post isn't really what this sub is about though
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:58 AM
0

From an "evolutionary, primitive perspective" I would argue that most women are not attracted to men that look... soft? If you're talking about evolutionary traits that are subconscious, then you're probably thinking along the lines of women being attracted to men who are capable of survival at any cost. Hunting and killing. Making fire. Building shelter. These men don't have time to exfoliate their pores. They're too busy defending their shelter from a bear because it smells the deer meat he pu…
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:32 PM
1

It's not
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:58 AM
2

PB is insane on evenings and weekends.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:07 PM
1

You went to a club. The #1 highest competition environment where every guy is obviously trying to pull. Try places where you have waaay less competition and your approaches are going to be more subtle/neutral.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:03 PM
3

It's the same thing "psychics" and "mediums" (people who claim to speak to the dead) do. It's call cold reading. There's videos and books and all sorts of things about it online.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:59 PM
1

Read the rules
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:04 AM
1

Read the rules
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:04 AM
1

why did you remove my post? Please refer to the subreddit rules
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:52 PM
1

1) please read the subreddit rules 2) please speak to a professional
/r/seduction17/04/22 10:10 PM
1

Read the rules
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:11 AM
1

Try to think of places where guys aren't usually going to be. Or maybe guys that are a very different type than yourself so you stand out.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:46 PM
2

I don't know what country you're in but in the USA you should absolutely never just grab a girl in a nightclub. You keep repeating that you don't know how to dance. Learn how to dance.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:45 PM
3

If you're going to be in a dancing environment I highly recommend you learn how to dance. Also, consider this: a club is where you will have the absolute highest amount of competition. Maybe practice in social scenes that have slightly less competition first, and then bring your A game to the club.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:22 PM
1

Read the subreddit rules
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:00 AM
1

Not what this sub is for.
/r/seduction15/04/22 11:58 PM
1

Remove this post
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:14 PM
3

Progress is progress man; keep it up and the anxiety will fade away. It just becomes second nature.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:08 PM
1

Wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:36 AM
1

"Specific situation"
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:35 AM
1

Read the rule. Post it in the proper subreddit. Not here
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:35 AM
1

I'm constantly removing posts that break the rules. There are a lot.
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:34 AM
1

Please keep posts on topic
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:02 PM
10

Literally only one way to find out. Go talk to them
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:01 PM
1

I just looked at your posts. It's breaking rule #1
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:47 PM
1

This sub isn't for sex advice, please keep it on topic
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:29 PM
3

wrong perception of men What turns someone on or off is totally subjective, regardless of other peoples' opinions on the matter
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:22 PM
3

As with pretty much all the other advice in this subreddit, you can't apply anything to all women. Or even most women. All women are different. I've personally known women who literally told me they find guys crying or generally expressing emotions a huge turnoff. 2 women here are saying the opposite. I rest my case.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:11 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:08 PM
1

Yeah like the other person said, they don't really pronounce the ph sound like Americans do
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:53 AM
6

Again, we're trying. This sub has a surprising amount of people in it so the posts are never ending. I wish there was a way to make people check that they read a rule or two before they are allowed to post but that'll never happen
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:53 AM
25

I had my gf with me at the time. But I can't imagine it's that difficult. People on vacation are usually way more open and relaxed. They want to get rid of the normal restrictions they put on themselves back home and just enjoy themselves. Plus there are tons of really cool places to go and stuff to do, so nightlife is great and there's a lot of opportunities for unique dates. Phuket has a snake show like the one at the beginning of Rambo 4, lol. And they also have the world's largest jewelry st…
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:50 PM
1

This
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:33 PM
3

Username checks out
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:28 PM
22

Those posts aren't allowed here and I spend probably 85% of my time on reddit removing them. It's a lot to keep up with; sorry I'm not faster at it.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:23 PM
85

I've been to Phuket 3 times. Don't go to Bangkok, go to the tourist beach areas like Phuket or some of the small islands. Right now during spring is the best weather before it gets too hot. Tons of Europeans and Australian girls there are on vacation. Like... TONS.
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:20 PM
1

Rule #1. You are posting it in the wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:18 AM
1

Because I removed it a few minutes ago and you immediately posted it again. Do not do that.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:16 AM
1

Stop posting this or you will be banned for spamming. It breaks the rules of the sub. Always read a subs rules before you post.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:14 AM
1

Owls are nocturnal. All owls are "night owls". You can just say owl.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:43 AM
2

I remove posts constantly every day but I don't see posts like the ones you mention very often. Just report them so we see them faster. I'm also removing your post because complaining about the sub isn't helping anyone learn anything.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:47 PM
1

That's why teachers exist. In any field. They are a shortcut. You get to learn from the experience of others, and if you take the lessons seriously you can avoid the mistakes yourself and skip to more advanced areas of study.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:10 AM
2

Instead of reposting it, maybe read the rules of the sub and figure out why it got removed. It'll actually take you less time than reposting it because it's the very first rule.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:02 AM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:48 AM
1

Lol I'm old too. I'm just trying to help the guys get the idea of standing out. It's real easy with suits, especially for the younger crowd since they almost never wear them.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:08 AM
2

But you ARE old. My advice is for the younger people to wear suits.
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:48 AM
2

I never see the younger crowd wearing them, so how would they know? Try it.
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:37 PM
3

Suits are lingerie for women
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:55 PM
3

True, if it weren't so illegal
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:02 PM
1

Not a theory. It works fantastic for me.
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:02 PM
9

Dress the opposite of all the guys there. You want to stand out from the average. Wear a suit to dive bars.
/r/seduction08/04/22 07:38 PM
1

If you're going for a relationship then just pace yourself. If the vibe is right you don't have to hold back all the time cause you'll lose your chance, but it should be obvious when it's okay to move forward
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:02 AM
0

The only thing infiltrating this sub is people posting without reading the rules first. You're wasting my time having to remove this post when I could be dealing with all those other posts that break the rules because they posted without reading the rules.
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:20 AM
-2

6'2 is definitely not perfect. 6'5 is the way to go. /s
/r/seduction04/04/22 11:02 AM
-5

Yeah, I really don't put a lot of thought into it. I'm 6'5. 😜
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:56 AM
5

I wish you would post this more often. People are always asking about height stuff. Also, to my knowledge, their is no dick lengthening yet. Only girth. Lol
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:44 AM
1

Always read a subreddit's rules before you post.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:36 AM
0

Not really part of seduction, sorry.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:35 AM
1

Try to be smiling and laughing in a couple too. Your best bet is playing with a cute dog.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:32 AM
1

r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:57 AM
1

Learn and start practicing false time constraints to break yourself of the initial clinging. Beyond getting a phone the clinging is something you'll need to work on. Counseling is a great idea. You're on the right track!
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:32 PM
3

Is there a chance that most of these girls are VERY drunk? You don't want girls to be too drunk. It's been my experience that girls in college towns drink a little harder than other places.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:27 PM
1

All women are different and these types of posts don't help anyone by assigning false stereotypes to an entire gender.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:45 AM
0

Lol that actually might be pretty hard to find. Might be worth a few bucks to somebody? No idea
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:32 PM
3

LOL shout out to whoever reported this post as "wtf is this shit?". Seriously, this sub is for people to help each other. This post is suggesting the exact opposite. If you're having too much competition, maybe try improving yourself so you stand out from the crowd.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:31 PM
1

r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:31 AM
2

Shoe game is important. Pretty much anything will work as long as it goes with your outfit. Do NOT wear sneakers or running shoes unless your date is to go for a jog. Lol
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:25 PM
1

Field reports are not for specific situations asking for further advice. See rule #1
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:17 AM
2

I think the word you're looking for is 'misogyny'. If you think a girl have sexual experience makes her "dirty", it is because old, religious people told you to think this way. It is not logical. A woman can have just as much sex as a man and she is still the same woman. Ask yourself, why is she different after sex? She is still the same person, but now she knows how to be better at sex. Are you saying you only want to be with virgins? How boring would that be? Sex is so much better when a woman…
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:46 AM
2

Hey there. I have to delete your post because it breaks rule #1, but I feel for you. I'd say try to realize that because you're so far apart and have never met that you should think of her as your best friend. The feelings won't really go away, but it's alright to keep in touch while going forward in your own life. There's always the chance she'll be single again at some point, and you'll need to seize that moment and do whatever it takes to finally meet her. But in the meantime, go out, meet wo…
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:59 AM
1

Are you suggesting a man can speak for all Parisian women? Lol
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:50 PM
1

Wrong sub, check rule number 1. Guys are simple. If he's into you he's into you. He's already considered the age and decided he's into you.
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:25 PM
1

chomping at the bit It's actually "champing at the bit".
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:15 PM
13

Not at all. Go get em, tiger
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:24 AM
2

telling each other our occupations and hobbies Booooorrrriiiing. Find better stuff to talk about.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:28 PM
2

Nothing. And we're not. I removed it.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:01 AM
1

That is not what this sub is for.
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:40 PM
1

Dress to stand out from the average of whatever club you're at. If it's a club where people wear street clothes and everyone has fresh Js, wear a suit. Decent suit stores will often have 2 for one or sometimes 3 for 1 deals, with slight up-charges for custom tailoring to fit you perfect. If you're unfamiliar with how to wear suits (different styles can vary and there's even certain etiquette for when to button certain buttons, etc), the people who work at the suit store can explain it easily. It…
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:16 PM
1

Just try harder
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:44 PM
2

LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDS
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:38 PM
1

Please read sub rules before posting. And with guys just be direct. It's a huge relief to them. If you're into him just tell him. If you wanna hang out with him just ask. If he's into you even a little bit, he'll be thrilled. You don't need scripts with guys. They're easy.
/r/seduction21/03/22 12:17 AM
2

It's a good start for sure. Where you could improve is don't be so quick to explain the meanings. Make them "earn" it. When they ask which they are, try something that leads them along like "well I guess we'll find out soon enough". It's okay for a girl to think that you think she isn't cute. This isn't usually something that will make her suddenly less attracted to you. Later when she circles back around to the question, you can tell her you think she's hot or sexy or adorable. Some other word …
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:08 AM
1

Well you're fuckin up in two ways: 1, you're posting about it on reddit instead of rectifying the situation. And 2, you're breaking rule #1.
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:46 PM
1

Not what this sub is for
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:49 PM
1

Precisely
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:07 AM
6

Wear a fuckin suit. Everywhere. Unless you're going to the kind of place where everyone wears a suit. Then dress like you just survived a hobo knife attack and instead of going to the hospital you came out to get a drink. But like... just barely enough to get past any dress codes.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:38 AM
1

I'll tell you exactly what you did wrong. It's very simple. You didn't read the rules of the subreddit before you posted! 😛
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:33 AM
2

My eyebrows are absolute chaos; I've never once trimmed them. Lol. It's all about game, guys. Put more work into the game
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:45 PM
5

Nope. 100% wrong. I'm totally average looking and the peak of my sexual life was when I was 30-60 pounds overweight. I dated or had sex with a steady stream of 8-10s, about one every two months - for three years. Stop being lazy and put in the work.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:35 AM
1

This is not a relationship/sex advice sub. This sub is for the stages of meeting well before that point. Please seek a more appropriate place for your question.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:20 PM
3

Yeah I'm removing this because you're making blanket statements about ALL women when portions of this definitely only apply to *some* women. You're also stating things that are so specific I'd prefer you linked the science behind it (if it exists) and not just tell people things that are wildly inaccurate.
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:36 PM
1

It's not the hair. It's the mustache. Nobody who is 26 can grow a respectable mustache. It's just genetics. You can't get anywhere near a Tom Selleck or Burt Reynolds until you're at LEAST 35. Shave the stache, keep the hair. Redouble your efforts.
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:57 PM
1

Sexual performance or lack of performance advice is not what this sub is for. Talk to a doctor.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:35 AM
1

Bumble has a "friends" setting for finding people that are into the same stuff you're into
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:37 AM
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Nope.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:31 AM
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Eh, I'm joking mostly. It's a large city; you'll find some people. The state has ski resorts and hiking and all kinds of stuff to do. Get out there and be social.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:20 PM
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Try the classic, "if you were a hotdog, would you eat yourself?" It doesn't matter what you think of that line. You aren't allowed to judge it. Know why? Because it's an approach. Which is more than what you did. A bad approach is better than no approach. And at least you would gain some experience and learn from it.
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:48 PM
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As a Dallas resident who has visited ABQ... my condolences.
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:32 PM
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Play pool (billiards). There's about a million innuendos you can use with "balls" and "sticks". You can get a decent feel for where she's at in a sexual mindset and if you should pursue it further or stop. If she's competitive or generally good at the game you can make bets like a kiss, or something more extreme lol
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:17 AM
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I agree it's pretty much the basics of everything else. People just like to shit on it because it's old. Obviously if you take it to extremes the way he does in his book and show you're gonna get questionable results, but if you're subtle with it you'll see positive outcomes. The body language stuff he teaches is the stuff of legend. Works like a damn miracle.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:50 AM
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I did from about age 31 to age 35. But I was the bouncer in a club. Lol. Pretty easy when you're tall, wearing a suit, and hold some authority over your hot coworkers.
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:03 AM
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My advice: read the rules of a subreddit before making any posts in it. This is excellent advice for any subreddit!
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:48 AM
1

Tell em you have an emerging maple syrup conglomerate.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:02 PM
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Your next step is definitely going to be read the subreddit's rules so you can understand why I removed your post.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:49 PM
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If you are in the United States, having sex with a girl who is under 21 and has drank ANY amount of alcohol is legally rape.
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:43 PM
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Gay bars. Surplus of hot straight women, but few straight guys. Less of a guard because they'll assume you're not straight. You only blow it if you outright flirt or use a shitty pickup line. If you open with something funny or neutral, it's like getting a head start in regular bars.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:26 AM
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Nah man. What you're referring to is what's commonly known these days as "fragile male ego". If you can't talk to your partner because she'll "lose respect for you" then you've got the wrong partner. You should be able to discuss literally everything with a serious girlfriend. And holding things in is seriously unhealthy. Don't listen to all that "being a man" bullshit. This isn't the 1950s. Humanity is smarter now. Well... collectively speaking I guess.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:38 AM
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/r/seduction19/02/22 08:44 AM
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Try any of the questions that will Ferrell did in his skits as Harry Carey. You want questions or comments that are fun and/or provoke interesting or entertaining conversation.
/r/seduction19/02/22 08:14 AM
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Please read the rules before posting.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:20 AM
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Lol I kinda hate going into this because I'm older and my methods come from older books and sources that the community tends to hate now, but they work like absolute miracles. I think people just like to see new things and get rid of the old, but the foundations never change. Body language is something I might make an entire post about soon and it's my number 1 go-to method because it's wildly reliable, but for now I'm not going to get deep into it. False time constraints are something you shoul…
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:02 AM
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Just get out. Don't play video games. Sell your consoles or uninstall on PC lol
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:10 AM
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Body language. False time constraints. Be straightforward when talking about what you want.
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:00 AM
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Haha I was going to post this
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:31 AM
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Pretty easy to Google, super tired at the moment but if I remember tomorrow I'll find something for you
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:21 AM
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Two things, in addition to what the other commenter stated about being obvious that you're playing numbers. 1) if you don't want to stand there chatting as you said, you should read up on "false time constraints" 2) girls will often give a number or fake number if they aren't interested in you just so you'll go away and then ghost you because now they no longer have to deal with you. So even though it might seem like you're doing well in your approaches there's always a chance they were never in…
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:53 PM
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Haha hell yeah. Get a pic where you're playing with it and laughing. You know, with your shirt off. Lol
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:20 AM
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It would be a better use of your time to read some of the articles on the internet about studies that show what works on dating apps. For guys, you should have pics of you laughing or smiling so it's obvious you're having a good time, and then something with an animal, but NOT a fucking fish. The articles have better info than me, but those are some examples.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:45 AM
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Definitely just say hi to any girls you walk past in public. And keep walking. Being able to interact with girls without having an internal freak out is a great foundation for confidence. And that internal freak out is really common at your age.
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:26 AM
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Ice skating. It's way better than the average date girls are used to. It provides laughs. It allows for plenty of physical interaction to escalate later. There are ice rinks in my area that have a bar upstairs so after skating you can have some drinks and people watch all the skaters down below
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:40 PM
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As you're a first time poster I'm going to let you know that I'm removing your post because it goes directly against rule #1, which means you didn't read the rules before posting. This is something you should always do in any subreddit.
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:34 AM
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Yo, I'm in Dallas. DM me
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:20 AM
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The real key to openers, regardless of if they are planned or natural in-the-moment, is that they need to be neutral. You don't want a woman to think "great, another guy hitting on me" from the instant you start talking or you're already fighting an uphill battle. Say something hilarious if the situation presents itself. Say or ask something interesting that starts a real conversation or playful debate (a serious debate might also get you an uphill battle).
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:12 AM
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https://youtu.be/I9ww2bEoSDk
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:59 AM
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Lol we fucked after work later. But seriously. Don't try it, even on someone you're cool with.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:53 AM
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I always wondered if I'd see a thread like this because I know I have the absolute winner. It's so insane that nobody will believe it's true, but all I can say is I give you my word. I'm also posting it because it's a terrible method that should never work, and if you try it in the wrong situation you could wind up in serious trouble. Let's all learn from each other's mistakes here. That's like half of why this sub exists. Without further ado, the worst interaction that shouldn't have worked for…
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:51 AM
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This is the second time I've removed this same question. Read the rules before you get banned.
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:30 PM
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Have you tried searching posts by the flair "Field Report"?
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:10 PM
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/r/seduction06/02/22 01:55 PM
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Women find ambition attractive and video games are the opposite of ambition. Sure, gamer girls exist. They are young. Games eventually lose importance in their lives as they get older. I know girls in their 40s who still game but it's only in their tiny amount of free time after working a full time job and being a parent. All those 'real life' things need to take a bigger priority in your life. Pick a couple serious goals and start working on plans to achieve them. Whether it be the gym, or a sp…
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:52 PM
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/r/seduction06/02/22 01:41 PM
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=D
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:39 PM
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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities. Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work? As for the last one, it is an a…
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:38 PM
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You're* Lol
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:50 PM
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You're*
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:46 PM
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Lol I mean I was kidding, but regardless of what the account is used for you still chose the name.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:04 AM
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Your username might have something to do with it. 😝
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:59 AM
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If you quit drinking to correct an addiction and you do not go to bars because temptation is an issue then good on you for quitting and keep up the good work. But if you're not worried about being able to say no, you don't have to drink just because other people are around you. You can order a coke or water or club soda (or hell, you live in England so maybe tea? lol). Any girl worth a shit is going to be respectful of the fact you don't drink and any who lose interest because you don't drink ar…
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:57 AM
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I was a bouncer in a strip club. A lot of strippers are basically the same as insta models. The majority of them would be easily attracted to a drug dealer. They are over confident with nice clothes and plenty of cash. It's also what makes them get caught, lol. Gonna be pretty hard for you to get laid by insta models when you're surrounded by dudes... in prison.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:28 AM
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You forgot drug dealer, but you should not be one because the prison time isn't worth it.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:04 AM
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/r/seduction04/02/22 11:26 AM
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omg this so much. Lol you hit the nail on the head. Now combine that with the fact that before making a post, 99% of people don't read the side rules and wind up breaking them so we have to remove it. And we spend an insane amount of time removing simple posts. Then we don't have enough time to address the comments that are just downright terrible advice due to misogyny, etc...
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:50 AM
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That's actually all the stuff I spend a great deal of effort removing from this sub. It's insane how much people actually preach it.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:47 AM
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I mean... I care. Like 90% of my time on Reddit is removing posts from this sub that break the rules. You know what posts I don't see? People suggesting improvements. We don't ever get modmail about what could be done better, or more efficiently. We only get modmail calling us simps for banning someone that is spouting misogynistic bullshit.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:44 AM
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There are filters on this sub. Maybe check or ask before just spouting incorrect information?
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:41 AM
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We do our best to curtail that, but it's a hard task considering it's impossible to force people to read the rules before posting.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:39 AM
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Lol we don't ban people for using profanity. Where do you get this ridiculous notion?
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:33 AM
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I can assure you that moderators do this 100% voluntary. There is no money. Or if there is... nobody told me about it and I've got some questions.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:33 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:31 AM
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I mean she was really cool and we had joked about it before. It went over fine in the moment but keeping it just friends was a huge mistake. I should have married her.
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:01 AM
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/r/seduction31/01/22 12:43 PM
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I'm gonna remove this so you can try again with your location listed in the request, lol
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:40 PM
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/r/seduction31/01/22 12:38 PM
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I used to introduce my FWB as "my slam piece". 0/10. Do not recommend.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:54 AM
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You're missing the point. I mean he literally pays them. He pays models to hang out around him so he can post it on Instagram and shit. A billionaire like Jack Ma will always have women trying to be around him. He's a billionaire. The difference is that while Dan pays them for their presence, Jack pays them to leave.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:00 AM
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It's because anyone capable of critical thinking can tell that he's actually not worth shit, he runs companies into the ground, he isn't a "big name", and he pays for all the women to be around him. As someone else stated, it's not news when he's shitty since it's just his default setting.
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:47 PM
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Likely not
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:23 AM
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This is not the sub for that kind of question/post.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:16 AM
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There are multiple STIs you can acquire outside of sex, as well as being able to inherit at birth. Please do not give medical advice if you're not a doctor.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:15 AM
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lol if we had custom flairs to give I'd hook you up
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:39 AM
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/r/seduction23/01/22 02:56 AM
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Posts that spout this nonsense get removed. It's against the rules for a reason.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:29 AM
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/r/seduction15/01/22 08:14 PM
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Make sure dinner is something that won't give you terrible breath like dishes with garlic or onions. Don't finish the second half of the movie. Always read the rules before posting in *any* subreddit. It will help you understand why I'm removing this post.
/r/seduction15/01/22 08:13 PM
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Lol what's awkward about getting digits and how would this be any different? 😆
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:17 AM
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/r/seduction13/01/22 06:10 PM
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Let's revisit this conversation in saaaay... 15 years? 🤪
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:23 PM
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Go to bars in areas that "young professionals" hang out. They're gonna be riddled with your age group.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:50 AM
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Hit me up whenever
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:27 PM
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Sup man. I'm in Dallas if you ever wanna wing some time.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:22 AM
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When it feels right and there's a good vibe. If you're going for it based on a specific time frame you're only going to fail. Pay attention to the chemistry.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:19 AM
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I know a girl who's husband has a tattoo on his arm of Jenna Jameson, and his opener was "I bet you've never met anyone with a tattoo of Jenna Jameson!" They're still happily married with a couple kids
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:05 AM
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Have you tried the elevator/escalator mime scene from Austin Powers?
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:58 AM
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Your question is too basic. You're asking for stuff that is literally the entire point of the subreddit. Take an hour and browse some threads. There's plenty of info that will answer your questions.
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:06 PM
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/r/seduction08/01/22 01:44 AM
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/r/seduction07/01/22 10:28 PM
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/r/seduction07/01/22 09:56 PM
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Pretty solid book IMO. 6.5/10
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:33 PM
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You use body language to convey that you're "not" interested. Almost like negging without words but also without being perceived as rude. It works like an absolute charm and I'm always surprised I never see it mentioned in this sub and have considered making a post about it, lol
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:13 AM
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/r/seduction01/01/22 03:42 PM
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I highly recommend it strictly for the bits about body language alone. I've given a couple guys in here advice about how to specifically do body language in your approaches and at least one of them was absolutely floored by how well it works. My experience with it comes straight outta that book. Can't recommend enough. Check it out. There's a good amount of other details in there, and like the other reply says - it's a really good book to read because it's more storytelling than how-to.
/r/seduction01/01/22 03:37 PM
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/r/seduction01/01/22 03:35 PM
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/r/seduction24/12/21 08:06 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:31 AM
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Take her ice skating
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:19 PM
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You're*
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:17 AM
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Bro, please start using punctuation. Your post takes three times as long to understand without it. 🤣
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:20 AM
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Don't forget to actually do the advice I gave you months ago. 😁
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:48 PM
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What's new? And yes, your attitude matters.
/r/seduction02/12/21 05:33 AM
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/r/seduction01/12/21 06:35 AM
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I'm removing this as it sounds like it's a question for r/relationshipadvice and not seduction related. But dude, if you're in a relationship stop with games and trying to have power. It's a team effort at that point and the dynamic has changed.
/r/seduction29/11/21 05:12 AM
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/r/seduction29/11/21 01:41 AM
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/r/seduction29/11/21 01:19 AM
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/r/seduction29/11/21 01:15 AM
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Go with The Game. The foundations it teaches never really change despite how much hate it gets from people in subs like this. I particularly recommend the part in it about body language. It works like absolute magic.
/r/seduction28/11/21 12:04 AM
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Lol omg that was painful to read. You were right there dude. You didn't have any actual reason to give up like signs from her, another guy butting in, etc. Between this and your other more recent post, I'd suggest two things to you. One is you need to practice talking to strangers who don't matter. Girls you aren't into, older women in a store, even guys. Get yourself in the habit of being friendly to complete strangers. And it doesn't need to be conversation. Just say, "hey how's it going?" And…
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:04 AM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:08 PM
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/r/seduction22/11/21 04:08 PM
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This post is being taken down because it violates Rule #4: Keep it civil and on topic. We aren't always going to agree on everything, but at the very least, the discourse here will remain on topic and civil. Seddit does not exist as a forum for personal attacks, insults, harassment, taunting, threats, or shit-posting. Rage comics, memes, failure posts, or forever alone posts, are also not allowed.
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:06 PM
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/r/seduction22/11/21 04:01 PM
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Removed for breaking rule #1, but dude just make a move before the widow closes
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:35 AM
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Damn dude. I always feel bad removing posts that have so much effort put into them, but you should always read a subreddit's rules before posting. You broke rule #1, btw. At least you can copy paste to the appropriate sub though, so the news ain't all bad.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:22 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:19 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:17 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:15 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:06 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:02 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:42 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:21 AM
1

It sounds like you still haven't read the rules...
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:26 PM
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I've removed your first Reddit post because it breaks rule #1 of this subreddit. Here's some solid advice for Reddit since you're new: always check a subreddit's rules before making a post. Sometimes there's a faq that might answer your question. Sometimes there's a rule that requires you to search the sub first to see if someone else has asked the same question, etc.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:32 PM
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Removed for breaking rule #1. You should always read a subreddits rules before making a post.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:47 AM
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I often tell beginners that have social anxiety or extreme nervousness to do many approaches because it's the fastest way to fix that issue. And then once it becomes second nature, it's better to choose quality approaches.
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:25 PM
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Lol stop contacting her, you're not her type and it creeps her out. Also I'm removing this for breaking rule #1.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:25 PM
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Try 30 or 40 approaches instead of 5. It will help you get over the initial fear and it just becomes routine.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:09 PM
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Lol, sorry. Didnt mean to be rude but you'd be surprised how many times per day I have to remove posts that don't follow the first rule of the sub. It's a pretty clear rule, which means that everyone who breaks it simply isn't even reading the rules before posting. And to be fair if I was on my computer instead of phone I'd have used an auto response to remove your post that would have been more sincere. 😛
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:51 AM
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How to read the rules before posting?
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:16 AM
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I'm removing this because of rule #1. Maybe repost it regarding your shyness and confidence issue and leave the specific girl out of it.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:14 AM
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If you haven't tried... how do you know you can't?
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:17 PM
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Teamwork. They should be helping to convey your value. They should not do or say anything that comes across as competing with you. It screws you both; it's not attractive. You should be on the same page with what's expected and what backup plans you have depending on the situation before you approach a set. Communicate with each other. Have a plan.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:14 PM
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I'm confused. On one line you said "the pick up artist industry as a whole is a scam" ... and then on another line you said "I have never even tried game or dating". How could you possibly know something is a scam without trying it? This subreddit is a testament to hundreds or more people showing that at least some parts of the industry truly work.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:56 PM
1

Rules.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:27 PM
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Sorry, it didn't show up right away when I started reading. 😊
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:10 AM
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You should flair this "field report" and I believe the phrase you were looking for is "the point was moot".
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:02 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:58 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:57 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:52 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:49 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:47 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:34 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:30 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:24 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:24 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:05 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:56 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:55 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:55 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:55 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:54 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:48 AM
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Removed. Rule #1
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:29 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:39 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:11 PM
1

Click the link to go to r/seduction, and then click "About". That's the rules list
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:56 PM
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Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:10 PM
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Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:51 PM
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Removed, please read the rules before posting
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:03 AM
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Rule #1
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:42 PM
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Please see rule number 1
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:37 PM
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You should read the subreddit rules before posting, specifically #1.
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:35 PM
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Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:58 AM
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Removed - rule #1
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:45 AM
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Sucks that you typed all that out and I have to remove it for breaking rule #1. I actually do feel bad when someone has put this much effort into a post. But you should be able to just copy paste it to the proper sub. Rules are rules...
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:04 AM
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Removed - rule number 1
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:31 AM
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First step of game: read the subreddit rules. Your post has been removed for breaking them.
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:02 AM
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Removed for not following rule #1
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:20 AM
1

Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:01 AM
1

Removed, please see rule number 1. Also, you really should use punctuation.
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:00 AM
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I removed this because you wrote "based on empirical data" without providing said data. If you're gonna say something is scientific, you're going to need to prove it. Alternatively, if you made this post as just the last paragraph, it would be solid advice.
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:25 PM
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You probably shouldn't just be sitting at tables with single girls out of nowhere, and if you do, you need to be able to read the situation very clearly and gtfo right away if your presence is unwanted.
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:32 AM
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Removed. Please read the rules before posting
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:43 PM
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Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:35 AM
1

Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:35 PM
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Removed. Rule #1
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:22 AM
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Where you should post is r/askseddit. But you'd already know that if you read the rules before posting. 🙃
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:47 AM
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Removed, you didn't read rule #1 before posting...
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:45 AM
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Removed, please read the rules before posting.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:29 PM
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Removed, rule #1
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:46 AM
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Those are scammers and bots, friend. Very few are real women. Give it a try and find out yourself. As soon as you initiate conversation you'll get obvious scripted responses.
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:11 PM
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Neutral talking points that give no hints that you're attracted. She should think you're just saying or asking something in passing, and that you don't crave her attention at all. It should be something that she's mildly interested in engaging as well. This sort of thing works well with a wingman because you can use the old "maybe you can settle a debate we're having..." and then your 'debate' should be either thought provoking or hilarious to keep the conversation going, but for best results it…
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:37 AM
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Removed, please read the rules before you post.
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:47 PM
1

Removed, please read the rules.
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:40 PM
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Removed, rule #1.
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:38 PM
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Removed. You didn't even read rule #1?
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:53 PM
1

Removed, see rule #1
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:43 PM
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Removed. Rule #1 Please read the rules before you post in **any** subreddit
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:44 AM
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Posts that are asking for advice about a specific situation should be posted in r/askseddit. Please read the rules before making a post (good advice for any subreddit).
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:10 PM
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You didn't. My reply was a warning to anyone who wants to reply with their bullshit stereotypes about strippers. I've known literally hundreds (high turnover rate), and the stereotypes are so inaccurate. The men who want to repeat them are often just hypocrites.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:14 AM
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In that case, here's what being a stripper says to me. A girl knows how to maximize her income and minimize her debts. A girl likes to make her own schedule. A girl knows she can make 6 figures a year right out of high school with zero training or degree. A girl is above average in confidence, enough to be naked in front of strangers. All in all, seems pretty smart to me. Every stereotype you hear people say turned out to be the minority in my experience. Far from the majority.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:12 AM
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As a former bouncer in 3 strip clubs in 2 states over a few years... if I see one negative generalization about strippers, so help me Thor... I'm leaving the post up because I like the part where you challenge men to come to terms with what it means to them. Not all strippers are prostitutes. A small percentage might be, but you do NOT make judgements about a person without concrete evidence. A stripper (in America) sells a tease. That's all. If you aren't secure enough in yourself to date one, …
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:41 AM
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Well, well, well..... isn't this ironic, eh OP?
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:11 AM
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Removed. This should be in r/askseddit because it involves a specific person. Please read the rules before making posts (This is a good practice for any subreddit).
/r/seduction10/08/21 02:22 AM
2

Keep your messages short and to the point
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:49 PM
1

Please do not ever text girls long paragraphs. Not until you have known them for some time. Long paragraphs will usually get you ignored after 2 or 3.
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:23 PM
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You do realize you shit on "book knowledge" and then literally posted advice directly out of The Game, don't you?
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:28 AM
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Please read the rules before you post. Questions about a specific incident or person should be posted in r/askseddit
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:18 AM
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Removed. Rule #5. You're telling people to be closed- minded and ignore the advice of ALL women. You're going to have a real hard time with women for the rest of your life if you don't ever listen to their point of view.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:48 AM
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Completely smashed my expectations of my own abilities at 31. It's never too late.
/r/seduction01/08/21 07:58 AM
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It truly is. Try what I suggested for the next 5 or 7 days. Set goals. You'll feel great accomplishing them. "Say hi to 10 girls in passing." Don't initiate a conversation, just say hi and KEEP WALKING. Bump it up to 20 the next time. 50 after that. It becomes second nature and you don't even have nerves for it anymore.
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:25 AM
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Well you're in the right place. Check the sidebar. Look into the basics. Start building a foundation of good habits. Something like saying hello to any girls you see in public. Just smile, say hey, keep walking, don't look back. You'll be shocked out how this kills the anxiety of approach once you do this enough. It doesn't have to be hot girls either. Do this with girls you think are unattractive as well, and it'll start to get you in the same mindset of not caring about rejection when you talk…
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:11 AM
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Slooooow down. You've still got plenty of time. When you're 30, you're still gonna feel like you're 19. You've got plenty of time. Focus on what interests you, even if that's seduction, and the results will come.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:21 AM
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Your body language conveys more about your intent than your words.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:08 PM
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Your original post is still breaking the rules. Please read the rules.
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:44 AM
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This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different: A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept. If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit. No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you wa…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:06 PM
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Rule #3: "Seddit is not an advertisement forum."
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:05 PM
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This post had to be taken down because it violated Rule #3: it includes a commercial ad, spam, or pirated material. Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage. Pirated material and/o…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:01 PM
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Check out the part of rule #2 where it says "your post on this sub still needs to be helpful" You made a negative post and proceeded to argue with people responding to you.
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:00 PM
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Yeah they just say "a 2 set" or "a 3 set", but 1 girl is just a girl. It doesn't save any time to say a 1 set when you can just be like "I cold approached a girl"
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:36 PM
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You'd be totally right to think so. It's kinda weird. It comes from the original few famous "pick-up artists" or PUAs. Their books and seminars used a lot of acronyms and abbreviations for stuff so they would be talking in a lingo that most people can't follow. Kinda stupid though considering they were almost only using it in their own circles so it's not like other slang people use to conceal the topics of their conversation in a public setting. It's supposed to be more efficient but I think it…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:53 PM
1

That's wildly inaccurate for people who've been doing this for a long time. A set is a set of women. A group. It only has 1 meaning.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:48 PM
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A set is usually 2 or more women in a group. Opening a set is starting a conversation with said group. So to answer your question, "opening at least 3 sets" means the OP is initiating a conversation with at least 3 different groups of women (the set could also contain men that are not obviously with the women in a romantic capacity. There's entire chapters of books relating to how to neutralize the man in these groups if they are overly protective of the ladies).
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:43 PM
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Because it's neutral. You're not obviously hitting on them. If the questions make them think and are fun, they aren't as guarded toward you. They see you as entertaining, which is a plus. Especially for guys who aren't built like Greek gods.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:16 AM
5

Username checks out, lol
/r/seduction24/06/21 07:03 AM
1

Removed, see rule #4
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:23 PM
1

Removed - rule #2
/r/seduction24/05/21 06:56 AM
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