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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:37 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:08 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:41 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:46 PM
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NYE Purge Post!ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:08 PM
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CMVElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:54 PM
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Question For WomenElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:13 AM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:49 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:59 AM
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Question For MRAElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:50 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:09 PM
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ElderlyAlder/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:12 PM
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I pretty much agree with everything except this part: I try to see whether these signs hold any merit. They usually don't. Obviously I can't disprove your experience in your personal social circle but the vast majority of the time if someone looks like a slut, she is a slut. The reverse is not quite as true but still usually holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:28 PM
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Thanks but this is a Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:35 AM
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I don't see men vetting for n count in real life. moi neither social class/education I'm a yes and no on this. I agree that men almost always end up with women of similar social class, but I think it's mainly just proximity rather than deliberate vetting on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:27 AM
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Unironically true, She Wouldn't Abort Brad Pitt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:07 PM
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and they dress in a modest way to prevent accidentally being attractive to the opposite sex. With you on the other stuff, but where have you seen this? They might dress "modestly" in that they're too self-conscious to go shirtless at the pool etc but that has nothing to do with being afraid of being too attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:48 PM
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Black men do go crazy over white women so I understand the assumption, not accurate in this particular case but it's a reasonable mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:31 PM
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The most reasonable way to judge what a woman "would be like if she were born a male" is to look at what her brother(s) are like...DUH, they are literally the exact examples of what male form her parents genes combine to create. Idk why everyone ignores this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:15 PM
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pinging /u/poppy_blu she seems to be an expert on old people stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:09 PM
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Most terpers have emotional and psychological issues that rival those of cutters, I wouldn't date one of those either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:05 PM
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Good thing I'm already happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:03 PM
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Depression exists, which is why I’d never advise anyone to date someone who has it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:05 PM
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That’s great, women with brain chemical imbalances make terrible partners and the drug cocktail usually only makes them crazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:04 PM
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I’d advise any man to race Usain Bolt getting away from any woman who has ever cut herself, “attempted suicide”, or any other dramatic emo attention-whoring behavior like that, it’s basically the hugest red flag that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:56 PM
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That’s great and I have lots of theories and opinions on how to raise healthy children but the question at hand is how would you react to a current adult scenario not how would you prevent said scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:43 PM
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I'd probably just continue to be endlessly emotionally supportive and warm to him and all my other children. A mom sexualizing herself to her adult son by telling him what turns her/women on, and being brutally honest about his looks and recommending plastic surgery (both things I have recently seen multiple ppd males recommend) would not be remotely helpful in reality. Moms are for hugs and making you cookies when you're down and calling you handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:16 PM
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I don't think so, although there are traits that are considered immoral or unethical that are orthogonal to my attraction, for example if a guy fits my tastes and preferences otherwise but bullies or murders people without getting caught, I wouldn't care. I've only dated my husband and he is a good man who doesn't cheat on or abuse me so I don't think my dating history indicates any particular draw toward DT men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:02 AM
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That is a pretty crazy interpretation since there is no way I’d ever choose to live in the past. The vast majority of the reasons being related to modern medical and technological advancements, but no doubt some portion related to feminisms influence as well. Objectively, some aspects of the SMP and RMP were better for women pre-feminism, and objectively some aspects are better for women now. Whether one side outweighs the other depends mainly on an individuals personal attributes, like personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:41 AM
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Guess you skimmed over the part where I listed off a bunch of great stuff about the present huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:30 AM
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This question isn't really possible to answer. Every woman has potentially made huge "sacrifices" due to existing in a reality where feminism has had an influence, which has both positive and negative implications for their lives. Did I "sacrifice" getting 5 marriage proposals by the time I was 22? Did I "sacrifice" getting commitment without any cultural expectation of putting out? Not really, since that's simply not an option anymore, so I never had the choice in the first place. But on the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:11 PM
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from YOUR perspective as young women in the world, is this still a thing? From my perspective as a university student, it is definitely still a thing that people meet and mingle and date with fellow young people who they meet on campus, in campus-associated locations (college bar, etc), and through friend groups. It seems like the majority still, as far as I can tell. can men still meet a woman at a bar? Yes, in college bars at least, unsure how different things are for young professionals or is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:56 PM
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How was it freaky? Are men who don't understand that being obese is unnattractive blind, retarded, or just delusional? Genuinely trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 11:21 PM
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making men seem like petulant children incapable of taking a no for an answer I mean...if the shoe fits.... Have you ever dated men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:04 PM
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That is a benefit that (IMO) is worth the marginal increase in risk. So you admit that it is an increase in risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:34 AM
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A woman gets to choose the man she is with. She gets the opportunity to vet and then pick a man that will provide the two factors that she can control directly if she works. By that logic she can also vet her employer, and it is far easier to switch employers than to switch husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:20 AM
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There are three components to income stability, roughly speaking. Economy and luck Behavioral orientation toward employment Behavioral orientation toward providership When a woman works, she directly controls 2/3. She decides whether she behaves well at work, and whether she cares about providing for herself. When a woman relies on a man who works, she controls 0/3. He might be perfectly desiring to provide and the economy could be booming, but if he's too hotheaded to hold down a job or too ant…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:07 AM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 06:48 PM
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rip
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 06:46 PM
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Not really, it worked out fine for me as I am happily married but I worry a great deal about my children navigating the modern SMP, especially my daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:52 PM
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Wait what? Males are SO hypoagent that even with a FORTY-YEAR-OLD MAN it's considered reasonable to cast around for the nearest proximity woman to blame for his behavior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:35 PM
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Black women have higher testosterone. That's not some racist opinion, it's an actual fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:30 PM
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This should be an OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:27 PM
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Triggered much? You know it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:49 AM
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Very ethical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:24 AM
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lol @ whiteknighting for some whore false rape accusing some poor moid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:22 AM
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So you wouldn't use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:15 AM
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Pretty dope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:09 AM
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What about the faggots who dip their tiny cocktail wieners in other people's drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:08 AM
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Yeah but you'd get all that free real estate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:05 AM
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No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:02 AM
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Piece of advice when you're in mixed company As if I'd have negro friends 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:55 AM
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"We're not violent chimps! Now come say the no-no word to our face so we can beat you up."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:53 AM
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I don't care if they clean or not. It's the bickering that's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:11 PM
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You're the one who got so triggered by this post you spouted off random boomeritis memes like "participation trophies"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:52 PM
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Young enough that I'm classified as a Zoomer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:40 PM
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lol @ trying to school everyone on generations while being one of those people who calls everyone younger than them a millenial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:31 PM
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Day of the pillow old hag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:21 PM
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Purge week can show us how these deeply inhibited opinions, such as that "lesbians don't really exist" Oh hey, that's me!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:16 PM
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Lesbian relationships are fake news, women in 2019 are so tarded they think having a female BFF/roommate means they're in a LGBTQIA+!)(*&%$# "relationship" Gay relationships are also fake news, but just bc they cheat on eachother all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:05 PM
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Men are less neurotic and have more chill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:38 PM
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P.S. /u/cxj should give me gold for this post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:03 PM
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If you're an adult arguing about shit that was invented to torture children (chores) you should just LDAR
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:00 PM
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Well they should LDAR then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:58 PM
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Lol you can have them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:39 PM
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see my post here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:04 PM
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I support Israel unequivocally actually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:01 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:23 AM
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strokes tiny mustache skeptically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:14 AM
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That's quite the (((Nose)))
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:42 AM
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Because normies don't need that and think it's weird and gross, but by all means go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:24 AM
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I'm sorry that you have such terrible taste
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:22 AM
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It is racist. There's nothing wrong with being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:02 AM
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Yep. Unless you and/or your wife have terrible genes, or got real unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:57 PM
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The first few years kids build the foundation of their future personality. Fake news. The first few miliseconds of fertilization build the foundation of their personality. It's all genetics. I understand why parents want to flatter themselves by thinking they matter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:53 PM
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It is physically impossible for you and I to have sex because we are both women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:17 PM
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You better not be talking about my post which got 2x gold for it's A++++++++++++ quality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:16 PM
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I don't support this man's heinous actions but I support his jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:07 PM
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I actually completely unironically do not believe lesbian sex is real. Like what do they do, get naked and awkwardly bonk random body parts at eachother? Sorry but that's literally not sex, it's fucking pathetic (and gross). At least gays have actual buttsex which is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:49 PM
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Do you wear your own hair, or the hair of another race's women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:46 PM
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Female fertility peaks at 37 so we'll start then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:21 PM
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Blacks aren't violent, but if you say the no-no word they'll rip your face off. Mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:11 PM
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They're less fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:46 PM
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I plan on having at least 5 children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:31 PM
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Way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:26 PM
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Found the foreigner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:19 PM
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https://blog.jim.com/science/the-cervix-and-rape/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:09 PM
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Because men will mentally categorize you as a whore, treat you accordingly, and feel automatically entitled to threesomes and cheating on you. I mean by all means go ahead, their life, it's just a fucking retarded thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:54 PM
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They invented peanutbutter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:48 PM
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Did you have a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:46 PM
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I don't care if they're really bi. Pick a lane. If you want to lick clit go lesbian. If you want to date men, STFU about being "bi". No reason to tell anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:45 PM
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It is probably best to let her pick the partners, according to her chemistry and attraction to them- not yours. The best threesomes will likely come from when her and the other girl already want to fuck each other. Thanks for this great example of why women should never, ever, ever identify as "bisexual" in the open, even if they think that they are. If you open your mouth and the words "I'm bisexual" come out, some magical translation occurs and the words "automatic threesomes" are what men hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:34 PM
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What counts as old? I've already been called old and out of touch with the SMP when I'm only 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:31 PM
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Just when I think the mods can't get any cringier, I see this automod comment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:15 PM
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Wow, congrats on this fucking retarded idea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:47 PM
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Yeah it really sucks and I don't know what the best way to navigate it is. To respond to another comment I saw you make, yeah women DO start stressing over buying a house in the right school district and getting Aiden into 7th grade algebra because if she doesn't, little Aiden might end up permanently left in the dust. This is really bad for boys, since they mature later to begin with. I read some blurb on an older Nobel-winning scientist who remarked how he failed highschool math, like it was N…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:26 PM
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This is something I've been thinking about a lot. I think the school system is becoming increasingly high stakes and, for lack of a better term, asianified. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:11 PM
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Interesting thoughts, I'd like to read that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:09 PM
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So move back to Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:03 PM
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How many times have you confessed your feelings to a man FIRST, and what were the results? Never done it How many times has a man confessed his feelings to you first? What were the results? A few times, I married the one I liked back How many times have you had feelings for a man but decided to never confess? What were the results? Depends what you mean by feelings. I've had lots of crushes that I never confessed, but I've never like, fallen "in love" unrequited
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:01 PM
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Compared to 99.9% of humans who have ever lived, you have a life so amazing they couldn't have even conjured up a mental image of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:59 PM
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What % of your ancestors truly thrived? Imagine telling your great great great great x20 grandfather, as he died slowly in agony over years from an infected spear wound, whose whole life was marked by starvation and terror and assault by the raw elements, that his grandson would hurtle safely through the air at 80 mph in a comfortable climate controlled box, have access to so much cheap available food that overeating is one of his primary concerns, sleep safely at night in a magical bed in a mag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:50 PM
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Your so-called "shitty genes" were good enough to be passed down generation after generation for millions of years, winning the bitter evolutionary fight for survival that an unfathomable number of others lost. The traits considered important in 2019 are not some immutable objective human truth. For all you know you have a gene that makes you less susceptible to famine or radiation or just in general a wiry person capable of surviving and passing the torch under thousands of years of various pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:24 PM
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I don’t shame men for it at all. How would sour grapes even apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:01 AM
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Her comment supports my post 100%, duh. The features attractive to her in a man changed as she matured, to the point that she is now actively sexually turned off by the same things she used to be turned on by. When she now pursues "beta bux" she's not maliciously looking for an unattractive man to enslave, she's doing the opposite, looking for an attractive man. It just so happens that the qualities that are "attractive" have changed as she grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:30 PM
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That's fair. Everyone has their own idea of what "Chad" entails. Personally I identify Chad as your stereotypical jock frat guy. Slays and parties through college, doesn't take classes too seriously but doesn't fail, and has either the charisma, connections, or most likely both to launch into a successful career after graduation. These men almost all invariably get married and have families, typically to the sorrorstitute types they partied with. Then there are generic "alpha" personality traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:20 PM
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They are getting the exact same thing that Chads who marry get. Do they think they deserve better than Chad or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:50 PM
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But when we were younger who knows, because what I wanted back then wasn't really a husband but when I found my husband I was looking for something different so what I found attractive changed. What did your husband look like back then, was he not less settled back then as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:49 PM
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So why would you give Beta #3 a chance if he wasn't from the same dating pool? Huh? Her dating pool is a bunch of mature Chads and a few late bloomers, they all look the same to her. She doesn't care about any of their pasts, and the mature Chads don't care about her past. Only the late bloomers care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:46 PM
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The men who were fucking young sexy women at 20 are stable husband material at 30. She's interested in the same exact pool of guys, she doesn't even realize that a few of the now 30-year-old attractive men weren't Chads at 20. Which is entirely their problem, not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:42 PM
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By the "same sort of guy" I mean it's a man from the same exact dating pool, just older and more mature. By the time she's 28 the Chads she slept with before are now themselves husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:40 PM
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No, I'm saying Chad grows up and becomes a beta provider. If she had stayed with one Chad her whole youth instead of bouncing between a few different Chads, AFBB would be entirely played out in just one person. It only looks like she's going after two different mate pools because 20 year old Chad looks so different from 30 year old Chad, even though it's the same exact dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:38 PM
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The vast majority of women do not "die alone", they marry the same sort of guy they dated all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:35 PM
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I'm happily married.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:31 PM
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Maybe I missed the point but all you did was rode it out until he became a good beta. No offense, but if he didn't mature, or "settle down" you would have tired of his behavior and divorced. This would have put you in the exact position of giving your youth to your version of Chad, and then looking for beta billy the second marriage. That is literally the entire point of my post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:30 PM
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Men have every right to pursue whoever they want. The point in my OP was that those "young nubile" girls don't care about your husband material qualities though, so good luck trying to use that to catch one. Meanwhile Chads of all stripes grow up and settle down into solid careers and want a family, and to the surprise of nobody, end up matching up with similarly mature women who now have the same priorities. It sounds like you're making an argument that these men are apparently better off being…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:29 PM
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Men have every right to pursue whoever they want. The point in my OP was that those "young nubile" girls don't care about your husband material qualities though, so good luck trying to use that to catch one. Meanwhile Chads of all stripes grow up and settle down into solid careers and want a family, and to the surprise of nobody, end up matching up with similarly mature women who now have the same priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:28 PM
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Do late bloomers not exist? Or guys who struggle with dating in their teens and 20s but "look good on paper" at 30 with a career and good income? It sounds like you're making an argument that these men are apparently better off being ignored forever, instead of only before they "bloomed". Say a woman has two prospects. Man A and man B are both mature responsible dudes who she is interested in. Man A has a normal past with ex gfs and some hookups, while man B was an incel. According to you, she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:26 PM
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My experience is relevant because the AFBB discourse assumes that women's attraction preferences are immutable. Whatever turned her on at 16, is what will turn her on at 30. This is, of course, abjectly false. I haven't even switched guys and my preferences and attraction cues and priorities have adjusted drastically, to the point where if I was single again and confronted with a prospective boyfriend who sits around smoking weed skipping work to play video games, I would decline not only out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:22 PM
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You matured but you overlooking one simple tiny fact... Your husband even though a BB got your younger sexier years..your next guy if your husband died for example would get your OLD post wall years. Now tell ME HOW IS IT FAIR? Presumably my next guy got other girls' younger sexier years. If I died, and my husband remarried to a girl with a past, would that be unfair to my husband? Obviously not, since he had the fun he wanted in his own youth. The only men for whom it is "unfair" are men who we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:13 PM
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Why is this no longer realistic? What's wrong with marrying young? Nothing, worked out great for me, but normal westerners date around and move for college and jobs and go through a few relationships before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:07 PM
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In an ideal world, this is a nice scenario and plays out well to the benefit of both parties. The problem, however, is when a woman shows up in her mid to late 20s....or even her 30s with long list of demands and requirements Naturally, as she now prioritizes things family and children and stability. My husband does a lot more for me in this realm now than when we started dating, is there something wrong with that? for beta-providers males she would never give any consideration or time while in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 08:05 PM
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This just sounds like an argument for women to start screening men against their past. Does beta Billy prefer to be a loser in adulthood as well as in his youth? By your logic, women should start holding his loser past against him instead of treating him like they'd treat any other boyfriend candidate who fits their currently desired traits, since apparently he's going to be in a state of resentful hystrionics for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:54 PM
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Low class and low middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:17 PM
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TRP definitely moralizes it, and paints it as deliberate and malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:52 PM
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What do u think? Will stuck up educated broads hold their noses for well earning tradesman husbands, or only if they are 6'6", jawlined with huge friggin peniles? Neither, more and more women will end up with husbands like this. Conveniently read that this morning before checking PPD. According to my husband my job is to raise our 2 kids, work 40 hours a week and take all the overtime I can get. He has a union gig that pays 35.00 an hour if he would take calls. I make 14. He works once every few…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:01 PM
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One of the biggest complaints men on TRP have is women and society being polite and "lying to them" about things like looks mattering. At 5'0" and indian OP better arrange a marriage from his home country, because no amount of personality and probably no amount of money is going to make him attractive to western women, or nonwestern women who have access to western men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 05:56 PM
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That's ok you can be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 08:31 PM
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Courts are female biased but not because of the female part. Courts are biased toward people who are conscientious, good at filing paperwork, on time, making deadlines, showing up when and where they're supposed to show up, not talking out of turn, filing more paperwork, amending paperwork, obtaining and maintaining records and medical, school, government documents, filing MORE paperwork, actually following attorney direction, etc etc etc. Guess which gender, on average, is much more apt and wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 08:03 PM
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I'm not talking about erections, I'm talking about infertility. If you're not incapable of impregnating a woman, that's impotent and a huge turnoff. I don't care how well the meatstick works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:28 PM
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A vasectomy literally makes you impotent. I don't care that some doctor could try to slice up your balls and tie some tubes back together and things might get working again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:16 PM
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Women who don't want children are probably ok with it. It would be a hard dealbreaker for me not only because I want children, but because I'd be fundamentally turned off by an impotent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:41 PM
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🤡🌎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:01 PM
1

You are literally a childfree degenerate atheist alcoholic who miscegenates and fucks married women and you think OTHER people are what’s creating clownworld? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:24 PM
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First priority, I want him to be happy and fulfilled. That means getting the kind of relationships he wants, sex he wants, a career he enjoys which also enables financial stability, etc. Second to that, is all the selfish stuff. In a world where I get everything I want, my son would be a conservative heterosexual who marries fairly young to a pleasant woman and bears me many grandchildren, all while living close by. This doesn't mean I'd hate a gay/mgtow/childfree son, but it's definitely not wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:10 AM
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What bitching? I used Tinder as Tinder intended: I swipe on people based on pictures and I got a relationship out of it. I'm very happy with the matches I got. Does that sound like bitching to you?
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 12:40 AM
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I don't care about drug use on principle, but I would be very skeptical about a dude using PEDs because I care way more about your fertility than you having a gay porn looking bod. I want a lot of children, and I definitely have no interest in the type of boring socially weird gym nut who eats nothing but chicken and broccoli and tracks his calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:07 AM
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In times past, this meant she opened your car door for you. Your words my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:52 PM
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It's funny because you tried to give a historical example of something when in reality it proves the exact opposite of what you tried to say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:19 PM
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So your one example is where THE MAN OPENS THE CAR DOOR FOR THE WOMAN? hahahahhaahhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:12 PM
2

I respect your spiritual status
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:14 PM
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The bar exam is also just a piece of paper, unless you take it electronically, in which case it's not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:08 PM
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I'm an attorney now, because after all a JD is just a piece of paper. Who needs a government seal of approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:57 PM
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The checklist has nothing to do with who you are or even how compatible you are with each other. She'll happily marry you without even knowing what you really care about if you have the family background / job / race /necessary level of looks. Everything you list has everthing to do with who he is and whether they are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:51 PM
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Millions of trashy lowlifes whose kids never amount to anything and whose relationships consist of throwing bottles at eachother and cheating before breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:43 PM
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Yes it does
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:29 PM
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reddit.com/r/banpitbulls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:56 PM
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My parents are happily married for nearly 40 years now and I have a very close warm relationship with my dad, nice try though!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:55 PM
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Funny, TRP manages to talk about what women are like without being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:44 PM
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Your grandpa is a great example of a good regular guy who, when plucked out of his community and dropped into a testosterone-fueled macho killing machine environment most likely raped and pillaged some Jap girls before tossing a grenade at them, and then came home to live a nice long respectable life. Men turn into animals during war. Do you have a peer-reviewed source proving your grandpa didn't do that? men sacrificed their lives to keep their families safe Safe from other men...notice a commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:41 AM
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well said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:54 AM
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Nah, that means they are dangerous. All pitbulls are dangerous, even if they never eat a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:48 AM
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Men only love their children relative to their relationship with the child's mother. History is a 10,000 year testimony of men casually swapping heirs and favorites without a care in the world when a new hotter sexhole pops into the picture (looking at you, Bathsheba). That's what men choose when they run things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:29 AM
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Tell that to all the posters in r/tryingforababy and r/infertility who spent dozens of thousands of dollars on IVF with low-count sperm before easily getting pregnant with a donor sample 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 09:05 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:45 PM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:41 PM
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Estrogen/progesterone in our waters from birth control pills being excreted by urine. Debunked Knowing that sewage treatment plants remove virtually all of the main estrogen -- 17 alpha-ethinylestradiol (EE2) -- in oral contraceptives, the scientists decided to pin down the main sources of estrogens in water supplies. Their analysis found that EE2 has a lower predicted concentration in U.S. drinking water than natural estrogens from soy and dairy products and animal waste used untreated as a far…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:30 PM
3

Here's hoping I have daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:09 PM
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Interesting, although I'm dubious, since men still seem a lot stronger than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:04 PM
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All of these chemicals they list - are any of them linked to decreased testosterone? Yes, they are endocrine disruptors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:58 PM
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If society wants more low T men why are we so hell-bent on importing high T alphas from third-world countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:57 PM
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Has he gotten tested?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:56 PM
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Finally one good comment reply
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:55 PM
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((( 😱 )))
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:52 PM
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It's not easy to solve with IVF since testosterone supplementation blocks sperm production which is necessary for successful IVF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:50 PM
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It seems pretty simple to me, just put men on testosterone starting from adolescene to counterbalance all the faggy attempts by jew you know who to mess with our precious bodily fluids. Testosterone supplementation actually causes infertility though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:45 PM
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If we were in a longterm comfortable marriage with children and shared assets and intermingled lives, I wouldn't want to divorce over infidelity. I would, however, never have sex with him again in my life, so that part of our relationship would simply be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:35 AM
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Going by stereotypes, firefighter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:32 AM
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Do you think pussies are any different btw? ...yes, DUH
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:58 PM
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Neither was I, yet I am capable of participating in thought experiments. If you are not, perhaps PPD is not the place for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:20 PM
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Financial domination can also be extremely fulfilling from a man's POV
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:11 PM
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I would rather have bad credit than have my marriage destroyed, which is what would happen if the man who supposedly loves me turns our sex life into me regularly being required to undergo painful humiliating sex acts that are disgusting and a turnoff to me. You don't see how that would, in short order, destroy not only my physical attraction to him but also my love for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:04 PM
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No, she's comparing suffering through degrading and painful perverted sex acts to financial ruin. If your first teenage gf coerced you into an incident of strapon stuff would you feel obligated to let your wife fuck you up the ass for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:48 PM
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I don't either, I'm just curious what they think such shelters would accomplish for men that are not accomplished by existing shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:29 PM
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Because I got cucked by the mods, here is the original post: What exactly do you think having male-exclusive shelters would accomplish for men? You realize that the entire reason "regular" shelters are dangerous, dirty, and violent is because of the presence of men in them, right? If anything, a higher male proportion of shelter inhabitants translates directly into a more dangerous environment for any given man. Regular homeless shelters are ALREADY de-facto male-only because boarding with a bun…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:26 PM
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You want to kill millions of men? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:25 PM
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Yeah cash and prizes like not enough beds to sleep in lol Yes, they leave cities that have enough beds to sleep in, and purposefully travel somewhere that does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:25 PM
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It's funny how many women are responding in this thread saying "when I volunteered with X...." while none of the men are. Coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:24 PM
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marketwatch: Why women give so much more to charity than men “Women tend to view (donating) wealth as a means by which to articulate their value set"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:21 PM
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Yeah I'm getting it from somewhere, from my experiences as someone who has actually volunteered on many occasions in at least three different cities, and practically everyone I encountered running each city's charitable organizations, from soup kitchens to homeless shelters, were women. Of course the men in this thread have never dipped their toes into this realm, preferring to limit their activism to reddit comments, so it's understandable that you wouldn't know this. "When YCore, an organizati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:10 PM
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You find that outrageous?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:00 PM
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I'm sorry that reality offends you, must be tough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:59 PM
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Every time a female enters a male space it fundamentally changes that space. Every. Time. Ok well currently almost all the people who run and donate to charitable organizations and soup kitchens and food pantries and homeless shelters are women, so unless men step up to create and man these hypothetical male shelters they'd be run by women anyway. Why do you think men don't care about helping the downtrodden?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:58 PM
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Homeless populations flock to places like LA and Portland on purpose. They could choose to prioritize shelter space and find cities like mine but presumably the benefits of living in LA and getting whatever cash and prizes that are handed out in those liberal hellholes are more worth their while.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:56 PM
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Did you even read the post my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:53 PM
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so they don't get a shelter and that's fine. That's not what I said at all, they DO get shelters, plenty of them, they get standard coed shelters. I'm saying there is no benefit to men to create male-only shelters, because the danger to men comes from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:50 PM
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Funny how 90+% of all the people I've worked with who actually volunteer, advocate for, fund-raise and donate to charity services for homeless people are women. The people actually cooking meals and handing them out to homeless men and staffing the soup kitchen? Women. The people passing blankets and clothes and toiletries out to homeless men on winter nights? Women. The people donating their own money to buy medical supplies for the free dental clinic that serves mainly homeless men? Women. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:47 PM
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Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:41 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:33 PM
2

As opposed to homeless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:25 PM
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The crazy thing is, when attractive women are lauded simply for being attractive, we call it sexism AGAINST women. When short men are passed over for career advancements and promotions because they aren't taken seriously, this is seen as sexism against men, even though you could just as easily see it as boosting attractive tall men. Ugly competent women getting ignored in favor of beautiful airheads isn't exactly sexism in women's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:14 PM
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You said She would be a feminist icon for destroying teh menz in a male dominated sport at bare minimum Clearly that is not the case since nobody has heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:37 PM
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A quick google search tells me Shawna Robinson won 3 times in a Nascar touring series, I wonder why we've never heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:21 PM
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I've never heard of any of those people besides Rhonda, so OP's point is right on. Women are valued for their looks, regardless of competency. A beautiful mediocre is respected more than a plain winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:17 PM
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“Ugly women are held to the same standards as men.” No, because men ARE respected and heralded for their accomplishments regardless of their looks. I've never watched redneck car but I know who Dale Earnhardt whoever is, and I doubt he was a male model. If there was an ugly woman who actually won a few nascar races (might even exist, I have no idea) she would STILL be unknown compared to Danica Patrick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:14 PM
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She is 10/10 sexy and walks around in lingerie ripping it all off for any man who looks at her with interest throughout the day. She doesn't talk except to compliment men, and she has no personal preferences or tastes or standards. That's what women act like in men's utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:23 PM
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So yes that Stacy at your high school who dates that big mean jock who treats her like shit This is a male misconception. Men assume that because the jock amogs and treats them like shit, he behaves the same way toward women. This is completely false, jocks treat men differently from unattractive women, and attractive women differently yet. Jocks do treat their gfs like shit in a variety of ways on occasion but it's stuff completely different and unrelated to how they treat other men, things lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:31 PM
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That was addressed in this post a while ago ​ annually conducted federal research has found that today's teens are actually the "best on record". Kids these days "smoke less, drink less, and have sex less than the previous generation." Teenagers today are 46% less likely to binge drink than teenagers 20 years ago, and in fact are 21% less likely to have ever tried alcohol at all. Violence is down across the board, and teen offenders are no exception, committing far fewer crimes than their parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:31 AM
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I wouldn't talk to him about how to game or sexually attract women because that is weird as shit, I *might* try to lowkey warn him about various types of low quality women (extros, "mama bear" types, women who say their love language is gifts and acts of service, etc) but realistically I doubt he'd listen, guys like what they like and it doesn't have much to do with personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:14 PM
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Would you consider marrying her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:57 PM
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I see you are bluepilled on the TQ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:54 PM
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The Toe Pill is the fact that toenails are not only completely useless to modern day human beings, but are actually explicitly disloyal appendages that should receive no respect and should be recognized for the worthless liabilities that they are. Think about it. When was the last time your toenails did anything for you? They sit ON TOP of your toes, so it's not like they block your feet from nails or thorns or anything on the ground. I would even understand if they were on the FRONT of your toe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:50 PM
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nifty venn diagram
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:06 PM
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I seriously doubt K-pop idols are attractive to more than a very small sliver of the female population. Anecdotally I'm a young (white, American) woman and don't know ANY female friends or acquaintances who fangirl over K-pop stars except a few fob asian girls, who still date white men for whatever reason. Asian men are pretty universally on the bottom of the male SMV totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:28 PM
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Actually, female degeneracy and promiscuity is what serves the male imperative, the male ideal would be hoards of females lining up to fuck with no expectations or demands for commitment, which looks an awful lot closer to the hookup scene than it does to the RPW scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:19 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:44 AM
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I don't believe drugs should be illegal either
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:35 PM
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Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:30 PM
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Seatbelts - no, should not be mandatory Insurance - don't really care Wearing clothes in public - no, should not be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:23 PM
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I don't care if a pregnant woman drinks bleach, I don't care if she shoots herself, I do not obsess over other people's baybeeez, and don't know when men started turning into the type of busybody church ladies who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:34 AM
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Yes, totally legal, obviously, brilliant reasoning there. Serving alcohol is different from taking a drink, but injecting someone with poison is absolutely the same thing as taking a drink. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:02 AM
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Because you're not serving alcohol to a child, you're having a drink. It's also illegal for children to vote, sit through R-rated movies, run for office, and a million other things which pregnant women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:58 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5866281/ maternal prepregnancy obesity was associated with an increased risk of neural tube defects. A second meta-analysis published in 2009 also concluded that maternal prepregnancy obesity was associated with neural tube defects and, possibly, congenital heart defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:50 AM
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Now that I'm on my computer I was able to do some digging and find out (surprise! not) male obesity DOES have an effect, so yeah, now I actually can assert that. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3521747/ There is now emerging evidence that male obesity impacts negatively on male reproductive potential not only reducing sperm quality, but in particular altering the physical and molecular structure of germ cells in the testes and ultimately mature sperm. Recent data has shown that male…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:47 AM
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Like I said, you appear to be combining my and someone else’s comments to claim I made an assertion that I never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:37 AM
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Shooting people was never legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:08 AM
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One is a person continuing to live their life as they have always done, the other is shooting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:04 AM
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Please copy paste my “assertion” that “obesity in men causes chromosomal abnormalities in sperm”. I wouldn’t be surprised if they did but you seem to be combining mine and some other persons comments, as the only disorders I’m aware of that obesity is a risk factor for are maternal. Faulty sperm 100% does contribute to miscarriage, viability, and embryonic genetic health however I don’t know off the top of my head if male obesity is a specific risk factor. Wouldn’t be surprised though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:01 AM
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Of course assault and murder is a crime, and no it is not assaulting your baby to drink alcohol while pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:56 AM
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Holy shit that is so ignorant. Sperm quality contributes heavily to fetal development, chromosomal abnormalities in the sperm cell cause birth defects in the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:48 AM
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Do you have an example of what you mean? I would say the line should err very far on the side of liberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:41 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:19 AM
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I don’t even believe CPS should exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:41 PM
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Yeah, moids need to be shamed out of all their gross fetishes, especially transgenderism, and foids need to be shamed out of various things such as being cunts and parenting stupidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:59 PM
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Do you also want to ban motorcycles? Rock Climbing? Smoking? I mean the list goes on...and on...and on...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:47 PM
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Alcohol is not observably much more consequential, otherwise everyone born in the 50s and 60s would have FAS, and as bad as the boomers are, they definitely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:43 PM
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I agree completely, everyone ought to be shamed a lot more for a lot of things, shaming =/= legality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:42 PM
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I actually do happen to think smoking crack should be legal at any time, including pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:30 PM
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just make it legal to refuse service if the establishment so desires I agree with that, but establishment =/= waitors. If the waitstaff feel like not upholding establishment policy, they can get fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:16 PM
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Nobody's forcing you to eat Micky D's
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:09 PM
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And as soon as the kid is born she's allowed to start feeding it french fries for the next 18 years. Obesity and advanced maternal age are a couple more factors that increase the risk of various defects, should it be illegal to carry to term if you're fat or 35+? Should it be illegal to take your kid on motorcycle or jetski rides? Who is the final arbiter on this stuff now that apparently we're in the business of micromanaging what risks people are allowed to take with their own lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:08 PM
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But it should be illegal for junk food to be produced. It isn't food, it's just a conglomeration of synthetic poisons and kills more people than The Plague. Ok, this is the kind of tyranny I'm against, thanks for providing a great example of why people like you need to be prevented from being in charge of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:02 PM
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Not serving her alochol isn't "policing" her body. It's just not being complicit in her endangering the human body growing inside her. Serving a fat guy french fries is being "complicit in endangering the human body inside of him" yet somehow I doubt anyone has an issue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:56 PM
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Of course it should be legal, just as pregnant women are legally allowed to eat sushi, eat fast food, not exercise, drink soda, drink caffeine, and yeetus that feetus right out of the oven if that's what they want. Should it be illegal to feed kids junk food? Allow them to ride dirtbikes? Fuck off with the slippery slope of trying to be some old church lady schoolmarm buggering into everyone elses business and deciding what health risks you are and aren't allowed to take with your own body and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:45 PM
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Sure, I don't hide my account from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:17 PM
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You clearly haven't read that subreddit if you think it's just "transpeople being horny". I mean yeah, they are horny, but they're horny over things like V8 popsicles melting out of their rectums to imitate period blood. And I'm very familiar with contrapoints but thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:12 PM
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lots of men sitting at home playing online games and watching internet porn. I wonder why men aren't as appealing for marriage anymore 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:31 PM
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For a transwoman (for an example) being a woman isn't sexually exciting, it's just who she is. I disagree. r/itsafetish. But it doesn't matter, I'm incompatible with it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:58 PM
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Wow, if that is your definition of "friends" then I definitely 100% do not want my husband having any female friends whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:38 PM
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Lack of engulfment is what's psychologically horrifying for males, THATS the real f on m rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:05 PM
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cosigned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:14 AM
2

looks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:06 AM
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Well, now I know I'm definitely not the one who hasn't been in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:12 AM
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Now to me, THAT sounds like a man who's never been in love. Any man who doesn't care that I disrespect him enough to tell him to his face I want to have sex with other men, is a man who doesn't give a single fuck about me and has no investment or sense of possessiveness in our relationship. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:04 AM
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He definitely can't trust me with his desire to shit on my person, no. That's not how you display love toward the "love of your life" and mother of your children, that's how you display contempt and disrespect. On the flip side, do you think I should be able to go up to my husband and be like "I have a cuckold fetish, I want to fuck BBC and cuck you"? Should he just be like "oh, interesting, thanks for trusting me with that info"? Because he would most certainly say something along the lines of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:46 AM
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Plus that visceral reaction at the end, that's someone talking to a person they never loved in the first place. Funny, if a man who supposedly loves and cherishes me says he wants to smear feces on me, THAT's not a lack of love. But my reaction of disgust would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:37 AM
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Early 20s, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 01:06 AM
6

it's so normalized among some young women lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:21 PM
1

Sure, don't use it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:02 PM
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Do you have a secret fetish that no one can know about? Nope, not remotely. What nasty sexual predilection would you dump your SO over? Before marriage? Almost anything fetishy or kinky, gross, no thanks. After marriage? I'd have to put up with almost anything, if he went transgender or pedo or gay or something that would cross the line. (By "put up with" I don't mean engaging in it, just not leaving him for voicing it). Exactly what nasty things do you enjoy that you have to keep secret? The on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:57 PM
1

no, high. The closer to 1, the worse the ratio is. .7 is generally considered ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:45 PM
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Of course not, no more than girls with high waist-hip ratios should just get fat. They should do whatever they want to do, but I’m not going to sugar-coat things for your feelings and pretend genetic frame doesn’t matter a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:55 PM
0

Broad shoulders is most definitely not muscle. You can tell when a feminine-framed man is trying to compensate with muscle and it’s just sad. Of course working out will accentuate/improve ones naturally good frame but it can’t create one, and isn’t necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:13 PM
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Within reasonable bounds, looks > height >>>>>>>> muscle. I'd rather have a good-looking guy who's average height than a tall guy with a meh face, and I don't really care about muscles at all. I care about frame though. Broad shoulders get you farther than being jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:23 PM
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As a young white woman I attract pretty much across the spectrum of dudes (not trying to brag, that's just how it works). I married my first boyfriend so I don't know what types of men I can "keep" but it was pretty easy getting and keeping my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:17 PM
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No on both counts, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:21 PM
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1 and 2, no ​ 3 and 4, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:45 PM
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I suspect his ex submits a picture of that car to the court whenever he challenges things and is like "you see what we're dealing with here?"
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:45 PM
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She didn't even say that SHE was the wholesome girl thing, just that it's ok for men to want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:05 PM
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Nobody was bragging, just repudiating the stupid comment calling Cleveland "amish country"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:33 PM
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I'd be more grossed out that you're watching a children's movie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:22 PM
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Greater Cleveland is ranked as the 32nd-largest metropolitan area in the U.S., with 2,055,612 people. Cleveland anchors the Cleveland–Akron–Canton Combined Statistical Area, which had a population of 3,515,646 in 2010 and is ranked 15th in the nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:10 PM
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We started dating at 18 (me) and 20 (him). Married and together 6 years now. We were both virgins, although I think he had more experience with highschool girlfriends and messing around than me. We're very vanilla and we want a lot of children. Not religious at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:27 PM
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I'm not offended by anyone saying that women are AWALT/innately hypergamous sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:03 PM
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Note: I'm not blaming her dad, regardless of whose fault the divorce was, it's devastating to a child Children of divorce are not privy to the nuances of their parents sexual and romantic relationships, no matter which adult is at fault, the daughters (and sons too I'm sure) are left with the gaping lack of security and stability and inability to really trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:08 AM
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I specifically didn't imply that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:44 AM
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And 11 year olds didn't have unfettered access to millions of VCR pornos. I actually AM an early 20s yo old woman, these boys are my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:36 AM
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How would me pointing out that women RIGHTFULLY can no longer depend on men for financial or relationship security, be interpreted as me saying that "women need to get back in the kitchen"? Obviously that wouldn't work out for them at all, would it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:27 AM
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Hiding a stash of playboys isn't even in the same ballpark as boys getting addicted to increasingly hardcore high-definition on-demand porn streaming starting in the single digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:26 AM
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Ubiquitous high-speed porn consumption from very young ages is definitely a new issue and male-female relations are reeling from it to a staggering degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:02 AM
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analyzed through the usual PPD lens of “cuz women need to get back in the kitchen.” How is that what you got from the post? People often wonder how America can simultaneously be one of the most religious and one of the most dangerous societies. No they don't, and that's not even remotely true on either account
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:45 AM
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I'd be fine with it indefinitely as long as we manage to conceive lots of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:22 AM
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That sounds really nice. What are they called? How do you find out about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:16 PM
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I mean I do drugs alone but I'm horribly socialized and don't have any friends and if I were a man would probably be an incel so...probably?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:11 PM
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I’d recommend the retreat experience for everyone Even protestants or atheists?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:11 PM
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That's all well and good but it's not socialization
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:59 PM
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Understandable, I'm more of a cabin homestead in the woods by myself type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:50 PM
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Beautiful comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:43 PM
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"Witches" are 300 pounds with pink hair and work at the local gas station. I don't believe in god either, but at least Catholicism is a real religion with thousands of years of tradition and history and scholarship, not to mention actual beautiful convents that you can live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:33 PM
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Sounds gay and larpy as fuck but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:19 PM
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Join the convent, have all your basic needs met, not have to worry about what to wear or when/what to eat, what your job is, mortgages, car notes, phone bill, etc. Likely get to live in a beautiful place with peaceful people. Drop out of the rat race and spend your time in prayerful meditation or making yourself useful to someone less fortunate. Sounds absolutely lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:42 PM
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Enjoy! It's not like men seem to be "enjoying" it, if anything they complain more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:41 PM
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my very next thought was Haha, guess we're on the same wavelength I wonder why that is. Not sure either. Like I pointed out I do think women are more susceptible to feeling pressure to live up to what's expected from them, probably due to being higher in agreeableness and conscientiousness. I don't know if that explains everything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:33 PM
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Did you miss the part where it said they are much more doctrinally conservative than their elders? They are on the whole very rigidly traditional in their views toward things like homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:16 PM
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In 1965, America had 180,000 perpetually professed Catholic sisters, the technical term for women who have pledged their lives to chastity, poverty, obedience and serving the church. By 2010, that number tanked to fewer than 50,000. But right around the time I began to notice my high school classmates’ burgeoning faith, something flipped. After 50 years of decline, the number of young women “discerning the religious life”—or going through the long process of becoming a Catholic sister—is substan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:07 PM
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More great points. Agree on all counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:05 PM
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What on earth would it accomplish for me to kick my kids out to "go socialize"? What are they going to do, walk 10 miles into town (because this is America and you need a car to get anywhere) to knock on a classmates door and awkwardly stand in the room while said classmate continues to surf reddit on his phone? Not to mention the child neglect/endangerment charge you'll get slapped with. You realize getting high under the bleachers only works if all the other kids are also hanging out there, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:04 PM
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So the problem isn't financial, it's neuroticism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:54 PM
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If it's financial, why do the poorest people have the most kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:10 PM
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> I personally wouldn't do it because I prefer a private life where my income isn't dependent on looks ​ I mean you could just do it for 10 months and have enough to retire and live that private life however you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 12:24 AM
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