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It should be better at university. Before I continue - Im in my late 20's and advise you to find a quality partner to marry as soon as you can, unless you do not plan on being married. University is the best time for you to be around smart, like minded people, and you have a lot of time to spend dating. Who you spend the rest of your life with is the most impactful decision you'll ever make. It's fun to fool around a bit though. When you have this conversation, what sets you apart from literally…
/r/seduction24/02/19 06:23 PM
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You’re upfront about it and they still want a relationship. You can continue trying to sleep with them, and either 1) that’s the definition of a fwb 2) they start to say no/ not talk to you. There isn’t something new you’re going to find with your strategy. I do think you should try using different justifications when you’re explaining your intentions to keep things going with said girls. Remove the “relationship compatibility” component. I am currently seeing a few girls who know they’re in a c…
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:43 PM
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My detector is up, I've done 3 in a day that I knew, and 2 in a night that I did not...havent swiped in NYC, wondering what the profile says!!
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:50 AM
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I find exercise classes are a really good way. Yoga, rock climbing, cooking, certifications, etc. Dm for more info on these ideas. Remember, It takes a while to build rapport at the facility and with the patrons (tactically: talk to everyone and make friends as the post above states). Few people are attending these places specifically to meet their SO. In addition, Most people meet their SO while doing something they like. You need something you like to do, that girls also like to do, that also …
/r/seduction14/01/19 03:12 AM
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That’s quite the list. A long, overwhelming, list. Learn to accept yourself as you are, you’ll see half of the things you listed do not matter at all, and the other half will get better.
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:10 PM
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This is the information I was looking for. I mentioned dating before, but...I don't want to do that right now. My long term long distance relationship has ended and I want to have fun. Reflecting on your comment and how I operate in the past, I do a lot of "boyfriend material" type stuff. Which is probably why a lot of my FWB's turn into real relationships (Which isn't a bad thing if that's the goal) One thing I've learned on this sub is I need to work on myself, and put myself out there.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:20 PM
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I fell in that trap in the past. It was hurtful when she told me she didn’t have enough money to buy herself dinner, and then would go out with her friends when I wasn’t in town. This is my main motivation for asking this question. How do you handle a relationship where you’re expected to foot everything? End it? I feel it isn’t a conversation that goes well. The only thing I do to show status is not look at the bill before handing my card over. I know I’m not going to spend that much
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:56 PM
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I think I understand your point. So if I would spend $40 on my own, I should plan on spending $80 together. Lavish items should be once in a while (just as I would do for myself) Any thoughts on how she would feel if she paid sometimes? Do you think they should at least try to make an effort to split it so I could say no?
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:47 PM
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I have relatively cheap hobbies, except I like to take weekend vacations. Those are a lot easier to split at least. So when you’re dating a girl, do you pay and just try to keep it inexpensive? Or do you ever split things? I am a high earner so they know I have cash to spend, so even I feel strange if I’m always being cheap/inexpensive. Edit: I need to think through that last sentence a little more...
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:21 PM
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I’d like to know about dating but I’ll be doing both. I'm not going to focus on dating..just want to have fun. To seduce it doesn’t matter a whole lot does it..?
/r/seduction04/05/18 04:55 PM
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I have the same question. I think the hardest part is going the social proof. Why are you here alone? Is it safe to hang out with you? Are two questions they’ll ask. Enhanced by...whatever. I’ve made really good coed friends at festivals. Not as easy for me at shows just due to how girls go out.
/r/seduction03/05/18 09:56 PM
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And sleep with her again...I've found it builds attraction
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:04 PM
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lol'd at N=1
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:12 PM
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One if it's just the physical difference Two if it's the physical and mental difference Three if it's the physical and mental difference AND you consider yourself "short"
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:38 PM
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"Hi, what's your name"
/r/seduction25/08/17 12:58 AM
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I like your style
/r/seduction25/08/17 12:58 AM
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If you approach at all and hey think you are ___, you'll do fine. _____ can be replaced with original, funny, clever, cute, sexy, not-as-drunk-as-them, etc.
/r/seduction25/08/17 12:48 AM
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If you feel like your constantly looking for girls and not having fun, remember "girls are not machines you put kindness tokens in and get sex." Or whatever tokens you're peddling.
/r/seduction25/08/17 12:40 AM
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I agree..perhaps, my frame needs help - when they're working and I go from flirt to ask out, I feel like I'm trapping them since they can't actually leave. And I usually go back to the same places.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:19 PM
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Yes. But larger than that - you have to go for it. A lot of my mistakes in the past have been riding the line between flirting and being nice, or wanting to go for the close but not wanting to come off too strong. This is what I meant by being deliberate with what you're trying to do. The outcome should be rejection or closing.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:56 AM
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Be deliberate in your intentions, the art is to socialize sex without being creepy or forward as she (whoever you're talking to) would define it. Take a calculated risk by trying different things with people you probably won't hear from again otherwise (are out of your normal social circle.). I'm making assumptions that the parties have enough people that you won't be noticed if you slip away, and alcohol or other social lubricants. There is no silver bullet. I'm not as well versed as others on …
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:43 AM
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To clarify, are you having this conversation anywhere? Is your goal to turn the conversation into a date, or is it to take them home? I have the same question as you. Am generally outgoing, can close on most dates, but after my LTR I'm not remembering how to go from conversation to date...
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:28 AM
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Preferable one of your cars. Picking a random car might not work well
/r/seduction16/07/17 04:27 PM
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People flirt in the office because it shouldn't go farther than that. Do not fall for this trap. You will ruin all of your relationships if you sleep with someone you work with. Not someone who works at the same office - if it's large, but if you interact at all it'll go sour (wether the relationship is good or bad.) On a positive note, if you friend zone some people, they'll have friends and you can sleep with them.
/r/seduction14/07/17 06:22 AM
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I do this most of the time. It doesn't have to be complicated
/r/seduction08/07/17 06:03 PM
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One must be creative to have it all. Coffee shop numbers have always been the easiest for me. Grocery stores are the worst.
/r/seduction05/03/17 06:11 PM
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Ohhhh I read this as "I have NEVER woken up to a random girl and..." I was like the hard part is over man
/r/seduction05/03/17 02:01 AM
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Go out and meet girls in the wild. It's more fun when you match IRL -> instead of right swipes you have to approach and they have to respond. It's also a little less fun when they turn you down, that's why you have to keep a positive mindset. If everyone could do it, it'd be tinder. You'll find different girls in the wild.
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:20 PM
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This was fun to watch and couldn't agree more.
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:09 AM
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If I'm reading correctly, craft a workout plan based off of daily quotas per day/week just to talk and meet?
/r/seduction12/11/16 04:57 AM
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Guessing - approach 100 people, try to get their number? What is the goal? Not wanting to be a bitch but being a bitch. If it' just 100 approaches: approached 1x tonight. Good convo, no dice.
/r/seduction12/11/16 04:57 AM
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/u/silver_light : Your life is yours to create. Don't feel bad if others have created something and you're on a different path or another level. If you start to ask yourself "what do I want to create next" then you're getting somewhere, completely forget the cycle. If you feel like your depression is impacting everything, go back to some basics: get plenty of exercise. Drink a lot of water/eat well. Get plenty of sleep . Make your body function well and it'll reward you. (If you're thinking it's…
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:38 PM
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