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| 1 | It's very rich that women expect guys to make the first move at all times yet they should be under no obligation.I agree wholeheartedly, and thank you for saying the things that people on Reddit have legitimately fought me over, which is that luck plays no role at all. In fact you can read my comment history and watch me spar with someone who called me an incel for arguing that luck and looks play a heavy role on dating apps. Their counter argument? Looks don't on dating apps, just be a good conversationalist. How am I supposed to chat with someone before the match? You're guess is as good as mine. Luck pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | It's very rich that women expect guys to make the first move at all times yet they should be under no obligation.People like this love to fight for and achieve "liberation" selectively and when it works in their best interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 12:47 AM |
| 5 | It's very rich that women expect guys to make the first move at all times yet they should be under no obligation.I don't understand this argument at all, sorry. Women are not a monolith. I don't understand your point. How does one rejection from one approach prevent another woman from approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 12:46 AM |
| 5 | It's very rich that women expect guys to make the first move at all times yet they should be under no obligation.Women have approached and asked you out more than once. You're above average. Height, race and context of the approaches would be important. I'm sensing tall and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenUnderstood. Your argument has changed as your observation, based in the fallacy of the Just World, was challenged. As someone who does not identify as socially inept, you were unable to redefine your premise. Thank you for clarifying and I look forward to your altered premise that does not assume social ineptitude of single individuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenJesus Christ, indeed. It would seem your argument is that unattractive people are unattractive because they're unattractive. You chose a bad example by assigning the blame to a hypothetical man's "socially maladaptive behaviours". Why not just say your example was bad, take some accountability and say your thesis is unattractive people are unattractive? Typical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYour original assumption was that the person struggling was socially inept. Are you altering your argument to rescind that assumption and instead replace it with a boilerplate "People who are unattractive are unattractive"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenI understand the point I'm making is too complex for you to understand. It's okay that your level of logical reasoning isn't developed, but I just can't explain this to you any further. Your base assumption is the problem. It is incorrect and assumes a negative trait applied to a negative outcome. This is the just world fallacy. I'm sorry this is so difficult for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYes there is. It's okay that you can't see it. I've explained it enough times but its going over your head. To dumb it down for you: you assume bad traits within man without date. You don't think man without date can be social and still struggle. You use just world fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYour logic is flawed. I get "triggered" by poor logic. You continue to assign poor personality traits to the person struggling. It is just world. Your inability to understand anything beyond "basic logic" and then applying it to a complex topic is the issue. Not on twitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYour logic is flawed. You invoked the just world fallacy immediately by characterizing the man with struggles as a socially inept loser. The entire fallacy revolves around the fact that people such as yourself make negative assumptions about someone's character based on their dating history. In this case you've branded the struggling man as a loser and the successful man as socially intelligent. You don't understand the just world fallacy and continue to use it to prove it doesn't exist. You're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYou invoked the just world fallacy within this argument by suggesting the man without experience is a person with awkward maladaptive socially inept non-intuitive mannerisms and interpersonal interactions. The fallacy can be expanded beyond the limitations of "good or bad" to fit in other definitions of expected vs non-expected behaviour. Your assumption, at any rate, suggests the person without experience has a clear overabundance of socially awkward mannerisms. You present this as a negative t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”What are these self-improvements that are so odious that they aren't worth pursuing for their own sake? Becoming more social? Getting in better shape? Wearing nicer clothes? Paying a professional for grooming? Occasionally spending money out of the house on meals and entertainment? I mean hey, I did literally all of these things over the course of 5ish years and I still got routinely rejected. My height was primarily referenced more than a few times. Maybe its just not as easy as you think man. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI'll give it a look. Thanks for being kind and not immediately calling me all sorts of names. It's been a very long very tiring struggle. And I am trying my best, its just that it is never good enough. I always get turned down for a whiter taller man. It sucks. I know that height isn't the be all end all, but I'm under 5'6'' and I've had so many girls tell me they'd say yes if I were taller. I don't know how I'm supposed to take that. I'll watch the video and try to keep an open mind. The last t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellI appreciate that. In some situations the issue has been me. I know just from intuition that they're not interested romantically in the slightest but it felt nice to have someone want you to be around even if it's just to serve as a proxy boyfriend. Closest I've ever gotten | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 05:53 PM |
| – | Befriending women will not make a differenceThanks for the video. I'm unfamiliar with this creator so I will wirhhold judgement and give it a watch. I definitely don't agree with the "attractive incel" you spoke of. The majority of my friends are women. I don't think this is what's put me at a disadvantage with women. If anything it is advantageous. Many of the improvements I've made to myself are around social communication, though I was already pretty secure in that, fashion/grooming took most of highschool and mid-university I had it f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellFor sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI think the hard work was worth it because it made me a better person, but I also dislike the idea that "the incels" miss that point. Advice is sold to them as the be all, end all. The opposite is also true, they're told if they don't date its because they're shitty, worthless, basement dwelling men who never shower. Why are we surprised when they're upset that the advice theyre told to implement actually doesn't lead to success? Dating is about one thing: luck. Somebody might find you attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellIf hygiene bar was so low then why is "husband hygiene" or "boyfriend hygiene" such an issue? Shouldn't it be "ex-husband hygiene"? Why is the boyfriend still the boyfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellNot all attraction is subjective though. It's a scientific observed fact that women hate short men, men of Indian descent, etc. It's very rare to find someone worthy of love in that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellI've done the needing on an emotional level and got turned down for someone who was very explicitly and obviously using her for sexual needs. Multiple times. In every situation after the inevitable breakup, guess who lent the emotional shoulder to cry on before they repeated with someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellFor my own edification what is "pretending to be nice"? I would like to think I'm plenty nice to everyone by default and women I like make me want to be kinder and nicer to them, in particular. When I'm inevitably rejected that doesn't mean I stop being a nice person? It isn't their fault that I'm unlovable after all, so what does "pretend nice" mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI wish conversation went deeper than the tired conclusion that they simply "don't see women as individuals". OP is talking about a pattern of behavior identified. Why are statements like "Men are X,Y,Z" not equally scrutinized as women seeing men as a monolith and not as individuals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceI'm friends with tons of women purely because they're my friends. I get no likes or matches on apps, have paid for professional photos, as is basically required for anyone, and I routinely get rejected in person too! It's a good life. Definitely helps me with talking to women but it doesn't immediately mean success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Befriending women will not make a differenceDo not make the mistake of assuming that people who do all these things will automatically through karma be granted a relationship. Some people do all and aren't loved. Some people do none and are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women will not make a differenceYou might. I've done all for years now, and have really gone much harder into working out because I wasn't muscular enough to be lovable so I am trying more. It doesn't really help though. Most of my friends are women too. I've asked what my deal is with them, cause reddit always says I must have a shitty personality, but they're pretty perplexed over it too. Doesn't bother me much anymore, but I think the idea that if you just "do the checklist" you'll be lovable speaks to Just World fallacy mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:20 AM |
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