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2

Point for you on "Point B" Haha.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 06:29 PM
1

Take her shopping
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:47 PM
1

Very true. My parents are deaf so even at 5 6 7 years old I got thrown into a lot of situations that most young kids don't get to do, however, it's helped me greatly in life.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 08:50 PM
54

Holy shit dude. That's some fucked up shit. However, most of this stuff should be learned growing up. At least to me it did. Glad to hear you got your balls back. Coach Red Pill has mostly pretty good videos. A few views on monogamy is my only issue otherwise fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 06:05 AM
3

Indeed. I look back at the past 5 years of my life. And I've dodged a lot of bad bad bad bullets somehow. Had a lot of fun, and good times too. Then those stories like you mentioned, the countless others, and personal friends that are being fucked over make me glad that it hasn't happened to me.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:59 AM
3

Thanks for sharing this. More reasons not to get married!
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:46 AM
1

Cool cool. Would love to go to Europe one day! Thanks a little more promising than here lol.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:51 PM
1

Sounds like my situation granted I'm in the US. Where are You? And remember AWALT.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:03 PM
1

It might be one of those situations where you just thread the needle. There is no one fit all solutions. We are just a tool. The main thing you should ask is are you happy with this relationship regardless of it's stage at the moment.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:09 PM
1

I believe they secretly get off on them knowing you are Red Pill. I purposely will leave a book out or an internet thing. Yeah it causes drama for a minute until they realize that you ain't playing. Then hot sex happens after they realize it works. It's like a light bulb goes off.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:09 AM
1

Thanks for the laugh got me good
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:09 AM
2

Lots of opportunity for Kino & Humour during an ice skate especially if you're a newbie.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:07 AM
3

Schedule them for 2 different times far enough in the day. ​ Otherwise tell the truth.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:02 AM
-1

Simply tell her there is the door (In a nice way) if that's not what she wants, and just see if she is bluffing or not. Even if she goes to try to triangulate you then you knew where you stood at that point.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:56 PM
1

Exactly. Water is your friend. Expect people not to give a shit. Food is everywhere!
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:59 AM
1

Peanuts are good. Handful of fruit. Dark chocolate kisses (one is like 30ish calories). Dark chocolate also boosts Testerone overtime.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:59 AM
4

Download a calorie tracker. Put in your weight. Probably at 235 keep it at 1500 calories. AVOID sugar, bread, & alcohol. DO 16:8 intermittent fasting. Drink a gallon of water a day! DOCUMENT EVERYTHING! ​ Do more cardio / body weight work outs than lifting UNLESS you got man titties. Work out hard 30-45 mins 4 to 5 times a week. ​ DOCUMENT EVERYTHING - be responsible you'll thank yourself later. ​ You will be HANGRY alot. Figure out when to eat that you're not hitting hangry stage.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 12:09 AM
1

Exactly. Or at best she could have been like peace I'm out
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 11:47 PM
1

Remember we are animals with society norms. We do pair bond, however, we tend to lean to non-monogamous culture regardless of what you believe. Men are polygamous, and women are hypergamous.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:11 PM
4

Went on 1.5 month trip around the USA. All I needed to know when I got back was to DTB.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 09:06 PM
5

Man take me out with a Kobe & a bong hit
/r/askTRP26/02/19 07:52 AM
8

Father?...
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:36 AM
1

Just 2 cents from the other side of the spectrum. 29 years old 6' 0" Started at 260 lbs in November 2018. Now at 230 lbs in February 2019. Patience is a big key. If you got more fat you should cut unless you got man titties then work that upper chest. Luckily I don't have that problem. ​ TLDR: Patience, eat better, limit all the crap (its tough after 30 years of crap, however, it can be done).
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:28 PM
1

I'll give you a down dirty version of my past 10 years. I'm getting ready to be 30 years old. ​ 2018-2019 - Sign Language Interpreting 2015-2018 - Video game store owner 2011-2015 - Sign Language Interpreting 2009-2011 - Culinary Arts ​ I've been in and out. BE WARY of burn out cause it is a real thing. Always recommend start with one passion, and then be working on something fun on the side just in case something happens. It took me a few years after high school to figure out something. Went to…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:43 AM
1

Agreed it cracks me up when they get in a relationship with the said guy too. Double standards galore.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:32 AM
1

That is what I am doing... ​ Just thinking of some side hustle possibilities
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:55 AM
5

I always have engaged with them, and actually discuss the guys (assuming you are hitting it already). Use all that information towards red/green flags. Women love to talk use that information. Stay strong. It does get annoying sometimes.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:39 PM
1

I use it for a lot of social events. Otherwise, I might spend 15-20 minutes a day on it.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:10 PM
2

Look into Yoga & ROMWOD too.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:20 PM
1

Same... I love reading his stuff though.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:00 PM
1

Feels like I am. I up and moved to a new city for a new job. Working on getting into the groove. Think the new hobby might be on the agenda.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:03 PM
2

Gotcha thank ya dude
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:01 PM
1

Thank you for the perspective it is very insightful. Must get my goals accomplished, and I will accomplish them. Break through the shit.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:09 PM
0

I am very bored right now haha. I dig the hike idea would travel, however, trying to save up take care of some left over debt from the previous relationship. Thanks for the suggestions. Hiking sounds lovely.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:08 PM
1

BPD women are out of control. It's even better when their whole family doesn't think anything is wrong with them, AND don't hang out or help them. It's amusing. Then it's even more amusing when the person they cheated on you with is now their boyfriend haha poor guy little does he know......
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 08:50 PM
2

Yes indeed. Seen a slew of high school friend's already been divorced (and remarried). Wonder will they ever learn. Will just be enjoying the "freedom" when they want to hang out after divorce. ​ Remember to act like a sheep, however, never become a sheep.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:30 PM
1

How many men actually make it with a woman that long, and is happy for the most part?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:30 AM
1

Nothing wrong with clamping down to achieve goals, however, don't forget to live...
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:23 PM
5

Focus on doing it right, and not getting hurt! Then from there add some weight and/or reps depending on your level.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:18 PM
1

Ain't no lie baby BYE BYE BYE. Plate sure other than that it will wane
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:17 PM
1

Maybe you can be the third wheel, and video tape it?
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:50 PM
2

Believe I'll stick with cycling...
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 06:07 PM
2

Believe I shall try it then.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:55 PM
2

I'm curious about this sleeping on the floor thing? I haven't tried it. What exactly does it help achieve? Mental game?
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:10 PM
1

Dropping my 2 cents as a red head. I attract Brunettes & Black chicks. No complaints.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 01:19 AM
1

Thanks dude. Oh I will get it sorted. Best wishes your way too.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:06 AM
3

I do have family here. Letting me stay with them for 3 to 4 months then I'll be on my own. I put myself into a pickle with my ex, and etc so the family has been nice enough to help me out
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:36 AM
2

Dude move to the south. You'll still make 40-60k easy being a plumber, and they are always needed. I'm 29 and just moved to Richmond, VA cause my skill (Sign Language Interpreter) is needed more here than TN.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:02 PM
3

Who would have thought of that dude
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:12 AM
3

"There's another one at the grocery store"
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:47 PM
6

Gym, meditation, music (listening or playing), good podcasts (Rogan & Jocko for example), and family / friends. ​ Honestly stay busy and FOCUS everything on yourself
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:11 PM
1

That and most of the time I feel HB5/6 try harder. YMMV
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:05 PM
1

Damn...
/r/askTRP30/01/19 10:19 PM
2

Damn... Your situation sucks, but his is gonna be worse in the long run
/r/askTRP30/01/19 10:17 PM
1

BPD do have great sex. Don't let them blindside you with all the sweet things they'll do for a few weeks.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:25 PM
2

Exactly. Especially when they start dating the guy they cheated on you with. That always cracks me up.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:37 PM
1

Thanks for the share. Can relate to you on the selling business feeling pointless vibe. However, reading this helps remain on track, and I hope you remain on track too!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 04:50 PM
1

She will contact me. Call me. Message me.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:28 PM
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I feel ya. I have this plate that her baby daddy hates that she's messing around / started dating with his old best friend. She tells me all about it. "Cool, enjoy that drama." -Me "I know. Thanks for the honesty. You're such a great friend." -Her "Yeah, I'm the "best" friend you have wink wink." - Me. I give her 2 to 3 months, and she'll give me a ring. Just ignore or just amplify. Have fun with it. If she leaves oh well. They'll be back.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:54 PM
2

I needed to see this today. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 08:36 PM
1

Not a problem. Personally I struggle with monogamy, however pair bonding is a thing. She might be a woman who stands by your side for a long time? AWALT. Just remember this is just life. Live it.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:13 AM
3

Look into Blackdragon. He has a lot of great first date stuff. Leads more into long term non-monogamy / plate spinning. Which to me is better than ONS.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:35 AM
0

Back in the pre-red pill knowledge days. I had a girl do this to me as well. She ended up being a very good 4 year LTR even though I cheated. Cooked, cleaned, great family, helped with bills, very rarely ever said no to anything. Never said no to sex. Who knows? At least she's giving you blowjobs. The question Id really ask is are you looking for a LTR, or you looking to spin plates?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:30 AM
1

Orgasm denial is the greatest stuff ever...
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:16 AM
2

SIGNS of BPD all over the damn place. Plate if you're skilled. DTB if you aren't. Trust me your mind will thank you
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:26 AM
1

Agreed
/r/askMRP25/01/19 10:50 PM
3

Heard today that Sauna 4 to 5 times a week can increase life expectancy up to 40%
/r/askTRP25/01/19 07:51 PM
3

Definitely 3 to 4 days a week with at least one of them get some type of cardio it will help keep your blood moving in my opinion. My bicep is tight right now so I've been doing every other day mostly 150+ Calories on an assault bike, sit ups, and some type of yoga for at least 30 minutes. Listen to your body. Sometimes less is more. Work lighter if you need to, or different parts of the body. ​
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:41 PM
1

I feel ya. This married middle aged woman who calls her husband on break with lovey dovey stuff hangs up the phone then asks me if I'm single, or have kids. I tell her no then she flirts with me talks about my hair I just walk away. She checks on me every day she works. Just be cordial, keep it short, talk close or in front of people or cameras, and walk away.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:57 PM
1

Pizza & Fuck at my place?... Tell her to bring some drinks too.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:15 AM
3

YES. Body holds onto stress. Fight or Flight. I gained a shit load of gray hair the past year between awful business crap & an awful LTR. BEWARE
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:12 AM
4

Just don't kill his dog...
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:39 PM
3

Also, look into branch swinging...
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:37 PM
22

Time for her to get a Lyft out of there. The good news you'll have more time for you to lift.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:00 AM
1

Mission: Provide myself to the deaf community as much as I can without going insane. Whether it be helping deaf people, or helping new people learn sign language correctly. Passions / Goals: Constantly improve my ASL skills Lift 3 to 4 days a week Lose 40 more lbs (240lbs 6' 0" right now) Drum when my shoulder isn't fried. Keep my emotions in check
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:59 PM
1

Honestly to me it needs to be open on both ends. If she can't control herself within reason then she shouldn't be your main squeeze. Then again if she's going to leave she'd leave anyways. Meh. Does it really matter when we get down to it?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:31 PM
3

This makes me not want to have kids, however, thank you for sharing this it does provide insight if that does happen. ​ Best of luck!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 07:06 PM
2

Hahaha. Agreed
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:56 PM
1

Why worry about it unless you just want to knock it off your bucket list?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:28 AM
2

Yea Buddy. Death by Burpees FTW
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:25 AM
1

Thank you. Guess when ya get bombarded with sex, sex, and more sex it bothers ya to know you don't care haha. YES! Very fucking true. No kids, no wife, and just some debt. Not that bad!
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:24 PM
11

Burpees Bro Burpees!
/r/askTRP11/01/19 11:22 PM
1

Makes sense. I got a buddy or 2 in the field I work. Working on the gym buddies. I do crossfit so the community aspect is typically pretty good. Just started at this gym. Appreciate your suggestions. Will look into that
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:23 PM
3

Young woman. Move on.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:32 PM
1

Thanks for sharing your story, and thoughts. Definitely trying to stay chugging. Everything is going pretty well just feeling down. You stay strong too Dude.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:29 PM
1

It doesn't require alcohol to pull off, however, it definitely helps. Without alcohol would take 2 dates most of the time unless she is just head over heels for you
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:34 PM
3

This is one of the best comments I believe I've read on here. Thank you
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:15 PM
1

BPD BPD BPD... AVOID hahahaha. ​ Who knows? She might be SMART
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:49 PM
2

For one like the other dude said your insulin levels will level off. It gives your body time to cleanse itself. Think of your body as a car. A longer fast is like an oil change. Also on average you'd probably drop 1lb a day if you can pull it off. For example... Eat whatever on Saturday to the point you are stuffed stop eating at 6 or 8pm whatever. Eat / drink no calories all day Sunday. Then Monday resume with what you typically do. Granted you are already lean. I've got some fat on me so I she…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:37 PM
14

Have you thought about doing a 24+ hour fast on a rest day?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:30 AM
1

Upvoted... nailed on the head. She will ALWAYS talk to them. When shit goes downhill they'll tell her to break up with you. Etc.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:36 AM
1

Whatever either you enjoy it or not. I like tasteful good tattoos, but if they look stupid like motherfucking tweety bird then meh
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:32 AM
1

Either leave or suggest non-monogamy. Either way be ready for her to leave or go fuck a bunch of guys. Either one.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:05 PM
1

Preach it brother. I was the 3rd dude she was with, and she had to always keep the doors open to all the guys she could. She wanted full commitment...... hahaha
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:35 PM
29

There is going to be a shit ton of people that say get out there approach, lift, fuck, and etc. ​ The main thing you need to be doing is meditating, lifting, and eating clean. ​ Just don't go too deep down the rabbit hole. Focus on you. Don't let all the negativity of the lies we've been taught get to you. There is a life with or without TRP. The important thing is you need to stay as positive as you fucking can. ​ Best of luck. Take your time. ​ Also, GO LIFT! & meditate
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:58 PM
1

golf clap
/r/askTRP08/01/19 12:32 PM
1

My ex said she didn't want to be my sex slave, and then proceeded to screw me??? Whatever it was a good time now she's gone. She found her new supply
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 06:23 PM
2

Love it. Definitely true. Some days it's lighter than others then. How about that? haha
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:11 PM
14

Agreed 100%. Off she went. Oh well there's another one at the grocery store.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:19 AM
89

There will be a Chad there... time for a come to Jesus talk. Get your ass in shape for the rainy day coming.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 01:07 AM
1

What the fuck is this woman thinking. Broski should just move on.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 11:25 PM
2

Probably will be the victim, then crave your attention 24/7, then about 3 to 6 months she'll fuck another guy
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:50 AM
1

My ex introvert wouldn't leave me the fuck alone haha. But he's got it made right now
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:41 AM
1

Worst case enjoy a drink, and leave
/r/askTRP06/01/19 12:40 AM
1

I'd even push it further. Then again I've been in relationships since I was 23 now 29 so maybe it's time to have some fun.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:37 PM
1

Dude talk to everybody... it helps. Like Chubbs from Happy Gilmore says just easing the tension baby
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:35 PM
1

Gotcha. Sounds doable. I'm going to pull it off in 6 months. Haha. Yeah I would like that. Give me some comparison. It's hard to find other people in the 6' range. Most are 5' 7" or 6' 4" LOL.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:45 PM
1

How long did it take you to drop that low? Also any tips or tricks? PM me? I'm curious if you have before/after?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:10 AM
1

If you're in the same place for the past 3 years (which seems to be your whole life) it's time for a move buddy
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:08 AM
2

Would like a PM too. I'm sitting at 245-250 at 6'. Would like to shred quick.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:00 PM
7

Dude they even cheat when they aren't ovulating.. And I got shamed for fucking a chick she hated because she told me to go fuck off.. heh heh heh
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:24 AM
1

Indeed. Thanks for the kind words. You take er easy dude.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:25 AM
2

Dude it's awful. I've been almost 2 months removed from a 1 year relationship with, and it's still fucking with me hard. Not like oneitis fucking with me (well a little), but just trying to figure out how someone will not take blame or apologize for NOTHING. Their life was hell for a year when they had the option to leave too. When their life was taken care of (help with car, road trip, and food). Oh well now I know the signs. Plus no ties no kids no marriage. Onwards!
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:14 AM
2

Sounds like you might have had a case of BPD on your hands
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:30 PM
2

Preach it
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:29 PM
1

It sucks dude. The sex is so fucking good though. I mean like the best I've ever had. However, constant mood swings, hot / cold, clingy as fuck, but afraid you're gonna leave her or abuse her.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:28 PM
2

Yes yes they are.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:25 PM
1

I really appreciate your time on this, and dropping some good knowledge. Basically keep anything on the side very discreet and low key. And as they say it's just your turn eventually speaking. Once again thank you greatly for your insight.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:41 AM
2

I currently have no girlfriend I kicked her out for numerous reasons. The second part that you mention is what I'm referring to specifically. I'm ok with them doing whatever at a given point. Are they going to get all bitchy with it being one sided? (I know don't care, but just asking do they get to they point they want to?)
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:22 AM
9

Props to you. Just got out of a 1+ year one. Definitely do not rush into anything serious DO NOT. I wouldn't even try for a while. All your chemicals are all going to be fucked up. Mines fucked up after 1 year let alone 10. Lift. Exercise do long 30-45 solid workouts where you can zone out. Read books learn from your mistakes. Biggest thing is just take your time to heal from that bullshit
/r/askTRP28/12/18 10:43 PM
2

Be wary of BPD or Narcissistic characteristics. Be very wary...
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:28 PM
3

Just go if you want. Don't if you don't
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:27 PM
14

Agree with you on the using it as a weapon. The ex always said she didn't want to be my sex slave, let's wait until late at night (all the time), and similar tactics. Needless to say she is gone. Don't argue over sex.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:38 PM
2

Reading specifically non fiction. American Sign Language (I'm a professional interpreter, but I enjoy learning it since I've grown up in it.) Working out (Lifting / Cycling / Rowing) Psychology talks Jamming out (Drums)
/r/askTRP24/12/18 10:48 PM
1

A) Don't lift everyday. Maybe go for a 30 minute walk instead or actually rest. B) Goals C) Realise we are nothing D) Enjoy Life
/r/askTRP24/12/18 10:43 PM
3

Ultra thins / bare skin for the win... They are amazing
/r/askTRP24/12/18 10:40 PM
11

You fucked it up. A) you shouldn't want a LTR relationship with her she basically just showed you she'll cheat again. B) Just spin the plate enjoy the sexay time. C) Fuck different women.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:55 PM
6

I laughed so hard thank you.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 02:47 PM
2

Go look up the 9 criteria for BPD. She literally marked out everyone of them except 2. They see shit black and white. No gray. Very rarely will see your side.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 09:45 PM
5

Yes it is, but these girls should never be more than a plate and even then you should be weary. Just got out of a year relationship with one. She has messed with me more mentally than my ex of 4 years. Be warned.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:08 PM
1

No it should have been her parents job. Obviously that didn't work. Then it should have been her job to realize she's got issues, and to find help for it. Fuck her if she don't want to help herself. She will one day after a kid or two and a divorce. Keep your head high.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:11 PM
1

Then I'd suggest learn the Alphabet. Bring your phone to text stuff. Pen & paper. Make some effort. If she's into you Alphabet will be bonus points.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:42 PM
1

Pretty much that and there would be a lot of sensual stuff too. A lot of love bombing talk. Just clicked
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:41 PM
1

The ex and I had for the most time very fucking hot sex. Especially after arguments died down. Goddamn . Don't know if it's worth the bullshit though.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:31 AM
1

Also where are you located?
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:29 AM
7

Finally a question I can answer haha. AWALT first of all. I've been with 2 over the years. Probably could have had more, but hindsight is 20/20. First one I use to interpret for her brother thats how we met. Anyways, one I pretty much alpha widowed. Between that as well as one of her friends committed suicide, and she has been in pill head land the past 2 years of her life from that plus family issues. Probably one of the most intelligent deaf people I've been around sadly. Plated her on and off…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 03:28 AM
1

Depends on the woman, but yes you'd be correct for the most part. Girls tend to want monogamy by nature. Guys tend to be more non-monogamous, and want to fuck different women by nature. Nature rules us deep down. AWALT. Hypergamy. All this applies. Regardless of if they want or they are in a monogamous relationship.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:50 PM
1

DTB... DUMP THAT BITCH! If she ain't "Fuck Yes" then she's a "Fuck No"
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:02 AM
-4

I'm a sign language interpreter so I feel your pain. Great way to practice abdunace. Observe them. Enjoy their company. Fuck go out for lunch. Ya never know when they can lead you to other fun stuff.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:00 AM
2

DTB! DUMP THAT BITCH
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:58 AM
10

Love it. She made that bed fucking lay in it bitch
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 05:16 PM
1

Listen to those with experience. Fucking leave. Wrap it if you go there even though you know the rule.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/18 04:26 PM
10

Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 04:54 PM
1

Feel ya bro stay strong
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 04:53 PM
1

You're welcome. Highly recommend you do some light research on personality disorders it's a cluster b to at least know the red flags.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:41 PM
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It's all good dude. No question is a dumb question even if it is to one of the people. Knowledge is power. Anyways, BPD is called Borderline Personality Disorder. These people (mostly diagnosed in women, but men can get it too) typically have abandonment issues, emotional instability, substance abuse / escapism, and don't see the world in gray (either you're the best or the worst to them). These people are emotional vampires. They will love you one minute, and hate you the next minute. Typically…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:13 PM
2

Listen to this man if she has BPD... LEAVE before it fucks you up.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:10 AM
2

How old are you both? And who knows dude AWALT. Alcohol + Females = bad news especially when you aren't there.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:59 AM
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Agreed with you. She's wanting to at least heavily explore the option.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:38 PM
1

Long workouts do this to me.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:22 PM
1

Sounds like Scott Steiner math
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:21 PM
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God bless your soul if she's BPD... Also this is what my ex-BPD Girlfriend did with some friends from work did last month, and ended up fucking her boss. If she ain't inviting you too for New Years then go find someone else to hang out with.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:12 PM
3

Makes perfect sense...
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:30 AM
3

Learned this the hard way. Got weak. Don't be me from this year.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:01 AM
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No woman should be a mission...
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:42 PM
1

Damn dude. Thanks for your story. Will do my damnest to avoid especially when the red flags come up.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:52 AM
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Didn't think about all the other shit besides child support. Jesus Christ..... I'll just take my minor Loss and go on. I appreciate your time & thoughts to this topic. Thank you. Really thank you. Hope that your side stays as healthy as it possibly can.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 03:01 AM
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This is true. Now we know for the future. My question is do they stay because they fear abandonment that bad or do they stay because they know they can control?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:49 AM
1

Jesus I feel for you bro. That's pretty fucking rough.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:46 AM
1

You're good lol. That makes sense. Felt like putty around her for some fucked up reason.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:31 AM
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Thank you. I've grown up in deaf culture. Why not give back, and make some decent money. Yeah I'm at 6'0" 250 so I got a while to go haha. That sounds good. Stay busy take little breaks for enjoyment of course. Try to find men that have a "Alpha" vibe. They got goals and their shit together. It will help tremendously.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:30 AM
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Im starting to see even a year with her has fucked me up even more than the almost 5 year LTR I had with a normal woman. Wonder what the reason could be. Guess something they look to prey upon?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:27 AM
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Thank you both. I don't plan on talking or anything with her. ... damn dude. I hate to hear that. That bad?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:12 PM
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Therapist said PTSD towards Men. She literally checked off every mark except 1 on the BPD 9 checkpoint. I didn't catch it for a while until traveling with her. Thinks black and white. Never apologizes for anything. I haven't spoke with her since the first of November.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:29 PM
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Yeah didn't follow that rule, and it led to a roller coaster. Thanks for the reminder & your username means a lot right now.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:39 PM
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Been noticing a lot of people in your age range is saying this. It's almost every person I've talked to in that range. Not sure if it's just coincidence or not. Anyways, do you have goals? More importantly do you have a mission for your life yet? Feel like without these things your life can seem like a damper. For example my mission is to continuously help the deaf community in some shape, form, or fashion as long as I'm physically, mentally, and emotionally able to. Granted a lot of people your…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:38 PM
1

All I can think of is Jim Ross saying "Stone Cold Stone Cold Stone Cold" over and over again
/r/askTRP10/12/18 03:08 AM
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Plus he has a lot of insights on BPD women. Since that's what I'm dealing with. Highly recommended as well.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:36 AM
1

Damn she loves Hall and Oates...shes a keeper! Haha. But you got it right
/r/askTRP08/12/18 04:48 AM
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I just keep thinking about Key & Peele... A-Aaron. Plate the bitch & have your turn
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 04:39 AM
1

You could be like my grandparents who have 4 boys. All the kids have tried to help, but the grandparents are stubborn kind who believe all your kids are dumb. So now they are heavily in debt, and none of the kids really help. Granted the kids tried, but you get my drift.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:43 PM
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I cried... will agree dried it up
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:40 PM
2

I'm curious about this too...
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:42 PM
1

Listen to this man
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:41 PM
1

Damn... I'm thankful no kids no house no shared income.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:51 PM
2

Indeed. Thanks for your time. I'm avoiding that and alcohol. Cold turkeying the alcohol is not the greatest move, but got to avoid the calories.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:21 PM
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That's what I've been doing. Looking back at how many times she tried to branch swing in a subtle way, and I indirectly stopped it. Mine ended at the first of November. We were together for over a year, but I've never struggled this bad after a relationship. I'm doing all the right things but it's difficult. However, definitely noticed that I slacked on myself, which, isn't happening anymore.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:05 PM
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Then you answered your own question if LTR's are what you truly want. Im a former Christian turned Agnostic so I understand where you are coming from. Maybe check out Married Red Pill out to see some pros & cons. How to navigate a LTR more efficiently I'm sure there are some Christian guys in there. Just know your game, frame, and everything is going to have to be A+++ for any hope of succeeding.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:30 PM
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Im going to go against the grain here. Taking it a bit further than just flirting. Why not if you have a plate that you've been seeing for a while 6+ months plus bump her up to a meaningful love filled relationship while continuing to see someone on the side. (I.E. Open Relationship) That way you don't lose your abundance mentality, or the frame you're worried about. There are women out there that you can do this with. That way if/when it ends you're a step ahead. Just a suggestion. May your dec…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:08 PM
1

Welcome friend. I too just got out of a eerily similar situation except I never met the dude. Same bullshit knew it was coming to an end. Branch swung blah blah blah. Fuck them... especially the BPD ones. Still angry over the double standard bullshit. Honestly, get the fuck away. Make new memories. Fuck new women (If you feel like it). Have fun with your bro. Work on yourself in all aspects. There's no reason not to. Especially since you aren't tied down like you say you are. Keep moving forward…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:00 AM
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Agreed! Unless y all dated a lot in the past, but still I'd be cautious too. Just got done with a BPD mess. Don't put yourself through that shit
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:52 AM
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Agreed 100%
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:36 AM
4

He really got mad because a drunk dude ate your food...thats what drunk people do!!!!
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:24 AM
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Right, but they read people very well...
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:00 PM
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Haha. Honestly everyone at work knows I don't have anything serious going on, and then again they don't care. But I work in the deaf community not many people give a shit.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:54 PM
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Letting go of the past is fucking difficult. However, I did enjoy your statement at the bottom. Live in the present. Thank you needed today.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:21 PM
2

Now I want a sexy nurse sponge bath for all the wrong reasons hahaha
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:14 PM
1

Plates do break. Some will last a long time, and some will not. For example I've been seeing this one particular girl off and on for 1.5 years. She'll find "the one." Tell me upfront blah blah blah. Then when they get in an argument break up for 2 weeks she calls me. Right now she tells me she's looking for a monogamous relationship. I told her I am not looking for that right now, and guess who she's fucking once or twice a week...
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:11 PM
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face palm...yes you're correct. And it totally changed my formatting haha. Anywho all of them. Haha
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:08 PM
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Never ever lie...They have dog senses, and will know. Plus it turns into drama. If they don't want it then they can hit the highway to some poor sap that will.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:05 AM
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Listen to this man. Just got out of this bullshit. Enjoy the wild sex, and love bombing. Keep your distance. Thank us later.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:59 AM
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My 3 would be... AWALT / Hypergamy Lift / exercise / mediation Outcome Independence
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:50 AM
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Also stop getting drunk in this time period. Wait until your head is clear. One more thing...Go lift
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:30 PM
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This! Also, they will do it if they feel the relationship is going nowhere to them. Revenge can play a part in it to. Especially if they can't voice it to you then they FEEL like they have to prove it to you.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:19 PM
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To answer your question about women you work with... I think it's a good opportunity to game and flirt WITHOUT touching them or going too far. But it's a good gage of what women will talk about. For example, I tell them that I do open relationships or just date who I wanna date (that's all nothing more). Then they'll tell you they love their husband, or boyfriend etc. Then they'll say how boring he his, or how he doesn't fuck them right. They fucking hamster anything. I've got one that anytime I…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:15 PM
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You forgot lifting... haha. But all kidding aside truth 100%
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:00 PM
1

Go to a bigger city unless you want LTRS, marriage, and kids.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:58 PM
1

Blackdragon for the "W"
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:59 PM
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It can work. Limit contact. Limit time spent together. 1 day / night together a week. Just be cautious. Be open if they and you can handle it.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:55 PM
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Yeahhh. No self esteem. She's got a line of white knights & orbiters. Looking for validation. Beware. Then boom a decent one comes a long and "oops we drank too much."
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:44 PM
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Agreed 100%. Even introverted girls have friends. To me if they don't have friends or say all their friends leave them then you need to start digging. OR they have a ton of guy friends. BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) is no joke.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:13 AM
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Just find a chick that knows you're a virgin (still be stoic, but dont lie if they ask). Some women get off big time on taking a dude's virginity.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:06 AM
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Yeah I had this happen at a business I owned. Everyone wanted to pussy foot around and make $300 a week, but so knew we could make more by working more (by more I mean actually fucking work while you're there). Anyways, just keep on. Maybe bend a little, but just don't bend so much you "snap" back into your old ways.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:05 AM
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Ohhhhh I see now I get it. My bad my bad. Then yeah if you got enough to workout at home then workout at home so you don't have to depend on anyone for the time being. Do more reps of lifts if you have to. Lift until youre exhausted. You'll still build muscle
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:03 AM
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That would agree with. I've met some cool connections by going to the gym. What s the importance of going with your father just family time?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:19 PM
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Unless you have the room or the amount of actual weights to do everything I honestly think long term it's going to be difficult. Also, I honestly believe it's important to bond too with other broskis. Even though you are going for yourself, but then again I'm extrovert.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:26 PM
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As the guy doing home gym right now...Just go to the gym.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:02 PM
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Maybe you was Chad in my situation 2-3 weeks ago haha... anyways, just let it be don't be too pushy.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:01 PM
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Yeah I had one get mad at me because I deleted her off Facebook. We never talk or fuck so time for her to hit the trail.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:32 PM
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I also would recommend "Unchained Man" by Caleb Jones / Blackdragon. It's a pretty good read IMO. Granted it goes a little more into Poly terrority, but it's a good read. Lots of wonderful content.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:29 PM
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Hello fellow dude. Honestly I believe once you lost it on a given day you just gotta forget about it, and move on in your life. Focus more on yourself figure out why you lost it, and next time figure out how you can control it better. Everything takes time dude... Sometimes you gotta be a Nihilist.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:26 PM
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Same here dude... I'll randomly cry thinking about the bullshit situation. Usually I'll miss something fun with her, but immediately think of the non stop arguements.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:54 AM
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Hey man the poker table calls. Actually some of my fondest memories at the poker table come from holiday visits
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:19 AM
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Especially the last part. Just happened to my dumb ass this month.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:13 AM
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Haha. I was making a joke that the story was so nice I'd like some milk and cookies
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:59 PM
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Trojan Ultra Thins have been a God Send for me. I don't fuck without a condom until I can figure out what she is to me. Also, I despise pulling out. I don't feel satisfied at all.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:40 PM
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...Man that was such a nice story. You got some warm milk and cookies for story time?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:14 PM
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Cajun Crawfish Hut in Long Beach west right outside of Biloxi. Family owned and super nice. Cheap too.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:25 AM
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Indeed. New Orleans is overrated in my opinion. I didnt get the chance to mess around, but definitely yes could see the feisty. Plus them girls probably don't travel so outsiders are always a good thing. Damn...now I wanna go. Wanna go for Christmas? Haha I'm sure I could get a cheap hotel at one of the Harrahs hotels. They bug the shit out of me.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:22 AM
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I went through there on a road trip with the ex this year. That place is so laid back, and your money goes far there too. Plan on going back one day soon.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:57 AM
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Biloxi?... so you went to gamble, and get some damn good crawfish
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:50 AM
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Some of us find them right away some of us don't. You definitely need to make some short term goals. Start small. Do different hobbies & activities that you typically wouldn't do. Doing a mixture of these things should lead you into a mission. When that anger hits transfer that to your gym activities as well as your diet (lifestyle changes). Anger kills my hunger unless I'm lifting. Basically keep chugging along. It might suck. Good things will come.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:46 AM
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I think we need a shot for this hamster
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:38 AM
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I dig it
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:38 AM
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Sounds like you don't have other pussy...
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:33 AM
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Plus if they have personality disorders it doesn't help matters.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:30 AM
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Take that $10-$20 (depending on what you're drinking at home?) and think of the money you are blowing. $20 x 30 = $600 a month on booze or more if you go out all the time. $100 for the gym $200 for good eats The rest of that shit put in your savings, but new clothes, or fucking something. Just stop. It will not get you anywhere. I've lost women due to this. It's fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:22 PM
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Thank you sir. Sometimes it feels like I'm doing it for me, and sometimes for her. My dad and I are visiting our family, and one of his parents are in awful shape so that helps me think that all this stuff is really for me so I don't end up like his mom. Anyways, just trying to chug along. It's difficult.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:36 PM
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If its with your bros you better join, and work on it too. This will help with the ladies down the road.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:07 PM
2

Agreed with you 100%. It's gonna happen.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 10:06 PM
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Definitely the stage I'm in right now. Thank you I shall trust the process
/r/askTRP18/11/18 03:32 PM
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OP nothing wrong with learning a lesson, and developing from that lesson. The BPD chick I had started doing all the usual shit. One day she'd be bi, and girl watch with me. Then the next day it was like why the fuck are you looking at other girls. My breaking point was I sold my video game business because retail sales are declining, and I knew it was a good move to get out. I got depressed for about a month, and went back to my ASL interpreting gig which I wasn't really ready for plus mainly do…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:43 PM
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Near the holidays too. I believe it's because they know you want to spend time with them, and they wanna see if you'll beg.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:37 PM
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Never kiss on the first date unless you know you're getting laid. It lowers their ASD, and makes their 2nd date LMR very low.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:58 PM
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This is one of those times you might want to experiment with yourself here and there. Plus with women. It drives them crazy when they know you are about to nut, but you hold it in. Bringing yourself to climax, but stopping right before. Do this a handful of times until you can't bare it anymore.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:57 PM
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Take lead. Keep it light. Drinks are great especially if she has kids. Touch her . I know a lot of guys on here don't do single moms...Doesn't matter if she's just a booty call, and she knows it. Wrap that shit up.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:53 PM
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Outdoors fuck or at one of your places to fuck. Of course this is if you escalated on the first. If not don't be spending loads of money on these dates.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:45 PM
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Guys that do not typically got more energy it's just flowing off of them, more likely to start conversation, witty, but sometimes I do see they can be tense or full of anger as well. More of the ambitious vibe than not. Just the obsveration of friends basically. My parents are deaf, and body language is very important in deaf culture.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:43 PM
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It is definitely noticeable. Especially guys that don't guys that do. I watch everybody. Ya never know what you might learn.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:55 PM
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It's worse when they constantly bitch about their lady. Or the one that was Alpha as fuck and now is a big beta women determines their life. Oh and let's not forget the newlywed that says he gets it nightly...lets give that and other few months.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:10 PM
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Agreed 100%
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:07 PM
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You're right. I've checked social media even though I deleted her. And you're right...
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:41 AM
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Don't ever be their tampon. I mean there's the within reason shit, but you know what I mean. I just feel like the most Id ever let her be is a Plate at this point.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:21 AM
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Appreciate your words of wisdom. I really don't want to talk to her, but I do have some shit that's hers. I just don't want to be her tampon, and not get anything. Best of luck to you my friend.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:42 AM
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Damn dude. I wanna get hammered bad but I know it will accomplish nothing for my weight loss goals. Now I wanna play some PLO... Nobody ever wants to play at Cherokee. As my papaw says..."There's another one at the grocery store."
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:40 AM
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Ahhh gotcha gotcha. Totally switch it up
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:45 PM
2

Screenshot for the "W"
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:44 PM
2

Yeah... I was expecting that, but glad that didn't happen. As well there has been alternative discussions as well as others venting. Maybe we all needed a bro day.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:49 PM
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Thanks for the input. Definitely dig your point of view. New memories are definitely very important.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:47 PM
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That helps tremendously. In the beginning I knew I was the prize. As the relationship went on I sold my business, but didn't really so anything planned afterwards so felt like thats when it started to fucked me up . Definitely working on that as we speak.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:16 PM
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Damn. Glad you're still with us to share this. Definitely like the silently rebuilding your life. Fuck that shit. Ahh the life of plates. So joyous for the time being. Your hypergamy statement is very true, but it'll never end.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:14 PM
2

That makes more sense. Just don't look and it just might come.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:45 PM
1

Damn... lengthy time. You been doing alright?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:44 PM
2

Sounds nice. Glad to hear things are going smoothly for you. I definitely don't believe I'm gonna seriously date anyone anytime soon
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:16 PM
1

I'm surprised I've honestly not heard anything from her at all. Most of the time she'd be on my ass 24/7.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:15 PM
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This right here. I feel ya 100%. In process of moving.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:22 PM
1

Thanks man. Meditation has been very handy. Especially journaling too.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:21 PM
1

Indeed. Almost 10lbs lost as it is... now to make sure it never goes back on.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:20 PM
1

It was a mixture, but when you argue over stupid shit it gets old.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:20 PM
1

I'm acutally visiting family right now in Richmond haha. Trying to get shit patched up at work to get transferred. They slow pokes.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:19 PM
1

How so? It's been a mixture of both. Like yeah it's kinda awkward, but I'm enjoying myself.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:18 PM
2

Damn dude. Never thought of it just being a routine so to speak... Makes me feel for you. We were only together for a year, but we did everything. Even went on a 2 month road trip (terrible idea never again). Thanks for the chat invite dude.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:17 PM
1

Thank you for your input it's appreciated. I'm trying to find balance but sometimes it is difficult ya know
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:14 PM
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Damn... clicks well
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:37 PM
2

Thanks dude. Me too.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:27 PM
3

I'm trying to not be bored either. The past few months have been a lot of video games. So trying not to lapse.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:26 PM
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Yeah... there's a lot of back story I could probably write a damn book. What's sad is I told her she could have her cake, and eat it too... It's not easy when they are being bitchy & begging to stay. Kinda feel lost, but at the sa.d time I know shit is coming together
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:54 PM
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Just gotta keep chugging on...both of us. Thanks for your time & comment.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:19 PM
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I'm sure this is gonna open a can of worms... She got kicked out by her step dad. I took her in when I shouldn't have. Let her use my extra car so she could pay off a lot of stuff. She was going to move with her military friend (family) in December. Well probably about a month ago she wanted me to promise her monogamy until she left. I said what's the point I'd like to have something lined up by then so I'm not without the pootang. Plus I'm planning on moving at the first of the year to VA (she …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 02:18 PM
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Thank you. Patience isn't a strong suit of mine, but it will become one.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:47 PM
2

No woman should ever be your "last one."
/r/askTRP16/11/18 12:53 PM
1

Enjoy her as a plate... Enjoy her for what she is. Don't give her too much of your emotion. LDRs do not work been there done that. Great for traveling & sex that's it.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 12:51 PM
4

Cool by me. Just go lift some more.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:47 PM
5

This 100%.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:41 PM
1

This hurt my head to read... If they ain't into you or you ain't into LTRs then NEXT
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:40 PM
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My story is similar to the dude's above... Finished high school had no clue what to do. Did some American Sign Language interpreting. Didnt fit in my life. Graduated Culinary School with 2 Associates definitely wasn't what I wanted to do when I got done with it. Went back to ASL interpreting for about 3 years my heart wasn't in it. Got into reselling games with eBay on the side. Made pretty decent money lots of freedom, but not what I wanted to do forever. Met this chick in my ASL circles got ba…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 01:36 AM
1

2 weeks man 2 weeks
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:31 PM
1

You do have a point baha. It's the least of the hipster statuses here.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:48 AM
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I work in the video game industry...Same thing. It's either fat (or skinny) neckbeards or hipsters. Then there's me viking hair cut cut arms a little chubby (working on it) red head. But yeah stand out.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 04:42 AM
1

Sounds like something my uber super conservative Christian uncle would say. Not to mention a chunk of Billy betas in my life. Anyways, I'd spin plates, and find someone better in my opinion unless you got some religious differences that prohibits that. Plus I've met some cool ass women this way. Some of dumped me because they are going to try monogamy with some dude that they've plated lol. Guess who calls back in a couple of months. Just depends if you want monogamy or non-monogamy. You can hav…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:02 AM
1

I could use a Vegas trip... I know a bartender teacher there, and poker sounds fun. All kidding aside. Cancel that shit. Aren't they like a shit ton of eager babes in Vegas?
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:51 AM
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Just for the record seemed like a fair response... Older women can be fun but Jesus they can be even more clingy than young ones especially if they are fresh out of divorce, and looking for their next victim. Fuck them (pun intended) & NEXT! But hey like the guy said above do what makes ya happy
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:45 PM
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I always like to give them my number if you can spin it that way... That way you don't waste anytime IMO. Do as you want though.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 01:04 AM
1

Thanks for the suggestion
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:02 AM
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Never tried it in an actual blender, but shall do. Thank you
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:02 AM
1

Yep just gonna jump off a bridge now...you wanna hold my hand, and jump with me? I think that'd be awfully cute for you to do.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:01 AM
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Yeah a lot of people on here hate it. However, I've seen the most gains from any kind of gym I've been in as well as the atmosphere is so much more positive to me.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:32 AM
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My diet sucks. I'm heavily active in the CrossFit scene. I know a lot of people knock it, but I see a huge difference in my physical capacity than before so I know that's working it's just my shitty ass diet. I'll keep that motto in my mind.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:03 AM
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I've never thought of it this way. Scary, but true. Regardless of that thought. What would be a good juicer that you'd recommend?
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:00 AM
1

That's the thought that's in my mind right now. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP13/08/17 11:21 PM
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Mrpthrowa ... Agreed. I just can't get into it as much as I try. No pun intended. It honestly turns me off a little. Maybe it's a mental thing.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:47 PM
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DELETEDELETEDELETE Get going while the going is good. And by this life is gonna get better when you get out of all that shit. Go run as far as you can. Oh and lift
/r/askTRP04/08/17 01:38 PM
1

Sounds good. Thank you
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:27 PM
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Gotcha. I'm still new to the plate thing so it feels wrong, but right if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:27 PM
1

Fair enough. In the right or wrong to leave?
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:11 PM
1

I think she would have told me (she's very open with me), BUT that being said who knows you could be very right. Like I said I got her clothes completely off, but I wasn't paying attention to see if she had a pad on.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:42 PM
1

Better to ask for forgiveness than permission in these situations. Hell wouldn't even ask for forgiveness.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:00 AM
1

I'm with you on this. I'm so tired of wasting time & energy combating shit tests along with money to get anywhere. Yet finding fuck buddies that will do what LTRs will do for the most part anyways. Freedom is really free without a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 01:55 AM
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Learn to play with money on the line. Online / local / casino. I prefer Casino play, but I've played so much online & local I'm sick of it. Learn pot odds, when to bet, when not to. Also, the lower stakes you play the lower the risk, but it's safer. Higher you go the higher the risk as far as quality competition. My personal opinion learn how to play Omaha first then apply it to Hold em. It'll make your game stronger. For the love of God keep your emotions in check when you lose a bad hand.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:19 AM
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Wise words my friend. Thanks for that
/r/askTRP26/04/17 11:11 AM
1

The important thing is have fun, and pay attention to avoid the crazies
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:27 PM
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At worst case you should be setting up second dates at your place for a smash. Also, don't drink more than the chick. Keep it 1-1 at the most. If she drinks more than you then she's gonna be down.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 12:35 PM
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That's exactly what I needed to hear. Replies like these are why I come here. Thank you.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:48 AM
1

Then it's like what's the point of a LTR if AWALT is gonna happen (Hypergamy etc)? Am I wrong? Hate to look at it that way, BUT it's better than looking at it through rose colored glasses..
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:51 AM
2

That's like ...your opinion ...man
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:39 AM
1

If you're benching that much you should be squatting way more than 250lbs. Then again I've found a lot of front squats & back squats have been a huge help with overall body image. I'd definitely incorporate more leg movements. However, I'm a glutton for front squats.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 02:19 AM
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Kayneasy to the rescue.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 06:55 AM
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Unless you're kidding not true... I've seen goodie Christian women be just as cold as the others. As well as been a victim of them. AWALT
/r/askTRP18/04/17 06:50 AM
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Love what you have to say, but agreed with the guys here... Take your buddy out, and have some bro time. Keep the bitch talk to a minimum. Other than that...You DA MAYNE ...dude
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:58 PM
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Know the pain, BUT you still gotta get out and be social. Bars, talking to strangers when you are out and about, or find some hobbies that you can connect with other people. Building relationships is important in everyday life.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:54 PM
1

Understood thanks for the info
/r/askTRP06/03/17 01:15 AM
1

Yeah buddy lots of trips to the Krispy Kreme hahaha
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:04 AM
1

So no meat at all? Pizza sounds delicious.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:04 AM
1

I appreciate the advice. I do want to make it to a ripe old pruny age. What else would be good besides Oatmeal & Kale? Pretty much will eat anything.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:58 PM
1

CrossFit has helped me tremendously. Have a good group of people that help each other with form, pushing each other to the limit, and the socializing is amazing. Other regular gyms here just suck everybody don't give a shit about form, and don't care about anyone other than themselves.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:56 PM
1

Yeah agreed with the time waste, but I'm getting into a rhythm. Shakes bloat me really bad. I do like to sit, and eat slow in the morning. Got some me time in the morning. Perhaps can trim more time off soon
/r/askTRP04/03/17 12:53 PM
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My CrossFit class starts at 9am. I typically get up between 6 - 630 in the morning. Eat a hearty breakfast. 4 pieces of bacon & 4 eggs. Multi vitamin too. If I know it's gonna be a exhausting workout I'll eat some toast or peanut butter. Then a coffee or tea to top it off. There's a lot of benefits to getting up early, and take your time in the morning you won't feel rushed the whole day. That's what works for me.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:48 PM
1

Holla if you hear him
/r/askTRP02/03/17 12:45 PM
1

Yep agreed. Seen it happen. Just as bad in Northeast TN
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:13 PM
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Note don't play too much video games
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:08 PM
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On top of them STD's...I'd be afraid of knocking up a rando without knowing a chick. I definitely don't want 200+ months of child support.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:17 AM
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I've actually met a 42 year old that told me the same thing. Granted we didn't make it past making out because she literally just opened her mouth, kept scratching me, and I was just touching her leg. I kinda believe her poor soul. Anyways, back to original post topic. AWALT about their N-Count. We all have sex dude. Her N-Count isn't that high even if it is 12 for a 28 year old. If she's good to you, and you enjoy having sex with her what's the deal? I'd be thrilled. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:38 AM
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/u/smirk_addict Where do you live? I'm in Northeast TN. Granted the "South" is large. Haha I'm not black just normal white guy but meeting new people is always good.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:08 AM
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You gotta work on IDGAF with a plate dude. You are not in a relationship with her. She is just as free to do as she pleases as you. Also don't be checking her phone. Who cares dude.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:32 PM
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Just an update for the giggles. She sent me a text saying she's excited about tomorrow from her "new" phone number. Not responding.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:48 PM
1

Good point good point.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:13 PM
1

I much appreciate the help and your time! Means a lot. Going to do that now.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:19 PM
1

Apparently so... That I have never understood. You pay for your room do what you want in your room ya know? It's never simple is it? Haha
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:09 PM
1

Alrighty. Never really done a soft next before, but never late that ever I suppose. So if she barrages me with texts/calls tomorrow unless she mentions a change of plans just don't respond at all?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:07 PM
2

Agreed. Gonna see follow what /vandaalen said, soft next, and see what happens.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:23 PM
1

I've told her I want to fuck, and I know she does too just timing has been off. Time has been wasted. Agree with what you've said. She just texted "Got any cute friends for her?". So I should just soft next until when?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:21 PM
1

Hard of hearing chicks are nice... Granted I'm fluent in ASL too. Just saying. They know the game, and they play it too.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 11:54 PM
7

Agreeeeeeeed
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:28 AM
1

Sounds like a fantastic plan. WOOO
/r/askTRP23/12/16 11:42 PM
2

In the same boat. Like literally exactly the same boat. Believe monk mode is the way to go for us. Regroup in the spring when the spring showers "come".
/r/askTRP23/12/16 09:44 PM
1

Simply put thank you guys.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 12:31 PM
2

This is what I needed to hear the most right now. Thank you brother.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 12:30 PM
1

Dude...There's a guy I do Crossfit/Lift with that weighs around 500lbs. If he can do it anyone can.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:03 AM
2

I about choked on my own spit when I read this. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 04:09 PM
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Never warn her unless she has loads of experience (heh), and she knows you don't. Otherwise, just make sure you get some foreplay in there. Stop if you're close to busting a nut. Regroup take your time it ain't a damn marathon. As well, for the love of God, wear a condom.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:54 PM
1

Yes basically. If they swipe right too then you'll be matched with the chick. I've met some cool chicks on their, but some idiots too.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 12:54 PM
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Needed to see this. Good little eye opener for the day.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 05:49 PM
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Sounds like American Psycho to me...good stuff
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:20 PM
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