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| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.I have years of anecdotal proof for myself that’s very consistent with the articles about the studies. Does it bother me that I can’t get right at the studies themselves? Not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:18 PM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.The source material is harder to get to than I thought, behind paywalls and what not. And I know you’ll just dismiss anything else that’s talking about them. So whatever. I guess you get to continue to believe that your carousel ride has no consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.I didn’t realize how much some women get outraged over the reality of pair bonding. It’s such an obvious cope. You probably want a study to prove that women lose their looks as they age too, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:48 PM |
| – | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersThere’s a class of women who like to morph between being liberated, sex-positive feminists and ultra traditional conservatives. They’ll go to venue half naked then act like a man so much as looking in their direction is a violation of their sacred chastity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.I don’t really even know what you’re talking about your dick training. None of your posts make any sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.I’m going to go out on a limb and guess that you’re single with a high body count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 11:08 AM |
| 0 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.It’s pretty well documented. If that study was all you could find, you need to try a little bit harder. And it has nothing to do with politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 3 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.If you’re with someone who hasn’t slept around a lot, and who’s brain therefore functions in it’s natural way, then the pair bonding from the relationship and sex will definitely make you more attractive to them. The problem is that they break this mechanism by being promiscuous. They neurologically re-train themselves to think that relationships are a short, fleeting thing. And these are probably the kinds of women guys are thinking of when they say things like “she’ll only ever be less attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:50 PM |
| 16 | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itAnyone using words like “trauma dumping” or “emotional labor” is a major red flag. It screams narcissism and victim mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional.It’s not a coincidence that a lot of red pillers are really into sports and hip hop culture, or that black pillers consume a lot of porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:54 PM |
| 5 | Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional.I think media also plays a role in this weird mythology. Porn, the music industry, pop culture, professional sports etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 24 | Hot take for men struggling in dating: "Get better or get bitter". If you're bitter you don't really want it (or you are a bit cheap) and you should change your perspectiveFeminism has given a lot of useful tool to navigate the dating space but a lot of men prefer rejecting it and fail continually, increasing their bitterness Do you have any examples of these tools? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesYa I get it. You’re cool and edgy because you go deeper underground. This isn’t the experience of the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:44 AM |
| 5 | TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spacesThe depths of 4chan is a vanilla space? Brutal comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityThere’s evidence to suggest that selflessness results in more enduring happiness, while selfishness results in ups and downs. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5429736/#:~:text=According%20to%20this%20model%2C%20while,selflessness%20and%20authentic%E2%80%93durable%20happiness. I’m not saying that this is why women to tell men to behave a certain way. There’s obviously self-serving reasons for that. But there is something there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menWhatever you say big guy. Keep paying money to go share a sex toy with all the other grossest men in your city 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menI don’t even know where to start with all the irony here. But I’m happily married btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menDo you think escort game is some rare thing that not many men have discovered? You’re literally paying cash for fake validation from women. It’s the least dignified way a guy could possibly handle his dating woes. But go ahead. Sounds like it’s working wonders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:41 AM |
| 0 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menThen stick with it. Learn more about retention, mysticism etc. Take it as an opportunity to follow a path that isn’t really there for the average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menIt’s not a good option at all. They’ll come home to the same loneliness but probably feel even worse, having spent a lot of money on a short-lived high and having helped drive an exploitative underground industry. You’re not going to die if you don’t have sex. The best option is to embrace the monk pill while you work on yourself. But no, I don’t expect this to be popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:04 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.This is just as creepy and dystopian as a man having a sex doll or AI girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:46 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple store…I’m saying that guys aren’t aware of that when they download the app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:49 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeYa, but they probably don’t know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenMen must stop being emotionally vulnerable in front of women. Stop craving their validation. Stop letting lust control you. As I argued in a previous post, men must be lastless (If it's possible), without lust ,and emotionally detached. Discipline should replace desire. Control should replace weakness. I agree with this part and think it will help but the rest is just MGTOW fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:50 AM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeProbably a lot of men getting the app to see if they’re on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:35 AM |
| 5 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menIf you’re that scared of men and don’t have the social skills to vet them without a tea app, you probably shouldn’t be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 18 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?Do you agree with this worldview? Is this how you personally operate? No and no. I’m married now, but when I was still dating, one of the parts about it that I hated the most was rejecting perfectly good women who I just didn’t feel the energy with. And I went out of my way to be as soft and nice about it as possible But I have known other men who were the opposite of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:51 PM |
| 5 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menI predict that a lot of these self-described thick-skinned women will be screaming to get it banned when it does happen. I guess we’ll see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:27 PM |
| 13 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menI’m very skeptical of people who say things like “they don’t care what people think” but whatever you say. The effects of public humiliation are pretty well known. A person who suffers from severe humiliation could experience major depressions, suicidal states, and severe anxiety states such as post-traumatic stress disorder. The loss of status, like losing a job or being labeled as a liar or discredited unfairly, could cause people to be unable to behave normally in their communities. Humiliate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:46 PM |
| 10 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menOk but consider that people who don’t fully know you yet could also see it. In your professional life, dating life, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:23 PM |
| -1 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menRevenge porn is an entirely different thing. I’m talking slander apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 01:32 PM |
| 16 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menA random bitter guy who you reject could say anything he wants about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 12:55 PM |
| 23 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menI don’t think they want to go down the road of using this app. Guys will get their own version and all hell will break loose. Does anyone remember The Dirty? Social and reputation damage hurts women more than it hurts men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:08 AM |
| 13 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?A lot of terminally single and serial monogamist women dismiss otherwise perfectly fine guys for some pretty ridiculous reasons. Saying the wrong thing once, making a bad joke or disagreeing on a random social or political issue, etc. I think it’s the whole instant gratification generation thing. They seem to think that their ideal partner with no flaws is just going to fall from the sky and onto their lap. They want a relationship or more, but don’t understand that it’s a process that requires … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:26 PM |
| -1 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themI couldn’t even imagine having married a non-religious woman, who thinks marriage is just dating more seriously and signing legal paperwork, and that it can just be abandoned at any time for any reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioSo you’re admitting that Red Pillers let women and other men dictate the world to them? How is that “alpha”? Real masculinity is about being the model for the change that you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:26 PM |
| -1 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioThe Sexual Revolution + Online Dating = An unmitigated disaster for both sexes and society as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to datingYou should go out and people-watch. Most women aren’t with “badboys”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:10 PM |
| 8 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.You think a woman preferring fictional hot guys is mental illness? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:09 AM |
| – | Women are overly fearful of male strangers and have rose tinted glasses towards men in their social circlesSome women are so extremely naive when it comes to their “guy friends” that it’s almost painful to listen to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 0 | Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to datingThis is straight up black pill mythology with almost no basis in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:34 AM |
| – | Misandry creates MORE misogynists.I wish we could just force them to date each other because they’re the perfect match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?I think it’s the experience more than the age itself. Higher social and emotional intelligence More disciplined, healthier lifestyle. Stronger Battle-tested. Not as reactive when things go bad Know what Red Flags to watch out for Timing is better calibrated. Know when to move More stories, experiences and wisdom to share These all made a difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 12:08 AM |
| 23 | For most men, sex is better outside of a relationshipStuff like this is why I hate the red pill. Every one of the 4 points is about an ego boost and a desperate need for external validation. It comes off as major insecurity. Not healthy reasons to be having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?Married life isn’t for people who can’t or don’t want to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingWould you rather be approached by dozens of men every day that you have zero attraction to, or would it annoy you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:47 PM |
| -4 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistKeep telling yourself that the termination of your own offspring is about “health”. I swear, the pro-choice movement is the biggest self-own of all time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:29 PM |
| -4 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistDressing up death and eugenics with rainbow fluff words like “healthcare” doesn’t change what it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:13 PM |
| -3 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistJust take a look at the disturbing origins of Planned Parenthood. Hint: It wasn’t to liberate or empower anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 11:49 AM |
| 11 | *If you think* there’s anything condemnable about childless men ruling out single mothers as potential partners, do you think it would be reasonable for a man to expect potential partners to accommodate other interests of his choosing, to the same extent that children interfere with singles datingYou can’t really compare a child to an “interest”. But I think single parents looking for other single parents is probably the most balanced option for everyone involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way aroundI’m sure there are cases of this. But it also comes off as thinly veiled attempt to put down foreign white guys and The Colombian women who like them out of jealousy and bitterness or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | The Hidden New Dating Norm: EqualityI don’t think anything has changed in nightlife or social circles except that the kind of persistence that would’ve been tolerated before can now get a guy into more trouble (going viral on social media, kicked out of venues or worse, charged with some form of harassment.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooShe manages the family’s social calendar, relationships, appointments. She organizes the household and often becomes the default parent. These are the only two responsibilities she listed that the men could realistically take over. But we both know that if they did, that these same women would then be complaining that they’re not doing it properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooWho would you be complaining to exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:36 PM |
| 24 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooWait, what? You’re complaining that you can’t “outsource” biology? You want men to take on the role of carrying the pregnancy, breastfeeding, etc.? And at the same time, you’re also complaining that women get to make more money now. “Woman who have marriages, families, healthy kids and good jobs are victims.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 11:51 AM |
| 29 | Men simply want virgin women because of security and feeling of being special.Virgin adult women in the real world are nothing like unicorn fantasy you guys conjure up in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 10:55 AM |
| 14 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayIf I were a foreign adversary with the goal of totally collapsing a society, I’d pay “influencers” on both sides to infiltrate their media and spread the most extreme, hateful and divisive rhetoric possible about the opposite sex. 🤫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himTry them both and let me know which one works and which one doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 11:59 AM |
| – | On passport bros.I’m a Western guy married to a Southeast Asian immigrant and I want absolutely nothing to do with the passport bro (sex tourist) movement. They just have no respect at all for the foreign countries and cultures they’re infiltrating. Those of us who’ve genuinely found love with someone of a different nationality now have to deal with all kinds of unfair assumptions and suspicions. They’re basically the male versions of the same narcissistic, hedonist women that they complain about. They don’t rej… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 11:50 AM |
| 11 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himRed pill gurus don’t do a very good job explaining to young guys the difference between the funny, witty and clever kind of cocky and just being arrogant unpleasant douchebag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?There’s something more at play. I’m an older married millennial who works with a lot of Gen Z guys and I notice that they’re all super social and outgoing (way more than me) but yet none of them have wives or girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).It’s a valid criticism of both men and women who consume online outrage porn. It’s getting harder in this day and age to separate genuine opinions from trolls, bots and sock puppets with social and political agendas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentRats also eat their own feces and babies. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 03:58 PM |
| 18 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menYou don’t think most people date with the goal of finding someone and getting out of the dating pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 11:27 AM |
| 39 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most men“Dating” is being used as a kind of hobby by a small group of extreme narcissists on both sides. This makes it hell for normal people, who see it as a means to an end. The apps are designed to appeal to the former but they also have no problem making money off the frustrated latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 11:08 AM |
| 18 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentIs it really that much different from one woman to the next? Maybe a little bit. But nowhere near enough to justify doing damage to your marriage and family. Some people honestly just have to grow up and find ways to make their lives interesting and exciting outside of sexual adventures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Tea appI’d heard about this new app but wasn’t aware of what it was until now. It’s absurd that something like this is allowed. Especially because of how sexist and one-sided it is. If this is going to be a thing, I hope some guy out there is developing a male version, where men can “warn” other men about bad women. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 0 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodSorry but no, not a fan of this. Fighting for men’s rights while ignoring men’s responsibilities isn’t a good look. It makes you no better than the feminists you’re criticizing. From an MRA perspective: Boys are better off having their biological fathers in their lives. And they also don’t deserve to have their bodies mutilated or destroyed right after birth or while in the womb. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 08:22 PM |
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