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So this really has nothing to do with women saying they owe men nothing. It has everything to do with you wanting to say fuck women then they get nothing. That's just really obvious misogyny and dumb
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 11:02 PM
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No.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 04:31 PM
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do you believe the 2020 election was stolen? Because you sound like someone who would
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 03:39 PM
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Rights, welfare and laws exist due to the government. It has nothing to do with women not fucking or dating men because they choose not to do so. Your angry rant is misplaced
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 02:51 PM
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Men don't pay welfare or decides laws the government does. So yeah, your arguments are illogical and irrelevant. Try again.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 02:47 PM
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No you don't. When women say they don't owe men shit, they mean that women do not owe men sex. They do not have to do be in relationship with men. They don't have to lower their standards or choose you. It's called free choice. That has nothing to do with welfare or taking away rights from women to punish them for not wanting to have sex with you. The fact that you think that is a logical is the problem. Not that women don't owe you anything. They do not. Most women do not get to choose what man…
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 01:32 PM
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The other side is not taking away rights or welfare from women because they won't fuck you.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 01:28 PM
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You're making connections between issues that are not related. Welfare and other rights for women in legal sense has nothing to do with women not owing men anything. This is literally you chucking a tantrum for women saying no to you and other men.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 01:27 PM
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This post is literally you just saying things are facts when they are not, and talking shot about women. There is no flip side to women don't owe you shit. They don't. That has nothing to do with what women do to draw interest from men. This post is literally trash content and doesn't make sense.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 11:49 AM
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This isn't a the real world
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 10:28 AM
-1

People can care about looks but that isn't what most people will base a relationship on and women are willing and even happy to forgo best looking guys for men with better offering in personality.
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 02:47 AM
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No you lack basic comprehension skills. He said that he is hot because of being confident. He reflected nothing about looks dude. You're projecting hard
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 02:39 AM
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It is a real interaction. This is a problem because men view sex workers as objects and not human beings doing a job. It's vile
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 02:37 AM
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Prostitutes are actual women...
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 12:50 AM
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You're right but these guys don't want to hear it. Confidence, personality etc. Is way more attractive than superficial things to women. And women will easily give up the superficial stuff for the things that matter most to us.
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 12:31 AM
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I didn't blame Incels or say they were bad at all. I said there are reasons. True Incels have barriers to being matched with women. Those barriers vary. I think women have been trained to desire certain things but that has and is changing over time. There are many reasons why women enter into relationships. I think attraction to the person is actually no where near as important in relationships as it is in casual sex. Toxic masculinity does have a lot to do with this and there is a lot of work l…
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 02:34 PM
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Lol you're joking right?!
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 04:36 AM
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I don't need a man to tell me what to keep in mind when it comes to my own safety. I live it so I know it. I have big breasts. I have since I was 8 years old. I have experienced a lifetime of men objectifying me in little and big ways. You have NFI what it is like to be literally on the look all the time because the reality for me and most women is that men do rape and hurt us. A man calling out to a person nice tits can soon escalate. Men who think they have the right to just grab your breasts …
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 03:53 AM
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You've misinterpreted the while thing that feminism has uncovered. Feminism and capitalism has created a space for women to have more choices due to being able to choose who they married, have casual sex with less stigma (although there is still plenty around) and earn enough to support herself and not rely on a man for her survival. You focus on the male point of view so you miss a lot of the context where men are not contributing or learning to contribute to women's lives in any meaningful way…
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 02:44 AM
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I do think there is truth to generally a lot of people preferring white men or women. That said, this isn't really pill related and will change as people become less racist over time
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 09:11 AM
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This doesn't exist. Men have decided that the reason they are failures have nothing to do with them but it must somehow be all the women's fault.
/r/AllPillDebate22/02/23 08:48 AM
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Same as men with women. Y'all think men approach women for any other reason than sex?
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 02:35 AM
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I'm fat but I am cute.
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 01:09 AM
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I have been with someone who was extremely unattractive. We were together for 4 years. I loved her (trans woman) for who she was not what she looked like. Attraction is not only based on looks and can e overcome
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 12:53 AM
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They do in my experience. Looks obviously is part of it, but someone who is confident or has good social skills can appear more.attractice as a result of the fact they are able to chat with you and are not leaking insecurity or desperation
/r/AllPillDebate18/02/23 12:46 AM
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Not true
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 10:04 AM
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feminism is still necessary in many countries, including America. Abortion rights and levels of violence against females is needing to be dealt with.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 10:04 AM
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Women you talk to is not a good measure of what we.in general society do. Also, women are made to feel shamed for expressing sexual interest. Even in this sub. I literally am being called a whore and cumslut on another sub for disclosing that I enjoy sex so have a high body count.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:54 AM
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Yes and you won't get anything because that is what you deserve. You proved my point. Bravo!
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:17 AM
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I mean the idea that women prefer erotic fiction over porn is actually absurd.
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 11:28 PM
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So how come you guys are focusing on only sexually attracting women when a woman needs more than those things to stay attracted and relationship you?
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 08:10 AM
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Nah you are overestimating the amount of pussy you will get. Lol you definitely do not deserve anything from women with your attitude
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 05:17 AM
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No
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 05:15 AM
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Let's be clear. White people in general do have privilege. Women overall have less than men White women have some privilege over women of colour. There are also other areas where people are disadvantaged. Having a disability, being LGBT, poverty. Ultimately comparing level of privilege in communities where everyone faces some form of oppression is not overly helpful.
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 04:50 AM
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No. The fact you think white people should get to speak all the time ime but others should shut up ever is your privilege speaking. Damn
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 04:47 AM
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The reason you aren't successful is due to your ugly behaviour and attitude dude. Seeking revenge? If you are successful enough to pump and dump you could get a partner. lol you're dreaming. Revenge fantasies are nice but they are fantasies for a reason. What do you offer women? Other than hate?
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:30 PM
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Lol that's why I'm studying a master's in information management. Try again buddy
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:06 PM
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I mean I'm a Woman for starters. And you clearly need to educate yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:04 PM
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Because most men do not apply for custody. That's why most women have custody.
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:04 PM
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If you think being a single parent is a winning position you need to do more research and reading. It is not. They do not break even on the 50/50. In many cases women are disadvantaged by divorce. Do the research a d stop regurgitating talking points that are myths
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:03 PM
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And you came to the wrong conclusion.
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 11:01 PM
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No it isn't. Most women who get divorced end up worse financially. You can make up myths or look at the research and figures available. If they get custody it usually means that the father isn't wanting to take on the responsibility of parenting which means being a single parent that has many disadvantages. If you think being a divorced single mother in society is an advantage, you need to stop and do some reading. Particularly as men in here proclaim that women like that have low SV and are pre…
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:59 PM
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The reality is most people are not born as a white Chad who has millionaire parents
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:51 PM
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No. Again, men who want their kids get them. In court. A majority of men don't put the effort in so don't get them.
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:50 PM
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And? That has nothing to do with those myths
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:49 PM
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Ummm that is as it should be. Courts should not be taking children from fit parents. When men do go to court for custody they usually get it. Most men CBF so don't get it. Also women are usually far worse off than men after divorce financially. Those two points asserted as facts are actually myths
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 10:04 PM
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The court thing is definitely a myth dude
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 09:59 PM
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Bullshit cope
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 03:04 PM
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You can approve social skills, confidence, communication skills attitude
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 01:46 PM
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You can approve social skills, confidence, communication skills attitude
/r/AllPillDebate15/02/23 01:46 PM
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I mean, you need actual numbers not guess work, i.e. making shit up. Also you literally point out many areas that you could improve in through self work but are just going to blame everyone else and not yourself?
/r/AllPillDebate14/02/23 11:18 PM
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Who's the hysterical one now. Lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/02/23 01:31 PM
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I mean none of that is comparable to what women go through and this is the problem. Men do not get how inherently unsafe women feel around strange men.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 03:05 PM
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You're focus is not on the right component. A stranger is an unknown quantity. At best you don't know if the guy will just be weird..at worse he could kill you for rejecting him. It doesn't matter that some of these events are less likely than others overall because there is a full range of negative experiences that a man approaching you can lead to and very little, if any, positive. So the net gain is in the minus column
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:59 PM
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Men here are in denial about the very real dangers for women in interacting with strange men who approach them.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:52 PM
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Dating is literally a numbers game.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 02:49 PM
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What kind of bullshit is this. Clothing and fashion should be about people wearing things they like that fits them, not about convincing people to lose weight. I mean most people in Western society are overweight if not obese. It's a systemic issue. Men and women should still be allowed to feel good about themselves. There's no point in dragging people down unnecessarily.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 12:40 AM
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They aren't arguments. They are literally the reasons it happens.
/r/AllPillDebate03/02/23 09:07 AM
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You know shit about abortions and the choices women face. Why is this once again about the women dealing with the consequences but not the men who don't use protection. Abortion is a difficult thing for women. There are physical, medical, spiritual, moral and mental aspects that men gloss over because they will never understand what being a woman with a child inside their womb is like
/r/AllPillDebate03/02/23 01:33 AM
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Lower socioeconomic backgrounds usually have poorer education. This has a two pronged effect:lower sex ed rates and less options for careers. More women will choose to just have children because they don't have the education required to get a good paying job. They can then be useful as parents. Whereas sex education lacking means men are out there fucking around and getting women pregnant. People are too poor to access abortion if they want. So lots of babies.
/r/AllPillDebate03/02/23 01:30 AM
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Yes I am. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:10 AM
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I'm not wrong
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 04:54 AM
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No I like Indian men who are whatever shade. But I know there is racism and a lot of white women don't want them. But you are supporting my position in that females have a reason to avoid Indian men because of the culture. Thank you
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 03:22 AM
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Not at all. I think Indian men are absolutely sexy. Their culture is not very female friendly in some areas and this is why some people struggle with dating them
/r/AllPillDebate17/01/23 12:46 AM
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Honestly you should blame all the rape and violence that women experience in India on this. Now I am actually really fond of my Indian lovers. However, some can be pushy and rapey. They can be very persistent compared to other races.
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 11:31 PM
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Well I'm fat and doing fine. Who cares? It's the Incels who can't cope with fat women getting relationship and sex.
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 12:12 AM
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Men are attracted to fat women.
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 12:11 AM
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Asian men are hot as fuck
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 12:09 AM
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The point is maybe you overestimate your worth in that respect
/r/AllPillDebate08/01/23 12:13 AM
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Source?
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 11:49 PM
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You assume there are women who are below you. Maybe there aren't and you are really at the bottom
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 04:51 PM
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So how old were they? Perhaps the issue is they were young and thought an older guy was creeping on them
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 04:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 04:23 PM
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There's a lot here to do about capitalism though. Feminism isn't to blame for that
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 10:40 PM
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Sure some do but not this kind of thing. It fits too nearly into the victim mentality about virginity. Very clearly made up. No therapist thinks being a virgin in 20s is a death knell
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 10:13 PM
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Agreed. No therapist says that kind of shit. Time to stop giving lies the energy shown here
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 03:21 PM
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I'd still smash
/r/AllPillDebate10/12/22 12:15 PM
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Ah see you're showing your prejudice. I was married..the kids were a part of that. A lot of.songle.mums are the results of relationship breakdowns not because their sluts running around fucking guys left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:15 AM
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Yeah that's what you all want me to think yet it doesn't match my experience. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:06 AM
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I'm an obese single mother. I'm even crazy and poor. Still a better catch than most low tier men. Not an overinflated sense of ego, just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:43 AM
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I disagree that dating and hooking up is different as sex and pleasure is the same. If you are having sex with someone you should be looking to pleasure them as we as receive pleasure. Basically you want to control women for your pleasure. So submissive now suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:16 AM
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Doesn't matter. Giving time to people who have good faith arguments and logic is better than listening to everyone with an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:13 AM
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Ah so you're admitting that you choose women who are not able to advocate for themselves because you can control them. So in one breath you are saying women should take responsibility for not being able to advocate for themselves (keep in mind I didn't attribute responsibility, just the cause), while saying in another that you want to profit off a woman being in that position so you can take advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:05 AM
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They are less likely to make a good logical point if there whole argument is based off bad logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:03 AM
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That's not how things should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:56 PM
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Why would you support racial equality and not gender equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:55 PM
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Yes it does. If you start from a basis of illogical assertions nothing you say can be trusted or even interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:52 PM
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China is communist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:50 PM
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You're not a leftist. Lol you're about as conservative as it comes. Surely you're trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:49 PM
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Society shames women about sex even now. Yes women are taught to not to prioritise themselves in sex. Everything we are taught is about pleasing a man. It takes a lot to unlearn it and to speak up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:41 PM
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No. This makes no sense. You say it is a product of the culture and environment but then to look inward. How does looking inward achieve anything when your claim is the broader context is what makes men bad? I am not to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:31 PM
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Women are not taught how to be vocal about their sexual needs with men. My sexual experiences with women have been great. I think the heteronormative dynamic is the key factor as the power dynamic throws things off. Men can be amazing at sex but I don't think it has anything to do with the ability to have casual sex as the OP asserts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:28 PM
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Nope the quality is bad. Women keep saying it. Men keep denying it. Men don't want to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:21 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:20 PM
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Most men would be better lovers if they weren't selfish. Honestly, being good lovers is about giving not receiving but most men are not capable of that IME. "Normal" men are bad lovers because they don't put the effort in to pleasuring their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:15 PM
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Yeah but women are liars so they refuse to believe it can't be true
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:36 AM
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I've had amazing sex with really hot men so far out of my league and they have been nothing but perfect lovers and gentlemen. In fact, it's the men with low self esteem who treat me the worse. And most of them would be more considered in my league to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:33 AM
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Yeah you're probably lower quality too. So it's either accept that and make concessions or just be single and ok. Both are valid options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:29 PM
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The problem is that many men say they want a relationship just to get sex. Women use sex as a litmus test to ensure the man is ready for a relationship and not lying POS. It's weird to me that men don't see that a woman turning serious and waiting for sex with them is anything but a result of how men treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:32 PM
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I'm fat as fuck but am super cute and adorable. Guys love me. Lol We're on apps or living life. Honestly, most big girls have got pretty fun attitudes generally because we have a lot thrown at us so learn how to cope. But that means we can be more balanced with our approach and don't have as many judgemental preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:02 AM
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It means I need to keep have risky unprotected sex with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:03 AM
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Most women aren't dealing with those type of men though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:11 AM
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Not true. You can fuck a person and hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:09 AM
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A dildo isn't a penis. Men view women as objects that get used and loose if too many penis enter her. That's misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:08 AM
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Women literally do not care that much at all about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:05 AM
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No they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:02 AM
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I call out anything I view as toxic behaviour regardless of gender. As a woman I want to help men see it from our angle. That means there is more benefit in me calling out men than women, although I do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:10 AM
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Lol not true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:45 AM
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I mean this is about the two people involved. Men usually walk away from their kids or with little custody because they don't want it. Reality is that being the non custodial father suits most men so they prefer not to do it and leave women with the heavier load of parenting. It's fair in that if you want something you have to go through the process. It costs everyone. The basis is what's best for the child/ren. They are what matter. As I said, when men do care they get their fair share. Unfortu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:35 PM
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Yes it is over hyped. When men fight for custody they usually get it. Women as single mothers are far more likely to be in poverty and worse off financially after divorce despite the rhetoric that men have it worse off. Just not true. They also are seen as less desirable to men which means they are far less likely to re-partner.0 Women also have to be careful about men who target them to gain access to their children. Women are at greater risk of homelessness also after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:18 AM
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Funny because a lot of younger men prefer older women too. Honestly, it's posts like this that show how detached from reality people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:42 AM
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Well a lot to f women are choosing not to date, and that's an increasing number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:09 AM
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It's still a gendered insult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:36 PM
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I don't care who uses twitter to support their arguments, it is very flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:59 PM
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You can choose not to accept facts but they are the facts. Women do most of the work within relationships to maintain the relationship but to make it function. Division of labour in relationships alone proves this. However, if you also look into who initiates couples therapy/counselling you will see women are overwhelmingly the ones to do so. Your claims are irrelevant as you fail to define effort and pull from anecdotal personal experience. That is not helpful in discussing it in overall terms …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:11 AM
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You could. But I haven't seen you do it. It is a gendered insult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:05 AM
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Yes because of racism. You're not very observant if you think they don't struggle to date or find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:28 AM
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None of those complaints are about effort in approach
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:40 AM
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Gendered language about women shows a lack of good intent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:40 AM
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Well I would argue it is fair considering that women do far more of the work and effort of maintaining a relationship than men. The disparity in women's workload when in a relationship definitely offsets any work a man does in approaching a woman. The movement towards women initiating things is still a net gain. This isn't about equality and you know it. Men of TRP and Incels are not allies for women and creating more equal society for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:33 AM
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Twitter proves nothing mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:28 AM
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I don't understand what you're trying to say. It's very difficult to read your post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:21 AM
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Ok so why should men complain if they don't do the work? The reality is that women have adapted and started becoming more proactive in approaching men. Men now have it better than any other male society where women are doing more effort than previously done on any point in history. Men can decry the unfairness but the reality is it is better than it has ever been in terms of women also making approaches. It may not be equal but that doesn't mean that men have it worse off. If a man decides not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:15 AM
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There are different experiences and difficulties All I see is men whining and taking their issues out on women by things like TRP. The rule that people have to put effort in is universal. Not gender dependant. It's the men complaining about effort, not the women. No one has claimed women put in more effort than men. Again, that's your victim mentality getting defensive rather than reading and interpreting what someone says
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:57 AM
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Women do approach and get rejected. It's in different ways at times but it happens. Denying that women experience it is just nonsense. That's the point. Women get directly rejected by men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:53 AM
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There's no "have to" about it. But if you want a girlfriend or partner you do what you have to do. I don't understand why men complain about having to put effort into finding a partner. It is like any other part of life. If you want something you do what you have to to attain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:23 AM
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What a lot of tosh. Men and women are around the same level of overweight or obesity. The fact that the majority of society is overweight or obese proves that it basically is a non-matter. It's basically a level playing field. And the reasons for obesity are far more complex and linked to societal issues than personal reasons, as shown by the staggering figures of widespread obesity. None of that actually proves your point in the least. Women do a lot to attract a mate. If you want to deny that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:54 AM
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It is rejection to look hopefully at a man, flirt with him in non verbal ways and him to sneer at you and walk off. If men don't think that happens then they just want to be a victim in all this. Women also initiate. It may not be as great as men, but currently women actually initiate more than any other time in history. So if men want to whinge they need to fight against the gendered roles that the pat5riarchy has insisted upon for millennia. Acting as if women don't get any rejection just make…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:48 AM
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Disagree. Women have to put a lot of effort into courting. Women put more effort into maintaining relationships. Initiation is but one part of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:44 AM
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I didn't say they were the exact same situation. In fact, I stated that It was different in my post. So not sure what you're fighting about TBH. Women get rejected too. That's literally all I said. And the fact you used gendered slur saying women "bitch" invalidates your argument because you clearly have a specific prejudiced mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:43 AM
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And men are at least 80%. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:14 AM
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*sigh* Stating that women face rejection is not an "oppression olympics" lol Men are not oppressed. :eyeroll: You're the one saying women don't face it. Yeah they do all the time. It may not be in the way you are framing it, but they do. Ghosting on Apps, men fucking them then not speaking to them again, Not getting approached by men at all, not getting much luck on apps or IRL even when going out and trying to chat men up. Read the dating forums and you will see that plenty of women face reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:12 AM
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And women put effort in too. It's not just men. Just happens in different ways, mainly due to sexism and historical ways of courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:25 AM
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It's a different approach but women still face rejection all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:19 AM
0

Women put themselves out there if they want a partner. They find ways to indicate availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:58 AM
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I meant in general, as on if men want girlfriends they need to ask them out. You won't get one without doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:40 AM
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This is dumb. If you want a girlfriend then you need to put the effort in. It won't happen if you don't. Really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:31 AM
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If I tell a man I want something and they continue to engage with me then I would think that what I said was acceptable to them. Is there not also an onus on the man to likewise not continue the conversation after that point? Why the woman only? Is it because she's the one seeking longer term relationship? Why? My answer is simple. If people are not on the same page, neither should continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:58 AM
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Honestly, time to step away from the internet and social media apps. A huge part of the issue is that a lot of posts on this sub are by people who spend way too much time online and it skews your view about what is happening in the world. What's wrong with men giving women stuff to show their appreciation of them? Is it really something that is causing that much damage? It is considered pretty standard for people to give others gifts or tokens of love when courting or in relationships. What's wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:49 AM
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There is racism in preferences though. You can prefer white if you want, but know that's probably because of bias on your part. Have you considered dating a man or woman from another culture. Most people can have prejudice ingrained in them from their social circles and upbringing. It most definitely is racist to prefer something, particularly if you have never really challenged your reasoning.
/r/AllPillDebate21/11/22 07:40 AM
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By having the Madonna Whore complex being used against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:08 AM
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Where did you get your information? Nice guys have been around for a lot of history as you can see examples of them in literature. A nice guy is a man who is nice to a woman in the hopes of her one day choosing him as a partner. A nice guy is considered negative because they are not honest and are creepy or sneaky in the way they approach women. Their motives are to be there when a woman has her heartbroken and to swoop in to get her when she is vulnerable. There is no redeeming quality to a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:45 AM
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OMG I love the way you have to twist something around that is clearly steeped in sexist misogynistic roots to make men the fucking victims when it is clearly the women!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:35 AM
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Now this is an interesting person to highlight because Cavill was never attractive to me until he was The Witcher. I could look at him and go, ok I can see others may find him attractive but he was a bit too polished, American Boy next door bland to me. The Witcher gave him an extra level of grittiness and sense of depth that I hadn't noticed before so this turned me on greatly. But prior to this, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:15 AM
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I read this in a Scottish accent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:53 PM
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Nope so wrong. Lol like I am a Wan and know women and anyone who tells you women don't like sex or want it are lying to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:52 PM
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Maybe not in terms of attraction but shared interests is important to make relationships work long term. Successful relationship needs fundamental underpinnings in common
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:50 PM
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Sorry but this isn't true dude. Is women hate being raped and abused by any man. The reason you see women tolerate some behaviour is because we are taught to not rock the boat. But I'm telling you now no man who acts abusively is actually desired by women. This is a myth. No woman accepts abuse just because the man is good-looking. Such bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:21 PM
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Nope I can't. Never said I could
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:15 PM
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You can't spot women who've had a heap of sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:05 PM
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You're comment is very uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:04 PM
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I'm into all genders so that does help. I do have types but I find myself needing a conversation that shows personality that I like to spark something. Most are from apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:39 PM
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F n=125+ I regret nothing. I enjoy fairly risky sex at times bf I'm ok with that. I'm finally free to enjoy sex and get what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:53 PM
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Nah you're just wrong mate. Most women do doctor their looks in some ways but a majority of women do not apply tons of it, which was your uneducated claim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:16 AM
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That's such a stereotype and doesn't apply to a majority of women. Some women wear thick make up but a majority wear little to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:32 AM
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I agree with the sentiment but men don't date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:15 AM
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Nope. Men over estimate their worth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:14 AM
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I'm not hot as shit and same sister. I hated the 24hour thing because it increased my anxiety, whereas other apps I can choose when I'm Ready to put time in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:20 AM
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I don't know who the fuck Pete Davidson is but nothing about this is Gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:12 AM
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It's manipulative and toxic to treat anyone a certain way just to get them to do what you want or to get things out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:51 AM
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Why should they choose another career to stop some man from sexually harassing them? Why are the wwn always the ones to lose or miss out because men can't be fucking decent?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:20 AM
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I love Hitchcock but there does seem to be some really horrible components to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:18 AM
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That is such a bullshit comment. So they asked for it? No they didn't. They still had to deal with the man because he had power over their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:17 AM
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Tall men lol. I'm short. Tall men make me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:35 PM
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I mean I think I could be in a relationship if I wasn't a single parent. There are things outside of looks that determines what people will deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:00 AM
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Hahaha nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:58 AM
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No shit...like this is what everyone says lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:26 AM
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You cannot go by books written 200 y ars ago as to modern women. So that rules a few of those out. 50 Shades is not romance it is erotica which has a different purpose for women. Modern romances written by women are actually a lot more empowering but you haven't seemed to focus on those at all, I wonder why? No I don't. It's because it doesn't actually suit your argument. Many women don't even read romance fiction. Many men and women fantasise about things that are not relevant to real life. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:56 AM
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Anime also promotes sexualisation of underage looking and acting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:52 AM
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No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:01 PM
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No I'm mean spirited to sexless men who degrade, blame, and harm women. You aren't entitled to sex but everyone is entitled to shelter and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:18 PM
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Fucking Amen! Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:06 AM
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Lol I mean that's so mean-spirited. I think every deserve the basic necessities of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:25 AM
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I was speaking about the sub not the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah, sounds like she has issues. Even so, none of that is antithetical to what my first statement about men being fathers was saying. No she didn't need to be with him but that doesn't absolve men for not being deadbeats either. In the end, it's the kid that suffers and grows into men and women who have issues that will influence their ability, or lack thereof, to form healthy relationships. Surely, men of any pill would want this to not be the case and should advocate for men to step up as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:25 PM
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LOL on taking issue of people making generalisations about gender on a sub all about making generalisations on gender. Am I supposed to preface each post with not all men?! NO And yes I did address your point which is that women love their kids and should not be held accountable for male actions. Loving your kid does not make them weaker in the long run. ALL of psychology sees that as a good thing. there's a difference between boosting your child and toxic mollycoddling or whatever but that wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:21 PM
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Dad's abandon their kids all the time. Women leaving men has nothing to do with the males stepping up as father's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah I don't care. Lol I'm actually more than ok with that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:25 PM
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So in this sub women are demonised for everything. Men leaving is women's fault, men not getting laid. now loving their kids too much is an issue?! Do you guys hear yourselves in you're ridiculousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:24 PM
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In your eyes you're great. You might not be. We don't know. Say you are better in everyway, that still doesn't mean that the other dude shouldn't step up to be a dad. That doesn't mean it's her fault for a man being a deadbeat. Don't you think it is inherently unfair to place all the burden on women to get it right? How is there no personal responsibility or accountability for men in your view? You say you blame all the women. Well why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:22 PM
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Yeah and I always ask for either fingering, oral, toys. Sometimes asking for what you need sexually can be hard but learning to do it is fundamental for good sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:18 PM
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Can you not see how ridiculous this thought process is? You place all the blame on the woman for something she has no control over. I see it here all the time. Women are not to blame for shitty men and their behaviour. Men need to take accountability for their actions. All of the pill debate is men not taking responsibility for being a dud and not being able to secure a mate. Nothing more. Blaming everyone else and having a victim mentality. Women are not responsible for men and their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:15 PM
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Not true or men here wouldn't be bitching about not being laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:11 PM
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At least you're honest about your loathing towards women. In general, women do a lot more for men than men do for women. But that's a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:10 PM
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No. Mom's tell their kids it because they think their kids are special FFS. Not everything a woman does is some evil fucking plot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:38 PM
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Dad's are hurting their sons by abandoning their children leaving women to raise them alone. Dad's are creating a chasm where male role models should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:36 PM
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Yeah and that's why women reject yhm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:19 PM
1

How is that condescending?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:17 PM
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I'm going to say that this is fundamentally the issue with people on this sub. Extrapolation from one small view to the many never works. Also, I would say that the issue is probably you not properly vetting your sexual partners. Or not being able to assert yourself sexually in the moment to get an orgasm. Yes there are plenty of dud roots but there are plenty of great ones too. It's about educating yourself on how to weed men out and how to advocate for your sexual pleasure. A lot of women find…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:09 PM
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Men don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:43 AM
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Things take time to have an effect. They haven't really had that choice until recently. Casual BTW is choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:19 AM
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They are part.of the reason. A huge part. Kim got famous for a sex tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:18 AM
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Women don't need bad or subpar or low value etc. men. Unfortunately, there are a lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:17 AM
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Exactly. Men are sex maniac
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:41 AM
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Bullshit. Men want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:38 AM
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If you think women are considered to have value outside of their usefulness to men your sorely mistaken. Women are not valued at all by society apart from what they can do for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:24 AM
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Nope. not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:57 PM
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No. They matter. But Tinder is based on looks basically. I mean that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:53 PM
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I mean...yeah. that's how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:47 PM
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The entire breadth of history not good enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:01 AM
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No. that's not it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:00 AM
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Yeah and he is worthy of love and affection from women who he can attract, which isn't uni educated women with prospects in professional areas. It's ALWAYS been that way. Classism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:18 AM
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I'm obese. I would be considered basically basement level scum to people here, yet I do better than most. Wonder why that could be?! (hint: I know why)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:16 AM
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BAHAHAHAHA. insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:15 AM
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Because that's less likely to be the case. It's to do with probability and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:37 PM
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Johnny Depp doesn't have trauma from high n count
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 03:08 AM
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Out of the people I know who've cheated, there are differences in situations and the women appear to have more justifiable reasons to me. I am sympathetic to women more than men because I know the experience of what being a woman is like. So when a woman cheats on an abusive partner, I get that. When a man cheats on his wife with a significantly younger woman, I don't. It seems disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:56 AM
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We aren't just talking about choosing the wrong man. We are talking about abusive men who manipulate and control women. Who purposefully deceive and target vulnerable people. It's not the woman's fault for a man being that way. What nonsense. Where does personal responsibility come into that? You clearly hate women. We get it. You won't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:28 AM
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I mean, many women like having casual sex. Just like many men like it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 09:26 AM
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Of course. Women are evil. Men are innocent victims. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:22 AM
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And if they do give trash men a chance and then end up abused/single parent etc. it's the woman's fault for making a bad choice. Women literally are to blame always for everything according to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:14 AM
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Yeah and then it's the women's fault if they end up a single parent because they deigned to make a poor choice , which is essentially what dudes in this sub always argue women should do. Women never catch a break with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:13 AM
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Ah I like this way of illogically arguing. Make false statement. Called out on it Say anecdotes aren't stats told they didn't quote facts make some spiel about how evidence isn't that important because of illogical false argument called out on it google some irrelevant ting that totally won't prove my point. It's like incel/TRP/MGTOW illogic reasoning bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:12 AM
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Says someone who clearly doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:09 AM
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Wrong. Women aren't that superficial. The reality is that a lo of men stink of desperation and that really is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:08 AM
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As a woman, a man discussing or getting sexual early on with little sign of other relationship commitment or goals/talks IS a red flag and a massive reason to not pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:07 AM
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It's not dislike, just that women are interested in dating a majority of them because of incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:05 AM
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I don't believe in chads as you put it. That's terminology that is not relevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:01 AM
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Only people who are looking to place blame on women would say that a man committing DV or being somewhere abortion isn't easy to access is a moron. That's certainly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:57 AM
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It makes sense that I have high standards and can get high value men despite what TRP and others want to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:32 AM
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I mean I've dated high value men. I don't care if that bothers you. 41 obese single mother with 3 kids and I have earned the right to my no fucks given policy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:21 AM
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I'm not just talking about the threat of abuse, violence, murder and rape. I'm talking about the many things women have to do to preemptively protect themselves. And of course you want to ignore that these things are a far greater risk and issue for women. It doesn't suit your rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:07 AM
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I don't care and many other women don't. But the reality is that sexism has forced women to consider their worth based on the male gaze.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:51 AM
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Some men have actually. Try again.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/22 03:50 AM
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lol. you're just trash. That's why you won't get anything in life. Not because of women. I actually agree that EVERYONE needs support. But instead of that you just are using one statistic to support your dumb (non educated as you pointed out) view about women being whores. It's good when the men take themselves out of th running to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:43 AM
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"womanly plights" way to downplay it. It's not a grass is always greener scenario. Objectively, being raped, abused. murdered is worse. Women have to mitigate the very real threats and dangers that this will likely happen to them. Remember if they don't they then get asked things like, "what were you wearing". So no. No where near comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:41 AM
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They won't get any women because of they stupidity and hate, just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:29 AM
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No. whores has to do with being paid for sex. Just because women are smarter than men, hence get more degrees etc. doesn't mean they are not being oppressed in great numbers. It also doesn't mean they are whores. And yes there is a perfect argument to be made against calling women whores when they aren't actually being paid for sex. It's a sexist slur and shows your hate for women, thus invalidating your argument. I learnt that earning my degrees. Maybe you should try to get better educated so y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:28 AM
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Come back at me when men are being harmed for rejecting women, then we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:25 AM
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Exactly...hence why the claim made above is rubbish lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:24 AM
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Nope I'm not mixing anything up. If you make statements you need to have a reason for it. Otherwise it is called making shit up. So, as a woman, I know that I myself and other women discuss being unheard all the time. In the history of all humankind women have never mattered, even now. Hence why feminism exists inthe first place. A prime example of women not being heard is the fact that women didn't have the vote until within the last 100 odd years. There are plenty of places in the world where …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:23 AM
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No. It's the reality. Just because you want to pretend it doesn't exist doesn't change the facts dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:18 AM
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If only you guys saw what that attention and "options" really means. You would complain too. I also am incredibly particular about men. I have to be. I don't like being raped or abused. Funny that. You will never understand what it is like to have to do that kind of risk mitigation every single day with every single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:15 AM
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Well no women will choose them. That's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:11 AM
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There is no conspiracy of women all in cahoots to lie to men about what they want. Men just don't want to believe women because it's too uncomfortable for them to hear. This is men gaslighting women pure and simple. Also, if women are all liars (they aren't) then how is that any different to men who lie to women about their intentions to get sex. I mean TRP and other such bullshit is predicated on being dishonest with women. Why is it that the focus is always on women being lying tricksters and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:11 AM
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Yeah so a woman is a loser if she is a single parent because of relationship break up, death of spouse, lack of access to abortions, leaving domestic violence. LOL. You're inability to have any nuance is why women don't fuck or partner with you dude, and many other loser men like you who hate women. It shows great moral fortitude to raise another man's kid. Women literally melt n the palm of the hands of these men because they know how to treat women and don't have hate for them. These men are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:07 AM
1

Nah. Still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:03 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:30 PM
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Based on what? I'm going on actual lived experience and evidence. You're just making shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:30 PM
1

What hateful nonsense. Women are not whiny whores. But thanks for showing that your opinion doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:24 PM
0

Men have created the dystopia actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:20 PM
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Ask women if they think the sexual harassment and abuse is worth the very rare chance if finding a partner. Because it's not the good position you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:17 PM
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What do you count as rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:13 PM
1

Bahahahahaha. No they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:10 PM
1

No there are plenty of men who kill women for turning them down, or because they don't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:07 PM
1

Nah most women are base level higher than subpar men. There's a reason why we all know if the fat gamer dude in his mum's basement and there isn't a female equivalent. Women are made to have their shit together from early on. Not men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:06 PM
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Men specifically kill because of it though. So that's relevant. And most women actually are not doing the amount of incel bullshit. There is a distinct rise in men doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:03 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:01 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:57 PM
0

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:57 PM
1

Women don't sit around complaining or killing people because we can't find men. We just get on with life. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:56 PM
0

I know many women who are single and happy. Men just wish they were miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:30 PM
0

I mean, yeah it does because they're the ones men want to fuck and partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:49 PM
0

Men don't know better than women what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:42 PM
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As I said, a lot of men are single as a result of being crappy, lazy or subpar. Some won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:42 PM
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Feminism in itself isn't man hating. I also will say women don't profit or benefit from other women hating men, which isn't a common thing. Men profit or benefit from men hating women. It maintains power dynamics and structures in society. It also means that men can come in and scoop up vulnerable women after the real bad ones have made her more compliant through abuse. So men are able to benefit from that. This is actually where the whole white knight and nice guy trope comes from. Those men to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:20 PM
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Yeah a lot are. Fight me You even admit to that yourself. That you couldn't get anything until you Redpilled and made yourself better. Unless that's another poster.. but yeah the fact that makes a difference should tell you that men are sub par so that's why they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:15 PM
1

No. Your assertion was that women made crappy choices by choosing the men. Your assertion implies the men are bad so the women are to blame for picking bad men. My response is that there are many reasons a relationship ends. But I was asking you to explain how if a man is bad that it's because a woman made a crappy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:40 AM
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I didn't say you personally did. Men using TRP and in general do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:30 AM
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I would wonder what else changed too. A lot of men can't get dates due to lack of confidence and other things. So fixing yourself probably helps. No one dispute that. The problem was you. It's the blaming of women that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:17 AM
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Relationships end for many reasons. How is a man being crappy a woman's fault? Also, lots of single men are crappy, hence why they are single. But men don't seem to want to blame that on them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:15 AM
2

Ah I love when women are always to blame for whatever happens. A lot of single mothers didn't actually plan on being single parents but end up single due to relationship breakdowns. So according to men they want women to make all sorts of allowances for their shortcomings but not interested in doing the same for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:35 AM
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HA. Most men in TRP and PPD would kill to be the kind of man to have had the chance to even be in a relationship, had frequent sex and made a baby. You're kidding yourself if you think most men who purport to believe in any pill is anything but a desperate loser who is cockblocking himself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:32 AM
-2

I mean...then don't complain about being a sexless, loveless, partnerless loser? Find other things to satisfy your time then and stop complaining about women so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:30 AM
-1

Yeah and how's that working out for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:29 AM
3

It's funny watching men make statements about women that are completely wrong. Imagine being arrogant enough to speak for a completely different group of people like you know things as a fact but being so very deeply flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:21 AM
4

What rubbish. Most men today do not have back breaking work in comparison to women, particularly when compared to the past. Men would have to do that work regardless of if they were in a relationship or not. So that should not have anything to do with the division of labour or cost put into the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:19 AM
2

Feminism is trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:16 AM
3

Why is the focus on who has more pressure? What difference do you perceive this to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:06 AM
7

There was a good bit of research done about a decade ago that proved it was a myth that men would sacrifice themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:16 PM
5

Sounds to me like you don't have good ability to judge social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:21 PM
4

Women. I hope he's not fucking girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:20 PM
3

One article in the New Yorker? Wouldn't conside4r that feminist media by any stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:10 PM
2

I've not seen feminist media perpetuate this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:28 PM
2

I'm 41. A majority of women I know, have not had many, if any, casual sex experiences. Most women have had a few relationships before marriage. I can't speak for young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:25 PM
3

He said he had more in common. That definitely denotes immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:20 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:18 PM
1

Haha 66 year old guy ogled me and I'm 41. To him I'm young and hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:16 PM
2

You have more.in common because you're immature. That's often the case with men. Usually people in their early 20s are in very different life stages and maturation than 30 yr Olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:09 PM
17

You know it's funny that men go on abut Hypergamy in women when there is a real big issue of men leaving their wives for "upgrades" all the time. Usually after the wife have supported them to be stable financially etc. And they then cheat on or leave for a younger woman. How is this any different o what men claim women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:39 AM
1

I think it's worse for women because they will get used, whereas a man will know that the woman he is with is with him for the real him and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:36 AM
1

Nope. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:41 PM
1

I'm not lying. But you have made assumptions and are wrong. And no. No therapist would nor could make an evaluation on such little information on someone online. Lol it's so irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:39 PM
1

Such a ridiculous rant from a so called mental health professional. You don't know me, my current diagnosis, my life anything. But make it up. You're wrong. Dead wrong. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:21 PM
1

You're either lying or just extremely bad at your profession. No one would read what you've written and think that you're doing anything but being extremely rude and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:10 PM
1

No you don't. Any professional would know not to make an assessment of a stranger online. You're incompetent and wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:02 PM
0

No it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:15 PM
1

Yes but you said why do women get upset when guys are less than honest after being asked. The issue is that guys lie
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:08 AM
11

Well sex work has been around before capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:45 AM
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No this makes perfect sense when you think about the reality of sex work. The reality is that women doing sex work are desperate and doing it to survive a majority of the time. A lot of the women are victims of abuse, homeless, in poverty, vulnerable and disenfranchised. Men who use sex workers are buying consent and using the most vulnerable people in society to satisfy their own desires. It is disgusting. And should be condemned
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:12 AM
1

So in one breath you are saying women should just ask, but in the next you're saying that women shouldn't complain if men aren't a completely open book. So why is it that women are the problem if they are asking and men are not being forthright? If women have to communicate and you're putting that responsibility on her, then you should also be putting the responsibility on the man to be honest and open when asked, i.e. communicate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:34 AM
1

You know what?! Coping is fine to me. When 35 out of 41 years have been spent being abused, sometimes all you can do is cope. My life is shitty in many ways. But I make the best of what I can. Is that so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:57 AM
1

Then you would should know better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:59 AM
1

I don't have any interest in a relationship in the future. I'm fine with fulfilling my needs other ways. Are you a therapist? Otherwise you should not be trying to diagnose strangers on the internet. If you are you should not be trying to diagnose strangers on the internet. Either way you have shown how you're not in any place for making your statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:11 AM
1

Well considering you're calling me stupid when I am.not says you don't. You are rude and ignorant. But keep going. You're the one looking like a sexist fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:07 AM
1

Nah you know nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:31 PM
1

You know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:16 PM
1

You don't know me at all. I'm fine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:18 PM
1

It's not cool to be ableist dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:38 PM
1

Hi. Thanks for diagnosing me. I have a therapist and I have CPTSD. We work on dealing with trauma together and I am doing the best I can considering all the disadvantages I face.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:38 PM
1

Most women don't date "Chad" or even chase them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:27 PM
1

Wrong. Men are directly responsible for the oppression, rape, abuse and (their children). Women's lives have and continues to be controlled by men in power. The same cannot be said for men as a general group.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/22 03:37 AM
0

Then men should support other men. And men killing themselves is not the responsibility of women. I think that's an indictment on society's attitude towards mental health.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/22 02:17 AM
1

It means I can't get pregnant as I don't ovulate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:39 AM
1

Men have better outcomes if married, women don't. Women are better off single. Men are better off married. Conundrum. But either way, it's not a mainstream view.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/22 12:22 AM
2

No it's not
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/22 03:02 PM
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I got a Mirena and don't have periods so I don't worry at all. If o get pregnant I will definitely have an abortion. No question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:54 PM
0

I mean you literally looked at a study where there are so many variables in whether the person found them attractive or not. There are many factors that were not identified or discussed that has as much to do with it. I fail to see how this proves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:17 AM
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I did argue your points earlier so wrong again. If you want me to treat you as an intellectual equal, try to make intelligent arguments, and don't just throw childish tantrums that make me think even less of the female sex than I already do. Ah see so why would you even bother engaging with females then? And wouldn't it be your fault if women do things to you not their fault for their behaviour. After all it is biological and that is apparently an appropriate argument for bad behaviour, accordin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:04 AM
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Ah so you think insulting women actually proves a point. Guess what, I can guarantee that I am better educated than you based on the fact that I don't lack critical thinking skills, which you so clearly do. In fact, your arguments are based on nothing but misogynistic ideologies. There is no empirical evidence for what you are arguing. But go ahead and argue things based on feeling and hate rather than facts because it makes it very easy to dismiss anything you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:35 AM
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lol so because I am female I can't intellectually argue against your claptrap. Dear sir, I can. No one is responsible for the behaviour of others. Women tell men they want honesty. Men lie to manipulate women and procure sex. Men will target women they know are more susceptible hence they are literally doing so in a nefarious and underhanded way. Women take a majority of the responsibility for relationships, childcare, housework, and emotional labour. However, the rhetoric in these subs is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:34 AM
1

Female not women? Men not male? The fact you use that terminology says everything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:11 AM
2

The g spot exists, however they recently identified that it might just be the extension of the clit internally. Either way, it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:18 AM
5

Patently untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:13 AM
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So biology made them do it? Every part of your post is designed to place women as responsible and men have none because women should know better or biology made them do it. Why are all the men you talk about so incapable of being decent human beings? Are men that untrustworthy that no one should be giving them the time of day? If so, they should not be able to run countries the sex ravaged maniacs can't help themselves. And BTW women are choosing not to fuck many men. Choosing to be single over …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:47 AM
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It's a crap take that it's on the people being lied to and manipulated to know better. Maybe men should be better. It's not a hard ask for someone to just not lie and be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:36 AM
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Basically men like to get sex from women they know would want a relationship not a ONS. So lying about their intent is extremely problematic because it removes the ability for a woman to make decisions about sex and her life. It is gaining consent to sex through nefarious means. It's also not going to get the guy what he wants in the long run. That's why women recommend being honest. If you have no intention of pursuing a LTR then you should be honest. The only reason not to be honest is to tric…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:28 AM
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Men will start murdering their wives more especially if their affairs are found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:19 PM
2

The reality is that women can opt to get an abortion or other medical intervention. It's their body and they can and should have choices. People are arguing that as men don't get a choice once the woman's pregnant and she has all the power (rightly so as it is her body). Then the reality is men do have a choice and this is when it happens. It's not "fair" but that's the reality of the biology involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:32 AM
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Well I think a lot of people know that there are many people unhappy because of not getting sex or dating. Unfortunately, the sad reality is that some times life just sucks. So your choice can be about feeling sad and depressed about your lot in life, or you can try and make happiness be about the things you can control. The reality is a lot of people die alone and unhappy. Pretending that everyone will get what they want is harmful. But what you do and how you deal with it on a mental level rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:43 AM
1

Why do you think an average guy deserves a hot girl. Why doesn't and average guy get an average girl?
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 02:42 PM
1

Because the judgement leads to violence and oppression or lack of protection for the vulnerable women. It's ok for men. They don't understand how judgement carries burdens like not being able to abort safely or being considered less worthy by men as a partner, or being used and abused by men because they were women as dispensable or purchasable. As objects and property.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:35 AM
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Yes a lot of people like to spout this rubbish when sex working is discussed. But you know exactly how disingenuous that is as buying consent for sex is very different than any other legal work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:37 PM
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Men are against rape and against enslaving women to force the women to be their wives. If men had no love for women and no fear of the law, they would force themselves on women. I'm not sure where you live but men do rape women and there are many places where women are forced into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:23 AM
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The correct term is sex worker, not prostitute. And why should incels be given the chance to buy consent? How is that sex positive. You are basically saying women should get to decide which men get the chance to win a sexual mate/partner or which men are too pathetic to date and should just get sex provided to them by women who are in povert5y, been abused and vulnerable. That those women should be forced into a form of sex slavery for the pathetic incels. LMAO How is any of that sex positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:07 AM
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But the man is free to fuck around and spread disease etc. So no it doesn't make sense. It's a dog whistle and smokescreen for misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:38 AM
1

Still better than men who can't even get a date. Also, they ended due to the other person being abusive. Something outside of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:45 AM
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It's the women and the man's responsibility. Haha you can't compare money to bodily autonomy but if course a man would think like that and be so flippant about the physical reality of pregnancy and birth on a woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:44 AM
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It's not insane lol. It's called being single and having sexual needs. I have an extremely high sex drive and like to be active. I'm making up for lost time too. Lol I had bad sex for my entire life and decided I deserved better last year. And most of the guys I'm fucking are actually here studying at Uni from other countries. Unfortunately, they find it hard to get partners due to racism so I do feel I am doing a community service for these young men. And as for my kids, they have already had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:34 AM
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Yeah it is. A majority of sex workers would not fuck the men if they weren't poor or vulnerable. It is rape when you're consent is coerced. If you wouldn't fuck someone if they weren't paying you, and you had to sell your body to survive, them of course that's predatory. Most sex workers do see the issue. Many are sex trafficked or abused into performing these acts. Nearly all sex workers would not be doing the sex if they had better options. Consent is being bought because she is too poor to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:28 AM
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Yeah basically men want to be able to fuck around and produce children but not take responsibility for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:22 AM
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It's not hypocritical to support one and not the other. For starters, pregnancy and childbirth has a huge pact on a woman's body. Abortion is an available medical procedure to help women if they need or want it. However, an abortion has risks too. And many women cannot access safe abortion. The issue here is that once a child is born there needs to be responsibility for the biological production that has taken place. The logical and moral implications is that the two people who were involved in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:21 AM
2

Because sex work is predatory and just because a man can afford to buy sex from a vulnerable woman doesn't mean it should happen. The idea that money is the basis of if something should happen or not is very troubling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:09 PM
1

So one reason female on female action has been normalised for women is because we were taught that men find it hot. That men like lesbians and seeing women together so women soon adapted this display as some form of mating ritual. Now as for women not wanting men who have experienced homosexual sex, this is definitely a thing. Some of it could be rooted in the belief that gay men are very promiscuous and STIs are spread pretty easily in the gay community. I also think a lot of women aren't disgu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:27 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:55 PM
3

What a load of rubbish. Men really do have a sense of entitlement to sex with women don't they? You don't get it. You never will. Men absolutely do not have the right to women or sex. And you best learn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:43 PM
2

Pretty sure you don't give a shit about those people other than to exploit them as an argument to support exploiting women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:42 PM
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Women actually do care about this stuff. Unfortunately, women are not in the position of powers within corporations or governments to change this situation. That's the way you men like it. So what are MEN in power going to do about this situation you apparently are really concerned about? Nothing I assume because you're literally using abused and vulnerable people as an argument and don't give a shit. Whereas women have to actually live the lives of abused and vulnerable people and being treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:40 PM
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And if men in this sub get their way, many men absconding from their biological responsibilities through financial abortions. Men proving how they really don't give a shit about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:38 PM
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Yes your double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:36 PM
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It's not clever to bring up all the shitty things to justify your shitty thing. In fact, it proves that you know it is a wrong thing to do and just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:36 PM
1

I mean you have heard of men who are stuck with other men for long periods of time, like in prison or the navy having sex with men even though they aren't gay haven't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:35 PM
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Sex positivity is not about buying consent and abusing women. Sex positivity is about women being able to be sexual beings without being judged for it. And men on this sub are massive hypocrites because they aren't sex positive where it comes to women. If a woman dares to fuck several men in her life she is considered a slut/whore/too high body count and tainted for them . Men in this sub want women to fuck and date them, but they don't want women to be fucking and dating other men or anyone bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:34 PM
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Men are profiting because they sell the women for sex, they use the women for sex, and they use the fact that women sell their bodies as proof that women don't deserve respect etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:31 PM
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The point is that majority of women doing sex work have no choices. Women who do sex work are usually the most vulnerable, abused and disenfranchised in society. they are desperate and in despair usually. Many are sex trafficked, abused and made to do it. Those who "choose" to do it are doing it for survival. ​ Buying consent means coercion which equals rape. If she would not have sex with you except for the fact she is so desperate to survive or feed her children, then it is not consent given f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:30 PM
1

LOL. I am not a sex addict. Nor a pervert. I gave up on LTR because the reality is that my situation is not conducive to one. But why should I be celibate because I am not prepared to be in a LTR, and I think it is the responsible choice for my children and myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:35 AM
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I don't think sex validates me. Sex is sex. It's a need I fulfill. Haha. And my body count has nothing to do with me being in a relationship. I was with 2 men before last year. In the last year I have racked up my body count and that was after I decided I never want a relationship again. After 20 years and 2 dicks I decided men weren't worth the effort. I have kids that need attention and deserve me to place them above any man. I have myself who deserves to heal after a literal lifetime of abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:46 PM
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A lot of women do. I'm not unique..men know how to choose victims and can know who are vulnerable to manipulation. Again blaming women for male violence is not the answer nor proves anything but that men are incapable of understanding women .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:39 PM
0

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:11 PM
2

Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:56 PM
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Just report. Don't make a song and dance about it. But you're also breaking the rules. I hope mwo.en never fuck you because you're disgusting. The way you talk about women , again says everything about you, not them. Women don't deserve men like you, they deserve way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:45 PM
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No it's not a good descriptive word at all. It's a value judgement. where's your judgement of the male equivalent? You're the stupid one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:31 PM
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So most of my adult life I've been in relationships. Having 2 LTR in 21 years is good. Lol you're bad at maths and just being a judgemental person. Your logic is incredibly faulty. Also, I'm over here enjoying sex while a lot of male PPD Redditors are crying about high counts, attractiveness and not getting dates. I'm doing great in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:29 PM
1

The fact you want to call women sluts says more about your attitude about women and sex than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:26 PM
1

I'm not sure why you think you should be talking for the men who fuck me. I also use them as much as they use me. I don't care if they care about me. lol. I just want their dick and cum as much as they just want to use me as a human fleshlight. And I'm ok with that. I don't care whether a man appreciates me or not TBH. My worth is not based on what men think anymore. And that has been freeing, and TBH I think a lot of men find that more attractive than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:21 AM
0

I do know what it means. You can have a high count without being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:19 AM
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I love how you blame me and not the abuser who manipulated me and raped and assaulted me. But sure. I'm the issue. roll eyes. Doesn't matter what you say high count means nothing and you trying to insinuate anything about a woman with high count is wrong. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:18 AM
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I am divorced yes. Because I don't stay with men who punch me in front of the kids. Young and vulnerable and married the wrong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:20 AM
0

I am fat, have been for most of my life. Mainly due to health issues. I don't drink much at all and I don't want a relationship. I'm actually really happy for the first time in my life. Leaving abusers does that to a woman. And I personally love fucking the fit young men who know how to appreciate women like me who love sex and give amazing oral. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:18 AM
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No it doesn't. All you can tell from high count is that someone had sex with lots of people. Literally the only thing you can say for certain. I'm 41 have had 2 LTR. 1 marriage of over 15-16 years and 1 LTR of 4 years. I now have a high count of over 120 people. So no. High count does not reflect on someone's ability to have a relationship. I also will not discuss more about my situation but I will say I put it here as a perfect example of why making shit up about numbers is dumb, because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:05 AM
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Well my point was that you don't have to lie to insecure men and that any count will bother them. Sorry for not being clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:02 AM
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WHAT?! Also having a high body count doesn't mean she is promiscuous. You can be a faithful lover and still have high numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:46 AM
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Because men don't value women as humans but as chaste vessels for their cock as and bidding. Women do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:45 AM
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No one should be worried about this at all. Count literally just tells you that someone has had sex with a certain number of people. Nothing more or less. Extrapolations are imagined and immature. If a man is insecure ANY number will make the guy paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:44 AM
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HAHA I love this because anyone looks at me and thinks I wouldn't have a high count due to my position in life, how I look and stupid stereotypes. They would be mortified to find out that my count is over 100. I don't think it's anyone's business. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:43 AM
-1

No you can't. In fact research has been done and shows that people who think they are human lie detectors are notoriously WORSE at picking out liars than others with a more measured idea of their abilities to tell when people are lying. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:41 AM
1

So if you are single you will be likely to have less sex than attached men. So if you are long term attached you are less likely to have as much sex as newly attached men or men who are in and out of relationships. Men who are newly attached are more likely to be having the most sex. Based on the inferences of readin about sex lives of all men. The reality is that 2-3 times a year when single as a man might actually be good statistically. But I am not sure if there have been enough studies on it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:08 AM
2

I do think it is based upon outlook too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:06 AM
1

Wear a blindfold during sex
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 02:32 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:50 AM
2

I love you. let's get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:20 AM
1

Why is being political an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:20 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:28 AM
0

So it's the woman's fault for taking a man at his word and not realising he is manipulating her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:56 AM
1

Most of this forum is men whining about not getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:06 PM
2

Nope. And I blew it by being with my ex husband for my best years and being abused. So kind at peace with everything now rather than trying a relationship that I just don't need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:37 PM
1

Older women are more comfortable being alone and don't feel the need to justify anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:03 PM
2

Nope. I am single by choice. Could have been on a relationship, even married, but chose to be single because it was honestly better for me and the kids. Don't need the hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:01 PM
4

What a lot of men miss in these kind of discussions is that rating other people for attractiveness is already so subjective. If someone finds me attractive that has little bearing on if I find them attractive. In fact I have seen guys who are super fucking hot but then open their mouths and act like dicks who then make my pussy clamp shut despite how fucking physically hot they are. Females in animal species are always more selective than men. That's literally just the biological reality of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:44 AM
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So the solution is for guys to manipulate women into sex because women shouldn't get the right to consent willingly? I mean that's basically what you're saying. Newsflash guys, women have the right to reject you for whatever reason they want. Trying to stop women from rejecting you from lyi9ng to them in wrong. Dead wrong. And surely you want women to choose you without manipulation and lying? Surely you are good enough on your own merits to capture a woman's attention. If not, then you have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:19 AM
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Men have just started choking me during casual sex without prior discussions. A lot of men just treat you poorly because that's done in porn. Also bare pussy is a huge demand from guys. I have a very trimmed bush. But men view it as not ideal because of porn and try to demand that I shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:34 AM
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The way you talk about women is sickening. "Ran through". Gross As a 42 year old woman I am super selective. I've been married. I've since had LTR and was engaged. My priorities have changed and I have kids who take up my time anyway. If the well of men to fuck dries up I don't care. I am happy being alone. I'm not lonely. I have family and friends. I am busy. I prefer this to the mess that my previous relationships were.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:51 PM
5

Other than the Catholic church and Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:50 PM
0

I try all the people. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:30 PM
1

I do like cum quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:27 PM
2

I was explaining it from a female perspective. I'm fat. I know the reality of being fat. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:27 PM
1

The reality is that there is not a double standard when the disenfranchised rise up against those with power and control. Men have had power and control over women for millennia. It is not the same on a society level.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 01:59 PM
2

Didn't know that a few fat women speak for the many. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:57 PM
2

Fat slobby men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:56 PM
3

If you say you want to fuck or spend time with a fat chick or be in a relationship with her then you should be the same with her as you would anyone else. I guess I mean men who think that I am fat so shouldn't demand standards from them. A lot of men target us fat chicks because they wrongly assume we are push overs and will accept dud sex and dud effort. I'm all in whenever I am with someone. Whether it be for a date, for casual sex or in a relationship. I treat people how I would like to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:33 AM
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Never said that did I? I was speaking about men. I was asked for why men who are fat and slobby shouldn't expect super models. I answered. I'm a fat woman and don't expect a muscly hot cumlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:22 AM
2

Now you're taking the piss. TRP and this sub exist because of men constantly whining about women not wanting to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:45 AM
3

Well I'm not the one whining about men not wanting to date me. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:41 AM
2

No. I literally was asking him to clarify what he meant because I have never seen that being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:33 AM
3

Life isn't fair for everyone. Not sure why men think they are the ones most hard done by
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:16 AM
1

I prefer to ask to clarify than assume or make shit up. Helps to be precise and informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:04 AM
6

Well as long as thy don't complain for getting it...oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:03 AM
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No I actually don't know what they mean at all which is why I am asking them to clarify their claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:54 AM
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Why? For a lot of women it is because fat slobby guys are generally lazy. They add extra work to women's lives as a result. They also often have horrible hygiene which makes sex with them rather unpleasant. And they usually are terrible in bed and selfish to boot. Fat slobby guys tend to have depression or other mental health struggles that they are not working on and women do not have time to be his mother. He also tends to have a lot of self loathing and will be somewhat emotionally abusive ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:53 AM
2

Yes but people change over time. If you want to hate on people for changing their preferences over time then you just want a robot and not a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:48 AM
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Not really sure what your point is. Women don't want free passes on anything. There's a difference between having a preference and being a dick. I don't like a lot of things in men. I'm super picky. A lot of people would look at me and wonder how a fat woman like me can act this way (I get it all the time on here) but that's because looks are only a small piece of the puzzle. And quite frankly, there are people who are out there for everyone. I am not prepared to lower my standards and if that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:46 AM
0

I mean men aren't entitled to shit but I have never seen anyone tell men to be gleeful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:41 AM
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Men would probably get violent and compete for raping rights. Women would try to befriend them.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 08:39 AM
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Weight is changeable for a lot of people. But also, a lot of fat guys are the ones dissing on fat women. lol. Like you can't be a fat slobby guy and expect a supermodel or some kind of cute girl geek if you aren't bringing your self in your best light.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:27 AM
-1

When? When do people tell guys to be happy about women not preferring them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:26 AM
2

I mean this is about what people prioritise in different stages of life depending on what they want/need. This occurs in many areas. i.e. lots of people go out and get drunk at clubs when they are younger but don't do that as much as they age. People are allowed to mature, grow or change their priorities. It's not a reflection on you at all what someone else prefers or decides to compromise on as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:25 AM
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Nah I'm a fat woman who only want men to be with me for me. I don't think men not finding me attractive makes them a villain. What does make them a villain is when they degrade me for being fat and think it is perfectly reasonable to treat me as dirt. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:23 AM
2

No one is objective. You can try to be by basing decisions on logic and reasoning backed by science, but that only is a part of the puzzle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:16 AM
2

I mean everyone does that. Not sure what your issue is with that. We all make our own minds up about what we choose to adopt or not adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:11 AM
2

Everything is a construct. Some constructs are based on science, logic and reasoning. Others on fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:06 AM
2

Things that are useful to our lives versus bullshit made up to be destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:34 AM
0

Nope. I don't care at all. What I do care about is people like you blaming a woman for a man's choices and actions
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 03:28 AM
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Lol. I mean it was embarrassing for him to act like that, which is a choice he made. There were many other ways he could have handled it
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 02:58 AM
2

Better to try relationships and fail than to never try and be successful at casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 02:05 AM
0

What an absolutely dumb take. Jada did not make anything happen. Will and her can make their own decisions and it is hilarious that men never see that he could just walk away if he wanted to do so. HE is making decisions on his own and because he has made an unpopular decision you just assume it's because she made him. lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/22 02:04 AM
1

Yes exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:35 PM
2

Yeah I can't afford anything so go without. You kinda of get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:24 PM
1

Some of it is because women don't have the time to put into looks and femininity in the traditional sense anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:00 PM
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The reality is that women just are ok with doing it themselves because it is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:00 PM
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Ah so you're a man but have experience as an unattractive woman? Many women get treated like shit if they are less attractive. Men have really made up fantasies over women being put on some pedestal while they are treated like crap. lol. I was being facetious but a lot of men really do not try as much as they think but expect more than they might bring to the table.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 03:19 PM
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AFBB LOL. No. what it means is people need to be realistic and not hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:58 PM
1

No. Using charm and charisma can be viewed as manipulative. Game is about using what you have to your advantage, which includes manipulating others usually.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 02:57 PM
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It's nothing like slavery. And honestly, men who are lower should be grateful when women of equal or higher calibre choose them. They should stop whinging and hating women are for going for the best they can get, because men want that exact thing for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:39 PM
4

I agree. People on this sub do so I was dumbing it down for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:12 AM
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He made it up. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:11 AM
-1

LOL. It makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:10 AM
6

For those who don't get it. If you're not top tier you don't get top tier, man or woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:09 AM
4

Because it's all imagined and not a reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:07 AM
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You have literally just made this up with no actual data or proper information to support your ludicrous ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:07 AM
1

Being attractive through charm and charisma. It's somewhat manipulative but better than being an incel.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 07:59 AM
0

Sop embrace your ugliness and go after ugly women. Like why wouldn't you just stay in your lane.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 07:58 AM
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Their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:51 AM
1

Do we?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:28 PM
3

No one should expect cheating. Someone who is high value wouldn't be cheating anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:39 PM
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Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:52 PM
-1

Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:52 PM
1

The difference is that women don't care if men decide they don't want women and aren't going around getting angry and murdering men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:51 PM
2

What's delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:45 PM
1

That's still your choice. If you decide to not continue the effort you can't complain if you don't get any outcomes
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/22 12:18 PM
2

It has made me, as a woman, recognise that many men are struggling in the OLD scene. It also has made me realise that men are currently in great denial about the reasons and what they can do to improve their situations. Some men seem to be very heavily focused on victim status than working to fix their situation and taking proactive approaches. Overall, I do think that men are missing huge opportunities by failing to recognise that women do not have the utopia on dating that they perceive to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:14 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:37 AM
2

No. It's the reality of the current situation. You can claim whatever you want but that doesn't make it so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:37 AM
1

That's not revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:20 AM
2

There's a difference between generalising or making derogatory claims about a group
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:33 AM
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Promiscuity and high sex drive are being conflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:32 AM
2

That's true too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:06 AM
0

So I don't actually care about your situation. But what you have done is support the main theses of my argument. You acknowledge the aspects that are most crucial. If you wish to then assert that men are still treated unfairly because of the reproductive decisions they can make and because women have different ones then you're just wilfully ignoring the logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:45 PM
0

Beautifully articulated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:38 PM
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FARK ...
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 07:55 PM
1

That's a very different topic. I am queer and pansexual but still learning about myself. However I'd prefer not to discuss this further .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:41 PM
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To highlight the absurdity of everything. Nothing more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:35 PM
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Yes I had a point that it is prejudice and irrelevant. You disagree. You don't seem aware of the history of using gay promiscuity to persecute them and perpetuate bigotry. You believe it's irrelevant. I don't. I do think discussing the tend of homosexuals in the context of heterosexuals us irrelevant. You don't. Ultimately, we disagree. That's fine. I'm not going to worry about it. But comparing cats to dogs get you no where.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:34 PM
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Read what I said. My response was to someone with vague claims they were told by someone else or rather. They didn't specify the research or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:26 PM
1

Ummm I didn't say gay men were against promiscuous sex so you've gotten the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:24 PM
0

Actually I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:22 PM
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I'm a single parent and know very well the struggle we have to endure due to men who refuse to take responsibility for their own children. The fact you think that your mother would prefer to be a struggling single parent than to get child support to afford you better outcomes shows how you have simply no understanding if the female perspective. I didn't say your mother didn't provide for you. I believe she did everything in her power to provide you with what she could. She was lucky to have fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:22 PM
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My position is that saying dudes tell them something is not a good argument to make. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:15 PM
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No you aren't. You kept referring to others not yourself. Nice try though. And yeah gay men talk about it. But it isn't a common occurrence to be called out like this as much these days. Still completely irrelevant to heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:13 PM
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That's the reality in many areas of life though. You're not special.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 06:44 PM
1

Well yes I am always very popular at gang bangs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:43 PM
1

Accepting what?! Everything in life is contingent on your efforts. Although there can be outside forces at play. That doesn't negate the fact that you have to actively participate. If you choose to opt out that's on you. But you don't get to complain about it. You also need to own the fact you're making the decision out of fear and likely low self esteem. Not because it's what you truly would like.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 06:42 PM
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You know people in the community. well I'm actually LGBT and queer. It's a problem. You don't get to gatekeep my community and what we find problematic due to how it has been wielded against us in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:39 PM
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So you'd prefer to not try, whinge online and get nothing than to put the effort in to attracting women and possibly get something significant? The trick is to not focus on it as your sole endeavour but to supplement your life. Find happiness in other areas and put effort in.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 06:35 PM
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The point is that even if you have to put more effort in you will still need to try for it to be possible. If you give up or refuse to put effort in then that's on you.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 06:33 PM
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That's about your self esteem and based on hyper focusing on the minority not the majority. If you focus on the negative then you won't achieve the positive.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/22 06:31 PM
1

Yes. And people can often sense when people are fake even if they don't consciously recognise it. This then leads to further issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:28 PM
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It's the truth. If you don't want to pay attention to the truth that's your choice but you're literally advocating for single mothers. You want women lime your mother to burden everything so men can save some money, even though that is highly detrimental to the children and women involved. Perhaps consider how what you are advocating for actually plays out in reality in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:24 PM
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That's not what the person literally said. I also don't rely on one piece of research. I rely on evidence that is repeatable and reputable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:20 PM
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Women electing to get an abortion is a medical decision. It's not the same as a man not wanting to pay money for his child. We aren't talking about before kids are born. We have literally been talking all thread about men being able to not take financial responsibility for their biological outcomes in child support. The rules are straight forward. You take the risk when having sex that a child might be the outcome. If that is the car, you are responsible for that outcome. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:19 PM
1

I'm not in a relationship. I'm also not a gay man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:14 PM
-1

I would argue that you can't extrapolate data from one sunset and apply it to another. I think all gay men like gay sex. That doesn't mean they are promiscuous. That doesn't mean anything to do with male and female relationships. It is wholly and utterly irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:04 PM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:02 PM
2

I'm not arguing about who is a victim of what. I have been extremely clear about I am stating. The discussion surrounds male and female relationships. Men have had the power in that dynamic and often still do in many areas of society and parts of the world. The point clearly being made is that women are slowly being able to make decisions due to having less reliance on men and autonomy, which has historically not been the case. Hence wen are making decisions to be single or pickier about mates. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:01 PM
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No. When it comes to relationships, sex and freedoms to choose partners women are the ones who have been oppressed, not men. And there continue to be oppression around the world. To deny that means you are intentionally choosing to ignore the entire reality and history of women and men's relationships and how this impacts on the current situation. If you're serious about understanding why things are how they are then it is important to educate yourself about the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:55 PM
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I'd like to point out that the oppression of women is not a revisionist history as women are still routinely being oppressed and victimised around the world today. So you can spout whatever terminology that makes you feel better about whatever you need, but you aren't making any kind of meaningful nor factual point at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:46 PM
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Sigh. I'm calling it out because that specific stereotype has been used to denigrate and vilify gay men for decades. It has a history of being used against gay men for hateful reasons. I'm not calling it out just because it generalised about them in and of itself. And if making generalisations about women or men is hypocritical then literally everyone on this sub would be guilty of it. Like do you guys even hear yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:44 PM
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No one's demeaning men. And you've completely missed the point of what I have said, I believe deliberately so. All I'm literally saying is that what is happening now is a natural readjustment to the power dynamics between women and men because women are now no longer reliant on men and so can make more autonomous and advantages decisions about partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:40 PM
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Lol. You've proven a point I have been making on PPD for a long time now. Men Always try to claim victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:36 PM
10

So the history of trauma and oppression of women is irrelevant? If you want to know why men are not successful with women examine that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:19 PM
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Women at every class structure had little to no freedom over anything, let alone marriage. Trying to ignore all of the historical evidence for the systematic and lengthy oppression of women is extremely farcical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:17 PM
0

Good you agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:02 PM
1

Nope. I haven't distorted anything. And I bet you would have better outcomes if your mother was able to afford more for you, including a quality education. All research into single mother families show that there is extreme disadvantages and gaps for children bought up in them. On top of that you have assumed that single parents have people for support. Not only that you are describing and actually clearly demonstrating everything I have said with that statement. You believe anyone else but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:46 PM
1

I'm LGBT. Lol lesbians aren't gay men. And neither are relevant to discussions about heteronormative relationships which was the discussion. That's why bringing up gay promiscuity is wrong. It perpetuates a myth and negative stereotype that was used to deride and hate upon gay people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:40 PM
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Learn what a strawman is and debate in good faith. Women do not hold all the cards. That just patently false. You just don't want to accept that men have choices prior to sex and during sex that give them culpability. If you think it's unfair to point out that men can elect to chose not to have sex or to not cum inside a woman during sex, even if wearing a condom, for example, then that is your problem. Men do have a choice and just because don't like it doesn't make those choices less valid in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:38 PM
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I'm not "going off" I'm responding to a topic. Is this not a debate sub? And the topic was about men being frustrated a d hypocritical because if they were in the position they would do what they perceive women to be doing. In reality, men have had all the power until recently. Maybe focus on discussing the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:29 PM
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Yes because financial abandonment is exactly what you are advocating for. Look up what a strawman argument is to educate yourself so that you don't come across as foolish if you want to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:27 PM
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I think you need to start getting your information from reputable sources rather than your ex fiancee or some dudes and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:26 PM
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I'm LGBT. I'm not using information I got from someone else about a group of people to make comments about them. I take issue with gay people being brought up to support an argument about heterosexual relationships when that is literally irrelevant and perpetuates a myth that was used to denigrate and perpetrate homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:24 PM
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Nowhere is bad faith or dishonesty. What are you on about? It's very on for people to attack the person rather than to debate the topic because they literally have nothing they can argue against. This is that kind of reply. If all you can resort to is telling me to fuck off, then you've lost. And if you're not prepared to fight for what you believe in don't complain if you continue to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:20 PM
1

This comment is not about gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:20 PM
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What revenge fantasy? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:18 PM
1

Yes it is. How is the perception that gay men are promiscuous relevant to heterosexual relationships where men feel hard done by for not getting sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:17 PM
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It's been used against gay men for many years to demomise them. And it also is completely irrelevant to heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:38 PM
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When you perpetuate the myth that gay men are promiscuous you are actually tapping into homophobic rhetoric that has been used to create bigotry and hate against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:36 PM
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That's just homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:22 PM
-5

Because some gay men are like that but some are not. It's a negative stereotype often used to demean gay men. There are plenty of men who sleep around who are straight. There's no value or reason you are saying it. Some men are promiscuous. Them being gay is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:21 PM
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The reality is that men have had power over partnering with women until recent years. Women still often get forced into relationships and marriages they do not women throughout history has had little option or input into the choices of men and sex. Now that women are being given this kind of autonomy men are pissed they can no longer control the narrative or what women do. And women have been universally deciding to desert men in droves. So now men are losing their minds over it. It's not that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:16 PM
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He's regurgitating homophobic beliefs that all gay men are promiscuous fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:11 PM
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Read online, oh Christ. That's exactly what's wrong with the world because everything you read online is soooo accurate and all true right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:10 PM
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Ummmm... Aren't we past this kind of bigotry yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:10 PM
1

Why should men get to shirk their responsibility for a conception occuring? I completely understand what men are saying but it is wrong. It is not reasonable. it's the men who are hyper focused and expecting to relinquish themselves from the consequences of their actions.. yes women can negate pregnancy too. But once a pregnancy occur then the two people who contributed to it have to deal with that. And as women are the ones with the baby inside of them, who will have to bear the physical and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:55 PM
0

Dude take a chill pill. I didn't edit anything other than one misspelled word which didn't actually affect the sentence anyway lol Women always are fiscally responsible for their children and majority have care and raise them, even when with partners. A majority of raising children is left to women. A majority of single parents are women. Women already take on and do the work. Men don't. The system helps anyone who parents their children. Reality is that most men do not want the responsibility f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:15 PM
0

Or he could just pay for it. Both those options have far more risks for the woman than a man paying for a child he is responsible for creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:06 PM
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You would disagree because you clearly hate when. All the cards? You're taking about a living being in such flippant ways. Women do NOT hold all the cards but just because you don't like the choices men have you won't accept that. Not to mention the fact that women are choosing NOT to have sex with men in increasing numbers which is already highly decried about in this sub. Can't have it both ways. If you guys want sex then take responsibility for the outcomes of that. You're right it does take …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:04 PM
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They actually don't, even in the US. An abortion is a medical procedure with th risks and consequences. I have reiterated it here and nauseum but men seem to want to paint it as an easy and consequence free option. It's not, especially as many men are dictating to women if they can even access it. There's a lot of things stopping adoption and abortion or ditching the kid. There's more than social scrutiny. I mean a child is a han being and dumping a kid is clearly psychotic and inhumane. You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:01 PM
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Women get raped all the time which is men making a woman fuck them. And yes it is "unfair" if you want to frame men as victims rather than as adults with choices, just because you don't like them doesn't mean they don't exist. Like part of the problem I see is that men expect a free pass for the consequences of their actions while women are burdened with them. The ide that an abortion is a simple or consequence free decision is not accurate and diminishes the very real dilemma that is only place…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:57 PM
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Women do take responsibility. If you think women don't when they are raising children alone all the time while men walk away..or deal with the physical outcome of abortion/pregnancy/birth then you're the one being disingenuous. P.s. you don't get to tell me how to interact on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:51 PM
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Doubt it. Men would walk away without any consequences for their actions. They don't care. At least holding men to account for the biological outcome of sex means that they may be more responsible for their reproductive choices. If a man can go around fucking women recklessly and making many children without any consideration for the child's needs then they won't be considerate. Also, child support is not about the man or woman involved. It's about the child. Again, a man makes the choices befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:49 PM
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I want abortions for all.i also want men to take responsibility for their biological outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:38 AM
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But it can't be fair in the sense you want because abortions have medical, financial, psychological and spiritual consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:38 AM
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It's not the same argument. Women should not be forced to do anything as there are medical choices they can make. Men do not have control over women and their bodies. But they do have the ability to not ejaculate inside of a woman. That is where he can prevent pregnancy. Once pregnant a woman can utilise medical interventions if she so wishes. Just because men don't control women's bodies doesn't mean it is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:24 AM
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No once a child is born they basically have very low chances to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:22 AM
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Why? To punish women? The fact is that women can have abortions. Men and women have the ability to try and prevent pregnancy with medical interventions. Why are you so set in situating women ina disadvantage of not utilising medical interventions because men don't have the same choice at that particular point in time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:21 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:19 AM
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Because the kid exists whether he wants it or not. If you engage in sex where the primary function is to procreate then you are being absurd and illogical to suggest that men should not be held account for the biological outcome of choosing to engage in sexual activity. Babies and STDs are the associated consequences of sexual activity. You don't actually have a right to have sex. Many people can and do live without it. If you choose as an adult to initiate the action knowing the potential risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:25 AM
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No it couldn't. Men can't have it all. The reality is that sex is literally in existence for procreation. Sexual pleasure is a side benefit from a biological standpoint. So if men want to have sex for sexual pleasure they are assuming the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:22 AM
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You seem to remove the real physical and moral implications that abortions have for women too. It's not a "simple" and problem free decision, even though men like to frame it that way when it suits them. It's ironic that the full burden of pregnancy and possible abortion or childbearing falls on the women yet men still want to abscond from their role in totality. Men already are able to walk away from children with little consequences whereas women face the reality of being single parents and al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:21 AM
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Autocorrect dude. Be human
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:18 AM
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Women shouldn't be punished for biological differences. The reality is that men can choose not to have sex if they feel strongly about it. Men expect women to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:35 AM
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Most father's don't want the rights to see their kids more or have more responsibility with children when in separate households. Most fathers who do have it. These arguments over how unfair it is on men are disingenuous because if men want to be a part of their children's lives they can be. Most choose not to be. Women still have that burden to a higher regard and men.should be held to account at least financially, because you are right in saying you can't force anyone to be a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:34 AM
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You do have agency by not fucking women unless you are prepared to take responsibility for the outcomes of sex, including STDs and pregnancy. You can't have sex but say it is unfair on men to be held to account for the literal consequences of their actions. Men are not victims. Men are not being treated unfairly. If men want rights to exercise their desire to not have children then they need to abstain or take preventative measures. Even then they need to acknowledge and accept that no measure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:31 AM
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If a child is conceived it is equally the responsibility of the male and female who made it. A man has more of an ability to choose to walk away from being a parent than a woman does. If man wants to walk away from parenting a child then he sure should be held responsible for financially supporting a child that he is 50% responsible in making.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:28 AM
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Men don't lose rights by paying child support. Men are being held fiscally responsible for the product or consequence of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:24 AM
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You are saying that women have children because they want child support. Please back that up with some sort of evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:23 AM
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Why should a man not be held to his fiscal responsibility for a child that he has biological responsibility for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:22 AM
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To burden women with the total fiscal responsibility of children that a male and female produce would be fundamentally unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:21 AM
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The issue is that what most men think are "average guys" are actually not. They are sub par for the women nowadays. Men are no longer able to put so little effort in and get the results men have gotten in the past as women no longer rely on them nor need them. Men need to start swallowing the bitter pill and start making changes or they will literally only succeed in widening the gap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:45 AM
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It is
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/22 11:41 AM
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You're making stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:35 AM
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That is not what we were discussing. However, I am willing to say that it goes both ways.em should also be worried about what women need. On. Other threads I have discussed that if men want more sex from their partners they should be taking more of the load in relationships to make it more equal. No longer can men claim to be doing most of financial support of the family in an attempt to get out of the other important elements of housework and childcaring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:14 AM
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No. They know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:18 AM
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Yeah Unrealistic standards like don't be an uggo, uneducated, unhygienic, lazy slob. That's really really unrealistic but not because of women.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/22 11:56 PM
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Actually as the subject of what men put value on women get to have their opinion.of course it is our business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:31 PM
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What is the reason that you think female promiscuity is frowned upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:25 PM
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Why shouldn't people be shamed for having preferences that are based in troubling or just plain wrong ideology? If they are spreading that ideology around and it is harmful? I'll definitely shame anyone who wants to harm others but dress it up as something innocent, like a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:24 PM
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Women are not dumb. They know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:21 PM
2

Nah there is a societal issue with male violence, males deserting their children and absent father's even if they are technically in their kids lives. So until men do better nothing will change.wen aren't causing it. Men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:55 AM
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It's the men's fault because the women are used to arseholes because that's all they have experienced so they naturally gravitate towards what they think is normal. It is basically socially constructed in women to desire or prefer "bad men" because their personal experiences teach them that is the standard of men. Considering the high numbers of men abusing others or being violent women don't get many chances to see a healthy male role model. Unfortunately,the good men get lost to most women bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:50 AM
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That's ok. I do that sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:07 AM
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What is your basis for that?
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 08:06 AM
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What absurdist nonsense is this? Women are logical.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 06:02 AM
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I'm not sure if you are referring to me here. My point is that men should improve themselves by becoming more active and giving women the ability to have time to have sex with them. By allowing the status quo to remain in the domestic and child rearing sphere, but also expecting women to work then want sex more often, men are being unreasonable and cockblocking themselves. I agree that sex shouldn't be the focus but that is what thao thread is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:26 AM
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That's not an explanation. I suspect it's because of things that are not logical and you are not able to properly support or you would state what it is. Hating an entire group of people shows limited intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:45 AM
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And he's wrong. That's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:11 PM
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Applaud this. Men don't understand that men do so little domestically that if they actually applied themselves there they would get all the pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:10 PM
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Why do you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:05 PM
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Most women are happy with someone who takes care of themselves and will share the load. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:04 PM
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On the animal kingdom the males of species have to be more brightly coloured and do mating dances and rituals to win the female's attention over others. This isn't new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:03 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:51 PM
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The problem is that women are still the main housework and child rearers. They don't have the emotional capacity to deal with daily sex on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:46 PM
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Sexual history can be anything and mean anything. Having a higher than average sexual partners may be significant, or not. Completely depends on the circumstances and reasons. It can be a sign of someone with potential issues or can mean nothing. But it isn't an immediate red flag or anything to be highly concerned about. Not having sex or having a gf by 30 is a sign of stunted development. It's not normal and suggest something is going on with that person. So it definitely matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:24 PM
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Men blame women for everything on this sub. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:19 PM
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Yes. Many men refuse to go to therapy as it is seen as being weak. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:29 PM
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What an illogical retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:04 PM
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How is it off topic? You asked, I answered. Maybe learn to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:51 PM
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Why is this depressing? This should actually boost people who aren't that attractive up more because they will realise that women make decisions about relationships and men on things that are far more "fair" and in their favour, such as personality, grooming, finances, interests etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:46 PM
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I don't think it is anything women can do. Men need to learn to do things for themselves and stop blaming women for their problems. Men need to accept that things are changing and that women having more autonomy, financial freedom, independence and sexual preferences is here to stay. Men need to adapt. What society on a whole needs to do is to actually have the hard conversations about why men are so predisposed to anger and violence. Why men are the overwhelming perpetrators in violent crimes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:32 PM
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Age does matter as it is an indicator of potential abuse/manipulation between the parties. If age doesn't matter than why don't men start fucking women heir age or dating the older women? Most men prefer women who are in their late teens or up to mid 20s. The only time men seem to want women who are older is if they are young and want an experienced woman. So stop pretending that age doesn't matter. It does. Of course it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:23 AM
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All the misinformation and sexism is disheartening to see. Women do game about as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:38 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:07 PM
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It's not an automatic chance. There are a lot of things that impact a woman when they get pregnant and one of them might be this choice. Many women don't have access to safe, legal or low cost abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:16 AM
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As with all arguments like this it boils down to this: Men chose to take on the risk of pregnancy by having sex. As does the woman. Once a woman is pregnant she is the one whose body is affected and needs to make that decision. Men know that. therefore, a man's choice rests with his decision of having sex. Just the reality. Don't have sex, or get a vasectomy and use as much Birth Control as possible. But if you are having sex, as a man, there is always a risk of pregnancy and the only way to pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:09 AM
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Or a man could have chosen to not have sex if he didn't want to take on the risk of an unwanted pregnancy which is a known consequence of his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:07 AM
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There has not been any proof that hooking up leads t single motherhood. At all. Most women who become single parents are as a result of relationship breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:05 AM
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So many things wrong with your comment. Firstly, women actually do not have the luxury of walking away from their kids like men. If they do, they ae socially stigmatised and often the men are not willing to look after the child. But men are able to abandon children all the time and face little repercussion for doing so. Secondly, single parents occur for many reasons, and one of the MAIN reasons is due to relationship breakdowns. MOST single mothers are not that because they choose to raise a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:58 AM
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This makes me think about this past weekend. My daughter was invited to a birthday party. I am poor. I literally do not get enough money per year to cover basic costs of living. My ex earns over 100k. I asked my ex to help my daughter buy a present to give to her friend. I'm talking like no more than $10-$20. He spent that whole day bitching about it and asking my daughter why he should pay for it and I can't. He has always seen child support as giving me money, and even if it is clearly for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:54 AM
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Well if listening to make opinions was such a useful and successful strategy, there wouldn't be TRP at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:56 AM
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I think you're doing yourself a disservice by ruling out human flesh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:55 AM
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But that's focusing on a very narrow aspect of abuse. Usually by the time a man is physically violent they have emotionally manipulated, financially controlled, sexually coerced their partner. Simply seeing it as people not leaving once they are hit is missing all the other abuse that occurs to make that extremely difficult. Mind you, I am a woman who left my partner the first time he punched me. But there was all the other kinda of abuse present already. I was completely broken on to his contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:40 PM
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The myth of abuse only occuring in certain classes or situations is being perpetuated by you. It prevents women from seeking help. There is plenty of evidence that abuse occurs as commonly in other situations than you describe. Abuse is non-discriminatory
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:10 PM
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False. You don't know women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:27 PM
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You would be seeing the more extreme end of abuse. There are many other situations of abuse that occur that do not end up in the field or area of social services or Legal counselling. Women who quietly leave their abusive partners and don't report the abuse and try to mend on their own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:26 PM
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Where are you getting your "information"? Responses like these are so common here. Long post about women, by a man who doesn't actually seem to have any idea about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:24 PM
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You get it. I was that woman who married the man who I first had sex with. There were small signs in hindsight, but nothing that would indicate it would result in the sexual and physical abuse that occurred 10-15 years later. I was isolated, trapped, financially dependant and the only protector for my three children. Most people who find out my ex was abusive, who have met him, are utterly shocked about what he has done to me and the kids. I nearly always am met with the, "he doesn't seem the ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:21 PM
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If you think America, England and other more developed countries don't have significant and systemic issues with abuse, you'd be wrong. More than 31 percent of women in the United States have been physically abused by an intimate partner at some point in their lives, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:18 PM
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This post is here all the time and boring. Men are not told to stick to their league. Women actually usually tell men that if they want better quality to make themselves better quality. Men then complain about the fact they can't change their height and just bitch and moan. Men are lazy. Up until recent history men have been able to land women because women needed them. Now that women don't need men they are choosing to go for the best or be alone. If you as a man want to change that you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:03 PM
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Spike I. The divorce rate was because people could finally actually get divorced and it not be treated as a stain on them. Before that, women were trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:00 PM
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You a ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:54 PM
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No. But there's less biased /scientific then there's OP with his stories. I know what is trustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:11 AM
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Funny isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:45 AM
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Again, people discussing an issue with you, and disagreeing, isn't them being triggered. It seems you are the triggered one because you feel like you have to call women whores and justify yourself by saying how great your sex life is. I mean...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:00 AM
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They aren't whores. They are women. The. Fact you wish to wheedle them down to that one attribute says so much about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:59 AM
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No. Science does not back you up. And notice how you didn't specify in your OP about men. No. You focus on women. There's a lot more nuance than you are regurgitating with hate here. For example, a woman may have had a lot of sex pre marriage and leave the marriage for totally unrelated reasons. So saying just because a woman had lots of sex and the marriage didn't work out that must be the cause is false logic. You've made a lot of false equivalencies in your arguments. And the reality is the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:58 AM
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Why call me kettle. Why act like women have any role in men raping them? That is not empathy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:54 AM
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I've made no assumptions. So discussing an issue and disagreeing is being triggered now is it?! Men are so fragile they can't even support their own shitty opinions without resorting to sexist insults. You wouldn't do that if you knew what you were saying could be argued about in a rational way. But you can't. And when I or others point it out you devolve into insults. Pretty standard MO of men who also can't find women to date them. I wonder if that could be indicative of something? Spoiler: it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:53 AM
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That proves nothing. Some women enjoyed sex with someone other than their husband. Who cares?! Plenty of men do similar things too. But you're not in here up in arms about that. Why? Because you call women whores for having more sex but men get held to a different standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:49 AM
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Ah so now we get to the truth. You view women who have more sex as whores. Tell us again why your opinion should matter when you have such an u healthy view on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:46 AM
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See how you like to object orient a woman rather than engage in a mature conversation. Proof that you don't have a good mindaet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:45 AM
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It's not true. You don't have experience. You're not a woman. You claim stuff about women around you but you actually don't know the details in any way to support your "evidence". You're not an unbiased source as you clearly have trouble with how you deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:44 AM
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See how you devolve to calling names rather than the issue. I mean, your personality is probably the issue, as is what a lot of women explain to men who like to pretend they are charming angels but can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:42 AM
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The one thing I love about this sub is how much it proves that men do not know anything about women and love making stuff up to blame them and avoid responsibility. If you're bad in bed that's on you. Get skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:40 AM
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Sounds like you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:38 AM
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You're kinda making stuff up here. It's not common. There's nothing to support your claim it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:37 AM
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How do you know that though? And how do you know that sex is the reason the wen.are.feeling that way? The first thing adults usually learn is that you can NEVER know with any certainty what is going on behind closed doors in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:36 AM
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You said a man's performance depends on him getting sex. If women aren't involved in then process them who is? So the inference is there that women are necessary in a man having better performance at work. You can't remove the fact that is the implication of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:19 AM
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Lol yes you can say whatever you want and others can respond by pointing out that there's no factual basis for it. When you make claims based on scientific principles you should know what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:13 AM
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Women are not responsible for men raping them. But it kinda sounds like you have thought about raping women. I think you need to seek therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:40 PM
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Ok so you can have an opinion but stating things that are unscientific as fact makes you look dumb. Women are not biologically wires to never be happy. There is absolutely no science to back your statement up, therefore it is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:39 PM
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What you need is therapy not euthanasia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:36 PM
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I'm ok with being the ground hotdog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:32 PM
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So this is essentially going to blame women if a man doesn't have good work performance?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:30 PM
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Women get why porn exists. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:25 PM
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The world was different without easy to access porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:25 PM
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It's also damaging them. They think a lot of things depicted in porn is how sex should be and it is making a lot of the younger guys be bad at sex. Also it means guys are turning lazier when it comes to attaining sexual gratification so they basically just put porn on rather than go out and try to hook up with real women. It has meant that they don't put the same effort in and still expect the same result
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:24 PM
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I was a "virgin" before my ex husband and definitely had those thoughts. It wasn't why we ended but I do think it was a symptom of the dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:46 AM
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Men use every excuse in the book to not take any responsibility for their situation. Society and women are to blame. Not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:30 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:44 PM
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So another issue that is not acknowledged by any piller is that women often grow up in abusive households or with shit dads. So a lot of time women end up with "bad guys" because that's what they are familiar with and think is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:56 AM
1

Exactly. It's a sickness to think wen are responsible for everything to do with .en.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:48 AM
0

So I can't use men for sex because I'm a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:38 AM
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This is the kind of spurious argument people make all the time and it falls flat when you take marriage out of the equation. If he wasn't married and worked the job he would have to do everything himself. It doesn't take into account what the other person is doing. It assumes that women don't add value to a relationship or marriage that is equivalent. It places working like a dog on a pedestal when that is an actual choice they made. That choice doesn't mean they get to check out on other aspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:03 AM
2

Because working in a coal mine is not possible when you are the childcarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:53 AM
1

Well hook up with a person who is great at sex is amazing. But the issue is that we are social anal and desire a level of security and intimacy. You get lonely at times. The trick is to find other things that fill that area of your life and not rely o. A man to do it, as a woman. I don't need men but sometimes I get lonely and want companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:58 AM
1

Judge away. I care not. You're contributing nothing to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:21 AM
1

I honestly have never seen a person I would class as hideous. And I do think that much more matters than looks. I prefer young men and hot bods but I've fucked some random uggos too when super horny. Perhaps I'm a man?!
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 12:20 AM
1

Using men for sex isn't fixing them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:18 AM
1

I have considered working in a min actually. But I'm Primary career to kids. Guys who do that aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:17 AM
1

Nah that's what cats are for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:16 AM
1

I prefer hot men so I do put them on a pedestal over other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:51 PM
1

Well you need a different term. That's not putting someone on a pedestal. That's letting someone walk over you because you have low self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:49 PM
1

Because they're great to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:39 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:34 PM
0

That was in response to another thing you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:30 PM
0

Because that's how this thing called Reddit works...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:27 PM
0

Lol no men don't get out on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:24 PM
4

No. I don't. Lol 🤣😆 I use men for sex. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 PM
3

Lol no. I'm a woman who knows what she likes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:16 PM
3

Yes but they're so sexy doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 PM
-4

Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:07 PM
1

Nah they get great sex with hot guys and not ugly degenerate men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:05 PM
21

Women would be better off single and using men for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:03 PM
26

So true. Because it should not be that way. Men should learn to share the load
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:02 PM
4

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:59 PM
0

I would argue there aren't that many truly hideous people and it is a mark on men, not women, that they will stick their dick in anything
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 02:07 AM
0

Probably because we aren't whining about not getting laid and being violent towards men as a result
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 11:09 PM
3

Hey us old fat ugly women deserve sex too
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 03:50 PM
3

I'd sleep with 15 percentage of men in my age range. Co sider relationship with 1 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:09 PM
3

Generally they are when it comes to sex and often they are virgins due to repression through religion or other controlling factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:01 AM
11

Exactly, they want women who are naive and don't know different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:20 AM
2

Honestly, I'll get flack for this, but I'm not as careful as I should be. I like it. I'm living my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:03 PM
1

A little. Lol. I never had a slut phase. I married the first guy I fucked and literally only had 2 dicks by consent until last year. Then a switch flicked and I got it on. Probably close to 120 now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:58 PM
6

As an older woman, 41, this is the way. I'm smashing all the hot young things. I don't want a relationship. Young guys appreciate my directness and willingness to do things younger girls don't. I give great BJs. It's the life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:31 PM
5

I literally was told in Thai sub earlier today that it's my fault o was abused by my ex husband. They were trying to get me.to take responsibility for choosing and abusive man. Someone like that would most certainly place blame on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:37 PM
1

Still wrong
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:04 AM
2

You don't know what I think or feel. You've assumed what I think and feel. It is victim blaming. Plain and simple. You're being a jerk. I don't need to take your advice because you don't know me or my situation to be able to.goce advice, yet you're arrogant enough to assume that you can give a stranger meaningful advice based on them disclosing that getting married young and having children was not a good decision. So for some reason you believe you know everything and can give advice. No. Lol O…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:04 AM
2

You're victim blaming and an arsehole. Abusive men know exactly how to manipulate someone who is young and vulnerable into anything. How about he not be abusive. I didn't put up with the behaviour. I was trapped. I had no family support. I was isolated and financially dependent. Do some research on DV before being a dick to someone sharing their experience. But I'm sure you get a perverse thrill out of being mean to a Woman who has experienced abuse and blaming her for it.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:04 AM
0

I mean not everything is worth arguing when it's patently fucking stupid
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:47 AM
0

Not facts man.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:41 AM
1

It's simply that women choose what they know. But they aren't white supremacism
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:41 AM
2

Well that's why women should wait to get married so they can be wise enough to do it themselves. Also I'm not responsible for my ex being an abusive arsehole. The idea to pick better is bullshit because he had everyone fooled
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:40 AM
1

Yes. But regardless of the man it meant I gave up all career prospects I had and I haven't been employed since.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:18 AM
-1

It's a very wrong opinion
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:18 AM
0

Nope
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:16 AM
1

Fucking hell. So women are to blame for men being violent what a fucking stupid take.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:14 AM
0

As a woman who did that it was the worse decision of my life. Do not recommend
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:13 AM
-2

If you're not a good person you don't deserve a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:19 AM
1

Thank you for calling me consistent..that is the best compliment I've received today
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:18 AM
0

Yeah I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:16 AM
-3

If someone is not dating women over a certain age and is very specific about who they are, it is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:20 AM
1

It's pretty clear he treats these women as objects and property he owns rather than human beings. I'm sure he's nice about it or we would have heard more, but it is definitely not a very good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:07 AM
1

I mean there's slutty and then there's another whole category. Just plain decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:07 AM
3

Its more a practical to have women stay home. People don't want men and women to die in war because when can breed to replenish the population and if they are busy off being killed then that will have a huge detrimental effect on population. Also, whether people want to acknowledge it or not, women are the ones doing a majority of child rearing and housework, so they are the ones best suited to staying home and doing the domestic and childcaring duties during war. Now, that's completely fucked u…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/22 12:49 AM
1

Honestly, as long as my child is happy I do not think about how their sex and dating life. If they have an issue they can talk to me. If you are ok with it, then they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:37 AM
1

So here's the thing . A lot of women grow up in abusive houses. This often means that a lot of women don't know what a non-abusive man looks like, and non-abusive men will actually seem "wrong" to her as a result. Him being "too nice" seems suspicious to her or is foreign and uncomfortable. So subconsciously she ends up with abusive.men because that's what she knows and seems normal to her. None of this is deliberately done on her part but often the result of trauma. Also, many abusive men are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:10 AM
1

Yes I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:20 PM
1

Wrong. As I said, women in relationships usually do the bulk of housework and childrearing. The research overwhelmingly supports this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:24 PM
2

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:38 PM
2

Most people are not. That is categorically still overwhelming a task women do in relationships. Much research has been done to support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:28 PM
2

Because they do a majority of the housework, childrearing and also work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:47 PM
7

Literally look at history. Fucking Brutus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:20 PM
5

Lol you're sexism.bit you in the butt. That's all that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:17 PM
10

Not because when are lazy or any of that BS but because women are usually the ones responsible for childrearing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:15 PM
2

Ah so yet again men are the problem. Funny that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:38 PM
1

I've just had bad relationships so casual sex definitely wins here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:37 PM
1

Well there's still time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:36 PM
1

Well I mean, I would know. lol You wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:24 AM
6

The problem with your post is identifying that TRP is misogynistic but then making farcical leaps to blame it all on women. If men are that way it is on them, not women. On the paternity front, most women are hurt because most women have the biological children of their partners. The cases of DELIBERATE paternity fraud is small. Feminism isn't sexist. It's about equality and equity. About men and women having equal power and rights. It means men and women both matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:10 AM
1

Well there was that research that recently came out that showed women who don't want relationships is because they have higher standards and I believe it. A lot of women aren't in those categories you've spelled out. But that's possibly why we've been talking at crossed purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:55 AM
1

Yes but maybe we are at crossed wires. I am saying women who choose not to date and you are. But my point stands that FDS are not same as women who choose not to date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:48 AM
1

Yes. But again, FEMCELS is not a term for women who choose not to date. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:37 AM
1

No they aren't. I mean literally women who choose not to date and go about life literally don't complain about it. lol. Because it is a choice. Only women who would complain are those who aren't choosing it. Even then a majority of those women aren't being hateful about it. FDS is about women who WANT to date so they are not the same as women who don't want to date. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:54 AM
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It's not splitting hairs as one group, incels, tend to be toxic and women hating because they believe they are owed shit by women. Where's women not that bothered about dating and choosing to be single (a majority of whom are not FDS related) are ok with it and just get on with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:56 AM
1

Yes exactly. And I think it means men know that women are freely choosing them when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:50 AM
1

No it's not because I'm fat. It has more to do with me having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:38 PM
1

It's not lies when I myself have been rape and abused by multiple men in my Lifetime. Most women i know has been as well at some point. The stats support this. My experience support this. But go ahead and call it lies when it literally lived experience and facts a
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:06 PM
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Women seem happy with that. Men need to decide what they do. It's not that men have ever actually done the work necessary because they haven't been as required to do it as now. Yet they seem.to think when owe them and must put the effort in. Nope. That's literally men being defeatist and not taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:44 PM
1

All of your response is just you making shit up. There are plenty of stats to show women are being routinely targeted by men in violence. Women are currently under attack from the lawmakers and not being allowed to make sexual health and body decisions. When are being treated as less in everyway, even how you talk about when shows the way they are absolutely disregarded and disrespected. Women aren't claiming victim for the heck of it. They are victims, mainly by men or the institutions that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:42 PM
2

Never said it didn't take effort for men. In fact, it needs more effort from them. That's the issue Many aren't prepared to do the work that is NOW necessary as women don't need men anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:22 PM
1

Yeah and women face that too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:32 PM
1

No you don't and not for the inherent risks we face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:07 PM
2

Nah the issue is the focus is on the women and not on themselves. You blame the female psyche rather than realise that the world was poorly skewed previously and women are still figuring out how to exist in a different reality too. Why is it that men are the ones being given latitude for that and not women? And if you think women actually have an advantage then you need to think a bit more about the female experience. Women are routinely being legislated against, violated and abused by men and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:14 AM
1

I've never witnessed this and highly doubt it exits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:13 AM
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"female nature" what tosh. Women having standards doesn't make them anywhere near being like an incel or that they want HVM. It means that they don't have to settle for less. Most of what women want is basic stuff that all men should do and not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:31 AM
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Women have to be attractive too. You act like men don't care about looks but that just isn't true. A lot of women get surgery and spend a lot of money on makeup/clothes etc to be better looking for men. It's dumb but how it is. If men think they have it harder than women because they aren't 6 foot, they need to reevaluate their victimhood. All genders experience the feelings of inadequacies when it comes to appearance. The reality is men are just now beginning to understand the work that it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:29 AM
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It does hinder my ability to date but the difference between me and men is I don't fucking kill people over it or whine. I just get on with it. And I think being clean, mentally well and employed has ALWAYS been bare minimum requirements for men for women. What has skewed? That women no longer have to rely on a man so can feel freer to choose whether they entangle themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:38 AM
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Oh and I notice that you just gloss over the avoid men who might harm us as if it is nothing. We have to vet men because dating or sleeping with men comes with inherent risk to our personal safety. Men just do not face that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:16 AM
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Nah they aren't rules. Having bad hygiene. Like being clean isn't a real. It's a normal standard of human decency. Consent is a law, and I'm not sure why that would even be considered arguable. You've made up rules in your mind why? Because I don't think being clean or not having sex with underage people is a negative but you frame it as such
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:13 AM
1

You obviously don't know most men. You obviously don't see the profiles on OLD where men are living in dirty houses and look dishevelled in photos and when you meet a guy and he is not very well presented and unclean. You don't know that because you don't date guys. I do. Many other women do. When women are saying men have to lift their standards in cleanliness and hygiene it's because it's true. You're the one who has his head in the sand. Most men who are incel types are not the kind of men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:19 AM
2

What are the rules? Because i am 41 years old, been married, in the market and have never been made aware of these rules (other than age of consent laws, which should be a no brainer).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:15 AM
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It takes effort to find a guy to have a relationship with. Yes it does. Otherwise there wouldn't be a trove of women who have decided it's far easier to just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:14 AM
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Neither do women. The idea it happens too all women everywhere is ridiculous and untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:13 AM
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I don't wear makeup so no. Lol . yeah you need to understand that a lot of men do not put in minimum effort, i.e. showering, grooming, deodorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:48 AM
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Yes I agree with you entirely. Men are hypocrites. They don't put the effort in but expect the rewards. They also chastise women for wanting better than average men when the men aren't doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:47 AM
6

Well aren't incela men who are "involuntary celibate". I think choosing to be single is different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:45 AM
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I don't think femcels is the correct term for women choosing not to be with men because it is easier for them to be alone than settle with a subpar dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:21 AM
2

Not really. I'm still considered on paper and in appearance as below average and low value. I personally just don't buy into it and have a good personality because I don't allow my value or worth be dictated to me by others. So attitude definitely plays a part. I also would argue there are no rules and the fact you and others think there are is a part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:09 AM
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You get it. How many of these men put in actual effort. This is what a lot of men on this sub miss. That it all takes effort. And before anyone jumps in and argues it takes no effort for women to bang guys, wrong. We have to shave/present ourselves. We have to weed out all the guys to the good ones who won't try and rape us or harm us. We have a lot of different work to do but we do it, and pretty much without bitching. Or we have just given up and decided to be happy on our own. UNLIKE the men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:00 AM
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Women can bang chad. I thought that was the point? Men her seem to think all women can get fucked by chad and that's why the other men can't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:57 AM
1

I don't why you think it's ok to justy be bigot6ed against people with disabilities, but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:53 AM
-2

Yes. Men have become complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:49 AM
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I've often thought about offering to have sex with guys who don't get it and struggling. But then I thought it would be a cruel thing to do. They would get a taste of what they want but not be able to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:07 AM
2

I've got a great personality so being fat has never been an issue for me in finding men to date. Unfortunately, those men generally aren't what I like but that doesn't mean I should lower my standards. Anyway my point is that looks play a role but having a great personality makes a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:02 AM
1

Yeah that's what you're doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:46 AM
2

Female nature. Lol. So stupid men have had it good for too long because they control and repressed women..now that women get choices and more freedoms a lot of men are finding out they are not desirable or wanted by women. If women get to choose they typically don't choose a lot of men who slacked off and took them for granted because of the fact they control and repressed them. It isn't rocket science. It's obvious that women having freedom means men will end up with less of what they think the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:43 AM
3

Yes but this is key. It's not more, it's just way more openly expressed and easier for people to share due to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:39 AM
2

Those things are ridiculous as they aren't what equal rights are about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:35 AM
11

So beating women is now honesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:34 AM
7

He is. He literally beats women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:33 AM
-4

Nah you didn't school her. You used your male perspective to silence her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:33 AM
-2

So it's feminism's fault?! Lol such a stupid take. Feminism has been around for 50 odd years. It's not why men are being redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:30 AM
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Those women are dumb and not feminist. There's no way a Wan should be held responsible for the behaviour of men. I'm sorry you dealt with that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:39 PM
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The kind of guys who tend to be into someone like me aren't the kind of guys I want to be in a relationship with. I do prefer to be single and fucking random hot guys than settling for guys who are looking for basically someone who they see as an easy mark. Most guys who show romantic interest in me aren't employed and seem to think that as a mum I will do stuff for them. Nope. Not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:49 PM
3

Yeah but not guys who are worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:44 PM
4

Well not if you're considered low value by men. Although I get plenty of guys for sex, relationships is a different ball game. I'm 41, fat and a single parent. Bet you're not that desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:41 PM
8

Just not true. Even simps have their limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:34 PM
17

This is something a lot of men don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:29 PM
5

Getting a paternity test without your wife, the child's mother's, knowledge is way different than a cheeseburger. Lol. I mean you're being ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:25 PM
2

No it has nothing to do with looks in the way you've described.bit has to do with appearance. With showing you put effort in and take a sense of pride in yourself. That is a huge difference for women and many guys just don't do it. it's not about being fake, it's about being presentable. And a lot of guys don't do it and yet complain about not getting matches or partnered. Honestly, a lot of guys just aren't good enough for the modern woman and need to step up. I know what women post because I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:02 PM
3

On point 2, because marriage is built on respect and trust..doing something behind your partner's back shows there is no trust and is deceptive. Lying or keeping pertinent information from someone is usually a deal-breaker in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:51 PM
5

So what about the ugly fat women? Would you date one of them? Why/why not? I mean just because a guy wants a woman doesn't mean he gets her. And attraction is subjective. You can't gauge from a woman's perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:36 AM
2

Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:34 AM
1

I mean you can tell a lot. For example, I have been on the apps tonight..the amount of guys who use photos that have messy rooms, are out of focus or unflattering, that show slobby clothing or appearance are very common. Others have photos of them draped over sexy chicks or bios that don't say anything about themselves but plenty about their wants in a woman that are usually antithetical to their profile, E.g. wanting a woman to look a certain way but not that way himself, demand a woman to be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:26 AM
-4

You can tell a lot from profile pics. Honestly, if you saw the majority of profile pics men use you would understand why it's imperative to use good ones that reflect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:47 AM
0

Yes. Everyone should be working on themselves and usually therapy helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:45 AM
3

You're too young for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:03 AM
1

Honestly, I kinda feel the same until I realise my body is not a tool for other people to use. I also have been like this due to much trauma and it is linked to my mental health. I would suggest therapy because this is extremely unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:04 AM
5

Are introverted men, who lack friends, basically doomed to singledom because they don't have a large social circle and they prefer to stay home? Yes. I man you have to put effort into anything to see a return. Now that women don't need men those who don't deserve women aren't getting them. This is a shock to the malesphere but us women have known this since time began. We don't need to put up with certain men anymore and this is why a lot of men aren't getting women. Demand for men is low. The o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:16 AM
1

I know men who enjoy getting a woman to cross her boundaries. These men are usually scum. Most women don't enjoy the chase but they do want man to show they are interested and put effort in to showing it. If a woman says no or isn't interested in you she means it. That's not an invitation to try and "win her over".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:58 AM
1

That any woman can turn up at a bar or in tinder and just get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:34 PM
1

Most men aren't picky are they? Haven't we been told that men can't have sex even if they have the lowest standard? Aren't all women only having sex with the top 20% And I'm pretty sure intelligence really doesn't matter when it comes to who you have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:34 PM
2

Yes they are. And the men are the ones who need to change
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:29 PM
1

Well that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:29 PM
2

I mean they are an intensified reflection of a portion of the real world of women hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:16 PM
1

You've assumed that the people I'm fucking are men, or men alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:15 PM
1

I mean that's all subjective. What's "easy"? Why should it be easy? Why aren't women talked about in a way that doesn't define them a "an easy lay"? If the average guy thinks like this then he doesn't deserve to be paid any attention from women and that is what men seem to be missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:12 PM
1

Well at least I'm having a lot of sex unlike you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:26 AM
0

I'm not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:43 AM
0

It's not part of the dataset because it isn't a variable being measured. Context of the research shows that it is specifically looking at a specific population. You're ignoring that in all of your posts. I will no longer post responses because you clearly do not understand the basic premise of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:39 AM
0

Again with making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:35 AM
0

As someone who knows how statistics and research works, I'm still not embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:34 AM
1

I'm not embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:32 AM
1

No it shouldn't. It is irrelevant. you're wrong. Learn to accept it. You don't include data that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:27 AM
0

You're wrong about it mattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:25 AM
0

You're making assumptions about my motives and my knowledge. You're wrong. That's all there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:24 AM
0

Again making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:22 AM
1

The results are valid they just don't show what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:17 AM
-1

If someone kills themselves it is not the fault of anyone and blaming women for men killing themselves is absolutely egregious. Also is passing the blame onto women, as per usual, for something a man has done. Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:15 AM
1

The population of sexually active adults. Non sexually active adults are irrelevant. That's the point you seem to be missing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:10 AM
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But that doesn't matter if you aren't researching people who had zero partners. Learn basic logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:08 AM
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Hypothetical and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:06 AM
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No you don't. You don't include statistics about everything and everyone. That's why research has parameters. Because you cannot and should not include everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:06 AM
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Irrelevant to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:04 AM
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I think the women have already left the men alone and that's the problem. It's not the gotcha you think it is because they already did it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:04 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:02 AM
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Well now I know you are a troll because no research can and does include the whole population on it. Literally has never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:01 AM
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What you believe is irrelevant and wrong. Plenty of research has shown over many years that self reporting surveys about sexual.mattera is actually a very accurate tool to help. It's far more accurate than having an interview identify the people and them have to answer what is seen as embarrassing or personal questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:57 AM
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That would be relevant if asking the entire population but if you are trying to identify something specific within a subset of a population then no, they aren't relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:55 AM
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I didn't claim they have it easy. I said that the data shows men have more sexual.partnera overall. That's what it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:54 AM
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What "reality"? The one where you are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:53 AM
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It is irrelevant when virgins literally are not part of the situation. That would be like looking at how much sex zebra have when discussing human sexuality. It is utterly irrelevant how many partners non-sexually active people have if they are not the thing being reserched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:53 AM
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So you're claim is that most women have more sexual partners than men? Because that's purely fiction created by people who hate women and blame them.for not having sex or success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:51 AM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:50 AM
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No it doesn't if the data is out of adults having sex who has more partners. Including virgin's is irrelevant in that data. Learn how research, logic and common sense works
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:50 AM
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You make a lot of assumptions and leaps in logic. That is not surprising as a lot of men who follow TRP and incel logic so that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:49 AM
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Statistics actually say nothing. Again bringing in data from elsewhere doesn't change the fact that out of the people who were surveyed more men had more partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:47 AM
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This data is about sexual partners. Men have more than women. That's it. Data also shows that women have far less pleasurable sex than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:46 AM
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You are assuming. That is irrelevant to what this data set shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:44 AM
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Men have more partners than women. This is a fact that many on this sub refuse to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:44 AM
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Again you're assuming that more men are virgins than women. Otherwise there would be no reason to make an issue of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:40 AM
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That's irrelevant to this data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:39 AM
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No you are assuming that men being Virgins will change the data and what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:36 AM
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Again, you're assuming. That's not how research or data works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:35 AM
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No it doesn't.. it's saying that out of sexually active adults men have more. You've assumed that if they include virgins it will be a certain result but you have no basis for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:32 AM
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No it doesn't. It not including information doesn't prove non included information right. That's very illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:29 AM
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That's still more than most single women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:26 AM
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*sigh* Research has shown that self reporting is actually pretty reliable. Most people are honest or honest enough for the data to be useful. Accuse men of lying because that works in the women's favour as to ANOTHER reason why men have trouble dating/fucking/marriage etc. because they are pathological liars, according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:42 AM
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They do if they don't care about who they want to fuck, otherwise it is far harder for women to get quality sex than men. Women are far less likely to have decent sex with a stranger. Men measure success of this all on women get more sex so it must be better and they have it easier whereas sex is not a good indicator that anything is of value. This is doubly so as many women feel pressured/coerced or get raped. And are you suggesting that any sex is good sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:39 AM
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Yes this is the fact. women have nearly ALWAYS had less sex than men. This is why TRP and subs like this full of complaining men is utter bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:35 AM
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Yeah but men expect women to settle for them or lower their standars. These standards are things like don't be abusive, treat me with respect and clean up after yourself. Yet apparently we're meant to lower them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:27 AM
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Or guys could raise their efforts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:29 PM
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That's not what's being discussed. And it.is no where in the figures as men perpetuating violence on women. A woman rejecting a man has and could lead to sexual or physical violence including death..men do not have that level of fear or risk when rejecting a woman. Men in this sub just want to paint women as evil and men as victims but that's just not how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:40 AM
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Not from women though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:01 AM
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Lol. Of course you would view my question like that. Fact is a Woman is far more likely to receive violence than a man in this scenario. Also do you not think men reject women and aren't arseholes about it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:28 AM
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You guys always confuse quantity with quality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:27 AM
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And men who transition to women and finally get what women see too. Goes both ways hun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:26 AM
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So let me ask you something. What happens if a woman is an arsehole? Isn't it better to know that than to try and date someone like that? Also, what usually happens to men in this situation? They get their feelings hurt. Men pose a far greater physical and sexual safety threat to women than women do to men. Men get violent and abusive frequently with women when they turn them down..so often it is best to either ghost someone or to be rude. Often a Woman turns into being rude because a guy persis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:25 AM
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I mean...how is this a response to anything. Literally every post on here by men paints women as these huge group of evil people who won't fuck them. Who have all the power and it's totally unfair. How women are to blame for absolutely everything goes wrong in their lives. It's just more of the same victim mentality and blaming women without any actual sense of insight or introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:52 AM
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No your looks are probably not the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:49 AM
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No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:40 AM
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How much do women have to tell you guys that looks really aren't everything. If you are hot but an arsehole you may fuck more but ultimately will not be successful at being with a decent chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:40 AM
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They're just jealous. That's literally all it is. Men perceive that it is unfair because if woman want sex they can apparently just get it because men are beta fucks who will fuck anything (according to them). Yet when have standards and won't just fuck guys for the sake of it so guys resent.wen.fornnotnonky having free choice but also from getting sex if they want it. When both situations are the result of what men do and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:22 AM
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It's always up to the women to make.mem.change is it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:30 AM
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Neither are you. Oh and BTW there is plenty of dialogue, I just happen to disagree with you. Just like a man to act like a woman isn't "getting the point" or there's nothing being said because a woman doesn't bend to your will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:01 PM
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Look at the stats. A majority of humans in the US(I'm not BTW) are overweight or obese. So that just doesn't matter as much as you think. Also, as I said, one attribute doesn't matter as much in the grand scheme of things. Attractiveness is based on many variables and is not in and of itself the only metric a partner is chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:58 PM
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Well I have massive breasts and am really cute so being fat isn't as big a turn off as you might think. As I said, there are many factors that goes into how much someone finds you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:47 AM
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Well that's clearly wrong. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:45 AM
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No. Being fat is one metric and plenty of fat chicks(like me) have other qualities that are attractive. I also don't place my self worth based on. How anyone else sees me. I know my worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:06 AM
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Yes but this isn't just based on looks and that's what people are missing. Most men ARE average if a woman is looking for very specific stuff in a man. And most men just don't reach those standards. Men think it's all about looks but it's not. It's the package.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:26 AM
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No one. He's fucking Apex Alpha Predator. No one thinks he's average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:21 AM
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The reality is that men do need to change. They have had it too easy for too long. Now that women have a lot more say in the men they marry and fuck, women are now making choices to even be single rather than be with the available men. That should be telling men something about the quality of men available. Instead they blame women. The reality is that men need to realise that when women have choices they are actively choosing to not be with them. Why? Because men are not fulfilling their needs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:32 AM
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This right here is the issue. Treating women like objects that men have a right to rather than human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:27 AM
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It has got out there a bit. Guys like Eliot Rodgers have even murdered people because no one would date him and wrote about redpoll and incel stuff I his manifesto. My brother lives with a guy who regurgitate this crap too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:48 AM
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Yeah hate women instead of realising the paradigm is shifting and they need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:24 AM
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What don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:21 AM
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I feel you! Basically men have found out that when women get free will and choice it means most of them aren't worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:17 AM
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No. It means that women are motivated by more than attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:32 AM
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guys will get put off with women who have high numbers of sexual partners even if they have a similar number. That's why some guys go for younger women. Has nothing to do with women who are older not having value. In fact, it likely is because older women rate them as being lower value so they have no choice by to chase women who are younger, more vulnerable, or less experienced/confident in their worth. Women who have self worth don't put up with a lot of what men throw their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:17 AM
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Yeah basically what is happening now is that women can now choose whether to be with a man or not and many women are perfectly happy to be alone than to settle. In fact, most women not marrying or partnering until later in life is going to compound that issue because women have more experience with did men and are far more likely to have higher benchmarks for men to reach before considering a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:47 AM
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The older women get the less they are prepared to settle. They also get to a point where they probably have had a few relationships that haven't worked out so recognise that men actually don't improve their life ultimately and they can do without men unless they add value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:44 AM
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