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And you can say this how exactly? What is chad? The guy that all men want to be but simultaneously complain about being awful men? So women are supposed to chase chads just for you men to say she’s low class and shallow but when a woman puts personality above all else she’s too ugly to get Chad? Every time I say anything against one of your small little minds it’s automatically rejected and said to be lies. Why? Is it because you just don’t like women? Is it because it’s a you problem and no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:17 PM
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Ok well there is no point in even discussing anything any further with you if you cannot comprehend the differences of men and women and desirability as a spectrum and the intricacies between all of us. Anything I say will ultimately result in more insults to either myself or my bf to make it make sense in your small mind so have a day you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:39 PM
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Lol you looked at my comment history? And because he’s short that means he’s not worthy of an above average woman? I don’t like very tall men and I do not have a height requirement because I’m very short myself and am also not a teenager with arbitrary preferences. I feel like no matter what I say on here some man will find a reason of why my bf isn’t good enough or reversely why he’s so good he could pull an attractive woman and never that we met and really hit it off and nothing after that mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:11 PM
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I agree. I’ve researched North Korea pretty extensively and have read memoirs of foreigners who lived there and their experiences as well as defectors as there aren’t any books or resources available of people who still live there. It’s an awful awful place and the tightening restrictions on defecting is saddening. I don’t think this person truly knows about North Korea as an average citizen and not as the top of the food chain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:23 PM
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I’m a plain jane and got attention from all sorts of men. I think it’s the way you carry yourself on that app as well as how you look in general. I’ve never had my hair colored, cosmetic surgery or enhancements, nor have fake hair, nails, teeth, lashes or tattoos. I also never had any bikini pics and dress pretty modestly so it’s not like I was out here flashing my girls to everyone. Obviously I still work hard on my appearance and am in really good shape. I don’t understand why you think plane …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:07 PM
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Are you saying they don’t punish their citizens to keep order and control?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:28 AM
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It’s essential but will not always be fulfilling. That’s why you see millionaires and spouses of millionaires taking on non profit work or starting an art brand. Money doesn’t solve emptiness and isn’t a replacement for mutual connections
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:20 PM
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So how does that equate women wanting all men to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:33 PM
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Exactly the amount that makes the majority of women have relationships with the men around them and also find the common ground of men’s shortfalls and talk shit online with other women. We are not talking about the minority who actually h a t e men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:09 AM
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All those things have nothing to do with women wanting all men to die? Because I get a divorce it means I want him and everyone his gender to die? Going outside is just another way to say stop being chronically online. I love the men in my life and am happy they are in it but what do I know, I’m just a woman. Surely you know more than any woman about how women think and feel. An assumption about most people being within the typical range is not the same as assuming all women are along the far ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:01 AM
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To allow a genocide of all men? You cannot think women hate them that much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:28 PM
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Because why would women be with men if they hate them so much they want them all dead? It’s pretty simple to see that the majority of women do not hate men. We all have similar struggles with the men in our lives that we vocalize, of course but hating to that degree? You cannot tell me the majority of women share the sentiment. How could you possibly know women are hiding those feelings? Also, you say ALL women in hetero relationships and ALL women who love their male family and friends is bias …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:26 PM
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Not to be rude but I really think you need to take a walk to your local park and just people watch. The overwhelming majority of women do not hate men that much and we love the men in our life. Men are our brothers, sons, fathers, cousins, our best friends, the loves of our lives. Women that say all men are bad are most likely single or don’t actually believe that to be true. If a woman were to try this, it’d immediately get shut down by other women. Dating sucks, but that’s not a reflection of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:38 PM
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I used perv in a way that would suggest they sought you out and were checking you out, not the older use of liking kids or anything. Also, I never said they don’t employ that. Literally have only discussed men who aren’t hitting on you and that not every man that talks to you is hitting on you, which you seem to understand but still decide to treat them as if they are. And yes I do know what gaslighting is which sometimes people use to play it off and make themselves feel better. That has nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:25 PM
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“if she's certain or uncertain he's angling to proposition her” “I don't know why you are pretending a woman can't tell if a man is attracted to her and targeted her” Ma’am. You are the only person saying it’s ok to treat men the same way regardless of their intentions to hit on you or ask about freaking bread. All I’m saying is that you don’t have to treat all men like they’re pervs because they would probably have asked the next available person if it wasn’t you. If she doesn’t know the differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:56 PM
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“It doesn't matter if they are "genuine" if their attention is unwanted or inappropriate.” You literally said it doesn’t matter if it’s genuine small talk or not sooo I’m not sure how you’re now saying women know the difference when you treat every man that approaches you like he’s trying to take you home. I said even if the attention is unwanted by the women, it doesn’t mean the man is propositioning her and if he was cut off and rejected when asking about the bread she grabbed, must be hurtful…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah I just wanted to probe more about your comment of how it doesn’t matter even if it is normal small talk if she’s not wanting that attention from someone. I think there’s no harm done if it’s just a normal dude checking out my groceries and starts a convo. I get why women immediately shut men down when they talk to them but I also think that sucks for men who are just talkative and friendly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:14 PM
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But OP named a lot of normal interactions and the comment above you is saying a lot of men will use these normal interactions to be genuinely social and friendly. I talk to a lot of people when I’m out and about like at the store, walking my dog, work events, etc. sometimes people take it as me being flirty or interested but I am usually interested in the rest of whatever story is offered to me. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:58 PM
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I’d be upset if my bf went to a pool party with hoochie daddy shorts and didn’t invite me (he doesn’t normally wear anything that revealing) but if we both went to a themed pool party… I wouldn’t be mad. And if I didn’t wanna go I wouldn’t be upset if he still went if my insecurities weren’t his fault. My bf and I recently visited a strip club and I was so uncomfortable I cried. So I sat in the back, sipping on my drink and just chilled. I didn’t get upset he went to throw some dollars with his …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:20 PM
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Damn my whole theory about you may be wrong lol. But yeah dude that’s not a typical mindset. I think a lot of us agree money is the root of all evil and our lives would be much better without the constant endless pursuit of wealth but I don’t think most take it as far as you do with ANY job contributing to the evils of society unless you’re performing a selfless act. Maybe it’s because we have no choice but to work so we have to utilize our happiness in order to not be miserable. Work also gives…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:43 PM
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Yeah you may be right lol. I can’t imagine he feels that strongly against generating income but is willing to completely throw that mindset out the window in order to get a gf who doesn’t “look down” on him? Why would someone continue to chase girls that view him as such and change in order to be accept by this specific type of woman you know? You’d think he’d look down on THEM for being so mindlessly driven by wealth and hook up with hippie girls. Just for shits and giggles I have a theory: OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:12 PM
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But we don’t have that so we have to work to make sure our lives and family’s lives are safe and comfortable. It’d be great if only one person had to work but it’s rare that’s an option and if it is, SHE would have to do all the money making and child rearing so I hope you’re up to taking care of the kids and doing all the housework. Also I’m confused as to why you don’t try to find a woman with a similar mentality? You’re not the average person so you can’t expect the average woman to be attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:29 PM
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It’s interesting to me that he seems to chase after working women with a lot of material goods. Everywhere is different and every age group is different but I feel like it shouldn’t be too hard to keep those values and also find women who values the same thing. OP is basically telling these women that they’re part of the problem and shaming them for their jobs and possessions then gets upset they don’t want a second date? Most of the women I’ve seen that are very hippie also go against other soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:23 PM
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And that end date is the bond that keeps you both going and on the same page. I could be long distance with my bf (had been with an ex for 2 years) and never cheat. It’s not really hard for me either, I just think both people should be honest about sex and intimacy and how they deal without having it so accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah I think setting a healthy goal with some room for few lbs up and down is ideal. I can’t really track calories anymore because it got unhealthy and I bought a scale and weighed EVERYTHING from chicken to individual blueberries. Now I try not to weigh myself everyday but maybe once a week- two weeks and I only eat if I feel hungry or if I’m going to be out for a long period and I know I’ll get hungry then stop when I’m full and box it away before I end up eating the other half lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:57 PM
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Yeah I know people hate the same advice but everyone’s life and needs are so different so it really is up to the person to make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:56 PM
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I have pretty bad eating habits ngl. I would always eat so much at one time no matter what so I started fast all day then come home and eat a days worth of food, which is really hard to do so you end up losing weight that way too. It also helped that I’ve been extremely busy so it didnt matter if I was hungry or not, I couldn’t get food anyway. I did that fasting for maybe a month or so then tried to only eat my normal dinner and a big breakfast the next morning before I left. This helped me get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:05 PM
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It’s not for long term use but the terms vary from person to person. I lost 20 lbs this year and I haven’t tracked calories in over a month or two. You have to be willing to be uncomfortable to lose weight. Something has to give: either your pride or anxiety about going to the gym or on a run or your satisfying and comforting eating habits. How you decide to lose is your own personal preference and not at the fault of the advice you got. More advice? Get a job, don’t lose that job. How? You’ll f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:58 PM
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How to do it is your responsibility. We all have to get up and be at work at a certain time. How you do it is up to you. If she has specific questions she can ask but she didn’t. You can move more, eat less, eat at home, immediately put half your food in a to go box at a restaurant, you can stop buying snacks, intermittently fast, or just track your calories for a couple months until you learn how to eat. I lost 20 lbs this year and I went from eating my entire portion at a restaurant to eating …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:49 PM
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It’s a billion dollar industry because people like a quick way to weight loss with minimal effort (that’d be amazing). Everything simplifies down to CICO though and if you do it long enough, you will lose weight. If you’ve tried and it didn’t work (excluding illness) you’re miscounting somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:08 AM
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The average penis size is shrinking tho so that should tell you woman are no longer seeking gigantic penises. The average man is also a lot less masculine and emotionally available so women are also allowing more men to become husbands that wouldn’t have how ever many years ago. For women to have such a large and widespread effect on male genitalia would have needed to happen over centuries and we don’t really know when exactly that started or why (that I know of). It could be biological or cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:12 PM
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lol ok dude. You’re sounding a lot like a woman rn not being able to take criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:57 PM
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How is that the woman’s fault who she’s attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:55 PM
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OP isn’t saying women are offended by fat men, just that women aren’t as attracted to them. Also obese people are VERY common and they are really big, we’re just used to seeing so many of them. If you saw a woman’s ribs in a bikini you’d think she had an ED but 30 years ago that was their norm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:51 PM
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There were so many other factors at play as to why the divorce rate was so low. Domestic violence was very high at the time. Is that a sufficient reason to conclude that’s why marriages lasted longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:45 AM
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Yeah I’m dating a 5’5 man and I’m very thin and curvy, make good money, and am not crazy or cheating every chance I get or really anything else guys try to say women who date short men are. I’ve swerved maaaany tall guys and finally found the love of my life. He didn’t list his height and when I saw him I was a little surprised but meh. Nbd really. Not to say all women would date a short king but it’s not like there are no options
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:57 PM
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And the dynamics of the relationship are different. If a young man is involved with a well known gold digger or crazy, baby trapper then that’s when we see men warn each other because men get taken advantage of in those types of relationships more often than being with an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:48 PM
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I understand that but I’m saying it took me, a woman who it’s more accepted and expected in, like until my mid 20s to do that and everyone is different. It’s easy to say these people should fix this thing that I’ve never had to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:45 PM
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I’d like to believe this is true. We all know there is still a stigma around men’s mental health needs (as seen above) and I’ve found that a lot of men, and women that were taught the same values, can’t actually pinpoint where their feelings are stemming from so they’ll assume it’s their parents divorce or middle school crush but that’s usually not the actual issue. It took me years into adulthood (and therapy) to understand my feelings and allow myself to cry or be generally upset in front of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:52 PM
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Yeah and most criminals and drug addicts are extremely manipulative and isolate and abuse their partner.. two totally different people and relationship dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:04 PM
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We’re not married yet and haven’t been together for a really long time so I’d like to think I’m still current in the dating scene and I was usually the person messaging first and half the time driving like an hour to meet and at least offering to pay for my half. I’ve also paid entire dates before. Idk if that’s uncommon for a woman but I’d like to keep it as mutually beneficial or at the very least mutually the least painful as possible. Also you literally said you have nothing to offer.. It se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:13 PM
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Not a boomer and didn’t say anything to do with boomers relationships in the slightest. I said if the only thing that matters to you is sex then you’ll never grow old with your girl. Basic tasks like cooking can be improved upon or, like you said, you’re better at it so you can also cook. Women say they’re not your therapist or your mommy because some men expect them to uphold these dated ideals of cooking and cleaning and being a sex doll and doing everything domestic while also raising the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:25 PM
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There’s much more to a partner than sex but if that’s the literal only thing you find value in then obviously as you both age she will become useless to you. Values you placed on women in your 20s are going to be different than in your 30s and will change within each relationship. If all marriages and long term couples only priority was attraction, almost none would get past the age of 60 or most likely sooner than that if kids or health issues are involved. Your woman having nothing to offer be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:46 PM
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Impossible. We must all view beauty as determined by OP /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:49 PM
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Did she hit a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:23 PM
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So instead of telling her straight out that’s not acceptable, you don’t say anything and hopes she figures out the right path herself, which is not choosing a man 15 years older than her? Picking someone “in spite” of his requests means he wouldn’t want that for his daughter in the first place and he’s afraid to push her into that situation by triggering the rebellious nature of teens. Which is also a good point of why that type of age gap is weird. OP thinks he has to tip toe around boundaries …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:19 PM
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Gym bro, dad bod, bear. So overall fit and cool if he has abs but also not a deal breaker as long as you’re still active in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:07 PM
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Is that why you’re still single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:59 PM
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So a discussion about….. you not knowing how to please the majority of women and not wanting to learn how to? I’m confused how this isn’t embarrassing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:32 PM
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I understand you don’t want your opinion changed at all, yeah. So again. Why did you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:18 PM
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An orgasm is very much feelings and rainbows and shit.. making her comfortable is essential regardless if she likes it rough or not. Women need more stimulation to prepare for sex and the majority of that stimulation comes from clit play so if you’re just sticking it in and expecting her to cum from pure vaginal sex then it’s no wonder you can’t make many women orgasm esp if you’re not willing to go down on her, use toys, or just take it slow. Edit: it’s very rare a woman can come from vaginal i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:11 PM
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Why’d you even post if you’re not taking anyone else’s opinion into consideration? This guy just told you why sex is not an end all be all experience and you can find a really suitable partner outside of your quick orgasm criteria if you take the time to figure out her body and needs..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:05 PM
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I personally wouldn’t and would rather someone that at the very least is more muscular than average and can run a mile or so without stopping. They don’t have to have a 6 pack but they do need to actively be in the gym at least a few times a week and eat relatively healthy. If I knew someone was overweight (not obese) but actively losing weight and had the same lifestyle as above then Id probably date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:07 PM
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Many models are a lot more attractive than rappers of all people. The chances of me getting access to that money and influence is about as likely as my 18 year old relationship is to work so a lot more 18 year old would definitely risk it but after you’re more sure of what you want and are actively working to get there you wouldn’t risk the happy life you’ve spent years creating just for a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:55 PM
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I absolutely would reject them tf? I would never sleep with someone I didn’t know and I don’t even have a celeb crush nor do I follow any celebs in any way. I don’t even find a lot of them attractive. I would never put myself in harms way for… what? To be able to say I slept with a celeb, got thrown away and also lost my happy relationship? If my bf and I weren’t dating then obviously I’d put the celeb over other guys but even then, I’ve turned down models because they were weird af. I am a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:45 PM
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It’s not the same and I think sexual chemistry changes the longer you’ve been in a relationship but yeah I lust after him. I’m still attracted to him, that’s why I agreed to a date. He’s just not as attractive as others. I think everyone in the world wants top 20% of their preferred team but that doesn’t make the rest of the population undateable nor do I think it means you settle. I think you date the best person within your reach at the time. I went on dozens of dates before my bf and he’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:10 PM
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I think attraction is a spectrum that encompasses a lot of different things. My bf is not the most physically attractive man I’ve been with or dated but I am the happiest I’ve ever been with him. I’ve routinely turn down guys that are physically more attractive than him although we had great sexual chemistry because they were awful and that was the only thing I liked about them and that’s just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:25 PM
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I can’t tell if she’s just trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:55 PM
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Offering up yourself to men out of your league just for sex is really desperate and also kinda dangerous for your physical and mental wellbeing. Finding a guy who you’re attracted to and feel comfortable inviting over is the hardest part. She probably does have a hard time with that because most men don’t want an older, more mature woman and if they do, she thinks she’s out of their league. She has no reason to complain imo. I assume she has many men interested but they’re her age or aren’t as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:37 PM
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Yeah I mean I think a lot of people will automatically default to coping and uplifting which I don’t think is bad either. Many people were raised to protect others feelings and if you don’t know the person, it’s just a default move. Then opposite to that I think there’s a lot of opposite gender hatred rn so sometimes people will be really nasty with one another because the venting person triggered a thought of an unfaithful or abusive ex and will get unfairly judged, which is just as useless. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:07 PM
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Dating apps or trial and error. Most women won’t approach esp irl so you have to find a place to be around more women or seek them out. A lot of relationships start off in a mutual settings like work or the gym or mutual friends hangouts. After seeing you a few times she’ll be a lot less armed and worried you’ll abuse her. You can talk to her like a mutual friend and just ask questions for the sake of making a new friend. But that’s also where trial and error come from. Sometimes you say the wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:45 PM
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It’s different in a friend group vs online strangers that come to a sub primarily focused on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah he actually sounds really scary and I’d be really worried/creeped out if I found these same opinions from a guy I was seeing. He entirely only cares about his own needs without any concern of how it will negatively affect his partner and that’s just so scary to me like how many other aspects of life does this include?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:45 PM
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I agree with men sometimes acting like they’re ok with women having sex early on but I don’t think if you’re seriously considering dating someone you should only get to have sex when you feel he’s earned it (totally fine on it’s own and I highly recommend) but then expect a guy you’ve never met to plan and pay for the date like you somehow deserve his money right off the bat. I think if you expect that type of masculinity then he should be able to expect femininity and submissiveness. That doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:07 PM
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How does everyone know how many people you’re dating? How do you choose who you get into a relationship with (if you’re in one)? What if the date isn’t going well and he knows he doesn’t want to see you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:39 PM
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I agree. I think if we flip the terms and say a woman should do all of those things to respect a man and show what she has to offer it’d be a different story. Putting effort into your appearance is usually mutually beneficial especially on a first date. The continued upkeep is something you and your partner value or you don’t. I’ve gone on SO many first dates and rarely ever expected them to pay and many times I’d pay if they drove far to see me. I respect the differences in men and women but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:38 PM
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That’s not how life works and it’s rare for both partners to be able to make the same amount of money with similar circumstances and similar spending habits/responsibilities. A woman making half even when she’s pregnant/birthing/breast feeding, would mean she’d effectively be making more than her husband to allow her to make what he does even with maternity leave and sick days. Anyway. I don’t agree with either side that a woman shouldn’t have to pay half or that she should have to make half bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:19 PM
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By saying OPs concerns come from a young audience primarily online and there’s no need to be worried because not everyone feels that same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:14 PM
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Yeah but who can afford to live in a small town with low wages, low education, and little job opportunities? Typically only old people that have at least grounded themselves in the world already which is passed the point of peak fertility so even if women were doing this they wouldn’t have kids until like late 20s earliest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:10 PM
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Yeah if any of those issue were to present itself before the relationship there likely wouldn’t be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:03 AM
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Yeah I’ve never even seen that kind of place that’s open every other day for a few hours a day because the owner doesn’t want to work. Most places I’ve seen are run by men and the yoga studios or Zumba places are ran by women who are there all day everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:32 PM
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I think it depends on their current situation and how they’ve dealt with their dysfunctional home. All of which comes with as much time as it takes to discuss their family anyway so I’m not sure why you’d stop getting to know someone after them saying they have family troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:31 AM
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I just searched if “taller men have bigger genitals” and it was the first to pop up. Again. I said that’s not the only factor and I acknowledged that. I know everyone is different dude I really don’t care about it that much. I listed other reasons why I don’t date taller men besides penis size so if that’s not a factor then ok you can be right but my other points are still a reason for me to not consider bigger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:37 PM
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“In a study of thirty-three hundred Italian men, researchers found that only height was correlated with larger penises, meaning the taller the man, the larger the penis.” I also said that’s not the only factor. I’m not saying they all have 10 inch dicks just like I’m not saying they all have size 14 shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:40 PM
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Yeahhhh there’s little chance tbh. I would swipe left on guys over 6’3 unless they seemed like a big teddy bear. I like tall guys but they have to come off VERY safe and that might be from my past. I’ve had many guys want to “break me in” and it’s such a turn off. I get the appeal of dom and sub but it’s just odd to basically fetishize a petite woman’s pain to validate your masculinity. Also I don’t want to look like your kid when we walk together lol That’s just me tho. I’m sure a lot of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:20 AM
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Yeah. Taller men usually have an average dick which to the ratio of their height, is bigger than shorter men’s an average. I know there’s a lot of other factors and whatever. I also assume because most tall guys that are masculine enjoy being too big for a girl and slowly acclimating her to it or if they’re average or smaller then they will make up for it by being extra rough. Your body weight is also a big factor and your strength when tossing and grabbing a much smaller person. It’s kinda ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:37 AM
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5’1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:26 AM
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I’m a petite girl and you’d most likely be at the end of the spectrum for me because you’re too tall for things to work smoothly. Tall guys are great but for very small women it’s just an inconvenience and I don’t really like being in pain during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:51 PM
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That’s not settling- that’s being realistic. Why would I spend all my time and money on vanity in the HOPES someone will take care of me? I don’t need that much money I want to be in love with him, not his material worth and get a divorce I don’t want my life to revolve around material things I like the safety of making my own money and having my own life I like the pride I can feel when I achieve something that’s actually important in life. I am in very good shape and constantly upkeep my appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:44 AM
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Absolutely. We have that choice now which makes a world of difference. I think a lot of women were taught not to depend on men and if you do you’re less of a woman because of the inescapable situations our mothers and grandmothers were in and they just wanted to protect us. But I think it got a little out of hand and that’s where the all men are bad and “independent woman who don’t need no man” was a product of and now there’s push back because we got guilt tripped into working harder and doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:40 PM
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I think it’s fine to want that lifestyle but I think it’s wrong to completely change the dynamic of the relationship when you realize your life could be easier and expect your man to pic up the slack. For the TikTok you posted, I think it’s true to a certain degree. I think many women have been forced to be dominant , myself included, from work or from bad men that take advantage so when you find a good man that you trust, you can allow him to be dominant because you’re safe with him. I have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:05 PM
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I feel like it’s more just wanting to look conventionally attractive across the board instead of trying to specifically get men’s attention alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:51 PM
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He just blessed you!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:33 PM
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He’s seen way too many TikTok’s of girls being interviewed about their preferences in men replying with “personality matters more”. I don’t even think many men would give their actual preferences on spot in front of the entire world because if he did, he’d too be labeled as shallow. “I like thin hourglass women with a big ass and pretty nails and a sense of style but not too exposing who will also come home and cook for me and occasionally greet me with head.” -said no man ever when asked about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:06 PM
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I think he thinks attraction is only physical. I think we are all physically attracted to certain people we don’t know but that’s not the extent to attraction. Also being comfortable with a man IS attractive. Tf would I want to be with a man who makes me feel every emotion under the sun within a weeks time? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:54 PM
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They usually weigh you first before they measure your waist and those weight standards are linked to BMI standards. I think they added taping because they know BMI is inaccurate for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:48 AM
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That’s a good point. Many military men are “overweight” but they’re jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:05 PM
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That’s correlation and not causation. Plenty of people are fat for plenty of reasons. Just because someone stops dieting and continues their original diet only to gain all the weight back is not the same as “dieting causes weight gain”. There’s a lot of crash diets people can’t maintain and end up binging. It’s not hard to lose weight if you have the self discipline to maintain that lifestyle. That’s also not to say all fat people don’t have self control and are failures as many are happy being …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:00 PM
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Yeah I think this marriage counselor is maybe speaking of monogamous marriages between two older adults with children and how women’s sex drive decreases with age. I can’t imagine how she would make sense if she was talking about relationships between two adults under 30 ish. Seems like she herself just doesn’t like sex or is uncomfortable with the idea of having sex just to get off and go on with your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:27 PM
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Right. I said that no one would be upset about an older man finding younger women attractive because that is natural
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:16 AM
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The only reason it’s 18 is because that’s the legal cutoff. Even if it was natural it’s still wrong because we are far past the times when reproducing was the most important part of a persons life. I don’t think anyone would disagree that old guys shouldn’t be attracted to younger women because that is actually natural. Deciding to date and shape her life and alter her course isn’t natural. We have culture and society now with far more factors involved with the average life which gives an older …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:29 AM
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And the word bitch? The word harlet? Faggot, incel, fuck, bastard..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:14 PM
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Are you implying that all words are meaningless? Clearly not. You said the term dates back to before incels usage. I said many words' meanings have changed with cultural shifts. This is one of them. If you're not mad about the others, you can't be upset that people react to how the term is currently being used by a group that actively hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:10 PM
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So if most women are in monogamous relationships, how would they be able to pass up nice men? Also, there's a difference between a nice guy and a spineless creep who will worship the ground I step on. How could I even trust that guy to protect anyone from anything? How could I trust him to help me grow into a better person? How could I even tell him if something is wrong if he'll internalize everything I say and constantly beg me to not be upset with him? No one likes anyone like that. This isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:36 PM
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Almost all meaning of words change with the use of the general population. Macaroni, cool, ok, tight, flex, nonbinary, daddy, thick, hot, bad, ice, period. These words just aren't made up. The meanings change
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:30 PM
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Right for biological responses like mating, playing, and feeding, but anything beyond that is dependent on the age, breed, and social history of the dog. Even then, it's variable amongst even siblings. It's a good thing we humans are far more complicated than dogs and cats, tho. If you want to generalize, don't give exact details about how all women will react in exact situations because of exactly what is going on in their head. That's not a generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:44 PM
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I think it's just the discourse around it currently and how many incels or red pillers have used science based descriptors for women in order to intentionally devalue and dehumanize them. Since that discourse is so common and popular currently, women assume that man falls into the same Andrew Tate watcher genre of man who doesn't respect women. Imo it's the same as men getting offended by the term "body positivity" or assuming a girl who calls herself "thick" is obese. The terms are still the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:34 PM
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How many unaware nice guys do you think there are vs criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:23 PM
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Interacting with women. I don't think any woman thinks the same as another. We're just put into the same situations and can relate to each other far better due to shared history. There's a lot of women's opinions on a lot of different subjects. Find literally any form of media within the demographics you want. If you agree you don't know how to learn about women's thought patterns (which also implies you haven't learned), why are you commenting on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:22 PM
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You can't know how women think. You have to learn. Most posts here like to say "all women" and point at the young tiktok girl then say "all men" and point at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:15 PM
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I've had casual flings with average men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:51 AM
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I was actually going to say the opposite for sex and love. I think I'd forgive just sex but not love. I think if my partner fell in love with another person it'd destroy me emotionally so even if we did calmly talk about it, I'd feel awful for not giving him what he needed to feel secure enough and I'd never lose that feeling no matter how much we talked about it. I feel like that's a fundamental problem that can't be fixed, and tbh I don't want to be with someone if they don't want to be with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:55 PM
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Yeah, it's the maturity levels of the man vs. girl and how most women in these relationships have some sort of trauma and are likely wanting to be guided and protected. You have this older man who acts as a father figure and can basically mold you into someone HE wants you to be. That's what's dangerous about severe age gaps. I'm in my mid-20s, objectively attractive, and I'm also into older men. I dated someone 15 years older than me at one point, and it was really nice in some aspects but odd …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:28 PM
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I sort of agree until the end. I don't think different men are looked to be more "manly" (cultural values) than others, just based on body size. I've worked with all sorts of men (men dominated field), and I'd argue that most smaller guys are the ones that will never cry or let any emotion besides anger affect them. I think maybe they also think they have to be tougher to level out the playing field with the big guys. I'm a very small woman and used to do the same and highly compensated when I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:29 PM
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Bro @shoesandhose never even stated anything to do with that. She said both partners get equal control in a healthy relationship, and then you say she's speaking out of privilege. How does that relate to what you just said in any way? They didn't even mention being favored after a divorce. You just wanted to throw something at her to say she's wrong, and now you're changing the argument to something it never was to validate your misplaced, biased comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:58 PM
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That's only due to the privilege of people with vaginas. It can't have anything to do with individual choices. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:50 PM
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How? Because she has the ability to become a toxic woman who uses her femininity to control her partner? Don't you have the ability to become a toxic man who uses his partner to do all domestic chores on top of paying for half the bills and being your sex servant? What privilege you have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:46 PM
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Ahh ok so medical reasons. Idk if it'll make a difference if you're clothed as you'd need to be chugging protein shakes lol but maybe just try toning up if that's what you want? I'm not saying skinny girls aren't attractive in their own right (I honestly wish I had less muscle), but if you want to change, I'm sure you can find some low weight/impact exercises to do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:06 PM
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Unless there's a biological reason you can't gain muscle, you can gain muscle. I'm not trying to be a dick either, but you can absolutely change your body composition by lifting heavy. That's almost the entire reason people work out in the first place. Tons of skinny girls go to the gym to put on some weight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:47 PM
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Again, most women are obese and those women usually prefer bigger guys on their activity level, but that's not because they're more attracted to fatter guys. It's because their personal lives and values align, which is usually more important in women. If most women were highly attracted to fat men, there wouldn't be as big of a "lonely, young man" problem as there is. Maybe you're thinking of super shredded men vs. real dad bod and not fit men vs. fat men. I think most women would want a real da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:02 PM
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That's from what you've seen, which is an extremely small demographic to make assumptions about the entirety of women's attraction of men. I've lived in towns where the men think I'm a 5 or 6 and other towns where they thought I was an 8-10. Those towns are only a few hours apart too. Standards change from cultures, cities, wealth, race, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:53 PM
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I also think it's depends on the obesity levels of the women too. Most people want a similar partner and now that the US is mainly obese people, a lot more women prefer fat guys because they're similar in lifestyle and won't feel threatened
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:40 PM
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How would changing your body comp not change your body much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:37 PM
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You just said you can give most bigger dudes a run for their money. That's why you're not afraid of bigger men.. I assume you'd be afraid of a few big men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:49 AM
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That's very rare for a man to experience tho Edit: to be drugged and I'd understand if that man develops a form of PTSD from it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:40 AM
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You can't actually understand what it's like be raped as a woman. You view getting raped as something that you could only get coerced into because you are most likely on equal grounds ohysically with anyone else. Women are most likely a lot smaller than the raper and can very easily be raped by the majority of men. They're not the same experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:06 AM
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A cock ring is for a better orgasm on his part tho and ok even if he got a butt plug or penal insert the same applies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:56 PM
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Clearly I didn't mean that a doll could replace a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:55 PM
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A dildo or vibrator is different than a guy using an entire doll that takes every function a woman could give, and they're pretty rare to have. Most people have sex toys with a one-two function toy, and yes, they should be allowed, and imo encouraged to have the best sex possible with your partner. If my bf wanted a cock ring or a cuffs that help him keep a hold of me better I would say cool let's try. But would I be weirded out if he got a Kardashian Barbie 2000 edition with limited features? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:30 AM
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How do you know that? OLD dating isn't real life, and dating in your late teens/ early 20s also isn't indicative of the average woman. Yes, almost every woman WANTS a tall guy, and given access to so many thru OLD will inherently be detrimental to short men, and I understand how frustrating that may be, but there is still a market open to them. I'm not saying it's easy, and I like to draw similarities to black women who are statistically the least sought-after group of women across all standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:38 PM
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Maybe in different areas, but it's like saying black women need to be much more attractive than the average woman to be selected by a quality man because most men don't find them appealing. It's true, but there are still plenty of black women that date. I do agree they have to work harder to make up for it, but I think everyone does in a way, and many do it successfully so I don't see how you not getting the peak woman means you aren't successfully dating. You know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:34 PM
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This is exactly what I mean. My bf is non of the above, and I am a very attractive and fit woman who also makes good money and takes care of him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:30 PM
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And I acknowledged that and said some women will always be shallow but the older you get the less shallow they are. You can still be successfully dating and be short
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:29 PM
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I don't really think it's declining I just think it's shifting you know? I think men will always be an asset to society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:28 PM
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People value you for different reasons tho. You're useless for providing and protection, mostly, but that's not all society and women needs men for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:01 PM
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I personally understand that, but I argue with men who say they have no success because of ONE physical quality (likely being short), and that's the only reason women pass him up. It's not. It might be why you get swiped left on if you list your height, but mid-late 20s women are way less shallow than those men try to suggest. Some women will be shallow at any age. I get that. But, when women here, like myself, say they're dating a short guy, they ALWAYS say he's the son of an inheritance who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:50 PM
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Ooh another tough one. I'd say on par with most other women. He definitely wouldn't come above short, ugly, or fat guys. If he was as bad as Andrew Tate, I'd gladly make out with the ugliest girl before him, even if I thought he was physically attractive I think other unpopular opinions (besides racism) would depend like hyper religion, polygamy, politics, etc. I just couldn't ever give someone pleasure when I know they view me as less than and fundamentally flawed. I don't know too many open mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:07 PM
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Well, the girl isn't disgusting. And I assume the old age and misogyny played into the disgustingness and not just being obese. If he's just very unattractive and even very fat, I wouldn't call him disgusting by any means but I might be thinking differently than you or OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:28 PM
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That's a harder decision. Let's take the old creepy homeless man out of the picture, and just say he's super fat and all that jazz, but like.. 35 instead of 70, and I knew him, and he was a great guy, just ugly. I'd probably pick the guy in that case. I've made out with fat, ugly guys before. No biggie. But also kissing another girl would be weird, but still no biggie, I guess. It's just kissing, imo very juvenile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:25 PM
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Girl, and I'm straight. I identify as straight because I am and choosing a hypothetical make-out sesh doesn't make someone bi. If the guy was just ugly but not absurdly disgusting, I'd pick the guy. Adding his misogyny to his disgustingness makes me rather the woman no matter how hot she was. Mid guy> any girl Ugly guy>= any girl Disgusting guy< most girls Disgusting AND misogynistic < any person on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:19 PM
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So happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:31 PM
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They biologically need more sleep than men to function the same. Also, who cares. They whole point of me replying is to say that none of these stats mean anything because there's nuance in everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:23 PM
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I stated one specific area in which men lack in and how it's unfair to demand they improve overnight and think like women do. They think differently than women. In no way will you ever find a person who doesn't lack in certain areas. Have a dumb boy brain moment also doesn't men are incapable of learning or need to be babied. We all have dumb brain moments that seem extremely stupid to the opposite gender. That doesn't mean you're incompetent. It means you were raised to value different things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:17 PM
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Yes, it goes from calling certain simple behaviors men haven't learned, which makes women think they're just lazy or dumb "dumb boy brain" to explain they think differently and lack in a particular area- to rioting in the streets screaming all men are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:11 PM
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Ahh yes, equality. I should have specified women sometimes have dumb girl brains, too. Sorry. I'll try not to offend your fragility again. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:02 PM
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Yes! They really just need to be taught like hey. That's gross. Pick it up lol. My bf has gotten a lot cleaner since living with me and I used to get so irritated with him like how can someone not know this but he grew up with an absent mother so he just doesn't know how clean things should be. I realized that and felt really bad and now am more understanding and patient with him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:59 PM
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You really need to loosen up. Your man not cleaning the toilet until you ask him in no way means he doesn't respect you tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:54 PM
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I mean if you have an asshole coworker you won't say you wish that guy wasn't taught to be such an asshole. You just call him an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:09 AM
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I don't think that I said that. If you enjoy a man for his masculinity, then you need to accept that they are brought up differently than women regardless of whether our parents were sexist or not. I'm basically saying that women need to understand they aren't doing it on purpose and need a learning period
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:42 AM
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Oh my goodness if that offended you it's time to get off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:31 AM
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I'd personally count that as leisure but I'm just saying you can't base your opinions on one study because they're so easily influenced
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:57 PM
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LOL that's hilarious. I think many women are definitely jaded buuuuut I've had a convo about communal needs and how women are mainly the ones to take care of that and how draining it is. I think little things that men do like not being able to see the coffee filters right in front of his face or not cleaning the toilet although it OBVIOUSLY needs to be cleaned is where this meme comes from. I don't have kids, but I have to really consider how my bf m thinks before I get upset with him because he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:55 PM
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https://www.romper.com/p/8-reasons-being-a-working-mom-is-still-harder-than-being-a-working-dad-74825 "According to Pew Research, a baby increases a mother’s total workload by 21 hours per week, while the father's workload is increased by only 12.5 hours per week. That is a staggering 70 percent increase in workload for women compared to men." "Women now have less leisure time than they did 15 years ago, while men are taking more time for themselves. That’s according to new data released by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:47 PM
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"Dads are much more involved in child care than they were 50 years ago. In 2016, fathers reported spending an average of eight hours a week on child care – about triple the time they provided in 1965. And fathers put in about 10 hours a week on household chores in 2016, up from four hours in 1965. By comparison, mothers spent an average of about 14 hours a week on child care and 18 hours a week on housework in 2016" I'm pretty sure most people agree that men work harder at work, but moms work ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:28 PM
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Also wondering that. I've been better at managing my money than almost every man I've been with. My sister has the same problem with her husband. Our mom doesn't make as much as my dad, but she's waaaaay cheaper than my dad. I've had friends whose bf and husband's weren't even working and expected the woman to open her house up to them. I don't think all men are bad with money, but I've seen way more men impulsively buy stupid shit and women having to be more responsible to make up for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:12 PM
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When did I ever get off topic? Also I'm not sure you're adding to my point at all. I talked about sahw that don't have children still going thru the same routine of divorce as married moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:20 AM
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Don't a lot of men on here say a woman's value peaks in her fertile window? As in the ability to bear children. Also that women should only have kids inside a marriage. So the ideal marriage goes hand in hand with childbearing. Also, all of the things listed still apply to sahw without children except body being ruined by kids. Many women age faster than men, so he could still get tired of her, and she's in the same spot as before. Any man who divorces his wife over her pregnancy body will divor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:00 AM
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I don't think it's always to infantalize them. I think it'd be pretty hard to tell from a first date if someone is ND or on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:36 AM
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I've had a different experience butwe might be at different levels. I'm also a very small woman so that could also play a part with being seen as cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:33 AM
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Also I think ND women are seen as quirk and cute. It also gives many men the superior role, like caretakers/teachers/daddy's whatever you want to call. I feel a lot of men like playing those roles and many autistic women ask a lot of questions, need help with socializing, etc. I don't think women have the same expectations of men and so a man that seems a bit off will signal that he's not dependable or safe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:17 AM
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Ignoring what? That women also work and contribute to the household? How did I ignore that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:10 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I do think many women just want to rest like their man. I think all those little chores that she's doing adds up, and she's also exhausting herself, but at the end of the day, when the baby is crying or a spill happens, she's expected to tend do it. My bf doesn't really do anything around the house besides laundry, but we earn the same. It shouldn't be about money but about splitting your time equally so both can rest. He comes home from work later than I do and has…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:17 AM
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Yeah, I feel like guys don't ever really think past their nose, so a lot of things that subtly need to get done, like cleaning under the toilet seat or tossing expired food, etc goes undone. No one asked me to do it, but if I don't, it won't get done, and I know he sees it and chooses to ignore it. I'm better at understanding that men weren't raised to hyper focus on small details and just do it myself and allow my bf to reciprocate in other ways, but it is so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:48 AM
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My thoughts, too. It depends on how old you are and what age group you're chasing. If you're nearing 30 with a poppin Instagram (unless part of your work is there like fashion or advice), then it seems lame. I'm 27, and I think it'd be weird for a man over 30 to care so much about external validation that he has to post it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:53 PM
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I think women need to stop thinking every negative reaction they get is underlying sexism, like not getting a promotion or having to do more house chores. I had to tell my sister this because she was upset her husband only did the laundry and nothing else around the house, but she worked 20-30 hours a week and he worked 40-60. It's not sexist just because it's traditionally a woman's job. You fit the lifestyle you create sooo work more hours if you want him to be home and cook more? Also, hittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:27 PM
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That's was gonna be mine as well. So many women are quick to jump to the defense of other women without even hearing the man's side. Like the thought that every man is going to rape you but then also thinking that men themselves are pussys for not sleeping with her when she wants. Or thinking guys are shitty for not being in the kids life while also thinking mom's not in their kids life are just going thru a rough time. Thinking men need to work more hours than her and still come home and clean …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:19 PM
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You'd love for him to be leaps and bounds above normality for a woman like myself to consider dating him. He's far from familial nobility, but I'm sure you'll find another excuse of why you unjustly can't find a girl, so it really doesn't matter what I say. Get over yourself. I'd hate to be with someone who can't even look themselves in the eye and think there are things they need to improve on. So narcissistic, all the while so angry and insecure. Seriously, work on yourself, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:29 AM
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Definitely not. Short fit women like myself dating other short fit men. I'd say I'm objectively a 7-9, depending on your taste, and have my shit together sooo yeah. My bf definitely didn't settle if that's what you're alluding to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:43 AM
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How old was she?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:34 PM
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I'm dating a short guy (not even 5'5) and I've dated around that height before as well as guys up to 6'3. I see A LOT of short men with women, that's not to say there aren't issues you face, but it's really not as big of a deal for women older than like 24 and 100% is not impossible. If all you're doing is online dating then obviously younger women are going to be more shallow just as you're probably being too. The 6ft thing is for like barely legal girls only caring about the aesthetic of a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:30 PM
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I never said it diminishes her character, but you diminish his down to a rapist or abuser.. for literally no other reason than his appearance And this entire thread is about basic respect. We all know there's a way to say no with confidence, and that's not the same as purposely being a dick for no reason other than the person happens to be a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:44 PM
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I'm patronizing you because I say every person should be treated with respect? Also, my opinion is welcome because this is purple pill, which is for both red and blue pill to meet in the middle, and it's also a debate sub so get off if you don't want differing opinions like treat people with basic respect. What do you even get out of it? You're agreeing that you're being rude and disrespectful to men who have done absolutely nothing to you and you're trying to defend that stance by saying they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:36 PM
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How often has that happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:44 PM
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I'm a very attractive woman who gets a lot of attention, and I also have a bf. I never get mad at a guy shooting his shot unless he won't take no for an answer and being weird. I'm not super feminine either and I will 100% look you dead in the eye and say get the fuck away from me/ I already said no. Idk how old you are but the thought that men are just bothering you all the time is such a demeaning viewpoint to have. They are interrupting you, yes, but why are they already labeled as a bad guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:43 PM
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You don't think women in the Middle East are oppressed? Not being free= oppression. Being "coerced" into a lesser than role is oppression. The definition of oppression: "the state of being subject to unjust treatment or control." Those women are extremely oppressed, and again, you equated the two.. which you agreed to doing above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:32 AM
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Doesn't matter. You're still being rude unless they're being creepy. If an old lady came up to you and asked you to help put groceries in her car and you flat out say "no" and walk away, you'd be considered extremely rude. This doesn't apply to only women being considered rude for saying "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:22 AM
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Bro, are you serious? You literally just stated it. You're equating femininity to oppression by stating that wanting feminine women is the same as wanting them to not be free You also used an extremely oppressed group for an example of the freedom that femininity strips away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:11 AM
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That's essentially what you wrote. Feminine women aren't free
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:54 AM
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We don't really need hyper masculine men anymore. The type you can tell just by looking at such as beard, muscular, tough hands, defined jawline, etc. Those men were chosen as leaders because those qualities were literally needed, and now, we just need mentally strong men, and even then, it's not necessary. Society is set up for a cushioned life, and unless you're outside of that norm, you don't need to be overly masculine. I also read that birth control plays a factor in the type of man women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:57 PM
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Dude, just get over it. You got your degree. Why does it even matter anymore? I was the only girl in a very rigorous program and my teachers made me go to study hall and stay late, they'd tell me I did okaaaaaay but I could've done better. They made me cry on multiple occasions because they were so hard on me. My classmates didn't have to do nearly as much as I did and were respected more because they were men. I passed and got my degree anyway so why does it even matter anymore? You made it. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:02 PM
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Bedside manor is a huge role in being a professional. They want someone who can relate to all types of people and treat them with kindness and compassion and not categorize them into betas and alphas. Would you treat someone the same if they were a beta male and came in for an upset stomach as you would a woman? Thats probably your downfall, and they didn't think you're as amazing as you think you are. If you didn't want to be graded on your demeanor and attitude, you should have chosen a career…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:31 PM
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