ElectricRing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How do you reach out to exes? I usually just text that I am thinking about them and wondering how they are doing. If they respond there is still interest.	/r/seduction	12/05/26 11:41 PM
0	I hear a lot of people spreading the idea that a lot of men are MISSING opportunities with women by not approaching. The reality is they aren't You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. It works if you have charisma and basic social calibration. Fortunately as a guy you can work to improve both of those things. It’s a skill. You are going to suck at it at first. Cold approach, other forms of meeting people, it’s all the same. You just don’t naturally vibe with most other people. Why would cold approach be any different?	/r/seduction	08/05/26 07:10 PM
9	Why are you in a situation where cold approach is your primary way to meet potential partners? Ways of meeting people are not mutually exclusive. Also at some point you have explored all potential possibilities from your social circle, then what?	/r/seduction	07/05/26 04:35 PM
4	Sometimes I just don't get girls You didn’t ask her when she was free to see you, you nailed in Friday and you don’t know if she is free Friday. Generally is better to propose a few days that work for you, like two maximum three. Then get a day nailed down. Once you have that, I like to ask dietary preferences (partly that’s where I am located), then pick a causal restaurant, then lock down the time. This makes it easy for her and you ah by boxed yourself in proposing something she can’t do.	/r/seduction	27/04/26 08:25 PM
1	Do you guys think she was flirting? Bruh, obviously yes. Time to charm her.	/r/seduction	26/04/26 04:44 PM
12	How do I date sober? You don’t do anything different. The thing with alcohol is it just lowers your inhibitions. Makes you less self conscious and more willing to be forward. So that’s why it feels easy. So without alcohol you just have to override your inhibitions. Your confidence plays a part on this. When you are confident in yourself and not seeking external validation (good inner game), you can escalate more easily sober. It’s a good skill to have, and once you have done it more it won’t feel like a big deal.	/r/seduction	23/04/26 05:06 PM
4	How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time? What you are asking for is better communication and for someone else to change their default behavior. Aka for whether you want but be prepared for nothing to change, or for it to change and then you see backsliding.	/r/seduction	22/04/26 10:48 PM
51	How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time? You can’t make a flake not flakey. You can tell her, but in my experience these types of behaviors don’t change. You either accept it or you move on.	/r/seduction	22/04/26 06:30 PM
2	i just can't man i just can't Just talk to her dude. Don’t matter what she does. You want to pick her up or not?	/r/seduction	18/04/26 05:45 PM
5	Inviting a girl to a show that you’re playing Pros: being in a band and playing a guitar is considered cool (assuming you are decent and draw a crowd) and is a status thing. Also if you have other ladies/geoupies it can be a social proof thing. Cons: you have other things, like gear load in/out, merch, networking, fans wanting to talk to you, etc. So that means you have less attention to give her. Really depends a lot of what the band situation actually is for you though. If she feels neglected because you have other things you have to focu…	/r/seduction	16/04/26 06:40 PM
6	Why does it feel like good first dates randomly die out after?? Nothing going wrong just means it’s not a no. Date can still be ok and she can just be like, meh, nothing wrong per se. But that doesn’t mean you generated the strong attraction. You have to be her best option. It’s not that you did anything wrong, it’s just that your pull wasn’t strong enough to overcome everything else. This is going to happen though sometimes. All you can do is try to improve your in person charisma.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 05:27 PM
2	Frosted Flakes I usually just say “no problem. Let me know when you are free.” And they never do. I am considering just saying nothing.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 04:28 AM
3	Frosted Flakes The rule is if the flake once, they have to have a real good reason AND make the effort to reschedule, ie suggest days and times. If they don’t do that, cut them off.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 04:02 AM