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Incel = man on Reddit with an opinion I don't like
/r/MensRights12/09/25 02:36 PM
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He’s got dementia…his own home with a team of caregivers is literally the best place for him
/r/MensRights30/08/25 02:14 PM
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You can’t stop progress
/r/MensRights17/08/25 09:12 PM
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This “story” is based on a since deleted Reddit rage bait post - it didn’t happen
/r/MensRights16/08/25 03:37 PM
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Come on - there’s no way a woman wrote this!
/r/MensRights10/06/25 05:46 PM
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“vulnerable young male virgins” - all of whom are in their mid-late 20s.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 12:32 PM
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My obstacle to approaching is that it would be pointless unless I developed a masochistic streak
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:13 PM
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I don’t want to be humiliated in public so I don’t ever approach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:50 PM
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Being “single” as a woman is totally different to being single as a man - a “single” woman still dates, hooks up, has friends with benefits/situationships, etc. A single man is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:28 AM
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Sweden’s set a precedent for this: https://brusselssignal.eu/2025/04/swedish-supreme-court-rules-sweden-born-teenage-murderer-can-be-deported/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:12 PM
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Not sure if you’re trolling, but Hassan Sentamu is not a British name and he’s clearly not indigenous to this island
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:22 PM
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At no point was that mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:10 PM
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He stabbed her because she was ridiculing him online and dragging his wider peer group into it - the online bullying was the catalyst for the crime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:25 PM
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Why?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:05 PM
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If the genders were reversed would you say the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:56 PM
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He asked her out; she rejected him harshly then started insulting him on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:47 PM
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True - but most people don’t go to war zones for their summer holidays
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:33 PM
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Because that point is inconvenient
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:16 PM
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He was being bullied by the girl he killed and others in his school - he literally was being mistreated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:15 PM
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Lybia the failed state…?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:06 PM
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I wouldn’t exactly call it traumatising, but being kissed without consent isn’t nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:21 PM
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Have you even seen ‘Adolescence’?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:20 PM
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He wasn’t “into hardcore Incel ideology” - the only thing he admits to believing in is the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:19 PM
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I think the type of gyms you’re describing cater for a particular demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:33 AM
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Six feet+, six pack, earns six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:26 AM
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You’re 25 and your dad is 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:36 PM
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I’m thinking only of what’s best for the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:33 PM
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But if you did, you’d single handedly save PPD - a noble sacrifice for the greater good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:32 PM
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Where’s EqualSea when we need her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:59 PM
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Q4A - if you see someone using some variant of the phrase “the bar for men is in hell!” on the main, do you automatically assume that the poster is being disingenuous and trolling? I refuse to believe that anyone genuinely believes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:59 PM
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You genuinely think anyone wanks to Sports Illustrated in 2025?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:57 PM
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Good men = the ol’ 6-6-6
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:40 PM
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Oh boy - 16 comments in and the gaslighting is already off the fucking charts!!! If you want to pass the time, play a fun little drinking game where you take a swig of your liquor of choice every time you see some variation of “the bar for men is in hell!” - you’ll be shitfaced in no time; make it the end and you’ll have permanently damaged your liver
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:39 PM
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Really not sure if this is trolling or not, but swimsuits models? Do they even have those anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:37 PM
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I’ve often wondered that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:26 PM
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JanuaryPhilosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:18 PM
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Not even a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:50 PM
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Fuck…that poor, naive, desperate man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 PM
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I skim read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:42 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:31 PM
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I thought it’d be from the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:10 PM
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Out of interest, what year was this photo taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:48 PM
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The Easter Bunny is a prominent figure in the Gospel - to Christians, he holds a similar status to the Holy Mother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:09 PM
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Easter isn’t an Islamic tradition, as far as I’m aware
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:45 PM
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Marketing is not a real job: https://youtu.be/tHEOGrkhDp0?si=Ql9Hv6i8FLrdnZzc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:37 PM
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Why do I have to be “the loudest voice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:24 PM
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Aren’t your family Muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:04 PM
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I don’t think George Michael was ever seen as a “masculine sex symbol” - https://youtu.be/jZi4vz26psI?si=4tUXkiKF383DdzGV
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:02 PM
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Sociability is not defined by genetics; personality is socially constructed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:58 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:57 PM
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Being shorter, smaller, uglier, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:30 PM
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The girls I went to school with were not the “entire gender” and it happened when we were kids; as I said, my formative experiences gave me a very negative self-perception - had I seen myself differently at a younger age, then my life would have turned out differently, which is sort of the point of this post, I think, that is to say looks are part of the package but not the be all and end all, and confidence and personality play and equally big part; the absence of the latter two is the result o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:30 PM
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Have you ever been outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:26 PM
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What did you say to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:31 AM
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The injustice of it all As a kid, my female peers collectively decided I was ugly/disgusting and I got assigned to the looser pool; girls could never show an interest in me/date me, because it was considered socially unacceptable, so my formative years were defined by loneliness and isolation, which warped my sense of self-perception/self-worth and had lifelong repercussions. Others didn’t get that treatment and got to experience the usual formative milestones and grow into healthy, well adjuste…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:13 AM
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In public
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:19 AM
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Mine would be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:03 AM
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Not to be a pedant, but she wasn’t a princess when she married him - Kate isn’t even an aristocrat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:52 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but yes; nothing gets my blood boiling and the red mist descending like seeing a hot girl with an ugly boyfriend - even an average girl with a below average boyfriend can send me spiralling Dennis Reynolds-style
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:50 AM
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What if the gay man was big and hairy, so is a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:26 AM
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You want to change the definition of masculinity which is abandoning it by another name
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:07 PM
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The modern workplace is the HR department prancing around and squawking about their “itty bitty titties and a bob!” for the benefit of TikTok and occasionally sending emails - the barometer of “academic success” is how seamlessly you fit into this bullshit corporate culture; the “modern masculine ideal” is incompatible with this dystopian hellscape, which is why our feminized education system is fighting a loosing battle in trying to spiritually mass castrate males and turn them into docile dron…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:36 PM
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That’s what she’s telling him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:31 PM
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Many years ago, I used to regularly frequent a rock club in the north of England; there was one barmaid who came to recognise me/memorise my order, to the point where she’d often pour my pint when she saw me approaching the bar and would serve me without me asking for it. I just assumed she was doing due diligence to keep the queue to a minimum, but looking back…should I have interpreted this another way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:15 PM
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How did you reach that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:11 PM
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As Bill Hicks once sang - “Chicks Dig Jerks”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:50 PM
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Who, if we’re being honest, are the type of guys the ladies can’t resist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:01 PM
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I don’t doubt that there are people in genuine, mutually loving relationships; I just think they are rare and the exception rather than the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:41 PM
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Oofy Doofy wife guy goes to convoluted lengths to explain why his wife doesn’t want to fuck her Beta Male Provider: https://np.reddit.com/r/Vent/s/PZeOnof6h9
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:24 PM
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One could argue that his ability to scam and grift off of the nativity of others is what makes him a role model
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:20 PM
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In relationship = beta buxed and settled for and on the rare occasions she tolerates him fucking she’s thinking of all the alpha bad boys that railed her back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:19 PM
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The “just be a good person” shibboleth, be passive, treat women with respect, be a kind decent person, etc - none of the stuff that actually works, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:10 PM
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Andrew Tate is diligently filling the “void of positive guidance” and look at how he gets treated!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:05 PM
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“non-western wife” - you mean an immigrant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:03 PM
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Much like the Blue Pill in which case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:02 PM
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Who gets to decide who is a “positive” role model?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:02 PM
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A man with a vision, a message, and a loyal group of misunderstood followers - there are indeed parallels
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:32 PM
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“Why aren’t men providing the advice that boys and men need - NO, NOT LIKE THAT!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:32 PM
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There is such a man, his name is Andrew Tate and he’s dispensing advice to a whole generation of boys - and what thanks does he get? He’s persecuted, pilloried, mocked and ridiculed, his followers shamed and abused. Much like another person with a message that the authorities didn’t like and who we remember today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:03 AM
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If you’re a beta guy who doesn’t want to be beta bux then the only solution is to not date and give up on women - you don’t choose whether to be alpha or beta; it’s a status assigned to you, and if you’re in the latter category, then women will only ever view you as a financial resource to be exploited and discarded. So your choice is either to get used or don’t put yourself in the the position where you’ll be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:55 PM
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Being “beta bux” means you’re being used as a glorified ATM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:50 PM
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She settled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:19 PM
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Black coulds and silver linings, etc, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:34 PM
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Unfortunate, but if you ever have a daughter, she may inherit her grandmother’s ass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:31 PM
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On the flip side, that does suggest that your mom had a nice ass, which is a positive for you from a genetic perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:27 PM
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That must have been an...interesting conversation with your mother
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:55 PM
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No, I mean guys who are pieces of shit, such as: https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/he-hands-around-neck-looking-31431413
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:59 AM
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To be fair, women flock to men who are absolute pieces of shit like, well, flies to pieces of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:40 PM
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The article states that he’s a celebrity in Uganda - therefore, his two wives were clearly gold-digging Most of us not minor celebrities in a third world country where a handful of chump change puts you in the top 1% of earners, so comparatively, our circumstances are worse and therefore we do have an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:39 PM
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On a Bank Holiday?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:21 PM
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INTJ - but I think Myers Briggs it’s a load of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:14 PM
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Not sure that you quite grasp the concept of irony
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:09 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:34 PM
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r/DoomerCircleJerk is a strong contender for the worst sub on Reddit - the radioactive smugness of the fart huffing neckbeards that inhabit that place is off the fucking charts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:46 PM
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Painted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:45 PM
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She can’t just fire me - we’re in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:45 PM
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They don’t like being talked back to, but if you want to get banned, knock yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:32 PM
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The last time it was for posting “Contentless Rhetoric” because I challenged the OP in a post flared as ‘Debate’
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:31 PM
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She can can want me to leave all she fucking wants
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:30 PM
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It’s a matter of principle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:18 PM
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I don’t particularly want to stick my dick in it - she’s reasonably attractive for a 40 year old, but would simply criticise everything I did and reduce the act to a demoralising humiliation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:16 PM
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As someone who has been banned multiple times for spurious and arbitrary reasons, I beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:14 PM
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This post reads like it was written by someone who has never been in a date in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:13 PM
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Careful - that’s a Mod you’re taking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:12 PM
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I was here first
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:10 PM
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Q4A - how bad an idea would it be to make a “joke” about my manager being on her period to her face? Obviously it’s bad, but is it ‘awkward conversation with HR’ bad or ‘nuclear fallout you aren’t coming back from this’ bad? For context; I really don’t like her and want to both humiliate her and make it very clear I have zero respect for her either as a colleague or a human being - but I also need to keep my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:01 PM
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Hypergamy is not fake; it’s very real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:19 PM
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cough Hypergamy cough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:21 PM
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Ask their mother to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:30 PM
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I didn’t claim otherwise, but the OP is making the case for older women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:27 AM
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She’s apparently still single at 46, so go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:26 AM
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Women generally don’t age well - a 46 year old is going to have a fat ass, flabby gunt, saggy tits, etc. She may “feel that she still has it” and may well “do all sorts of crazy, freaky things in bed” but she’s still middle-aged, and even men her own age aren’t going to want to fuck her Also, if she’s pushing 50 and she’s still single, there’s going to be a reason for it, and not a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:33 AM
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Then what, what? I don’t understand the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:29 AM
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Are those random men on Reddit the spokespeople for all 4bn men on the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:43 PM
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That’s another straw man; nobody has ever seriously claimed women have a responsibility to “fix this problem” - it’s a micro issue; there’s no Men’s Union and Women’s Union who can sit down and collectively agree what the common dating protocol should be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:23 PM
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How do you help younger guys get dates - are you a matchmaker or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:15 PM
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“No one is owed a relationship or sex” - FFS, who do people keep trotting that line out? Nobody has ever seriously claimed that anyone is entitled to those things - expressing frustration at not having them is not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:14 PM
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It’s exactly that, shit - you can check the OP’s post history; it speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:43 PM
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Given that the OP hasn’t bothered to provide a source to back up that claim, I think we can guess where they plucked it from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:42 PM
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Why should we “help everyone to find a good person to be with” and how would that even work in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:54 PM
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Is there are any research that backs up that claim that “men are most attracted to 18yrs old’s (sic)” or did you just make it up to flesh out your lazy rage bait post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:53 PM
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Except that would be being dishonest, because while everyone is technically equal, in practice, certain groups get special and preferential treatment - if you have a class taught by an aging millennial girlboss, you can bet she’s treating the girls very differently to the boys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:41 AM
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I assume you mean “manosphere” influencers? What should they be telling boys and young men - that they deserve less? That they should be subservient to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:21 AM
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Which men would these be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:58 AM
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How do we explain historical misogyny? Religion. But we live in secular society (or at least I do) so that’s not really relevant anymore; the fact is that boys aren’t born evil and turn into evil misogynists because it’s within their nature to do so - rather are shaped by their environment and formative experiences, and the inconvenient truth is that how women treat them plays a significant role in that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:42 AM
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Misandry creates misogynists - young boys views of women are shaped by the way they are treated in their formative years, be it by female relatives, female authority figures (such as teachers) and their female peers. What you casually dismiss as “hurt feelings” can have long term repercussions; if you are repeatedly humiliated, mocked and ridiculed by the opposite gender during childhood and adolescence, you’re not going to grow up with a particularly positive attitude towards them. If we take a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:48 AM
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You can’t kill something that isn’t alive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:37 AM
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Which is regrettable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:33 AM
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It was for want of a better world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:32 AM
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Define “normal life” - my self-confidence and sense of self-worth were shaped by my formative experiences and there were repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:32 AM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:41 PM
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The writers weren’t actually aware of Red Pill/incel culture when the idea was conceived; Stephen Graham wanted to make a drama about a boy killing a girl, and his starting point was that there’d be no mitigating circumstances (e.g. not being the victim of abuse) - the incel/manosphere angle was suggested during the production stage. A major part of the plot is that the adult characters aren’t aware of any of this stuff (e.g. the SIO’s son having to explain the emoji’s under the killer’s instagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:36 PM
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Given the circumstances under which that photo was taken, that’s still pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:19 PM
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Each to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:18 PM
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That was taken shortly after she was arrested for multiple murders, so doesn’t capture her at her best
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:02 PM
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I always thought that she was kinda cute, and had a nice wholesome girl next door vibe about her (possibly being a serial killer not withstanding)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:01 PM
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To be fair, that is her mugshot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:57 PM
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That’s a bit harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:57 PM
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Indeed, but there’s a growing consensus that she didn’t actually do what she was convicted of doing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:56 PM
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No, because it’s never fucking happened!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:46 PM
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For what it’s worth, I for one, would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:45 PM
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Q4M: is Lucy Letby a “baddie”*? <image> *I don’t mean in the sense that she may have killed a number of children, but in the other sense of the word
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:44 PM
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Come on dude, we all know the answer - Hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:42 PM
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I used to work with someone who once turned up to work wearing Crocs - it a long held regret that I didn’t take the piss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:11 PM
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This is a very Blue Pill interpretation, and I think you’re projecting a lot of stuff that was left open to interpretation in the show - my take was that he was an unpopular/ostracised kid with an emotionally distant/uninvolved father who, after a misguided attempt at asking a girl out backfired and resulted in a deluge of online ridicule/humiliation, he ended up doing something regrettable. As I said previously, the discourse this show has prompted focuses solely on male behaviour, pathologisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:42 PM
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I’ve no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:25 PM
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He supposed to be 13, and that’s not abnormal behaviour for a kid that age - it’s also established in episode three that he and his friends were regarded as the losers of the year group and ostracised - that’s likely a bigger factor in her rejecting him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:56 PM
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Start with kindness and there’ll be no relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:46 PM
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I’ve seen it, and I think you’re filling in a lot of gaps there - the motive isn’t made clear until episode three when he reveals to the psychologist that he asked the victim out, was rejected, and she then went on to mock him on Instagram for being a ugly incel. I think that aspect was surprisingly underdeveloped, but I guess that what happens when you want to do every episode in a single take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:45 PM
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What happened in 2008 is that the global financial system upon which was built the foundations of the post Cold War world order was revealed to be a giant Ponzi scheme, and the elite group of technocrats who were entrusted to run said financial system, which we were led to believe was far too complex for mere mortals to understand and thus must be free of democratic oversight, were exposed as charlatans and criminals. Their reward was the bailed out to the tune of billions of public money before…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:47 PM
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Because that’s what you write - boys can’t hack school so Trump should build factories for them to work in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:40 PM
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We no longer have factories, because all those jobs were offshored in the 80s - I was told to go to university, which I did, but the fruitful and rewarding career I was promised failed to materialise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:31 PM
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Half the population of the planet can’t get GEDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:29 PM
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It’s only “shameful” in the sense that the women who threw themselves at him realised that they weren’t as special as they thought - from a male perspective, this guy won at life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:00 AM
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I’m sure that saying a man is so sexually successful that he’s slept with most of the “community” is really an insult to be honest - it’s more like a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:18 AM
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Expressing the “slightest frustration about being single” makes a man “openly misogynistic” who “cries” - you’re not doing much to counter the OPs argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:15 AM
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Not having sex is a source of negative feelings because for men because from a young age we’re bombarded with the message that virginity is a humiliating badge of shame and not being able to get a GF/have sex is an irredeemable character flaw that makes you worthy only of ridicule and contempt. When I was growing up in the early 00s, the hapless male virgin who endured endless humiliations was a stick character of comedies from the era - the message was clear; if the girls weren’t into you it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:13 AM
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The old “sticks and stones” argument - calling someone an incel is a means of reinforcing the idea that they are unworthy of/incapable of getting sex, and as I said previously, that’s a line of attack that women - particularly young women - deploy with relish. Men are taught from a young age that our value is derived from our ability to intersect with the opposite gender - sex is a reward and denial of it is a punishment because society judges men who are sexually unsuccessful extremely harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:08 AM
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I think this is a tad simplistic; what drives a lot of the bitterness and disillusionment is the rank hypocrisy and double standards we see the majority of women exhibit. In our formative years, we learned very quickly which boys the girls deemed desirable, and it wasn’t the guys who treated them with kindness; quite the opposite - if you had the misfortune of being shy/quiet/reserved you were doomed to spend your formative years being relentlessly ridiculed and treated like shit by your female …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:51 AM
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No shit! I thought it was a documentary! A work of fiction it may be, but it has nonetheless sparked a “national conversation” in the UK about “toxic masculinity” - what isn’t talked about is the “toxic femininity” that drives, encourages and reinforces much of the negative behaviour exhibited by boys and young men; for every Andrew Tate wannabe, there is a female influencer parroting rehashed r/FemaleDatingStrategy talking points and given the opposite gender a warped perception of their counte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:44 AM
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Something that was conveniently omitted from the discourse/moral panic sparked by ‘Adolescence’ is that [spoilers] the main character was being bullied online and ridiculed for being an ugly incel who was destined for a life of perpetual virginity - girls learn from an early age that sex is something they can weaponise, and either use the promise of as a means to manipulate men, or use the denial of access to it as mean to punish men they see as undesirable/unworthy. Their attitude to sex on any…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:50 AM
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The go hand in hand - the herd mentality is that, if a man is sexually unsuccessful, then he must be a creep; from personal experience at school, these labels were imposed arbitrarily and without basis, i.e. the girls simply decided that certain boys were virgins/losers and made sure everyone hammered that message home (which is essentially the plot of ‘Adolescence’)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:35 AM
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And that’s why we have Andrew Tate - a father figure for a whole generation of men, telling them how it is, doing the Lord’s work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:32 AM
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There is no community anymore; the Boomers tore up the social contract in the 80s - now we’re just atomised individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:31 AM
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Condemning half the population to manual labour while the other half get handed well paid bullshit jobs where they can spend the day prancing about and squawking about their “itty bitty titties and bob!” is the sort of division that leads to revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:34 AM
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We’ve all seen that TikTok video of the modern, female dominated workplace and it doesn’t seem like they’re doing very much work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:30 AM
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The “baseline understanding of the world around them” means that they are conditioned to view the world in a particular way and not question the authority of the people for whom the world is shaped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:27 AM
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Why should any of us do anything for the “good of the community”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:35 PM
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What is the purpose of the “education” system? From my experience, it had less to do with educating and more to do with indoctrination and stomping on individuality with the purpose of churning out generation after generation of kids who could pass exams and obtain the requisite - but ultimately meaningless - set of grades but would never question why we had to endure years of hell just so that at the end of it we could either get a shitty, pointless, soul destroying bullshit job or be consigned…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:34 PM
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We don’t need no education We don’t need no thought control No dark sarcasm in the classroom Teachers, leave them kids alone Hey, teacher, leave us kids alone All in all, you’re just another brick in the wall All in all, you’re just another brick in the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:21 PM
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This is pretty racist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:58 PM
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But millions could have been saved from Soviet tyranny and, by crushing the Red Army, there would have been no Cold War and threat of nuclear annihilation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:59 PM
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Q4A - was Churchill right; at the end of WW2, should the allies have gone straight into WW3 with a surprise attack on the Russians to drive them out of Europe: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Unthinkable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:45 PM
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Neoliberalism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:31 PM
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I don’t think it’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:58 PM
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I wish I could have surgically removed from my brain the parts than make me crave love; I get why it exists from an evolutionary perspective, but in 2025 it’s a hindrance - I no longer want to be human; I want to transcend, to become a machine with no feelings or emotions, and to no longer dream of the impossible, to long and yearn for something that will never be. That part of me is weak, and pathetic, and it’s humiliating to feel the way I do right now - I want it gone, because life would be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:56 PM
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I’m sure someone is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:49 PM
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I was never anything to her other than an irritation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:48 PM
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It’s easy to believe in female Hypergamy, the 80:20 rule, etc…until you’re forced to confront the evidence that disproves all the easy and reassuring answers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:48 PM
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The guy who appears to be her new boyfriend isn’t even particularly good looking; not ugly, granted, but nothing special. However, in the photo she’s posted of them standing side by side he’s only slightly taller than her - i.e. he is significantly shorter than me!!! If I’d lost out to some 6’5 ultra ripped gym bro, then I could accept that, because that’s the way Mother Nature intended it to be; but this is, quite frankly, hard to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:27 PM
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Absolutely not - and as someone who is in an management role, let me tell you that nobody respects people who pull that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:49 AM
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By…just avoiding them; it’s not difficult: I don’t “avoid” approaching women, I just don’t I’ve never had a reason to help a woman in public, but if I did, I just wouldn’t In the gym, I keep my head down and ignore everyone around me In the workplace it’s slightly harder, because I can’t ignore people outright, but I don’t interact with anyone unless it’s work related and I absolutely have to Nobody is forced to get married; it’s not something you have to “avoid” doing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:38 AM
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I have travelled across the universe through the years to find her. Sometimes going all the way is just a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:09 PM
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Can confirm this is true, for me anyway - I always fall hard for women who intimidate me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:29 PM
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And that’s called cod-intellectualism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:01 AM
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That’s absurdly simplistic - plenty of people want relationships/casual sex but can’t find others who want those things with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:22 AM
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It’s a job that attracts a certain type, i.e., the type who need to wear stupid uniforms and carry guns to feel big and important
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:39 PM
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The mod lacks a sense of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:02 PM
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First time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:03 PM
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Watching ‘Critters 4’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:48 PM
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Me when I see other men in her Instagram stories
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:47 PM
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I think someone is having a little fun with the dweebs at r/guycry (a sub from which I’m permabanned, incidentally)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:40 PM
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Pardon?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:08 PM
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Few people choose that profession by choice, so by using sex workers, you’re flying very close to “rapey” territory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:07 PM
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For non Americans, visiting the US today is as sensible as taking a trip to Germany circa 1936: https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2025/04/12/ice-tourist-detention-border-trump-immigration/82740260007/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:37 PM
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The one I am now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:25 PM
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Probably to mask the smell of BO and farts that cigarette smoke used to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:24 PM
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That’s how they do it in France
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:13 PM
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Try going to a club where smoking is banned - when indoor smoking was made illegal in the UK, the aroma of clubs…changed dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:12 PM
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You don’t have to use the apps; but if you’re an a average man and you try approaching a woman outside of Tinder et al, then it’s not going to end well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:08 PM
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She and Lilly Phillips should do a head to head challenge and show the world that British girls are a cut above the rest when it comes to this sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:02 PM
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Presumably, not a serious one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:59 PM
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They’re gonna put me in jail? Man, I’m already in jail Don’t they know that my life Is just one big cell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:59 PM
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Don’t you just love PPD mods? Challenge the female OP in a debate post and you’ll get slapped with a ‘Be Civil!’ and ‘Do not post contentless rhetoric!’ warning, because when women post, no debate is tolerated and we’re supposed to circle jerk in agreement with whatever bullshit they’ve queefed out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:44 PM
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I would honesty rather fuck a dude that the thing in the video
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:29 AM
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Any guy approaching that creature in the video is significantly lowering his standards, so cut him some slack
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:07 AM
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And the Blue Pill continues to insist that hypergamy isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:07 AM
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The question should be, why would any man approach her in the first place, because she’s fucking ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:02 AM
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Check the post history - they are a persistent troll that , for reasons unknown, the mods allow to repeatedly make bad faith posts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:01 AM
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No - hence why there have been countless uprisings and revolutions throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:49 PM
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While the Blue Pill will insist that the 80:20 rule is a myth, this valiant Swede as proven them all wrong because [checks notes] he knows an chubby single mother who dated a lawyer - bravo, good sir! I tip my hat to you - you truly are doing the Lord’s work!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:21 AM
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It’s the right kind of black pill - a light, blueish shade of black, if you will; the OP is pontificating that certain undesirable men should voluntarily remove themselves from the gene pool and let the top 20% of men enjoy the spoils of womankind; he’s framing it in a twee, positive, cod-progressive way that keeps him on the right side of the Mods because this is what most of them believe too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:54 AM
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Maybe women “need to accept” that their reproductive rights aren’t guaranteed, and nor is their right to work, vote and own property, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:50 AM
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If you’re “always saying it all over Reddit”it sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself more than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:47 AM
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Do you have any idea how patronising it is to be told “JuSt fOcuS oN hObbIeS!” in lieu of a meaningful relationship? I honestly can’t tell if you’re a troll or this is a cultural thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:45 AM
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Do poor people “need to accept” that financial security and a decent standard of living may not be on the cards for them? Your whole argument is deeply patronising and insulting (and I half suspect you’re trolling, given the “just focus on hobbies!” cliche you toss in); if you’ve been given a raw deal and dealt a shitty hand in life then you don’t “need to accept” that - if you are deprived of and denied something others take for granted, then you have every right to feel bitter and resentful an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:46 AM
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Isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:30 AM
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Would Eva Braun have been interested in him were he just a struggling artist? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:02 PM
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In my case, it requires selling my soul, which you would have thought would be easy, but believe me, it isn’t!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:37 PM
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Hitler had a long term partner, and even got married (albeit shortly before committing suicide) despite all the mischief he got up to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:36 PM
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If you suspect the child isn’t yours, that’s pretty much exactly when you should get one done
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:33 PM
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The obvious solution - just get the test done behind her back; I don’t know why people make such a big song and dance about this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:32 PM
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And pray tell, what is it that they must do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:09 PM
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Are you Amish or something? In 2025 being single at 30 is perfectly normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:09 PM
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No, he killed his housemates quite deliberately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:34 PM
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Ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:07 PM
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Is abortion legal there? I always assumed it wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:06 PM
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He killed several men, so I think it’s a bit if a stretch to call him an MRA
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:04 PM
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cough Elon Musk cough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:32 PM
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There a grifters, charlatans and bad faith actors of both genders flooding the zone with shit - the ass has two cheeks, one male, one female, and both are equally culpable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:31 PM
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It may be more accurate to say that he was radicalised by social media, as TikTok et al are hardly “progressive spaces” and the women you are describing are a vocal minority
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:15 PM
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You’re back!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:00 PM
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Sounds like you’re describing a gay commune
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:24 AM
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Are “a lot of men” really “speaking about quitting dating, relationships [and] moving abroad” - because you haven’t provided any evidence to back this up? If you want to “go away” then…just go away; the reason I can see for this post is that you want people to persuade you not to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:37 AM
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You’re two days late for an April Fools troll post and you’ve stolen the schtick of another notorious troll so you automatically loose points for a lack of originality - the post itself is also rather dry; the aim her is clearly to provoke by reducing men down to two dimensional caricatures whose entire existence revolves around sex; your language needed to be far more insulting and dehumanising. You also should have included a TikTok video on which to base your entire argument and claim it to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:37 AM
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Exactly - Trumps overturned 70 years of Atlanticism in just over four months
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:58 PM
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What exactly you think the EU is?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:36 PM
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Don’t encourage him - he’ll start spouting shit about NATO and how the “Europoors” will have to do as their told because…Russia or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:30 PM
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You really want a man who “forbids” you to do things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:28 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:48 PM
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Well, at least it wasn’t Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:47 PM
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There’s at least one; I’m not going to name them, because that’s against the sub rules, but they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:50 PM
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And that’s why we have porn - a limitless supply of free instructional videos for men! Obviously, this isn’t necessarily going to result in a great experience for the women, but at least the guy knows what he’s doing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:48 PM
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You know April Fool’s Day was yesterday, right? Women are not a monolith - different women will have different levels of experience at different ages and differing expectations; there is no universal right or wrong, only what’s right for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:46 PM
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I was literally asking a hypothetical question - how is pointing out that my hypothetical answer isn’t something that happened a “gotcha”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:48 PM
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Was it a sex dream about one of the PPD women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:19 PM
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I will go first: [knocks on bedroom door] “sorry to bother you…look, if your mother asks, can you do me a favour and tell her I’ve spoken to you? Yeah, don’t worry, it’s nothing important, but you know what women are like…right, I guess you don’t…anyway I’ll let you get back to your TikTok video…is that Andrew Tate? Don’t mention that to your mother - night”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:06 PM
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Q4M: imagine that you are married with a 13 year old son; your wife has watched the hit Netflix drama ‘Adolescence’ and is now racked with anxiety and wants you to have a “talk” with your son - how do you approach it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:03 PM
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In the UK, we are apparently having a “national conversation” about “toxic masculinity” prompted by ‘Adolescence’ - but where are there is a moral panic about the influence of manosphere/incel influencers on young men, nothing is said about their female counterparts. The narrative the OP is outlining is being pushed relentlessly on TikTok/Instagram by bad faith actors, and it’s a lot easier for a teenage boy to get sucked into the Red Pill/Black Pill narrative when their feed is full of women gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:32 AM
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I called him a “pig of a man” - what exactly do you think I meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:38 PM
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It’s in the eye of the beholder at the end of the day, but not exactly; he looked like the old comic book character Desperate Dan - but as I said, he believed himself to be God’s gift, and that confidence goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:37 PM
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As far as I know, the w he’s married to is a solicitor and earns considerably more than him; I’m not privy to what exactly she saw in him, but that’s who she chose
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:20 PM
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It takes two to tango; but one leads, the other follows
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:07 PM
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This happened to a guy I had the misfortune of working with some years back; he was an ignorant, lazy, obnoxious pig of a man, yet one who was blessed with a swaggering douchebag confidence, and who genuinely believed that he was God’s gift to women and could sleep with any woman he wanted; as a result, he was in a LTR with a girl way out of his league and who he treated like shit. He was also a massive mummy’s boy who lived at home into his 30s, being waited on hand and foot, having all his was…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:57 PM
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This happened to a guy I had the misfortune of working with some years back; he was an ignorant, lazy, obnoxious pig of a man, yet one who was blessed with a swaggering douchebag confidence, and who genuinely believed that he was God’s gift to women and could sleep with any woman he wanted; as a result, he was in a LTR with a girl way out of his league and who he treated like shit. He was also a massive mummy’s boy who lived at home into his 30s, being waited on hand and foot, having all his was…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:56 PM
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In which case, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:26 PM
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Yes, this hypothetical person has never seen the appeal of that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:23 PM
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As I said, it’s a hypothetical person I’m referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:21 PM
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Switching to being the dominant one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:20 PM
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Q4W: what would be your thought/perception of a (hypothetical) heterosexual man who is outwardly masculine, but inclined towards sexual submissiveness? And I don’t mean femdom/BDSM stuff (necessarily) but rather that their preferred dynamic would be one where their partner takes the lead/dominates during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:52 PM
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It’s against the sub rules to troll, but the mods mysteriously fail to notice their posts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:28 PM
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They borrowed Grider’s design, but it’s been around for over a decade, so I very much doubt anyone still thinks it’s a good place to find a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:49 PM
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Even by the standards of this poster, this is a weak attempt - could people stop engaging with them in good faith because this has gotten beyond tedious?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:41 PM
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They have to be a mod’s alt account - that’s the only explanation as to why they keep getting away with this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:40 PM
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<image> As a teenager I (attempted) to take up bodybuilding to look like this guy…and failed miserably
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:35 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed to get through to young men like hectoring, shaming, finger wagging and heavy handed lectures about how their berth being is “toxic” - https://www.mediaplaynews.com/netflixs-adolescence-to-be-streamed-at-all-u-k-high-schools/ Stephen Graham is unwittingly going to be the manosphere’s biggest recruiter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:03 PM
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The shibboleth that Tinder is or was ever supposed to be a hookup app needs to die; it is, and always has been, a dating app and I think that the idea that, in 2025, any man is under the delusion that he’ll readily fins NSA sex through is is fanciful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:56 PM
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Yes, that was the year, so I’m told
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:22 PM
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My Uncle Ted was said to be something of a “lady killer” back in his day - his technique was a bit unconventional; he’d pretend to have a broken arm and ask women to help him get something from the back - a tad unethical, granted, but this did provide him with an opening and he apparently had a 100% success rate. Sadly I was never able to meet him, as he died before I was born, which is a shame, because a number of relatives on his side of the family have commented that I remind them of him (tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:25 PM
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And people insist that the 80:20 rule isn’t real…anyhow, you gonna enlighten us as to what the other ways of getting a GF are?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:20 PM
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Call me cynical, but the author of that article looks like Uncle Fester in an Addams Family reboot - I don’t think we should take his advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:18 PM
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The black pill says looks are the be all and end all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:48 PM
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I’d have swapped places with Harald Finehair in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:48 PM
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Are you…endorsing the back pill?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:43 PM
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I’m not really interested
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:42 PM
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The ultimate dom mommy:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:36 PM
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Women attempt suicide as a cry for help/attention; men quietly do what needs to be done without a fuss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:31 PM
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Yeah, old Boomer farts - no thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:30 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:30 PM
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I feel that his unwillingness to compromise with male pattern baldness simply enhances his undeniable Alpha Male aura
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:30 PM
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Only a small number of men can pull it off, e.g. <image> For most men, it’s a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:36 PM
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It’s kind of strange that a very British production would have influenced parents in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:35 PM
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I’ve never been to therapy, and I have zero intention of paying a substantial amount of money to be patronised once a week by a millennial girlboss with a psyche degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:33 PM
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I don’t exactly get the impression that she’d be up for that TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:53 PM
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She’s actually quite small/slim
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:38 PM
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I asked ChatGPT to analysis posts I’d made in her about a woman who goes to my gym; according it I…want to submit to/be dominated by her, which was unexpected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:31 PM
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Why would a wife tell her husband that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:09 AM
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10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:44 AM
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I like the idea that ‘Adolescence’ has prompted waves of concerned parents to have a frank discussion with their teenage offspring, resulting in loads of oofy doofy wife guys being told to their face that they are a Beta Male provider who was settled for after mum was done riding the cock carousel by their own son
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:09 AM
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It was a telesales job - some people would be very rude when called, and I responded in kind and got caught
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:31 PM
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How much younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:23 PM
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Depends on what you did to get fired - when it happened to me, I was escorted off the premises
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:22 PM
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Threaten to quit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:11 PM
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This is discriminatory!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:27 PM
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Why are you replying to a 58 day old post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:29 PM
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I guess we can look forward to several days of you know who Tweeting about invading the UK again: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/mar/29/protesters-picket-london-tesla-showroom-anti-musk-demonstrations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:17 PM
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Viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:53 PM
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Kill it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:54 PM
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There’s a line in the film ‘71 that sums up the British army: “posh cunts, telling thick cunts, to shoot poor cunts”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:52 PM
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71 degrees centigrade!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:51 PM
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I can live with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:43 PM
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I think that’s a bit of a stretch - most of PPD aren’t reliant on their parents for internet access
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:34 PM
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PPD or r/Vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:31 PM
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Cometh the hour, cometh the man: https://np.reddit.com/r/Vent/s/MWQVNI1MOn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:59 PM
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“I want a boyfriend so bad…all I’m asking for is that he must be 6’5, which a square jaw, blond hair, blue eyes, a six pack, and ten inch dick; and he must earn six figures and have a trust fund…where have all the good men gone!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:56 PM
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How big is your kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:52 PM
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Then you’d be wrong, because the 80:20 rule only applies to one gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:51 PM
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Five ovens!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:34 PM
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When you’re only attracted to the top 20% of the opposite gender but have none of the attributes that would allow you to bag someone in that bracket, you’re either going to have to “settle” or pay for your own shit - most of you choose the former
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:33 PM
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Sorry, but a priest trying too hard to be “cool” will never be anything other than lame
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:05 PM
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They want to have their cake and eat it - equality when it suits them, special treatment and privileges when it doesn’t; regard them with the appropriate level of contempt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:01 PM
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Are you really expecting a sensible answer to this? What they will never admit is that liberal girlboss feminism is built upon the patently absurd premise that white, college-educated middle-class women are the most oppressed demographic in human history, which requires them to wilfully ignore the glut of evidence that runs counter to this, such as the inconvenient fact that men are not a monolith Trump-voting hive mind who all want to take away their reproductive rights and force them into dome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:03 PM
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The company had an abysmal record for customer service, so nothing would have been done and I would still have been kicked off the train
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:12 PM
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Here’s what went down - jobsworth train guard tried to play the big man and make me pay for an extra ticket despite having a valid one; he quickly realises he’s fucked with the wrong person and shits himself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:43 PM
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Train guards generally don’t carry knives, and if he’d pulled one, he’d have lost his job and faced criminal charges
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:41 PM
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What if there’s only one parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:41 PM
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The anger questionnaire poster earlier reminded me of an incident many years ago when a train guard insisted my perfectly valid ticket wasn’t - I unleashed what can only be described as a torrent of foul mouthed abuse as I followed him up and down the train; he tried to hold his ground, but his voice was quivering as he reminded my that the train had CCTV. I never saw him again on the network.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:12 PM
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With a mixture of discomfort and fear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:07 PM
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Mandated as in, is the law? Like, if a man doesn’t want to take three months off work to look after his kids he goes to jail instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:44 AM
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Yes, and that’s why I suspect she had a nefarious ulterior motive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:40 AM
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We taking this at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:49 AM
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They guy is old enough to be her father by a comfortable margin; he should be invisible to her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:13 AM
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Weird and abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:07 AM
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A cautionary tale for any man working in an office - she knew full well that she was was doing, no doubt trying to manipulate the poor chump into a situation where HR would have to get involved and she could cry her way to an out of court settlement. Looks like she got cold feet, so this schlub got a luck escape, but he’d have nobody to blame but himself had the shit hit the fan. Personally, I am always cold/aloof towards my female colleagues to leave them in no doubt that I am not susceptible t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:56 AM
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I can’t realistically have kids, but it was a hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:48 AM
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What about “mother, wife, daughter”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:19 AM
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Q4A: Will you fall for the con a second time: https://www.reuters.com/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/bird-flu-spreads-mammals-fears-human-transmission-2025-03-24/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:33 AM
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Low effort, by the numbers bait that’s trying too hard to rile people up - you need to dial it back a notch and make your argument more plausible; in giving you a D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:33 AM
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This does not tally with my personal experience, having known a number of older men, including my father, who cared for their wives during periods of sickness and physical decline. I’m not disputing that it does happen, by I think this is one of those subjects where the data tends to reinforce personal prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:16 PM
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I think that’s the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:39 PM
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I don’t watch cartoon porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:29 PM
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There are exceptions to #notallmen - i.e. all men consume porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:29 PM
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I don’t consume those things, only the real McCoy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:12 PM
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There are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:11 PM
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Porn has been around since the Neolithic period
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:02 PM
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How’s he going to masturbate without porn?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:56 PM
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All men watch porn; most of us will have grown up with porn being free and easily available and will have consumed it for the entirety of our adult lives. Asking a man to abstain isn’t a reasonable request.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:55 PM
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Completely unreasonable and unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:33 PM
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What for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:31 AM
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Empirical evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:55 AM
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Don’t ask me - I’m not a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:44 AM
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You can’t all marry a 6’5 man who works in finance and has a trust fund - some of you have to make do with what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:13 AM
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That’s not what I wrote, clearly; the child is simply an instrument through which to nail down a man’s financial resources and keep him on the hook financially long term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:43 AM
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It’s the “manosphere delusion zone” until she serves you the divorce papers, but by then, the revelation has come far too late
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:40 AM
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The function of the Beta Male Provider is to subsidise his partners lifestyle; he doesn’t have to be rich, just earn enough to cover the household expenses and allow her to maintain a disposable income. The divorce rape won’t set her up for life, but will allow her to grab a chunk of his assets/property and child maintenance will ensure a steady flow of cash until the kid turns 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:38 AM
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It’s usually within the wider context of divorce rape, with the mother having primarily conceived the child first to financially trap the man and then to maximise the divorce settlement. Now, it goes without saying that this could be avoided by men not marrying or having children to begin with - which I fully advocate for - but if a man did go down that route under the naive belief that his partner really did love him, the realisation that he was only ever a Beta Male Provider who’s sole purpose…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:29 AM
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Now this is how you write a troll post! You’ve got all the bases covered - sweeping generalisations, casual misandry, dehumanising language - and you’ve managed to cram in every gender-war discussion point while keeping the tone plausibly neutral and on the right side of believable. A fine effort! I’m deducting a point for a lack of originality because the title is one that’s been done countless times before, but I’m giving you a solid A-
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:34 AM
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I don’t think there’s much chance of that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:54 PM
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Sweeping generalisations - check! Casual misandry - check! Dehumanising half the planet - check! However, while you’ve got all of the bases covered, I’m afraid that this bait lacks originality and imagination, and it feels like you aren’t fully committed to the part, so I’m giving you a D; you need to spice it up a bit, make yourself sound more obnoxious and entitled, and throw in repeated references to “males” - you need to do better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:53 PM
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So tells us - which men should go extinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:13 PM
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Not the one advocating eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:43 PM
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I’m not the one advocating eugenics here buddy, or claiming that the Untermensch need to be removed from society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:23 PM
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Presumably when you picture the Untermensch you’ve a mental image of the type of man you’re referring to - describe him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:22 PM
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No, those who advocate eugenics don’t get to weasel out of it that easily - you want certain people removed from the gene pool; have the decency to name them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:21 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:10 PM
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Yes, but not because I try to take care of my skin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:41 PM
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Then yes I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:06 PM
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Define skincare routine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:54 PM
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If it’s posted on r/AITAH then it probably didn’t - that’s a creative writing sub in all but name
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:03 PM
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I feel very sorry for your partner, is all I can say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:19 PM
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It requires plastic surgery to not be obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:17 PM
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This is some industrial scale gaslighting - firstly, men are not a monolith hive mind; granted, unless they have a particular fetish, few men are going to be interested in women who are full on obese, but there are a wide range of body types below that and each individual man will have his likes and dislikes, and plenty of men like curves. The same can’t be said for women; there is no make equivalent of “curves”, there is only “fat” which women are universally disgusted by. Women also impose far…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:29 AM
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Again, deploying the “I” word because you have no counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:22 AM
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Again, deploying the “I” word because you have no counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:22 AM
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That would be incest and highly illegal and not what the OP was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:36 AM
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Not necessarily - there are plenty of women who want to settle down but find themselves decrying “where have all the good men gone!” because they can’t find an oofy doofy guy to settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:35 AM
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No, you are resorting to childish insults because you cannot refute my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:33 AM
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So you believe there should be some sort of licensing system whereby the state determines whether or not you can have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:33 AM
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Old people shouldn’t be allowed to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:32 AM
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Ah - that old chestnut! When all else fails, reach of the “I” word! Classic PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:02 AM
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Because…? And, regardless, shouldn’t it be up to individual women to decide that, and not have some arbitrary standard imposed upon them? Or do you believe that the state should play a more active role in deciding who can and who cannot have children based on what you believe would make a partner, husband or father, perhaps with state officials vetting who can and can’t date, who can and can’t have children, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:02 AM
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The debates that rage in this sub and similar spaces are a niche concern - most men don’t harbour strong opinions on the marriage rates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:55 AM
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Old people die naturally anyway, that’s the default outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:54 AM
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Fanfiction is when someone expands upon the work of another author, utilising their characters and world; what I’ve done above is simply summarise the existing state of affairs that is the modern dating landscape and suggest that we all draw a line under this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:53 AM
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And why should they not “procreate” - if you’re going to advocate eugenics, at least come up with a coherent argument for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:51 AM
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The oofy doofy wife guys aren’t the ones obsessing over marriage rates because they are married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:49 AM
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And do tell - specifically which males should nature “take care of”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:48 AM
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I think it’s pretty common; and the oofy doofy guys who get settled for are generally quite happy (albeit though ignorance) until the inevitable ruinous divorce at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:11 AM
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The dead horse has already been flogged down to the bone - let the poor animal rest in peace! We all know the script by now - women expect to have their cake and eat it; in their youth they will, if opportunity and circumstance allow, gladly be pumped’n’dumped by a succession of men in the top percentile of desirability. However, there also comes a time when, usually around the time the big 3-0 is looming on the horizon, the ol’ biological clock is ticking a tad too loudly for comfort, and the A…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:48 AM
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Oh, do tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 AM
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Oh, do elaborate - specifically which men should “never procreate”? Are we talking about men below a certain IQ threshold? Below a minimum height? Who belong to certain ethnic groups? And how should society dealt with these undesirable men, these Untermenschen, if you well? Should genetic screening take place at school age and the surplus males be forcibly sterilised? Should they then be confined to special camps? Or perhaps you’d start the process earlier, with in utero screening and forced ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:40 AM
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The thought of being settled for fills me with disgust - I would genuinely rather be alone for ever than be someone’s fallback option
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:38 PM
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You’ve not defined “worse off” so I can’t “search them up”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:19 PM
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That’s one way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:21 PM
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So I haven’t actually said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:20 PM
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“See the stats lol” is not an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:18 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:18 PM
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Who said I want to end no fault divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:54 PM
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https://reddit-wrapped.kadoa.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:54 PM
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<image> I’m unfortunately and unjustly banned from r/Cardiff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:53 PM
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Define “worse off”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:51 PM
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This was a lot less harsh than expected: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:46 PM
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I have no need of friendship, friendship causes pain It’s laughter and it’s loving I disdain I am a rock I am an island
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:42 PM
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Most women are lazy, entitled and narcissistic, and expect to be able to have their cake and eat it - they are all for equality when it suits them, but when it comes to dating/relationships, the old fashioned ways give them a clear advantage, so they are collectively quite happy to maintain the status quo whereby the man must do all the running, bend over backwards, jump through hoops and debase himself and pay for everything while he’s at it. There’ll be some weapons grade bullshit and industri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:40 PM
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There obviously aren’t enough men in the 20% bracket to cater for 80% of women - most of them end up settling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:34 PM
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A woman dates an Alpha Bad Boy with a toxic reputation and host of red flags; the inevitable happens and the response is “But how could she have known?!?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:33 PM
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Which further proves my point and undermines your own
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:32 PM
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Ah, that old chestnut! A woman can never be held responsible for the consequences of her own actions, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:40 PM
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Group dynamics/peer pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:39 PM
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Clearly I didn’t, as Black Pilled men generally don’t date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:38 PM
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It’s always about sex at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:37 PM
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Because it’s the mindset - 80% of men are seen as unworthy of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:36 PM
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You’re describing two cheeks of the same arse, because women’s high standards generally equate to them picking men who are aggressive, obnoxious, domineering, egotistical, arrogant and prone to bullying; that, in a nutshell, is the traits of the Alpha Bad Boy archetype, and we all know that those guys are never short of female attention. So, if a women hooks up with a guy who treats her like shit, gaslights and belittles her, before eventually dumping her for a better option, the overwhelming od…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:32 PM
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You guys still smoke indoors?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:00 PM
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It’s a long lived conflict that stated in 1948 when European settlers seized swathes of land from the indigenous peoples and systematically ethnically cleansed the areas they occupied - there’s a reason people draw that comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:34 PM
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Indeed - the Nazis believed themselves to be a master race with a divine right to hold dominion over those they saw as inferior and waged expansionist wars of aggression to seize territory and ethnically cleanse the population, which is completely different from Zionism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:33 PM
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It's toxic and entitled to believe that only a small percentage of the opposite sex are worthy of you - if an average looking man was to blithely declare that the vast majority of women are unattractive and only a small percentage are with dating, he'd be mocked and ridiculed, called a narcissist and entitled; however, there are countless examples on social media of women doing just that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:13 PM
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The narcissism and toxic entitlement that most women now display
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:29 AM
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They are the same thing - most women think that they have a God-given right to access the most high calibre of men and believe that the vast majority of the male population is irredeemably ugly and unworthy of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:00 AM
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Would I date a Paris Lees or a Shon Faye? Too fucking right I would - they are hotter than most natal women!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:55 PM
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Were we in school together?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:16 PM
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I can remember school, and that’s not the attitude a lot of my female peers had (fuck all good it did me though 💀)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:12 PM
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This happened to a guy I went to school with - his first girlfriend dumped him because he wanted to take things slow and she wanted to get down to business (for context, this was sixth form in the UK so we were circa 17-18). Unfortunately, he was a really nice guy and universally popular, so there was no scope for ridicule, mockery or spreading rumours of homosexuality, which in my opinion, he fully deserved. I, on the other had, was all revved up and ready to go, but nobody wanted to ride…story…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:06 PM
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Yeah - we know women want, the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:06 PM
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Are you endorsing the Black Pill? Because your suggestion that men who are not in the elite upper tier in terms of looks should know their place, shut the fuck and fuck off sounds very much like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:05 PM
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Yeah, I know of oofy-doofy Beta guys in relationships, but that’s another story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:26 PM
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As I said, it chimes with a lot of men’s dating experiences, including my own; the podcasters are simply articulating what was previously unspoken
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:06 PM
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It’s entered folklore and chimes with a lot of men’s experiences of OLD; there are also numerous examples of women openly stating that they think the majority of men are ugly on podcasts and social media, so it rings true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:23 PM
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A man in the 20% in terms of attractiveness, i.e. the demographic 80% of women are exclusively attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:55 AM
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Because they are the only viable option; unless you’re in the top tier of men, trying to meet someone without using an app is likely to, at best, result in public humiliation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:48 AM
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Better safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:49 PM
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I’m anti-marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:33 PM
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Which is unfortunate, but at least he has peace of mind that he’s not unwittingly paying to raise another man’s child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:33 PM
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Do I commit the crime because of the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:39 PM
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Does girl on girl porn count as gay porn? I’ve watched a lot of that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:28 PM
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Some you win, some you lose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:12 PM
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On the other hand, if the paternity test had proved that the middle son wasn’t his, he’d have been in that right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:56 PM
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I really hope Scatman John never found out that “scat” also means something very unsavoury He seemed like a really nice man and undeserving of such ridicule
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:03 PM
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Can you not hazard a guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:00 PM
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This involves scat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:47 PM
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Didn’t a lot of your churches get burned down in the 90s by Varg and his boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:45 PM
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Yes - making your vows to a deity you don’t believe in kinda undermines them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:11 PM
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I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:11 PM
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Yes, that’s true, but sweeping generalisations help with the old cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:10 PM
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Personally, I’d have preferred Corbyn as PM of the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:36 PM
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You might want to read up on who helped swing the no confidence vote in James Callaghan‘s government
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:25 PM
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The wrong type of mental issues - were I blessed with the Dark Triad, I’d be set for life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:12 PM
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The first time I heard him croon: Love is natural and real, But not for such as you and I, my love it was spooky, like he was singing directly to me; I’ve never felt a connection like that to an artist before or since
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:11 PM
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Seriously?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:08 PM
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Indeed - they are what we call “Beta Male Providers”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:08 PM
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Wee Jimmy Krankie gave Cameron a majority in 2015 - thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:06 PM
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Feminism is a childish, juvenile, asinine pseudo-ideology for liberal middle class women which allows them to protect and reinforce their class privilege while pretending to give a shit about “equality” - the only struggle that matters is the class struggle; feminism is petit bourgeois liberal bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:01 PM
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I’ve never jacked off to gay porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:58 PM
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There’s a club if you’d like to go You could meet somebody who really loves you So you go and you stand on your own And you leave on your own And you go home and you cry And you want to die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:57 PM
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Because what’s the alternative? Try “cold approaching” women in public, and if you’re lucky it’ll just end in public humiliation. The apps reduce dating to a cold, heartless Darwinian brutality, but it strips out all the bullshit - as a man, you will never truly appreciate how the fairer sex perceive you until you’ve suffered the ritual Sisyphean humiliation that is Tinder; whoever invented it deserves a Nobel prize for services to humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:55 PM
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A few thousand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:51 PM
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But being a toxic piece of shit certainly helps, it seems 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:49 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:48 PM
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It’s a lesson all men learn sooner or later, but most of us figure out early on that our male peers who display supposedly “toxic” traits are the most sexually successful - the guys who are loud, cocky, obnoxious, aggressive and domineering are the ones women flock to, and the guys they bully, who are quiet, shy, introverted, etc., are despised by women. Sure, some in the latter group will get a chance to be Beta Bucksed later down the line when the women who previously ignored them hit the wall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:58 AM
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Not necessarily - unless they’ve spent their entire lives indoors, they’ll have had some degree of interaction with women that allow them to form an opinion, e.g. seeing their female classmates swarm towards the guys who bully them like flies to shit sends a pretty clear message as to what women really think about “toxic masculinity”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:51 AM
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Settling for the oofy-doofy guy inevitably leads to divorce; if he was chosen because he’s the “safe” option that makes sense on paper, then the resentment is there from day one and will only grow over time. She freely admits that he’s the opposite of her type, so she’s spent her 20s stewing about all the alpha guys she could have been railed by had she not opted for a Beta Make provider while she was still a teenager and now she’s bailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:42 AM
1

Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:56 PM
1

Just you wait until JD Vance is President!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:56 PM
3

Did you reply with “under His eye” or “may the Lord open”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:54 PM
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He’s 20, and there is a high probability that, once the novelty of playing house wares off and he realises how much of his youth he’ll have to sacrifice, he’ll split
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:04 PM
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If my spouse decided to adopt without asking me first (i.e. “decided to adopt”) I’d be pissed to put it mildly; but I’d respect the wished of my biological child - only blood counts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:42 AM
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Like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:40 AM
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He’s pushing a 19 year old into keeping a baby that’ll ruin her life - I’m with the ladies on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:40 AM
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She’s 19…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:35 AM
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They seem perfectly reasonable? She’s barely an adult, and being saddled with a crotch goblin will completely fuck up her life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:35 AM
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I once saw a post along the lines of “trying to explain dating to women is like trying to explain poverty to trust fund kids” and I think it hit the nail on the head - when you have an abundance of something, be it a plethora of options and easy access to sex, or wealth and security, it’s easy to be dismissive of people who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:30 AM
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Why else would you be friends with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:25 AM
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The internet was never really innocent - it had porn on it from pretty much day one, and rotten.com was around from 1996
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:35 PM
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The moral of the story - if you’re a man, do not be friends with women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:31 PM
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In a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:21 PM
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I’m fully aware of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:33 PM
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That’s exactly what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:02 PM
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Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:12 PM
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We do it all for the nookie 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:02 PM
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You’re omitting the fact that women settle - they like to get railed by the alpha bad boys in their youth, but there comes a time when every woman realises that she needs a beta male provider with which to “settle down” and so she seeks out an passive oofy doofy guy who gets the privilege of paying for her shit. So in answer to your question; no, those guys are not assholes, but nor are they the guy that women really want - they are the guys that get settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:00 PM
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“Why not just pick one of them” - you mean go up to random people and ask if they want to be your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:43 AM
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Therapy is for women and pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:44 AM
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A decent man will offer you sex?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:35 AM
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Aside from sex, the only thing women offer is validation; as men, society judges us solely on our sexual success - every other measure is secondary; it doesn’t matter how professionally successful you are, or what acts of benevolence you carry out, if you aren’t seen as being attractive to women, you are seen as a loser, plain and simple. And women are the ones who push this message the hardest; consider how quickly the women on this sub pivot to insults about being an “incel” the moment a man d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:35 AM
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The apps turned me into a cynical misogynist and now I can only view the opposite sex with contempt and disdain - this was not my choice, but when the curtain was pulled back, I could not un-see the truth that was before me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:49 AM
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I’m afraid that’s not how it works - in the eyes of the Blue Pill, all men are predators; to them, to be born male, especially a white male is an original sin for which there can be no absolution - simply existing is a reason for eternal punishment, and to so much as glance in a woman’s direction will land you with accusations of sexual misconduct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:47 AM
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What if they’re into S&M?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:40 AM
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If you did something that resulted in public humiliation and ridicule, would you be keen to try it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:39 AM
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The slight flaw in this argument is that the average Blue Piller will tell you that any spontaneous interaction with a woman initiated by a man is on a par with sexual assault - the reason so many men rely on the apps is that it is literally the only space where men can interact with women without being shamed and labelled as predators
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:38 AM
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No, of course they fucking don’t - the Blue Pill brigade are the ones leading the charge and spewing the hate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:36 AM
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I don’t mean to be insensitive, but did she even try to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:39 AM
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Let me hazard as a guess - only the most elite of elite men will do; if he’s not 6’5 five with perfect blue eyes, a chiselled jaw, a God-like physique, porn star sized cock, six figure salary and a trust fund, then he’s simply not good enough for her. Same old story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:35 AM
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Average women “struggle” in the sense that the top 20% off men are off limits to them and so they have to settle for one of the 80% of men they believe to be beneath them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:08 AM
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Depends on what you mean by “struggle” - the better looking ones are going to struggle to get the men in the top 20% bracket to stick around and not use them for a pump’n’dump; the rest are going to struggle to get those men to give them the time of day in the first place. Otherwise, no they don’t, because they always have options; they may not like said option and resent the fact that they have to choose a man from the 80% bracket they deem up be beneath them to settle for, but they always have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:29 AM
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Oh, my sweet summer child - women settle. While they may think that they have a God-given right to 6’5 man who works in finance and has a trust fund, the reality is that those men aren’t going to give your average run of the mill mid the time of day, unless it’s for a quick pump’n’dump. So, for reasons of pragmatism and practicality, there comes a time in every heterosexual woman’s life when (usually around the time she turns 30) that she must reevaluate her options and lower her standards, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:29 PM
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Mine episode has lasted years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:36 PM
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Pray that it never turns into limerence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:01 PM
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Yes, I take personal hygiene extremely seriously; however, as someone who uses the men’s toilet, I can confirm that there is some truth to the above
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:14 PM
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That’s what we call projection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:15 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:05 PM
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It still doesn’t prove your hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:49 PM
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Some men think this way dear, some men; but I wouldn’t want to date a 25 year old, because that would be absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:44 PM
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How does that screenshot, which you had to go back a long way to find, prove that men don’t want to be approached by women over the age of 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:41 PM
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That’s a slight generalisation and a random cropped screenshot doesn’t really count as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:57 PM
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The moral is the story is, if the law allows you to carry a concealed firearm, carry a concealed firearm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:15 PM
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If you’ve got a gun, then an armed robbery would quickly escalate into a Mexican standoff/Wild West style shootout - I’m pro gun ownership for this, and other, reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:09 PM
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You could argue that it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:08 PM
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The stuff about shape shifting inter dimensional reptilian humanoids controlling the world is a bit of stretch, but some of his other “conspiracy theories” have come true - e.g. he was writing about there being institutional child abide within Westminster in the 90s and named Ted Heath as being involved; there’s a reason he wasn’t sued
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:07 PM
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The second amendment - you’d think twice about stealing a phone if there’s a chance of you getting shot in the back as you run away
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:47 PM
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Nobody wants to be settled for; they want to be the one doing the settling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:45 PM
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One of the greatest minds of the current era: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Icke?wprov=sfti1#Reptoid_humanoids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:44 PM
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And fans of this fella here? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:51 PM
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Lol - very funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:22 PM
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For reasons of practicality - not every woman is capable of bagging herself a man who works in finance, and the majority of them are forced to settle; and if a women is low value, then she’s gonna have to settle for a low value/poor man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:22 PM
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In most countries, people aren’t charged for medical procedures - the Land of the Free is an outlier in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:09 PM
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Why not just allow individuals to sort out their own business without imposing this nonsense onto them; if a man suspects he’s the victim of paternity fraud then that’s between him and the mother - there’s no reason for anyone else to get involved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:08 PM
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Are you guys no longer doing the whole “separation of church and state” thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:47 AM
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We’re edging ever closer to aging millennial girlboss feminists demanding that the age of consent be raised to 25
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:57 AM
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This is, hands down, the greatest, most beautifully written and insightful post that’s ever appeared on PPD. I agree with every single word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:07 AM
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God Bless Éire: https://x.com/RyanRozbiani/status/1900738946918736044
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:31 PM
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In all honesty, I don’t give a shit because - yes, I’m well aware that there are violent men out there who will hurt and abuse women, but women flock to them like files to shit - there was a case in the UK recently of a man who killed his ex girlfriend’s mother and sister before raping and killing her, but despite a plethora of red flags, she was still with him for 18 months. The undeniable truth is, if a man is a violent, aggressive, sadistic thug, he’ll be drowning in pussy - it’s the men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:07 PM
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Unresolved stress, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:47 PM
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FAW?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:23 PM
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Sounds like an anxiety dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:22 PM
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Which drug is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:25 PM
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How?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:05 PM
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You’ve done a reveal, so we know what you look like, and it’s not that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:55 PM
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Either she’s fishing for compliments or she’s promoting an OnlyFans - that’s the case with 9/10 posts on those subs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:16 PM
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Romania is in the EU, so you’ve got options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:11 PM
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If any of our European brethren are thinking of visiting the fascist toilet that is Yankland, then DON’T!!!:https://x.com/peterbakernyt/status/1900891943925699031?s=46&t=KKbT6vWpHe2UbBnEJ3zpdw
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:43 PM
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Jesus approves <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:23 PM
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I can guarantee that dozens of men would have applied for those research assistant posts and been cast aside in favour of less qualified women; academia used to be dominated by horny old male Boomers who gave preferential treatments and opportunities to women, and bow that those women are in senior positions, they are only interested in giving opportunities to other women; this is what’s meant by “girls outperforming boys” - academia is a girlboss circle jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:12 AM
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If your one true love is really your one true love then they wouldn’t need you to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:42 PM
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Nonfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:58 PM
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Live footage:
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:46 PM
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I doubt all those things are necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:42 PM
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Consider the case of Lucy Letby; she was found guilty by a jury, based on evidence by experts - there is a growing consensus that she’s innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:45 PM
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Not necessarily, but juries can make mistakes, and evidence can be withheld, etc. Being convicted isn’t a guarantee of guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:35 PM
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Yes, because I would want to know the details of the case and her circumstances before rushing to judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:30 AM
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If she says she’s innocent then I would at least do her the courtesy of hearing her out before rushing to conclusions - miscarriages of justice do happen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:39 AM
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He wore it on his back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:10 PM
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I’m not a fucking liberal, if that’s what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:02 PM
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I’m aware it’s a charity event - one that’s attended by very wealthy people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:51 PM
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Because…?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:37 PM
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She professed to be a “democratic socialist” - going to a party with a load of very rich people where the entry fee is more than most Americans earn in a year doesn’t exactly lend credibility to your left-wing credentials
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:36 PM
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Another straw man! It has fuck all to do with what she has between her legs - if you are going to call yourself a “democratic socialist”, hobnobbing with the liberal elite isn’t going to result in people taking you very seriously. To the best of my knowledge, no male politician has ever attended the Met Gala with an empty slogan scrawled on their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:34 PM
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Why wouldn’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:31 PM
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A better solution would have been to have not gone to the Met Gala in the first place and to have not debased herself by willing being paraded around like a circus animal - if you want to be taken seriously, writing empty slogans on your butt is not the way to do it. And that’s a fine straw man you’ve built, but anyone who’s taken the time to read my posts will see that your kneeler assumption that I must be a Trumptydumpty supporter is way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:18 PM
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Ironically, in your country, it’s the celebrities who play politician who actually get things done (albeit, not in a positive way)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:14 PM
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I’m not American, but I don’t disagree, hence the “so called” bit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:04 PM
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What’s sexism got to do with it? She literally focused attention on her ass, so I don’t think she can play that card
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:03 PM
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Know what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:02 PM
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She inspired a lot of hope when she first rose to prominence and she could have been something; it’s unfortunate that she chose the path of least resistance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:02 PM
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I haven’t suffered a stoke, so I’m hardly going to forget a minor celebrity; but rather than repeat myself, see this earlier response: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/f1mSDtSxDh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:28 PM
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Yeah, I remember, but at that point, anything she had to say ceased to have any value whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:13 PM
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Personally, I find it quite difficult to take a so called radical leftist seriously when they attend the Met Gala with a performative slogan written on their ass - she’s no Ulrike Meinhof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:05 PM
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No true leftist would attend the Met Gala (peacefully, at least). You can not advance the class struggle through representative democracy - your founding fathers designed your system governance specifically to keep the unwashed masses in their place; the system is flexible to a degree and will adapt, but power always remains concentrated in the hands of the oligarchy. AOC is a textbook example of what happens when leftists attempt to challenge the system from within; they quickly grow fond of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:02 PM
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I can’t speak for Americans, but she’s a fake leftist who, despite the performative sanctimony, was quick to integrate into the liberal establishment at the first opportunity; the idea that Conservative men are obsessed with her is probably just part of her self-aggrandising mythology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:54 PM
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Another sweeping generalisation - most of us realise that women don’t look like porn starts in our teens
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:15 AM
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You’re focusing on men who have very extreme and unrealistic beauty standards - they are the outliners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:01 AM
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I guess it’s fits into the wider context of ‘personality’ but if you’ve got two different types of senses of humour it’s probably not meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:00 AM
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Unfortunately not - I commented on someone’s appearance within a context where they weren’t inviting that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:44 AM
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I can’t imagine being in a relationship with someone who had no sense of humour and took everything extremely seriously would be much fun, but I guess it’s a mater of personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:43 AM
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This is a sweeping generalisation with a hefty dose of projection - there are 4bn men on the planet, each with their own likes, dislikes and standards, which varies considerably across cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 AM
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I think I may be guilty of objectifying someone and feel guilty about it - should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:10 AM
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How has this not led to his arrest?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:53 AM
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Men are more pragmatic, I think; if you’re a guy who has little to bring to the table, then your options are limited, and if you really want to be in a relationship then you have to be realistic as to what you can get, and for some guys, that means a girl with very poor hygiene As for why women settle for guys who stink - I am at a loss as to how to explain that as they will have better options
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:25 AM
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some men - some men have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:08 AM
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Despite all that, she still had an ex BF and is going on date - conclusive proof that women always have options
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:35 AM
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Women struggle to both have their cake and eat their cake
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:25 AM
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This is a Prince amount men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:35 PM
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This is a job for ChatGPT: It depends on who you’re talking to and the context, but here are a few gentle and encouraging ways to remind someone to drink more water: 1. Casual Reminder: “Hey, have you had any water today? I just realized I need to drink more myself!” 2. Make It a Challenge: “Let’s see who can drink more water today—hydration challenge!” 3. Positive Reinforcement: “You’ll feel so much better if you stay hydrated! Want me to grab you a glass?” 4. Humorous Approach: “Your body is l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:39 PM
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Dehydration
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:44 AM
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Russian or Ukrainian?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:18 AM
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Q4A: should the EU arm Ukraine with chemical and biological weapons? (I’m aware that, technically these are prohibited under international law, but that doesn’t really apply to us)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:57 AM
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09:56
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:56 AM
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Diet and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:55 AM
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400g of chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:05 PM
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You sit there in your heartache Waiting on some beautiful boy to To save you from your old ways You play forgiveness Watch it now, here he comes He doesn’t look a thing like Jesus But he talks like a gentlemen Like you imagined when you were young
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:06 PM
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My view is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:00 PM
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Do I know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:00 PM
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Not very convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:44 PM
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Not seeing much of a counter argument, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:37 PM
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It’s the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:33 PM
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Imagine this was your dad: https://np.reddit.com/r/AccidentalSlapStick/s/4VxDCtoJwE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:14 PM
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FFS - they don’t have high standards because they want to vet men for being potential serial killers (and you conveniently omit the fact that Gress had a GF); in fact, a man who is a sociopath and potential killer would radiate ‘bad boy’ energy and do really well with the fairer sex. The inconvenient truth is that the majority of women have planet sized egos and a toxic, entitled, shit-don’t-stink attitude and believe that they have a God-given right to the highest calibre of men, and if a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:09 PM
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I don’t think that’s a genuine profile
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:51 PM
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Apparently these guys did it: https://np.reddit.com/r/hacking/s/3psuC2J0uE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:19 PM
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Rinse it, put it in a pan of cold salted water, bring to the boil, and then simmer for 10-15 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:57 PM
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Not getting your five a day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:24 PM
1

Dictate how “our money” (i.e. his salary) is spent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:18 PM
3

No you’re changing the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:03 PM
4

That’s a fine straw man, but that’s not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:27 PM
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Unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:35 PM
2

Yeah, I’ve messaged women on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:51 PM
3

I don’t use Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:42 PM
3

DMed as in “slid into”? No - I thought that was frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:38 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:34 PM
4

They don’t deserve boyfriends full stop - nobody is entitled to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:33 PM
4

These words I speak are true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:33 PM
10

Dude - I’m not going to give some ass-faced fattie the princess treatment and be her Beta Male provider, which is presumably what you mean by “lower you standards”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:18 AM
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Lower our standards to what, exactly? The problem with this argument is that, thanks to the normalisation of misandry and the inflating of the collective female ego, the vast majority of women have a toxic, shit-don’t-stink attitude and think they have a God-given right to a man who is 6’5, with the body of a professional athlete and has a six figure salary - obviously they aren’t all going to get that, and for reasons of pragmatism, the vast majority will settle; but that means that they’ll sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:04 AM
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I’m afraid that it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:55 AM
-11

Sounds like you want a Beta Male Provider and to have “control” over them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:09 AM
7

I’m from a county where abortion is legal and freely accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:50 AM
9

Nice non-sequitur - but the US supreme court’s decision on Roe vs Wade didn’t apply to the entire planet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:35 AM
9

Yeah, the majority; the difference is that Andrew Tate is treated as a pariah and threat to the social order - the type of toxic misandry the OP is describing is both normalised and encouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:01 AM
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Probably because of what the OP is describing; the majority of women are brainwashed by this garbage and develop a toxic, shit-don’t-stink mindset and believe that if a man isn’t 6’5 with a god-like physique and a six figure salary then he’s a pathetic loser who should fuck off and die. It in turn leads to bitterness and resentment as you come to realise that the dating game is rigged and that, unless you are one of the lucky few, the best you can hope for as man is that you’ll be settle for by …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:46 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:26 PM
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50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:04 PM
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Some things you don’t say out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:23 PM
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OLD is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:23 PM
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That’s…quite the turn of phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:15 PM
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If we’re counting vibrators as robots, then all of them have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:14 PM
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Quite a lot of guys have personal experience of OLD that backs this theory up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:11 PM
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Dude - we all know it to be true; if anything, it’s too generous and the real ratio is closer to 95/5
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:36 PM
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The 80/20 thing? That kinda does check out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:24 PM
3

Therapy is for pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:39 PM
3

You don’t gain confidence; you’re either born with it or you aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:19 PM
3

It’s dog eat dog out there - turn the other cheek and you’ll just get hit twice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:35 PM
3

What is the “right thing” - bring a chump; a sucker who gets mocked and fucked over?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:09 PM
4

You’re advocating the wussification of men - being a “good” person only leads to you being abused and taken advantage of by others; we collectively need to do the exact opposite of what you propose
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:42 PM
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You think the US is a democracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:32 PM
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It’s called “cleaning”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:18 PM
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Cleaners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:06 PM
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There would have been tanks on the White House lawn before he’d even been sworn in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:03 PM
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On the first date!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:53 PM
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Housekeeping isn’t a fucking job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:52 PM
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They already have - it’s a meaningless date for girlboss feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:50 PM
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No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:03 PM
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Yeah, they don’t expect it from the guys they let pump’n’dump them, but they do expect it from the guys they settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:32 AM
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Men are not sexualised - really? So there is no ideal male body type? There are no beauty standards that men are expected to strive towards and can look/dress however they want? All those gym bros spending house working out and following an extremely restrictive diet must be doing it for the fun of it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:56 AM
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George Carlin nail feminist 35 years ago: https://youtu.be/Zc38-DeBzPA?si=C2nsoWAGq8XzGY4C
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:37 AM
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Every woman expects and demands this arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:38 AM
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This is another piss week troll post, but the replies from women will be revealing - the majority of them already think like this; they insist that Hypergamy isn’t real and that they actually give a shit about their oofy doofy Beta Male Providers, but we all know the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:37 AM
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It does, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:36 AM
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Let me think….I, uh…I’ll get back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:22 PM
1

It's a take I stand by
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:00 PM
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You ladies sure do love a bad boy: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c5y00npyd0po
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:18 PM
2

So you don’t contribute to the household expenses?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:56 PM
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Harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:17 PM
5

They said “managed to not have” - i.e. it took effort not to have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:17 PM
4

No, for women, it’s for the purposes of acquiring a man’s financial resources, as you’ve so clearly articulated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:15 PM
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Were that true, a man employment status would be irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:40 PM
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And you people insist Hypergamy isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:35 PM
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It’s just yet another manifestation of the toxic shit-don’t-stink attitude and rank hypocrisy the majority of women possess; for all they claim perpetual victimhood and whine about “misogyny” they’ll openly flaunt their hateful misandry while oblivious to the blatant double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:34 PM
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A 29 year old woman shouldn’t date a 35 year old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:30 PM
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The answer is that younger people are better looking than older people 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:29 PM
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“managed” makes it sound like something you’d have to make a concerted effort to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:28 PM
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I think Pearl is kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:25 PM
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You can’t swim?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:23 PM
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Arguably, it’s a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:46 PM
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Their army is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:45 PM
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We’ve all seen how the mighty Russian army did against Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:12 PM
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Really tempted to ask something…inappropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:11 PM
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The sad thing is, the guys she’s referring to are going to be in the top percentile of men - they aren’t going to give a shit if a fatty becomes a mid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:49 PM
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This is an obvious troll post, but the answer is simple; women don’t approach men nor do they need to do anything to attract men - can date/get sex/enter a relationship simply by existing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:27 AM
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That’s a very long winded way of saying “settled”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:46 PM
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I didn’t work in a locker room
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:04 PM
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I worked with people who had open contempt for their spouses; and there’s plenty of accounts on here from women who openly admit that their husband didn’t excite her sexually when they first met, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:04 PM
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I never mentioned anything about the locker room, so I don’t see the relevance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:57 PM
1

In most places it’s semi-legal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:50 PM
5

You sure know how to pick them!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:49 PM
7

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:48 PM
5

Well, at least I will never be disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:47 PM
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This dude is a KING
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:44 PM
1

Prostitution is a thing 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:43 PM
0

I’m saying some people’s behaviour invites that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:40 PM
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My perception is based on my lived experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:27 PM
7

Nice straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:26 PM
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I’m capable of wearing a death mask when I need to, such as at work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:06 PM
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We know why you settle for the oofy doofy Beta Male Provider and it’s not because of his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:54 PM
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You can command me to ignore the evidence before my eyes and ears all you want - I will not un-see what I know to be the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:51 PM
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We all want love my dear; genuine love is a rare beast which most of us will never glimpse - generally, you lot settle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:50 PM
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I clean my own apartment, so presumably I’m building society too? Nobody forces you to get married/have kids - most of you do it to gain financial security from a Beta Male Provider, so forgive me if I don’t break out the tiny violin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:49 PM
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I live alone and have no dependencies so I don’t benefit from anyone’s “free labour”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:43 PM
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Hey - you people make it easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:41 PM
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Not all women can be gold diggers; but most of you can bag yourself an oofy doofy Beta Male Provider to pay your bills and top up your disposable income
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:40 PM
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Well, yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:35 PM
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Believe it or not, we know what women “are actually wanting in a partner” 💰💸💵🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:30 PM
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I don’t care if they find it off putting - nobody I know IRL is going to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:28 PM
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I just did…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:10 PM
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There will be a lot of gaslighting and downright unpleasantness in the replies, but the “why” is that the scales have fallen from our eyes and we have seen the ugly reality of female nature. I used to believe in all the Blue Pill guff, even after working in a female dominated environment and experiencing near constant casual misandry first hand and hearing the contemptuous ways they referred to their partners. But it was when I dipped my toe into the murky waters of OLD did I come to realise how…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:56 PM
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No shit!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:43 PM
4

I’ve responded to the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:12 PM
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I did not use those words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:08 PM
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That’s not “incel logic” - you’re just throwing childish insults around because you have no counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:12 AM
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How is this “incel logic” - I’m clearly not claiming that looks are the be all and end all, am I? No, I’m quite clearly saying that average, even below average men can get into relationships as long as they either accept or are oblivious to that that are primarily being used as financial resources. This is quite removed from “incel logic”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:07 AM
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Women work; but generally they secure a Beta Male Provider to supplement their income - his salary becomes “our money”, her salary remains “my money”, so she retains a disposable income while he pays the bills/puts food on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:55 AM
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Men are treated like adults and are expected to act accordingly; women are treated like children and allowed to behave accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:28 AM
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This is victim blaming and illustrates why increasing numbers of men harbour resentment towards women; the fact is, the majority of women are toxic, selfish, narcissistic, hypergamous and cruel - they are primarily interested in the top 20% of and they do settle for oofy doofy beta guys who they use to gain financial stability. But they are also mollycoddled and treated like children and constantly reassured that nothing is ever their fault, that they are the victim, and they deserve everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:47 AM
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50/50 on dates - you specifically mentioned men not wanting to pay the full tab
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:43 PM
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Abuse you, as in expect you to go 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:44 PM
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Kinda ironic that you say misandry isn’t real whilst spouting misandry and boasting about a notoriously misandrist sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:38 PM
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Jesus - he sees everything <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:22 PM
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That’s probably the only way you’re going to get someone to support you financially for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:58 PM
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Make a wish?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:53 PM
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Brie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:40 PM
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I’m afraid that presentation is not your forte
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:39 PM
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718 matches!!! I’ve never got anywhere near that and I’m way better looking than him!!! (Admittedly it’s a low bar, but nevertheless.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:49 PM
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They want good men, but only on their terms; in typically narcissistic fashion, they demand to not only have their cake but to also to get to eat it - once her pumped’n’dumped days are behind her and the alpha bad boys are no longer returning her calls, she then expects all the guys she ignored, belittled and insulted over the years to form an orderly queue so she can pick a Beta Male Provider to “settle down” with and give him the honour of paying her bills, putting a roof over her head head an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:25 AM
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Don’t hate the player, hate the game, to coin a phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:26 AM
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What kind of sex do you think the oofy doofy wife guys get? You’re perfectly happy to settle when you’re running out of options and need a Beta Male provider to pay for your shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:10 PM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:39 PM
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Women are the ones who get to decide who competes in the first place - fighting over the scraps doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:39 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers; they set the terms, they dictate the rules, the shift they goalposts and ultimately decide who gets to date/have sex/be in a relationship. Other men aren’t our competitors; they are playing the same hopeless game we are - I don’t resent other men for being more fortunate than me; I do resent the people who’ve made me hate myself for as long as I can remember. Edit for the benefit of the Mods: I’m not espousing the Black Pill - I could, like others have done, jump on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:23 PM
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<image> Is this good/bad - I can’t tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:45 AM
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She wasn’t my ex anything - we never even met, just texted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:35 PM
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I new
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:25 PM
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It was already over by that point anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:54 PM
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Reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:08 PM
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I was going to tell her that I hoped her dog died, but decided against it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:07 PM
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I once matched with a woman on Bumble who seemed too good to be true (like if I ordered a custom made GF they’d look like her) and she was, because after indicating she’d be open to meeting she went quiet on me. So I sent her this: <image> She replied with: 🐢 I assume this meant that I was too slow in getting to the point and asking her out? I blocked her number and unmatched so never asked, but wouldn’t it have been easier for her to do that to me instead of feigning interest? I stopped taking …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:53 PM
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6’1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:44 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:44 PM
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Yeah, I tell myself that she probably didn’t want to date a colleague, but I can never fully believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:04 PM
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I had assumed she’d be less picky, given the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:24 PM
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Putin is apparently a teetotaller
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:11 PM
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I was once rejected* by a colleague with facial palsy - that really sung *by rejected I mean failed to match with on Bumble - I never actually spoke to her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:09 PM
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It’s an authoritarian oligarchy where the function of the state is to enrich a tiny, well connected elite - it should be obvious what the appeal is; it’s like the US without the inconveniences of a constitution, Supreme Court, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:03 PM
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Your point is…it’s ok for women to make false rape accusations because only a small number of men are affected and the chances of a conviction are low?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:48 AM
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Don’t what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:57 PM
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Expecting women to go 50/50 makes you autistic? Fucking hell, just when I thought the misdiagnosis of the disorder couldn’t get any more ridiculous…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:52 PM
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Do you have any qualifications that allow you diagnose autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:51 PM
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Au contraire - the upset stems from the the blatant hypocrisy and double standards from the fairer sex; most women have dogshit personalities and yet still expect a man to not only fulfil an exhaustive list of arbitrary and absurd criteria but to also bend over backwards and jump through hoops to prove their worth. Most people are deeply flawed individuals, but it’s only ever held against men; as a woman, you can be dull as fuck, boring, have zero of interest to say and yet still declare that on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:50 PM
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Women couldn’t support themselves and divorce and birth control were illegal in the late 20th century - you mean, like, the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:23 AM
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You think WW3 is going to be a giant Call of Duty multiplayer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:19 PM
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I really don’t see what you hope to accomplish by this; you’ve already stated quite clearly that you don’t want to hear from a large section of the sub, and the mods will swoop in with bans for any man who dares express any negative emotion, so what exactly is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:18 PM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:10 PM
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And his perception was accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:59 PM
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More a case they want their beta male providers back to pay for their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:59 PM
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That the sex strike happened may not have been true; but what it tells us about women is true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:44 PM
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No - it just proves that, for women, relationships have always been transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:46 PM
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What’s with all the typos and syntax errors?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:24 PM
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Oofy doofy theory in action
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:42 AM
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All Scandinavian women are Staceys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:41 AM
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Same old story - only a 6’5 Adonis with a six figure salary will do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:44 AM
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She specifically mentions not having dated/had a boyfriend; she also claims that ugly men having hot girlfriends happens in “abundance”, which is an indication of what she believes she’s entitled to. You’ve also illustrated my point; as a woman, she gets sympathy and the benefit of the doubt - the exact same post with the genders reversed would get the opposite reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:42 AM
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People on Reddit 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:17 AM
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A femcel rants about not having a hot boyfriend and about how all men are shallow and only interested in looks; Reddit responds with an outpouring of sympathy: https://np.reddit.com/r/Vent/s/XUpYtnR9of The double-standard and hypocrisy is wild; if a man wrote that there’d be a jihad of “YOU’RE NOT ENTITLED TO A RELATIONSHIP!!!” and “NOBODY OWS YOU SEX!!!” and they’d be pilloried for being a disgusting, vile, socially inept incel with no redeeming qualities who deserves to be alone for every. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:41 AM
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Every oofy doofy wife guy thinks he’s loved and cherished - until he’s served the divorce papers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:39 AM
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People settle for all sorts of things in the absence of better options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:27 AM
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Ok, let me break it down for you. Women are primarily attracted to the top 20% of men. But there aren’t enough of the top 20% of men to go around. Therefore, women settle - you exist in the sense that you were settled for. If you’re not in the top 20% then, in an ideal world, she would be with a man who was; but she’s not, so she settled for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:05 PM
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Yeah, we know, you’d pick the bear, etc, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:23 PM
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It the top 20% and we all know that women settle; so those “loving relationships” you refer to are just oofy doofy guys getting the beta bucks treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:36 PM
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Because AWALT 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:16 PM
1

You’re projecting; the OP didn’t state that he was unhappy - you’re just assuming that because he’s not like you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:30 AM
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Guys who are angry, frustrated virgins will tell you that; but that’s not what the OP described
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:48 PM
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Realistically, a 35 year old autistic virgin is not going to ascend anywhere - but he sounds happy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:46 PM
3

Supposing he’s happy with his boring life, which from the OP’s description, he is, then who fucking cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:39 PM
5

How does someone who lives a productive, law abiding life “take no accountability” for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:36 PM
3

Not that comfy - he’s a federal employee by the sounds of it so he’s gonna loose his job and end up life the guy in Life A, broke and in jail and still a virgin (though prison life will remedy that)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:35 PM
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I think you need to describe what the men in Life A and Life B look like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:30 PM
-1

All men claim this? Literally all 4bn men on the planet claim this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:26 PM
3

I’m not sure which men you’re referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:06 PM
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What are we supposed to debate here - the moral failings of a guy you invented in order to get mad at?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:45 AM
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Being reduced to the status of a glorified pet is hardly a “good deal”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:19 AM
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This is a very long winded way of saying women settle - yeah, we fucking know they settle for men they aren’t attracted to; why do you think we find being called “husband material” so offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:18 AM
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Just call everyone a “cum guzzler” until the mods ban you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:28 PM
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There is such a woman - her name is Lilly Phillips
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:27 PM
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No it really doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:39 PM
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Correction - women settle; men are settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:21 PM
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Women can keep gaslighting us that “husband material” means that a man “ticks all the boxes” but we all know what it really means
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:20 PM
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All I can say is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:55 PM
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That’s a very generous interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:55 PM
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Depends on what you mean by “check all their boxes” - we all know what “husband material” means and we all know that it’s not a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:44 PM
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Whatever, child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:05 PM
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I’m a Millennial aka the Second Greatest Generation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:57 PM
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This is why r/fuckyouzoomer exists
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:48 PM
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‘The Wicker Man’ (the 1973 original not the Nic Cage comedy remake)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:40 PM
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That doesn’t count - those people are savages
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:27 PM
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Q4A - how offensive is “cunt”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:21 PM
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This is why I despise women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:09 PM
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All the native men wear dresses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:55 PM
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Could you not wear contacts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:46 PM
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Masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:45 PM
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There’s no alcohol in Dubai - that’s Hell on Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:44 PM
2

FFS - obviously not!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:08 PM
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Thats why I only watch lesbian porn, which technically is gay porn, but makes me 100% heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:48 PM
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Porn stars generally have above average size penises; but not being a homo, I have no desire to look a one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:13 PM
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I only watch lesbian porn - personally, I don’t want to watch another man fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:47 PM
2

Not his baby, I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:29 PM
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I’m sorry, but this is weapons grade bullshit; if a man is not a loud, cocky, obnoxious asshat then women de facto see him as a creep/weirdo - in women’s collective eyes, a man who is shy/introverted is regarded as lower than a pedophile. Yes, I am aware that shy/introverted women exist; but as ever, they expect to both have their cake and eat it and it’s yet another striking example of inherent female privilege - women have the luxury of being shy/introverted; men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:27 PM
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Ask…woman out…on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:45 PM
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Someone who thinks anarcho-capitalism is a viable ideology probably isn’t going to stop there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:46 PM
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No, but your economy is currently in the hands of someone who thinks decimating the functions of the state in order to enrich the oligarchy is the correct course of action, which is what was done to Russia in the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:28 PM
1

In a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:15 PM
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Kind of how Russia was “alright” after the collapse of the USSR
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:15 PM
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It won’t be once Elon’s finished with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:44 PM
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If she’s requesting financial renumeration for being in the relationship, then she’s a glorified escort - and in the long run, an actual escort would likely work out cheaper and you’d have an all round better experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:48 AM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:19 PM
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This reads like Lilith fan fiction rather than the real thing - I smell an imposter!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:11 PM
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“Hell is other people”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:04 PM
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I’m a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:37 PM
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My lived experience is that, if you’re not a cocky asshole, women assume you’re a creepy weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:16 PM
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Correction - low self-esteem is not going to stop women from having a love life; as with all dating advice, women are exempt, because a woman can still be an obese schizophrenic with chronic debt and still find a partner. If you’re a man, then low self esteem is going to cripple your dating prospects, because there are few things women loathe more than a man who is quite/shy/introverted. That’s not to say it’s an insurmountable barrier, but if you’re not a cocky, loud, arrogant douche bag who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:40 AM
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I’ve been to Turkish barbers who singe it off with fire
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:13 PM
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You claimed that they were too poor; now they simply aren’t going to because…reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:45 PM
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https://jacobin.com/2021/08/bill-gates-jeffrey-epstein-mistake-cnn-interview Gate’s charity work was simply an attempt to whitewash his reputation after he became widely despised in the 90s - it’s simply the self-serving narcissism of a rich man with a messiah complex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:44 PM
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Bill Gates spent a lot of time on a private island where teenage girls were trafficked and abused, which to be fair, is not an accusation you can level at Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:11 PM
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Too poor to buy a cheep burner phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:06 PM
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But then they count towards your five a day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:33 PM
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I would definitely abandon a child who I found out wasn’t mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 PM
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Were I the sort of person who would cheat on my partner, I would have a separate phone with which to conduct the extramarital affairs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:29 PM
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That’s wouldn’t have the same impact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:54 PM
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Kind of wish I could become a wedding singer to recreate this scene:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:37 PM
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Him bring 5’7 is cruel - to look at him, your think he was some 6’5 monster, but he’s a teeny manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:31 PM
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That’s not really a compelling counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:04 PM
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No, you’re just not putting two and two together; the top 20% of the male user base - which the majority of the female user base are exclusively interested in - are like the proverbial pig in shit; they have their pick of dozens of women a day; however, they are primarily in it for the pump’n’dump, which leads to the negative outcomes you describe. So women go on OLD in the hope of bagging a high value man and instead find themselves the prospective hook up for a man who sees them as just anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:56 PM
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There being more men than women on the apps doesn’t invalidate what I wrote; the indisputable fact is that the majority of them are only interested in a fraction of the male user base
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:39 PM
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It’s well established that 80% of the women on OLD are exclusively interested in the top 20% of men, and with the best will in the world, the top 20% of men will have neither the time nor the inclination to pump and dump 80% of the female user base; so when women talk about “hating dating apps” this is what they mean - they aren’t matching with the guys who they believe they are entitled to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:27 PM
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You’re a woman, so obviously you’d reach that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:24 PM
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It’s both, because one does not invalidate the other - the majority of women do have absurdly unrealistic standards; however, there also comes a point at which she finds herself at the wrong side of thirty with the ol’ biological clock ticking a tad too loudly for comfort and decides it time to “settle down” and so lowers her expectations accordingly, that is to say she settles for a man she isn’t particularly attracted to but who fulfils a function. The majority of married men fall into the oof…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:34 PM
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It’s all relative - while I may not be in immediate danger of starvation, a lot of other people were dealt considerably better hands than I was
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:47 PM
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I can remember getting regular lectures as a kid at school on how privileged and fortunate we are in comparison to our counterparts in less developed parts of the world, and it really pissed me off; I resented being shamed for something I had no control over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:44 PM
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How is is a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:38 PM
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The TL;DR seems to be that you don’t want to work or pay for things so you blame feminism ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:58 AM
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I’m not - they can’t help being the way they are; they are like dogs, happy and content because they don’t understand that they are pets
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:03 PM
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Diagnosed with…?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:02 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:05 PM
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No, I’ve encountered the people I’m referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:05 PM
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That’s one more use than the Blue Pill in which case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:43 PM
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OP is a troll - check their post history
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:23 PM
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They have to be a mod using an alt account - that’s the only explanation for why they keep getting away with this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:23 PM
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I am not personally bullied
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:51 PM
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Why are any of us here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:51 PM
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There are women on here who will steadfastly deny stuff like this happens, even when the existence of posts like this are pointed out to them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:13 PM
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I’m not oofy doofy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:53 PM
1

In an office…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:32 PM
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It’s an accepted truth that women are primarily attracted to the Alpha Bad Boy archetype - these men aren’t universally criminals; in fact, most of them are just unpleasant bullies - but despite being objectively horrible people, they are always sexually successful. The OP’s assertion won’t wash because all of us guys will have seen this with our own eyes - we all knew the school bully who was never lacking in female attention; we’ve all seen out female colleagues flaunt themselves before the of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:17 PM
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I’m not doing the oofy doofy thing, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:48 AM
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“Good” in this case seems to equate to oofy doofy Beta guys who will obediently ride the hamster wheel of self-improvement until a 30 year old mid whose pumped’n’dumped days are behind her settles for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:38 AM
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It’s not that we think of ourselves as only good for providing money - we know that’s all women give a shit about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:45 AM
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And what does a “successful relationship” look like - being the oofy doofy Beta Male Provider who obediently hands over his pay check into the communal pool that’s “our money” (while her pay check remains “my money”, naturally)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:26 AM
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Indeed - those are what we call oofy doofy Beta Male Providers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:33 AM
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Good, as in satisfactory, possibly; but let us not pretend that she’ll do for him the things she was letting Alpha Bad Boys do during her pumped’n’dumped days
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:00 AM
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Beta Male Providers are husband material and that’s it’s an insult - it’s being told that you wouldn’t have stood a chance a few years bs k during her pumped’n’dumped phase, but now that she’s looking to “settle down” she’s willing to let you pay her bills she subsidise her lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:58 AM
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Someone to pay their bills
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:53 AM
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We can all see the oofy doofy Beta guys who get chosen when it’s time to “settle down” and we can all read the litany of posts by women disparaging the Beta Male providers they chose and comparing them negatively to past conquests - there’s a reason “husband material” is now seen as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:30 AM
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Please stop gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:27 AM
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Stop gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:27 AM
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You can order us to ignore the evidence before our eyes, but you can’t make us believe your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:23 AM
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The site upon which we are both posting is full of examples of women telling these stories; there is a reason “husband material” is now seen as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:22 AM
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From women - this site is full of such tales and there is a reason that “husband material” is seen as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:19 AM
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That’s a very round about way to agree with the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:15 AM
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With all due respect, we know this is bullshit - yes, you all enjoy sex, and I’m in no doubt that you get plenty of it during your pumped’n’dumped phase; but we’ve all seen the oofy doofy Beta Males that get picked when it’s time to “settle down” and we know full well why those chumps get picked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:14 AM
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Oh boy - the gaslighting in the replies to this will be off the fucking charts!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:09 AM
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If sex is off the table then there is literally no point in maintaining the charade
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:46 PM
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Church!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:44 PM
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In how ever much detail you want to 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:43 PM
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Ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 PM
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My money’s on Pearl Davis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:50 PM
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Nice straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:48 PM
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I’ve never claimed to be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:41 PM
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Why would I want to dance with a fat girl and be a figure of ridicule and mockery?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:40 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:16 PM
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It was the implication
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:15 PM
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I was offended because of the implication that a fatty was the best I could do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:15 PM
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It’s very insulting to be told the best you can get is a fatty fat fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:02 PM
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I went to the pub, then came home and drank some more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 PM
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It means she settled and you are replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:00 PM
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Then don’t have kids 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:59 PM
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I can remember being at a party when I was seventeen and a girl asking me if I would dance with her obese fried - I told her to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:47 PM
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Her me out - AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM
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Women expect to be able to simultaneously have their cake and eat their cake - I don’t why you’re wasting your time asking them though, because you’ll just get a load of bullshit answers denying what’s plainly obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:42 PM
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Why is she bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:36 PM
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I honestly can’t see what in that stream of consciousness we’re supposed to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:58 AM
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These are all examples of oddball behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 PM
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Aren’t all radfems terfs - isn’t that kind of their thing, along with misandry and homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:51 PM
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Hate to be the one to break this to you, but all women are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:16 PM
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That’s what the OP is justifying - that half the planet is presumed guilty until proven innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:36 PM
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That was nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:45 AM
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I’m sure you could find a Beta Male to simp and provide for you if you really wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:10 AM
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Today’s soundtrack: https://youtu.be/-0RQU0LyJqg?si=FbayNSWLCO8Ev3pg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:08 AM
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You’re suggesting that I sign up with a therapist so that I can emotionally abuse them? I like your thinking!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:01 AM
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That would require me getting up at 04:00
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:21 AM
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The myth of Sisyphus springs to mind - if you keep pushing a metaphorical boulder up a hill every day only to continually find yourself right back where you started, then continuing seem rather pointless, and having people lecture you about how it’s your fault and you clearly weren’t trying hard enough gets old very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:07 AM
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Oh do elaborate - how many times should we “hit the gym” each week? Seven enough? But if we’re only going once a day, we’re slacking right - so how about fourteen times a week? Still not enough - is twenty one workouts a week sufficient for us to complain, or do we have to up the ante even more and remain in the gym 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:39 AM
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“wOrK On yoUrSeLf” - cliche numero uno in the big book of turgid dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:37 AM
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I feel like doing something horrible today, to upset someone just for the sake of it; there was a time when I could use my manager as an emotional punchbag, but she’s left and her successor doesn’t tolerate such shenanigans, so I’m in need of a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:57 AM
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A man who has been spiritually castrated and oofy doofyified - tragic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:48 AM
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Now that RFK Jr is Health Secretary you’ve got no excuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:47 AM
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I had a lot of negative experiences at the hands of women as a child, having been repeatedly humiliated by female teachers and other female authority figures, resulting in lifelong social anxiety - so by your logic, it’s perfectly fine for me to harbour deep resentment and suspicion against women as a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:46 AM
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Because of the societal double standard; any man who so much as expresses a hint of frustration at his dating problems is admonished, belittled and harangued, told he’s an entitled toxic incel and ordered to hit the gym and obediently climb onto the hamster wheel of self-improvement and arduously toil away until he’s considered worthy of a relationship. Conversely, women are indulged and mollycoddled and reassured that nothing is ever their fault and it’s the shallow, superficial men who are to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:00 PM
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This would therefore suggest that marriage favours “females” and that “males” are should avoid it at all costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:15 PM
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85 degrees centigrade!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:36 PM
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I would imagine that Chinese state intelligence are a lot more competent and professional than Elon and his incel clown troupe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:34 PM
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Aside from us, only a handful of other species engage in sex for pleasure - most animals do it instinctively
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:30 PM
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This is a textbook example of cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:11 PM
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At this point, you’re still hoping to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM
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This is from a female perspective, and it makes sense because you people can have sex whenever you want and therefore there is no failure tag attached to holding onto your V card. For men, it’s completely different - being a virgin in your late teens, let alone as an adult is to be the subject of ridicule and mockery regardless of whether your holding out for the “right” person. This is yet another luxury that women have that men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:58 PM
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So if I didn’t want to date a devout Muslim from Afghanistan, that’s make me a xenophobe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:18 AM
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Should we be forced to date people from different races to whom we are not attracted to just to prove we aren’t racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:18 AM
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No, it isn’t. It’s also extremely impractical to date someone who lives in another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:08 AM
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The OP is a troll, so I only skim read it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:11 PM
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So…do you know which county uses the pound?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:58 PM
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You’ll notice I put my suggested price in pound sterling - the hourly rate for a cleaner is £15-20 an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:53 PM
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Depends on how you believe the free market should function - e.g. if housing policy is left to the market, then housing is built to maximise profit, which entails stifling supply in order to maintain disproportionately high prices
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:51 PM
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That’s stretching the definition of “autistic” to that point of absurdity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:25 PM
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Marx never explicitly advocated central planning; that was a Soviet invention which was necessary to rapidly industrialise the country. But leaving “the market” to determine housing supply obviously doesn’t work either - isn’t that the whole point of your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:16 PM
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I was thinking more in terms of foreign investors buying up property
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:13 PM
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The only solution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:06 PM
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Well good for them, but I get the feeling a we’re on the cusp of a new wave of anti-Americanism and you people aren’t going to be welcomed elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:50 PM
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No - they just double down and eventually mute you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:48 PM
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Which county do you think is going to want a load of unemployed Yank civil servants?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:47 PM
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Free market = short-termism where the only thing that matters is that a few people make a killing at the expense of everything else; when everything is determined by “the market” then progress dies because profit is the only thing that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:46 PM
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It would hurt me to a devastating degree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:00 PM
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That’s unfortunate and I sympathise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:58 PM
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On what fucking planet are autistic men seen as “hyper-masculine”?!? Because it’s not the one we live on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:53 PM
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I would do anything for love - except put myself in a position where I could be rejected; that’s the “I won’t do that” that I will not do in pursuit of this thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:51 PM
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Is what is being proposed not a housekeeping service?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:48 PM
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I would say £20* an hour would be reasonable *approx $24
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:36 PM
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One could argue that your economic situation is something you should think long and hard about before deciding whether or not to spawn a crotch goblin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:19 PM
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This poises the question - should it be a universal right to have children? As the OP pointes out, there are undesirables who want to breed to secure “Muh legacy!” - the question is, should they? We don’t allow household pets to breed willy-nilly, so should the same logic be extended to other humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:17 PM
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Nobody is forcing this on me; but for the oofy doofy guys who want the whole marriage and kids shindig, then that’s invariably the offer that’s on the table - if you want to be a “wife guy” you’ve gotta be prepared to give her every penny you earn and subsidise her lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:04 PM
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Nevertheless, that’s the life they choose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:16 PM
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I’ve built walls A fortress deep and mighty That none may penetrate I have no need of friendship, friendship causes pain It’s laughter and it’s loving I disdain I am a rock I am an island
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:14 PM
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Reverse the genders in the original post an I think we’d get quite a different reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:11 PM
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Obey! Consume! Buy! Reproduce! Stay Asleep! Work! Not everyone drunk the late stage capitalist KoolAid or believes in the Protestant Work Ethic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:10 PM
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Someone’s gotta work the minimum wage jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:07 PM
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Nobody forces them to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:07 PM
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Exactly! That’s why this post has struck a nerve - here we have a man who will not jump on the hamster wheel of self-improvement and diligently toil away in the hope that one day a woman whose pump’n’dump days are behind her will graciously allow him to subside her lifestyle. Here’s a man living life on his own terms and it boils your collective blood
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:45 PM
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Neither do the the type of women who sit on their arse all day and pump out kids in order to sustain that lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:43 PM
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The reason this post has struck a nerve is because a lot of women - including those with Blue Pill flares - expect a man to be willing to support them financially and don’t like to see the boot on the other foot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:42 PM
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Conversely, a lot of women do expect to be supported financially and this is why this post struck a nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:40 PM
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It’s choosing a Beta Male Provider - a little honesty wouldn’t go amiss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:39 PM
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He’s selfish and lazy because he lived life on his own terms and will not be a Beta Male Provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:39 PM
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Work full time in order to be a Beta Male Provider
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:38 PM
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That’s your typical SAHM!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:36 PM
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That’s your typical SAHM!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:36 PM
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Predictable hypocrisy on display - the Blue Pill brigade will insist that Hypergamy isn’t real, and yet here is a litany of evidence of users either Blue Pill flares sneering that this man is a loser because he’s poor and thus wouldn’t be able to “support” (i.e. subsidise) a family!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:33 PM
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He stays at home as becomes a house husband
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:31 PM
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People are responsible for that consequence of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:30 PM
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I’m speaking generally; you can find specific examples on Reddit of people with a range of opinions - that doesn’t equate to said opinion being a commonly held or universal belief
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:27 PM
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You’ve cited one post by one individual - unless that person has somehow been appointed the spokesman of all men, then that is not evidence of groupthink
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:18 PM
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So every single man is a pathological liar and Walter Mitty who lives in an elaborate fantasy world? Or…could it be that you attract a certain type and should therefore…choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:07 PM
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So…one guy? But even then, his logic is that women usually know the person they date to some degree beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:03 PM
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You’ve built a bit of a straw man there; nobody every deploys “choose better” in response to a bad first date - this is generally put to women when they complain about the shitty toxic men they are in an abusive relationship with. Therefore the “guys aren’t given a chance” sentiment remains valid - most women go for toxic assholes who treat them like shit and then play the victim card to absolve themselves of responsibility for their own actions; it’s the guys who aren’t toxic abusive asshole wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 PM
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It’s just normalised misandry - e.g. think of the archetypal sitcom dad: a bumbling, incompetent, overgrown child kept in check by his sensible, level-headed no-nonsense wife; we’re bombarded with the message that men are stupid and child like and women are the opposite and it warps people’s perceptions of themselves and others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:36 AM
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I want to hate fuck my boss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:20 AM
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The rule of thumb is that, the bigger an asshole a man is, the more sexually successful he will be; the most toxic, arrogant, obnoxious and selfish men are always sexually successful - ergo they are “attractive”; they also have a tendency to abuse their partners and cheat on them. But these are the guys you ladies choose and the behaviour you collectively decided to reward, so why am I to argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:31 PM
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Is she legal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:21 PM
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Elon Musk the incel who [checks notes] has been married four times and has twelve kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:36 AM
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Men claim there is a loneliness epidemic because it makes them feel better and bestows upon them a victim status; women claim that there is a loneliness epidemic because it gives them a stick with which to beat men. People want it to exist, but it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:03 AM
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There is no “male loneliness epidemic”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:01 PM
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I don’t see any reason to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:10 PM
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That’s a “no” then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:18 PM
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So it’s all down to looks, in other words?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:18 PM
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Would it kill you to say please?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:11 PM
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Q4W - if you discovered that a guy who attends the same gym as you had publicly (i.e. on a sub Reddit) expressed a desire to sniff the seat of the exercise bike you’d used during a spin class, could that be seen as a romantic gesture? If a guy is willing to risk public humiliation, social ostracism and potential criminal charges for public indecency for but a tantalising sniff of you, is that not, on some level, flattering?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:05 PM
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“You don’t need to be hot” but “it’s mostly your face being appealing to look at” is a contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:00 PM
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I don’t have a burning desire to get married; but 99% of women are conniving and amoral, so for the oofy doofy guys who do want that, they are the default option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:57 PM
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You presumably know what a metaphor is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:47 PM
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That is the goal of feminism - feminists just hate admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:13 PM
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Feminists are against splitting the bill because…PATRIARCHY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:47 PM
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The goal of feminism - to enable women to eat their cake and simultaneously have their cake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:45 PM
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“Women deserve special treatment and privileges because…reasons”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:43 PM
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That’s gaslighting and you know full well it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:42 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:33 PM
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Likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:32 PM
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Your God can go and fuck himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:32 PM
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Keep telling yourself that buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:54 PM
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You don’t need a kid to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:54 PM
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In the ye olden days the man would be allowed to go down the pub and sit it out; now, it’s an obligation for him to be there are he’s attacked of he’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:22 PM
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Taylor is the Millennial Ted Nugent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:21 PM
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Just do it all for the nookie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:19 PM
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If you really are a Chad, you can do both, simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:05 PM
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In my workplace, which is female dominated, most of the women work part time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:04 PM
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They are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:55 PM
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Shooting yourself in the foot there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:47 PM
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Is that the dude who started r/guycry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:33 PM
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If you’re really a “Chad” then you’ve no reason to be celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:32 PM
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He subsidises her; he enables her to work part-time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:30 PM
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Not any more, but that’s not what I was outlining; the current practice is that the man is the main breadwinner and the woman works part time, which she would not be able to do without him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:07 PM
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I don’t want children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:02 PM
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Just like everyone else on Reddit in which case
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:02 PM
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If you use the parasite to become a parasite yourself, then you are a parasite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:01 PM
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What other reason is there to create a miniature version of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:01 PM
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Getting drunk by yourself on a Saturday afternoon is one of the little pleasures that makes life bearable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:52 PM
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That phrase makes me think of Gwen Stefani, who was definitely not “just a girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:50 PM
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It literally grows inside the host, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:48 PM
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I don’t particularly want to start a family - creating life just to inflate your ego is sadistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:44 PM
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As I said, some people get to play life on easy mode and still fuck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:42 PM
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I was referring to SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:42 PM
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Most people shouldn’t be entrusted to own pets, let alone children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:41 PM
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Nothing; being a SAHM is a fancy way of saying “unemployed” - they choose this path because they’ve financially trapped some poor chump with a baby and intend to leach off of him for as long as possible. They are parasites and should be regarded as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:28 PM
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A 25% chance of engine failure is still a pretty big risk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:05 PM
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Generally, the child is conceived in order to financially trap the man and maximise the divorce settlement, and the man’s primary function is to subsidise her lifestyle and enable her to forgo what passes for a “career” - some people manage to fuck up when they’re playing with loaded dice, but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:04 PM
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I’m past the age where getting married would be a viable or worthwhile option, but as the old adage goes, beggars can’t be choosers - the oofy doofy wife guys take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:01 PM
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I’m not flushed with cash, but I earn a decent salary and worked for what I have, so it’s more the principle of having to give half of it to someone else who was simply using me. I’ll also inherit my parent’s assets; I don’t want half of what they worked to accumulate to go to someone who was simply using me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:07 PM
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Blonde hair and blue eyes is invoking the Aryan ideal - the Übermensch, if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:02 PM
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Presumably the people you have sex with are choosing to participate…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:59 PM
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Debatable - put it this way, if we were both on the same flight and the engine blew, you’d be handed a parachute and priority access to the life raft; I’d be shoved out the door without so must as a “I hope you can swim…”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:57 PM
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Your anecdote does not trump my truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:55 PM
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So what attracted you to this man who earns twice as much as you doing what sounds like a typical bullshit job?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:54 PM
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50% end in divorce, and let’s not pretend that the other half are universally happy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:52 PM
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Stop dressing it up - it most cases the child is produced primarily to entrap the man and ensure a bigger divorce settlement; and the man’s primary function is to subsidise her lifestyle so that she doesn’t have to worry about what passes as a “career”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:51 PM
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