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The hope I’ve found is in religion. The divide has definitely encouraged me to embrace my childhood faith even more. It’s given me a purpose, direction, and a framework that helps me solidify my own identity as well as how to interact with the opposite sex. It’s currently working well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:23 AM
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Yes that the dude in the suburbs is more affected by the loss. But I think your point is that a wife asking for something in a divorce means she’s a gold digger but 1) no it doesn’t 2) that’s not what OP is referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:51 AM
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Honestly, I think the partners should support each other as frequently as needed. If he can’t be vulnerable with and get support from his woman, who else CAN he get it from? I will say though that anyone who is in a vulnerable spot all or the time (or even very frequently) is probably not emotionally stable and so probably shouldn’t be in a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:03 AM
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If or when you become rich, you can rightfully become concerned about gold diggers. I think you’re conflating “explaining what I do for work” with “telling women how much money I make.” While similar, they’re not the same thing. A woman asking you what you do for work is not simply trying to politely figure out how much money you make. She’s more so trying to get a feel for your personality. An accountant and a lawyer may make a similar salary but their jobs let me know they have wildly differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:06 PM
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Until or unless you’re a millionaire, it’s irrational to be concerned about gold diggers. You have no gold for them to dig. You’re a middle class guy just like they’re a middle class woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:51 PM
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It’s justified if you’re a millionaire. Are you a millionaire?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:35 PM
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People usually like to talk about themselves and so it’s an easy question to help get the conversation going. Unless you’re actually a millionaire, answering this question honestly is an easy way to figure out if she’s a gold digger bc if she doesn’t like the answer, she’ll leave you alone pretty quickly. Then your problem is solved…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:34 PM
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This is a good question. Interested to know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:17 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. Didn’t intend it as snark. My apologies it came across that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:57 PM
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I’m glad you’ve found something that’s working for you now and meeting your needs. This is me assuming you’re unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:40 PM
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What’s your perspective of a healthy relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:31 PM
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Thanks for sharing. This attitude is evidence that you’ve been seriously harmed in previous relationships or relationship attempts. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m glad you’ve found something that’s working for you now and meeting your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:28 PM
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This is a very real concern. Thank you for sharing. I’m a Christian so I’m praying about this but as a female I don’t know if there’s anything I can practically do. Men need more mentors and emotional support but I’m not somebody who can mentor a guy… 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:18 PM
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Interesting perspective. It seems in this case“power” = financial power? As in the man being the primary breadwinner? Those relationships are healthy bc the man has money and not the woman? Want to be sure I’m understanding you, please correct me if I’m wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:09 PM
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Just to clarify: as long as your needs are met, the relationship is healthy? That’s your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:05 PM
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“I get exactly what I want” is the textbook opposite definition of “middle ground” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:58 PM
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So a healthy relationship is one you don’t have to work at? Where you align in every way and no one ever has to compromise bc you have the same perspective and opinions about everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:54 PM
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the opposite of that So never pay for anything for your partner? Never agree with her? SA her if she’s not in the mood? “Healthy” can’t simply mean the opposite of your negative perceptions about blue pill. Isn’t there a middle ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:32 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. I was unsure if you thought it would be better if men were dragging their women by the hair and that it should be the men who got their way all the time rather than women. Mutual compromise and no one party getting their way all the time seems healthy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:16 PM
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This response seems to be a critique of the blue pill community and not a description of a healthy relationship. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:01 PM
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That doesn’t seem healthy to me and I don’t think you are you saying it is. What is your own perspective of healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:51 PM
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Hmm, not sure it matters? Could you maybe give examples for dealing with both a small (my fave restaurant is out of that dessert I love) and large (the guy I thought I was going to marry cheated on me) disappointment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:29 AM
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What are some healthy ways of coping with disappointment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:21 AM
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Thanks for clarifying!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:50 PM
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Lol what if they have all girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:30 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. Is that a feature the mods choose to set or implement specifically for this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:24 PM
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I’ve been on this sub a few days and noticed people very rarely upvote comments. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:04 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:56 AM
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I doubt he had to study emotional intelligence in a college course Is this more sarcasm? It’s hard to tell. Honestly though, I think you’ve misunderstood what emotional intelligence is. I hope EulenWatcher’s explanation helps clarify what EQ is bc what you mentioned in OP seems to indicate you’re conflating “emotional intelligence” with being “being skilled at manipulating emotions.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:52 AM
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It seems you’re saying empathy and EQ are different? Am I understanding that correctly? I thought empathy was just part of EQ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:26 AM
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You obviously want to be loved, are spending lots of money, time, and energy in order to earn that love, and feel that you’re inadequately rewarded for your effort. You’re right, red pill self improvement tactics aren’t working. I’m so sorry that the people in your life haven’t shown you that you don’t have to earn love. Do you have platonic female friends you can talk to about your situation? Maybe they can help you figure out how to get more of what you’re wanting in life. And if you don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:25 PM
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Yes ok. Sorry if I came across as gaslighting men, not my intention. OP basically said “any woman who doesn’t think I’m 10/10 physically attractive will think she’s settling for me” and I responded that his perspective was evidence of him not understanding how women think and process attractiveness. That was my point. No that women don’t care at all about physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:46 PM
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Can you clarify? What did you understand my point to be? How do women prioritize looks? Are you saying women don’t understand their own priorities about looks but men understand women’s priorities about looks? If so, do you think the opposite is true as well (women understand men’s priorities better than men understand their own priorities?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:48 PM
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So it sounds like bc you think you’re not attractive, you think women are settling for you? And the only way for you to feel as if a woman wasn’t settling for you is if she found you very very attractive? I personally think this is part of your self esteem issues and part of men having a skewed understanding of how women prioritize looks. Even if you’re not model quality in the looks department a woman isn’t necessarily “settling.” But even if she is settling isn’t a problem per se bc no one is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:58 PM
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