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| 0 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?No it’s not, more men are catching on to how women work. Now that other men that will never meet can talk to each other and female behavior can be recorded for all to see, more guys know the reality of women’s delusion and hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?They won’t, she’s just smug in her unearned privilege and you’re not allowed to complain about it because like most men to her you’re just undesirable garbage that has the nerve to call out the injustice of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?It’s because of unearned privilege. This is why men resent your bullshit complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?This is exactly why you seemingly take what I say are potential consequences of societies nonchalance at the increasing number of unpartnered men as a threat to you when i’m just telling you how it is. The reality is men aren’t just going to accept this. There won’t be a “revolution” or whatever bullshit you want to spin out of context of what i’m saying, but if their lives are shit, why should they care what you think is right? Plenty of them will drop out of labor force participation, commit c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?Making them aware of how women truly are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Why do we hear less about how toxic dating is in real life?Men are increasingly unpartnered and having trouble trying to date so that alone would say you’re wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesHow good for you, that’s not the reality I or a lot of men live in. We’ve been shown nothing but disdain until working our asses off to become more desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:42 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesDifference is, if it was chad women WOULD be okay with behaviors that they would not deem acceptable from other men. I’ve exercised this myself, before I became desirable how I treat women would have never been acceptable to most women like they hand wave it off now and sit there and make excuses. Personality doesn’t matter to them, they will make whatever personality a guy has seem good for a guy they actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesIf the women’s movement had harmed men’s interests why the hell should we care? Okay so MEN can’t say I hate women because of the crippling loneliness and constant rejection and the trauma that’s had on my psyche but WOMEN are allowed to hate men because of trauma? What a joke. And seeing as how there is no solution to the dating issues for most men that there can be any realistic fix for, the goal is to level up as much as you can to become desirable, and then start pumping and dumping once you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:14 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesYeah okay lady in the context of you saying you’re going to basically sho*t anyone that has any malicious intent towards you. Most women are incapable of defending themselves as are more than a handful of men’s, this is just a fact, no idea what the hell you’re going on about terrorism, deranged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaves😪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 05:19 PM |
| – | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesOh there’s plenty of men that have liked women, we definitely have no reason to now though. Women hate men so I don’t see why we shouldn’t seek to actively harm women’s interests however we can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 05:17 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesAh yes, shaming men who are undesirable is cool. And you wonder why plenty of men don’t like women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 04:58 PM |
| – | CMV: women have gotten so used to poor treatment, many don't know how to respond when treated wellAccountability is misogyny for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:14 PM |
| 2 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceIf you’re famous it’s a different game, it’s not the same as the rest of us play. Women are clout chasers as i’ve already said, status can make up for almost every other deficiency. There are a lot of country singers right now that could make women bark like dogs and crawl on all fours because they’re “in” and famous, they are objectively average as hell in looks. It’s not about looks at that point unless you are horrendously ugly. How you don’t understand that is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:07 PM |
| 3 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceAverage it what sense, attractiveness? Women chase clout, any celebrity or guy with status can pull, i’m not sure what you’re trying to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:28 PM |
| 3 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceLady, celebrities are NOT average, do you seriously even think about what you’re typing at all?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceMost average men don’t do “fine”. Plenty of decently attractive but “not good enough” men can’t find a woman as near as attractive as him because women are delusional about what they think they deserve/can get for a relationship. And even if she’s finally willing to settle for a guy in her own playing field, he just gets a chick who has been ran through by guys more attractive than him who she really wanted but couldn’t lock down, and he apparently will never be good enough to measure up knowing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:01 PM |
| 4 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceI wish this was elevated to the top of the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceThe delusion runs deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 7 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceIt’s funny how often only the 10% of guys they find attractive have good personalities regardless of if they’re terrible human beings or not. It’s not about personality, women will hand wave or make any excuse for the top guys they think they deserve. Unpleasant personality traits all of the sudden become unique or not so bad. OP is just showing the delusion of the average woman, they fool themselves into believing this when it’s not even how they act at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Do women confirm to hive mind thinking?Okay i’m not going to include people who have social status or are famous. We all know women are attracted to status and are willing to drop panties for it even though they know they’d be nothing more than a ONS at most. For people who aren’t celebrities, there is only attraction to the highly attractive men, settling for anything less is unthinkable for many women. Doesn’t matter if it’s looks match, financially stable, whatever, not good enough anymore apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 05:01 PM |
| 5 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceI’ve known multiple dudes that are objectively not bad looking but not ultra attractive whose self esteem got annihilated by dating apps. I don’t think my anecdotal evidence is uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:06 PM |
| 6 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceThis is where watch what they do not what they say comes in. To their credit I think they don’t actually see it themselves either because they like to lie to themselves because they don’t want to acknowledge if that’s true not only are they not as morally “righteous” as they think they are but then they’re on the hook for the consequences of who they pick to date. They can’t claim victim status when they’re repeatedly screwed over by the guys they choose, it would be their own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:04 PM |
| 5 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceYup this is it. The traits of a good personality simply don’t apply to the vast majority of men they don’t find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:00 PM |
| 4 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceOkay then women shouldn’t be complaining about toxic men if they keep sleeping with them right? It’s their own fault. And they should really stop with the “just don’t be an asshole” platitudes that they go to immediately when guys say they’re having trouble attracting women. The same men that get called out for apparently hating women on here and told that’s why they don’t get laid, yeah that’s not the reality. Plenty of guys that hate women but are good looking can get laid every other day, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:45 PM |
| 5 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceThey literally say one thing in one thread and seemingly refute what they said just the day earlier in a different thread. It happens with almost every single woman that posts on PPD. Apparently the vast majority of men are unattractive but simultaneously somehow men are wrong when they say women are only attracted to the top percentile to men. Clearly the issue is you’re a male and that’s why you’re wrong lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:43 PM |
| 8 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceThey’re just delusional. A lot of dudes that get sex regularly are terrible people that regularly use and dispose of women like a used tissue. It’s all about looks/physical aspects for the vast majority of women but most of them will never admit that because that means they’d have to take accountability for the bad things that happen to them in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:41 PM |
| 7 | The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experienceIt’s like they don’t even read the stuff they type before posting it 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?I am looking, i’m not particularly desperate as I’ve also mentioned in past comments that I do okay for myself. Again i’m not a chad but I can afford to be SOMEWHAT picky, finding the right girl takes time. Like i said even over the past 5 years i’ve seen it has gotten noticeably harder to date as a man. Then it’s always fun seeing all the comments/prompts/bios of women whining about how they have trust issues or are bitter because they get used when they’ve repeatedly just refused to look for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?Well actually one a good chunk of it was, and two I was making a point that many young males who don’t have families are more prone to violent action. I did not say anything similar to that was going to happen, i was using as context that these events are many times driven by young men who have no reason to accept the status quos and don’t have an interest in moderating due to kids/wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:49 PM |
| 8 | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?No one is saying that there is going to be an organized revolution, try reading dude. Again, it is well known that men who don’t put down roots and have families are more likely to be political extremists and commit violent crime, that isn’t a threat this is a well known phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:13 PM |
| – | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?You guys act like you don’t understand why female behavior wasn’t regulated for the vast majority of human society, it’s amusing. What we are doing now is relatively new and shows why it’s not a good idea lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?I mean, young men with no families and no interest in preserving the status quo…? It’s well documented men are much more politically extreme before they settle down and have families. Men who aren’t getting what they need out of society will probably seek to change it both legitimately and illegitimately, like has been done countless times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Is much of the incel problem due to highly Trad/Conservative men?Doesn’t work like that, political extremism doesn’t go away by allowing people to not pay taxes. They are forced to participate whether they want to or not. This is why revolutions and civil wars happen instead of people just dropping off the grid. Unfortunately it doesn’t work like that, people (men) are increasingly going to become violent and not care about the rules of society as it no longer even is able to facilities a basic function of human biology that has existed since before humans we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsOh it’s well over single digits in terms of the guys are struggling to find a mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Do women confirm to hive mind thinking?Definitely not, women find A small portion of men attractive with a SLIGHT variation in preference. This is why extreme pickiness exists in both online dating AND real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsNo, the advent of social media and dating apps have massively skewed the dating market in favor of women to say nothing of feminism. Society has always been created in a way that put some basis on the family unit, and those that have tried to replace it with the state have ultimately failed. I’m not saying at all women are obligated to use sex to keep women happy, i’m saying if enough men go unpartnered and are unable to fulfill one of the core biological functions of reproduction it makes for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsIt is harmful if it starts to happen to more than an insignificantly small amount of males as very few societies have been able to function with the majority of their population unable to start family units or find companionship with members of the opposite sex, particularly men. In fact one of the leading theories as to why men moderate politically and are less likely to commit violent crimes as they enter middle age is because they have families and are well established i.e. have an active int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsStruggling to find a partner? Study after study show more men are actively seeking and are not single voluntarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsOh I can, i’m in a bit of a dry spell atm but i’m not saying the system isn’t working for me 100%. Being slightly above average I can definitely see the delusion in a lot of women but it’s not like i’m completely without options, still takes quite a bit of time for me to find someone though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThere definitely is, I know you’ve seen plenty of studies on here showing the rise of sexlessness and partnerless of particularly young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI didn’t threaten anything, I said if it’s become intolerable for a significant chunk of men why should they play by the rules? The vast majority of men want to find a partner and humans have always cohabitated and started families with someone of the opposite sex since before recorded history according to archaeological evidence. If a large amount of men are now blocked out of that why should they not want society to fail and actively seek to contribute to do that or try to harm women’s “autono… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsAs i’ve said above, it is well known that societies in which large chunks of men don’t partner or get sex become unstable. There are plenty of things men just aren’t allowed to do, like use their superior physical strength to do whatever they want. Again, if this society doesn’t work for a large minority of men they should simply just do whatever is best for them and ignore society’s rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThat is precisely my point. Obviously nothing will be done to alleviate a large chunk of men in the populations ability to start a family unit and seek companionship with the opposite sex which numerous sociologists have acknowledged is required for a functional society, so again, I reiterate my point, whether they want to protest vote for politicians that openly advocate for restricting women’s bodily autonomy, opt out, or commit crimes because they no longer feel like they should play by the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:43 PM |
| 11 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThere are definitely ways to do this other than force. Nothing that the current society we live in do because women are a privileged group but you could start at banning dating apps that make women much more picky and think they are far more desirable than they actually are just because there are men far out of their league willing to use their bodies. Again, everyone’s autonomy is curtailed to an extent, if something is not good for society as whole in the long run then most society’s try to ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:40 PM |
| 10 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI’m saying that if it’s getting this bad that it’s starting to make national news clearly there’s more than a small minority of men struggling. Plenty of people know perfectly fine men struggling to date who are average in every sense of the word, not autistic, hygienic etc. If this is how it is and it’s this bad for them they should opt out or just stop playing by the rules of a society that isn’t working for them because society is never going to change to make things better for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsMost men have no problem with individual autonomy of women, yet when they act delusional and don’t want to accept being in a relationship with someone who is in their same ballpark of attraction/what they have to offer that tends to upset some guys. It’s not like he’s saying you should be forced to marry someone you don’t want or you shouldn’t have the right to vote. It’s not about controlling women like a lot of you on here like to pretend and jump straight to the extreme, it’s about given unfe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:28 PM |
| 18 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsEveryone’s autonomy to a certain extent can be a problem, that’s why there are rules set in place in society. If individual autonomy damages the overall social contract that society is built off of, then autonomy in limited circumstances is always curtailed. You act like that’s a new concept, that’s how it’s always been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:25 PM |
| 14 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsHow can’t he? I fail to see where the logic breaks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsYou pretty much just did, you tried to have a gotcha moment by saying he was implying women’s autonomy is a bad thing. I know that’s not exactly what you said but that’s definitely what you were implying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:18 PM |
| 16 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsWe can go back and forth on how many guys are actually struggling, you’re gonna throw a study at me and i’ll throw study’s back. But the fact that it’s starting to get national attention via news articles and male loneliness/sexlessness is making national news shows you that even if it’s not the majority it’s still getting up there to significant proportions of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsOkay, then stop bitching about guys bitching about delusional women then, I don’t know what to tell you. Honestly at this point if we’re in a society that works this poorly for average guys in finding romance and love they should just stop playing by the rules and opt out or do what’s best for them and not go along with rules set by a system they don’t feel is working for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:13 PM |
| 17 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsOkay, then if they get screwed over by jerks and used for sex they shouldn’t complain about it just like average dudes aren’t allowed to point out that women are delusional in not wanting to settle for their looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:10 PM |
| 18 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsHoly shit the point went over your head at mach 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:08 PM |
| 16 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsYou really can’t accept plenty of men without autism have this struggle, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:07 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.Have seen a noticeable uptick in recent posts of absolutely seething women on here that are openly hostile and so bothered for what lmao. If the women on this sub don’t think any of this is their issue and despise the men on here i’m confused why they come on here unless they are butt hurt about being pumped and dumped and not getting as much male attention as they used to lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:21 PM |
| – | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingYeah I mean obviously that’s delusional, but a lot of us guys look at what women go for, guys that are objectively not bad looking, and have a decent amount of experience, but are struggling a lot, because dating apps are not ideal for most guys. there’s not a whole host of options either though. women want the hottest men, okay sure makes sense, but then complain when they get used and paint men in general as all horn dogs who just want to use women when there’s legitimate less attractive BUT S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 02:50 AM |
| – | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingI understand that SOME of the dudes on here are delusional about wanting a virgin/young girl but I feel like the vast majority of us would accept someone who has had prior partners (just not especially promiscuous) who is looks matched. I say this as someone who as had numerous girlfriends/a couple hookups/flings but is currently in a dry spell bc dating apps are brutal and my social circle doesn’t have an abundance of single women in it. As shit as they are dating apps are a lot of guys only re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Below average men consider themselves average, which is the root of many problems in datingwomen are the arbiters of entitlement, gtfo with your nonsense lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 08:08 PM |
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