ElectricalDufus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Q4M: Your SO refuses to be emotionally vulnerable with you - Deal-breaker? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:32 PM
2	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. I think both genders are in denial or willfully ignorant to the other’s struggles because the struggles themselves are on the opposite ends of the spectrum, despite their similar crossover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 12:49 PM
7	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Just like women, height does matter to some men and I don’t think my gender can overlook that. It’s just in a different way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 12:43 PM
8	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Show me where I ever said that. At all. All I said was one is at least somewhat controllable and the other one isn’t it really at all. Your health & fitness are a representation of how you carry yourself and your lifestyle. It’s one of the biggest representation of discipline & hard work. Height is mostly just a number passed down through genes. I’ve also said in this thread, BOTH genders judge height & weight. It’s just more frowned upon for men to have the standards. Which you’re proving my po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 12:40 PM
13	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. To be fair, we judge both as well. Most guys will not and can not date someone taller than them. It’s intimidating to a good number of our gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 12:20 PM
8	"Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards. Men are without a doubt judged more harshly for standards. That just comes with the territory of dealing with the more feminine gender. My only issue with the argument itself is people who argue the weight vs height dynamic that ALWAYS gets brought up. Because on one hand, you at least have some ability to change your weight, everyone does, even if genetics are not in your favor. So therefore you should be held responsible for that and there should be no pity party. Height is pretty much just ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 11:05 AM
–	Men, do you actually reject women for this reason? If you’re an attractive women and you keep yourself from consistently getting involved with men, it shows a great restraint of impulsive decision making and shows you that sex itself isn’t cutting it for you and you desire more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 10:32 AM
1	dating issues we can all agree on (i think) Your last point is completely opinionated. That would be like me saying it’s bad for women to only date men a certain height, except you can control your sexual past (barring actual abuse) and not so much your height. It’s not wrong for men to want someone more historically reserved in their intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:21 AM
1	Q4M: Your SO refuses to be emotionally vulnerable with you - Deal-breaker? Eh. Too many people judge people’s lowest points. Whether you wanna make the argument our genders are specifically hardwired one way or another, there is no hardwiring to deal with things like the loss of a love one, pet, or childhood issues. I think you miss out on a lot of moments with your partner if you forgo all emotional vulnerability. Feel like you don’t understand your partner as well doing this purposefully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:19 AM
–	Men, do you actually reject women for this reason? I use to not care at all. Nowadays, I think about it more and more and I think men should value it a bit more in a long term partner. I think both genders have their dealbreakers and I don’t think it’s unreasonable for me as a dude to want someone who doesn’t have a past. Most women have all the options possible so I think it’s telling a bit of character one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:14 AM
5	Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why? Thank you for the encouragement and kind words!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:06 PM
7	Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why? Eh. As a 5’8 dude, 23 year old, I don’t like to venture dating apps because they probably just wouldn’t be a positive in my life. I don’t think I’m bad with women, as a I’ve had plenty of really close female friends and a pair of relationships. I’m also already kind of past my bar stage of life. I prefer to spend time in the gym, cooking, and watching movies so I don’t really venture out and that’s on me. Idk. I’m happy in my career. Making lots of money. Traveling. Only really working 9-10 mont…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 09:36 AM
0	Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"? I think OLD is ridiculous in both directions. Women - swiping on a specific % of men Men - swiping on literally everything There is no middle ground. No meeting point between the two genders. Just both sides that blame the other. I find OLD to be more superficial than I typically am, and I think human interaction in public settings saves everybody a lot of time in that short timespan to make your impressions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 09:29 AM
25	As a woman why should I get married? It really is that simple too. I don’t know if it comes off as someone who is trying to vet themselves, but okay cool, if you’re happy being single, then do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 09:24 AM
2	Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"? Lmao what a generalization. You say you can’t trust us, but what did you do just here? Only thing you did was double down on the men that men themselves are calling out. It’s why you got defensive. Hell I don’t even venture this sub that often but this comment is hilarious. It’s okay to be superficial, it’s the one facet of life where you can be as much as you want and it shouldn’t get push back unless you’re deliberately hurting others, but lying about it is just weird lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 09:22 AM