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| 2 | WI please helpFirst talk to a lawyer. Next, why assume it is in your children's best interest to live with the repeat cheater.. fight for custody man | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Splitting BillsWhat does YOUR lawyer say? And if you don't have one, get one | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Cheating, infidelity, deceit.Have you retained a lawyer? You need to look at values and tax implications when you do those swaps... good luck man | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 01:24 AM |
| 3 | I'm about to get destroyedLawyer up ASAP...you have rights if you assert them. Let your lawyer use the knowledge of her cheating to your advantage. Her baseless claims of abuse/fears of you can be used to destroy her credibility in court. Be strong stay cool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 08:57 AM |
| 3 | What am I entitled to in a cooperative divorce?For God's sake talk to a lawyer...you still might have an amicable divorce but you have to run through assets and scenarios...and might still go for spousal support and a piece of her retirement. Also look at tax issues | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 8 | As glad as I am my state instituted mandated 50/50 judgements, it is wildly fucked it took this long.Did you express your disdain for her unprofessional conduct? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 10:21 PM |
| 5 | What is something you always wanted to do but couldn't before divorce and now you're doing?Wow..well done | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How to verify you are her Plan B/C/D/...ZWell done | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Feeling extremely deflated/enraged."...she is only allowing me.."...what is that? Why are you letting her dictate the schedule with your children? Don't let her establish "..facts on the ground..". If you can't reach a temporary agreement hire a lawyer and let a judge set the temporary schedule. Never ever let your estranged spouse dictate to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Equity PayoutNo benefit at all.. Get off the loan through the refinance | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I wish someone would tell me what to do. I’m going insane.I don't crave her I don't miss her... there's your answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Discovery process: does my lawyer request docs from STBX?I can't stress this enough...do not submit anything directly to her or her lawyer if you have retained your own lawyer; your lawyer will strategize which requests are appropriate and which are just abusive. And your lawyer will want your input to create a set of questions and a list of documents to request from stbxw. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?A tight but fair prenup is gold, in 36 years I never had one set aside...but it does take a family law specialist | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 08:57 AM |
| 4 | LuckySounds like legal malpractice...how in the world did you do so badly? And why was her infidelity not uncovered? That why we have PI's | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Being careful before asking for divorceYou might have exposure for alimony but you need to discuss this with a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/24 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Wife not negotiatingTalk to your lawyer... it's their job to help you figure out what to do... | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to men to protect their assetsAgree...back when I was a divorce lawyer I drafted many ironclad prenups, never had one set aside but see a family law specialist | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 11 | Alimony QuestionGood Lord... always have your own lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Kevin Costner divorceYou win today my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 07:09 PM |
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