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| -5 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.Current Feminists will quite literally find ways to blame men for anything that goes wrong or happens to them. Anything that goes wrong in their lives is due to men being shit or some patriarchal bullshit Does that mean all women think this way? Not in the slightest but the current modern feminist movement is an actual joke. It's no longer about equality or even equity they want the world to give them every privilege and reward just for being women. It's even seen in mostly benign stuff like if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesA lot of guys consider what he said as "too much effort", but yes if you aren't enjoying it anymore then you aren't ever going to get anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesWomen in HR are truly the most useless, overpaid position ever conceived. The department is already worthless, and then they put in people whose concept of work is gossiping the whole work day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriagesthey don't need to be into the EXACT same things you are. My GF doesn't play video games at all but we still get along great. You're going to spending most of your time with this person you need to get along and be friends as well as partners otherwise you're just going to meeting up to argue and fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 05:52 PM |
| 10 | Men don't need to settle - they choose toit's all men who are settling and putting up with toxic bullshit and things like deadbedrooms. Anybody with some self respect would get out of that mess but they aren't because they think "I'll be single forever if I don't keep this one" you can dress it up a dozen different ways but men are settling because they're mad they aren't what they think chad is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:50 AM |
| 18 | Men don't need to settle - they choose toYou're missing the part where the guys who have that mentality are completely defeatist and think since they weren't born as 6'4 white chads they'll never actually be lusted after, and any girl that wants them will only care about them because "her clock is ticking" and think he'd make a good atm and lifestyle provider. Being single is 10x better than being with someone who doesn't make you happy but that's not why these guys want a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:37 AM |
| 2 | "Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similarIt's a super common thing to assume that if something is hard to achieve and you don't have it then anyone who does was just lucky or was born with it. Charisma, physique, wealth doesn't matter the have-nots will always be jealous of the haves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 4 | "Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similarThey still aren't "cool", but they don't get you branded a weirdo outcast anymore so the people who openly enjoy these activities aren't just those who don't care about their social standing anymore. I remember how much I hid a lot of the video games I enjoyed when I was younger and now I can bring it up a lot more. People don't care about stick in the muds anymore. There's a still a subset that tells everyone to stop touching video games and we ignore them these days instead of entertaining the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for whyAll that has nothing to do with dating though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 6 | The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for whythe incels can't even get off their asses long enough to get in shape. I think we'll be okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:18 PM |
| 4 | The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for whyIf you're all of those things and can't get a date with a girl you're either shooting WAY out of your league every time or you're just really bad at the game, or you're genetically just that ugly but the percentage of people that butt ugly is lower than the percentage of people that are actually chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | The vast majority of whining about society online comes from people whose personally lives have failed. It doesn't mean society is collapsing. It doesn't mean the West Has Fallen Billions Must Die. It doesn't mean that all women are evil. It just means that you suck and are looking for whywtf. she's not my type but you'd have to be blind to think she's mid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 08:05 PM |
| 4 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.if it was isolated to women in their late teens and early 20s in college sure maybe they're just naive, but when I'm seeing women in their 30s approaching 40 doing the same thing it's kinda hard to handwave it away by saying they're "young and naive", and like I said these aren't broken unstable women. It's women in high knowledge good careers like pharmacists. Women always correlate "bad boy" traits with being fun and exciting. As much as they'd like to say they look for "nice men" they don't. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 02:06 AM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?There's a reason you tell guys that being in shape is the easiest golden ticket to more dates. If you're 15% body fat and under you're already beating out most dudes a woman is going to see in her day to day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?Nothing worth doing is easy, and building up your social circle and making connections with people you like is a much better use of your time than sitting on your ass swiping on Tinder or Hinge. Fyi if you think it takes too long to build a social circle that kinda tells me you aren't very good socially and need to work on that if you want to not struggle attracting women, or you're one of the people who wants everything yesterday and think there's a magic pill to make people like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:30 PM |
| 5 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.a fantasy that women consistently go after in real life too at least in the age range of 20-40. Not ALL of them and not even a majority but more than enough that someone like op going "IT DOESN'T HAPPEN THEY"RE LYING TO YOU" comes off as gaslighting unless he's significantly older and doesn't experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.uh no I'm talking real-life experience anyone who spends any amount of time around single women who aren't 50+ sees this stuff happen frequently. I could give 2 shits about studies or whatever I use life experience and the rest of my friend's life experiences we see this shit and we're all happily successful in dating so we aren't talking from some bitter incel space. I'm almost 30 and scores of women in my age bracket and up do this all the time and guys like me hear about it because we're the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityMasculinity is needed and we do need to stamp out toxic masculinity, but the feminazis as usual took it 10 steps further and now think anything involving men is a threat to their existence. women are attracted to masculine men whether you're asshole or the kind type doesn't really matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:44 PM |
| 12 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.none of that is true. Complete normal stable women go after the "bad boys" ALL THE TIME it's why there is so much smut about it. Scores of women want that dangerous exciting dude who's good with them but seems hazardous to everyone else. Does that mean kind men don't get laid? Not even a little but this nonsense about women not going after glaringly obvious disasters is a complete lie all you need is a pair of eyeballs and to be around women socially for any length of time to see it's not the ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexAnyone who's that sexually loose male or female is probably never going to be a good committed partner because they're far too willing to bang anyone who interests them. ALLL the sluts and manwhores I know have relationship trouble because they're borderline incapable of keeping their pants on. It's never the partner's fault they've signed up for a monogamous committed relationship, not an open one where you get to sleep with anything that takes your fancy and then come home (which is fine if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:24 PM |
| 4 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityIt's a pretty simple system of the better looking you are the more you're allowed to get away with when it comes to the general dating population. This works for both genders it's why the hot crazy scale exists. Most of the guys here just don't want to admit they might be not be as interesting as they think they are so to them it's obvious that women don't want them because they're delusional and only want a 10/10 chad for his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:15 AM |
| – | Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor.just as many women are also happy to approach and flirt at the bar/club it's a great place to talk to girls, and no you aren't going to magically know which one is which but most aren't going to chew you out for saying hello especially if you're fun and match their vibe if they're trying to have a fun night. There have multiple instances where a girl has been having a "girls night" and then a me or a buddy approached her and she and her friends had even more fun and danced/grinded/made out with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor.Can confirm have had a flirty friend for months we have on-and-off attempts to date (aka her turning me down and then proceeding to come back to flirting lol). We're still great friends and hang out all the time without any issues stemming from it even though it's an open fucking secret we're both attracted just not compatible as a couple lol. Hell my current GF can see it and eggs it on because she finds the dynamic absolutely hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | "Don't judge a book by his cover"?First impressions are usually correct. Most people aren't as deep as they think, but I'm also generally pretty observant as a person. Some people have surprised me over time in both positive and negative ways. The cover is always important a lot of people give off bad impressions simply due to how they present themselves and it's not even like "omg they're ugy" it's their body language how they hold themselves etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Men might as well cold approach women in person given how the dating app market skews so heavily against their favor.I'd add that most attractive women end up overstimulated and oversaturated with male attention as is especially if they ever go out to bars and things. It's why if you ever ask about cold approach to a successful guy he'll tell the man asking that sometimes you'll get ignored just due to do bad timing because she's been hit up one too many times that day. We'd not even classify what you're talking as a cold approach that's getting close to warm. Many guys just try to skip 10 steps ahead and ask … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Would you date someone who is bisexual?If you're a bi guy trying to date straight women never mention you're bi unless something comes up that requires it. Women actively discriminate against bi men in dating more than any other factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | The Issue is MenThe issue is large parts of both genders have lost the plot and don't know what they're doing anymore. The difference is that as a society at large we will tell men they're fucking up and how it's their fault. We don't do the same for women and that's how manosphere shit has grown because they're the ONLY people calling out women for their bullshit even if a lot of them are misguided or grifters. If you think the issue with modern dating and relationships is JUST because of men you're actively p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorYes that's the goal, but that was the problem with the original woman who posted. She probably didn't mean it the way it came across (or she did and is now backtracking after her BF got rightfully pissed off). I know for some women this is alien and I understand why but a lot of guys have been told throughout their lives that they're "great guys" or will "make some woman real happy one day" and yet all they ever keep seeing is women picking every other man that isn't them and a lot of the time i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 7 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorand what are you getting out of that aside from a hole in your wallet? A couple of hours with a woman who isn't that interested in talking to you and probably isn't going to put out either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorthat's exactly what happens. Lots of guys get told "they'll make some woman really happy some day" as if it's some big compliment while the women they know go hook up with guys that appear to be anyone but them. Being marriage material is great only if the person saying it also thinks you're fuck material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 8 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorNah they just straight up don't realize how little being nice plays a factor in being attractive and no matter how much woman say they look for "nice men" they rarely do that. Like the one friend I know who said that the one period of time she was "on a break" from her BF she went straight for the "good guy" asshole of our group. I don't think it has anything to do with EGO women do care about kind men but it's not going to be the factor that attracts her to you in the first place. The ideal as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorIf you don't physically desire the supposed "husband material" then it isn't romantic love. You might as well be getting loved for your stuff at that point. I don't subscribe to the whole beta alpha crap but if you're trying to say you can truly love your partner but not have any sexual desire for them that's ludicrous. The only scenario where that would happen is if one of the individuals is Asexual. If a woman doesn't want me physically I don't particularly care how much of a "great" partner s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorBecause that part is almost always implied in shit like this but most women have the sense to not actually say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 08:21 AM |
| 8 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior100% You never want the first line. Being the second is good enough in most cases. Find a girl who considers you the third and keep her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 08:09 AM |
| 30 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorJust don't bother taking women out for dinner or getting them flowers until they prove they actually find you attractive and don't just want free shit or "romance". I treat my GF like a princess a lot of the time, but she dragged me to her apartment on the second date, so it's pretty obvious she finds me desirable in the first place. The women who talk about garbage like that are genuinely clueless to what late bloomer men deal with and they get defensive when called out on their bullshit. No, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 08:08 AM |
| 22 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorWomen will truly never understand how little we give a shit about being known as the "nice one" or the "husband material" especially hearing it and the women going "But that's what I look for" when you point out no guy wants to hear that. The woman never goes for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 08:03 AM |
| – | Stereotypes about change in behaviour of opposite sex when in a relationship. How true is it.women get hit on the same when in a relationship maybe slightly less but not noticeable. Men get hit on A LOT more when in a relationship especially if the girl they're with is attractive. Social proof as a guy is huge and having an attractive woman with you massively increases how interested other women are in talking to you. Even just having attractive female friends does a ton but an actual date makes some women swarm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.it's almost always attached to other things. No one's telling someone who think he's a loser to go act like he owns the place the next day. Confidence is a mindset but it's also earned. When someone is in good health and good shape with a circle of friends that respects him that naturally leads to more relationships. Like everything else building this takes time and the reality is most guys don't want to bother putting in the work to get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching genuinely controversial or taboo?that's technically still cold approach just with a different flavor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenDepends on the location guy and the girl. I've had a date before talking to a girl walking her dog. Wasn't even trying to hit on her I just thought her dog was absolutely adorable (she had a samoyed thing was a walking cloud). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 12:01 AM |
| 3 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womencold approaching is completely fine. It's easier if you already have some excuse to talk to people (bar, club, coffee shop etc.). Approaching random women on the street is a much tougher move because they'll generally have their guard up right away cause well strange dude no matter how attractive you might be. It's possible and can work but it's a lot of work to get good at street approach compared to just doing it in social venues. Women who keep talking about you need to be friends and "buildi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | If attraction is non-negotiable then cold approaching is just as legit as any other way of meeting womenAnd it gives you protection. I'm loved at my local music haunt so the bartenders all have my back. I remember I had the super rare case of a girl trying to start some shit because my buddies and I were being social and the staff just ignored her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Men don't actually care about sex. If they did, they'd strive to be better at it and actively learn about female anatomy.Most dudes struggle to even get to the sexual encounter. their skills are irrelevant. The Orgasm gap is from party girls hooking up with hot guys who are on average terrible at it because they've never really had to learn and their interest is getting themselves off since they can get another girl the next week lol. Unless you're going through a friend group your sexual skills mean very little for getting laid. Now it can help. Women talk and if you're good in the sack and it's casual there's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Is a man who is lovey-dovey/affectionate seen as feminine or unattractive?Hyper masculinity is very much an American thing. Europeans like your Italian friends are much more affectionate. I grew up hugging my male friends all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesIt's a compatibility thing and usually, when you get laid within a couple hours of meeting someone as PUA it's because of an "instadate" as you met them and then spent hours with them. At that point, they have a pretty good idea what you're like or at least what you're presenting as, and can make an informed decision at least in their mind. A lot of guys on this sub seem to think successful dudes walk up to a woman making bedroom eyes and she immediately wants to suck his dick in the parking lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesIt's a bit of a tough balancing act because some women do string along guys for way too long while being willing to jump into bed with other dudes at the drop of a hat (I know some women like this personally), but that means the men themselves have to learn boundaries. I have a 3 date rule that I'll bend depending on how the other dates went. Sexual compatibility means a lot to me so If I'm going to be dating someone long-term I need to know that we're a fit in that department, and honestly if a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesTHERE WE GO. I don't know how hard it is for dudes to get it through their heads. They seem to think every woman is the random drunk club girl who's trying to have sex at 2am because she's on the rebound or the girl just trying to get laid on tinder. That's about the only times a woman will stare at a guy check if he's hot enough and go "You'll do". If the girl is stringing you along for weeks with only crumbs of affection don't put up with it, but just because she doesn't want to jump your bone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesFeminazis don't realize how much they're derailing their movement. I have so many liberal female friends who want nothing to do with the feminist tag because of how psychotic they've all gotten. Like the misogynists don't need to do anything they're turning women against themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:31 PM |
| 4 | What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value?My GF and I banter constantly it's great and keeps the mood light, and with that, we also communicate well. If something is bothering one of us we just say it. I can't stand passive aggressive bullshit and the whole thing of a woman saying nothing's wrong while expecting you to be a mind reader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: more people need to start putting up or shutting up.it's pretty much always the exact opposite. Struggling dudes get given advice that is actionable and the response is always just "NONE OF THAT SHIT WORKS I'M JUST NOT TALL ENOUGH IT"S OVER FOR ME". Like what do you really expect us to do when that's their mentality? You want to be attractive as a man? Get to 15%BF, get a decent wardrobe (can literally just be jeans and tshirsts/henleys as long as they fit well, get a good haircut and beard trim. then you learn how to flirt. There is no exact sci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityYup anything that paints women in a bad or imperfect light and shows that they can be as shallow as men must be denied at every turn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityI'm a case study for it rofl. At the height of my performing career in music I attracted the craziest chicks because "omg performing music so exciting" I was still a kind dude but I was funny, charismatic and just the fact I was around the music scene and its drama attracted them like moths. Now I'm functionally retired before 30m have even more money live a free life of luxury and I'm in even better shape now cause I'm drinking less and have more time to do fitness. I'm now considered the "bori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?again not any different than women proclaiming every man is a potential rapist. Every woman is a potential gold digger and I've seen enough women blatantly go after money that I consider women acting like it doesn't happen to be borderline malicious. I'm not telling women to stop being careful either it's the fact that women will spout that and then get mad at men for doing the same thing. I could give two shits about being labeled a misogynist for protecting men from women looking to take advan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?I just realized how all of this sounds exactly like the whole "all men are rapists" but if men ever bring that up women lose their shit about the "not all men" thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:57 PM |
| -1 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?Yes, it teaches men to be careful. Women are shallow and women do go after money not all of them but a significant enough majority. Also forget the astrology acting like that's a problem when women teach other women to act as if every guy they meet is a potential rapist is hypocritical as fuck, and don't try to say women acting scared of all men doesn't have social consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?That would require women to take accountability for anything that might paint them in a bad light. Kinda hard for a feminist to do when their entire life is playing the victim. I have friends who think the same way you do and they have this same reaction you're having now when dealing with girl groups lol. It's crazy how women can point out something harmful then men do have something similar pointed out women do and then immediately proclaim it's not the same thing when the only difference is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:44 PM |
| 30 | Double standard re. Male vs female insecuritiesBecause everything is a man's fault and if a woman is a feminist she will never take accountability for anything it's always some outside factor that's the problem. As a man you're expected to deal with your shit and never assume someone will help you. If you expect that level of maturity out of a woman you're a misogynist according to feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:35 PM |
| 6 | CMV: if he doesn't fight for you when you break up, he's not the onewow, that's some toxic garbage, and no egomaniacs who can't take some leaving them have meltdowns when they get dumped. Emotionally adjusted people will just accept it's happening and move on. If having a meltdown when you want to leave makes the guy the "one" then the woman is a basket case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 7 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopCorrect but none of those other factors matter until you hit that base level of looks for her to even consider it. A guy's attractiveness is a whole package but if you don't have the looks for that girl to consider you an option the rest of it is moot. If I walk up to a woman who already thinks I'm attractive, she will be receptive to my flirting pretty quickly. If she thought I wasn't hot enough she's going to blow me off immediately or barely pay attention. In both those scenarios, I had the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:31 AM |
| 8 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopAh I was talking about initial attraction. Unless you're looking to date shallow pyschos then your looks aren't as big a deal for keeping a relationship going, but the point I always make is that you won't even be allowed to GET to that point if you aren't hot enough to interest the people to begin with. The halo effect is indeed real. There was a very noticeable shift in how women treated me the more in shape I got | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopYou max out your attractiveness and then do all the other shit really about it. If you aren't 15%BF and below you get there. Get a stylist. Get a haircut and beard that complements your face. If you're into them get some tattoos. After that you work on the concept of game which is really just being good socially and a fun flirt. There isn't that much super-specific advice here because it's personnel. I personally can teach a guy to be a funny flirt but that doesn't work for everyone. It's not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:01 AM |
| 8 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopI'll be the first to dunk on the red pillers who think everyone needs to be 6'4 white chad to get laid, but looks ARE the primary motive. Everything afterward only matters if you hit the looks threshold. I could place the most charming emotionally intelligent male in front of a woman. If he doesn't hit her looks barrier then nothing he does matters. Telling a guy to not improve his looks first is misleading him because if you haven't maxed out your looks the rest of the stuff you do will only he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:56 AM |
| 8 | The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling men18-19 I understand you're barely an adult and don't know your ass from your face, but I swear some of these women act like 21+ women have no agency and 0 ability to make their own decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:49 AM |
| 15 | The overwhelming majority of people bitching about or even paying attention to “age gap” relationships are undesirable women and virtue signaling menand 99% of the cases aren't the 35 year old dating an 18 year old. it's something like a 26-year-old girls dating someone in his mid to late 30s and they act like he's a predator. The age means jack shit after like 23 no one cares. If you click you click. OP is being dumb but it does very often feel like it's just undesirables mad desirable aren't dating them and just dating pretty people in a different bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:57 PM |
| 44 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.yeah, no shit musicians get groupies all the time. If you have a modicum of talent and can perform you'll get some attention. I wouldn't call the attention great. I had some absolute bombshells hit me up when I was playing in NYC but dear fucking god women who go after performing bar musicians are by and large psychos. it is a known fact that if you pass a certain level of looks and status than you will have pussy thrown at you. Morality does not matter when it comes to getting laid, but it's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.that's pretty much what I end up going for these days. I'm late 20s the women I date are in their mid to late 30s and all look a deacade+ younger lol. I don't want kids so fertility blah blah is immaterial to me. I get 20-something looks with 30-something brains. win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 3 | What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideologyNot Pill anything, but I'm very anti-modern feminist since they all still want to play the victim at every turn without a shred of accountability for anything. My girlfriend agrees with me on a lot of things, and my mom thinks I'm too liberal so she'd probably go down harder. Women being able to vote, work, get abortions all that stuff should happen and they should have equal opportunities to their male peers. Modern feminism has nothing to do with that it's just badly disguised misandry where t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:24 PM |
| – | Men also label women who they find unattractive " creeps"Yeah no. They might get called desperate, but they'll never get labeled creepy nor will anyone ever do anything about it if it gets brought. If anything the men will just get told to deal with it because of this exact garbage where they assume we only care because the girl isn't hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 03:36 AM |
| 2 | There are things passport bros don’t understandin the US 5ft9 and about 198lbs they're also overweight, but that's not what women think when they mean average either so it's not like they're any better about it. I make fun of fat dudes trying to go after skinny chicks too. If you want your SO to look a certain way you better be trying to match it as best as possible. So many delusional dudes want gym baddies while their day is spent on the couch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:07 PM |
| -1 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menwell yeah, what idiots are telling you to not work on your looks at the same time? You should always looksmax but having the skills to build a social circle is also important. Do some fat guys get laid with pretty woman? Sure but you're living life on hard mode when you could just lose 10-20lbs and increase your chances astronomically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menIf you can't build a good social circle with guys to go meet women with or women who want to hang out with you. Unless your looksmaxx leads you to be in the small percentage that gets laid by just existing you won't be getting attractive women anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVthat's what I usually look for. I've learnt a long time ago that if a woman is interested she makes it pretty clear that she is. It's not an exact science obviously and I've misinterpreted signs before (what dude hasn't). as for figuring out the first part it comes across pretty quickly in conversation and how she acts. Women when they really like someone are incredibly physical at least from my experience so if a girl approaches (assuming she isn't wasted out of her mind) and takes every libert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:40 PM |
| 3 | There are things passport bros don’t understand5'4 and 170 is fat and borderline obese so even if it's the "average" no skinny dude should be expected to call that his looksmatch. Oh and no the fat homely women don't want fat homely guys if anything they're the most delusional along with most single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVhalf correct. Attractive men who aren't starved for attention are turned off by being approached by average women. My reasoning is men are expected to approach I accept it. When a women approached me in the way men do she either is REALLY into me (which isn't a negative or positive just an observation) or she doesn't get approached herself at least not by men she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.ALL initial interactions start off looks. If you don't find the other person attractive in some way you aren't going to talk to them. The socially inept incel crowd has taken this to mean you need to be 6ft4 with a model face and rock-hard abs for fat bertha to even look at you. Most people you meet in the world aren't going to become your friends or a potential date that's the point, but because of garbage like social media and dating apps rotting people's brains we all now think BASIC HUMAN IN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Socializing period is difficult. If talking to people is "work" then yes you're never going to get anywhere. This is why I've gotten sick of garbage like dating apps and social media. People have started thinking doing normal human interactions is some alien concept. It is not weird or out of place to talk to some stranger if you're both waiting for a bus or walking your dog. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?My GF knows more about cars and boats than I ever will. Hell, she drives us everywhere cause I'm from a walking city background, and I just Uber when I need to get around. It's pretty funny because we have two friends who are also a couple. Me and the other women are the two artsy fartsys and get along great. Meanwhile, my GF and her man are both big into cars and boats and get along over that. oh and I have no issue cooking for my GF I do all the time. It's dealing with a girl who can't cook at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?In our defense, a lot of you don't look your age. I thought a girl was in early to mid 30s once (I'm 29) she was over 40 rofl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?yeah, mine was similar (i'm 29 she's 39). I also value emotional stability and a woman being able to cook is a borderline requirement for me (I can feed myself I get annoyed because I cook better than almost all the women I know and then I end up doing everything). My GF has better skin and hair than most of the women in my age group because like your BF said the women in our age range (late 20s early 30s) are starting to get hit with the effects of aging and they can't just coast by on their ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | RP men have this scenario of fuckzoning women they meet in their 30s when they are more stable/affluent, coz they were rejected in their 20s.... I wonder if they are talking about the same women?No, we very much do care especially for a long-term commitment. No wealthy dude is going to wife some vagabond chick just because she's hot and young. If you have real wealth and assets you care about the people it's being shared with.. The guys who don't care aren't in any position to care in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLast I checked it was like 14%. Probably closer to 20 now (relationship weight is real lol). Gotta get back on the cut again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:54 PM |
| 15 | RP men have this scenario of fuckzoning women they meet in their 30s when they are more stable/affluent, coz they were rejected in their 20s.... I wonder if they are talking about the same women?If she's hot and at the same social standing she'll get snatched up. The point is that a lot of women want a guy that is clearly out their league and then get mad that men suddenly have standards. Mr zero to hero has no reason to pick a girl that's objectively beneath him if she doesn't have anything he wants. Attractive men are as a picky as attractive women the only real difference being that men are more willing to engage in ONS casual sex wit ha girl slightly below them if they're bored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | The male sexuality catch 22You can be respectful, but at some point, you have to make moves, and yes it will lead to some psycho women thinking you're a dick or a misogynist or a perv or whatever. You live with it. No one worth a damn on earth is liked by everyone around them, and if you can't think of a single person who dislikes you it means you don't have enough boundaries and are probably an overly nice people pleaser. This doesn't mean drooling like a dog in heat over every girl you find hot, but flirt, be a little i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?Still alien to me. Dudes checking out my girl is something I take as a compliment. I joke to my GF that half the reason I take her out is to show her off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?They're delusional too. I think this whole crusade by women to try and make single moms look like a valid dating option on par with the childless is stupid. It's not the job of single dudes to step in and take care of single moms who can't use birth control. If some fat single mom wants to hold out for a 6ft2 man in finance that's on her but she's not getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?and younger. I am famous/infamous in my friend group as the guy who goes after the childless milfs lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:21 AM |
| 8 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?if you're a late 30s dudes and don't have kids. You better be one hell of a catch if you want to grab a mid 20s something and have kids. If you haven't managed to wife up and get kids as a guy by your 40s it's time to seriously consider accepting you probably won't ever have em tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:20 AM |
| 2 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?lack of bad plastic surgery, lack of caked on makeup for years. Good diet. Good exercise routines. If you're contouring from like 15 it will have an effect on your skin as you age and we're seeing that with our age group (I'm 95 born) women my age are all supposed to look great but some of them look 10+ years older. meanwhile I'm dating a 39 year old atm who looks close to a decade younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Settling is not what you think it isThe guys her are convinced that any dude who isn't a 6ft4 Chad is being "settled" for and their SO will leave the moment she finds a better option. I think settling is such a stupid concept period. By the logic of the pills the women have almost infinite options at all times so why in the flying fuck would they ever settle in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenpeople marry in their social class; if someone is marrying down, it's almost always the man. These successful women struggle in dating because they're high maintenance to begin with (for obvious reasons) and they eliminate most of the dating pool because women overwhelmingly date horizontally or more likely up. Men don't particularly about a woman's job or career and even if she's broke a lot of men will deal with it. Women care far more about a man's career and financial status and want someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 02:50 PM |
| 36 | Are women less capable if introspection than men?guy talks to girl for 2 minutes "DUDE SHE"S THE ONE". We see it so often it has a name we call it oneitis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menIt isn't easy. It takes discipline and effort unless you hit a genetic lottery and your metabolism keeps you skinny by just existing. The difference is for most of the female population that's ALL they'd have to do to find a man, and in a lot of cases right now they don't even need to do that with how many brainwashed chubby chasers exist. Being in shape as a dude is just the first step. FYI I think anyone who's severely overweight is an undisciplined lazy fuck. I don't even give the genetic peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menIt really is, but can't do much about dudes who refuse to do the basic thing and get in shape even though we try. You'd think at some point the incels would figure out that if every single successful dudes tells them being in shape will help them that there's some merit to it. I still find that better than this body positivity garbage women are doing. Whenever a clearly fat girl asks for dating advice it's always filled with stuff like "Are you taking good pictures" yada yada when the answer of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menModern women are obese, dress like shit and have terrible behaviour. It's a two-sided issue women aren't the saints in this situation. Women struggling in dating is almost a joke because most of them could fix it by just putting the fork down. Different is unlike men who will immediately tell a fat dude to lose weight women will see a fat chick and say she looks great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:34 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menLook sushi already covered it, but if you can't attract the women you want then you aren't hot enough and hot is relative. I live in Miami being an above-average dude with a beach bod is a dime a dozen here. Most of us could move to some hick town in the midwest and be a hot commodity. If you can't compete in the market for the women you want you can't do much about after a certain point if you've done the things to stand out in the first place. I beat out all the other hot guys by being the fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:33 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menwell I was gonna say the same thing but you already covered that so there we go lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:28 AM |
| 8 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menYeah, I'm in the first category, and I have a friend in the latter category lol. I'm objectively an attractive dude but nowhere near the level where I don't even need to open my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menHot girls already know they're hot and don't need everyone else to know it (most of the time). At worst, they tend to be indifferent to being talked to. It's why approaching groups is such a crapshoot if there's one ugly friend in em. If you don't properly skirt the line and keep the ugly one happy she's a jealousy timebomb waiting to go off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Saying "Dont Be a Nice Guy" is decent advice that almost always gets misinterpretedNo be an asshole. Overly nice people need to have a period of going the other extreme to learn how to course correct. They tend to find out it's very exhausting and they end up somewhere in the middle where they should be. Also, your morale character has very little to do with women liking you sexually it's almost completely worthless. No woman is turned on by kindness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Definition of a unattractive manyes that's why I said statistically for fuck's sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 0 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerMaybe they shouldn't reach a weight where they no longer fit into an airplane seat if they don't want to be made fun of. Obesity isn't some magical thing that ceeps up on you. To get that fat is a moral failing and just means you have 0 control over your eating habits and exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 2 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerThat would require me to be struggling. Also, please fat chicks are the most entitled group on the planet. They bring nothing to the table in the dating scene but because they're women and chubby chaser degenerates exist they think they're on the same level as their pretty friends. On top of this, they somehow have giant egos to boot. Like what are they proud of being too big to fit in a single airplane seat? No, you are not "beautiful at any size" put down the goddamn shovel and find a treadmil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerI know a type. Guy's dating some super fat chick in our extended circle. The man's over 10 years younger than her and he's in shape. I have 0 clue what he fucking sees in her. 3 of him could stand in front of her side by side and I think she'd still be visible. She treats him like crap too. he's seen the rest of us get physical affection in public from our dates or SOs all the time and she gives him none. I didn't even know they were dating for a while with how cold she is to him. Imagine being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:33 PM |
| 10 | Definition of a unattractive manYeah most statistically attractive is a close to 6ft or slightly higher white frat bro with a decent face if I had to guess at least in western society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 9 | Definition of a unattractive manTo a degree yes. Now some women are attracted to the unconventional (overweight and groomed like a cave man for example), but there are quite a few things you can work to make yourself attractive to more women. assuming you aren't a genetic defect (I doubt you are) you're probably just not maximizing your attractiveness The "easiest" thing for any guy to do is to get on a diet and start some form of exercise routine. You don't need to become some roided out meathead but women are attracted to a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop simping.Go for it. Women are going to cry about how evil you are but they claim up and down how intuitive they are about this shit and yet they fall for it all the time anyway. Sometimes you don't even have to lie just give them just enough attention to keep them hooked and do nothing else and they'll keep coming back thinking you'll give them what they want and not just sex. They just bitch and try to act morally about it because women never want to take accountability for anything when it comes to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dateswell duh. everyone's different I lived in Europe. I took those girls to art galleries or museums cause in major European cities you can just walk everywhere if you struggle to plan dates in those cities that's on you. For the theatre nerd, I'd probably take them to some kind of open mic at the pub. I actually worked in theatre for a while lol. This isn't difficult and unless you're going on a completely blind date you should have some idea what the woman is interested in off things like the dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee datesThe easiest method is just finding out things they like and going from there. I remember one girl was an outdoorsy type so I took her rock climbing. I've never done dinner as a first and I use it as a litmus test to ignore girls who expect it. You want dinner on a first date you ain't getting one. If I'm doing that might as well hire an actual GFE Instagram escort or some shit at least they're guaranteed to put out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:35 AM |
| 1 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offeridk how they even get it up with an obese chick like she could grind on my junk all day it wouldn't go up there'd be no arousal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 06:02 AM |
| 0 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerno, they aren't, but it does feed into the whole "all women are queens" meme where you have objectively low value girls thinking they're hot commodities because they got drunk banged by a slightly above-average dude once. Hell, I've been guilty of it when too much booze was involved. Post-nut clarity hits you strong after you bang an ugly one. As for the incels. In no certain order the list tends to include: must be super low body count (like straight hasn't had much sex ever in some cases), Mus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerthe man-whores with no standards are sleeping with anything that moves. Most manwhores tend to be quite charming and above average in attractiveness but their body count is more from sheer numbers game than anything else. The screaming incels who claim to not have standards tend to have a laundry list of things they don't like and when you poke them about it becomes clear they aren't after an "average girl" I always defend that "not fat" standard as completely reasonable and any woman who says a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 04:25 AM |
| 2 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerPeople should get used to being single. You don't need to be dating someone at all times. Being a serial dater is a red flag because it screams your need to be in a relationship to function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerIf only. Some dudes have no standards, especially with some booze involved and then fat bitches think they're any kind of hot commodity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | 80/20 Rule, OLD vs Real life, and other thoughtsthe 80/20 could be real (I think it's a crock of shit) but if I were to really try to argue its existence I'd say each woman is attracted to a different 20%. The incel doomers of the world are never going to be in that 20% because they're never going to get of their ass to get there, and sure there are some guys who are so hot that almost every woman in sight finds them attractive but that's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:57 AM |
| – | The "Hawk Tuah" girl represents what most men want, and women are angry by thisplease she's made 60k in merch sales already gives us a break she's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:41 AM |
| – | Women should get some slack for their decisions in their youthYeah I don't get it. They all say they want a GF who's down for dirty sex and are then shocked she might have explored that shit with other dudes earlier lol. Do they think she was some repressed nun until their sheer manhood turned her into a slut for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:04 PM |
| – | Women should get some slack for their decisions in their youthidk about you, but hearing about my GF's old escapades is usually a riot for me and generally leads to me doing what she told in the story to her, but we're both kinksters so we're generally more open about this stuff. Obviously don't be a psycho or serial cheater, but shit like "I blew some dude at college party or on vacation when I was single" tends to just lead fun sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceMen should stop watching porn yes. For no other reason that it makes them shitter in bed and leads to them developing ED especially if they jack off constantly with it. On the other this pornsickness bullshit is just women trying to escape accountability. The most laughable is the whole "Unrealistic" expectation for female bodies. It's not men's fault the average western girl is a fat bitch who can't figure out how to do a skincare routine. Same way it's not women's fault the average dude is a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:25 PM |
| – | Do you think any man can be sexually successful ?Actual redpill, not this modern incel bullshit argues that all but a tiny fraction of men can get themselves to a point where they're considered handsome and desirable (think around the 7/10 range if we're rating). Do I think any man could have a successful casual sex life? Yes if they have no standards and are willing to be in the club scene where most random hookups happen. Guys are far pickier than men of this sub would have you believe. Dudes are running around trying to sleep with anything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:18 PM |
| – | Do you think any man can be sexually successful ?A) that can't be proven. B) as someone who has more female friends than most men the men women crush on vary like crazy. Like some of these pretty girls will come back and tell me about this "hot" guy I look over and go "HIM!?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Do you think any man can be sexually successful ?A lot of the old school redpill just don't want to associate with those idiots so they don't term themselves as such. If you run into a male influencer talking about looksmaxxing, game and bettering yourself while trying to breakdown how female attraction generally works. he's redpill just not the modern redpill filled with the incels who think they need to be 6'4 and any woman who's ever had sex in her life has entered hoeflation stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalismNah man all poor people are altruistic saints being beat down by the system. Clearly everyone who has money cheated their way there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Start raising "normie" sonsSocialize your kids like you socialize your dogs people get those tablets away from them so we have less incels and femnazis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:29 AM |
| -1 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to meneh some can be. I have some feminist friends who are pretty normal and are concerned with things that matter like bodily autonomy. They hate the current feminist idiots who are offended by everything and think they're still being oppressed like it's 1950. Well, I don't even think they're misguided they know exactly what they're doing they want women to have special privileges for existing. Feminists stopped being about equality a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:28 AM |
| 30 | Feminists can't be "allies" to men's activists, because the feminist movement, broadly, is actively hostile to menif you're hostile to one group don't expect the other group to not be hostile back. I wouldn't go as far as to say it's justified but it's pretty obvious why it's happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 03:26 AM |
| 3 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesI'm glad you found someone who works for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesI bash both ends because they're both idiots. NEITHER side are functional humans capable of proper human interaction without bringing up some kind of bullshit. The difference is it's socially acceptable to make fun of stupid incels. Meanwhile, modern feminists are about as bad. hell you're defending idiots like Anita or Zoey Quinn. No they didn't deserve the death and rape threats but they weren't saints in any way. I can respect women's right to bodily autonomy, and independence and to be paid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:33 PM |
| 0 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesTherapists are built to deal with women, not men is why. They will rarely help you solve anything and if you get a feminist therapist she'll probably spend your sessions if you talk about struggling with women about how much you have internalized misogyny or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:24 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesBecause women are the ones pushing therapy for men. Women think men can solve their issues the same way they do. We can't at least most of us can't, but when you're raised with your entire gender being labeled the "problem" is it any fucking shock a lot of dudes become angry and bitter? I'm not fighting for therapy because I think it's worthless for men in general. I instead fight for men to be able to have their own brotherhood spaces to deal with issues in peace without women interfering (whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 9 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesCharisma on Command, HealthygamerGG, Coach Kyle, Jack Denmo. Even red pillars like Austin Dunham and Howtobeast are here trying to get men to be better and gives them actionable ways to do it. I don't agree with the "kill your inner bitch" thing but I do belive in a man learning to embrace stoicity not in the "become a stone" way but learning to control your emotions healthily. We aren't women we shouldn't act like women and let our emotions rule us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesNo, even when men DO seek out mental health services they're woefully inadequate. Therapists especially female ones have very little idea how to deal with men's issues. I've also heard personal horror stories of female therapists repeating the same man-hate rhetoric where they try to make everything the guy's fault IN HIS THERAPY SESSION. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor.They're still fun, but you end up playing the game out of obligation a lot of the time you can't go "I feel like playing something else this week". Also there's a direct link between physician health and mental focus. Those games demand a lot mentally so being in good health lets you be on top of you game for much longer which is why a lot of esports pros or even professional streamers are in great shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 01:46 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men should stop initiating DatesYup. If you're too much of a pussy to approach and set up dates the rest of us are just going to keep living our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:47 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men should stop initiating DatesWomen get approached all the time. A group Men who don't have the balls to approach "walking away" doesn't alter the game in any way. They weren't going to approach anyway or their looks and game weren't good enough for the women to even notice them. Below average men going "we aren't going to try dating" doesn't shift the needle in any form for the women they were going after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?Yeah I think they're idiots for that too lol. If you can't attract the partner you want or get the job with the wage you want that's on you not on society to fix. You don't chose what you're worth (no amount of "yes queen" or "I'm kenough" will change that) everyone else in the market does. Dating is a skillset same with getting jobs. Not every guy is entitled to a skinny 20 something hot model wife, and every worker isn't entitled to a house in suburbia without roommates. As someone who had to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:29 AM |
| 7 | Women who say “I prefer guy friends because they’re easier to handle” are Pick Me Girls.Or they just don't want to deal with girl talk and all the social bullshit that comes around with it. Doesn't have anything to do with being a pick-me. Some women are just better with male friends and vice versa. Most of my close friends are women for example and none of them originated from my girlfriend which is pretty rare for a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?I don't determine what I think I deserve. I'm a creative I set what I'm worth and if I have the skills and pedigree to be worth it people pay for it. What would happen if your fantasy land of letting the unskilled workers set their rate is that they'd starve and struggle until they're willing to take any rate. If anything they'd be in a worse position than they currently are. The new age of Western communists like yourself are driven by nothing but envy and grand ideals with basically 0 idea of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?Unskilled workers don't get to set their pay and they shouldn't. They don't have leverage nor are they that valuable, and no it's not "low valued skill" it's just low skill If I could replace a job with a random teenager it's a low-skill job (and yes I've worked service jobs anyone who thinks they're on par with people who are high skill workers are idiots). Highly skilled workers male or female have leverage with employers because they can call up a recruiter and have a couple of offers pretty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date someone with an "Explosive Suppressor" or a "Reactive Outburst"The latter. I can deal with and control outbursts from people. Especially if it's just an emotional upheaval that stuff can't phase me because it's not from a place of intelligence so they can't bite that deeply and I can calm them down faster. The former INFURIATES me it's like dealing with a stupid teenager. If someone did that I'd probably end up going nuclear out of sheer annoyance. I am not a mind reader I will never be a mind reader. Be a functioning fucking adult and tell your SO what's w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:53 PM |
| – | Some People Here Seem to Really Want the "Harsh Truth." Okay, You Have It Now. What Then?They just don't want to be misled is all. Guys on this sub think everything is looks and that's not always true but many many times women will tell them things like "you're a nice guy but.." and then try to qualify when the truth sometimes really is just "you aren't hot enough for me". Women do this with other women too where they tell super fat women who are struggling to get dates useless advice about pictures on dating apps when their real answer is "Lose X pounds". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?No I mean they get publicized less or ignored in the instances they do happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:46 PM |
| 16 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?We keep eroding male role models and acting like single moms can replace a strong father, and then these women wonder why young men latch onto people like Tate. Keep acting like all masculinity is toxic and you only get left with the toxic ones who don't care and will do it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:00 PM |
| 10 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Men are considered worse with kids by default and are always seen with suspicion of being pedos around children. There are multiple instances of female teachers being Ephebofiles but you hear about it far less because it doesn't suit the narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 17 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Oh, that's never happening the Femnazis think misandry basically can't exist. I have female friends who are basically feminists but do not want to be associated with it because of the blue hairs who decided everything male-related is an offense to their existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:20 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneIf you move in with someone without ever staying at their place beforehand for an extended period that's an incredibly stupid move. I do not get how some people can go from dating to moving in or god forbid married without ever doing weekends or weeks over beforehand. Dating and living together are completely different ball games. So yes again on you for not vetting properly. This isn't a woman-only thing btw I have little empathy for either gender if they don't vet their dates properly. Guy get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:15 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneBrutal honestly. If all that fails you're doing things categorically wrong (I can't say what without literally seeing you talk to a group and women) or you are in that genetic loser category that needs to settle for scraps. It's highly unlikely that's the case and is most likely the former. There's a guy in our extended circle he's generally attractive a decent flirt and in pretty good shape yet he bombs with every woman. Want to know why? He says something stupid like "I hate western woman" in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:02 PM |
| – | The Bait-and-Switch women and blupillers pull here is insaneUnless you're morbidly obese and a genetic freak then yes as a woman you have a multitude of options at any one time if you want it. If you pick a slob that's really on you. The slobs are at fault for being slobs but you're the one who chose to date that idiot. I gave guys shit for chasing and tolerating the social media vegetable women in the same way but in a lot of cases, those dudes in their current state can't do better. A woman getting a loser is actively choosing to have a loser for a BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?The way education is setup in general only benefits one or two learning types. God forbid you're a kinesthetic learner for example because you'll absorb nothing with how school is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Yeah I have some friends who are teachers (one's 5th grade I think? and The other is middle school) they bitch about how bad the system is a lot but they try their best for the kids. The 5th grade one is a woman and even she's been mad about how some of her colleagues blatantly favor the girls in their class. It aggravates me because I wouldn't be as successful as I am without the great teachers I had in my life and the majority were women. My high school drama teacher is the entire reason I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?The education system isn't being equal it's actively trying to push up women while not helping male children. Especially with the fact that most teachers are female and sorry a LOT of them are incredibly biased towards their female students. I've seen kids hand in the borderline the same work, yet the girl gets graded far better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 14 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Ngl I'm somewhat shocked at seeing such a level-headed comment about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:51 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.Most women don't want casual sex is probably what she's getting at, and this is as someone who has pretty easy access to it. Casual "situationships" are still a relationship in some way and is usually between people who are friends and have a very open view of sex (they also usually both have very high sex drives and want an outlet). Most people's sex drives aren't high enough to warrant constant casual sex. The few one night stands you hear about generally result from a large amount of alcohol … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 11:42 PM |
| – | From a male perspective, do you have a hierarchy in negative traits in women?Being overweight and having 0 interest in changing means an extreme lack of discipline. You don't need to be a stick but you should be a healthy bodyweight. Financial is the next awful one. You can be in a low paying job that's life and rising expenses, but you better be good with your money. My lady makes a lot less than me but she's not buying frivolous shit at all times and expecting me to bail her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 10:46 PM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.Lady the OP straight up made another post talking about how dudes should date single moms and then told us we're immoral for not wanting to. I agree single moms and single dads should pair up and I don't see single moms trying to grab stepdads immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:53 AM |
| – | This subreddit has a “Men Are Wonderful/Victims” bias.They could also not be single moms. Most of them aren't old divorces that got cheated on later in life. It's some chick who picked a deadbeat and had unprotected sex and is now paying for it. It is not some other man's problem to pick up the slack for women who screwed themselves and a child. Women can screech all they want you are never in the right trying to browbeat single guys into dating single moms if they excised from the dating pool it's their own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:07 AM |
| -1 | How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection?if they were rather he was 6ft why would they go out with him? This logic makes no sense, especially on apps where they have access to 6ft+ men at the drop of a hat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 11:05 PM |
| 4 | How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection?You own it. Can't do anything to make your dick bigger. Also, you'd have to have a complete micro penis to be unable to get a girl off. The pleasure parts are all near the front. Getting a woman off is about technique not size if you get a girl off with 1-2 fingers then 99.99% of dicks are capable of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Expecting men to pay on the first date is the same as expecting women to have sex on the first date.Just go on cheaper dates for fucks sake. If you think you need to wine and dine girls at fancy dinners to get laid. Just skip the middle man and go hire a hooker it's at least guaranteed then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?is he super tall by chance? I know a lot of girls love the giant teddy bear archetype (not a "omg girls only want tall guys" trap just curious). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?huh I'm the exact opposite. I've gotten much stricter on my look preferences as I've gotten older. Like girls I thought were hot in highschool I see their pictures again and go "wtf was I thinking?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?That's what it's supposed to mean but when women say "dadbod" they mean a guy who's around 20-22% bodyfat with a lot of muscle. That's not dadbod that's just a big dude. Dadbod is full-on beer gut at 25%+ and women are rarely salivating over that look lol. You sound like you want the teddy bear look which is what I determined the actually round boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if you aren't able to climax during sex - who's fault is that?yeah seriously. If you're going to have sex ditch the coke take some molly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if you aren't able to climax during sex - who's fault is that?Uh that'd be shocking. I don't think I've ever run into a woman who would cum so a quick a man wouldn't be able to. If anything guys have to learn how to last longer in the bedroom because of easy it is for us to climax. If a guy is struggling to climax during sex he's either got a bad case of nerves (which may lead to him not even being able to get it up) or he's got the dreaded "death grip syndrome" where he masturbates too much and now sex doesn't stimulate him enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 9 | Men here have high standards.Oh look the PPD misandrist who doesn't have any interest in arguing in good faith back with another post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usWhy would I? Women don't do anything to go against that narrative. If anything I think it's good that at least some groups are sick and tired of this double standard and will call out bullshit female behaviour and the "it's only some women" that keeps being said just sounds like the "NOT ALL MEN" thing during all the metoo bullshit and women were pretty clear that wasn't a defense why would it be here. If you don't want to be stereotyped and vilified I'll tell you what women told men like me who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 07:04 AM |
| 17 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usand yet women do it to men and it's accepted by everyone. Hell you're called out as a man if you try to go against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:08 AM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?I just tell guys. If you're leading with your gut. A) you're fat as fuck and B) your posture is shit. Go fix both and then actually try to get laid. It really doesn't help that so many fat guys still go after skinny chicks. You don't need a 6 pack (for some guys it's just way too hard for them to maintain and not hate life) but if you're at 25% bodyfat and up you've let yourself go. You can sit at 18-20 and look okay by just cooking your own damn food and not going crazy with portions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 01:11 AM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?Oh I don't either. I've been known for years as the guy who just makes friends everywhere in my social circle. I genuinalyl cannot fathom being scared of saying hello to people. I also have enough of mean witty streak in me that the few times some people try to make a big deal out of someone being social it ended up backfiring on them. Also yup. Beach during the summer months like now is prime social spot if you aren't a super fat fuck and can look good with your shirt off. Don't need to have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?You gotta work on meeting women somewhere unless you're happy being sexless and alone (which is fine if you are), but you don't have to cold approach randoms on the street. Get a social circle AND GO OUT that's the point it gives you social proof if you have a couple of female friends with you women notice and are a lot more willing to engage than with the one random who turned up to the bar/club by himself. Just try to fill your circle with interesting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:14 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?I leave randomly on the street off because it takes a certain level of cajones to pull that of convincingly and most dudes psyche themselves into a frenzy before they so much as say hello lol. It's a lot easier in college because you're expected to be social at random in college. I try to list places people go because saying hello at the beach makes a lot more sense than idk waiting for the stop signal haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:06 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?Bar, My Dance Class, My Apartment Pool, The Beach, Museums, Concerts. I'm also in an urban area so there's events going on pretty often. My friends do a free yoga session every month for example. Women don't mind being talked to in safe public environments if you aren't a creepy fuck. No that does not mean you have to be 9+ Chad, but if you come across as nervous and shifty that makes the girl nervous assuming you've done the basic lookmaxxing if you're seriously overweight and still dress like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:13 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?Holy shit a red pillar on this sub that actually seems to use redpill right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:35 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?I barely touch my Instagram tbh. I filled it up a little bit a while back and then got tried of it. I have use social media for work as is I cannot be assed to keep a personnel one up for dating and I do just fine. Haven't touched a dating app in years either they're good if you want to put in the effort but I'd say most guys will have better access actually socializing and building up the skills for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:34 PM |
| – | What Do We Expect Women To Do On Dating Apps/Social Media?Beach, Museums, Dance Class, Dog Park (if you have a dog), Coffe Shop/Cafe, Mall. Hell Even the grocery ain't a bad idea. Random Street Approaches are usually the last thing people do for pickup because there's so many other spots you can go. Men need to get over the idea that every woman is going to try to get you arrested for harassment and plaster your face on social media. MOST PEOPLE AREN"T PYSCHO. Now don't get me wrong the bar is probably the easiest social venue to find volume on a weeke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:32 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentCorrect The people who think they deserve a full single-family home and can't afford are being entitled. Same with those dumbass college grads with degrees like "gender studies" that no one gives a shit about that think they deserve to be 6 figs like the engineers and finance guys. Sex falls in this category. If you can't get it make yourself better till you can. Anyone who can't accept stuff like this needs to get over it, and you are right women don't understand it's why SO MANY of them can't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeI mean most would wife up the pretty chaste girl who only likes their man. The girls who don't get a ring are the sluttier types who can't keep their legs closed and are always looking for the next high. The scenario you're describing is minute and non existant it's similar to the RP posts that come up with this outlandish edge cases about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeyeah, that's a sack of bullshit. It's never equally divided it's just the woman taking the guy to the cleaners while she has to suffer no consequences even if the divorce was her fault. Men shouldn't get married until the woman has been vetted for several years. Men get 0 benefit out of a marriage especially if they already live together and if it's his property she shouldn't be allowed any of it regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | It is great to be born a man.It is a problem. Women get more validation from society at large. Now I'm not saying they shouldn't but currently as a guy you're sold the idea and told constantly that you're wrong by default and your gender is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | It is great to be born a man.Seriously? Women are proud of being women 24/7 to the point they need the media to beat men over the head about it at every turn. This is the kind of bullshit that pisses men rightfully off when they want to be proud of being men. Now some of this is off and comedic like saying men started feminism but if you're going to sit here and tell me women don't do similar things I'm going to laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.Man if you guys put in the amount of effort into becoming hot as you do trying to find moon logic for why people are wrong and dating is fucked you'd already be shacked up with a baddie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.This is beautiful I'm dying. It'd be even funnier if it was satire like it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreKeeping your quality woman is a lot harder than getting one. Unless she's one of toxic basket cases and you only picked her cause of looks lol. I've had some of those they're the male equivalent of the bad boy chads for women. The majority of people are generally loyal to their committed partners and it's pretty easy to pick out the people who wouldn't be. I have a female friend who's gorgeous and very clearly into me but I can tell she'd never be able to hold down a relationship and is always l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreYes, but it's overstated which is what the guy above was asking for. Women always have a height preference but it's one of the first things they'll "compromise" on if the guy is attractive in other areas. This is from a guy who's 5'7 and run through the whole gamut of women in terms of height (some of my exes were over 6ft). I have been in rooms with people almost a foot taller than me and still taken women from them. Now obviously if I'm with a guy who's like 6'4, handsome, and incredibly charm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Question; do you judge people based on the people they have previously dated and does that give you an idea of who they are?anytime a girl dubs her ex BF a "narcissist" or "self-absorbed" the alarm bells start going off for me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Question; do you judge people based on the people they have previously dated and does that give you an idea of who they are?It's how I figure out how good you are as a judge of character. Cause sorry hun if all your ex boyfriends are "narcissists" or all your ex Gf's are "crazy" that tells me a lot more about you than anything they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 6 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?They do. It's also why therapy fails for a lot of men. An average masculine dude who's not very in touch with his feminine side works through things by doing something. You have a much easier time getting a guy to open up and talk about things by doing an activity. It used to be going out in trucks or something (idk I'm not old). Nowadays guys do therapy by getting a good bro in and playing video games. You'd be surprised how much shit comes out over games of FIFA or Cod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?As a case study of the loser to what would be considered "chad" in terms of success pipeline. I'd say I have a pretty good viewpoint on dating yes. Especially since I debunk many of the common "I'll never get laid cause of x" talking points. I'm bald, barely 5'7, and South Asian. I almost exclusively date white girls and do not entertain fat single moms or any single moms for that matter. If I'm ever single at this point it's because I choose to be and don't feel like setting up dates. I've fall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 08:50 PM |
| -2 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.Yes, we have been over this multiple times. You have to cross a certain looks barrier, but unless you're a 10/10 gigachad your looks aren't going to be enough. The problem is every doomer dude thinks the looks barrier for a pretty girl is 6'4 white guy with a model face. Most dudes aren't ugly enough where their only options are ugly fat chicks or broke single moms. If you get in shape first and style yourself well + have the social skills you won't struggle to find women who are interested in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.90% of people have garbage social skills. Most of the people you see who are really good at it have a sales job or something where they HAD to develop this stuff or fail. I'm good at it because I worked as a freelance creative and half my job was finding new clients of course I ended up good at talking to people. The only ONLY people I can see truly unable to dig themselves out of the hole with a little effort are people on the spectrum who aren't high functioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.OG TRP was solid as fuck even if I disagreed with some of their stuff. The core concept was getting dudes off their asses and bettering themselves. Now it's... whatever the hell this version of RP is supposed to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.Tell me about it. I picked up new instruments as I got older and it is so much harder to pick up this stuff in my 20s than when I was a kid, and I'm not even old. Child brains just absorb everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.The sheer comedy of a legion of idiots saying something that LITERALLY HAS THE WORD SKILL in it can't be learned is unreal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 12 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreThe height meme is a big one. Outside apps most girls will take a dude who's "not tall enough" if he's a good flirt and attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Why men must never open up to women.Hell, they ugly cry at the drop of a hat monthly. You're on eggshells during the period week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Why men must never open up to women.That's what male hormones do though. Men don't have a time of the month like women do but we do have periods of increased T and that leads to increased aggression and competitiveness. If said man is dealing with something deeper at the time it can manifest as uncontrolled anger. No this does not mean that he should have free rain to harass or hit his partner, but is is something that might need an outlet. This is why we also tell a lot of men to get into some kind of physical sport or martial ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 16 | Why men must never open up to women.That's not helping him deal with whatever problems he might have in any way. That's the point. Women want men to "open up" about stupid things like how much they like media or "omg dog cute" never about real issues they might be having. Even something as trivial as "I had a shitty day at work" is usually met with woman talking about how much harder they have it. This is a society at large thing too men's issues are almost entirely ignored and if they are every brought up (misogynist or not) it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:09 PM |
| 16 | Why men must never open up to women.yeah, women expect you to be their steadfast rock and somehow be vulnerable and emotionally open at the same time. It doesn't work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.They need to change something or not it's their lives after all, but if you've been doing the same shit for years and it ain't working something needs to be fixed. Granted I am in the camp a lot of people should just give up and leave the dating pool not everyone is designed to be in a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 26 | Why men must never open up to women.that's not "vulnerable" that's the theatrical "opening up" women find acceptable from men. Oh "this movie moved me" Yeah I'm sure your man had a great emotional weight lifted off his shoulders with that one. hell women get a free period every month where they're allowed to be emotional wrecks (justifiably hormones are a bitch) and men just deal with it. A man having an outburst is seen as a sign of weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.You talk to them like a normal person? Dating history is something that can and should be brought up in the talking phase probably not on the first date but definitely in the first few weeks or months. Most people aren't as slick as they think about hiding things like this it usually comes out. Like the guys who talk about all their exes being pyscho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:44 PM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?The whole concept of women in their 30s and 40s not being hot anymore is a delusional revenge fantasy. Most guys want women around their age. And these dateless idiots would fall over themselves if a woman like blake lively wanted to go out with them lol. Hell, I'm the real weirdo here because I find women my age boring and date several years older. The only times an attractive woman who's "older" stops being attractive is when she decides to gain a bunch of weight (not child weight just straigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.You're having some real moon logic here. Nothing stops anyone from dating but your past actions have consequences and affect how others perceive you. There is a reason a woman hasn't had any kind of serious history by 40 and it's usually not a good one. Most girls have had some kind of steady boyfriend in their past by that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?I respect the guy who has high standards and sticks to them while improving himself to meet those standards a lot more than a guy who will sleep with anything that shows him interest just to get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:22 PM |
| 7 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.They're both red flags. I'd tell a female friend to avoid a 30 year old virgin (unless he did it for religious regions and she's religious herself), and I'd sure as hell tell a guy to be very careful dealing with a woman who's a serial dater and still failing to find anything stable. Being unmarried at 40 isn't a problem, but if you're a mid 30s to mid 40s woman and whining about how you can't find a man it's pretty obvious the problem is you. The classic "where are all the good men" type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.Yeah if a girl can't land any kind of boyfriend into her mid 30s there's something seriously wrong with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:10 PM |
| 6 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.well obviously if they pick being single it's different. He's talking about the women actively trying to get a husband and failing. If you get a stable relationship as a woman you have something seriously wrong with you or your standards are so out of your league no one you want will take you seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyhappens so rarely it might as well not even be brought up. When you live in one of the major cities you are surrounded by hot people 24/7 there's very little reason to bother wasting time flying in some Instagram thot. You can find a girl as hot or hotter walking down the street. I know guys on here like to think the reason they can't get laid in their smaller towns is girls hunting chad in the bigger cities, but most guys aren't bothering to deal with shipping some girl up from the sticks for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:05 PM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?are you people capable of reading? The guys who project this shit on successful men are the ones lacking options. They're the loudest pearl clutches and they also live in this fantasy that every man who isn't a loser is running around pumping and dumping every hot woman with a pulse. Also yes I live in big Florida cities (I alternate between Tampa Bay and Miami for work) I'm a successful attractive man and I surround myself with other successful attractive men. I'm surrounded by hot people the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:00 PM |
| 8 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Oh no, they're attracted. They're men with functioning eyeballs they just have standards and aren't interested in dealing with even a casual fling with a 20-something way too much emotional turmoil and effort. They rather date hot 30 or 40-year-olds who have their head on straight. The whole "men are only attracted to youth" is pill myth that has very little bearing in reality because most people date and hook up within their age range, and this is form someone who's in an age gap relationship a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderNope shame all the fatties till they stop stuffing their faces full of corn syrup. body positivity is a fucking meme I can't believe the west is so delusional they think celebrating obesity is somehow a good thing. I gain weight. My mother will let me know immediately and I am eternally grateful for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:14 AM |
| 9 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?Yes, I know several. A lot are flattered but are turned off by the idea of sleeping with someone who could literally be their daughter or grand daughter. it's weird. You guys who lack options leave in a real weird fantasy divorced from the normal guys of the world who have standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:12 AM |
| 3 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?I mean if she laid off the bad plastic surgery I'd still think she's hot but right now? Blegh. Now Scarjo, Blake Lively, Elisabeth Olsen? SIGN ME THE FUCK UP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:06 AM |
| 5 | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?I wouldn't take this guy seriously lol. he lives in a delusional fantasy land, or he's a very dedicated troll. You only have an expiry date if you decide to stop taking care of yourself into your 30s and 40s. Most of these guys would fall over themselves to date the hot 35+ women with beach bods. Age gape romances are pretty uncomment and the ones that happen are usually pretty specific. Like I'm currently dating a woman 10 years older than me because I've always been a bit of an old soul and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:57 AM |
| 8 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderUh no. Men get called out all the time by society at large. Women, other men, media you name it. You're considered wrong as a man by default. you speak out against women and you'll get labeled a misogynist real quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipThis is normal? I still think the man should be paying for dates and such but if your girl isn't providing you what you want out of the relationship then it's not fair. I make far more than any of my GFs so I'm happy to pay for dates. She can't do that so she does things like make me nice meals so I don't have to cook for the day. It's when you get woman who expect you to pay for everything and then act like that's a bare minimum is when you get the bitches that need to be given a dose of realit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneythe funny part is only 1 of the strippers I've dated was any fun in bed. They were AMAZING at foreplay but I think the job made them enjoy sex less. It ended up being the major reason I stopped seeing them because they were great girls otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI'm not the desperate guy constantly asking reddit girls to dm him lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyHonestly Strip clubs if you know the girls are a good way to get shy guys out of their shells lol. gets them used to talking to gorgeous women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:04 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyAs someone who's also dated strippers, I got told the same thing. There was one club my buddies and I would frequent and a lot of girls would seek me out outright just to talk I wouldn't have to buy a dance or anything they just liked chilling with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:03 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyare you capable of reading or are you so far up your ass it all blends together? I don't tell all women they're 7s (if you aren't a healthy bodyweight you're immediately a sub 5 man or woman), but a pretty fit woman isn't "average" (5/10) the same way a handsome fit man isn't average. I know women are not more valuable than me that's why I'm capable of getting them, but I also live in reality and know that a pretty girl is a pretty girl obviously she's not gonna bother with some random dumpy dud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyThat's not simping that reality lol. I never date landwhales but I can get said bikini blondes (well redhead and brunette versions since I don't blondes). A thin pretty woman with good proportions is at minimum a 7 if you can't get that you're not capable of pulling 7s. The average woman isn't attractive or striking, and that's what most guys can get if they don't bother to put in the work to start pulling the 7+ girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:17 PM |
| 17 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyyour definition of "not fat" is hot blonde with a bikini bod which is well into the 8+ territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyBeing funny might as well be a cheat code into a girl's pants that's what I do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYou have other qualities that "make up" for it whether you're conscious of them or not Like I said there's a middle ground. A man's attractiveness is an entire package. Height is just one of the factors and it is true that if you happen to be blessed to be 6ft+ your life is a little easier in the dating market, but like you most of the ladies men I know are like 5'8 and below. hell I'm one of the more successful guys in my group and I'm 5'7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:28 PM |
| 0 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyoh the pain that one inch below my height is considered "really short" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyit exists. It's not as common as this sub would think, but it exists. I'm a top percenter in basically every other area and my height still gets brought up by a small percentage of women. There's a middle ground between "height doesn't matter" and "if you aren't a 6ft4 white chad you're done". My argument is that if you're 5ft5 and up and are stellar in other areas you will be fine, but it is a fact that being a tall guy means you have to work less hard in other areas to get a woman interested j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyBro unless you're a 9+ living in NYC, Miami or LA you aren't dating and hooking up with the "elites". Women don't even have access to those men outside those areas. Now it can happen in those cities. Back when I lived in NYC and did the music circuit I ran into quite a few people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:01 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyany sub 7 woman who wants 6ft+ and conventionally handsome as a standard not even counting finances is already in deluded territory since that's less than 15% of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 4 | I think if attractive women had to go through the online app dating experience of an Average looking guy (5-6/10) working a normal middle class job, this would make both a great social experiment & reality show.not if they're built like a stick. Some dudes are into the flat as a board look, but most guys want a girl with a perky ass and tits and that takes a similar amount of gym effort as the physique women want out of men. The women who look good just not stuffing their faces have a similar level of genetics as the guys who look built without really going to gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | How is it that socially inept geeky types almost always seem to have long term partners who are often comparatively normal?People like that would need you to dox yourself and then walk around with a camera interrogating every couple that goes against the world view these guys have, and even then they'd probably still point to some random shit and be like "that girl was lying she's just settling because she can't get chad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:32 PM |
| 5 | How is it that socially inept geeky types almost always seem to have long term partners who are often comparatively normal?people do very often go after partners that have similar traits to their parents. Especially if they have close relationship with them so they equate those traits with feelings of happiness and safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How is it that socially inept geeky types almost always seem to have long term partners who are often comparatively normal?A lot of those nerdy women watched too many romance anime and are trying to get the prince charming they have nothing in common with. You can throw em in the same category as the other girls with delusional standards in what guy will actually go for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Are you for or against prenups?If you're a man with any wealth. You're a complete moron if you don't get a prenup. I don't care how in love and enamored you are get a damn prenup. If you're would be spouse is opposed or angry about it. Good job you just found out you're dealing with someone who only wants your finances and would have probably divorced you the moment she found a new boytoy and could live off your wealth while having fun with him. I think marriage in general is a useless process but I'm sure as hell never getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 20 | How is it that socially inept geeky types almost always seem to have long term partners who are often comparatively normal?They're probably just as geeky but simply more socially attuned. As for why they pick those guys? Who knows what a particular woman ends up falling for can be random as fuck. Could be as romantic as he's really doting on her and knows exactly how to make her smile, or could be as simple as "he's got a big dick and is a bull in the sack". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHMIf your SAHM expects you to come back from work and then do chores and childcare while she sits on her ass then you sir are a pussy. Especially if you're paying for daycare. The whole point of that arrangement is that the wife handles most of the household tasks while the husband handles the finances. I'd help out here and there but I'd never take on an "Equal" burden there's nothing equal then. Women can bitch and moan as much as they want about how much effort it is to maintain these tiny home… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsHad all 3, and I'm still doing fine now. It's shit what some of us have to go through as kids but you can't sit there and be mad at the world forever about it without working through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:28 AM |
| -1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsConsidering the absolute weirdos I see hit on my friends it's pretty accurate, and these are just the guys with enough balls to approach a girl in person and they're still weird. You guys can't even find the cajones to talk to women and spend most of your time swiping. Some guys were born with or worked to get good enough looks they don't have to work on much else to get girls interested. Tough. Get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:27 AM |
| 11 | Should men who are average commit to women for a relationship?that's about the same as committing for him lol. If he's the type with no other options then the "string along" part doesn't do anything to help him. Not committing is for the guys who can attract multiple girls at once so they can shop around. Do people still think "commit" means get a ring? If you're dating someone longterm and only seeing them and doing relationship things that's committed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsEvery day. Any woman who ever says she doesn't care about looks is probably lying. I'm lucky my female friends are actually honest and will straight up admit when they aren't interested in a guy because he's not hot enough. The part the blackpill idiots miss is that this doesn't mean you have to be 6ft6 chad mcthundercock to get laid, but if you're an overweight fuck with a bowlcut and glasses bigger than my fist then maybe it's time to do some work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsBorderline EVERY woman cares bout looks to some extent. Can we stop trying to peddle this fantasy that either gender doesn't have a looks barrier that you have to pass before you're a romantic option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsI was a loser in school because I was fat and didn't have any social skills rofl. People are way to trigger happy with throwing the autism label around. Most guys could fix their shit by being in decent shape and having some semblance of charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientiststhey didn't optimize for personality either rofl. They have about as much personality as a piece of soggy toast. They don't blame themselves for anything either they just assume the guys who have the things women like were born with it and dating is entirely just a genetics game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:23 PM |
| 13 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsJust try to avoid getting into sloppy drunk. Getting into a slight buzz can work wonders though since it stops that little voice in your head telling you all the imaginary things that might go wrong. You will have to learn to socialize sober though it won't magically transfer over but being able to recall the times you had when drunk will help push past that mental hurdle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Signs your date is probably bad news: If they come with a victim complex higher than Mt Everest. Everybody is out to get them, and it seems they are a magnet for the dregs of society or something.I have an easy one for most of you. Suggest a cheap date and watch the reaction. If she's happy about it good job you probably found someone worth pursuing. If she acts disappointed it's not some big thing delete the number and ignore her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | It's not until a woman does it/ It's ok until a womans a victim of itYes except when men do it it's a social emergency and gets called out in all corners. When women do it outside of the men who aren't afraid of backlash there might as well be crickets for how little gets said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active?Depends. Some girls are DTF right out of the club. Others might just give you a makeout session and their number, but the club is a premier place to talk to and pick up girls. Ignore what women on the internet will tell you. Girls go to the club to have fun and talk to hot guys. Especially with alcohol and lowered inhibitions, it's by far the easiest time to mingle. The same caveats do apply though you have to stand out from the sea of loser dudes at the club so that could be just being hot, sup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:16 AM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”if you guys think being fat will help get laid more than being lean then power to you. it's not going to save a genetic reject, but most guys who have "bad faces" usually just have too much fat in them and look markedly better when they've leaned out enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:26 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”just make sure she doesn't know where you live lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:19 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”it is. Most people are just too lazy to implement the routine and discipline required to get it. You might not look exactly like the photos but you'll be damn close. Being unable to put on lots of muscle can often be a genetics issue. Being unable to get lean is pretty much always a you problem unless you're in that small subset of the population that has a medical condition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:06 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”that physique is the one every guy CAN achieve. The massive body builder look is the one that you can't get without roids if you don't have the genetics. Getting to 10-12% body fat with a small amount of muscle and having the swimmer look is perfectly doable by anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupLike the guys below said it's the same discussion. Attraction. Most of the dudes here are just in denial about how it works and insist that women don't have realistic standards anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 22 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?As a young guy who dates older (29 currently dating a 39 year old) it's just a lot less headache most of the time. I'm an old soul as is and girls in my "age appropriate" range bore me very often and it's like yeah I'm getting a pretty face but if there's nothing behind that face I'm not interested. Also thanks to all the bullshit about being "beautiful at any size" lots of 20 somethings think they can do whatever and look like shit while the 30 and 40 somethings who are super in health and fitn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with the upper bound of self improvementexaggeration yes, but I've seen pretty girls go gaga over some people that look like hobos as far as I'm concerned so it's not as bad as the guys on this sub would make it out to be. If you're struggling to get laid and you aren't a fat fuck it's rarely your looks that are the reason you're struggling unless you're an absolute idiot who's below average and you're sprinting straight after models and expecting to not strike out most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?personally, it always feels like the guys are dating up in terms of looks tbh at least from what I've seen and experienced. Meanwhile, on this sub you'd think every guy in a relationship had to go dumpster diving if he's not a 6ft4 white chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?yeah if you implement old-school redpill which was all about maximizing your potential and grinding to improve in all areas as a man. You will find success. If you fall into the new doomer garbage where everyone's obsessed about body counts and "hoeflation" in the loser club they'll keep being losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are NOT for saleI'm not scared about it lol I just don't deal with it. I have more than enough options that I'm not going to bother with a girl playing the waiting game. My current girlfriend wanted to have sex on the second date and she outright initiated it (she told me afterward that I kept her out and entertained her longer than I needed to because I was being dense about her signs). Also, are you guys going on blind dates or something? people generally date people they've already interacted with I'm not ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are NOT for saleI'm a wealthy man. I've been used for my money by "friends" and women who were "into me" but "didn't do physical stuff quickly" more than enough times to never want to deal with that garbage again. The only time I'd ever trust a woman who does that stuff is if I was flat broke and she was still going out with me. Also in general women (at least with the amount my group has dealt with) are very physical when they like a man genuinely they struggle to keep their hands off in some way. if I don't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menI really want to know what weirdo world you guys live in where you think women don't care about a man's body lol. You seriously think if you six pack abs and superman shoulders women are going to see that go "eh whatever"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with the upper bound of self improvementsome women are going to think you're a 10 some will think you're a 1 that's just how it goes. btw women don't care about the roided-out jacked look. They want the athlete look with bigger shoulders. I argue with 6 months to a year of work most guys can get themselves to be a 7-8/10 for an archetype of pretty woman if you started with an avergish face anyway. Unfortunately if you don't any redeeming face genetics you can't do much but that's a tiny portion of the population. Most guys who think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Women hate other womenFeminist and misandrist might as well be synonyms these days with how little the "good" feminists do to push back (and usually actively encourage) on their misandrist peers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Women hate other womenThe Caitlin clark stuff isn't cause of woman's competition. It's because she's a white star in a predominantly black sport and leagues better than her peers. It's a race issue because people like angel reese fans think she's only getting attention because she's white when in reality she's just better than everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus?Same. Take care of yourself and you can be sexy well into your 40s and 50s. I'll take a fit 40-something over a fatty 20s girl (which is a lot of them) any day. The reason people fall out of love is their partner lets themselves go. If your SO gets super fat and stops being active while you stay in shape that's not really what you signed up for. Most of the women who cry about their man losing interest as they age is because they decided to stop trying to look for sexy for him in the first place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever known of a man who is cute, and personable yet was a #totalfail at casual sex or hookup culture?Despite what the pill doomers will tell you. Not every guy is actually into sleeping with all pretty woman in sight. Your friend is doing the thing a lot of women do and mistaking a casual fling or ONS for something more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are NOT for salePlease women know if they want to see the man again after the first date, and yet so many will take the free meal and either say it's not working out or ghost the guy entirely. Intimacy doesn't have to be sex but you should be giving the guy some indication that you're interested. I outright won't bother with a girl if I can't even get a kiss on the first date. She's either not interested or she's one of those "I'm make my man wait" types. I believe that man should always pay for the date becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Women are NOT for saleIf you let a man pay for dinner when you have 0 interest in seeing him again or sleeping with him. Then yes you used him and I would label you a gold digger. You aren't stupid. Women know that a man taking you out to and paying for dinner with even a hint of chemistry expects some intimacy later. If you're all so strong and independent offer the 50/50 and don't just cop a free meal because you that's "how dating works" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality womenyou didn't make a move for sex after FIVE dates!? Dude wtf. There's being respectful and there's not making any moves. If a woman has agreed to go out with you 5 times she's willing to let you in her pants. It's not immoral or anything that's just basic dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.Men don't need sex. It pretty much always relates back to a childhood trauma borderline every guy has who struggles in some form. The trauma of constantly thinking "why am I not good enough to sleep with?" every guy goes through it and has to come to terms with it in their own way. This is where all the mental issues come from because it's a deep seated trauma that men carry into their adulthood if they weren't successful dating teens and it never really goes away until they start having success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?Women don't find fat guys attractive. Doesn't matter how low value she herself is she expects a man in decent shape. Even when a girl says she likes "dad bods" she doesn't mean actual dad bod of a fat guy with a beer gut. She means a pretty well muscled dude who's bulked a bit too much and is in 20ish% bodyfat range. Girls don't all expect abs but they expect the man to look like they're in decent shape without a bunch of fat in their face. There is a lot of variety in what women find attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her?She's not chubby or likes her wine too much. She's in straight obesity territory. Men are expected at worst to be about 20% body fat if they want to get a date with a good woman and at that BF you better be INCREDIBLY charming and have a good face. I'd bet a lot of money that girl wouldn't date a fat guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Friend Zone can be overcome in some rare cases : A woman can see a male friend as a romantic prospect only in certain situationsif someone loves you as a friend but doesn't want to date you. It's because you aren't her type it's that simple. You aren't hot enough for her in some way. Simply accept it and move either keep her as a friend or cut her out your choice, but DO NOT just stay friends to try and get in her pants it won't end well for you. If you glow up you might become her type but women generally have archetypes they want. I'm straight up too stable and intimidating for some women and I've accepted it. Women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 14 | Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting.Most people are dual income. Expecting to pay for dates is fine if that's what you want to do. Hell most of the time if a woman wants to 50/50 or pay for a date it's usually an indicator to me that she's not that interested because unless the woman is an idiot they KNOW that a man taking you out on a nice date with good sexual chemistry will lead to more (Might not be sex, but some level of intimacy). Yeah you get gold digger but honestly they're pretty easy to sus out. Good women DO NOT CARE if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:56 PM |
| 6 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manNever date the landwhales boys. Don't let the bitches call you entitled. It's better to be single than date a woman who can't do the basic human thing of taking care of herself. If you're in good shape you aren't being entitled, ignore obese girls. Body Positivity should be purged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Men with exceedingly high libido and not willing to commit or who don’t like monogamy should marry/date gold diggersor just find a woman who can match your Libido? The funniest are tradcon or redpill idiots who have high libido but want a woman who is a prude as if that will somehow become compatible in the bedroom because she'll be a slut for just them. My current GF will outright pounce me some weeks for sex. I wouldn't be able to cheat even if I wanted to because she keeps my sex drive met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do some alphas choose the beta lifestyleHVM pair up all the time. If anything HVMs are MORE likely to be in happy committed relationships because the VAST majority of people by the time they're in their late 20s to early 30s are just looking for a partner that makes them happy and fulfilled. Some men have fun fliting between multiple women but most guys just want to find the one low-maintenance girl that makes their life easier, and most people understand that a good compatible sex life is pretty hard to come by especially if you're t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality?only insecure desperate men will date any women. Aka large chunks of men on this sub lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality?Obese whale fuck no. Being slightly chubby is usually a temporary thing and everyone has weight fluctuations. Obese people are lazy and can't stop eating and it takes years to get to that point. I don't care what your personality is because being obese means you lack the self-restraint and discipline to take care of yourself. I drink like a sailor and I'm still in good shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:17 AM |
| 5 | Men see women as partners/companions; women see men as disposable accessories.Seriously. Friend of mine dated a dude for a year, and all of us (male and female) routine told her to dump his ass. Guy wasn't even attractive and from what he ex told me his dick barely worked in bed. After they broke up she told us she didn't get off FOR AN ENTIRE YEAR and still kept dating him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Why is popularity and social standing in a partner so much more important to women?exactly it doesn't work out. It's just a straight personality clash. Extroverted party men end up dating extroverted women and vice versa. Men online seem to think introverted men don't find dates with their compatible matches. Just to be clear I don't have anything against introverts reading the wording again it was a tad aggressive lol. I just wouldn't date one because it's not a good match in 99% of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever feel insulted by the caliber of women who show interest in you?For women yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:31 AM |
| -14 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementthe bar is in hell. The "average" schmuck who's struggling online is just so inept that the bar being in hell is too high. Most guys who think they're the average online are anything but. I've coached enough guys out of their funk to know that 99% of the time if a man is struggling with women it's his own fault and whatever he thinks is his "match" is probably several rungs above him. Like sorry just because you aren't fat doesn't mean you deserve a gym girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:42 PM |
| 7 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementhot crazy scale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:40 PM |
| 2 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Seriously I was in college in the apparent "Great dating time" 10 years ago and it was hell. I remember not being allowed in the frats half the time in my first year because I was still in my shy nerdy phase and hadn't figured out how to be social yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:07 PM |
| 5 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.The amount of people with 10+ sexual partners men or women is incredibly small and most of the number is probably propped up by the swinger community more than anyone else. Women especially will happily hang on to a single guy for sex as long as possible if he's good in bed. Men don't seem to realize that if you can get a girl off you've won most of the battle for a relationship since that's depressingly rare from what the women I know have told me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 6 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.Pretty much. Most people's body count is in the single digits. The average person isn't trying to date the entire planet they want to find someone that makes them happy and aroused and settle down. As for what makes a guy average You have Looks (face and body), Charisma, Job, Intelligence, Sexual Ability You're below average if you don't stand out in any of these categories. Most average dudes have one of these things as strength. If you have 2+ that's when you start getting into the upper tier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is popularity and social standing in a partner so much more important to women?Men do care. Popular charismatic dudes aren't dating wet blankets unless they're near 10/10 models in which case like women we will forgive a LOT if someone is just that hot. As one of the said extroverted partygoers do you have any idea how insufferable it is to date an introverted homebody who barely wants to go out? It gives men like me cabin fever from sheer boredem. The reason it feels like men don't care online is once again because a large portion of men online are so desperate they don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 07:27 PM |
| – | The whole “so you want women to date men they’re not attracted to“ is a deflection. Attraction is not static, but rather fluid and relative, and is directly proportionate to your options/abundance.as a 7 or an 8, you can be pretty selective. Unless you need to get laid with a different girl every day of the week for some reason. Assuming you're in a bigger city with multiple options. As the guy above said. Small town deletes any kind of fun dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:51 PM |
| – | The whole “so you want women to date men they’re not attracted to“ is a deflection. Attraction is not static, but rather fluid and relative, and is directly proportionate to your options/abundance.Yeah, that's the biggest change. Nothing forces people to be social anymore and with dating apps being "easy" they'd all rather use that instead of touching grass and learning how to interact organically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"?Yeah when I first found Redpill it was effectively a version of PUA but without all the cheese of pick up lines and more about just becoming a socially charismatic man. All that's gone now and the current redpillers make my old blackpill self sound like henry cavill. I grew up in the Middle East and Modern Redpill is somehow even more conservative puritanical than anything I saw growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.they're usually good people and generally pretty fun... but they dress like hobos rofl. Granted I have been unironically called a peacock for how vain I am about my fashion and grooming so my definition of bum is probably a bit biased haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 10:01 PM |
| 6 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.actually no the super short girls tend to be the biggest height queens. People in the averageish height range (5'6-5'9) usually end up with girls around their same height or average height women around 5"3-5'5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.Redpill has a lot of truth to it. It's just modern redpill that's shit and useless to anyone trying to actually get a date with a pretty girl. All 3 of those things matter. Not to the extent the dateless reddit cry about but they 100% matter and people who tell you otherwise (mostly women) are lying to you, but you can get your looks to the level pretty women will be attracted to you enough to give you a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 6 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.I'm only an inch taller than you and I do fine, but I also don't use dating apps at all. I just meet women at events like concerts, pool parties or the bar. Getting good at closing just takes time and experience and learning to accept that at the end of the day it's a numbers game even hot guys don't get every girl they lay their eyes on just how attractive works. Dating apps are extremely low quality women for anything but looks so if you're after a girl you'd want to go steady with they aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:50 PM |
| 5 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.yeah, my friends and I (male and female) can tell when someone is bullshitting us. It's not always men either. There's a woman who makes it sound like she has dozens of dudes at her beck and call and none of us buy it lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.The most fun is watching the lefty and righty anime profile pictures start fighting each other on twitter like it's mortal combat and they're going to change the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:59 PM |
| 3 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.No, you went on a barely disguised tirade about how people ignore "simple facts" as if the delusional redpill worldview backed by random bs studies is gospel. The fact you can't see the comedy of people like THAT calling the normal people in relationships the "weirdos" is really your problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:55 PM |
| 10 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.Yeah charm isn't going to change your type haha. Confidence and ease in social situations. Lack of issues when it comes to chatting up women. It's also pretty obvious when a guy is bitter about women it comes across when he talks pretty quickly. One subtle thing I've noticed is posture. Unless a guy is naturally gifted (super tall, model looks etc.) confidence and game is how you get women and the thing I've noticed is that men who are confident around women always have sterling posture. There a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"?Absolute shit show. now I'm starting to see them spout that a woman is undateable after 26. I swear that age keeps going down. I'm half convinced modern redpill WANTS men to fail otherwise they wouldn't be filling their heads with actively deterimental shit that will never get them laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"?They don't all think the same but there are some universal things all women like out of a man. The same way there are universal things men like out of women. How those things are expressed vary by type. Old RP framework helps most guys because it gets them out of their own heads and teaches them how to flirt. 99% of women aren't going to give a shy awkward man who doesn't know how to flirt the time of the day it's just reality. Doesn't matter if he's an ass, a kind, a misogynist or whatever the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:27 PM |
| 10 | Is RP No Longer "I Am The Prize, DGAF, Spin-Plates"?Modern Redpill is a complete shit show. It's become this weird purity cult of dateless dudes talking about how women are used up after 26 and if they ever sleep with anyone before meeting you that's a red flag. Idk if it's some saudi psyop or what but it's basically useless in its current form. Used to be about embracing your masculinity and relentless self-improvement even if I disagreed with some of their concepts like "it's only your turn" but in its current form the redpill will only hurt yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:24 PM |
| 15 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.The universal constant of successful men is charm, so if the person you're talking to doesn't come across as suave in some way he's probably not getting laid much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:11 PM |
| 8 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.Yeah, I have a buddy with 0 standards. I know his body count is high but it's not a body count I'd ever want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 3 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.I stop by when my GF's working and I'm not doing anything. This sub is great comedy, especially with the modern redpill that somehow got taken over by grifters and idiots who turned it into some purity cult instead of the bastion of self-improvement it used to be. I don't have to think that about all men because I keep my fellow men who aren't idiots in my circle. Like I said the men out here getting dates aren't the ones coping. Those "simple facts" are just the redpill loser base trying to fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.I will take being called a weirdo by dateless virgin men as a badge of honor. My friends would too since trying to watch some of you socialize makes it very clear why the modern redpill man can't get laid. Fyi the men who have dates aren't the ones coping here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic.No acquisition and the wish to grow wealth fuels capitalism. Dumbass pill guys who don't understand economics trying to boil that down to "dudes want to get laid" doesn't change that. Jesus christ red pill guys live in their own reality. The entire male species does not revolve around men trying to get laid just because the lot of you can't get a date and are obsessed with every pussy in sight doesn't mean everyone else is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?Hah. I generally date older woman and on the rare occasions I do date younger it's like having a cheat code. Younger girls in bed have no idea what they want. Older ones tell you exactly how to do things well and that shit carries over. I do not need my manhood to make a woman orgasm ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 7 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic.No one outside the pill spaces acts like they need to compete that's not a normal mentality. You meet people and see if you're compatible that's really about it, but yes women compete for men about as much as the reverse the serial dateless men are just louder than the women because dateless women are invisible in society. You don't need to be some ubermensch that stacks up to every single dude she's ever dated combined. What happens is that women figure out qualities they DON"T WANT which is wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:32 AM |
| 8 | Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you?If you're good at oral and the other girls find out. You'll get laid faster. Modern redpillers can't get laid in the first place they don't know shit. My only caveat is that I'm never doing oral for a girl who won't give me head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:28 AM |
| 7 | CMV: A woman's ideal future partner MUST stack up to all of her past partners... COMBINED, which is not realistic.Not really all you get is women who understand what they DON'T want which is far more enjoyable to deal with than most girls my age (I'm 28) who don't actually know what kind of guy they want so they play stupid games and get mad when someone like me has 0 interested in playing them. Running into a woman with a good history (i.e actual boyfriends not hookups) means you can have a proper conversation and figure out if you click. So yes in some way you do need to stack up to her previous partners … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Women want to date men that are attracted to them but alot of them adopt mindsets which prevent it from happeningMost of you aren't running around with 6 packs + model faces while working 6-figure careers. You aren't dating down. The amount of absolute bums running around with objectively pretty girls in at least the US is comical. The "average" loser guy on a sub like this having a completely delusional idea of what their SMV is now that's a different discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:21 AM |
| – | Q4A: How connected are you on social media?are we sticking normal phone contacts into social media now? No, it is not normal to be an adult and have no friends you talk to Male contacts - lost count I meet 30-40 people I consider friends regularly every week or couple of weeks. Lower that numbers to about 10 for people I consider close friends that I invite to more personal gatherings. I have a bunch of gaming discords I'm in that have a couple hundred each but that's mostly just to shoot the shit and game. Other social media is exclusiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 10:28 PM |
| 9 | What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps?Her voice was too high-pitched. it annoyed my ears. Was a shame too because she was absolutely lovely otherwise but man I felt like I was being tortured every time she laughed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:35 PM |
| 3 | What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps?I have no hard stats, but from personnel experience. It feels like at least 70-80 percent of women love a beard. At least one that is well-groomed and maintained. I don't think anyone likes the caveman beards some dudes rock that look like they've never seen a trimmer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:34 PM |
| 3 | What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps?Man it's so funny seeing women like this. Every girl I know or have dated is utterly beard mad. Most keep wanting me to make mine longer (I have really good beard genetics so I can pretty much do anything I want with it). Nothing wrong with it obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Women want to date men that are attracted to them but alot of them adopt mindsets which prevent it from happeningThey don't. They dream 24/7 about being "chad" and hate their current existence but won't really do anything to fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:30 PM |
| 8 | Women want to date men that are attracted to them but alot of them adopt mindsets which prevent it from happeningGuys here think every dude in a relationship is dating down. it shatters the worldview otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?well, I think Scarjo is pretty attractive, but Madison beer looks incredibly meh. I hate the whole full lip pouty doll look, but I live in a major city in Florida so I see girls that look like her everytime I walk down the street. I know guys on this sub like to think every guy will put his dick into any vaguely attractive woman put trypes and preferences are a thing, and men who can get laid are arguably even pickier than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was niceYou need to be nice with an edge that's really about it. Women do want nice men but sorry simply being a nice guy and nothing else means you're boring, and this is true for women as well. Overly nice people are also usually clingy and that's always terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Childfree women that want a husband.Your entire question hinges on the 666 meme which doesn't exist in reality. That's just a repill copout for the losers who can't get laid. Normal people might not want kids but they still want companionship. Most guys are completely happy sticking with one woman who makes them happy even if they have options. If anything guys with options are more willing to settle down when they find one they really like because they understand how much shit you have to weed through to find someone who's worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Do some red pill podcaster bro’s have legitimate points? (context below)Men are visual first and foremost and other factors are generally a bonus when it comes to women. The primary thing we care about is how pretty our mate is. Women also care but are willing to let other things play a factor. Ugly men can make themselves standout in some way (it might just be their money in the worst case) but truly ugly women are invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleBaby steps work wonders. I tell the most anxious people to get used to complimenting or saying hi to random people. Even if they don't have a conversation. For some guys that's a huge step | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?correct, but until that happens women being allowed to pull the trigger and screw over someone shouldn't be defended. It's getting better but it's still far too biased towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 03:22 PM |
| -2 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?She never had any career. She came in expecting to be a housewife and SAHM and then did none of the work being one of those entails. He works from home he's always there. he only gets the kids on weekends. He's tried to have them be at his place more often multiple times (He suggested 2 weeks with her, 2 weeks with him). She's shot down any chance of that because it would lower her child support money. Which she barely even uses on the kids btw considering he constantly pays for extra stuff like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t agree with no fault divorce, how much are you willing to change?I'd be perfectly fine with no-fault divorce if the divorce courts everywhere weren't so biased towards the woman. My uncle's Ex-wife was the entire reason that marriage failed (she didn't work, didn't do any household tasks, didn't cook barely raised the kids). Guess what? She has primary custody of their 2 daughters and gets paid alimony and child supports while she works some shit dead-end job now. He's doing very well for himself. Has his own lovely house. A high-paying job and is now in fant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Western women's dating options are shrinking.Seriously. These guys are delusion if they think hot foreign women are lining up to date mediocre Americans. Half the time Americans are seen as the butt of a joke in most of the places I grew up. Now some might have a white guy fetish but I can tell you from the stories I've heard that a lot will do the same monkey branch they expect western girls to do the second they get settled in the US and see what new options they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellare they actually in the circle or just show up? Is the circle all dudes? If it is all dudes do they go out and talk to women? Yes the quality of the circle does matter but even if you have a mediocre one you can still leverage it to keep meeting people. Doesn't even take much effort if you're in it and people like you. You just suggest new places to go that you think might have girls to talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellMy entire social group works full time jobs (a lot even have side projects we devote a lot of time to) and still finds time to socialize. We might not see everyone every week but we always get people coming in and out. It's not difficult to find the time to go out once or twice a week to meet people. If you can't manage that how are you going to find time to date? They don't just automatically move in with you after you start a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:08 AM |
| 10 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellthey're called social skills for a reason. Like anything else they can be worked on and you can get better at it. The catch is that it won't happen overnight, and most guys who struggle do it a half dozen times then start crying it's bullshit because they haven't doubled their social circle in a week. No magic pill will make you attractive overnight. If you aren't the single digit percentage that was born hot and charming you simply have to make what you do have better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Are your dates boring?I've run out on a date before the apps even turned up. Yes she was that boring (I paid for my food before women start complaining). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?If they aren't attracted back it makes things awkward. Also a lot of men (a shockingly high number) become "friends" with women they're attracted to because they're too much of a pussy to ask for what they want and then dance around the issue for god knows how long before finally striking up the nerve to ask. This is usually done when the girl has shown no interest and they've also given 0 intent that they like this women more than platonically so it's just awkward all around. Friends do start d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Why over complicate dating?It's not complicated, but it is hard and people would rather find random studies or whatever that proves why it's not their fault they can't get a date instead of doing the correct answer and working on their social skills, body, style, and what else. The thing is finding a random study to confirm your bias takes like 5 minutes. Making yourself dateable to girls you like can take years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men who complain about being “friend zoned”, are disingenuous and have brought that upon themselvesIf you're mad about being friendzone. Stop acting like her friend and start flirting. It's an open secret that I'm hot for a girl in our extended friend group (I know it, she knows it, the entire group knows it). Whenever we go out we're constantly flirting back and forth. Nothing's happened but it's never weird and we have always had a great time. If you're scared to put yourself in scenarios like this you won't get anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:09 AM |
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