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| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Dude, no women are saying that there is an issue with VIRGINS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.That's not what she said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:49 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Thank you for explaining this. I don't know how people don't understand the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Oh, and they're not "laughing right along with them" in the sense of them laughing at the same things. Men and women who are both laughing at.men and calling them incels are usually doing so for very different reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Lmao, women aren't laughing at or about "incels" because they don't have sex. Are you joking or are.you serious? Although the term incel first came from women who were involuntarily celibate, then men startedcusing this term to descrive themselves. Now we see every redpiller talking about so-called "alphas," and "betas," and "incels," and to them, calling men betas and incels is always an insult. Women don't care about whether some guy has had sex or not, or regularly has sex or not. If she's us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Ugh, I know right? Mine is still zero, but if I get sick enough of people using such a crass, derogatory term, I guess there's a chance it could go up. 😂 /s (for the record) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.STDs, does he treat women well . . . If I'm dating someone, I don't really think about it (or I'm not necessarily going to ask about it), but if I find out a guy has a lot of casual sex (depending on the context), I admit I am a but more hesitant. If a guy has a bunch of casual sex, I question whether they even give a shit about the women and might actually just be an asshole and I didn't realize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men don’t have the privilege of not caring about sex.Lol, but it doesn't mean he wasn't CONFIDENT. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:20 PM |
| – | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.1) This post is about hurting other people, women specifically, so yes, it does affect me because arguing in support of hurting women IS about women. Duh. 2) If you want me to buy that this is actually about a man hating himself and wanting feedback or to talk to people, he would have to say that instead of justifying rape and manipulation. Check yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Sex is good for men and women to do"Rated PG-13" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Posts like this are heartbreaking. Every. Single. Time. I want nothing more to have an amazing relationship with a man (yes, I know, silly me). Instead, as painful as it is to read these posts, I make sure to read them, so I don't forget how men really feel about us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:19 AM |
| – | Why do women get annoyed when told it's easy for them to be attractive but it's not for men?First of all, those don't make you more attractive. 😂 Second of all, you intentionally ignored the major surgery you used as an example to respond to that question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadAnd my purpose in distinguishing reverse-misogyny from misandry is to recognize what is actually going on and where it came from so that it can actually be changed. It's hard to change something when it's so misunderstood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadReverse-misogyny is a better term (like reverse-racism) than misandry, since it exists in response to misogyny. And I'm not sure why there are so many men STILL arguing about testosterone equaling aggression, since we know that's not quite how it works. Of course, I'm not assuming the average person is going to be aware of that because most people are ignorant about most things, but I AM surprised when it gets argued in subs like this. Makes it just sound like redpill subs that are usually all f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.Oh, I agree with that, too! I just appreciated that because it was such a change from what has been typical for so long in media. I wasn't saying that I specifically want more GoT-like nudity, just that I appreciated that it was sort of used as a great equalizer compared to how nudity is usually used. That was why I thought of it. One question. We're you just wanting to share that you don't like Game of Thrones, or was your response about it being "insufferable" related to my comment specificall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".Lol, they're definitely on that path. They won't be our problem anymore. Do you think they's switch to terrorizing gay men, straight men, or just each other because they're all the tip toppiest tier and no one else is good enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".That's very true. Ignoring manipulative behavior is being complicit. And yeah, if you could just simply "not choose" to be manipulated......I'm not sure if I should be offended, or maybe flattered because these men think women are all so brilliant and psychic, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 05:22 PM |
| 5 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.I'm confused about how this relates to the previous comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.And the ones they do show are prosthetics anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:08 AM |
| 1 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop.I agree about the penises. I liked that about Game of Thrones (the nudity in general) because everyone was naked and none of it was pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:08 AM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menWait, what? How can we look them up by titles OR authors if you don't give us any info about where you got the "daya" from. What you don't seem to be getting is that, if you've already looked them up, then if you look them up again, you'll find them more quickly than if we searched for some study that says some keyword you claimed they argued. We would just be sifting through random articles to try and guess if we found the same things you are referencing. Or, maybe I just didn't understand your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:31 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menAlso, you need significantly more data because your conclusions aren't holding up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menI still disagree. Many women do like men, and most of the ones who don't, don't BECAUSE of how they've been treated by men. I understand that attraction can play a role and add to how much someone likes someone overall, but I really think you're severely overestimating how much men like women, AND underestimating how many women are attracted to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:24 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menWell, I'll have to check them out. It would be helpful if you'd add them to your post, since multiple people have been asking about your sources. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:17 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menI mean, what is your definition of desire, though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:12 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menSounds like every redpill dude rating women by attractiveness. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:10 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menThis is one of those guys who's too dumb to understand how he could possibly be misunderstanding his owm arguments, much less the supposed evidence he can't be bothered to share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menMany men don't even LIKE women. They're just sexually attracted to them. How can you say that women aren't into men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:07 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menBut your opinion was so wrong, though. 😂😂😂 You don't even have anything to back up that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:04 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menHe refuses. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:03 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menThe burden of proof is on YOU if you are making the claims, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | If Christianity Is Returning to the West, Not Giving Women an Orgasm Should Be a Sin AgainHeal how? I'm so curious now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I don't necessarily think so because if someone has never been pregnant before, they can't know what it is like to be in that situation. Sort of like how people think they know how they'd handle being attacked, or what they'd do if they won the lottery -- but you might not actually know until you're in that situation. Pregnancy is a HUGE deal and involves her body no matter what (whether it be carrying to term or having a medical procedure). I think it's hard to require that or to enforce such a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I thought the shot was causing SERIOUS issues, like seizures or death or something. I don't actually remember what it was (and I'll go look it up). Are you sure that was the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?Yes, absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:57 AM |
| 1 | men's best option to solve their own issues is to be sociopathsI think you're assuming that the men who justify manipulating others this way have some sort of capacity for empathy to begin with. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:13 AM |
| 1 | For “Men can want sex AND relationships” to be believed, they can’t despise non-sexual relationship activities and the vetting process.This is an excellent post and explanation. The part that stood out to me the most was that if a relationship is the cost of sex, then you don't want a relationship. So simple, so obvious, so straightforward. I'm sorry you're getting so many brain dead comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:57 PM |
| 1 | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.First of all, it doesm'tvmatyer whether you were talking about strippers -- her point was that the prostitutes she spoke with didn't have the same point of view you assumed they would. Her mentioning being a former stripper is for context, that she might actually know more women personally and have better evidence than you do. Second of all, it's inappropriate and disgusting to call her a whore and throw around random insults (that don't even make sense). I'm reporting you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:20 AM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.The fact that they would never consent without money doesn't necessarily mean they dislike the guy. There are TONS of reasons to not consent without money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.Okay, I found it again. Lol. And reading the post again, I remember that the way it was worded was really confusing to me, so idk if I even understand what he's trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:10 AM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.Was he talking about casual sex, though? I promise I'll go read his post again, but I was afraid I'd lose my place, where I was reading. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:08 AM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.And provide for HER emotionally so she naturally wants to have sex with you. If she's resistant to having sex with you, ask why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.You don't need enthusiastic consent to have emotions during sex. You can have a fuck ton without it. (Yes, I know that you were talking about positive emotions.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:04 AM |
| 2 | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.She wasn't defending that it's okay. She was saying that you probably just.don't know what is "normal" for most men, because you're not the woman in those situations, one-on-one. As far as first-hand knowledge goes, you only have your own in those situations. And none of us women believe it SHOULD be normal, just that it is very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:02 AM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.As a woman, it is very normal in hookups. I honestly think it's a rare woman who genuinely likes hookups and benefits from them. This is why I'm anti-hookup culture. It's all about the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:00 AM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.Ooh, I definitely agree with the "mutual desire maybe, but mutual pleasure no" part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:58 PM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.As a woman, I strongly disagree with that. Maybe it's a cultural difference, but I feel like I hear similar things from women all over. Hookups are very different and men don't necessarily have desire for their hookups, anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:57 PM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.This! Why is this guy so surprised when males also try to drive it home, over and over, that they don't care about us, don't even like us, that they'll fuck anything that walks, that if they have casual sex with you it's because they aren't interested in you, they don't even care if you get off because that's not their job and not what they're there for, that sex means nothing to them -- they just want to "have fun" or let off a little steam, cheating doesn't mean anything, etc. I tried to be ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:54 PM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex."Our sex" does NOT struggle with the concept that sex CAN BE the deepest, most intimate connection. I think most of us feel that way ourselves, as well. This is the society we live in, so we are brought up to feel that way. It's totally normal and common across the board. We have spheres of levels of intimacy -- acquaintances, friends, family, romantic partners, et cetera. Most people figure that you will (could/should/whatever) have the deepest, rawest, most vulnerable connection with your part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:50 PM |
| – | It's really funny when people bring up the idea of "you don't need sex - you can just jerk off" and then complain about men who only want sex.I might not understand the complaint, because you just described two things that don't seem opposing at all -- they sound like they go hand in hand. I think it makes perfect sense that those people would complain about men only wanting sex, because the point is that those men aren't often providing any emotional connection for their partners. Men who only care about sex aren't usually looking for an emotional connection, they're looking for a sex toy. A woman is not a sex toy. She is not a flesh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Okay, that's enough. Do you have the capacity to have a real debate? So far it just sounds like you're trolling or something. Do you have anything of SUBSTANCE to add? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.People who see relationships transactionally don't do anything without incentive. It sounds like you're assuming other people function the way you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Your comment was, in and of itself, a deflection, which means it doesn't make sense for her to have to answer it rather than staying on topic and redirecting back to the topic if someone's "tactic" is, basically, a whataboutism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.But the redpill is mostly wrong, so that doesn't really make sense. 😂 Okay, but for real, I would be really curious to hear your specific issues with the blue pill. I haven't actually listened to as much blue pill stuff as red pill stuff and I'd love to know what, specifically, you take issue with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.What is AMALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.I'm not quite sure how your comment relates to the comment you commented on....but the fact that you called being a good person a "feminist ally bit" says more about you than anyone else. He wasn't talking about anyone doing a bit or pretending to be an ally. He was talking about guys who are actually willing to work on themselves, learn other people's perspectives and not be so self-centered. You also said that blue pillers "refuse to tell the truth," suggesting you don't think blue pill rhetor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Can you elaborate on what a good guy is in your view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Is this a debate thread? I thought it was. If that's the case, isn't a jab at the debater rather the argument considered a poor response? Or is this just a regular thread. I've been trying to frame my comments a certain way because I thought I was supposed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:18 PM |
| -1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Of course they do. They preach manipulation and abuse tactics to get what they want out of a relationship, no matter the harm they cause to women. They act immorally, but try to pretend like it's amoral. If you want to argue that it's amoral because morals are "man"-made, okay, but we also have plenty of scientific evidence for the harm it causes women, and women aren't going to tolerate the mistreatment anymore. If they are arguing amorality, eventually they will have to come to terms with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.What makes you think this is either/or scenario? That's not how people work. You can have standards in both of those areas and you, like them, have the ability to choose what you be, as well. These things aren't trade-offs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.I find it interesting that you say you can look "beyond the superficial stuff and decide whether someone is an asshole or not" but also claim that the "liberal white woman" in your example " 'refuses' to be friends with anyone but other liberal white women", which IS a superficial examination. Unless you were referring to a specific person and not claiming that liberal white women who have other white liberal friends are necessarily more racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior."A woman can just listen to what a man says to understand how men work. But men are forced to ignore what women say, and to purely observe what they DO." I have two issues with this: 1) This assumes that MEN know how men work. Many men have issues with alexithymia, that indicates that they don't know themselves as well as they think they do. They lack emotional depth, and the ability to regulate their emotions well. Because women tend to be more in touch with their emotions, they have better emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.Basically, "the man is simply doing what women respond to" is just a cop out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.That is exactly WHY it is predatory, though. They acknowledge that they are trying to manipulate her. They aren't just saying that they knowingly enter into a relationship because she is insecure or has unhealthy attachment issues, they are TEACHING men how to exploit that, how to worsen it, until she doesn't know any better. That is abusive. They are using abuse tactics to train her into dysfunction. I'm not dismissing that they can meet a woman who is already insecure, etc, who is attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:25 PM |
| – | Why do men think there are so many good men1) how did she move the goalpost? 2) Are using whataboutisms any better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do men think there are so many good menAre you using that argument to justify why you think it's okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What "false rape allegation" statistics say & what people imagine they sayHe's misusing the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Feminism is about bring us together, not creating greater separation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Ffs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?I'm not sure what influencers you watch, but the ones I have seen who seem to be more on the misandrist side aren't really engaging with men. Why would they? That doesn't make sense. Maybe you have some examples. The feminists I watch online aren't spouting "anti-man" rhetoric, and some of them do engage in casual sex, which makes more sense, because they do genuinely like men. You say "promiscuous." I say "sex-positive." It sounds like you engage in "anti-woman rhetoric," which skews your persp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societySorry not to address any of the individual points, but this was already such a long response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:12 AM |
| 5 | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyI just wrote a long-ass comment...but I should have just read further. Haha, yours is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyI don't know what graph you're referring to, but I wouldn't be surprised if it looked that way, even though I think it's likely misrepresented. If the gender roles and ideologies of the patriarchy are considered the norm, then a deviation from that could be considered radicalization, which could include all feminism. The problem with that is that gender INEQUALITY is considered the baseline, or middle point (I think of it as a balance point). Because this paradigm is male-centered, it is mostly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average menThat doesn't necessarily mean they're lying. They might just be misunderstanding what demisexuality is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:56 PM |
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