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| 1 | Do you pay on the first date?I don’t do dates that cost a lot of money. I think it’s stupid if you do, because it heightens the threshold of it being worth it so much. I sometimes do a coffee date though, and I don’t mind paying for that. I always offer, at least (not obviously, but I just go to pay and she can stop me if she insists). | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 11:51 AM |
| 8 | Has the community done a bit of a 'U turn' in recent years?I think it’s also a bit of a situation where PUA has kind of become mainstream. Like everybody knows what a neg is now. Women, for better or worse, have become more confident, to the extent that social pressure requires them to have (unrealistic) expectations from the guys they hook up with or get in a relationship with. But game, definitely still matters. Like you can’t pull any girl looking like a troll. You never could. But the underpinnings of attraction-qualification-comfort are still there… | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Lacking Self Acceptance and getting easily attachedI think it’s important to not be too hard on yourself. How old are you? This is also just generally something that improves as you get older and accomplish more. You become more at ease with yourself and you start to believe that you’re actually worth something. That, plus you just don’t have time to worry too much about some girl, because you actually have stuff going on. I think it’s important to get a firm grasp of who you are anyway. After that, you can also know who you want. You’ll then re… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Impossible shit testI think at some point it’s also just about having standards. Like you don’t need to seduce her and I think you can sometimes just give in. If I was seeing someone and they did this to me, I’d lose all interest. It just isn’t respectful and I’m too old to play around tests like this. I’d just be honest and say I think it’s a bit disrespectful and ask why she thought it was a good idea to show me herself with another man. But if you’re fully intending on seeing this one out, I’d maybe joke about i… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Assuming attraction sounds crazy to meI think shows lack of understanding of women. Guys, sure, they see a hot person and just want to have sex. But women (generally) don’t work like that. Inhibitions are definitely lowered, sure, but it takes more for a woman to sleep with you. I think what the principle is getting at (and what it should be replaced by) is that you don’t care what they think of you, you believe yourself to be attractive. You’re comfortable with the way you look, the way you act, the way you think. You don’t go up t… | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:39 PM |
| 25 | Post-2020 game feels so different. What changed?But I do think that dating apps weren’t as mainstream 10 years ago. 10 years ago is still was very much “haha well…we met on an app…” Now people have a folder of dating apps on their phone. I think the constant access to men, but also the sheer amount of low-quality men there, have led to women just being tired and unwilling to put themselves out there as much. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 12:49 PM |
| 14 | Post-2020 game feels so different. What changed?I think so. I think the peak actually was in 2020, when everybody was desperate for connection. But especially post-pandemic, people seem to have gotten jaded and disillusioned. I think the younger generation is also very much lost and doesn’t want to get too serious or get involved. Like I’ve noticed them really having difficulty opening up. I think with social media and dating apps, personalities have become a bit more cookie cutter (everybody is influenced by the same things and have been tau… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 12:42 PM |
| 5 | How is the dating world after 30?Dating apps are probably the best way, honestly. Fair amount is out there in their mid-late 20s. Lot of people who didn’t find the one in grad school, those who have focused on their career but have realized there’s more to life than that, and those who recently broke up as well. It’s actually an amazing group of people, if you’re looking to date seriously. They’re people who generally know what they want and not afraid to go for it. Unlike what some people might have, I had absolute zero luck w… | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 08:59 PM |
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