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I think if you are hanging out with someone it's natural to want to say things that make them happy and get a bit carried away, then reality hits and the actions don't follow. That's being generous though, a lot of people are just manipulative. The only thing I would say about age gap relationships is that often the 35 year old is not only sought after by you, and thus has a habit of behaving in this kind of way. If men are used to women throwing themselves at them, they don't really value atten…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/26 06:40 PM
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I think you have to make men feel like they've earned youto really appreciate you tbh. I think their psychology is just different although there are exceptions of course. If you want to attract good, or high-value men, they are used to having women throw theselves at them. I know a lot of men who I don't even consider that high-value that have no issue getting FWB. The way men and women operate in the dating market is so different, men will cast a wide net and play with whatever they catch, ofte…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/25 06:34 PM
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I think it's salvageable but ofc it's more difficult to negotiate these things once he got used to you doing them, it might bring about some resentment. I also did everything for my bf when we moved in together and eventually stopped and we survived. This is also why other women say it's bad if you live with a guy before marriage because I think this is also the natural balance of things, women gravitate towards doing this and then you are spending your free time subsidizing someone's existence …
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/25 09:50 PM
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This is it. I work with high value men, all have been locked & taken by women in their early/mid twenties. You can get a really attractive guy young if you have your life in any way together, most women don't (most men don't, but I think men put a higher emphasis on this because their life sucks until they make some money). From what I have seen most men look for a socioeconomic equal rather than a smoking hot girl who isn't. The amount of men who are willing to give you the relationship you wan…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/25 03:33 PM
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What drew me to the space is that conventional dating advice doesn't seem to work. It's at least not as effective as it should be. Often giving women advice that is against their own best interest. If you look at the girlfriends/wives of men who you consider high-value in the public eye they usually are very different from what you would expect based on what is shared as "conventional wisdom". >What is wrong from an rp perspective to dump your husband/bf when he loses his job? What is wrong from…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/25 05:11 PM
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It's not that I disagree, especially if it's a husband, but I've seen dudes dump their "starter" girlfriends after like 7 years of them doing their chores and building them up for their "dream girl" who they go through a lot of inconvenience for.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 10:02 PM
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Really? Because I think this is how you get taken for granted.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/25 11:07 PM
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I had a similar experience! I dated someone who was good on paper, when I met him his mannerisms were also kind of nerdy, awkward and reserved, he did really seem like boyfriend material, someone who didn't go out much, was very introverted and seemed very innocent as well. We got into an argument once and he shared this huge roster of women he is talking to/seeing with me. His personality completely 180'd I was shocked. I think even years later I am shocked. But he was also booted out of every …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/25 11:58 PM
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I don't mean to discourage you btw! It's great you are looking for a partner young. I am just trying to share some of the things I wish I knew before going into it and wasting years on heartbreak when I could have been happy. There are genuinely great guys out there, I am dating one now. I wish that for you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 12:34 AM
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I do know plenty of people who met their soulmates through online dating but I just know so many more who met men who were perfect on paper and played them as a habit. In your case it seems like you ticked his boxes too, he saw you as relationship material, and was ready to settle down, he also seems like a straightforward and honest guy who doesn't have a history of lying to get what he wants. You are likely high value as well to inspire that level of commitment from him. It's just difficult/a …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 12:26 AM
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Well on TRP they advise men to deal with this by telling them to dangle the carrot of commitment without outright stating it. I know that's not the source material for most men, but it's like without the risk of social shaming people devolve. From both sides. And I agree that most men don't use online dating to find a life partner. Men will rarely if ever turn down free female attention, even if they are not looking to settle down, if they get chased down and have women planning dates with them,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 12:16 AM
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I don't think it's a red flag I am just saying that if you have a 6'6 investment banker who looks like adonis talking to you on tinder, will you really believe that he is a nice guy that happens to be single and fling yourself into it heart first? That's all. There was some math done about this where if you run into this desirable profile and it is active, it's likely that it's been active for months/years because this person is just having fun. What are the odds that you snap this person up int…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 04:15 PM
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Yup and this is exactly the kind of person she may run into on the dating sites. Men who generate a lot of interest in themselves because they have the checkmarks but have zero interest in settling down, and lie about it while cycling through attractive women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/25 04:09 PM
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Recently on dating apps, I have noticed HVM (doctors, dentists, bankers), around 28-32 years old who have interested me. They are interested in all attractive women. The entire dating pool is going to be competing with you for these exact men. When you are aiming for a "finished product" there are certain realities to contend with. I am not saying this is the case for all men at all btw, I am just stating what I have noticed: - Why aren't they taken? In my experience these men get snapped up in …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 07:35 PM
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Aside from other things that have been mentioned, I think this arises when you do not take care of yourself enough as well. Are you happy? Are your own emotional needs taken care of? One year ago I would have said yes, that I am lucky, etc but after extensive therapy I realized I needed to do more for myself as I've always been a people-pleaser. I started going to the gym, making friendships that fill me up, some days I needed to do some activities for myself outside of the house. You're not mar…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 05:25 PM
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Women do more unpaid work than men in relationships. Planning social events, decorating, cooking meals for said social events or holidays, talking to people, remembering deadlines and birthdays, remembering appointments, cleaning, childcare. How is splitting things halfway fair in this situation? This is why men are expected to spend more. I have not one seen a relationship that was 50/50 or even one where the woman outearned the man and still didn't do most of the uplaid labor. I am sure there …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:34 PM
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This feels like many red flags. Doing hair and nails should not be something threatening. I love nail appointments, the feminine energy and the how it feels to appear 'put together' afterwards. It's a recharging ritual. The gym too is a massive boost. Wearing jeans? That's ridiculous. I think him being disloyal and liking revealing posts, while imposing all of these things on you, is massively unfair and hypocritical as well. If he has been disloyal I think he is not a good life partner. You are…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 06:03 PM
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My boyfriend is also busy with a ton of responsibilities. With men sometimes you have to wait for them to reach out. I suffocated the life out of every relationship I had prior. This one at the start (I still consider 4 months to be a start) I religiously tried to stick to 1-1 replies, I didn't bombard him, and sometimes this was so painful, I'd have to turn my phone off and go to bed/go through my day in what felt like mental anguish. When we did spend time together I tried to make his life eas…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/25 05:48 PM
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Thank you for your advice, I've implemented some of this and my relationship has already massively improved. I think my behavior change will take some time but hopefully I will get there.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/25 04:36 PM
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Proud of you! Congrats on empowering and improving yourself. I've been through some things as well, though every experience is different, and years out the best advice that worked for me in retrospect was fighting against the urge to "hide and recluse" it creates this anxiety that made everything worse, every time I fought against this urge to box myself in it provided healing, I wish the same for you, healing and blessings :) I found places I felt safe in and grew from there. Gym classes were g…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/25 04:34 PM
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this is great advice! And you are absolutely right, it is up to me to manage and really I am not receiving that much negativity for it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/25 10:13 PM
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I bought the book "For Women Only" and I have started implementing the respect chapter to great success! I can already see slow improvements in our relationship though I see there is still a lot of work to do. Yes I have started saying no to his mother. The issue is that I have been helping her with everything she asked me for for one year and I've hit a limit, I don't mind helping but I added up the time and it was 15-20 hours a week with a full-time job. As a girlfriend, not a fiancee or wife,…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/25 04:05 PM
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Hello, thank you for your advice. I bought the book "For Women Only" and will begin slowly reading this today. I've started being more positive and he has begun slowly coming back to me. I brought him a cup of water instead of complaining about how late he is up and took a moment to thank him for how much he has improved my life, which he really has. So we moved in with his family to save money, including his mother. She absolutely adores him, hangs on his every word, does and pays everything fo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/25 04:26 PM
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