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| 1 | Toxic wingman?That's the funniest shit I've ever read. I'm glad you have the experience to tell the OP about how a dog eat dog world can toughen the bones and mentality. Sometimes a spineless man needs to be treated like a dog until he can stand on his own. XD | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?Me personally I take them home if I'm feeling down bad. But yes, I've seen examples of girls and guys being horny enough to fuck in bathrooms because they are the type to have to have sex with strangers if they can't get enough sex throughout the week. It is not a bucket list, that's desperation and seeking attention/validation. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m in desperation mode. Please help.I've seen examples of a friend who lost a relationship of 3 years and experienced the same, tons of first dates in a month but no second. His problem is that he was very emotional and always talked about his ex, always started off saying "Sorry if I cry, I'm just not over my ex." It did get him sex, but no girl wanted to keep going with him when he would sob afterwards. Weakness is not sexy, but showing it every once in a while is okay. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysI've seen examples of this at clubs and bars. Either you're way of conversation is awkward as hell, you're attractive to the point where girls are shy to talk to you, or you're ugly to the point where the girl is pissed that someone of you're level is even communicating with them. From my examples, I once saw an Indian dude attempt to start a conversation with 3 girls in one night and each of their reactions was the worst. There smile quickly turned into a disgruntled expression, and they cried … | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 08:16 PM |
| 3 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winThis is game, but definitely something I can't replicate because it seems too forced to me. I'm not the type to BS like that and meaningless sex doesn't do it for me personally. Did it once for the experience, second to retry, and now I know everyone has their own thing. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withIf you have a dog, dog parks. Otherwise places I recommend to meet new people include organizations, clubs, raves, local meetups (usually more awkward than anything), networking (if you're rich, highly educated, or a girl), the gym, farmers markets, festivals, nearby pool. Honestly meeting new people is extremely easy, it's all about starting the conversation first and feeling out the vibe. Not everyone is open to conversation, but the majority of people love making connections so just get out o… | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withThat's okay bro, I didn't start dating until I was 21 and only had like 3 dates the first year. Started going to the gym, going on runs, joining groups, meeting new people, and then from the many interactions I had throughout the week I got dates. Women love to play matchmaker for their friends so just be friendly and show your the type of guy to be advertised. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withFuture plans as in like dating/marriage aspirations/expectations. Sometimes just being there and asking questions based off their words is the best way for a date to go even if you don't care or agree. I have had tens maybe close to a hundred dates and not once has someone said I talk too much. I've yet to have someone say they wouldn't want a second date because I place myself in a position in their mind where they can't find anything against me in both mind and spirit. Not that I haven't fumbl… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | First smoothie date need tipsI myself prefer coffee/boba/tea/smoothie/ice cream dates because it quickens the dates where I feel like I could end it at anytime. It's cheap and I don't have to feel like I need to wait for them to finish their food or wait for some event to end. This thought process is probably equivalent to the perspective of the girl you're dating. Ask the right questions, ask the important questions, make a few jokes to determine the vibe. Sometimes one or both of y'all can be feeling awkward, a small and … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:19 PM |
| 0 | The advice on not being bothered by rejection makes no sense to me, help?The reason why people say to get used to rejection is because the people asking for dating assistance are extroverts who don't know how to talk to women. The fact that you have to ask means that you're already awkward and when you eventually talk to some girls you will act even more awkward than you're usual extrovert self. When it comes to achieving a goal (asking a girl out), there will be failure because you're more focused on perfecting a goal than communicating with the girl as if she were … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Rejections keep getting to me.As a dude with severe ADHD I'm always switching topics with conversation at play. Using my hands to emphasis different interests, changing my tone of voice, and keeping a smile on my face makes it so that people enjoy talking to me and follow my excitement. I'm like a 6 attractively with an average but slimmer body, but being weird and quirky? helps because you're both interesting and entertaining even if they don't catch a romantic interest in you. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | If you're a straight man, going to gay bars to pick up women is the best decision you could makeI was reading this in class and had both the loudest and ugliest laugh of my life. Fuck you. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withTo say everyone is an exaggeration, I've dated lots of women who talk about wanting a family and how they envision raising kids with both the mother and father present. But, like all people, if someone talks about how quickly they want to fall in love and how soon they want a kid, people get scared off. This is just a personal thought for you, but if you're the type to fall in love with every woman on a date.. Stop talking about your fantasies and ideas on relationships and let her speak. Be an … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date withAs a romantic, this is the mindset that people are missing: To allow themselves to fall in love and imagine a prospective future with a stranger. As a man in the modern world, you're crazy to fall in love with a girl you only know through text, a short cafe date, and walk. People nowadays have a lot of relationship history and have outlandish expectations due to social media and propaganda. There's a reason why people say that a relationship doesn't start past the honeymoon phase(3 months), and … | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:46 PM |
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