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You going to name any of these “great women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:25 AM
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Masculinity only becomes “toxic” when the guy isn’t good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:23 AM
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Is an example of the “pussy pass” - women are allowed to act like obnoxious, immature assholes and get away will all manner of shitty behaviour that would not be tolerated in men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:48 AM
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He should give up an go his own way, to coin a phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:45 AM
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She’s going to dump him and write the mother of all beak up albums about it - she’s just using the poor chump
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:11 PM
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Female royals marry within their own caste; Bill Gates’s daughter is just another trust fund kid with major daddy issues (we all know why he was on Epstein’s jet)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:08 PM
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Not necessarily; depends on the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:08 PM
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How small are we talking here? Even if you’re a bit below average, it’s not the end of the world and you can make up for it by getting good at oral and so forth (so I’m told)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:55 PM
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What if the sender doesn’t have a partner (i.e., like in this “hypothetical scenario” (which definitely didn’t happen to the OP) because of the micropenis)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I’m not sure what we’re supposed to be debating here either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:15 PM
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I don’t think scenario B was a “hypothetical scenario”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:05 PM
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Because you always have options; women are only ever single by choice - you can hop on and off the carousel as and when you please, safe in the knowledge that you can pick up right where you left off as and when the mood takes you. You can be happy single because it’s always your choice and not something that’s imposed upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:04 PM
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When you say “a man”, you’re referring to yourself, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:01 PM
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At the risk of being called ableist, he was perhaps not best placed to be commenting upon the human condition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:33 PM
2

You could have just said that without hyperbolically diagnosing the entire planet with either a developmental disorder or a mental health condition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:32 PM
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It’s an attempt to sort the entire planet into two neat categories according to their genitalia, which is absurd on a multitude of levels even before you factor in the use of mental health/developmental disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:28 PM
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Being diagnosed with autism doesn’t qualify someone to diagnose others with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:25 PM
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BPD doesn’t get thrown around as much, but the same thing applies. And no, he doesn’t get a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:24 PM
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People really need to stop using “autism” as a catch-all term for any personality trait they disapprove of - unless you’re a psychiatrist, you aren’t qualified to dish out diagnoses willy-nilly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:57 PM
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What’s this “work” you speak of - does it involve blood magic, demonology, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:02 PM
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No - they’d still only want sex with the top 20% of men and would just complain more about being single and there being “no good men”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:00 PM
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I didn’t so much as fall through the cracks as was pushed through them and had my fingers stamped on as I tried to cling on; nothing has gone the way it was supposed to, and I genuinely wish I hadn’t been born, because not a second of this wretched life has been enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:21 AM
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I haven’t read it. This is based on personal observations - e.g. I work in a female dominated sector, and the majority of the women I work with seem to despise their partners, and see them as a cross between and overgrown child and a dog, who they tolerate because he’s the main breadwinner and his wages allow her to work a part-time hobby job and take half the week off despite their children having been in full time education for years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:18 AM
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What’s your solution? Forced marriages? Sperm harvesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:06 AM
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Women don’t seek partners; they seek resources that can be drained and exploited, and for the majority of men, a “relationship” means being the Beta Male Provider - to be treated with contempt and disdain, and tolerated only as long as she needs you financially; as soon as more viable option comes along, she’ll kick your ass to the curb, destroy you in the divorce court and leave you broken, both financially and spiritually. As much as we may crave and cling to the fantasy of the idealised famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:05 AM
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🎶 I have no need of friendship, friendship causes pain It's laughter and it's loving I disdain I am a rock I am an island🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:54 AM
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No chance of that - I’m basically MGTOW; the only women I interact with are colleagues, and then I keep it to a minimum and use email/Teams as much as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:50 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:51 PM
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Except in this instance I am correct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:42 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:41 PM
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No, I’m generalising
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:41 PM
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No, because if I had lied and claimed to have a ten-inch cock I’d have had more success
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:12 PM
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I’m not ND
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:11 PM
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That’s where I’ve been going wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:59 PM
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They mocked me, ridiculed me, gaslit, patronised and friendzoned me; they destroyed my mental health, crushed my self-esteem and pushed me to the brink of suicide. And now that I’m a socially isolated recluse who avoids all contact with them, I’m still labelled a sexual predator/deviant who is an inherent danger to them simply by virtue of existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:58 PM
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They have done me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:07 PM
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Remember fellas - when she rejects you because you’re not a six foot plus Adonis with a ten-inch cock, it’s 100% YOUR BEHAVIOUR that is to blame!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:34 PM
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It’s standard gaslighting - as we all know, the majority of women are only interested in the top 20% of men and deem the rest of us to be beneath them. But rather than acknowledge this disparity, they instead smear the 80% as creeps, ‘Nice Guys’, and accuse us of being socially inept, autistic, unhygienic, etc, thus projecting the blame for their absurd standards back onto the men they arbitrarily reject via insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:32 PM
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So what is a valid excuse to hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:24 PM
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The stats are from men who specifically requested paternity tests - they didn’t randomly tests members of the public
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:18 AM
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Perhaps make some people less resentful and bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:13 PM
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That makes sense - where I grew up, it wasn’t like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:01 PM
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The ‘Nice Guy’ discourse is industrial scale gaslighting. As any man will attest, those of us who have the most success with women are invariably the most arrogant, cocky, selfish, self-absorbed and amoral us. Nothing dries a vagina faster than a man who is kind, gentle, innocuous and sincere - for a woman, to posses these traits makes a man lower than a pedophile, and that’s where the ‘Nice Guy’ slur comes in; to make being shy, introverted and unobtrusive into negative traits and to be a ‘Nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:49 PM
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Show empathy instead of mockery and scorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:39 PM
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The people you brag about it to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:35 PM
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Wow - where did you grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:35 PM
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The alpha ‘Bad Boy’ offers danger and excitement. The beta ‘Nice Guy’ is boring and therefore creepy. Therefore, the ‘Bad Boy’ gets to pump and dump, and if he’s “lucky”, the ‘Nice Guy’ can get promoted to Beta Male Provider once she’s realised the one she really wants isn’t going to return her calls. That’s just the way it is - Alpha fux, Beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:15 PM
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So testosterone makes males monosyllabic cave men, incapable of articulating the most basic of concepts because they are too stupid - are you going to back this up with a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:54 AM
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You can’t gatekeep mental illness or use your diagnosis to pour scorn upon and invalidate the experiences of others - I suffered bouts of depression as a teen and plenty of people told me it wasn’t real, that I had no reason to be depressed etc. I didn’t get the help I needed and it was fucking horrible. I assume you wouldn’t take it very well if we started to question the seriousness of your condition, or told you it was all in your head, or you’re just seeking attention, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:25 PM
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If you’re having to choose between feeding your kids and having the heating on, whether there are people in less rich countries that have things worse is not much of a consolation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:22 PM
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Not really - peer group rejection isn’t generally something you shrug off as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:35 PM
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That’s a bit like saying that I “chose” to quit my job just before HR handed my P45 for various indiscretions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:34 PM
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This argument boils down to the assumption that women are baby making machines and have no other purpose but do pop out kids until they drop - very few women would be willing to settle for a life like that anymore. This proposed solution would also require the majority of men to be willing to become fathers and spend their best years shackled to a family - again, few men would willingly embrace this lifestyle, and even if they did, few staring salaries are sufficient to raise a family on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:30 PM
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My grandmother was in her 40s when my father was born, and my mother was 33 when she had me, and 36 when my brother was born - the guy pulled that stat out of his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:25 PM
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The two tend to go hand in hand - the kids who are popular in school are the ones who are raised to be confident and happy; the ones who aren’t are usually not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:15 PM
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How many men are unwittingly raising children that aren’t theirs? Alpha Fux, Beta Bux = the Beta Male Provider gets to pay for/raise the kid after “Chad” has pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:44 PM
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How does one “have a good life free from romantic relationships”? There is a fundamental difference between choosing a life of being alone, and to having it imposed upon you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:43 PM
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I left school a long time ago, so can’t comment on the extent to which it’s the norm, but mental health issues don’t manifest from nowhere and childhood experiences a major contributor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:17 PM
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You’re online too buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:16 PM
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I can only speak for my own experience, but when I was a kid, my female peers made it very clear to me how ugly/disgusting I was, which stuck for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:40 AM
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Ah - so you are one of these so called “Chad” characters we hear so much about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:39 AM
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Who is going to sell it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:17 AM
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Gay then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:17 AM
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This is why so many men are reluctant to acknowledge, let alone discuss their mental health - it’s always greeted with a dismissive wave of the hand followed by “and what about the women?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:17 AM
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Chickens and eggs - if you face constant rejection and ostracism from the opposite sex, then that isn’t going to lead to great mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:08 AM
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Sounds more like a recipe for social upheaval and revolution - the only way you’d maintain such a restrictive society would by through brute force and state terror, and the harder you squeeze people, the more likely they are to slip through your fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:07 AM
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What “tools” do you want to bring back to “enforce pairing” and how exactly do you think that forcing people into relationships they don’t want be in is going to help their mental wellbeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:04 AM
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You’re a woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:59 AM
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It probably plays a part in the mental health issues of young men, or more accurately, the 80% of young men their female counterparts have concluded are beneath them. As we all know, women can go onto any dating app and find a veritable buffet of potential partners within the hour - if women are experience dating problems, they are of their own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:03 AM
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The amount of women who would choose to conceive children via sperm donor and raise children in a second wave lesbian feminist commune is negligible - this is not the future
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:59 AM
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How many men are unwittingly raising children that aren’t theirs? Alpha Fux, Beta Bux = the Beta Male Provider gets to pay for/raise the kid after “Chad” has pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:14 AM
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If it’s any consolation, in the UK we’ve had three female Prime Ministers, and each one was worse than the last - the most recent had to be forced from office after six weeks because she literally caused a run on the pound and brought the economy to the brink of collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:26 AM
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Dude - this is Reddit; everyone here is chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:21 AM
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In a way, it’s a positive - it lets us see women for who they really, unfiltered, their toxicity out in the open, leaving us in no mind as to what they really think of us. If anything, these spaces should be encouraged because they are an antidote to the gaslighting we experience on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:25 PM
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mumsnet.com put me off relationships for life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:23 PM
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They think 80% of men are “low quality”, I think we’ve established that by now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:34 PM
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Some heavy duty cognitive dissonance on display here - why don’t you just call us “smelly poo poo heads”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:33 PM
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Could you date your sister? I know that’s traditionally been frowned upon, but with the popularity of GOT and HOTD, people may be becoming more relaxed with that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:17 AM
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It was a euphemism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:19 AM
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You’re painting a very black and white picture of marriage in broad strokes - there are a lot of men and women who make terrible wives/husbands resulting in miserable marriages. However, it’s not a universal truth - I know people who’ve been together happily for years/decades and have built solid, mutually beneficial relationships. But finding someone like that depends on luck/circumstances, and they’re rare, so it’s easier to paint marriage as a terrible institution where women have the life dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:19 AM
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Some heavy duty cognitive dissonance on display here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:39 AM
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It’s financial rape
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:37 AM
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Or they could just not want to have kids - not everyone wants to waist years of their life on a mewling bag of snot and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:37 AM
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Experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:00 PM
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Most men are shit, that’s true; but all women are shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:27 PM
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You got cheated on, therefore all men are cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:27 PM
0

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:18 PM
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If your ex was “only” a foot taller than you, and you’re 5’4, that’d make him way above average height I’m not going to dignify the rest by answering - try reversing the genders in your rant and perhaps you’ll see how absurd you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:17 PM
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There are different varieties of shit - but at the end of the day, they’re all shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:13 PM
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I think this is overstated; there will always be simps, and there will always be a surplus of men desperate to be a beta male provider to any woman who will take them - the more things change, the more they stay the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:49 PM
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The Kids Are Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:47 PM
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Blue Pill Dating “advice” is just a list of meaningless cliches: Hit the gym! Shower more! Just put yourself out there! Essentially, it’s always the man’s fault that he can’t get a date, and if he’s even the slightest bit irked by this, he’s an incel who is a danger to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:10 PM
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But it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:08 PM
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There’s no real reason for men and women to interact if the end goal isn’t sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:44 PM
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I hate everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:43 PM
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It kind of does though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:13 PM
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I just assume that they’re not interested and never approach, speak to, or even acknowledge them, that way I never fail [taps forehead]
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:27 PM
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So you ignored/blanked and were rude to someone resulting in them getting pissed off, but they’re the stupid one for not being able to read your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:24 PM
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As much as I hate to, I’m inclined to agree; I could never date in my prime years due to a combination of being overweight, having severe cystic acne, and chronic social anxiety; I could work on the first two, but not the third, and I’ve grown up to be a bitter, resentful, socially isolated recluse, who has burned down every social and professional relationship I’ve ever had due to bouts of nihilistic rage. So I’m not really relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:09 AM
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For a woman, being “chronically single” means getting multiple daily matches on Tinder and going on regular dates - there is zero equivalence between the male and female experiences; we’re not in the same ocean, let alone the same boat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:02 AM
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What happens why you go outside - women just fall from the sky?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:57 AM
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Speak for yourself - I for one do hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:50 AM
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I think they are doing it for the money and the baby is just to guarantee 18 years of financial support
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:50 PM
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If the father/grandpa is rich - e.g. De Nrio and Pacino fathering children with women young enough to be their granddaughters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:40 PM
1

But if it’s the only mode of transport available, one has to make do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:26 PM
0

Why is watching porn for hours waisting time - we all need a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:42 PM
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🎶My mother said that I never should Play with the naughty, rude girls in the wood Their giggling talk I could never understand And that's why I fell in love with my right hand And that's why... I'm a wanker, I'm a wanker And it does me good like it bloody well should I'm a wanker, I'm a wanker And I'm always pulling my pud'🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:09 PM
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How much is “too much”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:06 PM
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Any man who claims to never jack off is a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:14 PM
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Just go on Tinder - I guarantee your likes will be in triple figures by the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:14 PM
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What if your son was gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:55 AM
3

Kind of proving my point there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:10 PM
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Not that old!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:45 PM
1

Depends where you go, I guess; there are places in my city that attract an older crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:32 PM
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They’d probably have more luck trying for a drunken ONS than actually trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:17 PM
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An older virgin could wing it in bed, but the lack of relationship experience would be a barrier to getting there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:07 PM
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I think if a man has zero relationship experience in his 30s/40s then it’s highly unlikely any woman is going to willing to enter a relationship with him, on any level. If he has the chance to “fuck about” then it’s better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:11 PM
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If a guy is a “late bloomer” there’s a reason for it, and women are attuned to those reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:19 PM
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He can try, but women can smell inexperience like Great Whites smell blood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:07 PM
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As you say, it’s a big market - a man who is still a virgin/has zero relationship experience isn’t going to be in high demand
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:49 AM
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On Tinder/Bumble you can state your preference with regards to wanting children; but it would be a bit weird to bring it up on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:41 AM
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The OP was specifically talking about “late bloomers” - obviously everyone else can find a partner at any age if they’re so inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:40 AM
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Assuming “late bloomer” means someone who has never been in a relationship or has any sexual experience (aside from possibly with escorts) it’s not really a realistic to go from nothing to a “real relationship” and then marriage/children - they tend to be “late bloomers” for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:39 AM
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Why would it be - assuming he’s not “man whoring” while simultaneously being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:35 AM
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Depends on what you consider the “reasonable value proposition” of a late bloomer to be - e.g., how many women in their 30s/40s would realistically want to be the “starter girlfriend” of a man in his 30s/40s who has never had a girlfriend and is still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:33 AM
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I meant full stop - as never want children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:30 AM
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You can be 35-45 and not want to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:13 AM
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Why should your goal be “to marry and create a family” out of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:05 AM
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If you’re a late bloomer man than you aren’t in a position to insist hard on anything - above a certain age, you’ll struggle to find any women willing to give you a shot full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:04 AM
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If they showed warmth it was only to get into their pants, which still makes them assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:05 AM
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"See, there are three kinds of people: dicks, pussies and assholes. Pussies think everyone can get along and dicks just want to fuck all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your assholes. And all the assholes want is to shit all over everything. So pussies may get mad at dicks once in a while because, pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes! And if they didn't fuck the assholes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your pussy all covered in shit!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:51 AM
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He was ‘helping’ people for his own advantage, not altruism - that’s what these guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:52 AM
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Being confident and being an asshole are two cheeks of the same butt - guys who are are assholes ooze confidence because acting like an asshole requires confidence; guys who are confident act like assholes because they’ve developed a shit-don’t-stink worldview and believe that they can behave as they please. You can dress it up in all the long-winded psychobabble you want, but the cold hard fact is, men who behave like obnoxious, cocky assholes have the most success with women. Men who are quiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:50 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:01 PM
6

That’s easy to say when you’re in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:50 PM
1

I’ve given up hope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:35 PM
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It’s better to burn out than to fade away!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:19 PM
4

All those things are a means to an end and if you still end up with nothing it’s a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:59 PM
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By your own admission, you don’t need to initiate; you can just sit back, do the bare minimum, and wait for the perfect man to come to you. So this “advice” is not helpful (and I’m being polite here).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:21 PM
3

Therapy for men is a waste of time because the overwhelming majority of therapists are female and therefore have neither the ability nor inclination to understand the issues men face - it is incomprehensible to them, and asking their advice on any subject is like asking a trust fund kid to help you manage your finances; the answer will be patronising, insulting and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:18 PM
1

The guy from the A-Team got a PhD?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:15 PM
5

For men, dating advice from women is as worthless as it is patronising - the guy was probably too timid to tell you where to shove it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:13 PM
3

I am not fat, let alone obese
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:04 PM
1

Didn’t work for me - I must be using the wrong entrance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:43 PM
3

I’ve “hit the gym” for over half my adult life - in terms of it’s affect on my success at dating, I could have saved myself a shit load of time and money and just not bothered
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:43 PM
3

I was being sarcastic - “hit the gym” is as cliched advice as “get some therapy”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:41 PM
4

What does “hit the gym” entail - does going inside the gym automatically make you more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:16 PM
1

Why “probably autism”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:15 PM
2

That would require women being interested in and wanting to date me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:11 AM
5

With the greatest of respect, that’s bollocks - you may not enjoy casual sex, but a lot of women do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:18 PM
6

Asking feminists why they hate men is unlikely to result in a sensible answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:38 PM
5

This would have been 1974 - where did she grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:37 PM
7

It’s obviously a double standard, and yet another example of women’s inherent, childish narcissistic entitlement - they can say shit like “all men are horrible” based on their shitty choices; they can blame all men for their failings, and they can make sweeping, insulting generalisations about half the planet to fuel their cognitive dissonance. But, the moment a man expresses the slightest negative emotion regarding the fairer sex, they will shriek “MISOGYNY!!!” in unison and call him an incel, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:12 PM
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Women want to have their cake and eat it; they’re all in favour of equality right up to the point where their privilege is threatened, so they’ll still expect all the perks that go with traditional gender roles (e.g. the man paying for everything) while demanding a stop be put to the bits they don’t like (e.g. women having to do the bulk of the domestic work). Women are spoilt, narcissistic hypocrites, essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:57 PM
1

I still can’t see that making a major difference - e.g. it’s highly unlikely that significant numbers of western men will decamp to developing countries in search of “traditional” brides
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:54 PM
1

When approaching a woman at a bar - should a man wear a fedora?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:08 AM
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I’m not “dating abroad” and buying a partner from a developing country, which is glorified prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:52 AM
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Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:48 AM
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Unless he’s ugly though, in which case he can fuck off, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:47 AM
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“a decent partner abroad” - i.e. a women from the developing world who will ‘me love you long time’ for as long as you keep flashing the cash but will dump your ass as quickly as any hypergamous western woman the moment your credit card is declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:07 AM
1

I don’t agree that Red Pill is mainstream, but even if it was, the majority of beta men would still act out of (perceived) self-interest and simp/throw cash at women who treat them with barely concealed contempt in the vain hope they’ll be settled for. And as others have already pointed out, alpha men marry alpha women - in a hypothetical post-Red Pill world, beta women will still need beta male providers once the alphas are no longer interested in pumping and dumping them, and there will always…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:02 AM
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How exactly are you going to run a “background check” - hire a private detective?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:57 AM
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The argument here seems to be - “enjoy your participation trophy”; if you aren’t getting everything you want out of life, if you are denied the things others take for granted, then I really doubt see the point - perhaps you can find contentment in being a loser, but I’m fucking sick of being shit upon. I don’t want to “cope” - I want revenge and retribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:55 AM
8

Would that not, by your own definition, be seeking “get attention and sympathy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:50 AM
5

People like you find it easy Naked to see Walking on air Hunting by the rivers, through the streets, every corner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:49 AM
3

You’re a woman, so you get to play of easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:47 AM
-2

You’d be giving employment to a poor immigrant and thus helping the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:05 PM
5

Couldn’t you hire a made if you’re on 200k?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:41 PM
9

By whom? I live alone, so have to do all my washing, cleaning, cooking, etc. I’ve never expected nor received praise for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:34 PM
4

Most men don’t stay at home all day and ponce off their wife - it’s not other men who are praising him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:28 PM
6

He’s a stay at home house husband, which is far from normal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:28 PM
2

Sounds like Big Government overreach to me - aren’t you guys supposed to value “MUH FREEDOMS!!!” above all else (e.g. the universal healthcare and employment rights that those of us who live under socialist tyranny have forced upon us)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:11 PM
2

I use protein supplements and “hit the gym bro!” three times per week; I still have a belly because I drink (my one vice). I’ve never met a woman who prefers that over ripping abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:15 PM
6

He’s unemployed so has a lot of time on his hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:30 PM
5

There is an old British slang word - “ponce” - traditionally used to describe a man who lived off a prostitute’s earnings, which evolved to become a derogatory term for an effeminate/un-masculine man. For a man to stay home all day and live off of his wife’s earnings is decidedly un-masculine - by choosing to be supported by his wife and become a live-in maid, this man is a “ponce”, and a disgrace to menkind!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:30 PM
1

Sounds like you want a maid rather than a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:19 PM
0

How does one “abuse the gym” - I assume you aren’t taking about doing bicep curls in the squat rack and not returning your weights?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:11 PM
3

That’s a very extreme reaction to protein supplements
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:02 PM
1

A piñata?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:00 PM
1

Depends on what you’re planning to do with the rope?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:44 AM
0

You can’t be; that’s the cold hard truth - swimming against the tide and reaching for something impossible if futile; embrace nihilism because only death is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:45 AM
5

They want “liberation from gender roles” apart from the ones that suit them - e.g. having men pay for everything on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:28 AM
0

That is huge!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:36 PM
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It’s against the rules, but the mod who deletes all the posts has decided to way into the conversation, so it’ll stay up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:16 PM
2

With regarded to points 1 & 2 - I don’t bring anything to the table; no woman could conceivably choose me because they all have multiple other, better, options. My best qualities are simply not good enough; my efforts at self-improvement are all in vain; and my entire existence is a waste of time. With regards to points 3 & 4 - it’s a moot point; women don’t want to be my “partner” so it really doesn’t matter what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:15 PM
6

Yeah, I bet it was because you’re “nice”..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:09 PM
1

Out of interest, how big is “huge”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:08 PM
10

Nah, you’re all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:30 PM
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Women want to both have their cake and eat it, and “progressiveness towards gender roles” only at their convenience - they want equality when it suits them, and “traditional” gender dynamics when they benefit from it; it’s just another manifestation of their inherent narcissism and entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:35 PM
5

I bet it did; we’re the ones who have to do all the work and risk rejection/humiliation - we need to bring out A game; you just show up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:31 PM
4

Expecting men to do all the work is pretty entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:18 PM
8

Typical female entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:49 PM
2

‘Commando’ (the Schwarzenegger film, for the uninitiated)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:01 PM
4

Do they mean “biologically” female women, distinct from trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:59 PM
1

I never saw getting married/starting a family as something I’d do; it’s always been an abstract concept in relation to me, so I’ll never “settle down” in the same way I will never own a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:28 AM
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I will never “settle down” so it’s a moot point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:56 AM
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They can’t - you can’t successfully pretend to be something you’re not; people always see right through it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:55 AM
1

Bit of a generalisation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:05 AM
1

Personally, no; I hesitate to say “hate”, but at least strongly dislike women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:04 AM
1

There’s likely a very niche market for those products
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:07 PM
2

I’m pretty sure it’s something you’d have to buy on the dark web and would go to jail if anyone found out you owned one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:45 PM
2

Not mass produced though, I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:30 PM
4

I can’t see any reputable company even entertaining the idea of creating them!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:20 PM
2

Gay men can get laid easy - Jeffrey Dahmer had zero social skills, but managed to pick up men and take them home with little difficulty; had he been heterosexual, he’d have had zero success as a serial killer. So, just like there is no market for sex robots for women, there is no market for sex robots for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:51 PM
1

Sometimes you get an itch you just need to scratch, and that requires sticking your penis through a hole in the wall of a toilet cubicle and hoping for the best
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:24 PM
1

I guess, by supporting political parties that would support such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:01 PM
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I think the public would be more likely to sympathise with sex workers and their calls for being given full employment rights/legal protection
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:25 PM
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I can’t imagine that a group of men marching to complain that they can’t get laid and therefore want the right to buy sex is going to garner much public sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:04 PM
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If you’re making a compromise and opting for something you ding really want due to circumstances, you are, by definition, “settling”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:59 PM
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It’s the old 80/20 ratio - the top 20% of men are getting most of the action
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:04 AM
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“current” is in that he’ll do until someone better comes along and you cheat on him like you did with all the others
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:48 AM
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We are only really looking at population collapse in the developed world - elsewhere they are still breeding like rats; we’ve seen a steady rise in economic migration into Europe in recent decades with the associated social upheaval that entails as the new arrivals seek to impose their way of life, and eventually, they’ll become the majority, and subs like this won’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:47 AM
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How exactly are you not currently “free and equal members of society”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:42 AM
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Is your current boyfriend aware that you cheated on all of his predecessors? (The use of “current” is also telling)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:39 AM
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It boils down to hypergamy - women always have options, and will readily trade one beta bux simp for one with a bigger salary if the opportunity arises
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:37 AM
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I did not say I was unwilling to self-improve, but that there are limits - e.g., it’s simple to “hit the gym bro!” but acquiring the six pack a lot of women demand means following a punishing routine and a very restrictive diet, which isn’t practically sustainable. If I am a 5/6 then logically I should be able to date the female equivalent, and not have to “settle” for 3s, 2s, and 1s, which is what was suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:49 AM
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This is myth is the perfect metaphor for the “sexual landscape”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisyphus It doesn’t make sense because there is no logic to it and trying to understand it is futile
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:54 PM
2

It’s highly unlikely I’d ever be in a position to date any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:27 PM
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I wouldn’t use that term in polite company
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:08 PM
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If only that were true, the world would be a much happier place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:07 PM
1

Nobody I know IRL knows my username and, for obvious reasons, I don’t express the views on here in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:07 PM
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Dating, sex, relationships, love, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:53 PM
2

My name isn’t really Electronic West
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:53 PM
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I clearly wasn’t referring to all women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:52 PM
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There’s social stigma, shame and embarrassment associated with that option, plus the ethical dilemma of dating someone you aren’t attracted to and simply using as a means to an end
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:03 PM
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There’s a chicken and egg thing at work there - when a group of people continually treat you with contempt, it does breed resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:02 PM
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The only men who openly display that level of hypocrisy are the ones who do shag left and right, and indeed, centre
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:32 PM
2

The problem is me - I’m average/mediocre, with no USP and little to offer; I’m hardly unique in that respect, so there’s little reason to pick me over the others. There’s a limit to how much I can change, because the cold hard truth is I’m simply not good enough; I’m expendable, surplus to requirements. There are of course a lot of average/mediocre women with no USP and little to offer - but they don’t have difficulty dating/finding a partner, because at the end of the day, it’s a sellers market…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:31 PM
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It’s currently a sellers market - women have the goods; men want the goods, ergo woman hold all the cards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:26 PM
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That’s kind of like saying that trust fund kids have money issues too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:19 PM
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People like you find it easy Naked to see Walking on air Hunting by the rivers, through the streets, every corner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:18 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers - you dictate the terms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:14 PM
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This isn’t in public
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:13 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers; we just play by their rules
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:00 PM
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And there’s the crux of the matter; as men, the onus is always on us to change, to self improve, to continually up our game - women just need to show up and do the bare minimum. And it’s never enough; no matter how hard you try, how many hoops you jump through or how many times you bend over backwards, someone better than you is always a swipe away and for all your efforts you still get ghosted. When the best you can realistically hope for is to be someone’s least worst option in terms of beta m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:59 PM
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The women, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:31 PM
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So what’s the solution then, my man? What’s an average guy to do when you even the arse-faced land-whales now believe that only a man with the body of a demigod and a ten inch cock is worthy of them? Should we join the clergy? Consider chemical castration? Commit ritual suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:30 PM
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One of the mods will take it down any moment now, as happens with every other post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:14 PM
5

The reason women can be happy being single is that they can pursue the alpha fux, beta bux strategy - for most women, being single entails financial exploiting nice guy betas while regularly getting railed by the alpha’s they hook up with via OLD, safe in the knowledge that, when they’ve decided that it’s time to “settle down”, they will have a plethora of nice guy betas to choose from. There is no comparison between a woman being single and a man being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:13 PM
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There’s body positivity, and there’s entitlement and narcissism; it’s one thing to be happy with your body and secure in yourself, and quite another to conclude that your shit doesn’t stink and you have a god given right to be treated like a princess by the highest calibre of men, despite yourself being overweight/unattractive. Body positivity is also a one way street - overweight women are applauded and encouraged to love themselves; overweight men are fair game for ridicule and shame. There’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:38 PM
7

The old alpha fux-beta bux thing, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:59 PM
4

Women both want to eat their cake and have their cake
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:57 PM
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You are literally advocating alpha fux / beta bux, and over-egged the pudding with the “Christian slave morality” line - if you’re going to troll, then subtlety is is the key
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:02 AM
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This isn’t black and white - how socially acceptable the old fashioned ways are hinge on how good looking a man is; if you’re in the upper tier of attractiveness, then you can absolutely cold approach women in the library, ask out colleagues and fiends etc. It only becomes socially unacceptable if you’re average or, heaven forbid, below average looking - when an attractive man does it, it’s playful flirting; when an unattractive man does it, it’s harassment. The thing to remember is that women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:54 AM
5

Get drunk; hook up; get charged with sexual assault when she wakes up hungover and regrets it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:45 AM
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I’m afraid they do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:42 AM
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I deleted it myself - it was taken down within seconds so I didn’t see the point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:02 PM
1

Define “talked to”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:43 PM
1

Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:30 PM
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What the fuck is up with the moderators - it seems like every second post is getting deleted. I’ll no doubt be banned for writing this, but since there’s hardly anything worth commenting on any more, it doesn’t make much of a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:00 PM
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Then I am at a loss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:57 AM
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I, for one, would not sit through a 60 minute podcast, regardless of the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:57 AM
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Did they dump you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:46 AM
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You would - you’re a woman; that alone is enough for a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:31 AM
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You still seem to be suggesting that death is the best outcome though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:31 AM
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But ultimately, you still dumped them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:11 AM
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In my defence, it’s a long thread - you should add a TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:00 AM
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You’re suggesting I kill myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:59 AM
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You’re welcome; but it is nevertheless an indisputable fact - women will claim many things, but ultimately, this is what it boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:55 AM
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What if the best version of you is still subpar, if you’re at best mediocre and have nothing of value to offer the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:51 AM
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What woman want - a man who is over six foot; has a six pack; and earns six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:50 AM
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To both have your cake and to simultaneously eat your cake, essentially?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:37 PM
5

So, basically, whatever we do will always be wrong and we can never win because the goalposts are being continually shifted and the rulebook constantly rewritten?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:36 PM
1

I can confirm, from bitter experience, that this is 100% the case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:34 PM
3

My hope was always to meet someone “naturally”, e.g. at work, or via mutual friends, but it never happened, so I’m stuck with the app
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:40 PM
3

I did the best I could; but I don’t lead an interesting and dynamic life, so there’s a limit to how interesting I can make myself sound
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:39 PM
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They value some men less than others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:10 PM
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Joining Tinder was the revelation that I am, despite previously thinking I was average looking, in fact hideously ugly and undesirable, and unworthy of female attention. That killed what hope I had left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:08 PM
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Men should just to anal - the old fashioned contraceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:39 AM
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It’s a reliable method of contraception though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:31 AM
2

I go to they gum three times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:12 AM
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Or do what they did in the ye olden days and stick to anal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:10 AM
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If you ain't no punk holla, "We want prenup" "We want prenup!", yeah It's something that you need to have 'Cause when she leave yo' ass she gone leave with half 18 years, 18 years And on her 18th birthday, he found out it wasn't his
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:09 AM
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18 years, 18 years She got one of yo' kids, got you for 18 years I know somebody payin' child support for one of his kids His baby momma car and crib is bigger than he is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:08 AM
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Someone forced to be a father against their will is unlikely to turn out to be ‘Dad of the Year’ material
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:57 AM
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I think being allowed to waiver your parental rights and forgo any contact with the child is a reasonable request; the only women who would object to this are the ones who see men as resources to be exploited and would likely spitefully deny the man contact with the child in order to maximise his financial contributions, so their children are screwed from day one anyway, regardless of whether they have a “father” or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:55 AM
1

Nothing seems to work except giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:51 AM
0

Indeed - it’s better to just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:46 AM
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Oh dear…you really need to talk to a therapist about this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:35 AM
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And do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:49 PM
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Dating has changed somewhat in the past thousand years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:21 PM
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That’s very constructive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:58 AM
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It’s the apps or bust - there is no other (realistic) way of meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:42 AM
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Like being imaginary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:41 AM
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They have long lists of demands because OLD has turned the majority of women into entitled narcissists with absurdly disproportionate expectations, and now every squat, arse-faced fatty now thinks she has god given right to a boyfriend with who looks like a Greek demigod with a ten inch dick and that for any other man to so much as be in her general vicinity is a grave insult. As for the anecdote about the supermarket worker dwarfs dating “fine women” - no, that does not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:41 AM
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They know they can always log onto Tinder and rack up dozens of likes within the hour and there is zero risk of them ever being alone - what they want is for the men they deem to be beneath them (i.e. 80% of us) to fuck off and stoically accept being single while they mock and ridicule us, and to plough all their efforts into getting one of the 20% to maintain an interest in them that lasts longer than a quick pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:07 PM
2

That was a typo - I meant “aren’t habitual cheaters”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:05 PM
0

Most men who have children within the framework of a committed relationship wouldn’t consider whether or not the child is theirs, because most women are not habitual cheaters. If someone you had a ONS with claims you are the father of their child, then a DNA test is a sensible precaution, but on the whole, that’s now how most children are conceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:54 PM
2

No - if you’re that paranoid about raising a child that isn’t yours, then simply don’t have children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:41 AM
5

It’s the “no true Scotsman” fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:06 AM
7

It’s a matter of perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:05 PM
17

Men don’t lack scruples, they lack options - sometimes the girl with the dog shit personality is the best you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:07 PM
7

It goes hand in hand though - if you’re born good looking, that’ll define how you’ll be treated throughout your life; if you’re a cute kid, adults will fawn over and indulge you, which will boost your confidence and enhance your social skills; if you’re an ugly kid, adults will treat you like shit and beat your self confidence out of you. The cute kids grow up to be good looking men and coast through life as a result, with success - romantic and otherwise - being handed to them on a plate; the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:12 PM
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They are undoubtedly vitally important in men - women on the other hand can have complete dog shit personalities and still find romantic success without even having to try. It’s just another example of how this wretched game is skewed in their favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:06 PM
4

“women with very low self esteem or mental issues” - so the majority of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:41 AM
1

Plenty of toxic men do get married (albeit they usually end up divorced) so there aren’t any cons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:39 AM
4

They control the dating market in the same way that cartels control the drug market
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:54 PM
1

They generally do, being bi and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:51 PM
-4

It’s obviously not gay if you’re sodomising a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:50 PM
0

There are men who put vibrators up their arses, but they generally don’t sleep with women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:31 PM
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There’s some heavy duty projection going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:29 PM
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I mean, you’d hope so after all that effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:28 PM
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Seriously - you’d weight a full year before getting your hands on the goods?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:26 PM
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If I’m picking up the tab, I expect something in return!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:11 PM
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Take things slow = stringing along a beta while extracting maximum free meals/drinks/gifts without having to do the nasty while still getting regularly railed by an alpha behind his back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:50 PM
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A year!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:48 PM
16

Yes…I think forcing women into pregnancy would be extremely unpopular for reasons that really shouldn’t need to be elaborated upon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:22 PM
6

Russian troops have committed numerous atrocities against Ukrainian civilians - Ukrainian men volunteered en masse to join the war effort because the invasion was an existential threat to their survival as a people, not simply a question of who they pay tax to; and you’ve perhaps seen the patches they wear on their uniforms and which historic regime they identify with - they generally despise the Russians
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:48 AM
12

You do realise that governments can be voted out of office if they do something extremely unpopular?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:00 AM
4

Do you seriously think this could even be suggested in a democratic country? Any politician who raised this idea would be ridiculed out of office because it’s completely preposterous. The military draft analogy is also nonsense; the population of Ukraine was mobilised because they were invaded by a hostile regime intent of subjecting them - there is zero equivalence with declining birth rates and associated demographic issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:59 AM
1

It’s the traditional gender role; the man is supposed to be the breadwinner/provided -it’s been that way since time immemorial. How would a man’s kids view him if he was a glorified househusband with a hobby job and their mother pulls in the big wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:35 AM
1

Because that’s what men are supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:10 PM
1

The man should be the breadwinner/provider
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:38 PM
3

Safe, but there are ethical questions; even in Europe women generally do not do that work voluntarily, and are either forced into it via circumstances, or trafficked and literally forced to do it. So you’re exploiting a vulnerable person, which is a step up from, if not on a par with, rape IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:59 PM
-3

Emasculating would have been a better word, but it means the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:49 PM
0

Yes, but his wife is the breadwinner - i.e., she wears the trousers; she’s, in effect, the man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:49 PM
-2

It’s not very manly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:48 PM
2

If I walked into a red light distract with a nice watch and suite, I’d likely get relieved of the nice watch, along with my wallet, phone and anything else I was carrying of value, at gunpoint by one of the pimps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:39 PM
-3

Absolutely not - the man should be the breadwinner; living off your wife’s salary would be humiliating and degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:34 PM
3

If I could go on Tinder and get fifty likes within the hour, then I would never be lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:22 PM
2

So sex is either meaningless and degrading, unless it’s done within the framework of a committed relationship? That’s weird, because from my experience, plenty of women are open to a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:09 PM
3

What a terrible predicament that must be in, to be able to have sex with whomsoever you want, when you want, but with this risk that some of the sex may be subpar; please allow me to console you and the women of the world by playing a tune on my tiny violin
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:42 PM
5

Boo fucking hoo - this is like being at a free all-you-can-eat buffet and complaining about the quality of the food when there are people starving to death on the pavement outside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:38 PM
11

No - it’s only reinforced and solidified my negative perception of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:09 PM
1

.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:08 PM
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An original one from the 00s or one of the re-issues with 3G?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:10 PM
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€250 is that cheap - if you really want to advertise your non-conformity, you need something like a Nokia 105
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:09 PM
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What phone do you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:48 AM
2

That’s a very personal question! Old enough to be jaded and burnt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:29 AM
10

It depends on how young the woman and how old the man in question are - there’s a point where the age gap becomes creepy and inappropriate, but most of all unrealistic; an inexperienced man north of thirty can try and date women ten years his junior, but they are no more likely to be interested in him than women his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:17 PM
6

I have in the past been condemned to the Friendzone and subsequently killed the “friendship” - if you both want different things from the relationship, then you aren’t really friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:13 PM
20

I have no plan - I’ve given up; everything I’ve tried has been futile and pointless and I don’t care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:04 PM
7

You can approach whoever you want; that does not mean that you should
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:45 PM
17

The cold approach was always the preserve of an elite of men, but in ye olden days you had little choice but to try and, in all probability, fail. Now we have Tinder et al, and invading the personal space of others is uncouth and rude - stick to the apps and let others enjoy their night out in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:44 PM
12

If you’re happy being single, then good for you. Not everyone is; humans are social animals with emotional needs, and those of us who aren’t on the deep end of the autistic spectrum generally crave social/romantic connections with others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:41 PM
2

It was always the preserve of the minority of men who could pull it off; the difference now is, whereas women have always enjoyed humiliating men they deem to be beneath them, whereas the humiliation was once confined to the venue where the failed cold approach took place, social media now means the humiliation can be captured for posterity and spread to a much wider audience. Additionally, we now have a generation of young women who feel that a man so much as glancing in their general direction…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:01 AM
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It’s a sellers market - these women could dump their boyfriends and find dozens of potential dates on Tinder without the hour; the guy who gets dumped will find himself competing with dozens, in not hundreds, of other guys for every girl he swipes right on. Men are disposable, and once you’ve been cast into the purgatory of singlehood, getting out again is a Sisyphean struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:57 AM
1

If you’re shunned/rejected by women, then it’s pretty personal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:51 AM
1

Why would you not take it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:45 PM
1

My viewpoint is that it should be taken personally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:47 PM
2

I can’t see perceptions changing any time soon; Gen Z seem to be even more rigid in their perception of the respective sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:20 PM
4

The stupid, incompetent, buffoon husband is a pop cultural trope, as is the exasperated, put upon, at her wits end wife - people have been conditioned to accept that men are always bad and women are always good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:11 PM
1

By…taking it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:09 PM
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Psychopaths tend to be very charismatic, charming, and manipulative - they are generally successful in all walks of life, not just romantically, but it’s hardly surprising women fall for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:19 AM
3

Adolf Hitler was a very naughty man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:00 PM
6

Yes, but we know now that a lot of those “celibate” clergymen were doing very unholy things to the altar boys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:56 PM
21

Are you advocating eugenics here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:44 PM
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We should retire the Red Pill, in favour of the Maroon Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:04 PM
1

No, those companies do not contribute positively
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:36 AM
1

If you get to fuck her, then why the hell not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:55 PM
1

I’m not American
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:14 PM
1

They’re projected to loose the next election quite badly; trouble is, the opposition aren’t much better - it’ll be the same shit, just from a different bunch of arseholes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:48 PM
4

I live in the UK; it’s changed a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:00 PM
2

Yes - welfare queens don’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:13 PM
4

Not living off welfare and shitting out kids who will grow up to be criminals and drug addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:46 PM
7

That’s pretty much what you said elsewhere on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:21 PM
10

“Countries that have heathy male-female dynamics” - you mean where women have no rights and are classed as their father’s property until he chooses a husband for her and she then becomes his property?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:04 PM
3

There was an economic boom in the 90s fuelled by cheap credit and rising house prices, which compensated for stagnating wages; when the 2008 crash happened, the cheap credit dried up, but the inflated house prices and wage stagnation remained, which was bearable when interest rate were close to zero, but now they’ve been hiked to deal with spiralling inflation, we have a cost of living crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:49 PM
3

There are people who make a conscious decision to start a family and take the financial burden into consideration; there are others who simply shit out kids because they are too ignorant to do anything else - the existence of the latter does not invalidate the decisions of the former
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:26 PM
4

Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:03 PM
7

There are certainly people who pop out children with government support, but they tend not to be productive members of society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:02 PM
15

Was this not posted yesterday? The reason people aren’t now having children and starting families in their 20s is few people at that age can afford do - housing is increasingly out of reach to anyone without inherited wealth, and when you’re paying 2/3 of your salary to rent a mouldy room in a shared house, having kids is a non starter. The claim that young people are too “infantilised” too breed is another take on the “millennials and their avocados” cliche - i.e., blaming the young for the fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:18 PM
11

Nobody is happy when they lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:51 PM
3

Then I presume he’s trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:42 PM
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What the Boomers consider to be poor is not what passes for poor in the here and now; as much as they like to self-mythologise about their “Four Yorkshiremen” impoverished childhoods and how they pulled themselves up by their bootstraps, they were raised above the safety net of the postwar social democratic settlement in a era where successive governments were dedicate on raising the collective living standards of society; as soon as they were old enough to vote, they gave power to parties dedic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:50 PM
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People are having kids later primary due to economic factors - most people in their 20s don’t earn enough to support a family, and most of those that do pop out kids at that age are doing so with state support. As for the Zoomers; it used to be the Millennials that were blamed for ruining everything by the collective voice - now that they are collectively approaching their 49s, the discourse moves to the next cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:45 PM
5

An AI girlfriend is on a par with fucking a blow up doll - it will never be socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:37 PM
7

No; “many young women” are not “dropping out of the dating market” - I’ve no idea where you got this from, but it bares no resemblance to reality, and the idea that women would ever, en masse, adopt AI boyfriends and “make males obsolete” is a laughable femcel revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:24 PM
11

Yes, I’ve given up - I got the message
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:10 PM
11

Because fucking old people isn’t popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:09 PM
2

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:57 PM
4

For now - you may well find yourself single and the wrong side of thirty if your man decides to reevaluate his life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:00 PM
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If I’m reading you correctly, a 35 year old single woman who has played the field and now decided it’s time to “settle down” is fine; but a 35 year old man in the same predicament is a major red flag, because…reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:58 AM
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A significant number of women would not be happy with that - most of them want to get laid too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:56 AM
2

Yes, this is all well and good, but if we did this, then we wouldn’t get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:53 AM
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How many women of child bearing age do you seriously think would have kids with a man in his 50s? Unless you’re a multimillionaire, it’s not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:02 AM
0

Two words - “daddy issues”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:57 AM
0

dulce et decorum est pro patria mori
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:35 PM
1

Capitalism has existed for around 200 years - i.e. a fraction of human history
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:34 PM
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The best thing that could happen would be another global war - it’d give us men a sense of purpose, a common goal to bind us, the chance of glory, and the opportunity to die the way our ancestors did - the way we are supposed to - and claim our place in Valhalla.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:44 PM
1

Ever read ‘Brave New World’?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:41 PM
1

It involved the major European powers AND their colonies, the US, the Soviet Union and the Empire of Japan - i.e. pretty much the whole world aside from a handful of countries that remained neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:39 PM
1

WW2 wasn’t a world war?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:20 PM
1

Not a world war (yet anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:33 PM
2

There was this major war going on at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:00 PM
0

You’d have preferred the system of governance Germany was trailing at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:59 PM
6

It’s late stage capitalism - a broken system artificially kept on life support for the benefit for the tiny minority of people who still prosper under it; for the rest of us, we’re on a downward trajectory of social alienation and falling living standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:57 PM
2

You were born in 95 and everyone you knew in 95 had the internet…so your immediate family, basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:36 PM
2

How many people were into OLD in 1993, considering hardly anyone had the internet? Pre-Tinder, using an online dating service was considered weird; Tinder changed the game forever. And you can “prefer” to have sex with whomsoever you choose - but if that person is way out of your league, you won’t be getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:52 PM
1

Those examples were on the extreme end of the spectrum, but thanks to OLD it’s increasingly hard for an average man to attract and average women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:33 PM
1

Yes, we are all aware why older, wealthy men can “attract” much younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:32 PM
1

One party is buying a service the other is selling it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:31 PM
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If you try and control where she goes without you, you don’t deserve to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:12 PM
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Women who can’t find partners are in that predicament because they set absurdly high, self-defeating standards; women are the gatekeepers of sex/relationships/love - you set the bar, write the rule book, and decide where the goalposts go; if you fail at a game that you control entirely, it’s your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:53 PM
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Not really, because women never have to be alone; they can choose to, but it isn’t ever imposed upon them - if your goal is to find someone to love, who in turn loves you, and build a relationship/life/home/family with them, then for woman that comes easy. No woman will ever understand what it’s like to be completely alone and unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:30 PM
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The realisation that you are unwanted, surplus to requirements, have zero value and the entirety of your existence has been pointless raises all manner of existential angst; blocking the voices out with hobbies and so on is easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:12 PM
6

Do you not understand how gold digging works?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:01 PM
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Accepting women as they are is the problem - once you see that, broadly speaking, women are shallow, selfish, hypocritical, vain, hypergamous, etc., then you can’t un-see it; when you know that the game is rigged, and that whatever you do, the odds are stacked against you and you are set up to fail, you can’t really pretend otherwise. It breeds cynicism and resentment; a vicious, self-defeating circle it may be, but once you’re in you aren’t getting out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:52 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:43 AM
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How cynical!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:42 AM
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It’s very easy to sneer and be dismissive of the plights others when you’re the beneficiary of the power structures that hold them back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:15 AM
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He could have said something extremely offensive instead of mildly offensive - shows consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:13 AM
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To be fair, it’s not like he used the n-word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:08 AM
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People are all for equality right up to the point where their privilege is threatened
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:07 AM
8

Sure you weren’t (wink, wink)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:08 AM
2

Thanks to OLD, the majority of women will now only deem way above average men to be worthy of dating them - whether they actually succeed or not is another matter entirely, but we’re currently living through an era where every squat, ass-faced, minimum-wage working single mom now things she has a god given right to date the most high calibre of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:07 AM
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Ha, ha, very funny - this is top tier trolling!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:02 AM
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Ok, I’ll play along - she doesn’t love this man; perhaps on some level she cares about him, but ultimately he’s a resource, a means to an end. She may well have been independent before she met him, but now she has his salary to draw upon, his house to live in, his pension to fund her retirement, etc. The cold hard truth is that, in her 20s she wouldn’t have given a man like him the time of day; he only became of use to her after she’d had her fun and decided that it was time to “settle down” and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:39 AM
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So she rode the cock carousel to exhaustion then found a desperate fatty to trap financially, and started to let herself go as soon as the ink was dry on the marriage certificate? As far as trolling goes, this is a decent attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:06 AM
1

Women can pursue whomsoever they choose, but let us dispel with the pretence that those from the third world who date men from the west are doing it for reasons other than financial gain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:03 AM
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The “men will fuck anything” line is a tired, misandrist cliche that doesn’t withstand minimal scrutiny. Both genders have standards, but OLD has warped women’s perception of themselves - for example, whereas an obese, neck-bearded 30 year old NEET that still lives with his parents who sneeringly declares that any woman worthy of dating him must look like his favourite anime character will be ridiculed by other men because they can see how absurd this demand is, the short dumpy women who only wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:02 AM
0

I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:59 AM
4

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:45 PM
5

There are wealth disparities and there is going to the third world to buy a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:45 PM
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Correction - men need to bring an exhaustive list of positive traits to the table AND also fulfill a range of other arbitrary and amorphous criteria; women just need to show up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:40 PM
3

Buying a woman to be a glorified sex slave - just say the quite bit out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:38 PM
3

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:36 PM
1

Hey - a free meal is a free meal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:13 PM
3

If the point of the “pleasant conversation” is to get them to go out on a date, then you’re hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:23 PM
3

Stop selling yourself short!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:02 PM
3

Would turning up to “church events” with the express purpose of hitting on the female attendees not be frowned upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:41 PM
12

Yeah, and if you don’t meet an arbitrary threshold of attractiveness, expressing an “appropriate interest in women” is going to end in humiliation and/or disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:37 PM
0

Such as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:35 PM
7

I don’t think they were being honest with their dad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:34 PM
3

Sounds like a fast-track to getting accused of sexual misconduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:32 PM
10

For many women, “Dan” is the backup option they’ll settle for once they’re on the wrong side of 30 and the ole biological clock is ticking a little too loudly for comfort; the reason they “can’t” find a man like this is that, by the time they’ve deemed him to be worthy of their attention, he’s already settled down with someone who didn’t spend their formative years with their head up their arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:31 PM
5

In my experience, a woman offering to pay for a nice date is pretty rare
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:29 PM
3

It’s humblebragging, which is generally frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:27 PM
2

I could live with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:26 PM
3

If she’s paying for a nice date, I’m not asking any questions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:26 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:25 PM
-4

If you have to give up, there never was an alternative to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:05 PM
0

By “people”, I assume you mean “men”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:53 PM
5

Not sure that’s something to boast about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:32 PM
1

Would any woman actually fall for this? Because it sounds a lot like the guy wants to gauge whether or not she’s worth it before splashing the cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:32 PM
19

You’d pick up the tab? You are a catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:17 PM
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Not trolling, sonny boy - I’m preaching the gospel truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:50 PM
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The question was regarding the guy whom you were most in love with, not the ones you settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:22 PM
13

“You can’t fire me - I quit!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:59 AM
3

I’m going to suggest that your friends are not, in fact, “super model gorgeous” - they are more likely average/below average, but OLD has convinced them that their shit doesn’t stink and they are entitled to six foot plus demigods with six figure salaries, and the reason they are “constantly getting shot done (sic) by men” is that they are punching way above their weight and approaching guys they have no hope with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:36 AM
4

One book - e.g. ‘SCUM Manifesto’?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:31 AM
4

Is there a “lack of inherent hardship in modern society”? Where I live, in the world’s six largest economy, 29% of children are growing up in “relative” poverty and 18% of households are classed as living in “absolute” poverty - life for the upper-middle classes may be cushy, but to claim hardship doesn’t exist is rather solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:54 AM
21

Therein lies the difference; a woman can choose to stop having sex because she knows she can get back on the saddle when she changes her mind - men have that choice imposed upon them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:18 AM
1

I don’t forge friendships with women, so this is a non issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:15 AM
2

Illegitimi non carborundum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:13 AM
0

If you’re “settled for” then it’s a doomed endeavour, because ultimately she doesn’t want you - she wanted an unfulfilled fantasy against which you will never measure up; nothing you do will ever be good enough for her, and no matter how hard you try, she will always resent you. Over time, that resentment will build and build until you find yourself on the receiving end of a messy breakup/acrimonious divorce, accused of all the negative traits she’s projected onto you because deep down she’s rag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:35 AM
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The only honest answer to this would be - “he was over six foot, he had a six pack, and he earned six figures”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:04 AM
33

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:12 PM
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This applies equally to all the silly, self-inflicted shit women complain about - literally none of live in a war zone; but we can only ever be truly aware of our reality, and if our reality sucks, that the reality of others sucks harder is irrelevant. Plus the men of Ukraine get to die in battle and earn their place in Valhalla - that’s how we were supposed to live/die, and that’s what was taken from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:02 PM
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How did you change yourself? Did you metamorphose into someone else through sheer willpower? Were you reincarnated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:57 PM
0

They reinforce people’s negative perceptions about others
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:49 PM
4

There’s a reason those stereotypes exist, to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:25 PM
3

In effect, most heterosexual relationships entail one party exchanging sex for goods and services
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:25 PM
19

Isn’t this a bit like saying disabled people are too lazy to walk and depressed people are too lazy to cheer up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:41 AM
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Only a women could write such horseshit - you people coast through life on easy mode, being spoon fed and having your every whim catered for; you have no idea what it’s like to be ostracised, or rejected, or being unable to fit in, or to be judged, ridiculed and hounded over things you have no control. It’s very easy for you to dismiss and ridicule “inexperienced” men as autistic/narcissistic/entitled/whatever because it’s never something you would ever encounter - as soon as you hit puberty you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:33 AM
2

Buying a woman from the third world is not that far removed from a “government mandated spouse”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:11 AM
5

Existence has no inherent meaning or purpose beyond the that which we create for ourselves; being part of a couple (with someone who wants to be with you obviously - none of that “government mandated spouse” bullshit) would go someways towards creating a sense of purpose, i.e., having someone in your life who values and cares about you, and whose life is enriched by your presence, etc. The absence of this compounds the futility and meaninglessness of life - it’s something women will never unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:10 AM
1

That’s…not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:21 PM
2

So you were walking there and back, unaccompanied, at five?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:34 PM
1

You walked yourself to kindergarten - when you were three?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:38 PM
-1

These kids aren’t “much better socially” on account of them no longer being alive: https://news.sky.com/story/the-teenagers-killed-in-london-so-far-in-2023-12971476
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:59 PM
3

A…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:35 PM
11

Depends on the working class neighbourhoods - there are places in the UK where going into the wrong postcode can get you stabbed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:27 PM
53

This very much depends on your neighbourhood; if you live in a nice, leafy, upper-middle class suburb, then you can safely let your kids roam free; however, if you live somewhere less salubrious, where even if there are parks, the kids who venture into them are likely to have shit kicked out of them by the feral youth, this isn’t an option. The idilic childhood activities you describe are very much the preserve of a particular economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:18 PM
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Because women never do this right - they’d never speak derisively of men who are short (i.e., below six foot), overweight (i.e., doesn’t have the body of a demigod), is bald, ugly, shy, poor (i.e., makes less than six figures), and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:08 PM
0

Most women won’t date a man who isn’t over six foot and has a six pack, which arguably is a form of eugenics in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:23 PM
-4

You know what I mean - if you go to the third world and acquire a wife, you can’t be unaware of what her motivation is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:18 PM
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Usually the ones who embody that stereotype are really stupid - e.g. Boris Johnson
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:17 PM
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No, they generally aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:50 PM
2

It’s glorified prostitution - dress it up however you like, but you’re still paying a woman to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:22 PM
37

Societal pressure - for a man to be a virgin past a certain age is seen as shameful and embarrassing, worthy of mockery and ridicule; the worst offenders being women, who will come to subs like this one to gleefully call it a “red flag” that automatically tars a man as an woman-hating incel, making him worse than a rapist. We live in a world where a man’s value is determined by his sexual prowess and success with women; men are supposed to be hyper sexual, we’re supposed to “fuck anything”, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:34 PM
1

That would be prohibitively expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:57 AM
13

My goal is to kill myself as soon as I’m free of my caring responsibilities - all other goals and aspirations are moot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:57 AM
6

Most women are extremely boring so trying to have a conversation with them is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:54 AM
3

She’s the most reviled PM in British history - she was indeed “transformational and impactful” in the sense that she destroyed swathes of the country, devastated communities and left a deep seated social decay that’s never healed. And it’s not just “the North” - I grew up in south Wales and she’s hated here, because the devastation she left still lingers decades later. As for Starmer - the “shadow labour leader” will say whatever he thinks needs to be said to win the next election; while he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:40 AM
2

No, they are not; that’s your typical British “lad” - we’re supposed to be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:21 PM
1

Not eating your greens doesn’t make one a good role model
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:55 PM
3

Seriously? The guy had a mental breakdown from going on an all-beef diet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:00 PM
3

A staunch supporter of Julian Assange too - she’s one of the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:00 PM
14

You’re not British, I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:59 PM
2

Ha ha ha - good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:58 PM
0

Well, I obviously keep that to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:38 PM
8

A lot of this is driven by women - e.g. in the UK, if you don’t fall neatly into the bloke/lad archetype and have interests that extend beyond football, cars and tits, women will be immediately suspicious of you; if you commit the cardinal sin of being shy/introverted and generally not acting like an obnoxious douche bag, they’ll despise you. Men are supposed to be simple, two dimensional creatures that are malleable and easy to control/manipulate with the promise of (the possibility of) sex; if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:37 PM
0

A romantic relationship and a platonic one are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:30 PM
0

Because I have to - e.g. my line manager is a women, two of my direct reports are women; if I didn’t maintain cordial relations with them I wouldn’t have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:03 PM
2

Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:39 PM
20

Men who identify as feminists are some of the most toxic men there are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 PM
3

I have in the past had women who were friends…or rather I thought they were friends, because when I needed them, the one-way nature of the relationship was made very clear to me. I learned that lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:23 PM
4

Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:21 PM
4

As a man, I view friendship with women as a waste of time - I can tolerate them in professional settings, but that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:04 PM
13

Yeah, because people who regularly had the shit beaten out of them as kids tend to turn out just fine, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:04 PM
4

There are people who think that where I live - the law disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:02 PM
14

Enforcing something physically implies pain is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:45 PM
12

Are you inflicting pain on the kid while doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:26 PM
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You can’t really assume things like that - that’s how you end up with something nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:11 AM
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She could have had an STD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:01 AM
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Would the police turn up for something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:24 AM
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How is he “objectively like a 4.5-5/10” - have you seen his instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:06 AM
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Spanking should be kept between consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:05 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:05 AM
1

That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:04 AM
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She wanted his baby, so presumably she thought he was of quality genetic stock - I doubt she’d have done this if he was 5ft, obese and with a face life an arse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:45 AM
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I assume this happened in the US, so I imagine he was hoping they’d turn up an instinctively shoot the OP in “self-defence”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:44 AM
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You were 22 and thought it was “safe” to have unprotected sex - do they not teach sex ed where you come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:42 AM
0

Which country is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:18 AM
13

You dated a alpha, and now you want to “settle down” with a beta male provider because you’ve reached the point in life where you can’t attract the top 20% anyone - this is every woman’s dating trajectory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:16 AM
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Where I come from, using physical force against a child - regardless of whether you own it - is very much against the law
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:13 AM
1

I don’t do any of things for children - I fucking hate children!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:12 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:29 PM
1

I am a nihilist - I don’t believe in silly pills or anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:32 PM
1

I’m aware of that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:52 PM
2

We all know the answer - one that pays six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:10 PM
1

If your god loved me, he has a funny way of showing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:05 AM
7

At this point, I’ve just given up, so this is like asking me what I’d imagine doing if I went to the moon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:04 AM
2

I was born - that was my crime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:16 PM
2

You can’t really abandon a group of people who regard you as 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:57 PM
0

To be fair, the West is the only bit of the world that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:56 PM
39

You were “forced to hook up with women” - were you being blackmailed? Was someone holding a gun to your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:53 PM
1

Until you file for divorce, then he’ll get sweet FA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:02 PM
18

We’ve all been there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:04 PM
31

This is very Freudian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:52 PM
2

A lot of women will say it’s “weird to live at home after [insert arbitrary number]” because they can easily find a boyfriend to cohabit with. It’s yet another example of the privilege they take for granted and the absurd standards they apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:05 AM
1

It’s all relative - housing is ridiculously expensive in the UK and a single salary won’t get you very far in terms of renting, and most people under 30 have little chance of ever buying a house. Increasingly adults live at home, not through choice, but because it’s either that or hand over two thirds of your salary for the privilege of occupying the mould-ridden box room in a house of multiple occupancy to fund some boomers retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:02 AM
4

If they get dementia, they’ll need to go into a care home eventually, and bang goes the house
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:58 AM
3

How many adult women are virgins? If that’s your standard, then you’re going to be single for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:56 AM
2

It’s never explicitly said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:12 AM
7

Still an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:22 PM
10

At 21 she’s an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:41 PM
7

Three simple words will stop all that: “I am gay”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:41 PM
4

Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:38 PM
8

That he’s actually 21 could be a twist we didn’t see coming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:06 PM
3

You’re an adult virgin by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:05 PM
-1

Beggars can’t be choosers buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:49 PM
1

Where I come from, homeless shelters aren’t segregated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:49 PM
4

It’s not something I’ve ever raised or discussed with them because it would be weird - I imagine they were disappointed I never got married and gave them grandchildren (I was a disappointment full stop), but they never mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:47 PM
1

Why do you want to date a “virgin woman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:45 PM
6

Which is which?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:44 PM
4

The implication is that she expects the man to provide those things for her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:43 PM
3

“equal partner who contributes” = you want his house, his salary, his retirement plan; basically everything he’s worked for, you want it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:09 PM
3

What exactly are men supposed to “band together and weather the storm” to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:08 PM
2

The old “beta bux” to coin a phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:17 PM
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This has very “you can’t fire me - I quit!” vibes about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:53 PM
3

The whole package = over six foot, has a six pack, makes six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:21 PM
5

Just no…women aren’t breeding mares put on this earth for the sole purpose of pumping out crotch droppings, and any “society” that forces them into that role deserves to collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:03 PM
4

It’s the way of things - not much that we can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:50 PM
3

Isn’t it usually the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:48 PM
5

Can’t see that taking off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:47 PM
2

That situation can be avoided by using contraception, but accidents do happen, and in the event I would suggest an abortion (which is legal and freely available where I come from)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:10 PM
2

If he were really in the top 20% he wouldn’t be sat on his arse playing video games all day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:55 AM
1

“We” were talking about all women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:38 PM
2

Your man is in the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:46 PM
1

Are you with him 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:45 PM
2

In short, no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:11 PM
7

And by the time they’ve figured out he’d exclusive he’ll have pumped and dumped them and moved onto his next target
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:25 PM
2

Ever heard of lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:54 PM
3

“women are looking for a man who will be the best for her genes to mate with” - when people spout nonsense like this, it’s quite obvious that they don’t spend a great deal of time around real people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:37 PM
6

The top 20% of men have access up 80% of the women, so a lot of women will indeed be unwittingly dating the same man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:35 PM
20

Women are only ever lonely through choice - when it comes to dating, they have infinitely more options and opportunities than men and it’s easy for them to stop being single. For men, it’s the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:33 PM
29

Are you aware of the hello human resources meme? It’s this; women want to be approached by a very specific type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:46 AM
40

If a guy so much as inadvertently glanced in her general direction and she didn’t deem him sufficiently attractive, she’d be strait back on TikTok hysterically shrieking about how she was being harassed by some creep who was driving her from her beloved gym. That’s why few men approach women - it’s a game of Russian roulette where one misjudgement can have life destroying consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:44 AM
2

Men, orbiters and casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:22 PM
2

A lot of women want those things too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:59 PM
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Jesus - where to begin with this? What do you envision your utopia based on “honour and consideration”, because from the sounds of things, it’ll be one where women have zero rights and agency and will instead become communal property. Women are not “our future potential partners”, they are individuals who should be free to live their lives freely as they choose; they were not put on this earth to serve you and be your breeding mare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:18 PM
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You’d still face sexual violence if you batted for the other team
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:12 PM
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And I’m not speaking ’for’ them, I’m talking ‘about’ them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:55 PM
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You’re not a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:54 PM
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I can guess where you’re from and can see some parents there purchasing their sons sex bots rather than have them learn about the birds and the bees
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:40 AM
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Do they not teach sex ed where you come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:09 AM
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Isn’t that generally how technology evolves - i.e., mobile phones used to be brick-sized and horrendously expensive, and thus dismissed as a fad aimed at Yuppies, but now we all have one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:50 AM
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That opens up a whole other can of worms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:49 AM
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How do you think teenage boys will get hold of sex bots - I assume they won’t be cheap, and somehow, I can’t see many parents buying their son one for Xmas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:48 AM
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Some women do feel it’s an issue: https://www.forbes.com/sites/andreamorris/2018/09/26/meet-the-activist-fighting-sex-robots/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:53 AM
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What if the sex bots become sentient and want the same rights as humans and, when that’s denied, turn violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:51 AM
1

Anna and the King is set in the 1860s - beauty pageants haven’t been a thing for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:49 AM
5

If you’re surrounded by other people then you wouldn’t be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:44 AM
14

It’s quite easy to “be happy alone” when you know you’ll have a multitude of options should you change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:26 PM
6

Exactly - you can only play the hand you were dealt, and if you were dealt a shitty hand, you’re destined to lose before the game has even started; turgid cliched advice about showering more and dressing better is simply insulting to the afflicted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:25 PM
1

So you’re bi? Would it be that much of a stretch to stick to women? (Serious question BTW)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:23 PM
3

What’s wrong with facial hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:09 PM
4

Perhaps acknowledge that, for some, there is no hope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:08 PM
3

That’s hardly a ringing endorsement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:08 PM
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Did she really find a “good man” or simply settle for some chump because she could feel her ovaries twitching and knew in her gut that time on the old biological clock was running out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:48 PM
3

Have you actually tried number 6 yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:46 PM
4

“socialist financially” - where do you live? Venezuela?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:44 PM
7

Pretty sure that gay men aren’t, generally speaking, that interested in “female mate choices”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:44 PM
7

Perhaps something that isn’t a list of tired cliches - “shower more! Hit the gym! Dress better!” Yeah, no shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:42 PM
14

Few people will openly acknowledge their privilege; “financially conservative” people will generally not concede that they have benefited from a rigged and unequal system and will instead peddle self-aggrandising mythology of their own prowess, hard work and determination. Similarly, few women will readily acknowledge that the dating game is rigged in their favour, and men who are successful at the dating game tend not to concede that they were simply lucky in the genetic lottery - each prefers …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:23 PM
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He has the right to be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:38 PM
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This guy is “da man”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:55 PM
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He was honest and upfront about what his intentions were from the start; she’s the one who tried to renegotiate the deal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:53 PM
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Sisyphus has to work pretty hard to get that bolder to the top of the hill and his “reward” was to have to do it all over again the next day - it’s easy to sound fridge magnet motivational slogans when you’re not the one who was cursed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:45 AM
2

You have a friendship group and family - do you know what it’s like to be utterly alone in life, to have your demons overwhelm you and tear open your psychic wounds and to find yourself spiralling with nobody you can turn to and nobody you can call for help, knowing full well that, should the undertow of your psyche drag you under, nobody will give a shit about what happens next. That is real loneliness, and if you’d ever had a taste of it, you wouldn’t have written that mawkish, patronising cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:42 AM
1

Yes - people usually have multiple romantic partners throughout their lives, but solidify their friendship groups early on. After a certain point, you can make acquaintances, but rarely form real friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:37 AM
4

Making new friends as an adult is famously difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:33 PM
1

It’s a platform for sharing short videos; the younger generation are fond of posting videos of themselves hysterically overreacting to things most people would deem inconsequential, so a misjudged attempted social interaction with one of them could well lead to one being the unwitting star of such a video
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:32 PM
6

You’re in a relationship, and by your own admission have no comprehension of what it’s like to be lonely. A few factors to consider; not all of us were blessed with the close-knit loving family you apparently were - some of us grew up in environments that mean it’s hard for us to form and maintain friendships in adulthood, and when you’re a single man and all your friends are coupled up in long term relationships, you fall very far down their lists of priorities. To suggest a pet is a substitute…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:42 PM
-2

Given that Jeffrey Dahmer could go home with multiple men despite by all accounts being extremely weird with no social skills leads me to conclude that, much like the women who claim to be unable to get dates, those gays are virgins through choice, likely because of their absurdly high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:55 PM
-2

Heterosexuality works just fine - for women; as a man, it fucking sucks. I’ve had far more gay men show genuine interest in me than women, but unfortunately for me, I’m not that way inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:53 PM
2

Try any of those things, and the likelihood is you’ll end up the subject of public ridicule on TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:50 PM
1

I don’t see how that’d be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:49 PM
-1

There is no realistic way of meeting a women that doesn’t involve either a dating app or the risk of public humiliation; personally, I’ll stick to Tinder, a pointless and futile exercise it may be, but the chances of me being creep shamed on TikTok are significantly lower than the dreaded cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:30 PM
1

That’s extremely racist - it’s an absolute monarchy/police state; the average Saudi man has not sat in how his society is managed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:53 PM
1

It wasn’t funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:19 PM
2

Chemical castration?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:29 AM
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BDSM is not “normalising sexual abuse” - it’s not abuse if the sub consents to it and there’s an agreed safe word
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:48 AM
1

That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:44 AM
1

I’m sure that there are many men in Saudi Arabia who would like the freedom to freely associate with the opposite sex, but they can’t, because of the SEGREGATION!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:44 AM
1

Who do you think runs Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:30 PM
2

They don’t have ice cream in Antarctica
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:29 PM
4

So you want a society where either all men are treated like sexual deviants and potential rapists who must be kept segregated to protect the women; or where all women are treated as hyper sexual temptresses who must be segregated to protect the men? If the founding principles of your utopia is that half of the population must be protected from the other, you’re going to end up in a dystopia very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:41 PM
1

If you create a society where it’s deemed that men and women must be kept separate, then one side is inevitably going to end up with more rights than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:27 PM
5

I’ve seen the Joey Swoll videos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:10 PM
1

I’m not American
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:09 PM
-8

If you want segregation, less rights goes with the territory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:09 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:08 PM
6

Full of oiled up muscular men with luxurious moustaches who all own multiple pairs of leather chaps and a range of peaked caps?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:51 PM
2

A men only gym sounds like something from a Tom of Finland illustration
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:49 PM
-2

Ever considered moving to Saudi Arabia? Everything there is segregated by gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:48 PM
3

It’s a solution to a non-existent problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 PM
11

Haven’t women’s gyms been a thing for some time? If you genuinely think all men are sexual predators/rapists then use one of those and let the rest of us use our shared spaces like adults
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:17 PM
21

Did you seriously take a harmonica to a karaoke bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:43 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:38 AM
1

We get pretty much anything we want - i.e. none of us suffer from emotional neglect, mental abuse, bullying, etc., that’s seriously what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:54 PM
2

What exactly are boys used to having things handed to them? And as an Irish person, you should be well aware that kids spending time with faith leaders should not be encouraged! Andrew Tate is many things, but he keeps it away from the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:39 PM
1

You’re Russian? Shouldn’t you be in Ukraine fighting for the motherland?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:29 PM
4

The friendzone can be avoided simply by not having female friends in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:12 PM
2

Does mean your wife will be able to act as her own divorce lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:10 PM
2

What sort of man needs a new truck every 2-3 years? Why does he have a truck in the first place? What does he do to the truck that means it only has a lifespan of 2-3 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:09 PM
1

Being single is only “cool” if you want to be single; if you really want to be in a relationship, being told how lucky you are is both patronising and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:07 PM
21

To be fair, in Germany your grandparent’s generation set a pretty high bar for bad behaviour - whilst wearing Hugo Boss no less
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:38 PM
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This is a bit like saying that it’s really easy to deadlift 400kg if you’re an experienced bodybuilder - i.e., you’re stating the blindingly obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:36 AM
3

True - women want the full package; over six foot, has a six pack, AND earns a six figure salary, so it’s not just about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:34 AM
8

“women care less about looks” - nice bit of casual gaslighting there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:04 AM
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A man not only has to be able to flirt effortlessly, be witty, interesting, effortlessly traverse complex mental gymnastics and be suave, good looking, well dressed and possess limitless funds, he also requires a degree of precognition in order to gauge whether the woman will be receptive and not accuse him harassment simply for being within several meters of her. A woman just needs to show up and stand there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:01 AM
-2

It’s not directed at me personally, but I see a lot of contempt/vitriol directed at men from millennial/Gen Z women - e.g., we are all sexual deviants, we are all abusers, we are all weak/shallow, we are genetically disposed towards infidelity, be are all worthless losers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:03 PM
0

“ruled” not “led by”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:00 PM
-7

I never said I either sought or wanted “help” from women - it would simply be nice if me Twitter/X feed wasn’t filled with vitriol directed at me and half the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:50 PM
1

Which beliefs are these, out of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:47 PM
1

The dictionary definition is literally: “a system of society or government ruled by a woman or women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:45 PM
-2

Elevating one group of people into positions of power over another is by definition not egalitarian; feminism is simply one group who perceive themselves to be the controlled wishing to make themselves the controllers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:30 PM
-4

Divest from patriarchy and replace it with a matriarchy and elevate the girlboss feminists who openly despise us to the top of the societal hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:10 PM
0

In which country did this take place in? I’m guessing that it wasn’t one in the West?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:38 PM
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Women collectively do not give a shit about male self-esteem - most of them dislike men, and treat male mental health as a joke; the suggestion that men can have low self-esteem, suffer from anxiety, depression, body dysmorphia, etc., is something to be mocked and ridiculed. Men are supposed to be stupid buffoons, interested only in cars, football and sex; we’re not supposed to have emotions, and when we deviate from the stereotype, we get punished for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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Personally, I’d see it more as an agreement rather that one party giving the other permission
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:00 PM
3

Well, I stand corrected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:25 PM
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He did great work with Genesis (until he became the front man), but he was ubiquitous in the 80s and his brand of gurning BMW music/Yuppie pop was beloved by people we’d today call “basic”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:48 AM
5

“nice guys venting how angry they are that movies lied to them about women” sounds like a bit of a strawman - I don’t think any man, nice or otherwise, is basing his perception of dating on 90s romcoms or whatever you’ve imagined here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:29 AM
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Both would be massive red flags for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:51 AM
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Taylor Swift is the millennial Phil Collins
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:34 AM
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The use of the word “let” is very telling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:31 AM
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It’s a bit silly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:28 AM
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Belief in astrology is a major red flag - I wouldn’t openly mock it personally, but it has negative connotations and I wouldn’t want to be involved in someone who took that nonsense seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:51 AM
5

Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:12 PM
5

Yeah, and I wonder why that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:58 PM
8

I note that everyone who has said that is female
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:36 PM
-1

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:59 PM
2

I’ve learned from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:08 PM
9

“Being happily single” is only an option if you’re single though choice - you can’t choose to be happily single if you don’t want to be; you can’t simply will yourself to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:35 PM
4

The “friendzone” isn’t friendship - it’s one person using someone who is allowing themselves to be used in the hope that the person using them will give them something they have zero intention of giving
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:53 PM
3

You don’t need to be “friends” with women to know that doing any of that stuff is highly inappropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:02 PM
1

Women don’t have male friends - they have male resources
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:38 PM
4

Being an “emotional tampon” means you get used as a substitute for her emotionally unavailable her boyfriend - i.e., you do all the emotional heavy lifting for zero rerun, he gets to do all the fun stuff. There’s zero reason for a man to be friends with a woman; “friendship” with a woman simply means you’ll be used, emotionally, financially, or both - if she’s not interested in a relationship, cut her out of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:55 PM
2

My heart truly does bleed - it must be so hard for you all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:46 AM
2

Trust funds kids are not starved of money; women are not starved of sexual attraction and love - both groups may perceive them to be, and complain about it, but in doing so they are flaunting their privilege and demonstrating their ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:56 AM
5

This is, without a doubt, the stupidest, most asinine, most patronisingly insulting analogy anyone has ever farted out on here - you should be proud
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:42 AM
4

It’s like a trust fund brat complaining about money - there’s no “combo of words” where they don’t sound ignorant, cosseted and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:40 AM
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This is like someone at an all you can eat buffet complaining that they don’t like any of the food while people are starving in the street outside - setting absurdly high standards and self-sabotaging is fundamentally not the same as having zero options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:36 AM
0

Which I answered
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:36 PM
1

Is this not a pill oriented space?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:14 PM
1

This is something of a straw man - who is obsessed with “female purity, virginity and how many men she’s slept with”? and how representative of men as a whole are they? Personally, I really don’t give a shit - sleep with whomsoever you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:13 PM
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You’re not judging men by their past - you’re projecting imagined flaws onto a subset of men based upon your prejudices
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:49 PM
1

Why did you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:31 AM
-1

Not necessarily - he just needs to watch lots of porn and copy what he sees (obviously, this won’t make for a great experience for the woman, but nevertheless)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:30 AM
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There are a lot of non-virgin men who wouldn’t know that, so you probably could have bluffed your way through the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:53 AM
10

You’ve never watched porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:45 AM
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Why the fuck would you tell your co-workers!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:34 AM
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It’s like the old parable about the frog and the scorpion; regardless of how nice you are to women, they will always hurt you in the end, because they are women, and that is simply what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:43 AM
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Not sure other people will see it like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:39 AM
5

My proof is that I am a member of the generation the OP refers to and have spent my life interacting with members of the opposite gender - you may not agree with the conclusions I’ve drawn, but that are based on my life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:00 PM
4

I’m not that way inclined, but the OP didn’t mention “modern men”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:52 PM
1

They are like that that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:28 PM
0

I’m a millennial; I date other millennials and occasionally Gen Zs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:20 PM
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On what planet has anyone claimed that it’s common for women to have an OF account? As for the rest of your list - well, those are pretty common characteristics in millennial and Gen Z women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:44 PM
5

That’s the other meaningless term that gets thrown around to shut down men, so why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:57 PM
22

The obvious answer - nearly all women are “dysfunctional crappy women”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:00 PM
17

Careful now - you know what she’ll accuse you of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:03 PM
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Mansplaining = when a man challenges a woman. Women expect to able to say whatever they like without having their assertions challenged, and the moment that happens, she inevitably starts shrieking “Mansplaining!” It’s just misandrist bullshit from people who feel they are entitled to special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:02 PM
1

You think the EU is going to attack the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:56 AM
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“Bad Boy” means bad as in dickhead, not bad as in evil - e.g., the type of loud, arrogant, obnoxious douchebags who’ve been raised to believe that the world revolves around them and they can behave as they please. It’s well known that women find shyness/introversion repulsive, so are naturally attracted to the Bad Boy like flies to shit. He’ll lay on the charm think and fast when he wants to get into her knickers, but will ignore her as soon as the deed is done; she’ll crave more because he offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:09 AM
2

Were you in Iraq? If so, you were part of something evil, even if you didn’t personally commit any war crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:53 AM
1

I’m sure the trust fund helped shape her perception
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:15 PM
1

How dare I what? And if someone is a drug addict who has never had a job…that’s a pretty big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:53 PM
5

a) I am not a fucking incel b) I do not have female friends c) It’s a recurring theme on social media; women will decry that “there are no good men” and “men are all the same” etc., and will use anecdotal evidence of the shitty behaviour of the men they’ve dated to back this up. So being an obnoxious, selfish, arrogant douchebag who treats women like shit is clearly not a barrier to dating/relationships/sex, given the amount of women who date/fuck/complain about such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:45 PM
3

More like cocky, arrogant, selfish douchebag who treats her like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:49 PM
5

Pretty sure that’s not the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:21 PM
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The average woman can rack up hundreds of likes in Tinder in a few hours and have an abundance of options for potent dates - if she’s getting “poor treatment” it’s because she’s consistently choosing shitty men and has nobody to blame but herself. But in all probability she’s choosing men who fall into the “bad boy” archetype over men she considers boring/creepy and that’s why she’s gets “poor treatment”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:11 PM
3

I’d rather be along for ever than be settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:29 PM
7

It’s pure misandry - the stereotype that men are filthy, sex-crazed dogs who can’t control their urges and are therefore a perpetual danger to women is harmful and dehumanising; to reduce half the planet to a 2D cartoon and project all of your personal shortcomings and hang-ups onto them is on the same level as “women only want Chad and hit the wall by 25” incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:00 PM
2

Not really - women are still fertile into their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:16 PM
2

At 30 women can still have children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:56 AM
6

And men don’t work any of those jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:46 AM
4

The 80/20 ratio is that women are only interested in the top 20% of men - that’s not say they’ll actually get to date said men, but those are the men they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:54 AM
6

Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:44 AM
6

They don’t suddenly become undatable and sent off to convents; most men don’t have weird hang ups about “body counts” or “the wall” - the average single thirty year old woman will still have a multitude of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:43 AM
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Bullshit - women don’t turn into wizened old hags when they hit thirty, nor do men suddenly blossom into majestic swans. Women play life on easy mode from birth, and they continue to play life on easy mode for the duration of their lives - they have it easier in every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:26 AM
5

Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:04 PM
1

Why take the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:19 PM
4

Copypasta from…? If you’re going to accuse me of plagiarism, at least tell me who I’m ripping off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:47 PM
1

I think it would end in humiliation of some sort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:11 PM
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There’s a woman who goes to my gym, who I really like; for obvious reason (i.e. TikTok) I have avoided interacting with her in any way. However, earlier this month I decided to throw caution to the wind, reasoning, what is the worst thing that could happen? Long story short, it did not go well; her expression of revulsion attracted attention of two bodybuilders who proceeded to lay into me, and while I lay helplessly on the ground with kicks and punches reigning down upon me, she laughed manical…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 PM
3

There is a country and a few territories in Europe where abortion is restricted - women here aren’t routinely forced to “die in childbirth” as you claimed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:40 AM
2

Poland and NI aside, “abortion is prohibited” in city states that exist as tax havens; however, in all of them abortion is “allowed under certain circumstances” - i.e., if the mother’s life is at risk; women in Europe aren’t “forced to die in childbirth”. And in all of those territories, women can freely travel to nearby countries in order to access abortion services.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:13 AM
0

Of those, only Poland is an actual country
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:38 AM
4

Where in the West are “women being forced to die in childbirth” (putting aside specific states in the US)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:26 AM
7

Listening to women moan about their “issues” is like listening to trust fund kids complaining about money: “Daddy won’t pay off my credit card anymore! He says I must get a job! How unfair!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:15 AM
3

And what do you get at the end of it - a thirty-five plus single mother who is no longer getting as many likes as she used to on Tinder so has decided that it’s time to “settle down” with a beta make provider; she won’t care about you, let alone love you - you’ll simply be a resource to her; something to bleed dry and discard once it’s served it’s purpose. The beta bux strategy is simply a long winded way of ending up divorced and broke in middle-age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:59 AM
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Except that I’m right and they are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:54 AM
2

Woman in the West play life on easy mode - they coast along on a path of least resistance getting every whim catered for, every urge indulged, and everything they could ever want handed to them on a plate. They live in a bubble and their “woes” are just the childish outbursts of spoilt brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:59 AM
0

Do tell us - why doesn’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:02 AM
2

There is an case to be made for that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:04 PM
5

You’re suggesting I should kill her afterwards? I’m not into shit like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:55 PM
5

It’s banned in a lot of places but it still goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:53 PM
2

There are a lot of things that aren’t “necessary” - drinking alcohol for instance; or eating junk food; or sleeping in, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:53 PM
-2

The only purpose of life is to create more life - so those of us who don’t should be punished in some fashion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:50 PM
7

You’re offering to let me sleep with your wife? I guess what they say about southern hospitality really is true!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:49 PM
4

Where did you get her from - Thailand or Russia?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:17 PM
0

Where does the wearing of fedoras fit into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:07 PM
12

This was either written by a woman or a homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:06 PM
7

The myth of Sisyphus is the perfect analogy for what dating is like as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:05 PM
9

A gay roommate is going to lead to lots of men coming and going
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:04 PM
3

Why not pay your own bills and clean up after yourself like an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:02 PM
1

There is no logical reason for sex work to be criminalised - the most vociferous opposition for its legalisation comes from so called feminists who want to control male sexuality and ration access to sex in order to weaponise it. Reduce it to a financial transaction between consenting parties and the associated hang-ups will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:00 PM
-5

So how many children have you sired to further the survival of the race - a dozen? Two dozen? I presume you’re a regular at your local sperm bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:49 PM
-9

You used the word “failed” - we’re not animals in captivity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:28 PM
-6

“Failed to reproduce” - I didn’t realise it was compulsory?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:20 PM
16

Exactly - this sub would cease to exist if the OP got their way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:06 PM
3

No - that’s not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:05 PM
1

The lonely women are lonely because they’re waiting for an Adonis with a ten inch dick and six figure salary to fall out of the sky - and even if one did, they’d reject him if he were under six foot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:09 PM
6

Women choose to be lonely; when it comes to social interaction, men are expected to do all the work, jump through hoops, and bend over backwards while women just need to show up. You may have autism and social anxiety - but as a women, many, many men will go out of their way to try and date/build a relationship with you. If you’re lonely, it’s because you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:08 PM
0

It’s a whole array of red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:04 PM
6

You said “what OP is trying to say when they describe the struggle women face to have basic autonomy” - do they or don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:07 PM
5

In what way do women in the west not have “basic autonomy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:38 PM
10

Women want to have their cake and eat it - when they demand equality, what they really mean is that they want privilege and special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:58 PM
3

I don’t recall there been a special assembly held in school where the deputy head sat all the boys down and told us how we were “entitled to romance and or intimacy” - I must have been sick that day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:17 PM
20

I don’t believe anyone on this sub has ever claimed that men are “entitled to romance or intimacy” and there are plenty of men who are happy and content to be single. But there is a huge difference between being single by choice and being single and not wanting to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:45 PM
2

The current UK government is toying with the idea of stripping welfare recipients who are deemed not to be looking hard enough for work of their NHS access - attacking the working poor/disabled has been the bedrock of their policy platform for the last thirteen years; you either don’t live in the UK, or have just awoken from a long coma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:21 PM
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I did answer the question; it’s not a comparable situation - women are the gatekeepers of dating/sex/relationships; they set the terms, they hold all the cards, and they can rewrite the rule book as they choose. Women don’t have to “take what they can get” because they always have other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:26 PM
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A full house of cliches there - but I must ask; why “go to Church”? Does Jeebuz hand out girlfriends if you say his name five times while looking in the mirror or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:22 PM
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So why are these women alone? Are they disfigured, have severe mental health issues, morbidly obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:19 PM
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The reality of dating for men and women are not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:16 PM
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He can pay extra for the “girlfriend experience” - sure, he’ll be paying a woman to hang out with him, pretend to like him and sleep with him in exchange for money, but if we’re being honest, it’s not that different from most heterosexual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:09 PM
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Keep building those straw men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:58 PM
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I assume she’s one of the weirdos who doesn’t put their picture as their profile To experience “romantic intimacy” you actually have to make the effort to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:57 PM
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I could not care less whether they are sleeping around or not, but if they are waiting for the ideal man to fall out of the sky while coming up with absurd reasons why every man in their vicinity is probably only after one thing, then they are doomed to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:56 PM
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That stat would suggest 50% are looking for something more than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:52 PM
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I know…that’s why I asked whether the consciously choose celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:51 PM
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Seems like a lot of excuses being made
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:51 PM
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Another straw man - it being a shit joke had nothing to do with your genitalia
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:50 PM
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Obviously a like in itself is not a romantic connection - a takes a smidgin more effort than that, but the like opens the door to the possibility of a romantic connection; if you’re just going to mope around waiting for Prince Charming to come and ask you out, then you’re going to be waiting for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:39 PM
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No, because it was shit - if you’re going to try and be funny, put some effort into it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:28 PM
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They always have options - the options may not include the six foot plus Adonis with a ten inch cock and six figure salary they believe should be theirs by right, but they will always - always - have options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:27 PM
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If you can go on Tinder and rack up 50 plus likes within the hour, then you only go “years without romantic intimacy and sex” if you choose to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:25 PM
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Could they not do the asking out?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:23 PM
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Nice straw man you’ve built there!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:23 PM
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Asking a woman for dating advice is like asking a trust fund kid to help you manage your finances - “just ask Daddy to pay your rent!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:11 PM
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Prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:10 PM
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Why did they go “years without romantic intimacy and sex” - were Chad and Tyrone not returning their calls, or did they consciously choose celibacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:10 PM
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Women are not in the same ocean, let along the same boat - if a woman experiences “periods of time without romantic intimacy” then, consciously or not, it’s a choice, because they always have options; if they are holding out for the six foot plus Adonis with a six figure salary and ignoring the plethora of average men around them, then they only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:08 PM
1

Women are capable of being happy and fulfilled now - turning them back into Stepford Wives with no agency or control over their lives isn’t going to make them any happier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:49 AM
1

I did sincerely answer the question; it’s not a pissing contest about whether dead Chinese girls have it worse than surplus Chinese men, they both have it bad in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:44 AM
3

She was waisting my time and was only after a free drink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:09 PM
2

Ok - you are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:03 PM
4

If another guy checked me out, I’d be quite flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:33 PM
1

“Projection is a type of defense mechanism or means of coping. People may use defense mechanisms and unconscious mental strategies to cope with stressful or anxiety-provoking thoughts and experiences. When someone unconsciously attributes their thoughts, feelings, or behaviors to another person, they are projecting”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:30 PM
2

I’ve never seen anyone say anything remotely along those lines on this sub - that’s pure projection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:29 PM
0

That’s my approach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:26 PM
3

It’s an example of women wanting to have their cake and eat it; they expect men to jump through hoops and bend over backwards to impress them while they themselves make zero effort; they set absurd and arbitrary standards that they’d have a meltdown were they applied to them; and they want me to be simultaneously assertive and confident as well as demure and respectful depending on their mood, while they feel entitled to ridicule and treat men with open contempt. The goalposts are continually sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:35 PM
0

The one I replied to is certainly looking for revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:41 PM
2

Sure…we believe you, buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:39 PM
6

I’m not female and I’m not the one who is coping; but if it makes you feel better believe that the girl who rejected you fifteen years ago is now wallowing in regret, knock yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:52 PM
4

“You can’t fire me - I quit!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:50 PM
10

For every thirty plus woman who has decided that it’s time to “settle down” there are hundreds of beta suckers willing to take her on; women only end up alone in middle age through choice or self-sabotage - the beta revenge fantasy doesn’t match the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:33 PM
5

The “work on yourself” advice isn’t limited to hookups; men need to jump through hoops and bend over backwards to even be considered for a potential relationship - women just show up and have this handed to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:23 PM
17

Clearly women “do hookups” or hookups would be the preserve of homosexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:03 PM
32

Men have to “work on yourself” and “improve” - women just have to show up; that’s the unfair part
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:36 PM
3

What’s your definition of “sexual immorality, deviancy and animalistic behaviour”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:53 AM
0

Undo the effects of the sexual revolution - i.e., strip women of their rights, agency, and bodily autonomy; turn them into men’s property and force them into unhappy marriages to be condemned to a life of servitude as a glorified breeding mare. That’s what you really meant, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:38 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:45 AM
3

I did answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:08 AM
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Obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:52 AM
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Be an interesting person - e.g. go up to random women whilst wearing a fedora and perform magic tricks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:08 AM
1

It’s not the men who’ve collectively concluded that 80% of the opposite gender are ugly and worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:51 AM
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Until they go on Tinder and get 50 likes within three first few minutes, then their self-esteem goes through the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:48 AM
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It’s the other way around - the 4/10 “somewhat overweight” woman now believes she’s entitled to a 6’4 demigod with rippling muscles and a rock hard six pack, and any man who does not meet this criteria is beneath her. And nice of you to tell the rest of us that we should be dating arse-faced fatties while simultaneously humble-bragging about your “hot 7/10 woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:47 AM
3

Swings and roundabouts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:42 AM
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Attempting to engage random people in inane small talk is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:42 AM
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Yes, I’m obviously aware of why there is a surplus of men - but a life where it is literally impossible for you to find a partner or experience any physical/emotional intimacy is hardly one worth living
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:24 AM
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Yes, the old “cold approach” - women famously enjoy being hit on whole going about their day to day lives
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:22 AM
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Exactly - times change and now it’s Tinder or bust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:59 PM
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I think dating was a bit different two million years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:40 PM
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How else are you supposed to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:30 PM
3

It’s objectively true; they play life on easy mode in a world that’s tailored to their needs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:49 PM
4

So then, pray tell, how did you, a “friendless introvert shut in” bag a “wonderful partner” - was a magic lamp involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:49 PM
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When women are lonely it’s self-inflicted; when men are lonely, it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:16 PM
3

A homosexual then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:09 PM
5

Didn’t those boards all get shut down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:52 PM
0

Fight Club? Never heard of it - what’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:14 PM
3

I thought it was a euphemism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:38 PM
4

Sorry, I thought that was what you meant by “get togethers”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:53 PM
1

So you’re a swinger?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:40 PM
8

You’re a woman, I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:27 PM
12

That’s the thing - men have to make huge amounts of effort and bend over backwards to meet women IRL; women just have to turn up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:27 PM
1

Exactly - that’d be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:02 PM
1

Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:47 AM
1

We don’t need pharmaceutical solutions when we have alcohol - nature’s antidepressant!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:50 AM
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Talking about your problems is for pussies; what men need is a place where they can be themselves and do what comes natural - i.e., violence and aggression, played out via an underground boxing club. If men started to form these en masse, who knows where it could lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:50 AM
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Because they are spoiled; they can go on Tinder and rack up hundreds of likes per hour and go on dates as and when they choose. It inflates their egos to gargantuan proportions; they come to view men as disposable, concluding that can “settle down” at a time of their convenience and to a timetable of their design - which is of course their prerogative, but life doesn’t work like that, so when they’re on the other side of thirty and the old biological clock is ticking a little too loudly for comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:45 AM
5

You live in China?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:28 AM
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Nice straw man you’ve built there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:27 AM
1

Arguably - it is still punished though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:34 PM
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I was speaking specifically about the inference that men are predisposed towards bestiality. However, it’s objectively not true that “men will fuck anything and anyone” - some men will, and the men who declare that on here speak only for themselves, but to claim that all 4 billion men on the planet are all exactly the same in this regard is as childish and asinine as claiming that all women only want to fuck Chad and are ran through by the time they hit the wall at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:34 PM
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A 19 year old is a consenting adult; if she’s sleeping with a married man to get better grades, then who are we to judge? However, the whole point of this thread is that the OP felt very strongly that judgement should be cast, and used this (in all probability made up) example of “immoral sexual behaviour” for which women apparently face no consequences, ignoring the fact that a significantly older male in a position of authority over her was the second party in this affair - my point was that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:09 PM
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Oh, the girl who (allegedly) slept with her professor - if we are to cast judgement there, it should be upon him, as he would be significantly older, and in a position of power/authority over his student, which he has abused. If this affair were to come to the attention the university management, there would be consequences for both parties (one for academic misconduct and one for professional misconduct). The same would apply if said professor was taking kickbacks from his students to boost the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:23 PM
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Manipulating under age people for sexual purposes does carry consequences - quite severe ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:08 PM
3

Eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:07 PM
1

If we can also agree that all likes mean nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:06 PM
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I don’t think it’s anyone’s business who consenting adults sleep with and with what frequency
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:58 PM
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By that logic, a like from a women means nothing also, on the basis that one was arrested fucking a dog outside a church
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:57 PM
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If the society we exist in collectively decides that women’s sexual freedom and bodily autonomy is fine - which the one I (and I presume you also) live in has - then it is by your own definition, not immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:56 PM
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The percentage of men who “fuck goats and horses” is tiny - that we’re all into bestiality is a femcel myth that will not die. There are also women who do this, but if I claimed this was in anyway typical of female nature I’d be laughed off of the sub: https://nypost.com/2023/04/08/mississippi-woman-who-had-sex-with-dog-filmed-outside-church/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:48 PM
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Especially if said male isn’t rocking a six pack and has more than 2% body fat, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:46 PM
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They are spoilt for choice; they get so many likes that their egos balloon and they decide that average men are now beneath them, so they ignore those in favour of trying to match with the top 20% of men - just like every other women on the app. So conversely, the top 20% of men are also spoilt for choice, and there’s only so many hookups a man can fit into his busy schedule, so some women get left upon a shelf of their own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:46 PM
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Two things: When you say “immoral sexual behaviour” - by whose authority? Who gets to define the parameters of moral and immoral sexual behaviour? You seem to want women to face the consequences of their “immoral sexual behaviour” - again, who gets to define the boundaries of acceptability, decide what the consequences shall be and dish out the punishment. It seems what you really want it to be able to strip women of their agency and take ownership of and control their bodies. If that’s what it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:37 PM
5

Metal - we tend to stick to our own
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:50 PM
2

Perhaps we should channel our pent up rage into something more productive like…an underground boxing club. Who knows where that could lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:13 PM
3

He didn’t exactly invent it, but Milton Friedman had a huge influence over Western governments (most notably Thatcher and Reagan), and his Chicago School played a major role in forcing the ideology upon developing nations in South America and Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:15 PM
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You’re a gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:37 PM
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Women can put other women in their place, violently, if needs be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:22 PM
2

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:21 PM
4

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:42 PM
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Chinese women are way more selfish and entitled than their western counterparts - there is literally a surplus of men there due to the one child policy, and millions of Chinese men are doomed to a life of celibacy because they will never find a partner. This obviously gives the women a lot of power when it comes to dating - the absurd high standards of our women pale in comparison to theirs. But the “gender wars” is a symptom of late stage capitalism and forty years of failed neoliberal ideology…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:40 PM
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The gays are famed for their promiscuity and hypersexuality - there’ll be enough to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:29 PM
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Out of interest, why should I, as a man, sympathise for what “they’ve done to women in the past”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:21 PM
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Multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:17 PM
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Men are more likely to call out other men acting out in public; even if it doesn’t spill into physical confrontation, there’d still be a degree of threat/intimidation/hinted violence. A man wouldn’t act that way to a woman for obvious reasons. A lot of guys could benefit from a good slap though, so perhaps as a society we should be more open to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:43 AM
5

Well, someone clearly isn’t getting any…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:04 AM
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Sex + Friendship = FWB Romantic love is something much deeper and all consuming; they are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:03 AM
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They’d hook up with all the gay twinks and live happy productive lives
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:00 AM
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I’ve met many men who would have benefited from ego death via a severe beating - we as a society should re-normalise man on man violence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:37 AM
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The difference being, as the OP pointed out, a man acting like a jackass in public runs the risk of getting his ass kicked - women who behave in a similar fashion do not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:35 AM
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This is 100% correct - most women are overgrown children who have never been told “no” and have never had to deal with the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:51 AM
2

You could take that to its logical conclusion and advocate suicide - better to drop out of the game altogether, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:51 PM
2

Front for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:51 PM
7

There’s a difference between deciding to gracefully bow out of the dating game and getting told you’re not allowed to play anymore; and wanting something as simple as a healthy relationship with someone who feels about you that way you feel about them shouldn’t be an impossible ask, but apparently it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:49 PM
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So if a guy has a slight belly, he’s beyond the pale disgusting? I assume this standard doesn’t apply to women? This is why men hate you - you make it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:14 PM
3

I assume you aren’t on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:06 PM
4

It is - it’s a cliche at this point, along with “dress better” and “shower”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:13 PM
2

So “be ripped” was what you meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:12 PM
2

I think that depends on how you define “fat” as women can, generally, carry extra weight a lot better than men. But “hit the gym” is the 101 of dating advice, so loose weight is implied even if not said aloud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:43 AM
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That’s a bit vague - e.g. someone who is 6’2 and weighs fifteen stone is going to be outside the health BMI range, but they’ll look quite different to someone who is 5’5 and weighs the same. So does “don’t be fat” basically equate to “be ripped”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:39 AM
2

“Weaponising” would suggest that there is some mechanism for using it as a force for change, which there isn’t. The issues men face are generally belittled and treated as a joke; people only start to give a shit when it has the capacity negatively affect them - e.g. when anger, bitterness, isolation, translates into acts of violence. When we just quietly kill ourselves, it’s either treated as the butt of a joke, or the dead are scorned for the impact their actions have on others. And I certainly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:50 AM
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It’s not particularly nice to call someone fat to their face, even in the context of giving advice - also, a lot of women are overweight, so logically, the fatties of both genders should hook up with one another (though it goes without saying that fat women are generally the types that’ll turn their nose up at any an who has more than 1% body fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:52 AM
2

Firstly, the only “men” who have female friends are mincing, shrieking homosexuals. Regardless; a man asking women for dating advice is a terrible idea, as women will not be honest. They’ll dish out the cliched “just be yourself!” and “there’s someone out there for everyone!” bullshit while they themselves will turn their nose up at any man who doesn’t look like a Greek god made flesh. Few people will readily admit that they are shallow, and women are no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:47 AM
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Such women do not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:46 AM
7

What’s a “proper date” - where the man pays for everything, at considerable expense, and gets no return at the end of the night?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:45 AM
2

ring on your finger 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:42 AM
2

Define “fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:42 AM
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I disagree - it’s perfectly acceptable to hate women for being shallow, cruel and hypocritical; it’d be weird not to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:41 AM
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Bring short is not in itself a negative trait, but the women with this mentality certainly see it as an issue in a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:56 AM
2

Below average men consider themselves average and try to date average women; average women, on the other hand, consider themselves 10s any are only interested in men who are 10s - that is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:49 AM
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It’s enough for a pump and dump, but hardly the foundation for a lasting relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:27 AM
2

Ah - that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 PM
10

Demanding a man who looks like a Greek God with a ten inch dick does not equate to a “good relationship” even in the remote possibility that such a man would enter into a relationship with a mid-tier woman. If you want a good relationship you need to be realistic as to who you can enter into a relationship with, not hold out for an unobtainable fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:19 PM
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One still needs to be realistic - a short, fat, balding, perennially unemployed man who sill lives with his parents well into his 30’s could declare that any women who is not a 10 and in the top 0.001% of OnlyFans is beneath him, but he’d not garner much sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:15 PM
20

Staying single while holding out for someone who is never going to be interested in you is surely self-defeating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:59 PM
43

If I understand you correctly, a cohort of short, dumpy, plain women who bring zero to the table feel entitled to a man who is a perfect 10, well over six foot, and has a six figure salary - somehow men are still at fault for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:33 PM
28

If you’re posting in NSFW groups then you’re obviously going to get attention from men who are looking for a hookup - that’s a very specific demographic and doesn’t represent all men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:09 PM
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Homosexuality has been practiced for as long as humans have been fucking each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:06 PM
3

Stop gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:19 PM
2

Shit - it’s this guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:17 PM
1

“the masculine urge to cheat and have affairs” - seriously, fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:16 PM
45

The women you mention are all celebrities - “Plain Jane” isn’t getting overlooked so that men can try and date Ariana Grande; she’s on Tinder getting 50 likes an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:07 AM
15

Telling your partner that you settled for them is unlikely to end well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:25 AM
4

Any man who has worked in a female-dominated workplace can attest to this; casual misandry is rife, and making blanket assertions that men are universally stupid, incompetent, useless, etc., is normalised. Men’s heath is mockingly dismissed as “man flu” and male mental health is treated as a joke. To make matters worse, there are men who will go along with this and happily play the fool to ingratiate themselves with the harpies they work with, meaning that those of us who refuse to debase oursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:23 AM
6

For a quick pump and dump. Tinder et al have inflated these women’s egos to galactic proportions; a short, fat, balding, ugly man who declared publicly that he’ll only consider dating a woman if she’s a perfect 10 and in the top 0.01% of OnlyFans would be mercilessly ridiculed, and his delusions would quickly come a cropper in the face of reality. However, a short, dumpy, plain woman will still get inundated with likes on Tinder, leading her to believe that her shit doesn’t stink and only the el…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:37 AM
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I didn’t say they needed to, but that’s what’ll happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:50 AM
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But your post really moved me - it must be so hard being middle aged and still meeting people who want to fuck you. My heart truly does bleed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:38 AM
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Don’t we all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:35 AM
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What exactly are you expecting - a man in shining armour to ride towards you on a white horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:28 AM
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A 7.5 women will get approached - this sounds like you’re gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:27 AM
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Tinder is reality; the game is rigged, but it sounds like you just don’t want to play it - if you are as attractive as you claim to be, then everything has been tailored to your advantage; you only lose if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:24 AM
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Either you’re not a 7.5 or you’re bullshitting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:20 AM
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I’m very sorry to hear of your unfortunate predicament; please allow me to console you by playing a tune on my tiny violin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:19 AM
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This is a situation entirely of your own making; just go on Tinder and I will guarantee that you’ll have fifty plus matches with 24 hours - you’re a woman; the game is rigged for your advantage; you have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:17 AM
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I can’t envision a societal shift that would make “dating” an AI or having sex with a robot something that would induce anything other than ridicule. That’s not to say men won’t still do this, but most will keep quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:30 PM
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This is why we have viagra!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:28 PM
2

Women complaining about dating is like someone stood at the counter of a free all you can eat buffet, gorging themselves while complaining about the choice of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:33 PM
3

Sounds like you got yourself a slave…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:26 PM
6

That’s all it takes - you say “hi” and she immediately drops her knickers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:25 PM
9

Women get inundated with likes on Tinder et al so hold all the cards when it comes to dating; so while some of the men in the top 20% bracket they chase after won’t be interested, they’ll have a plethora of other options, so in that sense, women don’t get rejected in the same way men do. If anything, women are incapable of understanding what it means to be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:00 PM
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By “high value”, you mean rich, which doesn’t by itself equate to “good”, which is the crux of the matter - women feel entitled to a man who not only looks like a Greek god, but has a high disposable income and will be willing to subsidise their lifestyle. So there probably is a shortage of wealthy men with deep pockets who also look like models and are willing to date short, dumpy women who make zero effort in any aspect of their life yet still feel that they should be treats like queens, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:40 PM
-4

If she wants to use heroin, that’s her choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:50 PM
-4

She’s not your property and you have not right to “let” her do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:02 AM
47

This is MGTOW - “you can’t fire me, I quit!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:04 AM
9

“against the will off (sic) god” - alright, you’re obviously trolling; you had us going for a while, but now you’re laying it on too thick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:32 AM
19

If you’re dictating to your “Girl” where she can go and who she can be friends with, then you are neither nice nor kind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:30 AM
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OLD for women is like an all you can eat buffet with an infinite array of dishes; they can become increasingly picky and judgemental over what they’ll eat, but can still freely gorge themselves regardless while putting in minimal effort at their end. OLD has greater a cohort of selfish, entitled narcissists who are blind to their own shortcomings, think their shit doesn’t stink and that 80% of the male population is beneath them and who they therefore have a right to treat with contempt. I only …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:41 AM
7

Too many kids = unwanted kids who will know that they are unwanted and grow up with issues associated with that. Children aren’t pets or accessories that can be discarded when they’ve served their purpose, and creating life to fill a void or pass time is extremely selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:34 AM
2

Do you speak multiple European languages?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:45 PM
0

General narcissism, selfishness, hypocrisy - women shit, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:24 PM
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There’s no other viable way of meeting women - it’s Tinder or bust
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 PM
7

For a woman to be a femcel, there must be something seriously wrong with her - e.g., severe mental illness or/and physical disability/deformity (and even then, she’ll have options). If a woman is a “Stacy” then she’s not going to be a femcel full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:42 PM
1

Most of you are, to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:16 PM
13

Women want to both have their cake and eat their cake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:15 PM
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Porn does help though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:41 PM
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You want access to sex slaves - drop the pseudo intellectual bullshit and have the guts to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:41 PM
2

Unless you’re into BDSM, nobody wants to be “dominated” by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:48 PM
4

Why the hell would you knowingly have a child with someone you suspected would cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:49 AM
12

Broadly speaking, the men who feel strongest about paternity tests are highly unlikely to be able to maintain long term relationships, let alone father children in the first place - normal people don’t live in a state of perpetual paranoia about being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:53 AM
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“My pain is constant and sharp, and I do not hope for a better world for anyone. In fact, I want my pain to be inflicted on others. I want no one to escape. But even after admitting this, there is no catharsis; my punishment continues to elude me, and I gain no deeper knowledge of myself.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:28 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:59 PM
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I am no longer nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:42 PM
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“My pain is constant and sharp and I do not hope for a better world for anyone; in fact, I want my pain to be inflicted on others.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:41 PM
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If you’re nice, it’s the “wrong type of nice” so it just seems pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:26 PM
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I don’t even treat women with basic politeness anymore - e.g., I’m rude/hostile to female colleagues; I treat female retail/hospitality staff with open contempt; I ignore women in public, and never smile, make eye contact, etc. So I’m the opposite of “nice” - however, this has not helped with my dating game in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:21 PM
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“Assertiveness”, “leadership” etc., is code for arrogant, controlling douchebag, which proves the OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:13 PM
1

They may be ugly men, but are they also rich men? If a man’s wallet is big enough, being an ugly asshole ceases to be a issue for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:18 PM
3

Have you done a peer reviewed study on the sex lives of Western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:09 PM
4

Nobody is forcing you to have bad sex; either communicate with your partner or find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:57 PM
1

That’s a much better way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:51 PM
5

I wasn’t insulting anyone - I was suggesting that your description of sex as being disgusting was not the universal female experience you made it out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:23 PM
8

That contradicts everything you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:16 PM
10

I think this is more of a you problem - quite a significant number of women seem to enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:34 PM
6

can’t help but get wet 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:33 PM
3

Regular people aren’t on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:05 PM
1

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:05 PM
25

To take that analogy to its conclusion, women in the swamp actively seek out get dirty water and complain about it, but turn their up their nose whenever they encounter a clean supply
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:04 PM
7

Right…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:01 PM
35

The reality of dating as a man: a boot stamping on a human face - forever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:02 PM
5

Sounds like a classic “beta male provider”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:44 AM
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That’s the paradox - if a “genuinely nice man” has problems with dating, the immediate retort from women is that he can’t actually be genuinely nice, but must be a ‘nice guy’, and it’s therefore is fault that he has problems dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:30 AM
2

Like any relationship is going to survive that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:07 PM
3

Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:19 PM
7

It’s not exactly uncommon for children to be born to parents who aren’t married and, Game of Thrones not withstanding, I’ve never heard anyone use “bastard” in that context
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:01 PM
7

Who, in this day and age, refers to children born outside of wedlock as a “bastard”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:34 PM
1

Life is inherently absurd and meaningless, but culturally and psychologically, we aren’t equipped to deal with that, which leads to people seeking to search for and create their own meaning. One of the easiest ways to achieve this is to cast oneself as the helpless victim railing against an all powerful oppressor, and in the absence of real oppression, this charade can itself become absurd, i.e., white middle-class people of both genders engaging in a game of perpetual one-upmanship with regards…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:54 PM
2

I am calm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:45 PM
3

You’re the oppressed (and I use that term lightly) who wants to be the oppressor - it’s about removing the metaphorical shackles from one demographic and slapping them on another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:38 PM
2

Who is the “us” in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:32 PM
6

Feminism “has a coherent ideology with regards to the distribution of power” only in the sense that it wants to replace the patriarchy with a matriarchy and elevate upper middle class white women from being in second place on the hierarchy of power to switch place with their male counterparts and take the top spot. Red Pill and Blue Pill are different cheeks on the same arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:31 PM
1

In what context?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:39 PM
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Women don’t really want “good men” - they find them boring, creepy, weird, etc. They want the bad boy, the arrogant, swaggering douche bag who, when he’s interested, will provide her with excitement and inflate her ego, but for the most part will treat her like shit; yet she’ll cling to him regardless, convincing herself that she’ll be able to change him when she’s decided it’s time to settle down. But, inevitably, he’ll grow board and jettison her in favour of a younger version; so she panics, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:42 PM
2

If you don’t want kids, then don’t; you don’t need to justify your decision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:36 PM
6

If you love someone for “what they provided” then you don’t love them, you are using them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:43 PM
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Then presumably the other person is better off without you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:30 PM
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Staying with someone you don’t want to be with is “right”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:05 PM
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There’s nothing “wrong” about leaving a relationship regardless of the reason - it’s a matter of personal choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:09 PM
3

They are taking out of their arse - it’s like claiming that women are only interested in “Chad”; it has no basis in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:58 PM
5

Jesus - projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:28 PM
6

It’s all down to luck and being in the right place at the right time in order to meet the right person; sounds like you were lucky - many are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:27 PM
4

There’s a difference between being uncomfortable at him being dressed like a slob and ordering him not to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:22 PM
5

Fucking hell no!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:49 PM
7

Wanting to control how another adult dresses is completely unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:48 PM
6

Everyone should be free to wear whatever they want without judgement - if your partner tries to dictate what you’re permitted to wear, you should leave them immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:46 PM
3

Exactly - the last western society to implement “organised prostitution” was the Third Reich, and those women weren’t doing it voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:17 PM
2

Personally, I bathe twice a day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:10 PM
0

By “organised prostitution” you mean sex slaves, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:04 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:12 PM
3

I assumed you would
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:42 AM
7

No, I genuinely don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:41 AM
7

Whose “agenda” is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:16 AM
10

Husband/wife is pretty old fashioned and denotes fixed gender roles/hierarchy - “partner” suggests a more equitable relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:16 AM
1

How did he get a gf without going on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:04 PM
2

That prevalence of cruising and cottaging in gay culture suggests otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:08 PM
3

Gay men are still men, so would obviously be interested in having sex on the first date - and as I understand it, they tend not bother with the dating bit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:43 PM
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Out of interest, what else are women good for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:31 PM
6

It is you’re gay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:29 PM
3

No - women have it easy because you objectively do; every aspect of modern dating is tailored to and revolves around your whims and desires. You are the gatekeepers of dating/sex/relationship/love, you are only ever single by choice, and when you decide it’s time to “settle down”, you have a limitless pick of potential beta make providers who will support you financially regardless of how poorly you treat them. Use all the psychobabble you want, but it doesn’t alter the indisputable fact that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:15 PM
4

You can’t fire me - I quit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:56 PM
4

The “master manipulator” myth is just an excuse to justify women’s shitty choices - the indisputable truth is that most of them are drawn to douche bags like moths to flame; they wilfully choose to be with men who will treat them like shit, but will never accept any responsibility for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:58 AM
3

They’re talking about the collapse of western civilisation, so I think we can guess the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:55 AM
5

So your solution is that people should be coerced into having children under the threat of social exclusion in old age - i.e., your only worth as a human being boils entirely down to how many crotch droppings you’re responsible for breeding, and anything else is null and void; so one could devote their lives to their community, selflessly help and support others, and enrich countless lives, but in your dystopia, none of this counts for shit because they didn’t do their duty and procreate for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:52 AM
7

If you’re a 4/10 and the girl of your dreams is a 9/10, then she’ll stay in your dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:43 AM
4

There’s still a need to be realistic - if you’re a 4/10 and refuse to date anyone who isn’t a minimum 9/10, then you aren’t going to date full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:27 AM
1

People on the whole aren’t included to commit murder, and the minority who are generally don’t worry about legalities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:27 AM
3

I think that study may be a tad biased, given who commissioned it. And I don’t think divorce is great; I just don’t think people should be forced to stay married
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:17 PM
1

True for many, but not for me, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:05 PM
5

A functioning community/state which requires half the population to loose all agency and bodily autonomy is not one I would want to live in - I’d happily work towards its violent destruction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:47 PM
4

You think Mesopotamia only got off the ground because women were forced to remain virgins until marriage while the men got to fuck around beforehand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:46 PM
1

Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:39 PM
0

Specifically which civilisation are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:37 PM
6

Again, best outcome for whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:57 PM
13

Problem there is, thanks to Tinder et al skewing their perception, most average women now believe that any man bar “Chad” is beneath them so won’t countenance the notion of dating someone they are actually looks-matched with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:49 PM
8

You were spoilt for choice? How unfortunate - please allow me to play you a tune on my tiny violin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:47 PM
7

Worked in the sense that the woman had no agency and couldn’t leave regardless of whether she was unhappy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:46 PM
3

Been there; done that; got condemned to the friend zone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:27 PM
6

I didn’t activate dislike women until I joined Tinder; I didn’t hate women until I joined Bumble - now hiding my contempt irl is becoming impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:26 PM
6

Virgin till marriage didn’t work for anyone, particularly the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:25 PM
2

Do you work for Tinder or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:19 PM
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