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| 28 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do? | Fundamentals | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 07:27 AM |
| 22 | Why is night game so much harder than day game? | Field Report | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 07:42 AM |
| 18 | Is it even worth learning night game? | Fundamentals | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:11 AM |
| 10 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20) | Logistics | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 07:26 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when the idea of a tinder date gets shot down | Logistics | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Do all girls go to club with their boyfriends? | Fundamentals | Electronic_d0cter | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:21 PM |
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| 4 | How do I get the attention of a girl who sees messages and gives me a reply after so long?Don't | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | If the secret to dating is being present, in the moment, how can you do that while actively trying to date?Have a life more interesting than dating. At this point I talk to every woman like I want absolutely nothing from them because I'm trying to become a professional fighter and unless I get the sense someone will genuinely enrich my life I don't wanna talk to them | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 06:17 AM |
| 5 | Fuck / date closing on public transportThis is way above my pay grade. If you can go from open to close on public transport good for you | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatMeditation, being present in the moment should be the goal | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to and bond with women in a non-romantic way especially in social settings (college, gym etc) as I do with men?Genuine interest, good intentions. It truly doesn't matter what you say but why you're saying it if people sense you have good intentions they won't react negatively | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Flake looking likely. Do a takeaway?Commenting cause I'm in the same situation | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?I would say yes, there are interesting people everywhere there are people. I would also say bars are per capita the worst place to find good women | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl or plan logistics if you're homeless?Bro get your priorities straight. Women do not like homeless guys for a biological reason, fix that first before you distract yourself | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:25 AM |
| 8 | How to you guys maintain your confidence when shit goes wrongStop viewing rejection as a bad thing. Your life is good without her it'll be good after. You have nothing when you approach you might have something after | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Which books do you recommend to start?And thats exactly why it's good. If you're a good person with a decently interesting life you don't need to follow some bullshit like mystery method you just need to talk and be ok with her liking or disliking you because ultimately rejection is never a negative thing. It might sting at times but it always has a purpose. The quality of relationships I get into (quantity isn't even badly affected either) is way higher when I'm being totally honest, making the jokes I want to make, telling the sto… | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 14 | Which books do you recommend to start?Models, don't read anything else in terms of books or anything on this sub. The less you know about pua the better | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Texting after cold approachFuck no lol, set up a date | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | whats the best place/ways to tell in a bookstore?You don't need to whisper in a bookstore that's only library's. You can have a full conversation in a bookstore and the location hands you free openers and usually a shared interest. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | whats the best place/ways to tell in a bookstore?Bookstores are probably the best day game location bar none. You can filter women based on the type of books they read and you instantly have something in common | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 22 | What is your game centered on?Self amusement, good intentions | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Hi I need help with getting girls pleaseRead the book models | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be friends first or ask her out?Why do you want to act though? Acting is more difficult than not acting. And you vastly overestimate your acting capabilities. Serial killers don't have empathy because of a mental condition. If the average person spends the amount of time it takes to become close friends with someone he's insanely attracted to the woman will know unless she's inexperienced. Hell laugh a bit too much, hell lay on compliments a bit too heavy, it's playing not to lose not playing to win and it's pathetic | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find single girls?Anywhere tbh | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be friends first or ask her out?Dishonest communication, neediness | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it better to be friends first or ask her out?Because becoming close friends with someone while simultaneously wanting to sleep with them is a conflict of interest | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it better to be friends first or ask her out?Close friends ruins your chances, friends can be ok but you gotta make a move within a month I think | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:57 AM |
| 3 | How should I manage multiple women?Are you trying to have relationships with all these women or just seeing where it goes? I'd say pick 3, this is impossible to have time for if you live a good life and I can't imagine it's fun either | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Laughter being anti-seductiveYeah you can have straight up bad social skills and still seduce women if your body language is good | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How to handle the "I'm not ready" type of situations with girls?"I understand" and change subjects or try to release tension somehow. There's nothing wrong with going for it it's only creepy if you don't immediately accept the answer without questioning it | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?This isn't middle school dog, crushes are overrated and there are more women out there. You should wing conversations for the most part because it's honest communication. I don't seduce women I show them who I am and they either like me or they don't I don't gain anything by trying harder to make certain women like me | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average height6" is a lot where I'm from | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 04:12 AM |
| 17 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightBeing married with children isn't always a good thing. Grow up | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 04:11 AM |
| 0 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyThat's just saying co dependency is bad, what about the 45% who don't divorce? How do you know those ones aren't beneficial, that's almost half A good Relationship won't solve all your problems but it'll help | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to Keep Up with All the Seduction Masters Here - How Can I Become a Real Man?Models - mark manson and don't read anything else just practice the stuff in that book | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to Keep Up with All the Seduction Masters Here - How Can I Become a Real Man?Honest communication, it's really as simple as those two words | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 03:25 PM |
| 4 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I LearnedWhere's the best place to do this? I find street game is too unreliable and clubs are way too loud. Is there like a middle ground | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 04:46 AM |
| 70 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I LearnedThe thing that helped me the most with approaching women is standup comedy. It's hard to give a shit about what a random girl thinks about you when you've went up on stage with 30 people looking at you and didn't get a single laugh. Horrible experience but it really puts in perspective how insignificant it is you're also not afraid to go for jokes and can even reuse some things | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | its so easy to just not engage or strike up a convo with a girl who you make eye contact withMaybe but even then you'll probably be dealing with women in higher level social circles that don't need to do the approaching. Also just saying "hi I'm x" is way easier than owning a boat | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyI mean I don't think you should be exactly looking to jump into any relationship but it definitely can help a lot | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 04:41 AM |
| 17 | its so easy to just not engage or strike up a convo with a girl who you make eye contact withVery few girls are going to make the first move it's happened me twice ever. Even if you're Brad Pitt attractive they won't usually | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:34 PM |
| 179 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyI disagree, a truly meaningful relationship can be very fulfilling and help you improve certain parts of yourself and you also improve parts of the other person. It's a significant part to happiness if you find the right person of course it doesn't solve every problem you have but even if all problems were solved we'd just create more anyway. One night stands and hookups are what keep you unfulfilled | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls in public if they keep eye contact/check me out from top to bottomI really don't think it's that deep, enough women look/smile at me if I look/smile at them that I don't really want to go up to someone who didn't do those Maybe it doesn't mean anything but also humans are programmed to look at things they like subconsciously and it's also easier to start a conversation if she's looking at me and sees my mouth moving so I just prefer it | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)Completely agree. Models was probably the most immediately life changing book I've ever read and I'll shill for it and the stuff inside it whenever I get the chance. I can't believe I never realized something so simple as "it's not about the amount of relationships you have but the quality" without being told it | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls in public if they keep eye contact/check me out from top to bottomBecause they haven't displayed any interest in your presence | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls in public if they keep eye contact/check me out from top to bottomNothing necessarily about me the interaction will usually just be more difficult if you don't get a choosing sign | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 02:11 AM |
| 10 | Why do girls like being ignoredThey don't they just don't like to feel like you need them | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls in public if they keep eye contact/check me out from top to bottomPretty much. Eye contact isn't a high bar and it means she at least acknowledges my existence | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)I read one a while ago that I hate the title of but the stuff in it was pretty good I think it's called emotional intelligence and why it's more important than IQ. In truth though it really is as simple as "if I was the person in this story, how would I feel" "if I was asked this question would I feel uncomfortable sharing or being asked to share" etc. basically just be in touch with your own emotions so you can project them to other people So for example I know a girl that has some heavy childh… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)Of course, id also recommend reading into emotional intelligence as well as honest communication. That's gonna make you a better communicator than basically everybody because most do neither Also honest communication especially is really ugly at first it gets worse before it gets better for sure | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being logical and start being fun around girls? (Didnt find any similar threads)Be present, practice meditation. Try to amuse yourself | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Ask for Instagram/number?You're overthinking it, if you approach in a crowded place or even just somewhere with a decent amount of foot traffic most people aren't going to immediately think you're a creepy rapist, and if they did they'd just get someone around to help rather than give you personal details You're just putting the ball in their court, making it very easy for them to progress things and get to know you if they are at all interested but you cant expect everybody to respond positively, they might have a boyf… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls in public if they keep eye contact/check me out from top to bottomI mean I would try to get at least one choosing signal, a smile, eye contact something. It shouldn't be that hard | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating - What does slow game look like?I don't think you can do it. I like slow game too but it only works with a certain type of woman and most of the people on dating apps are not that type of woman | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:14 AM |
| 18 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)Just be honest with your feelings. If the girl oversteps a boundary tell her and tell her you won't tolerate it depending on what it is. If you want to make a joke but are afraid she won't laugh just do it anyway because if she's the right one she will. If you feel it's the right time to tell her an emotional story about your dog dying and how you weren't the same for a year afterwards go for it. Again don't do this as a method to get girls just do it as a way of communicating. Do this with men,… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:08 AM |
| 18 | Don't try to negotiate with her (eye opener)Vulnerability, try to get her to be vulnerable after being vulnerable yourself. It can't be performance though it has to be genuine vulnerability | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Is Models by Mark Manson basically saying you should act like you have Asperger’s?Not really he's just saying you should be honest because it builds trust and helps filter out incompatibility. You should still be charismatic just be open, vulnerable and comfortable with the flaws of yourself and the stories you have to tell. Also for the stuff in the book to actually work you need to be an interesting person with good self awareness (which isn't too hard and is much more fulfilling than the alternative methods for getting girls) otherwise you're gonna be trying to get the boo… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?Maybe if you play it right, it's hard to say cause it's a very situational piece of advice. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 05:52 AM |
| 9 | how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?Try to bring the subject there. Playfully misinterpreting things they say as sexual is my favorite way to do this. I try to get them to dive in to the subject first though | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:27 AM |
| 6 | The most honest PUA/dating coach?Infield is not hard to get examples for brother shit most mystery infield I've seen is with sloppy drunk women or at the very least tipsy low quality women it's nothing impressive. If you try enough with enough women you can get a good infield example eventually. The much more important part is how many people have been good enough at mystery method that they could keep up with the act and all the bullshit stories for any meaningful amount of time. If you have to remember a fucking checklist of … | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 10:55 PM |
| 67 | The most honest PUA/dating coach?Mark Manson is the best dating coach/pua and I will die on this hill. For anything outside of hunting for one night stands (which honestly sex is good but after a certain point this is just something you do so you don't have to work on yourself and face hard truths) honesty is the way you're going to find an actual meaningful connection | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do women think I want to hang out as friends?You didn't escalate early enough or she just didn't see you that way Also if it's someone you like and you have time don't say no, the chances are she has other hot friends who have a similar personality also friends are hard to make | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:52 PM |
| 0 | How do you kiss close at a nightclub?How do you find these places | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.This is pretty inspiring. Good shit dude | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 07:59 AM |
| 36 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Nice cock bro | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 07:58 AM |
| 10 | What's the game plan in a night club?Wait this actually makes a lot of sense for my problems with night game Do you mean just moving and having short conversations with a lot of different sets? That's a good strat | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Approaching a girl at high schoolIt's not complicated whatsoever lmao | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 06:12 PM |
| 20 | Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?Yep, I couldn't approach at all when I lived in a small town now my aa is so much less just because I know I'll never see this person again unless it goes well | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 04:59 AM |
| 7 | My therapist says I have to try talking to girlsI know why they do it they just shouldn't | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 04:59 AM |
| 9 | My therapist says I have to try talking to girlsIt's not good to rely on substances | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 04:42 AM |
| 4 | I'd love some adviceTry to approach in person if you can. Just go up to women you don't find attractive first and ask for directions then go to attractive women and ask, then give a compliment after you ask, then have a conversation etc. I'm the most socially anxious person in the world and it takes very little time to progress to the next stage The chances of finding anything meaningful online especially when it seems like you're not good at talking to women is 0 in my experience | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:39 AM |
| 2 | How long should the conversation be before asking for the number?Like anything it depends. You could ask for it after 30 seconds or after 15 minutes or longer. Good rule I heard is try not to settle for an unsatisfying close try to build rapport figure out logistics and get an insta date or something better | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | I approach 10 people. Now what?Seems like a good motto for life lmao. Some of the guys on this sub in particular are complete losers | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 07:17 AM |
| 3 | I approach 10 people. Now what?What does this cryptic shit mean lmao | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 06:56 AM |
| 1 | I approach 10 people. Now what?And what's wrong with this advice? How do you get good at things? | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?Someone can offer non sexual value to your life without being a genius. It's entirely possible (perhaps likely) that you're not as smart as you think you are either | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 07:50 PM |
| 3 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?That's creepy not just cringe | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:43 PM |
| 6 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?Ok this isn't gonna answer your question but you need to do some work on yourself before you worry about women | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | 1,000 approach inner game mindsetThe first sentence goes for literally everything. When you're results oriented and you focus on "winning" you become afraid to play around and try new things. Y'all should read the books "the art of learning" and "the will to keep winning" | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)This is your opinion, I just disagree heavily with it. Being goofy isn't even a bad thing, being unconfident is. You build confidence by doing something and realizing it's not as scary as your mind made it | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)This is a pretty depressing world view that is just straight up wrong but sure If talking to women makes me nervous and I'm not able to be present when I talk to women the solution is to talk to more women so my brain realizes my anxiety is wrong and nothings gonna happen. At the end of the day whether or not I'm a cringe motherfucker is completely subjective so it's not something that needs to change as long as it's who I actually am I agree pick up community can be weird but if you do it right… | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:26 PM |
| 17 | Why would a woman be mean to the guy they like?To test him | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean if McGill had a wrestling club or a gymnastics club I'd do it but I don't really have time to go to a club for anything non MMA related | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Strong disagree, how do you get good at anything without doing it over and over. Talent doesn't exist just hard work this has been true in literally everything I've ever done | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | What techniques one can use to help a girl be more interested in the conversation at the beginning of it?Just move on and approach someone else, maybe wear a fedora and look like a goofball like mystery but that's super fucking lame. At the end of the day you want a fuck yes or fuck no reaction you might be able to convince a women who wasn't too interested to go out with you but I'd much rather spend my time getting a girl who is interested to go out with me | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean they probably will be cringe as fuck but they'll never not be cringe if I dont start getting a fuck ton of reps in | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I can believe it worked at night in a bar but it would definitely get a terrible reaction on a college campus during the day | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean it's good that they take their jobs seriously but like I'm just finding it hard to imagine anyone is gonna go to security about some guy asking for directions to go meet his friend, maybe having some small talk and then giving a compliment and maybe attempting a number close depending on how it goes. Oh the humanity someone had an extremely normal conversation | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)That doesn't seem like a huge deal if I don't go there and it's not like I'm going up and saying "You, me sex now!" Id like to think I'm somewhat socially calibrated. I just wanna get reps in in a low stakes environment so I can move on to scarier situations | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I hate bars and night game is way harder as a beginner cause escalation is way more intense in a bar/club + I have to pay like a 40$ cover Everytime I go out. I've had some success with street game at night but it's hard to find enough people to get the reps | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean one of my friends got invited to a college party through cold approach | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean the act of going out for game is weird in general imo but I dont think it's harmful or inherently creepy and it feels like a great place to a ton of reps in since literally everyone is someone I'd want to approach and I know we at least have some generational things in common | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I mean like 35k people attend the college surely I'd have to go through like half the college for that to become an actual thing people say + have legitimate sex offender levels of game no? Im lucky if I approach 3-6 girls when I go out 18k seems way out of my league | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)I see people walk their dogs through it from time to time. Surely there's some reason for a college age person to be at a college even if they don't go there | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)You can join a club if you don't go there? | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)It's McGill in Montreal. I see a lot of people walking their dog around here just because the campus is so nice so I feel like I could have some more plausible deniability than in a regular campus for sure | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Would this have been weird?We need more mark Manson's in the pickup community than mystery. This is so easy anyone can do it and it's also genuine | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueBe sensitive, vulnerable and present | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 05:18 AM |
| -1 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?Speak English and forget the stupid terms you learn here | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it even worth learning night game?Yeah this is mostly my goal | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it even worth learning night game?And how do you approach in night game? Do you do it solo ever? I find myself bordering the perimeter like a sexual predator for basically the whole night. It's genuinely pathetic lmao. Do you just go up and touch them then start talking after eye contact. If you try to make eye contact do you look around the venue looking for eye contact, do you move when you dance etc. what does it look like when night game is successful for you? Some nights I might work up the courage to touch a girl on the ar… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Is it even worth learning night game?Makes sense but I don't really find clubs enjoyable I just go there cause that's kinda the stereotypical place to meet women. Are there any other places women go at night or are clubs my only option? | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Is it even worth learning night game?Like yes I should or yes I shouldn't bother? I think it's the fact I have to make physical contact to approach in a club that makes it feel impossible for me. I had to start using the gay guys that approach me to do my approaches for me lmao | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:24 AM |
| 9 | Is it even worth learning night game?Yeah I think my problem is I don't have any friends into clubbing cause I'm in a new city so I just end up going alone | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it only me that it all seems too complicated?Why not, I went out with a girl with chrons disease before and one with IBS too. Women are people, people worth your time won't hold something out of your control against you | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it only me that it all seems too complicated?Everytime your brain says something negative combat it in your head and challenge why what it said is wrong | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it only me that it all seems too complicated?My advice is to get away from this sub, don't learn any of the pickup terms. Avoid mystery all together it's complete horseshit and just go out and approach | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 0 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongI mean if you're a normal calibrated person you're not going to prison for talking to someone. If that's a worry you need to work on yourself.... HEAVILY | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 04:55 PM |
| -1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I was in tinder for months and still swipe from time to time never went on one date using it. Irl is so much easier | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman hornyThis is incredible stuff wow | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studioIs the mom hot? | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 14 | Not having luck with British girls in Greece, advice?Game is pretty much just treating women like your sister and over sharing more than you would with your sister | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:40 AM |
| -2 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Disagree with this, I do stand up there's one guy in particular I know he's 3'5, sounds like a child, is by no means attractive and still gets laid..... A LOT because he's funny as shit and has a good personality Looks don't matter much | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to approach guys?I was born in Europe, I struggle to think of a place where cold approach wouldn't work, it works in the Netherlands, Ireland, UK, France and Italy for sure, id imagine maybe itd be harder in a place like Germany but I've never been | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to approach guys?This would definitely work in Europe, Europeans aren't saints that would say no to free sex | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm not needy yet I still get 0 hoesI mean I say coherent stuff, but I try to be as unafraid of rejection as I can and just portray my true self I mean obviously I don't want to be rejected it sucks but if I get a girl by doing a fake personality she's gonna see through it after we fuck once or twice | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 03:20 AM |
| 0 | I'm not needy yet I still get 0 hoesI think you are needy from this comment, if you're trying to come off as anything you're doing the wrong thing | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 7 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workYeah but it's a stupid defeatist attitude that's easily disproven | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workHow do you know when you haven't tried? | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Just met a championI mean it's not the go to but it's not that crazy of a thing to say depending on the conversation | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:19 AM |
| 4 | Just met a championThis is flirting depending on how you say it. If you tell a woman you're gay when you're clearly hitting on her or clearly physically escalating with her that is flirting | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?That's complete and utter bullshit. Youre so much of a victim you think the entire universe is conspiring against you, that's just straight up narcissism News flash buddy, you're not special, the universe isn't going out of its way to keep you down. Take accountability for yourself accept the fact that youre the person who got yourself where you are and work hard until you get out of where you are. At the end of the day there are harder things in life than getting a girlfriend. If you consistent… | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 11:05 PM |
| 13 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?People want to gatekeep losers like me from living a normal life. Your victim mindset and low self esteem are keeping you where you are. Lose these self limiting beliefs and take 100% accountability for your own actions. Blaming others does absolutely nothing for you, you have to deal with the consequences either way but when you blame others you take the power away from yourself | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl wants to fuck?How is that passive it's as direct as you possibly can be without being creepy | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 4 | How do I know if a girl wants to fuck?You should just know instinctively. Usually if you think you could fuck her you already could've an hour ago The signs are usually lots of touching, being alone together, being very close physically etc. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 02:07 AM |
| 21 | I’m (23m) the only man at a new job, how should i make the most of this?Make friends with them, meet them outside of work. Try to get into their social circle or get them to introduce friends to you, don't fuck your coworkers unless there's really something there, it sounds like more fun than it is | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Shame with publicly dating a much older womanIt's NYC dog, no one gives a fuck. Aside from that older women are a fantasy for a lot of dudes if you're into it and are getting into a lot of prestigious clubs good for you | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Why You’ll Never Get Better At GameI mean it's good advice and a pretty good reality check. Most guys get paralysis by analysis, they stay on subs like this read books, put effort into learning dumb shit like the mystery method before they ever try the easiest option and just walk up and say hi | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Limited Window of OpportunityNo offense bro but I think you need to hear it, not having lips is a pathetic excuse for not being good with women. Working on your defeatist personality is more important than anything you could do looks wise | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | websites to get free coursesJust read 1 book (models by Mark Manson, all the rest might work but you'll be miserable long term because girls will keep leaving once they find the real you isn't what they liked in the first place) and go out and do it, it's easy to fall into the trap of taking course after course reading book after book and staying right where you are because you're not actually going out and talking to women | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Limited Window of OpportunityDo you have any success with women? I can tell you with 100% certainty that you're the problem here | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Got a number what nowWhat kinda question is this lmao | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Do you think someone with autism could play this game?Yeah as cringe as it sounds autism is sort of a superpower atleast where skill development is concerned. I'm not diagnosed but I'm fairly certain I have some level of autism, I can focus on martial arts for like 9 hours a day and not get bored most super dedicated people can maybe do it for 4 hours most average people will do it for like 4 hours a week, I'm able to get so much better so much faster than everyone else | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it over?I mean failing twice doesn't really mean much, I know people who Id consider good with women who failed much more than I've even tried. To get good you have to fail | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it inherently wrong to change yourself?A non zero amount of people say Hitler did nothing wrong. People are idiots | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?It is the only good advice. performing might get you laid but you'll be wondering if she likes the real you and women are smart enough to spot incongruency so you'll get dumped pretty quickly | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 11:04 PM |
| -1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionNo one is a natural, sure some people can be some degree better but after a certain point it's just experience. You don't have to be studying the game 24/7 to pick up on social dynamics | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 03:57 AM |
| 12 | Watching friend picking up a girl made me reconsider everythingI'm convinced this shit is actually extraordinarily easy I just overthink it way too much | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 12:47 AM |
| 9 | Why is cold approach so addictive?I mean improvement is addictive, improvement coupled with an immense biological reward can only be good | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls without asking questions about environment / venueDon't use canned lines for anything. Especially those corny "are you an x because x" kinda pickup lines. Just go up say something about the environment, something she's wearing, something about her appearance (that she can change, hair, tattoos etc.) etc. then just have a conversation with added sexual tension | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 08:25 AM |
| 17 | How do I stop being a pussy and do what I set out to do?Nope, I'm just an aphrodisiac for gay men apparently. Every night I go out I get approached like 3 times at least | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Any tips to attract women as a rising seniorThis or a yoga class | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | "Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure"Don't sit on the fence, make a move or don't | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is night game so much harder than day game?I mean it's something I learned In field no? | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?It's not useless advice it's just not a silver bullet solution. I used to be in your position and think it's terrible advice then I grew as a person and realized it is the only dating advice you need. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offShe probably found you creepy, don't approach from behind. Approach directly after eye contact or from the side of you have to | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:17 PM |
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