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Building PowerElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 12:00 AM
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Red Pill TheoryElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 01:19 AM
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CultureElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 08:48 PM
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Building PowerElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 05:47 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 02:23 PM
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Text GameElegantCyclist/r/seduction27/01/20 12:24 AM
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GeneralElegantCyclist/r/MensRights21/02/20 09:57 PM
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CultureElegantCyclist/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 01:07 AM
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these
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:20 PM
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No ultimatums. Do you actually want a relationship leading to kids, or do you want to fuck a bunch of hoes? If the latter, she can still be useful
/r/askTRP20/01/21 05:10 PM
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On "quality" girls
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:17 PM
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social media is bad but, also, selection bias. "Why do the majority of women behave like this" they don't, the ones who do are prominent on social media, the ones who don't, aren't.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:15 PM
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This rule is kinda dumb for guys
/r/seduction16/01/21 07:35 PM
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This is also one of these situations where no matter what anyone says, life is going to suck for a while. There is no way out but through, like fighting against the Germans or Italians in WWII. If there is any kind of skill/practice op can do, like woodworking or something, he should try to do that. It won't make it feel better but will give him something else to concentrate on, some of the time.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 05:00 AM
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If OP does, save some money. Never buy a new motor vehicle. Five to seven year old used hybrids are the sweet spot of vehicles. If it floats, flies, fucks, or drives, prefer to rent.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:53 PM
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Short answer is it's been time to divorce for a while. Also, read the sidebar already.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:38 PM
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On "quality" girls
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 10:04 PM
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You need to work with a social skills therapist/expert to get un-anxious and un-confused. You also need to understand your relationship to drinking, which you don't right now. At some point in the next few weeks, she will not be your fiancee any more. What then? That's what you need to work on. Start with the side bar.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:26 PM
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Wrote out the algorithm because it applies to so many situations, particularly with flakey girls. It swifts searches and sorts who the time wasters are and who the pussy yielders are.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:33 AM
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Follow the algorithm
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:25 AM
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There is no magic bullet, only many compounding years of effort
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 06:11 PM
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Zero Hedge is an absolute treasure trove of Red Pills. The most important one being that the dollar is going to lose 20% of its value in 2021 and that you should protect yourself with digital currency and precious metals. This is the kind dubious financial advice that's all over the Internet. If you can't see someone's portfolio, you don't know what they actually think.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:27 PM
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https://twitter.com/redpilldadpua https://twitter.com/yoylopua
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:26 PM
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Not really forums, but blogs... Krauser PUA Red Pill Dad blog Kill Your Inner Loser Dalrock Roy Walker Days of Game The Rational Male Magnum Good Looking Loser Daygame Breeze
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:26 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty gross. Poor schmuck.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:46 AM
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Sign up for feeld and do sex clubs. She's that kind of girl. A wild-ride girl, not a settle-down-with-her girl.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:25 PM
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Give a copy of The Rational Male and tell him it's interesting. He'll learn the hard way.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:46 PM
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The best porn is homemade. These guys should be making it, not buying it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:44 PM
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OP doesn't realize that he's the real fool in the situation: almost no one can "use" another person without the "used" person's permission. OP had a bad experience because he couldn't or wouldn't say no. "Right off the bat, she'd flirt with exes, she'd download dating apps behind me." The thing he can't say yet is that "he destroyed himself" and "I am the problem." Until he's able to see that, he's not going to grow.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 04:20 PM
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Coaches and other mentors also tend to be good at spotting who has potential to improve and who is closed off to growth.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 06:06 PM
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They understand that woman can be disloyal, shit and stuff but they will also defend them saying NAWALT. And then they’ll add “You just had bad experiences with women”. Is it possible all these things are true?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:25 PM
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Status/coolness first, THEN evangelize for whatever the thing is. If you're cool, people will listen to you. If not, they won't.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:25 PM
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Also, we already have a generation of porn starlets. I'm old enough to have bridged the generational gap. Sometime in the last 10 years, the average girl went from reluctant to flash her gash for the camera to eager. We live in a magical new world where almost every attractive woman has nudes of her floating around. Obviously plenty of chicks would still show gash in the pre-smartphone era, when we had to use Canon/Sony/Konica-Minolta DSLRs, but the change in default is real.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:41 PM
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This is Reddit, yes, but you may want to read the link
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 12:47 AM
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Whether it is "too complicated" depends on which side of the divide a guy is on Is your Journey a process of: Uncovering a pre-existing SMV and personality that is attractive to women, or; Ridding yourself of a Pussy Repellent virus and then building an attractive man from scratch.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 12:22 AM
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Yes. They are great for sex.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:15 AM
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Chicks also have their own problems, many imposed by their evolutionary path. The male path is simple, "hot chick -> want to fuck -> try to fuck." More & hotter are better. It's pretty simple. Chicks... they're more complicated. They vary by time of month and many other factors. They're physically vulnerable to men. For chicks, there are often few costs to waiting... so waiting is a fitness test. There are always fewer hot chicks, than men who want to fuck them. Chicks get their value, and guys …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 08:56 PM
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You're welcome... but I should ask, how did my writing help you?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 07:37 PM
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"The fastest way to get redpilled is to read their messages" And so you will achieve enlightenment.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:56 PM
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Friend's girlfriend remarked how 'naughty' I was juggling more than one woman. I sat back in my seat, amused mastery, laughed it off. She then spent the next two hours, both during the dinner and the walk through the city after, basically hanging off my dick and wanting to know what else I get up to. Shoulda asked if they'd been to a sex club before. Particularly if she might have and he hasn't....
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 07:25 PM
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There's a guy named black dragon who has written about non-mono and being a player... he has some useful stuff but a lot of his website is him trying to sell lame ALPHA MALE 3.1 FOR WORKGROUPs MEGA CONFERENCE, and he bullshits too much for my taste, but he does have some useful ideas. Magnum has found bd's books useful.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 07:24 PM
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Talk to new girls.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:51 PM
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Most people with kids genuinely have little spare time and energy for friends w/o kids, and whose lives aren't set up for kid stuff. If you want to stay friends with them, the solution is to say that you'll go to their place, on a Friday or Saturday night, and bring or make dinner (for everyone). Then you have to want to hang out and play with their kids.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:32 PM
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Explain to her that monogamy is stultifying and you cannot practise it in good conscience
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:35 PM
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You should start a field report / lay report blog.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 06:38 PM
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long before
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:53 PM
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Site for chicks & homos. Nothing wrong with either...
/r/TheRedPill20/11/20 09:26 PM
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See guides at https://krauserpua.com
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:41 PM
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It is important to write your own blog and form networks that are censorship resistant, whether by administrators or moderators. Search engines also still drive a lot of traffic and you never know when the right person is going to be looking for a way out.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 07:27 PM
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I’m lifting and focusing on school but I’ve never been good with girls so I’ve only asked one out You get good by asking more out, practicing, and pushing through the pain. Chicks have life on easy mode in their teens through their mid to late 20s. Guys never have life on "easy mode" but can build value that pays back over decades. Keep practicing. There is nothing but practice.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 03:42 PM
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Most of us have made some version of that mistake: How much texting should you do to get the girl? Less than you think I made some mistakes similar to the original poster when I was younger, because I thought I needed to have lots of chats and dates with girls to make them comfortable with me and make them like me. Then I got a bit older and discovered… I didn’t need to do the long chats, etc., which sometimes led to dates and sex but often led to nowhere. A guy with things to do wants to sort g…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 03:40 PM
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As usual, reading this guy's positing history is more revealing than his comment, e.g.... Should I get a Guitar or a Punching bag ?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:29 PM
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How much texting should you do to get the girl? Less than you think
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 09:41 PM
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Read the sidebar, which is about precisely these kinds of issues.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 07:40 PM
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I just posted this to another comment, but it's just as relevant here. most gen Z girls will flake on you if you do that Having fucked a fair number of gen Z girls, this isn't particularly true: gen Z girls like fun, interesting, and exciting guys... just like all girls, everywhere, for all time. If you are the guy doing things and going places, you're inviting her along for the ride. If she misses the ride, she knows you're going to be meeting and talking to other girls (and fucking them). Do t…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 09:58 PM
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most gen Z girls will flake on you if you do that Having fucked a fair number of gen Z girls, this isn't particularly true: gen Z girls like fun, interesting, and exciting guys... just like all girls, everywhere, for all time. If you are the guy doing things and going places, you're inviting her along for the ride. If she misses the ride, she knows you're going to be meeting and talking to other girls (and fucking them). Do things. The time spent "building comfort over text" is better spent doin…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 09:56 PM
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Right. Also, How did you guys cope with this feeling? It can't be changed. Only the future is in play.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 11:52 PM
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About your rant: TRP content is mainly generated by younglings in the anger phase or younglings that think they have TRP figured out. Older guys who keep writing mostly write blogs. Blogs are indexable by search engines. Agree strongly with this: "A lot of people are angry at women because they think feminism is what women want, when actually today's feminism is bad for both men and women." Even most women who say they are "feminist" don't act like it in the sexual/dating marketplace.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 06:22 PM
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She's a great sex club exploration girl though
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:46 PM
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Tinder is about being jacked and having great pics.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 06:34 PM
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The one thing I'd say to defend his parents is that they're adapted to a different world than he lives in. If they grew up in Korea in the 50s - 70s (depending on their precise ages) they were accustomed to a level of privation middle class Americans can barely imagine. Even most poor Americans can barely imagine. Our background affects our worldview. They probably knew people who either starved to death or were on the verge of it. They knew a world where survival was everything. That's not the …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 08:13 PM
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Cause "we" do want to
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:36 PM
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Youtube is gay. Learn to read. That is why YouTube "red pill" sucks ass.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:05 PM
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A fine point and overall female "friends" are overrated
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 10:34 PM
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She's good for the sex clubs and naught more.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:42 PM
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she's not his girlfriend. react appropriately
/r/askTRP17/09/20 04:19 PM
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Status/coolness first, THEN evangelize for whatever the thing is
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 07:24 PM
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Sure it stands on its own.
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:31 PM
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Take her to the sex clubs
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:43 PM
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I came across a sub (adultery) by browsing another users comments, and decided to take a look. There’s a thread comprised of mostly married women, pinging ideas and adulterous experiences off of one another. Yes. 1. Selection bias. 2. Most of those "women" are men roleplaying.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 05:50 PM
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good looking guy game
/r/seduction30/06/20 06:29 PM
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It's a shit test
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:05 PM
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she regrets doing porn and was "taken advantage of" for doing it and being paid so little Women don’t think that women can make adult decisions and be held accountable for those decisions. It's funny watching so many women make the excuse that someone else was somehow responsible for their actions and choices. Giving evidence of the feminist lie.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:51 PM
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This guy is married to an insane woman. He should divorce her already.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:47 PM
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This is why guys need to write an anti-fragile blog, and create networks based on that... they are harder to kill than a centralized part of reddit
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:45 PM
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A ton of it is here https://theredquest.wordpress.com
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:40 PM
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It's useful to archive posts comments on an independent blog as well
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 11:25 PM
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http://theredquest.wordpress.com See ya later!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:03 PM
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Tell her to send the videos.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:36 PM
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Attention is the only tool modern men have
/r/seduction21/06/20 05:02 PM
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I like this field report about guys approaching outside of the biggest cities, because it demonstrates that daygame can happen almost anywhere. The real feedback is useful as well. Since this happened a few weeks ago, I had some time to think about the experience, and Investor’s game in general. Like I said above, I do think his game at 50 approaches is better than mine when I was at that level, he seems to be going for tougher sets than I was at that point. However, I did notice that whenever w…
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:10 PM
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Dr. Evil voice: "$100 billion dollars!"
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:28 PM
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Fuck enough of them. If one won't fuck you, move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:27 AM
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tinder is bad
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:43 AM
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I am much older than gen z but basically lots of kids (age 13 - 21) are retards and take some time to grow out of it. Same would have been true of my generation. we've got to try to help them do better
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:13 PM
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Female 'friends:' the comprehensive statement
/r/seduction15/05/20 03:09 PM
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you will either need the new iPhone, the new galaxy, or an actual camera. Yesz everything under those specs give noticibly poor quality and no, it cannot be edited over This point is completely true and it's generally not appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 04:59 PM
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many of my friends only talk there to me when they need to speak to me They aren't your friends. I smoke weed once a week or once every 2 weeks and just a little bit, its usually more a party thing and I dont feel it interfered with myself at all as its something I dont usually do Stop. I did read stoic already for a bit, but my mind is hard to control Keep going. But with all of this, I just feel like something is missing to give me the final push. And lately i've been questioning Focus. Less q…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:56 AM
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Get in the gym and get jacked. Delete Instagram. Social media is for chicks and cucks. Quit weed. Read Stoic philosophy. Start with the Meditations and then move to Ryan Holiday's books. Learn something useful. Doesn't matter what it is. Programming. Bike repair. Stop wallowing in yourself. There is no "guidance." There is only do. Go do.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 08:05 PM
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Not under 25 but people delete because it's retarded
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:56 PM
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Attention is the only tool modern men have and most men waste it.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:11 PM
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Elaborate
/r/askTRP27/03/20 02:41 PM
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Might as well take her to the sex clubs, when things open up again.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:27 PM
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Or a retard
/r/seduction09/03/20 06:05 PM
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Social media is retarded. Smartphones have made women flakier and flightier and less happy, but few will do anything about that. Women are still women and attracted to the things women have always been attracted to.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:52 PM
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reveal vs restructure
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:35 PM
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Honestly their used to be good advice on here (sometimes still is), but for the most part all I see on here now are “do this then do that, but don’t do this, if she does this then you do that, but wait till she does this first, then you do this. Make sure to touch her right shoulder but not too seductively, The better advice is on blogs, and most blog submissions get banned/removed, so we get what's left.
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:35 PM
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Don't get married
/r/MensRights21/02/20 09:58 PM
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Didn't Blackdragon coin the acronym "OLTR?" For example.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 06:33 PM
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One of the oldest tenets of the Red Pill is not to get married More stories, if you need them
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:36 PM
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You only see the tip of the spear
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:27 PM
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I was in a bar, just getting a bar after a daygame session when I’ve met Ivanna. She wearing a blue tight knee-long dress with red heels. I love red heels on girls. A blond with green eyes. She was with a girl just have a beer. I caught her looking at me a couple of time so I decide to approach. Her English was basic, her friend’s Engish was better so she has to translated from time to time. Her friend, Lena, was not hot, the chubby big bones kind. We just had a friendly conversation. I only did…
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:51 PM
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Now i just feel like crap. She literally said everything is fkn perfect with me and she is in love with my personality and everything about me. So if i just had the fkn balls to act and do something, this maybe wouldnt have happened. She is one of the best, sweetest and funniest girls i have ever met. She was always so good to me, barely ever ghosted, initiated meet ups, You need to reframe this: she is not the problem, you are, and so is your behavior. You should never have invested this much t…
/r/seduction28/01/20 01:34 AM
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These are the things that are possible at the top of the game, the levels that are not frequently discussed on newbie boards. In it, the writer describes how he can leverage one girl in his frame to meet other girls as well, a valuable skill, mindset, and frame for guys who have developed proficient seduction skills in general. Using Tinder or other online dating platforms with another girl seems more effective than trying to use them as a typical solo guy.
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:32 PM
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I'm not the writer, as you can easily tell.
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:22 PM
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Lots of guys are shit at texting, so this is useful. I know cause girls show me their texts and snaps from guys and the guys are usually terrible, needy texters. Getting into a good texting flow will take some time, but hopefully the guidelines I’ve presented here will help you get there quickly. Try as much as possible to FEEL the energy and “body language” of the texts. This will help the words come out more easily.
/r/seduction27/01/20 12:25 AM
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Doesn't matter what she's like. You'll meet others better than her. Feel the pain now, that's fine, but get a move on.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:11 PM
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Go talk to new girls. And lift heavy at the gym. If you can't lift, just imagine some other guy's sweaty nutsack smacking against her ass as he's railing her, then go up a few lbs and hit those extra reps.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:51 PM
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that isn't already out there? A lot of great stuff is out there but doesn't make it much onto Reddit.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:51 PM
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I also read a post probably about a month ago where a user talked about content being watered down. At first I brushed it off but now I think there's a lot of truth to it. In addition, the moderators remove a lot of the more advanced content. Or it gets voted down. So there's an eternal September issue.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:21 PM
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Well friends, let’s start with the bad news: it was a disappointing night out–and as one of the only guys in the community who seems to take his night game seriously, I’ll be honest… it stings. Night game has its benefits, though, namely, that a lot of chicks are going out open to get laid or sometimes even looking to get laid. Overall, pretty typical of night game, which by nature is very hit and miss, although it’s rare to have a night like this where I don’t get any numbers. That said, some n…
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:13 PM
7

Lots of guys are shit at texting, so this is useful. I know cause girls show me their texts and snaps from guys and the guys are usually terrible, needy texters. Getting into a good texting flow will take some time, but hopefully the guidelines I’ve presented here will help you get there quickly. Try as much as possible to FEEL the energy and “body language” of the texts. This will help the words come out more easily.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 12:00 AM
2

I left to a crying 3 year old that misses his father and the contempt of my ex wife. Three year olds also cry all the time. Be there as much as you can, but a toddler's emotions are labile.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Sex skills for guys. Regarding guilt, just practice. Keep practicing, keep affirming it's all good, and you will improve. You should have pushed for adoption not abortion, but that is over now.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:55 PM
21

The "incel" identity is retarded and one hopes that enough guys will find their way here and to similar fora to avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 04:25 PM
6

Dumb bitch is just carried by gender, without it she wouldn’t survive. You still don't get it. You let her in. You made the mistake. Don't blame others for your errors of judgment.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:47 PM
3

Get a restraining order and block her digitally. OP's fundamental problem is that he's a bitch and is still a bitch.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:47 PM
3

The more you are in the game the more you will see other darknesses as well.
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:56 PM
81

No shit. Daygame.
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:30 PM
10

Beg to differ. Let her babble and then lead the date right back to your bed. If she is annoying enough, accelerate to sex. Make sure you have a ball gag ready to go for her.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 12:01 AM
5

however in bed they are more or less starfish Then you have trained them poorly. You tell them what to do and how to do it, and they will get better. This is your fault, not theirs.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:32 PM
6

Disagree. It's never been a better time to cold approach. Women ache for it.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:21 PM
38

Game is about underlying value, value delivery, and environment, probably in that order. It is not possible to get around the underlying value issue.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 08:33 PM
4

there has been friction between us for a couple months Then get out before you're fired. is this litigatable? Sure. But not intelligently. That's why you're posting on Reddit and not talking to lawyers.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:18 AM
8

There are levels in game and Reddit's algorithm favors the new, not the old and experienced. Most guys get what they need and depart.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:18 AM
3

She's just saying she's a slut. That's it. Don't overthink.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:20 PM
3

I'll take the other side. Cheating chicks should know that cheating has consequences. He needs to tell.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:17 PM
7

Chicks are random
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:17 PM
1

Today.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:29 PM
8

Agree and amplify. Next.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:29 PM
2

Girl I'm plating atm She's a sex partner, not a girlfriend. He has no problem. He can laugh at the girl and tell her that men and women are not real friends. She'll deny. If he can do it playfully, he can generate useful doubt in her mind. He can also send the beta orbiter a snapchat of her bent over with his bare dick in her puss. Assert that dominance.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:28 PM
5

Chicks are random
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:44 PM
2

This is pretty close to how clubs really work. Guys who do it well are usually extremely good looking and socially connected to start with. You also don't see the guys posting about it or the girls they are getting. It's not that hard to get girls who are -3.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:57 PM
15

Most of this post is really about how to get injured. Maybe it will kind of work for guys under age 26.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 05:59 PM
1

I'm rarely surprised anymore.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:35 PM
3

Status/coolness first. We don't know what's going on with this guy from what he's said.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:34 PM
28

It's not hard. It's just up or out. Many guys fear rejection.
/r/seduction03/11/19 06:26 PM
1

There is the male equivalent of toxic feminism on here, and on other manosphere subs. There are guys that are more moderated and circumspect in their criticisms, and then there are guys who are like, "they are all witches!" If you have a run-in with a witch, it makes you distrust other women even more Also a good point. There are "levels" to a lot of these ideas too and many guys never access the deeper levels.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:08 PM
2

Yes. I wrote this in another comment, but if he consolidates them into a post of his own, I will delete this one, cause his comments are much better.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:06 PM
1

Dude, your comments are better than the original article. You should consolidate them into a post and I will delete this one.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:06 PM
25

My reading of this is not that complex and doesn't take 3,000 words of article: she was fucking nuts before. She's fucking nuts now. She'll still be fucking nuts tomorrow. The best thing anyone can do is stay away from crazy people. Not all crazy people are readily identifiable as crazy. But once you know they're mental, run. The poor joe she falsely accused of rape got caught up in this one's crazy. This girl is mental. It's like, If she is a women’s rights activist, sexual assault educator, or…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 04:16 PM
31

Most likely this will blow over. She's also more vulnerable than you. Spread rumors about her reputation and her reputation for false accusations.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:17 AM
2

Depends on the guy's underlying value. Also depends on SMV. If you are trying to date around your SMV, it's considerably easier.
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:59 AM
9

Chicks are random and once you internalize this fact a lot of things make sense.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:34 PM
1

I don't think you did, but you did reveal a lot about your own mindset and predilections.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:38 AM
12

Also depends on whether the OP is a social retard. If he has amused mastery the roid thing should make him laugh and be a DLV for the other guy. Obviously, the dumbass guy should be de-prioritized, but this is not a complex thing.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:37 AM
1

Go on. Tell us. Show us your work.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:32 AM
1

You have now convinced all of us of your intelligence... and reading skills.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:25 AM
1

There are 11 comments in this thread. Mine was the first. lol and you're calling me dumb. Okay, let's look at the sentence: The world is full of dumb people; do you really want to be another of them? "The world is full of dumb people" does not necessarily refer to you. The question "Do you really want to be another of them?" is not an assertion of your stupidity. You can and should do better.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 11:22 PM
5

You must not have seen my comment. If you don't have time to read and think, you need to get offline more. The world is full of dumb people; do you really want to be another of them?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:23 PM
13

This feels like it was written by a bunch of bitchy women, but it's good to see word about pickup getting out to a wider audience. Most guys are clueless and learning what women like is valuable and important. Much like THE GAME itself, even works that are somewhat critical of the process are important. Most guys don't realise their social skills are shite, their bodies are repellant to women (they eat sugar and don't lift), and women respond accordingly. Guys build fake success ladders online t…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 05:35 PM
1

This feels like it was written by a bunch of bitchy women, but it's good to see word about pickup getting out to a wider audience. Most guys are clueless and learning what women like is valuable and important.
/r/seduction07/10/19 05:33 PM
1

How in the flying fuck do you guys stay detached from multiple girls who display no red flags and are your EXACT type, basically the dream girls of your blue pill days? It's also possible that he wants a long-term relationship. I can't speak to that.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:00 PM
5

Female “friends:” the comprehensive statement Possible? Yes. Desirable? Probably not.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:53 PM
-23

Why chuck when you can have prime?
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:04 PM
1

Get her number. Or invite her to your place for a drink. Then try to fuck her. If you fuck her, it's real interest.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:29 PM
8

Just invite her over and raw dog her.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:54 PM
2

I feel the best time of my life will be tomorrow. And I'm working to make it that way today.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:54 PM
28

Quit Reddit. And pretty much all other social media.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:06 PM
6

Yes, I have noticed it. There used to be a very small amount of intermediate/advanced stuff. Now almost all of that is gone. I try to submit some. Usually gets downvoted. If you want to talk about the game, get past the bullshit, etc., you mostly have to look elsewhere. There are exceptions of course.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:23 PM
2

The kind of people who can do this don't ask many questions. They read, they learn, they implement. The kind of people who can't do this ask all the questions.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 11:30 PM
-1

Or ones you're attracted to.
/r/seduction20/09/19 08:43 PM
4

Likely true. There is a lot of random but this guy might be excessive. We also don't have enough data from him to say.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:33 PM
3

This guy can't even spell "you." So yeah, he's going to have problems. He also can't even describe his situation fully.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:14 PM
10

Go hit on new chicks. Next!
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:12 PM
1

ecosystems yah
/r/seduction14/09/19 04:30 PM
15

Yeah, it is weird how chicks trade sex tips with each other all the time, but when guys do it we shame each other. Getting your chick to use a vibrator while you rail her doggystyle is a powerful technique in the arsenal but the response is often, "Oh you must not be a real man."
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 05:56 PM
2

He needs to document everything and have a talk with his boss and preferably his boss's boss. He needs to tell them that he's not thrilled with working with her and would prefer not to because she creates an uncomfortable working environment. He needs to work through the bureaucracy and be the good guy hero.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:28 PM
1

Read. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:03 PM
2

If you are confident and don't let your ego be a problem, it won't be a problem.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:07 AM
13

I disagree with the real eyes wide open. You want old school? You take the good with the bad. The bad is you having to pay for shit. Deal with it.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:47 AM
4

'm concerned that if I jump ship now that will not look great on my resume (2 short employs in my recent work history). but yeah I've got to survive above all else This is not 1970. Frequent job changes are normal. If your employer or parents try to convince you otherwise, they are nuts. You need to change jobs to more money every 18 - 24 months.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:34 PM
41

When I initially found TRP I was thrilled to share my newfound wisdom with my friends and those around me. What happened was the exact opposite of my expectations. Both men and women were vehemently opposed to the ideas of female hypergamy, solipsism, “the wall,” etc. Rules for talking about RP concepts. The best thing to do is be admirable. No one listens to someone who isn't.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 12:07 PM
0

We have become an echo chambers. The reaction to this intelligent but dissenting post is a sign of it. There are others, too. It also depends on where the guy is in his journey. Most guys on Reddit are beginners, and that shows in what they upvote.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 09:04 PM
2

Of course they do. Most guys on TRP are not actually getting laid much and are reluctant to admit any perceived weakness. In addition, most women are passive and do not make plans or initiate. So if the guy stops initiating, the woman drifts away.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 08:00 PM
1

For good reason. You can do very indirect, situational openers, but you don't want to get a rep as "that guy." Volume cold approach works in big anonymous cities.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:40 AM
1

She's a casual fuck and that's it. Treat her as such. If you want a girlfriend, find another girl.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 12:35 AM
8

No. Nothing can. With game and skill, you can get many girls, but no guy can get ANY girl.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:12 PM
2

Someone needs to work on his reading skills.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 02:21 AM
9

In many cases yes, and that's a mistake. It also depends on the chick. Many damaged, fucked up, or insecure chicks dislike real honest communication and mutual respect. They get off on games, surprises, hot-cold, etc. Secure, intelligent chicks like a little bit of mystery and ambiguity but fundamentally like finds like.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:06 AM
9

Never talk to her again. Unfriend her on social media. Go hit up your #2, 3, 4 options. You did cultivate those, right? Right? No? Then go hit the game.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:30 PM
3

Be polite and send a follow-up text or call after the date.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:18 PM
2

Get a restraining order.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:38 PM
5

OP needs to find a community that will lift him up, not tear him down.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:40 PM
2

You have learned things. Make new mistakes in the future.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:02 AM
2

This chick is telling you she is a bad choice. Find a new one.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:52 AM
2

Finally, right on point. Get her into your frame first. Fuck first, bring her into your non-mono world second.
/r/seduction21/05/19 03:46 AM
1

I would prefer ankhs, druid symbols, etc, but that's fine. More here.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:48 AM
2

If you are a guy, you want to go where the chicks are and the dudes aren’t. I have said before that there are really three levels of game: 1. Your interpersonal game itself, 2. Your underlying value and 3. Your environment. Ideally, a guy will try to improve all three at once. If you have strong game and value, but a terrible environment, the game may still be very hard for you, because you are competing heavily against all other men. If the opposite is true, you may still succeed despite yourse…
/r/seduction20/05/19 02:15 PM
1

I don't like the term "polygamy" and prefer "non-monogamy." I wrote a free ebook explaining how to use non-monogamy as a game tool and how it fits in with the game overall.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 05:57 PM
2

Where do you get this? What are you quoting from? There is a difference between "have to go" and "choose to go." Japan is also not a poor country.
/r/seduction14/01/19 05:54 PM
7

Attention is the only tool modern men have. Focus your attention on making real-life things happen. You can do a little bit of texting, that's fine, but always be focused on making texting an unimportant adjunct to your real life. Today, this will also set you apart.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:36 PM
–

Other good books.
/r/seduction11/01/19 04:27 PM
–

RSD is really pro instagram because it is such a good tool for game RSD likes Instagram because they are catering to lowest-common-denominator guys who want to feel like Instagram is useful to them, when most of the time it is not. There are two social media strategies: Do almost nothing or go all out to win. I think the latter is a misuse of scarce time and energy for most guys.
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:59 PM
66

I wouldn't mind being with a woman who made more than me. I'd actually prefer it. Most women don't, though, and almost no attractive women do. It is true that, as more women go to med school, etc., they are going to make more money than most men. That's probably helping the high-earning female marriage rate decline. Women want to be with guys who they perceive to be higher status than they are. As women make more money, that becomes harder and harder, as their natural "peers" chase younger, more…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 10:56 PM
1

Yes. It's not that I'm unhappy in the relationship, I just want variety. You are possibly looking for non-monogamy.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:38 PM
4

I actually didn't know she was a slut which is the shitty part Take her to sex clubs and let her be your entrance into other chicks. Might as well let her non-monogamous nature work for you, instead of against you.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:54 PM
5

Yup. He's learning that chicks are random.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:57 PM
69

Invite her back to your place for a drink. Try to put your penis in her.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:26 PM
2

Read the sidebar. Read the books. Start with small steps and move forward.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:18 PM
6

Right. I have female friends I don't want to fuck. Most guys should spend less time on / with female "friends" and more time doing things, making things, and meeting chicks. Age seems to play a role too. The older the guy is, the better he is able to understand real friendship vs orbiting.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:15 PM
85

Also, OP, most guys do it via practice. You practice social skills, you practice lifting, you practice by starting very small and working your way forward.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:25 PM
1

Take her to the sex club and make her hypergamous nature work for YOU.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:41 AM
1

That article about misusing attention is amazing, thanks for sharing that You're welcome. I cite it fairly frequently and think it should go in the sidebar, as it's a fundamental issue most guys have problems with. I even had problems with it as a teen and in my early 20s, and I had the benefit of not having smartphones or even modern social media.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:54 PM
7

But at the end of the day you just aren’t a man that a woman would want to fuck Or he is in the wrong environment. He may also be misusing his attention. But you are right: He can only improve himself and improve his value-delivery system. I would also ask OP: are you doing daygame as well?
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:09 PM
22

There is only the hard way. Most choose the "easy" way and get burned for it. Those doing the easy way, want to see others doing the easy way. The true way is hard.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 09:11 PM
-1

I would have tried to put my penis in her. I found out later that apparently her boyfriend was at the party and saw all of this go down, but he didn't do anything about it, which i find is incredibly odd. May be a cuckold fetish guy.
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:11 PM
6

I too wonder about the deep psychology that keeps men in the game. At 22, though, I was happy to fuck like a rabbit.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:04 PM
2

But most are. Don't waste time looking for unicorns. Correct.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 04:00 PM
1

The real reason to do non-monogamy is to manage medium-term relationships and the "Where is this going?" conversation with chicks. That's it. Actual players know that most chicks won't stay in an uncommitted sexual relationship with a dude for more than a couple months, if that.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 03:58 PM
70

To what women say. Pay attention to what women do. Does daygame work on the streets? Yes? Then who cares what online feminists say.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 08:10 PM
12

Ask her to watch a movie with you tonight at 9. Or whatever night. Have some wine, watch a movie, kiss her, and escalate from there. Then break down crying, ask her to hold your teddy bear, and confess your sorrow at never being able to speak to Socrates yourself.
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:38 PM
1

It's fine. There are a lot of good books. Spend 90% of time in the field and 10% reading.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:53 PM
2

Minimize social media, maximize real-world interactions. I have used some snapchat (this is entertaining), as young chicks love it, but I use it 1:1.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:43 PM
3

Women do the most to shame other women. This is why a guy is well-served to be non-judgmental and discreet. Guys who can shut the fuck up will often do better in a given social milieu than guys who cannot STFU.
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:09 PM
19

Build your business, meet people in real life, fuck hot chicks, develop skills, go to the library, keep reading books, hit the gym.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 06:11 PM
1

No. "LDR" just means "game as normal, and you'll have an option to fuck her." Non-monogamy can be a level of game, if a guy treats it as such.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 05:03 PM
31

Women over 30 are no longer looking for just sex like younger women I'm considerably over age 30 and this isn't true at all. It varies a lot by the woman. Women over age 30 who have partied a lot and are tired of partying, are looking for a provider guy. Women over age 30 who have gotten out of a marriage or LTR... watch out. They are ready to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 04:25 PM
36

Another story about why we need TRP. And mandatory DNA testing, now.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 08:19 PM
2

Here you go.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:53 PM
10

Or just say "Sure, whatever." Invite her over to watch a movie, then try to bang her. Actions > words.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:15 PM
3

OP has learned his lesson and will not lend money to people in the future. That's what he should do.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:02 PM
-1

I said in another comment, "As a rule, if I see the same question or idea three or more times, I write a comprehensive answer and then link to it." This is that comprehensive answer.
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:27 PM
2

You are better off reading the comprehensive writing of one or two experienced gamers than the bite-sized material on Reddit. See the blog link sidebar for good choices.
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:17 PM
2

That's why I wrote it. I see this kind of query all the time. As a rule, if I see the same question or idea three or more times, I write a comprehensive answer and then link to it.
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:09 PM
3

Quit social media and go cold approach. You are mostly wasting your time "approaching" chicks online.
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:42 PM
35

A lot of women want to be perceived one way, even as they desire something else. A lot of women also want one thing in a "cold" state and another thing in an aroused state. A lot of attraction is politically incorrect.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 02:37 PM
4

Also, don't overthink it. Make the first date cheap enough that it's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:41 PM
12

Most recent is divorce: wife said she would never take my money now the bitch is getting caked off my hard work Don't get married, people.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:40 PM
15

Sure. If you don't, someone else will. Try to fuck her. If she says yes, great. If she doesn't, move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:51 PM
0

Here you go.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 03:52 PM
6

What action or lack of I should be taking? Try and impregnate her, so her parents will have something to be mad about in the short term but blessed about in the long term.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:14 AM
3

I only approach them on the metaphysical level, through aligning our chakras.
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:50 AM
1

Give her a copy of the book Deep Work by Cal Newport. Find an important project and work on that during typical work hours. Rely to her once or twice per day, in bulk. Women are like puppies and should be trained as such. Show, don't tell.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 02:21 PM
21

Men should consider deleting or minimizing social media in general. Today, that will also make you stand out as a man.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:08 PM
2

These. Especially Warrior, King, Magician, Lover.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:04 AM
1

it's not common to use texting for logistics only, especially in the age of social media, you have to be able to hold a conversation in text. Yes, it is common. No, you don't need to be able to. You need a bit of spiking and comfort. That's it.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:29 PM
1

You're asking if you want to be non-monogamous (that's what an LDR is). Do you? I've written a lot about that (see posting history), but it's not for everybody.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:29 PM
1

Ask her out for a drink.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:22 PM
2

Non-monogamy is on-trend. What college do you go to? Male-female ratio there may be an issue. If you're one of the few cocks around, you'll do in a pinch. Many women with high school BFs, or freshman-year ones, may be bored of them.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:26 AM
7

I was about to say, "She wants attention." Want to not think about her? Bang someone else. If she has contacted you repeatedly, and you still want to bang her, invite her over for a drink at or after 8pm. Try to bang her. That's the only offer. She comes over, late, or nothing.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 10:58 PM
3

Study it, read about it, experiment with it.
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:01 PM
0

You're envisioning yourself in the inferior, beta position; see "Open or poly relationships from the superior position or inferior position."
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 06:10 PM
2

Try to put your penis in her. If she lets you, you win. If she doesn't, find another girl, and try to put your penis in her. If she lets you, you will forget about the other girl almost as fast as she forgets about you. I should make a macro for this comment, as it applies to like 25% of the questions on this sub.
/r/seduction06/12/18 07:34 PM
5

The other reality is that the vast majority of jobs are available in existing, large corporations or government. Making your own job is great. But, in reality, in terms of sheer numbers, most people are going to work in companies. I think guys should be alert to opportunities for creating their own businesses and work. But guys should also realize the majority of the population is not going to see that work for them.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 09:00 PM
9

Game in general works better if you quit sugar and hit the gym. Online dating demands good photography skills as well, which most men lack. Women have showed me their matches and my competition, and it's filled with ugly selfies, ugly shots, guys who don't know shit about how to present themselves in photos, etc. Tinder is probably not optimal for most men, but most men are not doing it well. In addition, where do you live? That will affect your online experience tremendously. Without knowing th…
/r/seduction04/12/18 10:58 PM
2

Attention is the only tool modern men have. In addition, OP, send her back pics of you fucking other girls.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:42 PM
3

Moving in with her was not a good move. She is a great FWB and a terrible life partner. She is the sort of girl you choose for sex club experiments and assume that, even more than usual, she's not your girl, she's just your ride, right now.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:51 PM
7

This attitude will backfire for sure. You'll turn her into a slut with daddy issues I was about to write this. The fantasy level of many guys on TRP regarding this issue is outstanding.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:11 PM
2

Nash: http://daysofgame.com does it. Search his blog for "alcohol" and "drinking." Or ask him directly about it.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:16 PM
15

I like telling chicks I love them, while I'm fucking them, then not referencing it at all any other time. Weird, probably not optimal, but I like doing it.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:38 AM
8

But you would be less than nothing to them the instant you start to be a social drag on them. Most people are that way, so it is not necessarily a woman thing. It is just that, in my experience, very few men are any good at being a friend, and almost no women are. Right. The fact that quotes are around the "friends" in the title is an indication the OP knows that his "friends" are not really his friends. Friendship also thrives on mutual interests. For a lot of guys, their female "friends" are g…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:53 PM
2

Everyone believes it, and yet no one wants to admit it publicly. It's sort of like the former Soviet Union: everyone knew it was dysfunctional and evil, but no one could say it out loud. There is a book, The Elephant in the Brain, that you should read.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:30 PM
7

Get off Reddit. Read Deep Work, the book. Put your phone on airplane mode and get Freedom or another program that shuts down your Internet connection.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:14 PM
14

Also depends on your age. I've written about this, but that's because I'm older than a lot of the guys here. A lot of guys hit age 35 - 40 and want kids. Meanwhile, a lot of guys who have kids in their 20s get tired of their fat boring wives and want to hit the street. So where you are maters a lot. The older you get, the more you also learn that a lot of people, including hot chicks, are just garbage. So you want to avoid the garbage more, or at least quarantine it.
/r/seduction25/11/18 03:43 PM
3

To answer the OP, it depends on what you want. Before DNA tests, a guy with a promiscuous woman risked raising another man's kids. For that reason, jealousy evolved. For modern guys, though, having an uncommitted lover can be an interesting game dynamic.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:13 PM
2

These principles also help, especially regarding comedy.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 09:13 PM
0

Mine are listed here.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 07:55 PM
3

Did amazing in early days of online dating. Now bitches ghost or flake even if your game is tight Agreed. Early online dating was amazing. 2015 seems to be the year it turned. That said, I use very little social media and recommend most guys do the same. Women have not changed much. They still want masculine guys who aren't pushovers but also aren't assholes. If you learn to be this guy and to open and escalate, you will do very well. Maybe better than ever. It does seem like more young guys are…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:17 PM
32

Consensus is simple. If she wants to go to the club, she's not girlfriend material. She's FWB material and should be treated as such.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 06:31 PM
21

Yeah. "My ex-girlfriend" is the right way to think of her.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:03 PM
1

Right. I have tried strategies like this on occasion, but "next" is usually best. Practice daygame.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:52 PM
19

What about her side of the bargain? You proposed an OLTR, meaning she gets to fuck other dicks on the side. I tried an OLTR once. Spending your time, money and emotional support on one woman while she gets fucked by strange dick is a shit deal. And no, I don't care how many women you fuck on the side. OLTR is closer to "glorified FWB" than it is to a relationship in which the guy subsidizes the woman. IMO, guys don't realize the gap between open relationships from the superior position, vs the i…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 04:08 PM
5

I'm surprised more guys don't try sex parties and clubs as the next level of game. If your casual FWB is going to do this, might as well figure out how to leverage it.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:37 PM
1

This is one of the funniest pieces about game I have ever read, and I kept laughing out loud at the coffee shop where I was reading it.
/r/seduction31/10/18 04:21 PM
6

She's one of those girls with mostly guy friends, she does the activities with them and afterwards sleeps at my place. She probably fucks some of them once in a while. She's just a plate. Find more plates. "Mostly guy friends" is a red flag and I have met such girls before.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:48 PM
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Yeah, the OP doesn't know much. But I noticed when we go out for food or when I just go with her when she has errands, other girls seem to look at me more Has he fucked any of them? If not, it doesn't matter. The overwhelming majority of the time, a guy who gets friend-zoned should move on and invest his energy in new girls. Even if he accepts the beta friend relationship, he'll find out if it's going to lead to new lays within one to two weeks. Hint: it won't.
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:26 PM
5

Do it now.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:53 PM
37

It makes me happy. The truth is better than a lie. The hard way is often the best way.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 03:29 PM
3

They give you basically no details about what it is It doesn't matter what it is. The relationship is over.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:11 PM
35

Also, this is a red flag alone: I was alone one day when she went to her hometown to participate in a cosplay event If she's going to events like cosplay, dances, "clubbing with the girls," etc., where people go to meet and hookup... then your relationship is already dead. The reasons not to get married are legion and I don't get why guys keep marrying.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 02:11 PM
60

Tattoos are a turn-off to anyone seeking a long-term relationship. Tattoos are a turn-on to many people seeking a short-term relationship, because they signal promiscuity and ease of access. What are you seeking?
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:24 PM
3

More attention. Women know a male isn’t gonna follow them or keep up with her if she’s always posting her bf. And most guys waste or dissipate their attention, allowing this whole system to work.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:36 PM
3

There is not enough data here for anyone to help you. Who are you? What are you into? What constitutes an exciting conversation for you? In college, I had a good friend who was a computer science major. He was an incredible hacker and did not want to have conversations that did not involve hacking or science fiction, topics that the vast majority of the female population does not find interesting. Are you like him? Are you like someone else? Without knowing, no one can say what will help you.
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:46 PM
1

There is only the hard way.
/r/seduction19/10/18 03:15 PM
-1

Here you are.
/r/seduction19/10/18 03:13 AM
31

There are three main possibilities: It's a shit test; she doesn't have a boyfriend and you should proceed as normal. She has a boyfriend and is willing to branch-swing. Like most women she craves attention and knows that a lot of guys will give it to her. When you give her attention, you're dissipating one of your most valuable resources.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:21 PM
6

Best decisipn of my life Don't waste much time on video games.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 02:10 AM
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This is relevant to players because it demonstrates that there's a lot more fucking around than you may realize. The evidence is out there. Members of the secret society get it. When you get it, a new world opens up to you.
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:28 PM
3

Read the books, especially Mate. Read the top 100 posts of all time here. Practice putting into practice what you read. Understand that it's not an instantaneous process. Take small steps every day. There is no magic way back. If you read Joseph Campbell and most stories based on myth and legend, the protagonist has to hit an incredibly low point in order to overcome adversity and rise again. You are at that low point in your life. Whatever your mistakes, they are in the past and cannot be chang…
/r/seduction10/10/18 01:44 AM
21

Okay im just going to go ahead and say as an actual photographer this is not at all smart. Photography takes a shit ton of time to learn and even more time to get good at. But you don't have to be professional-quality. You just have to be better than the other guy. And learning to take "better" photos is not that hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 04:29 PM
2

Read the books. Read the top 100 posts of all time here. Practice putting into practice what you read. Understand that it's not an instantaneous process. Take small steps every day.
/r/seduction08/10/18 06:51 PM
17

More people are experimenting with verbalizing non-monogamy right up front. I haven't personally tried much of this, but it's an interesting strategy, and I'd be curious to hear more from those who have.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 06:52 PM
6

I wouldn't go this far, but most of these kinds of "rules" are just broken for the right guy in the right circumstance. That said, some chicks genuinely are just slow to escalate and can still be nailed after three - five dates. OP also doesn't know anything. It might have been the kissing thing. It might have been the chick's natural flakiness. She might have gotten back together with her ex. I wrote more about the "random" thing in this post, but guys need to realize that a lot of chicks are j…
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:24 PM
7

No. I assume they're flirting until proven otherwise.
/r/seduction03/10/18 02:09 PM
4

Books for learning game. You need practice to go with the reading, however. They are the yin and yang.
/r/seduction02/10/18 03:55 PM
5

This is useless without knowing which city you're in. I travel a fair amount for work. The city I'm in has a HUGE impact on the efficaciousness of online dating. See Date-onomics. I also have very good pics, though.
/r/seduction01/10/18 05:30 PM
4

You should never be asking her for nudes, by the way. My philosophy is to shoot my own nudes, after sex, with a real camera, as I do better work than 99% of chicks anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 05:47 PM
8

It's RSD that may be the problem. Per Krauser: I have nothing to say about Todd. He’s a mediocre daygamer. I gave him a shot by watching his RSD Daygame video product. That had a $500-ish price tag and it’s way below what LDM guys give out for free on YouTube. So I won’t bother watching anything else he does unless someone who’s opinion I respect pulls me to one side and says “you should check out Todd, he’s WAAAAAAY better nowadays”. Till then, I’ll chalk him up as another over-promising under-…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:02 PM
19

women interacting with men in clubs already know the men, and most likely came with them. Strangers meeting each other in clubs and hooking up is not as common as you think The best description I have read is An Introduction and Major Misconception about Party "Club" Game. It is somewhat old but matches my experiences (also somewhat old by now).
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:57 PM
2

Unpopular opinion: check her phone Further unpopular opinion: It's time for a new girlfriend. This one is FWB, max.
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:04 PM
7

Dude. Go back and look at your posting history. You need to 1) read more and 2) get some help.
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:12 PM
2

Evolutionary biology underpins game. Guys who want to understand the game and their place in it will learn the evo bio.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 08:26 PM
2

You can link to your blog in a text post. We have no rules against it. We just remove you if it's spammy / low value content pushing people to click through to ads to see the rest That may be the theory, but it doesn't seem to be the practice.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 03:25 PM
1

Have you not been alive for the past five years? Is this news to you?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:42 AM
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