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If you view it as "working hard" then you're fucking up somewhere. this shit should give you energy, not take it. it's supposed to be fun. why do it at all if it's not? all that stuff you mentioned should be automatic. a part of your soul. it shouldn't be an effort you have to make every time.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:45 AM
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he was a sociopath. none of the emotions he seduced people with were real. in short, you can't. you can however learn to detach from the neediness of your ego and express authentic emotions in a way that people can connect with.
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:26 PM
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I'd never have gotten laid if I listened to this shit. looks matter up to a point, but behavior gets women wet. most people here would be far better off ditching this sub, buying a todd v course or something and doing 50 - 100 approaches a week.
/r/seduction29/04/22 12:01 PM
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I can tell you from several years of personal experience that this is very wrong lol. even today, most of my friends that have success in dating are pretty basic, if not kind of scummy, but they fuck because they rock what they do have, even if it's not much.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:22 PM
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putting attention on push/pull as a technique can help you get better at it, but it's also something that should just happen in organic conversation by you being authentic. your friend is probably doing it without realizing it.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:55 AM
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(I would prefer answers from guys who don't have success with women yet - when you have your primary desire for sex satisfied, of course you can focus on different things). yeah, this doesn't happen. I've never in my life gotten laid then walked around the next day feeling like I've been completed or had some kind of primal urge satisfied. if anything the more sex I have the more I want it. stop expecting it to make you different. it won't. just live your life, make a passive effort to be around…
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:52 PM
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you either have poor reading comprehension, have no social awareness, or are just being purposely combative. at no point in this post did anything suggest you be manipulative or hurtful in any way. if you hurt her self esteem then you did it wrong. the entire point of all of this is that she be in on the game with you. op even says as much.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:37 PM
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respecting boundaries doesn't make you a "nice guy," fake people pleasing does.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:17 PM
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was a huge loner so I joined a pick up crew 10 years ago, took about a year to realize that if you trick people into liking you, it always ends up being toxic somehow. so I started to relax and accept that not everyone will like me, and I'm only looking for one or two people at a time that do. it might seem like I'm oversimplifying but just learning to love and accept myself as is, and learning how to project that feeling to other people, lead to a great dating and social life, even while I was …
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:26 PM
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you're good enough now, but you should always strive to be better for its own sake. because you want to be. not because you you need it to love yourself or feel worthy of someone else.
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:30 PM
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Even if they did you wouldn't notice it, because you don't expect them to. And I'm not just saying that, this is a real thing your brain does. Google RAS if you want to read about it. It might sound nonsensical, but if you you believe that your height is a good thing, so will most other people. If girls like you, you're a short king. If they don't, you're a manlet. it doesn't work the other way around.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:19 PM
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it dulls a lot and your relationship with it changes over time. it's the same feeling, but you learn to interpret it as excitement or curiosity instead of panic or dread.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:06 PM
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no. there aren't. just have standards and apply them to everyone, regardless of their beauty or social status. no one is above you by virtue of existing, and you can't get the other details until you talk to them.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:59 PM
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that's like the best age for it lol. stop talking yourself out of it.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:15 AM
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you'd think more people would understand this in a sub about seduction
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:19 PM
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anyone who uses the term "sigma male" unironically can be confidently dismissed lol. my advice is to have realistic goals. if you're just starting out, then just doing the basics should be seen as a success, whatever her reaction to you. Make the approach, square up your shoulders to her, smile, good eye contact, say your thing, then see where it goes. If you do all that then congrats, you did it. obviously you should still be open to getting a connection with her, that's what you want, but you …
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:40 PM
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all of this, plus paying special attention to all of the positive things I do every day, and counting them as "wins." brush your teeth? win. take a shower? win. laugh at a tiktok? win. close tiktok? win. so on. it's been very effective.
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:51 PM
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hell yeah smash til you die
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:10 PM
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it's true. people in this sub don't believe this anymore. I used to open in nightclubs by telling girls about how I was broke and lived with my dad, but because my delivery was happy and confident it still worked most of the time lol.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:02 PM
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bar. coffee. ice cream. park bench. anywhere that's pleasant but easy to leave separately or together.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:06 AM
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pretty much. I dated a 35 year old at 19 and the only person who ever brought it up was my mom lol. and even that was just one time.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:31 PM
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ignore anyone saying you have to be be hot to be successful on a dating app. it helps, obviously, but if you have a good profile, with interesting pictures (good lighting, paints you in a positive light, lets her imagine having fun with you) and a confident bio that does the same, you'll do fine.
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:54 PM
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Goddamn there's some shit advice in this thread. Don't ditch that girl. I'd really appreciate it if someone let me know I was doing something that would hinder my dating life. sounds like she was actually trying to help. girls want emotions. teasing, joking, flirting, fun stories, etc... strictly logical conversation is the enemy when it comes to socializing in general, but that goes double on dates. you don't have to be some kind of comedian or performance monkey, though. just don't be afraid t…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:10 PM
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what's your texting game like? actually being high value will make things easier of course, but fun and interesting texts can take you a long way too. edit: something that might help, don't just get the number and leave. you'll build way more interest if you hang around after you get it. she'll be a lot more relaxed and comfortable around you. if you just scram, it'll feel like you were only after her number.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:54 PM
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no. men just suck at being attractive. questions like this are an example of what I mean. largely a failing of society. movies, music, our whole culture giving guys the wrong idea of how to attract someone they want to be with. dating is the easiest shit in the world, we just complicate it for ourselves. literally just fucking relax, care about yourself, have empathy and the rest straightens itself out.
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:53 PM
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You don't have to be an ass, you just need to get better at escalating/flirting and being honest about your intentions. If girls keep going cold on you it's because they don't think of you as someone with a sex drive. You have to steadily build tension. Don't be afraid to hold eye contact and emote what you feel, be unapologetic about what you want (actually know what you want first), and in the case of flirting, playfully frame the two of you together. These are still "nice" things. She wants s…
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:36 PM
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dude, yes! I don't even know how to help a lot of the guys here because their excuses are so well thought out. seeing all the "you need this, that and the other thing" is the most frustrating shit when you have experience that tells you it's not true. it's like watching a slow motion car crash.
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:58 PM
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Damn, dude. that's rough. in that case, add self reflection to the list. what are you afraid of, where does that fear come from, why is it bad if that fear comes true? follow that rabbit hole until there are no more questions to ask yourself. on top of that, learn to love yourself. that's the real secret to successful fearless approach. be forgiving about your failures, and take pride in every win no matter how small (like washing the dishes or taking a shower). it's better to be a little bit de…
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:55 AM
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some simple, practical advice to help get past approach anxiety, learn some canned material, and use It on every approach. maybe have a few things ready for versatility. it takes a lot of the worry out of it if you know exactly what to say, even if it's just "hey, I'm X" also, make sure you have realistic goals. if you're battling approach anxiety, your criteria for success probably shouldn't be same day sex. instead, a "win" should be like "did you say what you meant to say? did you have good b…
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:50 PM
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yes. it's all about the vibe. if you're "super obvious old guy trying to get young pussy" then yeah, you're pretty creepy. if you're "party guy who just wants everyone to have fun, and if sex happens, cool" person, you'll be fine. even the guy they talked to in that story said it was easier to get laid there. this is clickbait meant to give you a colored perspective for its own benefit.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:51 PM
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I keep seeing the opposite claim lol. Idk dude, it's really not a benefit or a handicap that I've experienced. the only real advantage I can think of is if you've been gaming for a longer period of time, so you have more experience. having said that, some women will just have an initial preference for younger or older guys. nothing you can't usually nullify with good game. it is what it is.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:03 PM
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you should learn from them. "you're not getting in my pants" is one of my favorite lines.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:06 PM
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you have to fully accept that you have something worth while to offer, and as cheesy as it sounds, it's yourself. the belief that you're worth spending time with for the sake of it goes a long way. that doesn't mean you shouldn't improve all the superficial stuff, you should, but don't expect it to take you anywhere you want to be without having the self love thing handled. that's where the magic is. I know it's easier said than done, so on a more practical note I recommend you start setting lot…
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:59 AM
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you say this, yet I watch one of my dopey, jim breuer looking, scumbag, loser friends fingerbang the trad wife stereotype girls on the dance floor. this mf doesn't even have good game. half the time he just yells at them like "hey! you're my girlfriend now" and it fucking works. completely brain breaking.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:43 PM
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I started getting a lot more callbacks when I started viewing dick as a bonus rather than the main course. imo she should almost be tapped out before you even use it (bj excluded). get good at teasing and using your hands fellas.
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:42 PM
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for sure. it's definitely a process you have to go through.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:16 PM
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good advice. to add to this though, it's important to accept that a lot of the time it IS you, but that's still ok. good, even. I think a lot of guys, if not most, have a stronger intention of "not getting rejected" than they do of finding someone they're compatible with, and that seeps into their behavior. that doesn't mean you should be an asshole, but if you're not taking rejections often, you're probably not showing your genuine personality, interests, or intentions, so a lot of the connecti…
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:47 PM
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instead you should assume that she poops, bleeds from her hoo ha, and is waiting for someone she can feel comfortable being dorky with.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:27 AM
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the solution to that is to just engage her friend more. you're trying to charm both of them. it doesn't feel good to be left out, and the girl you approached for probably wouldn't go for someone who ignores her friends. not saying you do that, but if you're getting cock blocked often, just try focusing a little more on group interaction.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:00 AM
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man, I've been doing it for over a decade now. I used to get like 20 rejections for every one pleasant conversation. now I can get 4 or 5 connections in an afternoon, and maybe an instant date. and at least 1/3 those start with her being on the fence about or even not liking me at all. there's so much more to it than "saying some magic words." you also have to know when and how to steer a conversation in a certain direction. how to accurately convey your intent. when to use humor. when to be dir…
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:29 PM
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I'm a big fan of letting body language and eye contact do most of the work. it's easier in a nightlife setting, but even in the middle of the day I've had wins with dumb stuff like singing every rose has its thorn, or just counting until she joins in or laughs.
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:53 AM
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the replies here are kinda weird. it's not the words it's how you say them. I have no doubt op's had success with this. it's only needy if you make it sound needy. you could hook by doing nursery rhymes on your approach if you have the right swagger.
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:28 PM
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this is horrible, wildly incorrect advice. I can't believe I'm going to treat this even a little bit seriously, but 1. you don't have to tie someone up to be dominant about how you eat pussy. 2. the idea that she wouldn't respect you for satisfying her sexual needs is beyond absurd. 3. if you're worried about being submissive, wouldn't getting a blowjob make you far more vulnerable for having someone's teeth around your dick? you're giving her a lot of trust in that situation.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:30 AM
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you heard it here fellas. making girls cum their brains out is for subs and simps. the taste will make the masculine energy literally jump out of your body.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:54 PM
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usually they're hot enough or high status enough that everyone around them is needy and incapable of being normal lol. so a guy who just comes along like "hey I'm not weird" is worth his weight in diamonds.
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:04 PM
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No isolation, just talking to them at clubs, bars, and social media. I don't at all doubt that women prefer men closer to their age, only that it's a reason most won't date or hook up with you (at 30 anyway). The fact that most don't doesn't mean it's off the table for them. Out of hundreds of interactions, I could count on one hand the number of times a girl brought up my age as a genuine issue and not just to see if I was insecure about it.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:18 PM
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The same way you tried to assure us through your original reply. individual experience.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:35 PM
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it was serious, as it's what I would do, but not 100% necessary. just don't be apologetic about it and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:39 PM
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tell an even more obvious, lamer joke lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:30 PM
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do you talk to them and get rejected?
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:19 PM
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I can assure you that 30 isn't a legitimate obstacle to most 18-22 year olds unless you turn it into one.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:11 PM
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if you decide to keep it, have some good, non deceptive pics on your profile where you're smiling. one from at least the waist up, one outside, one with other people. own your look whatever you look like. never send quick greetings as your initial messages. only humor, or something that shows your personality and gives her a chance to show hers.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:55 PM
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I exchange IGs more often than phone numbers at this point. Instagram is a pretty decent dating app on its own as well. usually if she says something about you having a low follow count it is just a shit test. girls with lots of followers ironically tend to be easier to date irl, as long as you apply the same standards to her as you would to someone with no fame or status at all.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:00 PM
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bulk up like the other guy said, but do it for you. until then, joke about it if it comes up, move on to something else. don't dwell on it. being shredded and tall helps, but she's more likely to care about your insecurity than your actual size. plenty of skinny short kings out there dating tall women.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:39 AM
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how many guys that aren't like that do you see chatting up girls at those parties? and of the ones that do, how many are skilled at socializing? at college, I'm guessing not many. I've been to tons of parties and clubs and there's always goofy looking mfs hooking knockouts. on the flip side, I've seen plenty of tall, shredded, handsome guys get rejection after rejection. nothing is more sad than a roid monkey confused about why his muscles don't get him laid. In the end, of course superficial st…
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:25 AM
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cutting her off is pretty aggressive. women should always be able to leave easily. not being able to will make her nervous. even walking with her for a bit while you get her attention would be a better option.
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:52 AM
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dear lord some of the guys in this thread are pathetic. "If you aren't incredibly hot or rich or famous, you can't get girl!" says man who doesn't talk to girls. holy shit
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:31 AM
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don't sweat it bro. I see a few people saying different here, but for me (33) age has only made it easier. I'm sure eventually it will get harder but 25 is nowhere near that time. girls around 23 - 27 actually tend to be harder to hook up with anyway than girls in any other age group, at least in my experience.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:47 PM
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girls I had a connection with. sometimes they were average looking, other times they were gorgeous. what's the alternative? die alone? no thanks. you'll never find the women who like you if you don't give any a chance to. there's like 8 billion reasons they could want sex, and you'll most likely never know what it was. maybe they like how you make them feel. maybe they're horny and you live nearby. maybe you bonded over a shared hobby. maybe you're different from the other Dans, Joes and Johns s…
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:32 AM
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I would tell them he was helping me out while I saved up for my own stuff, which was true. sometimes I got ghosted immediately, but girls that were already invested even a little bit didn't seem to mind. if you don't make a big deal out of it, then it isn't a big deal. I think the real trick is to just be on the path to bettering yourself, and not feel ashamed of where you're at in life.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:36 AM
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I used to use my gynecomastia to help me get laid, and I had a big ass floppy double chin and fucked up teeth, and I was broke and living with my parents. don't give me that shit. of course you can have natural advantages that up your odds, but people don't usually want what you expect them to. if you can bring them fun and give them an easy excuse to fuck, then it's just a numbers game.
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:57 AM
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I used to have to ask dates to come pick me up from my dad's house lol. at 30. not fun. surprisingly high success rate though.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:59 AM
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it's a little overly analytical, but not even close to unbelievable. he's literally telling us about his L.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:24 AM
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