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I never really thought of it that way, but now that I am... 1) It's kind of awesome that domes are the staple of all Cathedrals and Mosques and Synagogues 2) Can we really tell if the designer was thinking of Penis or the Vaginal canal? Do we not go inside a skyscraper? Maybe they were thinking of a gender-neutral sexy body part, like the tongue. Maybe those awesome, gorgeous domes I listed in the beginning were actually the designers expression of longing for a sexy man ass cheek and then they …
/r/MensRights27/09/13 09:41 PM
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It was drawn by a female artist named Nicola Scott. She signed it this way. I don't think this was made with gay guys in mind. That is priceless! Thank you so much for sharing. When I talk about what appeals to straight women, I'm really just going off what my straight women friends tell me, and they might be less inclined to tell a lesbian about their love of man-ass than gay dudes are. You forgot to mention Talia. Who date raped Batman at one point. Clearly, she didn't win his heart, I would a…
/r/MensRights05/08/13 04:26 AM
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That may appeal more to dudes who are into other dudes ;) - and hey, I'm sure that are some women also looking at that fine man-ass and drooling. However, I'd say Bruce Wayne was drawn to appeal to women - he's wealthy, he's a genius, he's dapper as fuck, and he is practically invulnerable except for his crippling emotional issues (which a good woman will solve with her love!) The only reason we know batman wasn't written explicitly to appeal to straight women is that woman after woman fails to …
/r/MensRights05/08/13 03:23 AM
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I don't know of any solid data on non-romantic co-parenting, especially any long term study on children. However there is this documentary on asexuality, and it features an asexual romance or two. There are also forums here and you can ask around, someone on this site might know of data or have personal experiences to share. I know what it's like to be repulsed by 'traditional' sexual and romantic relationships. We are a social species, social interaction and kinship ties are human needs. There …
/r/MensRights27/07/13 05:12 AM
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I question the romantic entanglement prerequisite of such a partnership though. Can a man and a woman not be equal partners in the raising of offspring? From what I know, the asexual community is exploring non-romantic co-parenting, but I don't know any other groups exploring this. They are also, of course, exploring non-sexual romantic relationships and non-sexual life in general, they are exploring the difference between sexual and romantic feelings. Everything I've seen from them is just that…
/r/MensRights27/07/13 03:47 AM
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Dude, that is a solid plan. Once you are out of that house, you'll get the best revenge: living well.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 09:43 PM
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It sounds to me like he is totally self sufficient, he's just in the process of removing a crazy woman from leeching off his income.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 09:38 PM
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The prevalence of intersexual conditions is much higher than 0.01% This is a much bigger deal for the intersex community than the trans community. Intersexuals and their parents should hold off on gender assignment if such an assignment would be difficult to make (Individuals with AIS can be assigned female at birth because almost all of them grow up to identify as women, but individuals with XXY should not be because they have a good chance of identifying as either gender). However: Disrupting …
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:03 PM
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I agree! But to explain my understanding of how the justice system deals with the situations like the one you're talking about, I'd like to use the Ohio sex-enslaver as an example. Castro is facing 977 charges. They are charging him for each individual crime: hundreds of counts of assault and abduction and rape and child endangerment and ect. I'm all for that. Death doesn't have to be preferable, we can prosecute each crime and make a criminal serve the sentences in a row. What I have a problem …
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:32 AM
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I'm pretty sure this sentence was meant for an SVU style fantasy, it must have been passed through because someone cried "a molested child is better off dead". I was molested as a child, by a woman, and I fully agree with the crying lawyer here, murder should always carry a greater sentence than molestation/rape/assault. I am not dead, and I am not better off dead. My abuser deserves to be punished, but not as much as a murderer. Murder is worse.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 06:39 PM
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I watched the video and it sounded to me as though the criminal who assaulted a 5 year old child on camera was a different person than the one who is being sentenced to life in prison. The first criminal was 'only' sentenced to 70 years in prison, which I'm totally okay with.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 06:27 PM
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Where are the studies? Show me the data.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 01:02 PM
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I'm a woman, and I was really excited to join the military and become a combat engineer- a position closed to me because I am a woman. It was like a slap in the face. I was really pissed about that... and then I found out I didn't meet the physical requirements anyway, most women don't. I really don't think that women who meet those requirements should be barred from the jobs. TL/DR: I think they want the jobs but fail the physical requirements
/r/MensRights19/06/13 04:49 PM
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I wish that child all the best
/r/MensRights12/06/13 03:23 AM
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we feel empowered, as individual adults, to effectively respond to unwelcome behavior should it occur... This is my response to "rape-culture is oppressing women" - I wonder how many women feel the same way I do.
/r/MensRights05/06/13 11:50 PM
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This lesbian is also not a feminist, I think the union between gay people and feminism is more one-sided than most people realize.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 01:53 AM
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Don't worry, we're all messed up in our own unique ways.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 07:05 PM
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That's if you want children. My sister never did. If you want children, my advice is: marry an artist. My other sister did that. He stays home with the kids and works on his art.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 03:47 PM
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um.... different women like different things, especially when it comes to sex and sex partners. My sister is a genius and her husband is not. He's successful, he makes her laugh, they play the same sports and he's a really manly dude. Their relationship works better than any I have ever seen. Maybe it's because he isn't competing with her soaring intellect, and she isn't compete with his soaring blue-collar success, and all they have in common is their teamwork zone. TL/DR I would give these gir…
/r/MensRights29/03/13 03:04 PM
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It isn't your job to save her, and no matter how much compassion you feel for a human being on a terrible path, you can't save her. She's in an abusive relationship, that's sad. She has back-ward beliefs that lead to terrible decisions. It sounds like she has no ability to take personal responsibility. Until she takes control of her life, limit your exposure to her. Be polite. Don't share anything that's important to you. If you have to spend time with her, talk about the weather; traffic; food;…
/r/MensRights29/03/13 03:00 AM
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From what it sounds like, that's exactly what the grown-ups who were present did.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 02:03 AM
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I agree with the OP that men aren't given a fair shake in film as a whole. However, the Bechdale test is important and it is not about "pre-set goal to prove which is false even if the answers to the questions are yes or no or whatever" There are many valid reasons a film wouldn't pass the Bechdale test that aren't "Patriarchy". There are also many great films that do pass it, many of my favorites do, so do some of the greatest films of all time (Like: The Wizzard of Oz). There are tons of inter…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:06 PM
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It's not a movie, but Battle Star Galactica passes both the Bechdel test and the reverse.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:42 PM
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I'm a woman, and I don't have children. I would rather die than take a life vest from a father, his kids need him. I don't think I'd take a life vest from anyone, really. If there weren't enough life-vests/seat-on-the-boat I'd swim it out and see what happens. I was raised by comic books, can you tell?
/r/MensRights17/03/13 02:56 AM
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Any mother who looks at that should say, "They're worth it."
/r/MensRights01/03/13 03:48 PM
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Some of them even get them from other feminists.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 02:57 AM
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When I was a kid from a troubled home, every example of a supportive, loving family left me out and made me embarrassed of my family. I would never try to outlaw loving families doing supportive things. I found a supportive network of adults and involved them in my life. You should get your kid involved in big brothers/big sisters, or find an uncle, aunt, sister, brother, cousin, friend, grandparent, pastor, someone, and make those people welcome in your child's life. Stop pretending like you ca…
/r/MensRights17/02/13 01:26 AM
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(Look at me. Taking charge and dictating the discussion to you like the evil staight cismale scum that I am!) HA! An easy example is the warthoggy bulldyke who no dude wants to fuck I'm going to make this distinction so you can spot the type of person I'm talking about and don't avoid making friends (or dating!) with an awesome woman: I find that bulldykes tend to be attracted to women, and they are really, really attractive. Not just because they ride attractive motorcycles or show up while I'm…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 07:05 PM
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Who knows? Maybe they want to fuck women, and I mean fuck, like totally bend-her-over-the-table-and-fuck-her fucking. They can't do that because it's "co-opting male sexual aggression" or whatever. So they have sex they aren't really into, or none at all, and they resent everyone who is enjoying themselves like my friends who liked their strap-on, and me who enjoyed exposing my body in public for alcohol. I honestly hope they grow out of it and role play whatever dominatrix fantasy they have loc…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 06:16 PM
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I met this one chick, who I talked about in other responses. But the other "queer womyn" I met were two couples who I was going to be roommates with after replying to an ad. None of them showed any attraction to other women, including their partners. I know not everyone likes PDA, especially gay people who have conservatives yelling slurs at us in public, but you can tell that people are in a couple and that they are attracted to each other. For example, I went to a gay church (they exist) and t…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 06:08 PM
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Except I'd be a troll there. I'm not a feminist at all. you should be confronting your own about their behavior How are feminists my own? Men aren't allowed into that discussion. You are. In reply to other responses I talked at length about how I am definitely NOT allowed into that discussion. I can see how you would think that, as a lesbian, I'd be the sacred cow of feminism. It's really not the case. Feminists hate lesbian sexuality as much as they hate male sexuality because lesbians "abuse t…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:49 PM
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I don't know of sites, but it is in feminist books on sex. I thought there was one essay in that discusses exactly this in "Yes means yes: visions of female sexual power and a world without rape." Edited by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti. I can't find it in there now that I'm double checking. If I remember correctly, there's an in one of my books in which one feminist discusses how feminist theory led to a completely egalitarian same-sex sexual experience with no sexual desire toward either…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:41 PM
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After spending 4 hours face-to-face with a feminist, defending the identities and orientations of my friends (and my own) because we like penetration in our sex lives? Yes, I do think that most feminists believe that penetration denigrates women. I am a women's rights advocate and an egalitarian. If you believe that society, government and law should be fair to all genders, you are too. I think most feminists say more "radical" things than we realize. I can't put this as articulately as girlwrit…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:34 PM
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Well,I posted almost those exact words on the facebook post of my feminist friend. I was replied to in the post and sent nearly a half dozen private messages claiming I was a "rape apologist" who was okay with being "objectified." A part of me wants to see what feminist redditers would say. A part of me thinks "Don't be a troll, you have better things to do."
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:09 PM
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I think the sex industry is obscenely terrible when it comes to workers' rights, but here's how I'd fix it: Legalize and tax everything (for adults) - this makes a paper trial. Is one guy taking 90% of a dozen prostitutes' money? Do most prostitutes keep almost alal of their pay? The IRS will know that now, and we can have real data on fair vs. unfair payment practices in the sex industry. I think we should fight people who oppose sex workers moving to other industries: ie/ the asshats who prote…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:03 AM
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That's the only explanation I have for that crazy mess.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:22 AM
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well, I'm pretty sure I can't cross post so, how are we going to play this game? Should I post this article there and say, post the "Yeah, as an American lesbian..." Which of my comments do you think will get flamed the most?
/r/MensRights13/02/13 04:21 AM
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It's true, I have better things to do then argue on feminist boards. I think I'd be a troll there.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:17 AM
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I have never heard about Andrea Dworkin before today, but I have heard this from feminists, some working in the so-called sex trafficking ban movement and others in the sex positive movement. I have also heard it up and down in the child sexual abuse survivor movement- but I give them a good deal of leeway.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 03:07 AM
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Your name is perfect for this movie :)
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:55 AM
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He literally would not follow directions unless you said gay forward. my god! my friends and I used that as a joke for years. We didn't think anyone would be that silly!
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:51 AM
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well, we were in the LGBT center, it makes it easier to get through initial friendship questions if you know. Like; "I'm an ally, my brother's gay." "oh really, that's nice. What was it like for you when he came out?"
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:49 AM
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intersex isn't really an identity I concede the point It is usually due to extremely rare genetic mutations. Or conditions that occur in utero. It's actually far more common than people think.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 11:59 PM
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I can't speak to true population figures of radfems but I've been around a lot of self-identified feminists. Most are in hetero relationships and like men very much. My point exactly :)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 11:19 PM
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Maybe I should :) Hell, it's fat tuesday. You pick the board, and I'll do it as soon as I'm done with my homework :)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 11:08 PM
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I have definitely met more lesbians than rad fems, but I can't speak to the population ratio of either. Maybe you are on to something with your first point. Your second point? I disagree, I think the reason we think there are more rad fems out there is that often times, no one can tell the woman they work with is a lesbian, but rad fems out themselves quickly and the experience is more jarring and more memorable than a "Oh, you're gay? huh.... moving on"
/r/MensRights12/02/13 11:03 PM
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For real, this I've even seen this argument say that if you like being fingered, there's too much phallus in your sex life.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:49 PM
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a lot of rad fems have to fake being lesbians because their ideology says that men are evil and that sex with them is rape. Or they can't have the sex they want because of their indoctrination, so they settle for a relationship they don't want.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:34 PM
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isn't the natural need to do just that what makes a lesbian... well, a lesbian? exactly :)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:29 PM
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That's so true. It's what make Chasing Amy such a worthwhile view.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:19 PM
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Ah, Thank you!
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:16 PM
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Gee, thanks :) I'll be happy to if I can
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:16 PM
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A lesbian is romantically and sexually attracted to women only. A queer is completely undefined with possible lesbian, gay, bi, transgendered, questioning, allied, or intersexual identity. Many rad fems who identify as same-sex attracted, or who are in same sex relationships have no sex. I'm not kidding, there's a chapter on it in "yes means yes."
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:13 PM
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yes, it is. I failed the rad fem test by identifying as lesbian woman instead of as a queer womyn - or however they spell it nowadays.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:10 PM
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Kind of. Older folks stick to the idea that it's a slur. Younger folks use it describe people in the community who don't fit into a category of the LGBTQAI (Where this Q means questioning), or describe the entire community Queer= {L,G,B,T,Q,A,I}. The rad fem I ran into argues that anyone who describes themselves as Lesbian, or Gay or Bi or Transgendered/sexual or questioning or allied or intersexual is trying to assert power over everyone else. This may be true, but even if you can get yourself …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 10:06 PM
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You know, I think you are correct. Maybe I did overact to her statement. I just don't like to be lumped in with rad-fem or feminists at all really.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:08 PM
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Same here, we are pretty lucky :)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:07 PM
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You assume they actually love other women. I haven't seen that demonstrated in my 12 years as member of the gay community. I have seen rad fems who are in woman-on-woman relationships, but they lack sexual desire for one-another and full acceptance of one another. Specifically: they show no physical affection for one another even in gay-friendly/private spaces. You ask things like, "How did you know that you were gay/bi/queer?" and a not-lesbian in a same-sex relationship will respond, "Because …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 08:06 PM
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It was a space that advertised itself as a lesbian-gay-bisexual-trangendered center. We stopped going after she went and complained to the people who ran the space about us and our 'infliction of aggressive sexual expression' on her. We had became room mates like month before this. So, our new hang out space just became our apartment and all the cool people visited us there. Also, we got more straight friends when we stopped hanging out in spaces that were labelled with just about every orientat…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 07:27 PM
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That would be so perfect :)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 07:17 PM
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Well, I argue in the other responses that this type of "lesbianism" is very different than lesbianism. It's so different that this type of "lesbian" usually doesn't identify as lesbian, and actively hates on lesbians and our expression of our sexuality. You are 100% correct that this opinion has gotten me into arguments with feminists.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 06:45 PM
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That's exactly what it is. Meeting her was started off like this: She's asked me "What do you identify as?" I replied, "I'm a lesbian." She said, "Oh!" with her face scrunched up like she smelled something bad, "Not queer?" "Well, I'm totally within the umbrella of queer..." "But you used the more privileged term!" And I thought to myself, "We will never be friends." Less than a week later, she got into the penetration argument. We stopped going to our favorite hangout because we didn't want to …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 06:35 PM
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I think she is arguing against the feminist idea that penetration denigrates women. I have sources that the argument exists within the feminist community, and is the bases for a great deal of the feminist anti-sex movement. Maybe I should some of them in their own thread.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 06:27 PM
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I think that the exercise is sound in the context of the story. The lesbian-identified woman in the movie is actually bisexual. She is very affectionate toward the male lead and actually falls in love with him. His friend is pointing out that a lesbian who is demonstrating that much sexual interest in him can not possibly be a lesbian, which is true. I have critiques of the exercise too: Santa Claus existed, he was Saint Nicolas the wonder-worker: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Nicholas I ha…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 06:20 PM
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This is true, but let's not forget to argue with man-hating straight women, too. And BTW, if you ever get in an argument with a man-hating lesbian/queer who won't listen to you because of your "privilege", contact me. I'll take her down!
/r/MensRights12/02/13 05:59 PM
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I've totally met the type of queer-identified feminist she's referring to. One spent four hours arguing with my best friend and her girlfriend that my best friend was a man in a woman's body that her girlfriend was straight because my best friend enjoyed penetrating her girlfriend and her girlfriend enjoyed being penetrated. They exist, and they are always "Queerer than thou." Here's the thing: most of them don't identify as "lesbian" because -I'm quoting word-for-word, "Lesbian is a privileged …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 05:57 PM
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I think that good arguments have solid foundations. The image suggests that hatred of penetration comes from elements within the lesbian community or identity. I have not found this to be the case. A lesbian's sexuality rarely excludes penetration completely, it's just more likely than a straight women's sexuality to include penetrating others as the only act of penetration. The quote misrepresents lesbians, who we are, how we have sex, and how we think about sex other people enjoy. I am glad th…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 05:47 PM
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Yeah, I'm an American lesbian, and I really like men. I want men to be able to express their sexual desires and to have a say in what sexual experiences they will or will not participate in (exactly what I want for women, btw). I'm just not interested in having sex or forming romantic relationships with men. That doesn't make me a man-hating radical feminist.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:33 PM
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Someone who hates fat people
/r/MensRights07/02/13 03:31 PM
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We do work with and admire WRAs, I, myself, am a WRA. When you come across something awesome from the WRM, post about it here and find out for yourself - just make sure you relate it to MRM in some way first: ie/ "Some things MRMs and anti-circumcision activists can learn from the WRM movement's new push against genital mutilation."
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:58 PM
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hahaha, I'm a ma'am :) But thanks, I appreciate it.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 02:10 AM
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Hey, I feel you dude. I was molested by a woman and every therapist I went to wanted me to do recovered memories therapy-- because they thought I was repressing the memory of being molested by a man. This was when I was in my teens, long, long after recovered memories therapy was proven to be a dangerous fraud. If you've just started dealing with this now, I'd like to say that you can recover, whether people stop being jerks about it or not. You can find happiness, even if it's not 'normal' look…
/r/MensRights04/02/13 10:36 PM
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The overall tone of the article, 'men these days don't know how to place the needs of women before their own needs,' is exactly what we should be fighting. I'd like to fight it by replying with my model; if you are able bodied, give your seat to someone who demonstrates more need for it than you do. When you have a seat and there's someone standing who needs it more, you should offer it to them. I always offer my seat to elderly, pregnant, or disabled passengers and to people with children, and …
/r/MensRights04/02/13 04:54 AM
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Yeah, right, because the white teenage girls from the trailer park I grew up in can totally afford their flock of children.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 01:22 PM
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... except slaves don't get to vote for their masters, and slaves are violently punished or killed when they refuse to work, you would be a conscientious objector or a political prisoner. Also, we do need to "bother explaining" this because if you convince enough people you could get our government to end conscription. I'm assuming you live in North America- if not let us know which country you live in
/r/MensRights26/01/13 05:56 AM
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I'm speechless. I hope she gets locked up and never walks amongst decent people ever again.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 02:01 PM
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The author starts with a point: this specific rape was a terrible crime, and the perpetrators should be held accountable and they were not being held accountable before this video made rounds... Even with this evidence only two of the perpetrators face charges, and even then, only misdemeanor offenses. The data for the false allegation is awful, but the larger point the author is making -that rape doesn't always follow the narrative our society wants it to - is a valid point. The author failed t…
/r/MensRights25/01/13 05:29 AM
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right? It's a crack in the mindset though. The injustice Johns face is discussed - finally- but only because a group of women are being mistakenly arrested for a crime "only men commit" and have to face the same extraordinarily out-dated and/or sexist legal system men have to. Remind anyone of the arguments against making rape laws gender-neutral?
/r/MensRights24/01/13 06:31 PM
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I'm guessing the transwomen are sex workers in this context. The real issue should be that transwomen get arrested for prostitution even if they are in no way engaging in sex work, but hey, this is the first time I've seen an article discuss how being arrested as a John is terrible.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 06:20 PM
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I could see situations where signing that might be useful for the man. If you want your rights as a father to be considered even if the child isn't biologically yours, you might want DNA testing to be taken off the table. Otherwise, a judge might not even give you the time of day (not that they give any fathers a fair shake now). From the article, it sounds like this is automatically signed when a man signs a birth certificate, and that would be really, really awful for men in general. I hope th…
/r/MensRights24/01/13 03:40 PM
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Sorry, I didn't know. I'll delete this post
/r/MensRights23/01/13 04:09 PM
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I'm a woman, and I haven't been made to feel uncomfortable here at all :) but I am pretty new
/r/MensRights21/01/13 05:28 PM
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I'm female and tiny and white (this will become relevant soon). One time, I was walking to my favorite bar in the evening, and I was going to be late for the tennis match they were showing that night. I was walking quickly as all hell, and I was taking poorly lit side streets. I was speeding past this slow lady in front of me and she jumps around and sprays mace in my direction. She screams, "Don't even try it!" The spray went to my right and I immediately looked behind myself (to the right) for…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 10:58 PM
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It's because this action isn't about protecting your father, making him regret the choices he made, or even about getting even. It should be about restoring respect and dignity for your father. He chose to make sacrifices for you, he chose not to bad mouth your mom and he chose live with the consequences for it without complaint. This is who your dad is, and you can choose to love him for who he is. I still think that.... down the road, like decades from now, you should keep your distance from y…
/r/MensRights19/01/13 06:33 PM
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Yeah, right there with you dude. I'm sorry you have to deal with her, and I'm sorry you and your dad have to give more and get back less. Maybe you can let your dad know how much you appreciate all he's done for you? I'm not saying you should sit him done and say you think his whole life was a raw deal- just spend time with him. Tell him he's the most moral/decent person you know and ask for his advice. Let him know you'll help with money stuff as he gets older. Take him out for meals/drinks. Th…
/r/MensRights19/01/13 05:08 PM
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A lot of us have been told to blame our fathers for everything, and a lot of us did. Since they aren't married, you can make it up to him by giving him a comfortable retirement. Stick your mother in a home and don't visit her.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 04:49 PM
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I think there are situations where affairs actually save marriages- but only marriages that are really really awful for one partner who cannot end the marriage. I think men are in that situation more than women nowadays - my dad is- but I doubt he's cheating.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 03:24 PM
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"Mr Fischer donated the damages payout and £2,250 of his own money to the child protection charities Kidscape and Orphans in the Wild after learning of the decision." This guy is awesome! He went out of his way to show that his fighting for men's rights is about protecting children too. Automatically trusting certain groups of people helps predators- not victims- and it encourages witch hunts.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 02:52 PM
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Men like you are my heroes. I wish there was a fund for fathers fighting crazy ex wives, or an organization that could help you manage some of this.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 04:33 PM
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Find the highest up reasonable person and get that person on your side, or find another program. I know that it's a pain in the ass to transfer, but it's worse when you are getting screwed and you have no one to make appeals to. If you are really close to graduating, then play like you found the light and quote some feminist. Remember, it's like sunday school where all the answers are "God, Jesus, Love." In feminist studies it's "patriarchy, slut shaming, womanhood."
/r/MensRights13/01/13 02:49 PM
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If you had said "legitimate" instead of "genuine" I would have been rolling on the floor, Mr. Akin.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 02:26 PM
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The clinical treatment for pedophiles is usually a drug that severely reduces libido (like Zoloft) and not chemical castration. Chemical Castration is much more severe, and I hear that it is something the courts do or want to force upon people convicted of this crime. If you go to a reasonable therapist* and self-identify, they would probably give you an anti-depressant that reduces libido. ** If you or someone you know needs this, look for one with no history of recovered memories therapy, or j…
/r/MensRights12/01/13 05:47 PM
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okay, 2 questions - What's cute about it and how is the reaction you see here going to far?
/r/MensRights11/01/13 08:40 PM
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I hope you do well in your studies and that your well-researched, well-reasoned arguments help some feminists question their beliefs. I'm rooting for you!
/r/MensRights10/01/13 04:01 PM
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I'm a recovering feminist, and I remember this issue being discussed in feminist spaces. I clearly never bought this argument, and it's possible I completely misunderstood it, but it goes something along the lines of "Motherhood is sacred and a woman will always make the choice that is best for her family" ... blah blah blah ... "She may need to put the baby up for adoption so the abusive father can not hurt him/her" ... blah blah blah ... "Patriarchy" One article I saw cited a study where resea…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 07:09 PM
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There is also a great deal of racism throwing a wrench in things. When I was in Mormon Sunday school, we were still being taught that "dark" people were dark because of sin - It's one of one million reasons I left.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 06:52 PM
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Alarming data shows as many cases of male MST as female cases. Men are less likely to report trauma, and 6X more likely to struggle with PTSD than women survivors. The article also sheds light on the percentage of female perpetrators (around 40%). It looks like the VA is two steps ahead of other institutions dealing with sexual trauma in the US.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:22 PM
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Women who shun men who show their emotions are going to end up surrounded by men who care more about their fake persona (aka "man card") than genuine human connections. Women who think and act the way the women in your class were are going to end up changing or end up unhappy- avoid the crap out of these harpies or you will end up miserable too.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:38 AM
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Holy crap! That's an awful situation. I'm sorry she and the judge did that to you.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 02:09 AM
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That's really insulting to anyone who struggles with infertility* or helps those who are start a family. Deadbeats should be called deadbeats. ** including gay/lesbian/transgender couples
/r/MensRights03/01/13 02:28 PM
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Post your own thread about this, it's distracting here :)
/r/MensRights03/01/13 01:45 PM
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I would be against this bill if fathers weren't given such a raw deal in court.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 06:38 AM
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I'm not sure "If men have sexual Independence then a woman isn’t needed. When it comes to children they can simply hire a mother to inseminate and have their baby. Even better if done in another country where she isn’t a US citizen; then she can’t claim any real right to the child. Men would be free to live how they wanted and to raise children as they see fit without having to give in to women and support the ones too lazy to work." Why aren't gay men threatening then? Gay men don't need women …
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:58 PM
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Okay, "Another test: Imagine a woman telling you what to do when you give her a back rub. "A little higher, a little to the left, harder, yeah right there", now...imagine the average woman telling you what to do when you're giving her oral sex. There's a series of slight noises and body movements that are open to interpretation, and if you cared about her, you'd make the effort to figure out what she likes." Before I have oral sex with a woman, I let her know that if she can't tell me what she l…
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:52 PM
1

And they've been enjoyed by males too
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:39 PM
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You do have a point though, no one should be shaming females for our toys, and (as far as I've read) no one here is.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:37 PM
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I guess humanity didn't learn enough from Elizabeth Bathory. Celebrity/nobility and gender shouldn't get you out of taking responsibility for torturing or raping or murdering human beings. On a lighter note, I think it would be interesting to study who gets better favor from the justice system; women or celebrities.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 11:28 PM
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For every woman who is told that her vagina is nasty, smelly and sinful, there is a man who is told that his penis is shameful. For every man spouting off disgusting anti-vagina rants, there is a woman spouting off disgusting anti-penis/balls rants. If he was my brother, I'd tell him that women who can't get down with a sexually mature men aren't women worth fucking, but I live in a different city, within a different subculture. If your brother is Muslim and hoping for a traditional wife through…
/r/MensRights01/01/13 09:52 PM
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I can't believe such a great law came out of Arizona!
/r/MensRights01/01/13 08:54 PM
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No, these are stalkers, if you give them ANY reason to interact with you they get worse.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 01:28 AM
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Hey dude, your mother is abusive and you need to protect yourself from her physically, emotionally and legally. Document everything. Do not delete texts/emails/voice mail. Is she calling you an unreasonable amount? Keep documentation of the frequency. No matter what you do, form a plan and a back up plan: how will you lawyer up? How will you manage your finances? How much are you willing to give up? Do you have legal assistance at your college? Are you being financially supported by her? Read th…
/r/MensRights29/12/12 08:43 PM
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You need to flesh this thought out a little more. Children who are raped (I speak from experience) have sexual knowledge that other children do not have. We had no moral context for sexual acts. We had no idea that there are consequences and risks associated with sex and no concept of sexual boundaries. Generally, our 'play' with other children was very sexualized but not to the point of violence. We were the kids that other kids went to for answers about sex, babies, parts, ect. At a certain ag…
/r/MensRights29/12/12 07:30 PM
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