Elenariel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I’m 38 tall fit , still have hair single non-felon no kids but do have a per shattered foot Right? If you are going to describe yourself like livestock at the auction, why be surprised you get treated like such?	/r/seduction	21/06/25 05:04 PM
1	I’m 38 tall fit , still have hair single non-felon no kids but do have a per shattered foot Your issue is that you think dating is about meeting objective minimums rather than subjective emotional connection. Communicating in full, grammatically and conceptually sound sentences would also help.	/r/seduction	21/06/25 04:58 PM
-7	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year This dude literally became a passport sex tourist, and somehow failed at that for 6 months straight. How are you out here trying to tell people your "success" story? This whole post reeks of failure and fragile boyhood.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:24 PM
1	Do girls not like nice guys at all? People are not retarded NPCs, and you are terrible at hiding your intentions. Your question is flawed, what you should have asked was "is it weird for women to prefer honest but lusty men, over badly lying, obviously desperate men who are extremely obvious in their lustiness, but get angry if you point it out?" Why would a woman go along with your pretended niceness if she doesn't have to? If there is any other alternative?	/r/seduction	29/03/25 12:56 PM
16	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? Face culture are groups where people care more about maintaining an appearance of success, happiness, intelligence, social status, over actually achieving these.	/r/seduction	15/03/25 01:02 PM
69	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? This is the emotional and psychological profile of a woman who is open to cheat: Low self esteem and confidence (though not always externally apparent) that requires them to constantly need external validation. Something recently happened that makes them question particularly #1 above. Deep in "face culture", such that she is unwilling to discuss what happened in #2 with established people of her social circle, as she believes that would diminish her social standing. The availability of a suffic…	/r/seduction	14/03/25 03:53 PM
36	Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise? They always do, but the criteria they consider when making the upgrade may not be obvious. For example, my first wife cheated on me with a man who was fatter, shorter, dumber, poorer, and more controlling. But he knows all of these things and worships the ground she walks on, so he was an upgrade compared to me in the degree by which we are willing to simp for her. In her eyes, that was a sufficient upgrade to trigger her desire for him.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 03:46 PM
4	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? Because saying everything is one group of humans' fault has never led to things like wars or genocide.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 01:36 PM
-2	I heard my friend say "women want men who other women want". Do you guys feel the same? Bruh, tell me you are a virgin without telling me you are a virgin. Men are much happier sharing women than women are sharing men...	/r/seduction	25/05/24 03:54 PM
5	How to have masculine “energy” in a charismatic way? If you are trying to get the girl to sleep with you, you need to embrace what you perceive as un-masculine energy. Girls don't want to sleep with you because they are fearful. Traditionally masculine things add to that fear. Showing them you are just one of their GFs with a dick will allow you access to social circles and intimacy you previously were not accorded, and since girls often look for a stereotypical masculine man to settle down with, you don't even have to deal with clingers.	/r/seduction	26/01/24 02:27 PM
3	Asking for single women aged 30+ I'm a 36 year old man making 300k a year. I'm 5'10", in great shape (no abs, but also no belly). I'm emotionally available and intelligent. I speak 4 languages, lived in two continents, am citizen of two countries. I started out as poor first generation immigrants with my family in the US (10 years old when we got here). My choices in dating are various, and due to my desirability, I generally don't make an effort to go meet women anymore, they are introduced to me just by existing in the world …	/r/seduction	27/12/23 06:32 PM
6	I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M) I know exactly what you mean. I went through something similar when I was your age (36 now), where I grew up poor and then suddenly was making bank, and I didn't really know how to leverage money into women. Essentially, I knew how to build up a pile of money, but I didn't know how to build up a pile of women. Here are the things that worked well for me. Hired a fashion consultant and gave her a budget to upgrade my closet. I got tailor made clothes for the first time in my life and holy shit do…	/r/seduction	11/09/23 04:01 PM
1	How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement? You know that human monogamy was not a thing until syphilis started 500 years ago? Casual sex was essentially a ten to fifteen years extended death sentence with madness beforehand. Since the rise of antibiotics, we see society trend back towards non monogamy again. How can you assert that a substitute modality of social convention as a result of a disease which has been curbed should be the "right" and "moral" modality?	/r/seduction	31/10/22 12:43 PM
0	How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement? Or you could give polyamory a try and have it all. It's hard to train yourself to overcome the jealousy, but once you do, it really purifies the love. Unlinking sex with love was probably the best life hack that we came up with. And since we are both super insecure people with huge fears of abandonment, the affirmation that nothing either one of us does ever will cause one of us to abandon the other. It's achieving the sort of unconditional love that generally only exists between parent and chil…	/r/seduction	29/10/22 08:56 PM
6	Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US. This is a bold faced lie, China has been surviving culture assimilation by conquering nomads using racism since the founding of the empire in 2000 bc. That's racism so old and treasured that it's almost as important as filial piety to the Chinese culture.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 11:54 AM
2	How many sexual partners have you had? You stop counting past like 30 something. I'm pretty sure it's 3 digits at this point.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 02:02 PM
1	Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy? Being 30-40+ is a plus if you have a car, house, a six figure job, and are still good looking. The older age, particularly if you've been married or are currently married, makes it a lot easier for women to trust you. Also, dating is like trying to make money- just as it's a lot easier to make money as a millionaire, it's a lot easier to date when you have a wife and a girlfriend who are supportive, give good advice, and help with the seduction process. At that point, you mostly just enjoy the g…	/r/seduction	21/02/22 02:26 PM
5	This girl unmatched me because I am a FOB Honest discussion? Nobody meant it to happen, but it is the reality here in the US. This is the perspective of somewhat of an outsider looking in, with no judgment, just observing facts. Traditionally, gender roles were fairly rigid in the US, and expectations for both genders were, if different, at least somewhat equal. As a culture that comes from a Northern Climate of low population density, the American culture selects very hard for optimization by specialization. The ensuing gender roles of…	/r/seduction	05/06/21 01:20 PM
54	This girl unmatched me because I am a FOB As someone who used to be ostracized because I was a FOB when I first moved here, I kind of understand the other side of it. When I dated Chinese people from China, they have all these cultural expectations that I am not familiar with, but that they demand I follow because I'm "Chinese with Chinese blood, and so should be more Chinese." It's not small little things either, gender roles are much more delineated, even the nature of the marital relationship is less to do with what each married part…	/r/seduction	05/06/21 12:32 PM
-24	This girl unmatched me because I am a FOB For example, the view of how to appropriately treat women is different between the US and India. In the US, women are treated as a second class citizen. In India, women are treated as pets/property. I'm not a woman, but even I can see why people who be reluctant about a guy that came from the latter culture.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 12:15 PM