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don't enter that debate. if you can defend a pure democracy, something tried and failed since before feudalism, you're certainly going to end up being the one "defending stupidity." https://www.hoover.org/research/america-not-pure-democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:33 PM
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now you can run a few troll farms and get an ignorant fuckface at the helm of an adversarial nation. The fact that you actually believe this is proof of your premise. Social media has convinced you that Trump supporters are "Russians". It's time to wake up and accept that Americans voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:10 AM
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I have definitely noticed this in my life as well! I could tell you so many stories. But I'll just skip to, what I've found in 30 years of life, is the answer. Men like a challenge. They need to "win". It doesn't matter how beautiful, sexy, cool, and fun you are. If you're easy it just isn't fun for them. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:37 AM
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It reads like she regrets the orgy/didn't want to do it/it was possible blackmail material and that's how she ended up with the tape. She became prudish after that as she was struggling with sexual feelings surrounding the trauma. She probably doesn't want to do things like anal as it reminds her of this experience and she didn't like it so she tried to push the whole thing away. This guy made it all about himself for some reason, he seems ridiculously insecure so his immediate reaction was that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:28 AM
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u/spez
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:11 AM
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lol this was great. Trust me, if you advocate for what you seem to be in this thread, I am not gonna be the one who ends up in the camps. History has always turned against you, the ones who close their ears and point fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:45 AM
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You're ridiculous. Wild animals are not better off in captivity just because they get fed regularly. See all the literature about the difficulties of keeping zoo animals, elephant depression, pandas refusing to breed, whales killing their trainers, etc. etc. etc. Training them is a corruption of their instinct. You know this and you're trolling or being intentionally daft. You've utterly failed to prove your point. Obviously, sex =/= kids is the trick. That's why birth control was such an insane…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:19 PM
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I mean you're just trolling now. No one is stupid enough to think WHALES are better off in captivity than open water. Come ON. Even responding to your second assertion that having kids is somehow a "trick". Either you like busting your nut in a woman or you don't lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:54 AM
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If I'm industrious, taxes. I can be a tax pet. If I'm lazy, I keep voting them in for my benefits. Welfare pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:06 AM
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Sure it's based on instinct, it's not THE instinct. It's just like training a dog. The dog had a hunting instinct you channel to retrieve game or whatever. What's more useful. A dog that randomly attacks and kills things or dog that kills on command. Whales don't need to do tricks for food. They're programmed to for people's enjoyment because they're isolated from their environment. They're better off living in the wild. Same with humans; the more "tricks" you're doing for acceptance is worse fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:04 AM
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Instincts don't qualify as brainwashing. Are whales "brainwashed" into hunting; no, they're brainwashed into doing tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:41 AM
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I feel like your response touches on all the conspiracies and ads some more, love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:43 AM
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True I highly recommend this book "The Myth of Male Power" which goes into depth about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:40 AM
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Exactly and men trying to control it feminizes their response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:40 AM
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You're probably right. But they're doing such a bad job with such nonsense that won't even help themselves it feels by design. Maybe my psyop theory helps me to not devolve into a "men are trash" pinkpiller? (kidding)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:38 AM
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children are imperative for society there's no way around it either you have kids or you get replaced by other people's kids or your society ages and shit's harder on the existing people, just speaking facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:35 AM
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validating foids and giving them alcoholic beverages and tremendous orgasms lol how dare they right? Literally nobody used to care about AWALT or le feminism or whatever. Yeah the whole internet and gaming communities have kinda been negatively affected by this and it's really sad, I blame gamergate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:33 AM
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Totally understandable taken in context, but it does seem like a psyop no? We get to be little government pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:20 AM
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Good to hear your opinion as a married guy (since most on the forum aren't.) Because it's hard for me to take seriously the opinion of someone who doesn't have the experience in what they are talking about, like why should I listen to single men/women for relationship advice. The general thrust of what you're saying is pretty much what I've heard from other men in relationships. Specifically my dad and brother although they would never word it quite like you did at least to my face lol. They def…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:18 AM
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They sound more like exceptions because they lack the toxic opinions towards women and especially don't define themselves in their relation to women. More power to them for being fun loving and having charm that attracts women but would they really identify with the MGTOW movement? I would still say they are not alpha because a true alpha provides benefits to his community--that helps position himself as the alpha. They sound more childlike (which can be a good thing, to a point) who take care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:20 AM
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That's really sad. I'm sorry for the loss of your friends. I wholeheartedly agree that male suicide is a big issue not talked about at all. Feminists will definitely get rid of the men if they can. I think TRP is helping them along. When men who can step up in dominance step down instead, the result is destabilizing society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:03 AM
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Hm we seem to have fundamentally different definitions of words which can make discussion impossible. For example I would heavily argue the last few thousand years favoring betas. There has even been genetic evidence that thousands of years ago only 10% of the men had children--the rest died without issue, either because they were made to fight in wars or were castrated. And if you do not wish you are part of the society you are in you attempt to change it or adopt nihilism, which is kinda the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:59 AM
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But what is described is the most 'normie' behavior. Go to bar have sex don't settle down. Everyone knows this. If you self-select yourself out of the gene pool you are by definition not alpha. You have a biological fitness level of 0. Not only do these people not have family, they are a drain on society. That is the point. You don't need to care what happens after death, if you do not care what comes after you. But this means you do not really feel that you are part of the society you live in. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:49 AM
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Thanks :) I know I first got into it due to noticing patterns in society and economic circumstances. The conspiracy aspect kinda has two angles for me: 1) "small crazy elite subgroup" as discussed related to psyop 2) The original "red pillers", kind of like that guy Mystery the PUA, wanted to capitalize on it. They're not really interested in sex or relationships with women they've just used it as a way to become alphas in a field. Like if they had discovered coding or something they would be te…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:45 AM
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lol...what? You can get a pretty classy escort for $250. If you can find a thirsty girl at a bar you can probably get her home for under $50. If that's too expensive for sex... you're just not interested at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:36 AM
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It was weird and irrelevant. Having a partner obviously gives you more access to sex. What does it matter if that's considered blue pill, especially in a discussion between two people flared purple???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:16 AM
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You don't have to care about me to be triggered. I can see it by your strange reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:10 AM
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I seem to have struck a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:06 AM
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I'd consider them brainwashed. Self-selected themselves out of the gene pool. Hedonistic. A few years until sad, old, and dependent on the welfare state to care for them in their old age. Not alpha. The kind of man who, if a soldier in WWII, a few of his buddies felt bad for a few minutes when he died because there was no one back home to miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:05 AM
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Yes he would. It's inarguable. A man who struggles to get sex/one-night stands would get more sex from a woman he lives with. And this zero-sum idea is also false. If you're a beta in a dead bedroom situation you could still cheat on her and try your luck getting sex elsewhere. Having a LTR is always a net positive in sex gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:58 AM
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Come on, get out of here with that hippie nonsense. You sound like a NWO Soros funded globalist. Globalization was never going to solve wars. It was all about control, the economy, and population replacement. The people in Eastern Europe always knew that but somehow the rest of you couldn't hear us over the sound of John Lennon's "Imagine" blasting on repeat, I guess. Now China is going to take over the world. I wonder what pill is taken upon realizing that you aborted too many females and the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:56 AM
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Open borders immigration was the monkey wrench in the world order, not Brexit or Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:43 AM
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But they want to import immigrants from non-western countries to make up the birthrate. That is the whole point. There are few subversive cultural aspects that are easier to deal with anyway, for example, immigrants tend to not vote or to consistently vote their entire lives for the party they view as responsible for their immigration. By far the best strategy for most people to ensure consistent sex is to have a long term partner. In the past, even Alpha men who would be red pill Chads today fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:34 AM
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Strongly agree. I am female RP'er, also banned from the forum. When I first found TRP, it was like a breath of fresh air. Finally, people were talking about what just made social/biological sense at a time when I felt like I was getting mixed messages from my liberal environment. The thing is they just keep going with it to the point that it becomes an excuse to hate on the opposite sex. It was important to me to meet a guy who understood that I expected him to fulfill certain "masculine" roles …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:53 AM
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I appreciate this post. I am female and used to read TRP and RPW all the time. I was very nervous about the wall when I was 28~29. I am now over 30 and it's true, certain "wall" things have happened. I'm no longer skinny with 0 effort, I have to put in a little effort. I have dry skin. I have some gray hairs. To be honest "hitting the wall" came with some relief. I am so much more confident about myself. I have more money to afford better cosmetic products. My fluffy, unmanageable hair has becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:56 AM
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because they are not happy with themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 03:24 AM
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"Oh, this chick might not be forever, well if all we have is tonight....." It must be some kind of reverse psychology but it makes me want to be the "forever" girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:38 AM
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I am not a man so I am not sure if I can answer but I would recommend the books "Seduction" and "Power" by Robert Greene, "The Six Battles Every Man Must Win", "The Myth of Male Power" (although I believe the author is a feminist, it's a classic of men's rights) anything by Jordan Peterson and you can search YouTube for him talking specifically about women if that's what you're looking for. I am not the biggest fan of most of the manosphere/dating advice sites but Mark Manson is OK, there is a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:03 AM
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They don't report greater marriage satisfaction because they are virgins. They report greater marriage satisfactions because almost the only people left in our society who remain virgins until marriage are people who are devoutly religious, and people who are devoutly religious report more life satisfaction in marriage and life in general. Do you listen to Ben Shapiro? There is a great example of someone who remained a virgin until marriage and reports very high life satisfaction and satisfactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:57 AM
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You need to get some better values. Don't you have anything you're proud about in this life? Why do you care about being rejected? This is not what life is about. This is like the child at school who cannot make friends because they are afraid other people won't like them, therefore they take no stance on anything and no one knows anything about them so no one wants to be their friend. It sounds to me like you are a normal person clinging to MGTOW for some meaning. In fact MGTOW is just telling …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:45 AM
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I wonder why people have downvoted this as it seems such a straightforward and banal question. Anyway I would like to answer this part of your question; And how did society become like that? As it's already discussed about society immediately prior to the sexual revolution, which was the nuclear family. Before the nuclear family there were thousands of years of different social systems, but what led to the nuclear family was a genuine attempt at democracy and fairness for all people to have a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:13 AM
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What? I'm a bit confused by what you wrote here but if I'm reading it correctly, and I don't mean to be rude or personal by saying this, you sound incredibly naive. It was smart of you to divorce a woman who cheated on you and did not have the personality compatible with yours (impulsive) but you need to ask yourself why you fell into this trap with her. I know this will make me sound like the female equivalent of a "nice guy", but I've never cheated and I've also never been married. I'm bringin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:55 AM
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I've never seen your first example with children involved. To the second point, the women aren't ludicrously high value. It was commonly seen in the 90s. I would think the second husband tends to be less high value than the first, but that hasn't held true in any of my examples or the anecdotes of other people who responded to the post. Rather the woman remarried and does seem to prefer the second husband. I was asking if it's due to her meting her expectations of genuinely choosing better the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:41 AM
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It's great, Don is very much a "red pill" man--he's in some ways the picture of the perfect 50's husband, and in other ways just a scandalous asshole. I'm reluctant to say more in case you watch it, since it's very good! The show exhibits the decline of the family after the 50's and the changing culture of the 60's. Both of them are far, far more unhappy after their divorce. Even though he cheated on her many times, Don loved Betty. The rest, a topic for another day! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:37 AM
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you seem confused about the conversation. the men in question weren't burned; they preferred to remarry, and did so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:26 AM
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Poor hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:25 AM
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I'd be curious what the great minds of Reddit think would help. I'd answer, but not on a semi-public forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:22 AM
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Well others certainly don't like your comment but I think it is a very negatively worded version of the truth. This was why my original post was about the women who choose to remarry. I don't think your statement holds true for them; they don't replace their men so much as trade them out for someone different. The men are easier to understand. I have heard men tell me, "If my girlfriend and I were to break up, I would find another like her."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:13 AM
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I'm female and I've never been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:06 AM
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As a student of history with a primary interest in horse lord cultures (Mongol, Scythian, Turk) I think there is some basis of truth to this, though not quite how TRP interprets it. I hesitate to make any connections between the current sexual behavior of modern humans and humans from ~500-3000 years ago; there simply aren't that many generations to make any reliable claims when it comes to taking an evolutionary biology stance on the "programming" of women as war brides. Most importantly, it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:00 AM
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Wondering if you have seen "Mad Men" which also has this dynamic. Betty leaves Don over his cheating, although she is wrong about the specific instance she accuses him of. She definitely capitalizes on her victim status. Her next husband, I believe he is a senator, can provide for her more in terms of emotional availability, status, and probably money (although Don provided for her well.) Is Betty "happier" with her next husband? It doesn't seem so, as her emotional issues get worse and she gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:43 AM
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Why was divorce and remarry such a commonly seen family system in the 90s. Was there really such a big difference between the first and second husbands? If so, do you think she learned something about her preferences for a mate, or did she learn to live with her choices better. Why didn't the women stay single, and why did this family system seem to drop off (I think people are a little more likely to stay together these days if they have kids, but could it be because single mothers are looked d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:37 AM
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This is much closer to the answer I was looking for. Societal trends over time and the reasons for it. Answers from your mom's perspective are very interesting. Divorce is not the taboo it once was, and women were trying to keep their families together and provide a stable life for their children. I think there is some element to it that they had the ability to divorce, which they didn't have as much in your mom's time (60's and before.) So I think Sally Field in the 50's would have just put up …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:24 AM
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So would you say, that for the women who initiated divorce, took the kids, and remarried, the husband had failed her in some way? I don't see this pattern of remarriage as much today, do you think men are less likely to step up for the role of stepdad to kids that aren't theirs? Obviously it is difficult for a single mom to date, yet if she finds a husband she seems to stay with him. What do you think is more likely: she knew her needs better this time and chose better, or she is trying harder t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:50 PM
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I'm sorry, what? Why are you working out, learning to cook and dance, in short doing the things that will make you more attractive as a partner, and then "checking out of the relationship market"? You lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:45 PM
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But the women (in these cases) don't leave the men and become single. That is way more likely in the cases where the man leaves the woman. I am talking about when the woman leaves and takes the kids, has the same family dynamic, but trades the husband. Also it seems to me the hypergamy explanation doesn't work here, as in many cases the women left more masculine men for more sensitive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:31 PM
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This is the corollary, yes. But I think this happened earlier than the 90's. I would say this was more common in the 70s and 80s. For movies showing this, "First Wives Club" definitely comes to mind. I think we could have the same conversation about when men do it to women, too. I wonder why men would leave their family and start a new family with a new woman. Did he learn something he couldn't stand from his first wife, was he just trading a new set of problems, why he didn't just become a bach…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:25 PM
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I was the same way (except I'm female.) At first TRP seemed so accurate and i liked how they stated things that are taboo but also seem to be common sense. It was refreshing. I found RPW and got active there. But I started to see a lot i disagreed with because it was too rigid. Also a lot of ridiculous advice that would help no one (men and women messing with each other's heads to avoid getting gamed by the other party.) I honestly think TRP is a psy-op now, it's guys who are so bad with women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 06:07 AM
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Haha i wish i knew!... in my experience the mental health of the person and their ability to commit to you is most important. I guess i could say, if they haven't had a serious or meaningful relationship by 25 (women) or 30 (men) theyre probably set in their ways or dealing with some internal issues that arent worth you taking on. But thats also true for someone who had 100+ partners, especially a female!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:10 AM
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She is both. That is my point. A woman who is a virgin at that age has to have a reason. After all, she somehow turned down ALL the advances of ALL the men who were interested in her from 18-28. What is she holding out for? In the case of strong principals, thats awesome. But thats super rare. And usually figured out by 25 IME (like in the case of religious people, who then make a concentrated effort to find someone because again they want to have sex, have a family etc.) Older virgin WOMEN are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:51 AM
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In principal i would agree, the thing is that isnt really how dating is these days especially since birth control. Finding a guy who wants to commit right away? Outside of religious communities, good luck! If she "doesnt go out" that translates into "not wanting to date" which is "not meet people" which is just incredibly boring personality. Thats my friend, she was pretty scared of dating and guys, now shes pushing 30 and sometime after 25 the need and desire to find a mate has just turned into…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:43 AM
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I do know some women who would fit your scenario (28 yo and virgin) and honestly i dont believe any of these answers ... irl if you are a virgin at that age, in my experience, the person is really bad at forming relationships and has the worse case of "i deserve more, i deserve better than what this guy is offering me" than any of the other woman i know. There is sadly a certain amount of risk a woman experiences by having sex outside of marriage but typically those women who mitigate it by NOT …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:25 AM
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No, he is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:15 AM
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I am currently living the "28 year old" scenario irl and all these comments are driving me crazy because the grass is always greener, let me tell you that... kinda miss my "21 year old" 😖 edit: both are 30 irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:04 AM
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It was created by guys, from TRP. But it was run by women. At one point the guy came back and he basically said, that all of the women were married to Betas, because only Betas get married. This caused an uproar lol. Now i think its too guy-centric...
/r/RedPillWives27/10/18 06:12 AM
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Thank you. I really want kids, but i am proud of my body and don't want it to completely change.... Don't stress is great advice as I follow it now and it always helps, especially with the few inevitable winter pounds that are more easily lost in the Spring. Its just hard to believe that can happen even after some kids!
/r/RedPillWives21/10/18 02:44 AM
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The redpillwomen sub is totally run by men and their lackeys who took it over about 2 years ago. It caused a split where the old mods started this forum. I kept posting on that one because I'm not married and felt that sub a bit more targeted to my concerns. They KEPT allowing men to post with terrible advice -- one that sticks out in particular was a H.S. senior with a physical disability. The guys were just ripping into her about her low SMV. I said she should not listen to them and focus on d…
/r/RedPillWives21/10/18 02:35 AM
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The truth is I thought these girls were the same person just dressed up differently. The first girl is preferred because she looks sluttier and most guys are looking for sex, not LTR. We have a lot of rocket science on PPD for actually basic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 05:25 PM
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This is because once you hit a certain level of beauty, you are considered ugly by some people because of how unusual your features are. On the other hand conventionally good looking people are really closer to average attractiveness. This is obvious with celebrities. Sarah Jessica Parker and Angelina Jolie are the oft-stated examples. They're always seen as gorgeous through the camera and in the context of their films, but in real life? They both look like aliens compared to the average person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 04:10 PM
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I get that, but there is a reason I am saying it's not relevant to real life. It is a very very very rare woman who mates with a man PURELY because he suceeded in the ONS category, because women are not looking for one night stands. Even when a woman does have a ONS, there is a tiny part of her hoping the guy will call again, fall in love with her, want as many children as she does, etc. It is a very very very rare woman who thinks, "Wow, sex with Chad last night was amazing, but I hope I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:41 PM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 11:35 PM
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I won't disagree with you on that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 09:02 PM
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No. I'm sorry. They aren't. This is why young women end up with older men at a rate greater than young men end up with old women. There are so many examples of what I am trying to explain to you is a biological reality that red pill theory overlooks. You haven't given me any examples because that isn't how attraction works biologically for females-- TRP can only point to our social conditioning. We might be socially conditioned to say "oh he's hot" but we choose long term mates on factors differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 08:57 PM
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You're right that I'm not like all other women, but it doesn't matter. If your woman chose you based primarily her sexual attraction to you, and not your other qualities, that is the scenario I outlined in point #2. If not, then she is like me, and go to point #1. (Barring, of course, other factors in your ltr I'm not privy to.) Your argument about attraction versus protection is logically flawed, because attraction naturally decreases at a much greater rate than his ability to protect and provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:56 PM
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I understand, I'm just saying that you seem to think she isn't a unicorn, when in my opinion whoever picked you is a unicorn (assuming they tick off your other boxes) because that's the missing piece. Even if you still get offers and interest, those aren't people who opted to try and build a life with you. At the end of the day it's women who are fickle, and choose which guy we want to go home with, since men naturally cast a wider net. The fact she fished you out should count for something! Red…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:50 PM
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I would say in that case, you might have this mindset due to either, 1) something like low self-esteem, putting too much emphasis on receiving external validation from others, not feeling that your choices in life gave you the fulfillment you were looking for, and possibly, having trouble wrestling with the fact that truly good values like loyalty and industriousness aren't valued in society as much as youth, money, willingness to make a fool of yourself on Instagram for likes. 2) punching above…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:44 PM
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Doesn't it help knowing your wife chose you, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:58 PM
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I sorry I delete
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:43 PM
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Why do you assume that I don't? You're so illogical. And no, he didn't say "whore."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:47 PM
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Yea there's clearly no point in talking with you. You're just guzzling the TRP cum. As Hitler would say, "Into the oven you go!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:06 PM
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Reading your post history really makes me question the value of answering this. Both cases are high-value women committing to low-value men. In u/trail22's case, she "should" leave her husband because of hypergamy. In my case, red pill theory had him so convinced that a relationship like the first couldn't exist, that he would rather be homeless than take the risk of entering one. There's just a point where TRP's message to men that all women cheat on them and that they are useless except as poc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 05:07 PM
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I'm just gonna piggyback off this one. I dated a guy like this (ptsd from Afghanistan) and I was absolutely in love with him. But, he subscribed to all the "red pill" theories about life and women. Because I consider myself and my upbringing very red pill, I thought things would work out for us. Nope, because TRP is just a moving set of goalposts. Committing to any woman is a losing move in a TRP'ers eyes. I would have happily been in a relationship with him like you describe your friends', but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 08:05 AM
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They had some kids and divorced. She still lives in the country he brought her too but I don't know what their relationship is like now, I imagine just there for the kids sake. Actually she is doing pretty well as an athlete/trainer. It's pretty funny because she really turned it around on guys. When she was young guys were crazy for her (I mean, one did pay to marry her...) but now she has younger "gym bunny" boyfriends. It's not what I want. I really hope I can find a ltr as my parents did. Oh…
/r/RedPillWives16/08/18 06:47 AM
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I think the relationships don't work out because they're not in love. And there's no social pressure like in an arranged marriage (many couples in that say they grow to love each other.) With neither? The relationship is doomed. I am American but my mom is Eastern European. I would say we just have a more naturally "red pill" mindset, but also, the men have the mindset of being a protector and provider. So it's a good combo. I know personally I've felt taken advantage of by guys in the past beca…
/r/RedPillWives16/08/18 06:21 AM
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I really agree with u/Keepyouravocados. You have to nurture him and provide stability and "model" a healthy relationship with his father. Honestly the healthy relationship model is the biggest thing. But as far as teaching him to "be a man" this is something that imo if you get too involved in run the risk of creating a "mama's boy." I don't have sons but I have two younger brothers and I always tried to encourage them to be chivalrous, strong, and smart. I really tried to encourage classic male…
/r/RedPillWives16/08/18 02:05 AM
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Haha, I definitely do! Here, I'll try to explain myself a little better: The essay is long (and I also have a date with my 10/10 waifu so I don't have much time today, sorry!) so I'll pull out one thing I take issue with. "They rail on about infantile men, or bemoan that men are afraid to ask them out" Bottom line why I disagree: If you're not attracted to him don't date him. It's also true that because of feminism and egalitarianism more women are feeling this way, because so many men are givin…
/r/RedPillWives12/08/18 08:31 PM
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Just another effort by Rollo to shame women into being attracted to weak and infantile men.
/r/RedPillWives12/08/18 07:09 PM
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I agree with a lot of the comments on here like consider religion again and also that TRP isn't something to follow blindly, more a tool to help usually pathetic men with women. I want to give my perspective of TRP which is negative. When I first found it, I loved it because it was the only place I saw anybody talking about Men's rights. I'm politically minded and raised by a very "alpha" single dad (who ended up fully committed to my stepmom, although he could easily play the field forever if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:04 AM
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That's totally fine but if you would rather play Fortnite than contribute to the world don't be surprised that I don't want to date you. And stop thinking every working class guy with an above minimum wage job is Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:19 PM
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You are 100% right and unfortunately this also becomes a political issue of immigration. Middle class women (and men) are squeezed; the issue is more serious for women because they want children (men, getting sex due to our free society and birth control, are more sated.) Women end up feeling the financial burden and work more. Now you have a whole crop of women not having kids because it's too extensive and difficult to secure a mate-- this only becomes a social problem with a declining birthra…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:12 AM
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Lmao you can't seriously not see the logical fallacy in your comment here? If you want to stay home, play dress up, and be a cute househusband go ahead. Or, if you do the bulk of the household chores because your wife has more responsibilities outside the home, go ahead. Whatever works as a couple. But if you just check out because you don't want either responsibility, how do you then also blame women for choosing them? Nobody is going to look down on you for working inside the home just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:05 AM
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My dad owns a contracting business, and I would happily date a plumber. The problem is there is a lack of men who even think "plumber" is a worthwhile job title. They'd rather be a barista at Starbucks, a brewer, a comic. Yeah, there will be a lot of guys on Reddit proclaiming this is all some post-wall female trickery they're not falling for, but how many of them even have jobs??? It seems like none of the guys these days --who should all be reasonable candidates for us females to mate with -- …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:00 AM
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Interesting stuff! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/18 04:46 AM
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I'm not married so I probably can't give you really good advice but reading your story one thing that struck me is that you are pregnant and about to have a baby, so you are probably feeling extremely protective, nervous, and sensitive. Your husband isn't carrying the child so he doesn't have those feelings of imminence like you do. His natural instinct might even be along the lines of, "This one's going to be held up by the baby for a while, but what about me?" For example I've heard men can fe…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 04:46 PM
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Why would I take advice about men, women, or dating from a rich and successful celebrity who literally paid for sperm so she could have a child
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:26 AM
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Fascinating read! It really makes you wonder what Vox was thinking. This author does a better job explaining different marriage systems across cultures.
/r/RedPillWives11/06/18 04:16 AM
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I am single...😅😟
/r/RedPillWives09/06/18 06:05 AM
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That's crazy!
/r/RedPillWives08/06/18 06:57 AM
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Thank you so much :) I think I will stop by more often. Aaand they banned me 😂
/r/RedPillWives07/06/18 02:51 AM
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That's my feelings too. They're giving very weird advice on the other sub. My parents are in a very "red pill" relationship. For example, my mom cooks and serves my dad every meal he eats. Yet, my mom isn't a doormat or a stepford wife at all. And my dad is very "alpha" but he would never view my mom with the mentality that he is gaming or playing her. They have a cooperative instead of competitive mindset.
/r/RedPillWives07/06/18 02:49 AM
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Don't listen to Whisper, he is a troll who has ruined the environment of this forum with his MGTOW friends. Men don't get to erase their histories, that is ridiculous, and you are not an egg container. You're just a young woman inexperienced in sex. You're stressed from punching below, then above, your weight class. It's such a difference between the guys that you're having trouble processing what happened. It's normal not to be interested in sex and dating for some time after this kind of traum…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:55 PM
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Because riding the CC is a myth red pill men made to shame extroverted women who enjoy sex. Introverted women, and women who are selective about their partners, don't have any desire to do that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:42 PM
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William is. Harry looks just like Hewitt, and Hewitt's father. https://goo.gl/images/uU5ccP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:58 PM
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Are you high? Prince Harry definitely the one marrying down here. I want to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:26 PM
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James Hewitt?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:25 PM
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What about asking men if men will regret not having children? I'm a woman and I wanted to have kids with the partners I was with in my 20s, but when it came down to it they all told me they don't want to have kids so we would break up. I don't think this is really a decision women are making by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:10 AM
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I am personally offended by this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:41 AM
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Lol, this is such a bizarre situation though... your wording totally makes it sound like he's looking for a brood mare lmao. I have so many questions... are you really splitting hairs over 5 years without considering factors like compatibility... how old is the guy...what about her hip size jkjk But yea having a first kid by 35, in a modern country, isn't going to make anyone even bat an eye. Since he wants two kids (and I'm assuming she does too?! Haha) it's worth noting that the fertility trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 03:39 PM
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Nobody is arguing with this. But medicine can reverse this infertility: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/infertility And there's also ART (egg and sperm mixed together then placed back in the body) Looking at this another way, there's only a 30% chance your 40yo gf will even need fertility treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 03:21 AM
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People just say that it does to continue living comfortably with defeatist attitudes. If you're in a modern country discussions of fertility are pointless because our medicine is so advanced women are having children into their 50s. Not saying it's optimal; just that there's no point in trying to change these people's minds. Yes our biological perceptions are aware that 20yo women are more attractive than 50yo women, but your average poster bringing up declining female fertility could likely imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:11 PM
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That's why the guy pays for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:54 AM
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So what's the problem with clarifying your plans to him?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 06:36 PM
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Girl are you for real? Run away from this. He's a player making you wonder about his intentions towards you. You're a virgin wondering if you should be more RP towards him. He has you eating out of the palm of his hand, wondering what to do with yourself and how to get him to like you when he's not even trying to be your boyfriend. This is a game and he is winning.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 12:15 PM
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The main reason I heard Trump's name in the 90's was because he renovated the New York skyline and had created Atlantic City. He made an obvious effort to caricaturize and popularize himself by appearing in sitcoms, commercials, radio shows, wrestlemania, etc. I'm sorry, but you must have a dramatically altered view of the world than most people if you think that most people heard Trump's name in the context of him cheating on his wife. The anti-Trump sentiment is palpable these days but it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:32 PM
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Women are moral, and a woman is supposed to raise up a man by inspiring him in terms of morality. The real tragedy of TRP is that they actively discourage this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:52 PM
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I'm not political I'm anti-Trump Snark seemed pretty deserved tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:49 PM
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If you aren't political why did you bother to get flaired as a non -Trump supporter on the other sub, much less get involved in this discussion? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:39 PM
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Like I said in my original comment I've read a lot about Trump and Melania yet somehow never ran across accusations of him cheating on her, so I looked that up. Porn Star Stormy Daniels claimed this year to have had an affair with Trump in 2006. That's over 10 years before she bothered to publicize this, only once he is president and she's aged out of her career, nothing about that seems suspicious to you (or anyone else reading In Touch magazine?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:34 PM
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sorry but the evidence is strongly against your claim, maybe head back over to r/politics so you can bitch in an echo chamber
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 05:14 PM
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Maybe this is another cultural difference thing. Yes she changed diapers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:52 PM
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I have read as much as I can about their relationship. I think people are too hard on them (because they hate Trump.) Melania was at the end of her modeling career when they met at a party. At first Trump didn't want to be exclusive so they stopped dating, but then decided to get back together and be official a few months later. I think Melania has a lot of amazing qualities that are not valued or noticed so much in American culture, but Trump notices and that's why he married 2 Eastern European…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:49 AM
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I'm very different from most women, so you might be right! (And before anybody jumps me, I'm specifically citing personality type, as I have the one opposite of most women's.) I also notice girls talking about things like "Is he cute?!" That I just think are asinine questions... I dunno if guys ask each other "is she hot???" when talking about girls 🙄 But I still think attraction is more fluid for women than for men... women can feel attracted to someone easier than men can even if looks aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:27 AM
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Please, tell me more about what I'm talking about 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:21 AM
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I liked your story in the OP. I had a similar experience with a guy I was crazy for. He slept with another girl (who I beat in every category that supposedly matters to men, like age, looks, weight, submissiveness...) And yea whenever she distanced herself or started dating someone else he would go to crazy lengths trying to keep her on the hook. So maybe u/jammerly1 is right. She even hooked up with his best friend and that didn't stop him from wanting to see her. I honestly think these people …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:34 PM
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Looks don't matter to women, attraction does. I think maybe men can't separate this the way women can. For example I dunno why but I think men with horrible scars are insanely attractive. Maybe because it's a sign that he survived danger, I dunno. I wouldn't kid myself that these guys are "good - looking" though. Sorry just had to jump in :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:56 PM
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Yea I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 04:19 AM
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They don't like you either.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 07:17 AM
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https://youtu.be/493pL_Vbtnc
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 07:01 AM
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You sound like such a smart and amazing young woman! I wish I could just shake you and say "Don't worry about it! The right person will love you for who you are and he will be there at the right time." But I know that before I met my boyfriend I didn't want to hear stuff like that at all--I felt really confused and lonely, and I worried about having sex and being touched all the time. I loved the confidence you had when describing your positive qualities so I'll copy your tone a bit here: dolled…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 06:24 AM
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Ok, I get the frustration and what you are saying, because I have been there too. Wondering how the next girl who is louder, sluttier, heavier, and dumber than me gets proposals and marriage and babies while I am over here like this. Comparing yourself to others is a recipe for unhappiness so don't do it. But I think you are jumping the gun here thinking that she beat the game somehow with this guy. I don't consider marrying a part time musician who I have to financially support as being in a "r…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 05:43 AM
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I read in a book that if a man ever asks you how many partners you've had you should just say 3. If you say 0 or 1 (and you're an adult) there's pressure or he thinks you're lying, but if it's more than 3 that's a just don't go there kind of thing. (I don't necessarily think you should lie either way but I get where the author was coming from.) Men do have some biological disgust towards women who've had too many partners. My number is above 3 but I can only actually remember 3 of them decently …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 07:57 AM
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First of all it's not like you hit "the wall" at 30 and you get put out to pasture. It's possible you will look better at 30 than at 25 if you're finally taking care of yourself. Second of all you are married and I only say that because, being skinny isn't going to bring you happiness or a good man. You can trust my advice on that I promise. Count your blessings!!! My number one tip for losing weight is to drink more water. I don't know anyone who drinks enough water. Any drink that isn't water …
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 07:27 AM
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No...did you even look at the article? Men will typically pick the strategy most conducive to getting regular access to sex. That's it. I see this and the insinuation that only beta shlubs get married all the time in pill land, and they're statements that are so easily disproven and untrue I'm surprised that our communities [which generally pride themselves on being logical and reasonable] continue to repeat them. If it were true that men really function like this, all men would go to prostitute…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 06:48 AM
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you can't wait for more than that in most countries before sex. Why not? Sure you can wait as long as you want. OK, I admit I am in one of those countries, so to answer it another way: If I go on 3 dates with you, I like you pretty much. We're both probably looking for a lot of the same things or I wouldn't still be talking to you (unless you are psychopath liar who is tricking me.) If I want a relationship, you want a relationship, we like each other, maybe we have even known each other and be …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 07:19 AM
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Well you don't sound as antagonistic to me here as in some of the other comments, maybe that's why you got some downvotes. But, I don't really agree that a woman should wait 2-3 dates before sex. If you are just dating and getting to know someone, 2-3 dates isn't enough time to vet him at all! OTOH, some people get together with friends, someone they know from church, etc. In that case, it might make sense to have sex on the first date! You can't even say "wait until marriage" because in some cu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:22 AM
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This is your problem, NOT your boyfriend's. You need to learn how to accept compliments, even if you don't agree or believe in them. All you have to do is say "thank you." If you keep making people feel bad for complimenting you, one day no one will and you will be left wondering why no one says anything nice to you. I will give you a suggestion: start complimenting yourself. Look in the mirror and say something you like about your body to it. Like "hair, you're so shiny today. Stomach, wow look…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 02:52 AM
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Willow, you give such great advice, thanks for being here. Sex is something that, as a society, we can't really "go back" on (We have the pill, legal abortion, etc) so it is confusing for women and I would say especially so for red-pilled women what to do about sex. I have 1 girlfriend who fits TRP's definition of a "unicorn" ... but guys don't like her, precisely because she uses sex as a bargaining chip. Nobody wants to play a game that is rigged against them from the beginning! It's not that …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 02:40 AM
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Wait, you're a guy??? Why are posting here?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 02:26 AM
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Remember that the article is all statistics so it's full of generalizations. Everyone is different. For me, my parents are very RP and my dad wanted girls because he didn't have a great relationship with his dad. He was nervous about making the same mistakes. But then my brother was born :P Just ask your man, it could be anything!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 02:14 AM
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I agree with you that people whose parents divorced when they were children are a large percentage of the dating pool. That this turns them off to marriage is just a statistic and there are of course always exceptions. I'm nearing 30, and at this point, I doubt I would consider a man as LTR material if his parents are divorced. Unfortunately I've seen over and over again this particular statistic proven true. The guys I've dated with married parents understand what I'm looking for while the guys…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 02:06 AM
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Thanks for the summary! I agree that marriage shouldn't be the end goal so much as the natural progression of a good relationship. But I liked the article because it points out trends in a logical way. It helps with vetting. If a guy isn't the marrying type, it doesn't matter how high your smv & rmv are, he's not going to marry you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 01:55 AM
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First of all, welcome!!! We are so happy you found us, too! I loved your post :D I totally empathize with wanting to be this traditional kind of woman makes sense to me now... its natural ! ! ! Its.. literally in our makeup. ... and I lol'd about your sister. I can't say whether to be open about your views or not. There are pros and cons to both. I am totally open so I will share my experiences about that: Good Things I feel more authentic. Since applying RP concepts, the caliber of men asking m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 09:39 AM
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Yep, this is why I don't follow black pill and why I think a lot of TRP is not actually red pilled at all. If you follow red pill truths to their logical conclusion you realize the importance of the nuclear family to our whole society. If you pump-and-dump women (turning them in to bitter WGTOW equivalents because you got cheated on in the past) you're basically a traitor to your race in my opinion; I don't know how else to put it, if you've seen the reality of things and still choose to not do …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:26 AM
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Ugh I have so much I could add to this, but telling the whole story would be TMI for Reddit. I will say in my experience this is absolutely true. Growing up, I saw extreme examples of this, like you describe here, and it absolutely pushed me to a more "red pill" mindset. I came to the conclusion that some women have a lack of accountability. They play the victim and give up, create codependent situations where they can't be responsible, and this is the big blue pill/red pill difference to me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:32 PM
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? What does that have to do with what I wrote? I think attractive people tend to pair up with other attractive people, and less attractive people tend to pair up with other less attractive people. Very high SMV women do not have a lot of options relative to their own sexual SMV, so some of them trade in like $100 girl. They don't end up alone with cats as often as they end up with someone older and richer than they are. See: pretty much every model you ever heard of. Most people who end up alone…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 08:06 PM
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Wow that forum is...disgusting. I agree with you though about 49-yo single mom being interesting as a case study. But again, she isn't the norm and from her profile, you can tell she is from an extremely poor/disadvantaged background. I don't know, I can never really get behind this type of forum, because it seems so out of touch with how SMP works. I don't point out overweight nerdy men I run into on dating apps writing things like "LOL incel you're probably a virgin HAHA!" Why do these guys po…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 10:14 PM
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No problem, thanks for checking back. If you want to make an with update with what happened with your boyfriend I think we all like reading those. I am going to dissect you response a little bit with the caveat that I don't know how things are going for you now. So I hope things are going well but some things jumped out at me as I have been/am in a similar position to you with a guy. I made it clear to him I was looking to get married and start a family when we met each other. I haven't found th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/17 09:30 PM
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Looks like your thread brought out the fun police 😂 I like that show, they find some pretty crazy people to be on it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 02:22 AM
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The article is asinine in its presentation, but this is part of why young women 20~25 date older men. Men who are older have more experience in life and are more intellectually stimulating than younger men (can be said for all young people, really.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 09:11 AM
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Well to be honest graduate degrees in humanities are basically useless; everyone I know with a graduate degree in humanities works at a coffee shop. Except the ones who are teachers, have you looked into that? Charter and private schools will hire without teaching credentials and you could become a substitute with just a bachelor's. The economy is booming right now so there's no reason you shouldn't be able to find a job. It probably won't be the job you want but we all have to fit in to society…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 09:04 AM
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I think the guys offered some really good perspective. As a woman I just wanted to add that I've been in a similar situation to you here. Unfortunately it can be hard to take a step back but I would ask myself some questions: did you really want your first kiss with this guy to be in the back of a car, and drunk? For you, no! But for him, he was perfectly ok with that. This, plus the fact that everyone on the trip was hooking up, tells me that yes he felt rejected -- but he was also probably mos…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 08:55 AM
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I wasn't attacking him, I'm just wondering why he advocates for men to sleep with multiple women but then calls OP's husband a sack of shit for doing so. The risk of pregnancy and STDs isn't any lower for him and the women he sleeps with. No wonder men check out of marriage: if you're single, you get a pass on the same behavior you get crucified for if married.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 07:44 PM
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Yep. It has given me great things and also got me in trouble. Double edged sword.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 06:21 AM
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I don't understand why that information changed your mind, when you yourself admit to sleeping with multiple women??? It's bad because he stepped up and tried to have a family, but it's ok for you to possibly impregnate and infect multiple women and their babies with syphilis??? Why, because you never put a ring on any of their fingers??? How is this logic
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 06:15 AM
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Why do you dye your hair? You are only 16. I am genuinely surprised no one has mentioned this. This is a time in your life for play, study, and getting to know yourself. Women dye their hair to look different than who they really are; typically, older trying to look younger. There is no reason to be dyeing your hair at 16.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 06:08 AM
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True but I still don't want a guy who cheats lol Just like I wouldn't branch swing I don't want a guy to cheat. People have to behave as moral creatures and rise above their base desires.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:34 AM
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I'm reminded of something a friend of mine use to say regarding religion: "You can be Buddhist and Christian around Buddhists but not Christians." In other words the day will come and it will be the feminists who want you to choose.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:27 AM
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As someone whose parents are immigrants, and whose whole family are hardcore Trump supporters, I don't think I will ever understand what his opponents mean by the anti-immigration rhetoric. Personally I don't find them tone deaf at all, more like there's a whole note playing that a lot of people can't seem to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:17 AM
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"I know my husband. We have a great relationship. We are both very independent. We know what our roles are and we are happy with them. I think the mistake some people make is they try to change the man they love after they get married. You cannot change a person. You accept the person. It is important to understand each other. If you need to change someone it will never work." I think Melania comes across as a perfect woman, I'll just say that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:09 AM
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I really can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. Although I agree that Melania doesn't seem thrilled that Donald won the presidency, that's only so far as she is being selfish about it--she knew it would put her in the limelight, where she never wanted to be. I don't get the impression from her that she is annoyed AF about anything, except having to defend her family. I also really, really don't like the insinuation that she was looking for sugar. I see it all the time relating to women fr…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 09:00 AM
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Your post just screams low self esteem. Most of it doesn't even make sense. You "can't compete in real life"??? What's going to happen when you meet a guy you like and are on a date with him, if you're telling yourself you "can't compete in real life"? Why are you memorizing such a self-sabotaging script? I'm big on fitness so your next details really got to me. From your description, it sounds like there is absolutely nothing wrong with your body. Have you ever noticed how many fat girls are ma…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 08:31 AM
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I think the problem here is that this guy is not your boyfriend. I don't mean to sound harsh so hear me out. Do you know the difference between a comfort test and a shit test? A comfort test is when you're looking to your man to help you with inadequate and insecure feelings. If you like a guy it's pretty much guaranteed that you will comfort test him because you are subconsciously worried he will leave you. A good guy will assuage your fears and comfort you at this time. But a shit test is when…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 08:00 AM
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You really ran with that example lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 09:30 AM
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Plus, sex and the city's story was heavily influenced by its director, an openly gay man. A lot of Carrie and her friends problems are really the trials and tribulations of gay men, shown through women.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 08:01 PM
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Well it helped that throughout most of history, rich noble men had young men fighting and dying for them, so there were more women for him to take.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 07:49 PM
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Haha, TwoXchromosomes is awful. One day they just randomly banned everyone who posts on r/The_Donald.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 07:29 PM
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So I have this theory about women. There are 2 kinds of women who find RPW. One is the classic feminist shrew, who now wants to change. I'll also include in this category women who maybe don't identify as feminist or aren't political, but they nag their husband incessantly and are constantly bitching and unhappy about life. These women usually have an SO and they find RPW looking for a solution to problems in their marriage that they're finally willing to fess up to. I would say that most of TRP…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 07:02 PM
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Can I ask, why did the pregnancy cause you to lose muscle? How does that work? Also congratulations on you and husband's baby!!! Now let me tell you something, I am pretty fit. I love my body, but i know if I ever have a baby, there will be some sacrifices. I guess I just want to tell you to be happy first and foremost! I can't give you any great specific advice, since I have no baby :'( but my number 1 fitness tip is to DRINK WATER. Seriously, everyone I know who is on some diet, or struggles a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 05:31 AM
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Her point totally went over your head, and now mine did too. I'd rather have one more autistic kid in my community than 7 African tards or NO kid here because there will still be a population explosion in Africa. There is literally no point to not having kids besides wanting to cuck yourself out. OP has schizophrenia which is not ideal but if she wants kids she should have them: for every person like OP even asking this question there are dozens of people all over the world with WORSE genetics n…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 04:37 AM
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This is a great post. I live in a huge city and I agree with all of it. I have got shit on the forum before for saying men and women should be friends first, but there is a big expectation for sex here that isn't there if you want to be friends. I don't know how to explain it exactly but your advice is spot on. Also, behaving like a wife: I am so guilty of this, meanwhile my girlfriends who can't do anything domestic get married. It's because guys don't care: he can tell from how you keep your a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 04:22 AM
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If the guy isn't interested in you there's nothing you can do about that. Just let it go. But maybe try to be more vulnerable and give him some room to impress you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 04:08 AM
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Oh, get out of here with that black pill bull shit. Yeah, there's plenty of people on earth so the human race will survive -- plenty of starving people having tons of kids in 3rd world countries like India and Sudan. THOSE people probably shouldn't breed as much but they're having 6-7 kids. You have this idea like the whole human race is part of the same community, which it isn't: we absolutely should have kids and pass on our values and our communities to them, not just give them up to whoever …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 03:52 AM
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many of these men are "monogamous to their mothers" and it sabotages relationships in major ways. Learned this the hard way 😟 You absolutely cannot win and you look like a nut case for trying. But a guy in an enmeshed relationship really is married to his mom. If she treats him like a surrogate husband, he will end up with a VERY strange idea of what relationships should look like, because he must perform as a man but to a woman he is submissive to. That's his mom, and he'll always be submissive…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 03:47 AM
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I disagree, I do not think children should be the exception. I think mom and dad putting up a united front teaches the kids about respect in relationships. If kid wants something but mom says yes and dad says no, now you have a problem if mom and dad are fighting. Mom and dad being closer with each other than the kids also helps the kids learn independence as they get older. They can't rely on the parents forever; they have to move on. Versus people who put their kids above their spouse tend to …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 03:31 AM
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WOW that is amazing. The negative effects on a promiscuous man also perfectly describe the most promiscuous guy I know. It could just be coincidence, but I found it very interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 05:34 AM
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I hate those mini-sleights from the interviewer like "what on earth that meant" as though what she said is a foreign concept and not innately understood/practiced by most people on earth. I swear these journalists have degrees in linguistic brainwashing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 05:02 PM
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The thing I can't stand is BP parents that have the same overbearing tendencies as RP parents, but express it in these ways that are totally inappropriate. You know what I'm talking about with RP parents; "We're going to church!" "Change your outfit, that skirt is way too short!" "No dating until you're 16/18!" "Son, be a man!" Pretty much all parents are gonna be overbearing, but in that case it's looking out for the kid's best interest. The BP case is looking out for the interest of the group,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 04:49 PM
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Chad and Stacy aren't real. They are just archtypes, shorthands people use for talking about others.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 09:04 PM
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I hope you don't mind me commenting on this with some advice. There is no reason not to look good and have a little style even if you are poor. Style actually IS taking whatever you have and making it better, so if you have style, you can make cheap things look better than they really are. With that said I commend you for looking at other, more important things than fashion to judge your own and other people's worth. People today, are way too shallow. But if you want to increase your skill in th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 05:16 AM
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Honestly I think you should leave your boyfriend. I hate saying that because I'm a very loyal person who gets very attached, so if I put myself in your shoes it would be very hard for me, but objectively I don't see any reason why you are with him. He can't even take care of himself. One thing you didn't mention is your attraction levels to each guy. This would be a really important factor for me if I were in your situation. Considering your bf doesn't treat you well, I would try to discover whe…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 05:00 AM
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this is true, and it's crazy that the post below you has almost 50 upvotes (especially considering it's so long I doubt ppl read it.) The fact is that it's easier for attractive people to get sex. Therefore, attractive people are less likely to settle down and also less likely to judge their partner's sexual past. Why should they? They're born with abundance mentality. Whenever I read a post like that, it just sounds unattractive and jealous. Most people with stuff going on don't care all that m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 04:37 AM
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Yes, but you live in a very conservative area. You yourself married your first sexual partner, didn't you? I'm not saying that 5 isn't a pretty high number of sex partners, because it is, but some people are born and raised in very "blue pill" cultures. I read an article by a psychologist who was concerned about this after meeting college women who thought their partner count was too low, one girl described hers as "not even 20." I think that men do have a natural aversion to this, but it comes …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 04:35 AM
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Most people don't go out on Fridays after a certain age I don't know about that...I live in a big city. Everyone I know goes out on Friday more often than not.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 03:01 AM
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I used to be like this, it was really horrible, I could sleep through multiple alarms and everything. You really have to go to bed earlier the day before. I could happily sleep 10-12 hours when I was in college, so my advice is don't fight it. If you're getting up at 6:00, be in bed by 10 at the latest. Your body will adjust (and now I get up early even on weekends--ewwww) especially if you find medication, herbal remedies, or tea that works for you and helps you fall asleep on time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 12:54 AM
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I'm not really sure how to respond to this. You're making a lot of assumptions about my relationship and how you think it should look. Just for example seeing each other on Friday isn't the default at all for us, because I don't like going out after work. It's very possible that his level of commitment is not the same as mine; it's also possible that he screwed up and I reacted badly. That's why I posted here -- to get some perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 12:48 AM
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Lol no I can't really tell if you're joking or not Some of the other posters gave really good advice, to the point that some things were what he said to me (trying to make me laugh, intentions etc.) He's very straightforward, if he thought I was boring in bed or he wanted something he would just tell me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 12:28 AM
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PMd
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 02:43 AM
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Yes, I am afraid now that I'll never get any other presents as we have fought over this one. Neither of us are really the gift giving type in the first place. But I really didn't know how to react.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 01:58 AM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 01:50 AM
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I feel that he is frequently disrespectful to me which is the main reason we have been bickering. He has a very abrasive personality but I try to remember that this is part of what attracted me to him in the first place (I like that he is a tough guy.) To be honest I was a bit hurt too as this is the first time he bought me a gift.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 01:48 AM
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I am from a codependent family and I have codependent issues still sometimes in adult relationships. My understanding: Codependency usually exists where one person is addicted to drugs or alcohol; the other person is "co-dependent" on that person's addiction so they have something to care about. Once you understand that dynamic, you can see codependent issues even in relationships that don't have drug issues ("Oh we can't act that way, Dad will get upset." Dad is a rager and mom feels it's her r…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 02:47 PM
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GREAT explanation!!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 02:16 PM
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No, I think you need to keep your mind on finding a good partner.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 04:34 AM
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Well I don't think this problem will really be "solved" until you get in a LTR/get married... But I will give you some sympathy. Our society is kind of unnatural in that throughout most of history you would have been married or paired up by 16, so 20 is a bit old biologically speaking to have not had sex yet. Socially however you are very young and there's no need to rush it, but your body doesn't know that so yeah it can be extremely frustrating. Cut yourself some slack but remember that your v…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 08:02 AM
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OPTION 2! I am going to say this to you like a big sister would. As in a little harsh but for Your own good. Your self-esteem is very low and you need to grow up. Just because the sex feels good, doesn't mean it's a good relationship. You need to feel good from things besides this guy. The other side of his narcissism is your codependent (or possibly borderline) behavior. These traits are ALWAYS found together in a relationship -- its like two sides of a coin. Tbh, I was in your shoes once. What…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 07:55 AM
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I totally agree with your "woo-woo" comment. I do this visualization strategy and I swear that it works. Positive focus has given me a body I am so happy with; I never talk myself down, and I think this is the critical factor. I've Jedi-mind-tricked myself so well at this point that I think yogurt tastes better than ice cream. The thing is, it absolutely has to do with diet. A lot of people ask me how I stay slim; but when they hear that I never drink soda or coffee, and eat mostly chicken and c…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 07:35 AM
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I think you should focus more on loving your body and being happy with it. From how you describe yourself, I was expecting a MUCH heavier girl in your picture. You need to be careful because it is women who hate on themselves that age the worst. Ratajowski is your height but she's 115lbs. The only way to get there is diet/fast until you're about 110. Then once your body is used to it start eating (somewhat) more normally again and you'll be ok with the few extra pounds that come back. You got a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 07:07 AM
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I feel you, I don't like social media much either and I think it's very narcissistic. Now every girl under 25 wants to be an Instagram model and shows off what she has for the likes. The problem is models/actresses from back in the day had a different mindset when it came to modeling. They knew they were selling a product or an idea and treated the film/pictures as something outside of themselves; for example Heidi Klum once jokingly said she doesn't even recognize herself in her pictures. Its l…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 06:45 AM
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I try to express it verbally. If we're out be high energy and have a good time, if we're home I like to be physical with sex & massages.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:53 PM
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You're right about that, since women will always have the final say in putting out. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, women of sex, and all that. I'll try to explain a little better. Because of the sexual revolution, and birth control, sex is much easier for men to acquire than at any other point in history. Things like the "three date" rule would be unheard of a few generations ago. Friends with benefits? Taking a woman home from the bar? Unheard of, unless she's a prostitute. But today, w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 11:08 PM
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Both of you have my upvotes. I'm a high-SMV girl in a big city, but the writing is on the wall for women who want a traditional relationship. Secular women want to believe that women like me have the advantage in the SMP, but we don't --- time and again I see spiritual and religious compatibility as the deciding factor that made a couple's LTR. The problem is many people men and women have lost religion and don't want to face reality that it's so important. Even secular women in LTRs would disag…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 08:17 PM
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You're right. Everyone else is closer with each other than me. As you bring up, i know who the most influential girl is, too. I guess I just don't see why that has to translate into rudeness.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 08:02 PM
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You're right that I need a better social circle, but your answer made me feel a little sad/nostalgic. I had a very close group of girlfriends in high school, too. Since we graduated from college I feel like everything's fallen apart. One of the girls is one that ignored me in the above scenario -- I've pretty much already followed the advice on here to demote to "acquaintances" because she does things like that all the time and I'm too annoyed by it. Another one lives in another city, I know it'…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 07:52 PM
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I like this answer a lot, because it touches on the fact that women (even traditional women who are "stuck" in the kitchen) have a lot of power, something that i saw growing up.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 07:36 PM
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How much water do you drink? Drinking a ton of water, eating mostly protein, and occasional fasting is how I stay slim.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 05:18 AM
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This is WHY actors tend to date other actors. OP, you need to get over it, because every time you act jealous or nervous, he gets the message that you don't respect HIS decision -- a big no-no -- and worse, the decision you don't accept is his decision to be with you. Look up Pierce Brosnan and Josh Holloway's wives -- not every actor wants a sexy actress as his match.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:54 AM
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I've noticed this, but I've also noticed the opposite -- dumpy guys thinking they deserve a hot girlfriend, when they barely bring anything to the table! These guys tend to stay single. I do think that, when it comes to LTRs, women in the middle tend to have the best luck. She's cute, but not so hot as to be intimidating... if she has a good personality, it makes her flaws endearing... If she's lower SMV than her man, he feels confident that she won't cheat. A girl who is a 9/10 will have troubl…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 04:12 AM
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Ok you knew he was like this, you stayed with him, and about a year later had a kid with him. It's not like dumped him when you found this out. It's not like you just found out, either. To be honest I don't think you want to leave him. I think you are getting fed up. I think you need to have a conversation with him about what it means to be a family. He's never going to give you everything you want, but whether you stay or leave the relationship, maybe he can give you some things. You're going t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 10:43 AM
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You hit on ALL my favorite exercises in one post! Killer!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 10:36 AM
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Some things about your post are a little weird to me. Like, do you really care if he spends time scrolling on his phone or watching tv? Everyone needs to wind down and these aren't really obnoxious behaviors like "lost his job because he played video games 10 hours a day." Let it go! The other thing I want to say is be yourself. Dont try to cook and clean and be something you're not just to impress him. It's not sustainable and you will just build resentment. Maybe you are a little bossy, and th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 06:15 PM
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Yeah this should be the top comment; it's not that these characters were extra evil towards women, it's just that these instances disturb us more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:35 AM
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I realize that but you're extrapolating the data to make a conclusion it does not draw. Attractive people having advantages in society =/= women caring more about looks than men. Just because everyone prefers attractive people to ugly people doesn't mean women prefer attractive men at a greater rate than men prefer attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:30 AM
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sorry, I just don't agree that those things correlate. Plenty of the funniest comedians aren't attractive at all, to the point it's almost part of the joke. A lot of attractive people have ugly duckling syndrome and don't have a lot of confidence, even more people work out to get fit and it takes a long time for their self perception to catch up. I feel like you're looking at just the subset of the population that is attractive, fit, funny, and confident and judging as though most people are on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:51 AM
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thanks man :) I'll add one other thing. Mature women sometimes don't prefer very conventionally handsome men. Just like a very beautiful woman, they come with a risk (people try to steal them a lot, tend to be high maintenance, you are not the "pretty one" in the relationship) so most women will choose the guy who makes them feel good over the one that's nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:12 PM
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Yes, but women measure "attractive" by characteristics other than looks: charisma, confidence, strength, stoicism, bravery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:08 PM
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u/findingmrnemo's post isn't dumb, that's exactly what we're arguing about. I said women care less about looks than men and u/whiskersnt said men care less about looks than women. His post is actually better because it's something more commonly seen, the other was a bit of a reach. The thing I don't understand is how anyone can say that women care more about looks than men do. I'll give it to you that attractive people tend to date each other. I'll give it to you that women don't always know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:05 PM
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I'll say it again: Women don't care as much about looks so it is not as important for men to be attractive because that isn't weighed as heavily when a woman selects her partner Men care A LOT about looks so women are preoccupied by their appearance, since that is the heaviest weighed category they are judged by Men finding 70% of fertile aged women attractive doesn't disprove that. All it means is that women are working that hard to look pretty or that men think pretty much every girl is pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 08:26 PM
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because women don't care as much about looks so it doesn't matter as much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:41 PM
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I know lots of couples who moved in together and settled down within a few days of meeting, including my parents, who married after 1 month and have been together for over 25 years. Remember that in some cultures, you meet your husband on your wedding day. To me the problem isn't moving fast, it is rather the difficulty in vetting a person's level of commitment to you (and you to them) so quickly and openly and honestly communicating what you want. But if you're both feeling it, know what you wa…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 09:11 PM
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I like Jordan Peterson. I think some other ones would be Pewdiepie, Justin Timberlake, and Trump --- I think it kind of just depends what you are into, you can find a guy in the field who espouses those values. Unfortunately, I don't think cultural role models are a replacement for a father figure. You see your dad dealing with things that you'll never see a celebrity or cultural figure do. One thing I've noticed that is a major difference between myself and people missing their father is that I…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 06:16 PM
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I'm single 28/f and I feel the same way about guys, so I don't actually think it is a gender but a value difference. For whatever reason, loyal people like you and I are pairing up with disloyal people instead of with other people like ourselves. I also thought the other comments in this thread were interesting because I was raised by a single dad (until he married my stepmom) so I do feel a strong sense of loyalty learned from my father. I agree about women raised by single mothers being especi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 05:37 AM
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That is a division of labor, not a "non-parent". You are talking about outsourcing the time it takes to raise very young children so that you can have more time to work outside the home. My concern is that you don't seem to understand what mothers (traditionally mothers, sometimes today there are SAHD) do. You have the idea that both you and your husband should adopt the traditional "male" role, and outsource the wife's role. Your SO thinks that one of you should adopt the role of wife and one o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 06:58 PM
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That's what I was thinking, too. When you raise your own kids you impart YOUR values on them, when other people raise them the kids get THOSE values (a good example is some of the crazy things kids learn at school.) It sounds like OP's SO and her have different values. She doesn't particularly care about what he does --showing the child love or passing on unique family values, she is more about keeping the kid healthy and giving him/her the best the world/money could offer. This isn't about whet…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 06:37 PM
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My parents didn't make anywhere near the amount of money you and your SO do, and my mom stayed home. Comparing my upbringing to my friends, some who were wealthy and had nannies, I was absolutely privileged in this respect. No offense but things you are saying like "what's the difference, they have a maid and chef and nutrition experts at day care, why can't I just spend 3 hours with them when I get home," prove that you don't get it. I agree with u/vanBeethovenludwig that this is a cultural iss…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 06:21 PM
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I think it's more like she points him in that direction, and he can decide what to do about it or not. The man is still the voice, head, and brain in that situation. And typically women do decide the direction of the relationship, just like you describe in your post, by bringing him her problems, i.e. "I miss you, we don't have any extra money in the bank this month, I want to have children," etc. How is he supposed to know what you want if you don't point it out to him?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 05:41 PM
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I like "we're a team" in the sense that I like the idea we are building something together. Also, your post reminds me of the aphorism, "the husband is the head of the house, but the wife is the neck."
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 10:23 PM
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I actually like this post a lot. When I was younger, I thought of myself as an exceptionally un-shallow person. I didn't pay any attention to looks. In fact, I was very shallow, judging guys almost entirely by their status, wealth, and how much attention they gave me. I'm embarrassed to admit this now. I got so many "She's with HIM?!" looks, but I hamstered it away as me being above it, instead of the obvious -- that I was trading away my need to be physically attracted to my partner. Now I admi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 09:52 PM
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Does your school have a College Republicans club? They have them at most schools, and there tends to be a strong sense of camaraderie between members when the rest of the school is liberal. You just need to explore your interests to make new friends and meet new people -- whatever hobby or interest you pursue, the club goers are not going to be disappointed that a hot girl wants to join! Use your strengths and branch out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 05:06 AM
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I hope some of the coupled ladies can comment on this? I am having the same problem with the guy I am seeing. How do you do deal with this? I know I could just stop asking but I don't feel very cared for.
/r/RedPillWives14/06/17 10:29 AM
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Edit: in the original test it was impossible to get above the "nascent alpha female" category, but i just clicked it and he's since changed the scoring system. I still think you should take it with a grain of salt though, as only a 19 year old who does anal can get a perfect score :P
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 09:55 AM
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You are talking down to yourself a lot (his personality is better than yours? Really???) So i don't think your situation will improve until you address that. But, some practical examples would be: responding with cute messages, if he asks you out say yes, don't criticize him, pick lint off his shirt, take his hand or his help when he offers it. The method is different for everyone. I know how hard it can be when guys pull away or seem to lose interest, but you need to attach less to the outcome.…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:29 AM
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No, men search for good genes. Women search for the best combination of genes/protector/provider that they can find, because women's biology evolved them to understand they might end up carrying a child. You've heard this..."a man can impregnate 100 women but a woman can't be pregnant 100 times."
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:28 AM
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He's explaining it's a social science, which is a soft science, meaning it's not (or only loosely) based on math. Basically the farther away you get from actual math, the more it smells like bullshit. Also sorry OP but this study. doesn't tell me anything except that I'm hornier when ovulating (which believe me, I know) and I, personally, don't believe that women have a short term mating strategy, since my biology is acutely aware that after sex I might end up carrying a baby. Society might enco…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 07:40 AM
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I'm just judging off what you wrote here but my guess is you're not receptive enough. Stop chasing men. Do you actually like any of these guys, or do you just want a boyfriend? Guys can tell when you're insecure, and they don't like it. If a guy doesn't feel like you like him, specifically, he will be wary about dating you because he will be thinking in the back of his mind, "Is she going to leave me when someone better comes along?" This is why you can't "hack" the system by going for men below…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 07:20 AM
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Disappointed, but obviously didn't want to mention it. When I asked straight up got "You don't have to do that" and "It's not my thing." Could just be the type of guys I like which is fine by me!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:48 AM
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I am quite fuzzy all over although I keep it neat, not rogue! I have considered shaving my arms but feel it's unnecessary. On occassion I've got a Brazilian but the men I have been with didn't care for the surprise. I think this is one of those things like sex in high school where you think everyone is doing it but they're not. I did have my leg hair lasered off and it really helps with maintenance.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 03:24 AM
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I realize I might get downvoted for what I'm gonna say. But I just gotta say it. Either your husband was wearing that underwear and he has a fetish you don't know about, (and weren't receptive at all to him when he admitted it) Or, Your husband bought the underwear for another woman, probably the college student, who used your husband for gifts/money in exchange for a feminine presence. Can't know if they had sex or not. I don't want to throw you under the bus here or defend your husband if he c…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:33 PM
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Look into physical therapy, if you can change your subconscious beliefs and trauma along with your body's physical responses the situation might improve. I had some sexual trauma and no amount of "talk therapy" helped my physical symptoms until I actually ahem got in there and retrained her. Just a thought.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 08:27 PM
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I think the answer to this is "yes" for couples and "no" for singles.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 07:43 PM
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From your last paragraph it sounds like she's scared. Maybe along with helping her be more realistic, you could be a little more encouraging. In addition to all the fears about men and relationships, she's probably also afraid that all her friends are going to judge her if it doesn't work out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 07:28 PM
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Treating other humans as a "phase" or a "taste" is degenerate. It's weird to prefer someone from a different race because they are a different race. You can like seafood all you want; but when I see a guy whose whole family eats steak, who grew up eating steak, who preferred steak his whole life, suddenly decides he's a seafood-only guy, the impression I get is that steak is just too hard for him to cook.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 03:53 AM
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Rupert Murdoch is married to a white woman who used to be a model. His former wife is Asian--a 6' tall entertainment executive who sounds like she was an absolute handful. (He asked for the divorce.) I'm not going to go full 1488 and insist that you have a duty as a white person to marry and procreate with another white person, but it's just the truth that people from the same race and culture have more in common than people from different cultures. White men who prefer Asian women do so because…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 01:45 AM
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start a farm or business and work together to build it up I'm glad to hear you say this; it can be hard for me to put into words what I'm looking for in a man, but one thing is that he wants to build something together. I think that's what you're describing here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:51 PM
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White men who date only Asian women not alpha, sorry. There is a hierarchy of race just like there is a hierarchy of looks and class. When white men, especially successful white men, date Asian women exclusively they advertise their subconscious fears that they can't handle a woman or make a woman happy. Of course there are exceptions and two people of any race can get along, but when a man fetishizes Asian women as submissive and demure it's because HE hasn't been successful with women of his o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:39 PM
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You know, speaking candidly, I will admit i have had a ton of problems with guys in my life, but being paranoid/jealous was never one of them. And as far as I know, being cheated on was never an issue either although my exes had PLENTY of opportunities. I think that's related. I was just never worried about it. He chose ME, right? Is he really going to risk ALL THIS for Stacey? In that case uhm, bye? In my opinion, when you accuse someone of cheating, it makes YOU look guilty of it. That's why y…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 02:23 AM
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Do you know what stands out to me about your post? Where are YOU in all this? What are YOUR desires? Everything I'm reading is, "I was a great RPW. I did everything right. I didn't cuss. I cooked for him. I never turned him down for sex. I have a good body. We took things slow, but not too slow." Where is the PASSION? Where is what YOU want? If you're a good catch, and you sound like it, why are you putting up with this??? What did HE bring to the table for YOU? You need to change your mindset. …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 02:11 AM
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I'm happy to see the comments in this thread and it reinforces my opinion of our forum as a supportive community. On the right, one thing that gets to me is the transparently jealous attitude towards female right-wing pundits. The right has bad "PR" when it comes to women; that's just a fact. It doesn't help anyone that successful young women like Lauren Southern are labeled "7's" and criticized for reaching an audience. It comes off as nothing but misogynistic and we don't need more of that. He…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 05:42 AM
2

Maybe they are different, but I would hate to get raped and murdered! I think your advice to OP to move on and not let it get to her is good; it's really all you can do. I was just pointing out from a psychological perspective why some women have such an extreme emotional reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 09:03 PM
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I think you might not understand because you are a man. No offense :) I was chatting with a mixed group of guys/girls the other day and the convo turned to "how many pull-ups can you do?" A lot of the girls (including me) can't do a single pull-up, which surprised even the weakest men. One of the guys made a joke to us girls "You better hope nobody tries to rape you!" But that's the thing, isn't it? As a woman, I'm weaker than all but the weakest men. Pretty much every man I pass on the street c…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 04:39 AM
2

Problem glasses.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 03:56 AM
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I love your post! I am American but my parents are from Europe and raised me very much in the way you described. I completely agree that most Western men are either brainwashed by liberalism or are on TRP, and that they don't know how to "handle" women like us or think we are too much work. What it boils down to is having different values. I think the reason TRP is obsessed with sex is because once you take away the value people bring to each other's lives as part of a couple, there's nothing el…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 09:31 PM
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It has less to do with your shape and more with the vibe you are giving off. You can't seriously look at the clothes in OP'S post and say they are the same as the examples in the replies. Let me break it down for you in terms of one obvious example: none of the "instagram baddies" could possibly be wearing a bra. What Kylie Jenner and other "models" are missing is any semblance of modesty; i am definitely not the most modest dresser on here but a good rule of thumb is to show off only ONE part o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 06:57 PM
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It sounds like you have made a lot of improvements, but you lack confidence and direction. Be a little more grateful and happy with yourself over what you have improved in your life and how it has positively affected you. The fact that you are making new friends is a good sign, but one thing that worries me is the fact that men don't approach you in public. Your SMV must not be high enough or you do not have an approachable demeanor. Are you smiling, dressing feminine, making eye contact with me…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 10:47 PM
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I have thought about these issues since I read this book "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrel and I think you are SPOT. ON. "Dismantling the patriarchy" as feminists see it is utterly horrible for "average" men and women. Beta men thrived (and therefore, all of society) under 50's-esque conditions where "everyone gets a wife." It's no coincidence that we think of the 50's era dad as an example of masculinity because They will go with the flow in any society. If beta males are taught to be t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 11:38 AM
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My parents divorced when I was 3, and my situation was pretty rare in that the court gave custody of me to my dad. My dad remarried when I was 5 and they have a very "red pill" marriage, (they are both from Eastern Europe.) My mom remarried, twice, to progressively more abusive men and seeing those relationships screwed me up way more than the divorce did. Like u/kekerae I would become ill every time I was scheduled to visit her. Definitely have trust issues.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 10:38 AM
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Can you point out the part where she lied? I didn't see it. You write you "promoted her to LTR" and that you also travel frequently yourself. I do not understand why, if you are in an LTR with this woman, you would allow her to travel by herself. I know I am pretty old-fashioned/believe in traditional gender roles, but this IMO is just asking for trouble. Once you are in a couple, you don't let your woman do things like this anymore. See pictures of her in a crowd of Chads laughing and taking pi…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 10:15 AM
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I honestly think trp theory is for a certain type of person. I am a girl and I know exactly what you mean by "I have never been loved in a way that a man "loves" a woman." Every guy I was with liked me mostly because he liked showing me off to his friends, had fun with me, etc, but he never loved me. I saw it every time I opened up to a guy about my real hopes/dreams/fears they would lose attraction to me while every time I "held frame" the guy would become/stay enamored. To answer your question…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:51 AM
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I don't get it. It sounds like you are setting yourself up for failure tbh. Do an occasional shit test of my own to see how much of a liar she is (without overtly asking). I do this more for the sake of my own curiosity and to reinforce my concept of AWALT. You are behaving in a way literally just to come up with the outcome you believe will happen, even though it is at a detriment to you. Keep spinning plates. Demote her. Resume things as if nothing has happened. Why would any self-respecting w…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 07:36 AM
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Loved it very believable (unfortunately)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 09:23 AM
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I think it is really early. That's why safe sex is such a big deal for teenagers, it's so easy to get pregnant. Pregnancies are considered "geriatric" in medical terms once a woman's, like, 35. Barring complications from a woman's body not being developed, like hips not being widened out fully, peak fertility is soon after puberty. I'd guess 15-18 years. This isn't any excuse to go after teenagers. It's also not that edgy--society has known about this forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 06:16 PM
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Not at all, let me show you my favorite MBTI site: http://www.celebritytypes.com/istj.php It's got the "bad guys" at the bottom. I like knowing my type because it helps me interact with people but also feel more comfortable with myself, i don't use it as an excuse. Ive read a lot about compatibility and there is some science to it, however in "real life" it doesn't seem to work out that way. There are just too many factors in each individual for it to work. Theoretically an E and I would balance…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 08:48 PM
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INTP
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 10:13 PM
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LMAO well you're the married one not me, she should probably listen to you u/frcp12b please come back and update us!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 10:03 PM
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I forgot the /s :)))
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 09:10 AM
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Reading through this thread got me thinking... could making friends with a guy actually be a sexual strategy? 🤔 Further study is needed lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 07:13 AM
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But why? Why go through all of these mental gymnastics to friendzone women? Especially hot RPW women!? I feel personally offended lol wingman You meet a hot, red-pilled girl, and you use her to get "mountains of high SMV pussy"??? Sounds to me like you used her to start a harem--and you have proved OP's point. One side always develops feelings. In this case by your own description the woman (who is too used to every guy trying to fuck her) felt relieved to be around you, yet you have went to inc…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 07:09 AM
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I think you're hamster is out of control. I bet as soon as you stop obsessing about it he will ask you and when he does, you will look back at this post and laugh at yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 02:27 AM
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This article made me so angry! A couple of years ago I felt very depressed and confused; several things converged in my life around the same time to lead me out of it, and one of those was RPW. RP gave me the most valuable tool which was to understand that I am in control of my life. I know what it is like not to feel welcome in a feminist space and rpw functions as a place for female empowerment. This idea that RPW is "a online home for thousands of defeated women jealous of that girl at their …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:20 AM
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This is actually true and TRP's choice of statistics consistently leaves it out. Unfortunately if "beta bucks" and his woman are actually happy it doesn't fit their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:55 AM
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This comment offers a great example of exactly what Atlas is talking about in terms of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:53 AM
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Hahahahaha dude you might think she's a 9 because she's your gf that doesn't make her hotter than Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 02:08 AM
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Lol no it's just like the women on the scale are totally randomly placed-- that 9 on the far right is the best example. Then there are celebrities and models placed low and that 6 on the left is super cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:54 PM
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I totally agree and i have seen women fuck up their lives trying to "find themselves" after falling for the BIG cultural lie you describe here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:27 PM
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Lmao wtf is up with this scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:58 PM
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Why do you only have 7 years left? What happens in 7 years? I don't know exactly what situation you are in, but as a fellow INTP who thinks a lot about relationships, I've already decided that if i get to the point where i just can't seem to figure it out and time is up, I'll go to a matchmaking service for an arranged marriage. It's worked for thousands of years for millions of people; why not give it a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:54 PM
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I think men are idealistic about sex, and women are idealistic about romance. Men have this fantasy that women are going to want to have sex with them no matter what they put in to the relationship, just from who they are. Women have this fantasy that a man is going to love her, no matter what she looks like. I criticize this post by Tomassi because it has no basis in reality, no sources, no basis even in commonly held stereotypes about men and women. He's taking a concept we traditionally apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:46 PM
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You absolutely have to compete with other women so get attractive. INTPs are notoriously late bloomers too so don't worry so much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:11 PM
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It's not the most desirable, it's the most common. INTP women are sought after by rational thinking men, and guardian types tend to like us too. It's just that many men don't know what to do with us because we're so different from the average female. Since many men consider the ideal female to be "feminine bodied and male brained" I'm happy with my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:07 PM
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That was for extra rad points
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:55 AM
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No way. I'd much rather date a firefighter or a military captain than a stockbroker or a real estate agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:53 AM
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But it isn't how things are. First of all, he can't know how women feel, so the entire premise is flawed. Second, there is a very large body of evidence that supports the idea that women love idealistically. Disney movies, romance novels, and Halmark all make massive amounts of money catering to women's idealistic fantasies. He actually takes a social norm pretty much universally applied to women (the "Disney-esque" theme) but applies it to men. He honestly sounds like he's describing golddiggin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:46 AM
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It's one of the most ridiculous things i have ever read. Women are incredibly idealistic--how does he come up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:33 AM
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I don't know BUT i read this study one time, they asked men and women "how long did it take you to very over your first love?" ONLY THE MEN wrote in "I never got over her!" and so many men did it, the researchers had to make a separate category for that answer in their results (the women all just checked one of the available multiple choice options.) This would lead me to believe that men get their hearts broken worse than women; the thing is, some of the men could never really "recover" from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:25 AM
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I'm so confused by this question, there are plenty of posts on TRP of guys who have no money but spin plates or even have women buying them shit/paying for their apartment etc. If you want to know how much money you need to have sex $3000/month will get you a high quality sugar baby or $250 an hour for a high quality escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 11:03 AM
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Who said that? It's not true for me. Honestly, what the guy does is more important than how much money he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:59 AM
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Why on earth would we rip into you, you need to take some time for yourself and heal. You feel like you went through a divorce because biologically that is exactly what happened. Your mate left. But ok, if you really want it: Never trust a socialist!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 10:40 AM
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Yes, America overall is pretty progressive (no one wants to be called "racist") and young people in the South especially want to throw off that image of being backwards, so there are some pretty cosmopolitan cities and a good live music scene there. The most masculine Southern guys i knew were with Asian women (teardrop 😢 lol) As long as you vet appropriately of course, you should be fine. People in the South also get married, have kids, and divorced by 28 lol while people in LA don't usually ge…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 10:14 AM
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I think Europeans just have a more realistic attitude towards sex. Americans are still quite puritanical. Rp is guilty of adopting this. I have a friend in her late 20s with an ncount of 1, feminine, quiet, she's pretty much the rp definition of a unicorn, but her n-count is so low from exactly the reasons you say. She's practically asexual and isn't very "fun" so guys don't want her. She hasn't met anyone willing to put in the work to be her boyfriend because she doesn't offer any r.o.i. RP guy…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 10:03 AM
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The supposedly RP people advising you to come to LA are blowing my mind. I live in LA very close to CalTech and have dated guys from there. Moving to LA will change your life and there may be no going back to whatever life you are used to. If you get in to CalTech, you absolutely should go because it is one of the best schools on Earth and will undoubtedly be a life changing experience. Educationally. As far as RP experiences go get ready to get served. There are millions of people here, but the…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 09:42 AM
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I think this is a good post. Especially because in western society, especially modern western society, most people are not virgins when they get married. I want more women to embrace the rpw mindset, but I think the rp emphasis on virginity turns women away. I read some sex advice once that said every time you have sex with a new partner, you should embrace the mindset of a virgin. You should adopt that mindset of being shy, excited, and protective of yourself with every new partner.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 09:04 AM
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Just because I want to play, too, I would say I am: feminine in mind and appearance (although I am quite feisty) low n (depends on what you think, <10 though) traditional values monogamous wifely attributes doesn't want kids doesn't want marriage doesn't want a big wedding doesn't want the dream house/car/husband to show off and a provider is high libido and super sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:19 AM
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I think people are giving you too much shit. I say if you meet someone, don't hold back just because you're not exactly where you want to be in your life, but I don't see the problem not actively dating and pursuing women until you have your life in order. If you have a little time or meet someone special please go for it, but I agree with you that you need to strike a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:12 AM
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In my opinion, a man who prefers the second is not red pilled. He may be aware of red pill truths but he has laid down his sword and allowed the enemy to defeat him. Even worse, he has become a tool of that enemy by framing women as something to be defeated. Although aware of his society's destruction he marches it forward, as he has been utterly manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:55 AM
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i think it absolutely is correlation not causation. i've never cheated, my friend with n-count of 1 cheated only after her wedding. I think if your parents are divorced is a greater predictor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:02 AM
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This is the most Jewish comment I have ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:57 AM
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I know a girl who had sex with only one guy, married him 10 years later, and cheated on him one year after that with a guy who she admits has a smaller dick that doesn't get as hard. So this is one instance where i think TRP is really kidding themselves: a virgin isn't any less likely to cheat on you, plenty of women lose their virginity to guys they later cheat on. They would be far better off matching the woman's values with theirs. As much as i want the west to go back to a more traditional m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 04:56 AM
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Delusional! I have so many questions. How old are you? Why were you in a long distance relationship? Why would you want to date someone who wants to date other people? Has it crossed your mind that only you like him so much now because you can't have him? He doesn't sound that great tbh. You are the main character in YOUR life, not a supporting character in his.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 04:19 PM
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If they have no reason to commit then they aren't commitment minded. Your "picker" might be off. I'm mostly sympathetic to you because I have a lot of the same issues so please don't take my argument personally. I am sharing what I know as I think we are in the same boat. Donald Trump could get someone "better" than Melania but he settled down with her, that was my point telling that story. Partially because she told him I won't date if you if you're not serious about me, and he did really like …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 10:05 AM
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just forget to take your pill at this point it is the only way
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 10:46 AM
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Hey u/wonderlandgirl111 I read through the comments and I think u/cholera_or_gonorrhea has really good advice. I am also a model from LA (although unlike you I am not making 6 figures now but am one of those aspiring actresses lol) I definitely get nervous around guys thinking "Why should he date me? LA has a revolving door of beautiful young women, what does he see in me?" Guess what, the kind of guy you should be dating is thinking the same thing. "Gee she is so beautiful and accomplished what…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 10:36 AM
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True true but i think after school you will fare better. Most college guys are pansies sorry. One thing i left out of my story is that i wouldn't have wanted to hook up with most of those guys my friends ended up with lol. While i have friends who joined the military, or work trades, or even software engineers who are way more attractive. For example i have one friend: in his early 20s he was fat, no college, shitty job. He worked hard, worked his way up and now early 30s makes 6 figures in cons…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 11:58 PM
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I never said that lol what I'm trying to say is women will have a difficult time securing a high value mate without giving him sex. I think guys will do better long term after technical school and i think the entire college culture is fucked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 11:45 PM
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I think this is normal, i don't know what country you're in but i think in liberal America we have a real "grass is greener" syndrome where sometimes even if two people like each other, basically it's like commitmentphobia they will just keep sabotaging the relationship and justifying it by looking for something better. I'm not saying people here should settle rather I'm saying I've noticed what can only be described as ppl being ungrateful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 11:27 PM
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This has been statisticallly proven and studied as part of the origins of hookup culture. More women go to college than men, therefore at the end of the night at a party there's 4 girls and 3 boys. One of the girls is going home, unless one of the guys is having an mff threesome. Arguing maybe this is a religious college with less premarital sex doesn't work, he's still cuddling in bed with or pursuing a relationship with someone and one of the women is left out. I know this reality because i li…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 11:22 PM
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Did you read a bit further down in the thread? He says the guy committed suicide after the baby was born. This story doesn't add up.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:07 PM
1

Yes
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:01 PM
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Who are these women who don't like sex and how do they get married???
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 07:43 AM
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Right, but they also found that the top woman gets an even greater percentage of messages than the top man. Men are even more entitled, less discerning, and driven by visuals than women are. http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 06:43 AM
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You're 25 and don't have a boyfriend and don't know what you want to do with your life. You want to have children but you don't even have a man to do that with. You need to take care of yourself first. Find a certification program for the career you want and only go to college if you need a degree for that career. But i think putting your life on hold for a man who hasn't even shown up is a mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 03:51 AM
2

We can only hope this red pills her and she grows her hair long again...
/r/RedPillWives13/03/17 11:28 AM
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I am not married and tbh, I'm very sexually frustrated. It drives me crazy that my girl friends have sometimes multiple guys that they can call for a hook up, although they still have less sex than my married/partnered friends. I think feminism has created this totally backwards society where, upon seeing its effects, young women like myself don't want to participate in hook up culture but therefore don't get a normal amount of sex. So many men have checked out due to the danger of relationships…
/r/RedPillWives13/03/17 11:25 AM
1

Lord of the Flies much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 07:08 AM
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I have to say the guys are giving you some unrealistic advice. I don't think your ex "doesn't give a shit about you" because he wanted to date other women in college and i don't think "no rp man would ever date you" because your n count is gasp 1. But i think if you need to know where you're at, you need to just ask him. Tell him, i feel like you're giving me conflicting signals, so which is it? Communication is the basis of any solid relationship. But i would be prepared for some "non-answer" b…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:44 PM
2

It sounds like you totally rejected her. Why are you surprised that she acted mad? To me it sounds like she likes you, but you keep dicking her around and stringing her along so she doesn't know where she stands with you. Therefore she doesn't know how to act. You need to lead, if you like her let her know by spending time with her, talking to her, making the move etc and if you don't like her (it seems like you don't) leave her alone.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:50 AM
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I think you need to take trp to the next level. I will just tell you, the next level of trp is not about gaming women. It's about committing to something bigger than yourself. For example, a strong political ideology, or a business, or inventing something, or climbing a mountain--you need to contribute to the wider society that YOU believe is good. I think the reason so many guys get stuck in the anger phase of trp is because they do not move on to becoming part of something greater than themsel…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:50 AM
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Well you asked!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 09:23 AM
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I read this sex tip years ago in Cosmopolitan: Take saran wrap and cover his dick while giving him a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 09:04 AM
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I think threatening to break up is manipulative.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 07:07 AM
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I never meet a guy for more than coffee or drinks until we know each other better. If i were a guy, i wouldn't offer a woman more than a lunch date to start, for exactly the reason you point out. There is the old "who asks, pays" rule so don't ask her to dinner or anything nice until the relationship is a little more steady. You're really in control here. For me pretty much every guy has offered to pay, although i always offer at the end of the date. To be honest if he took me up on it, i would …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 06:23 AM
1

Oh, i thought you were going to explain why you personally didn't take this path. I think you're right but as the top comments point out, these women don't usually exist in the same person. The sex worker is usually exploited or damaged somehow. If a woman can dance or similar for money until finding a high quality man, i think a lot more women than admit do that, but too often the life and money suck them in and damages them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:28 AM
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Chad Thundercock is not a real person; you are being intentionally obtuse, even to the point that an actual escort corrected you and you still won't back down from what has been proven to be a fallacious argument.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 03:24 AM
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I'm single and i feel like i need to read more like this so thank you for writing that out.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 01:12 AM
2

I don't like a lot of makeup, i think it's deceptive lol. I'm amazed when i watch tutorials and the women just keep caking on more and more. Sure, the end product looks as perfect as a porcelain doll, but ... why?? Who are you KIDDING? I do love the accessibility of having all those trends just a YouTube search away though, especially when it comes to braiding my hair.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 01:02 AM
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I just read the PERFECT book for you (okay, maybe not, but i liked it) it's called "He's Scared, She's Scared." Using it, i will attempt to analyze some of your relationship. The man you got involved with was emotionally unavailable. He has a commitment issue. How can he have commitment issues when he is married?! You might ask. Easy. He "wants his cake and to eat it too." He wants the marriage and someone waiting at home for him, but also to have the freedom of the single life. Hence the "open …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 12:48 AM
1

My favorite is Renee Wade "The Feminine Woman"
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 12:15 AM
1

Please answer
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 12:02 AM
1

LOL i know you are joking but i often wonder this about gay men
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:54 PM
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Lol no, good guess though. I'm intetested in what is the difference between a woman who has a lot of beta orbiters, who supply her with attention, stuff, and sex if she wanted it, and a woman who is a prostitute or even a sugar baby who says outright "to have sex or spend time with me you have to pay." I guess it is interesting to me because i think the second woman is smarter since both women are getting screwed over in the long run, but i don't think rp with all its ideas about women having th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:47 PM
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I know you are new here and I'm glad you find my thread, i would just like to say that many guys who comment on her are argumentative and don't know what they're talking about (we used to not allow men to post, i think it's a good thing that we let some men in now) but you get guys like this who think they know better than you about everything.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:33 PM
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Your mistake is thinking you pay for sex. You're paying for her to leave, not call you, not get attached, etc. You're wrong if you think "alpha" men never pay for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:30 PM
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My very alpha, red-pilled dad, happily married to my "pure" mom for over 20 years, once begrudgingly told me "sometimes whores make the best wives."
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 04:18 AM
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No offense, but you really screwed this up. This whole thing is backwards. How do you justify saying "i am a traditional woman and believe the man should pay during the courtship phase" at the same time admitting that this whole time you were deciding if you want to date him, you've been splitting the check? That WAS the courtship phase. Now that you want to seriously date him, you would be a couple, so your resources would be more "split" because the two of you are a unit. It's so unfair to exp…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 04:11 AM
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This is a great question. Personally, i am a "one man" woman. This has not worked for me, as i get overly attached to my single prospect, so I'm finally trying out dating multiple people.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 03:54 AM
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I didn't say it was a small difference. I said it was a complimentary difference. I also pointed out that there are more important factors in separating children than by sex, like for example learning ability. But since you are trying to turn this conversation about schoolchildren into an argument about male and female sexual behavior, i will no longer be responding. Try checking out MGTOW and segregating yourself from females.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 09:16 PM
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Just because they are different doesn't mean they should be separated. Educators should be sensitive to the difference but that's not a good reason to separate them. I think we all had different learning groups in school where our teachers matched us with kids of similar ability but these aren't sexually selected traits.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 01:51 AM
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You blew him off, so he backed off and now you want him back. I would give this another go. Seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 06:43 AM
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This is a good point i think the guys are missing on here. Yes, a 22 year old woman is more attractive to men than the same woman at 32. But women have to deal constantly with vetting men who want to plate them, and much older men are usually not considering you for a serious relationship. However, the same woman at 32 could get with a guy who is 42 or 52, and they're a relatively better match than when she was 22 and he 32 or 42. I see this all the time. It's just weird to encourage young women…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:56 AM
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I think you're 100% correct. There is a wall for men, it's just later. Men don't have the stamina or energy they had at 30 when they're 40. Guys who wait too long to settle down realize that they don't want to be crawling around with kids when they have a bad back. Men are not as intrinsically valuable in their youth the way women are, but they don't lose fertility like women do. Men work and establish themselves and reap the benefits when they're around 30; women are not as youthful and cute an…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:45 AM
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This is REALLY interesting to me because i live in the city and NO ONE would let their kid play outside like that. Kids playing together outside or riding their bikes is like an idea from a mythical time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:24 AM
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No third grader is taking business studies. It's like you're intentionally missing her point.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:14 AM
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I am an INTP and the same way. I notice with my students very quickly which girls think like us.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:13 AM
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Work is a different environment than school though. A big part of school is social. Your experience with women in the workplace is not unusual, i just think it's a different environment than school.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:07 AM
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I became an elementary school teacher last year and although i am admittedly new to the profession, i strongly disagree with this AND you missed the few points i was hoping you would make, if I were to argue your position. My arguments FOR segregation would be this: (Some) Girls mature faster than boys. What I've noticed is classrooms where the girls are well behaved, but the boys are labeled ill behaved just because they have more energy, can't sit still, and get distracted. My opinion is that …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:03 AM
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I used to be kind of like you. I have frizzy hair, had no idea how to gauge my attractiveness, love to have sex, but low self esteem. After my first boyfriend and i broke up, i dated guys who were severely below my league, or who had something to offer me but i wasn't attracted to. (Like your friend who offered you vacations.) At some points i felt so low i did some very un-rpw things that gave me a temporary self-esteem boost. Let me tell you something about talking down to yourself about your …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 03:32 AM
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No. Run away. And in my experience, if the person is willing to stay friends with you when they know you are interested and pining after them, they are no real friend to you. They like the attention and stringing you along. They are nothing but a space in your life blocking you from potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 06:31 PM
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This is not going to work. Your problem isn't having sex with men. Your problem is how you relate to sex and how you let men relate to you. You're on the right track not to have sex, but not because you need to hold out on guys. Because you need to focus on your relationship with yourself. You need to ask yourself the tough questions like why on earth would you have sex with so many people, was it peer pressure, did you just want to have fun, do you like sex, what was it. You don't have to feel …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 06:02 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 05:54 PM
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He was my first date on that site. Isn't that funny how that works out? It's been my experience too that i usually get together with the first one i like and go out with. If not i usually screwed it up somehow or wasnt ready for a relationship with anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 05:43 PM
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Coffee Meets Bagel, the quality of men is high in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 05:41 PM
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She is my favorite!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 09:36 AM
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You've been in the military for SEVEN years?! My hero!!! You are more boss than most guys i know haha! When i was in SC i met a woman who was out but, in the reserves, and it just struck me how different her life was (in a good way.) She got so many benefits from the military, she and her son would never live in poverty, and she got to do cool things like train for disasters. All while being a receptionist, like me. You would never know from looking at her. And it struck me how much further ahea…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:38 PM
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Yep! I think i remember you saying you live in new york; do they have a garment district? I buy all my basics there for $3-10. If you are rural check out the goodwill near the richer neighborhoods. You want to find a good one where employees underprice the designer clothes (i found one like this in South Carolina.) This isn't really possible in the city because more know about fashion and will pick up the clothes just to sell them at consignment, but there's more volume in the city so i think it…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 04:17 AM
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I agree, this is a good thread <3 I love my body! This makes it easy for me too stay in shape and have confidence. I am really good at not picking on myself in this area; even when i gain weight or have a zit or something, i focus on the positive and take the steps to improve without beating myself up over it. I am sensitive. This could be a bad thing sometimes as i could get hurt by others, but it also means i am empathetic, a good listener, and caring. I think it shows in my relation to childr…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 02:07 AM
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Manic Pixie Dream Girl, she is a character in a man's life who has those 3 qualities: she is "crazy", maybe even bpd, but at least esoteric or an unusual character. She is flighty, and elements of how he met her have some magical thinking on the guy's part. She is his dream girl, she is beautiful and perfect except (for being noncommital, emotionally or mentally unstable, and whatever other obvious problems in the relationship.) Characters like Kate Winslet in Eternal Sunshine, Scarlett Johanson…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 01:03 AM
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Are you everyone's favorite trainwreck? I love this, what a great question to use for self reflection.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 12:56 AM
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Me too, due to sexual harassment concerns, men don't do this anymore. OP it honestly sounds like a self-esteem issue, work on your relationship with yourself before you bring a guy into it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:41 AM
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Euthanasia? /s
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:29 AM
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What is his personality type? I'm an INTP, i have to say, you INTJs have taken over reddit haha. Anyway, i think the myers briggs is good for analysis, but it's pretty useless in practice. It's not going to tell you anything you don't know about yourself or anything you'll be able to change. I love it and i love using it, but I'm concerned that you seem to be blaming yourself a little bit for things you will probably never change about yourself--for example, you'll never be good at feeling and e…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 06:09 AM
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I could gush about my dog all day, but I'll try to limit myself to a few anecdotes :) One thing i think you are spot on about is pets being like their owner. People usually comment on how pretty my dog is due to her unusual features and markings; they also say she is crazy. Well I don't think she's crazy, i understand her perfectly-- but then i realized people have the same impression of me! For example, my dog's favorite way to play with other dogs is to crouch down, charge them like she is goi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 05:57 AM
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Expand your social circle and don't settle. Be open to meeting men, attending functions, or being set up by friends who know your goals. You can try online dating or a matchmaking service. A lot of it is a numbers game. You might join a club or group like toastmasters if its something you're already interested in. Don't do it just to meet a guy. If you have time to start organizing charity fundraisers i would do that--i know two beautiful blondes who are always throwing parties that raise money …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 05:15 AM
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LOL omg Jokes aside, my problem with the men's argument that women "should be plated" is that eventually he will always get cucked. If I'm dating you, and we're both modern, so we sleep together...but then i eventually ask "where is this going?" and you say, "nowhere." You know what i am going to do, right? I am going to sleep with someone else. Not committing to the woman you're sleeping with is not insurance you're not going to be cucked. It's more like a guarantee. This is what i learned from…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:54 PM
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woah that pic... am I staring into a mirror?!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 08:23 AM
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lol I know! She isn't the first one! And here I thought I had a few good years left.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 07:50 AM
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You wrote all this out so I would offer an exercise to try to break out of these thinking patterns you know you have set up for yourself: For each one of these, I want you to write down a new, counter idea you are going to "reprogram" your mind with whenever you catch yourself in these thoughts. For example: You can't achieve any of your dreams I can achieve any dream that I want, all of my dreams are possible White Guilt I am not responsible for the sins of my ancestors the idea of White Guilt …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 07:43 AM
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I live in a big, metropolitan, leftist hell-hole too and let me tell you, masculine men are everywhere. Since I found RP and became more selective about the type of man I date, I stopped hanging out with the metrosexual artist/musician types found within my social group and dated: an army captain, a professional athlete, and a cross-fit trainer with a measured IQ over 160. I'm telling you this because whatever type of man you are looking for is out there. I profoundly disagree that "uttering the…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 07:24 AM
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I am going to try to remember this and your parent comment about busses. I get very upset when a relationship doesn't work out, so i know i need more of an abundance mentality. Like OP i rarely get "that feeling" for a guy, i have had it maybe twice in my life. But since i found rp, the quality of men i meet has skyrocketed. I need to remember that even if it didn't work out, another one will be along shortly, and it's easier to get "that feeling" with high quality men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 11:51 PM
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I have dated enough men in similar situations with their mothers to advise you DO NOT pursue a romantic relationship with this man. The stress from functioning as a surrogate husband to his mother, and father to his younger siblings, causes deep psychological stress. It is a role he never chose but was rather forced on him due to the real father abandoning the family. Think about it: he acts like her husband, but there is no sex, and those aren't his children. Therfore he will always be in a pos…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 11:06 PM
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There are always strings attached. That's what i don't like about this type of guy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 10:42 PM
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There are lots of good comments already! I hope you read some advice that helps you. Here's what i have to say: First, you are both 23. A man at 23 and a woman at 23 are totally different people. Men mature slower, throughout their entire lives. 23 is the perfect time for you to be thinking ahead and planning your life, but a man at 23 has 10 years before he even needs to think whether or not he wants a family. For your boyfriend to be on the same level as you, he needs to be far far more mature…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 08:10 AM
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Wow, I really need to learn whatever software skill you and u/rivertorain are doing! That's really impressive. I've read a bit about women with high salaries needing to date men with lower salaries--but this isn't necessarilly a bad thing. I think women like your coworker could find a lot of happiness with a guy who makes a lot less than her, but works in construction or another physical labor profession. These guys are basically working out all day and typically have better bodies and are more …
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 05:03 AM
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I agree with everything you wrote. If you don't mind I'd like to post my thoughts. 1) Women don't have to marry anymore because they can make their own living and choose to make their own life choices. A lot of posters point out that this isn't a bad thing, BUT a long time ago somebody on here asked "Can women be MGTOW?" and I responded that modern women are WGTOW, because of feminism. It was a long post but here you've basically summed it up in one line. 2) Traditionally minded men have more di…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:48 AM
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the whole need to force multiple dates because of fear This is probably the aspect of rpw theory I struggle with the most. Why should I behave like the kind of woman who uses sex as a tool or a bargaining chip? When I'm really the type of woman who loves sex.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:02 AM
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There are some vocal trp i read who maintain only to LTR virgins, so what you said is good to know. Out of curiosity then, what if the numbers were more like, divorced twice (12 partners) or never married (30)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:26 PM
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I have a question for you. For an LTR, are you more likely to consider: A divorced woman with a low count? (Let's say 2-4.) A woman who has never been married, but a higher count? (Let's say, 5-10.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:52 AM
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yes, this is my whole problem with this double standard. Now, I am not saying that men need to marry up a girl whose n count they are uncomfortable with. To each his own. But I've had a few relationships that didn't work out, for various reasons. My girl friend, otoh, has only had one sexual partner, about 5 years ago. RP theory goes that she would be the better mate due to her lower count. However judging from how long she can go without sex, plus how she described the sex to me, it's obvious t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:48 AM
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Oh ok, I didn't mean to pry, but that's sort of what I'm getting at. For these guys who say they want on 10 dates in 2 years, if they slept with 10 people in 2 years that seems like a lot to me, honestly. So a lot of people are saying "The number of dates is so low!" But I guess I didn't really take it that way. More like your situation is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:47 AM
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Well I some women do surprise me with heels, but they're usually nondescript while the trannies like the heavy, blingy pumps. The women are definitely wearing more modest clothing than the trannies even when they dress up. It's also sort of a weird club, it's outside for one so I think people get cold. I have also noticed that women on the east coast highlight their hair and get their nails done more often than women here in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:18 AM
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Me too, this discussion is interesting... I've been single since i was 21 and had ~1 partner a year since then. I am almost 30 but haven't slept with 10 people. I'm trying to find the right person to marry, but sex is really important so i do sleep with my boyfriends. Red pill thought is that I'm nearly a slut. But my blue pill girlfriends have slept with over 50 men. I really think it's just about finding the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:36 PM
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I think you're right, it's more about my feelings than the guy. The hard part is him being so special to me and him not feeling the same way, unrequited love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:27 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:23 PM
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I used to work at a club where a lot of trans people partied, and my impression is that they imitate feminine characteristics above what is now (due to feminism) appropriate for actual females to emulate. For example, i was frequently the only female besides the trannies wearing a crop top and heels. They often came with macho, alpha type men. Business guys seem to love them. Younger macho types like sports players liked them too, but more reserved, even embarrassed about it. I really don't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:20 PM
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I'm finally reading through the comments and i have to say, i agree with you! What's with all the women on here saying these guys are average, lol? With that said, i wouldn't put too much stock into what the women on here are saying, because I'll bet any amount of money that their prior sexual partners don't hold a candle to these guys who are all--objective speaking--attractive. I think women make remarks like this to avoid being seen as shallow. "I wouldn't have sex with him JUST from the pict…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 11:06 PM
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You say you went on more dates, but what about sex? I had the same thought about the low number of dates, and i wondered if it's more reflective of # of people they had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 10:48 PM
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Lol THAT'S SO MEAN i have a lot of problems with it too. I don't think there is a single question on there asking if you can cook a meal or have an affectionate attitude. I liked OP's idea about variables; at 50, you're just not competing in the same marketplace as a 20 year old. But you could be a sweet and hot 50, or a frumpy mean 50. Cheatau's arbitrary scores at the end should really be converted into $ signs of how much you could charge as a sex worker...that's all his test really measured.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 06:29 PM
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I've thought of making this but I don't know how to program things... I love your ideas on it too. There are so many factors in there. Chateau Autiste has one https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-women/ I would love to modify it. 🤔 Edit: can you show me the pie chart?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 08:59 PM
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A lot of what you're describing as "passion" stems from insecurity. You didn't know where the relationship was going, you never had a formal commitment, you knew he wasn't working enough to take care of you but you want to believe he will be rich and successful, just for you. Sleeping with a man who is not your boyfriend is automatically more exciting than sleeping with your committed partner. After every tryst you wonder, did it mean anything? Will anything happen between us? Exacerbated by all…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 07:59 PM
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Have an upvote. I had a very different impression of OP when I read the post and imo everyone is being too nice. "Scared him off" and "could have handled it better" is right.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 07:25 PM
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Hey, Merry Christmas :) I'm glad to hear your family had a good Christmas and you two were not fighting, that things worked out that day between you. It's always a stressful time being up close with family like that and nobody wants to fight with their spouse especially in front of others. I still think you would benefit some from getting in touch with your raw feminine energy. There are different aspects to it an you do seem to have a lot of it when it comes to giving, being motherly, and suppo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/16 10:47 PM
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I was a model, too. Not a VS supermodel but definitely objectively attractive. It's a vetting issue. If a man isn't looking for a relationship it doesn't matter who you are or what you look like. You're just a notch on his belt. Since they were together for 5 months it could be an RMV issue too, although imo this is still poor vetting: I'm sure a lot of guys would like to fuck Jennifer Lopez, but how many actually want to put up with her in a serious relationship? In my experience, a man is more…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 09:37 PM
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That was interesting to hear your perspective, from a Korean American pov, thank you! I think it's wonderful that you found a man you love and your parents are happy for you, too. When your mom talks about "the new generation" does she mean the generation of Koreans first born in America?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 08:37 PM
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You sound like what I think of as a "naturally" red pill woman, welcome to the sub :) I read your post and I'm going to give you my honest 2 cents. He's a good man in that he works, he's intelligent and hard working when it comes to his education and career, he provides for his family, has plans for the future, takes care of finances, is loyal to me and always, always wants me sexually and is a good lover. Being with him has made me appreciate my body more. In many ways he has attributes that I …
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 10:29 AM
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Yeah, I wondered about OP's ethnicity for exactly this reason. I'm from California but even the second generation Asians here have a stigma against interracial marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 09:33 AM
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I second this, and I think u/MissBibliophile29 should take care to consider the part about hiring a housekeeper. One thing you mentioned was how he doesn't and probably won't ask you for money. Therefore, you'll be a lot happier if you take the responsibility of keeping house and you'll recognize your own financial contribution if you're the one paying for the extra help. I really like this response because #1 you want to avoid nagging and resentment, especially in a situation where (as others h…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 09:29 AM
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I agree with this so much. When I was growing up I played a lot of Nintendo, and you would never be able to tell kid-me that as an adult I would prefer a partner who doesn't like video games. But video games changed. I would say by the early 2000s, I noticed exactly the trend regarding time that you are talking about. Even to the point that I knew a few guys who lost their jobs and dropped out of college because of how much time they spent playing games. The "fun" literally never ends. I now won…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 09:17 AM
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Among friends, yes. I had a bad experience at a party once where a woman who volunteered at planned parenthood described the abortions to me, her partner cut her off since she could see that I was uncomfortable. I guess at the end of the day they have a collected bucket of "jam". My doctor also talks freely and openly about performing abortions at the clinic. I don't know about other states, but you will have no problem getting one here. Even if there was some law shutting them down federally (w…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 10:32 PM
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Sounds like an alpha widow in the making! JK :) I think for me, a big hang up that contributes to the alpha-widowhood is a hang up about sex. I just don't want to add to my n-count. What should be a virtuous quality has totally screwed me over in practice--I tend to cling to a guy even if I know I should walk.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 01:41 AM
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I think your argument is so off-base. u/TraditionalMan has the upper hand here. It's not noble to leave a woman because she's been raped. And often the vest way to save the family is by leaving that broken person and saving the kids. You're not doing families and children any favors by teaching, "If something horrible happens to one of us, we leave that person behind."
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 01:15 AM
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They are different sexual strategies but they are both real. Men want to have sex with lots of beautiful women and women want a lifelong commitment from a man that every other woman wishes she could be with. You can see how these are incompatible. I think you would benefit from knowing that rpw say to other rpw to generally avoid very red pilled guys. For an ltr, a guy has to surpress his instinct to bed every woman that passes by. A woman has to surpress her instinct to leave her mate when a "b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 09:20 PM
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Yeah and that isn't right either. It isn't right for men not to have a say in it; we could reframe OP's question to "if you wanted an abortion but your man didn't would you still get one?" That's another reason I say it jumped the shark as a women's issue; men's say in it wasn't counted, and this is a problem both because a woman can sue him for child support of a kid he didn't want and because she can abort a kid he did want.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 09:13 PM
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Can't quote on mobile but your first sentence is true, I will concede that to you. Your second sentence. I am in California. There is absolutely no stigma here to having an abortion. None.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 08:58 PM
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We aren't going to agree on this so there's little point in arguing it. I wouldn't have an abortion and you would. I've also thankfully never been in that position, so what do I know? That said, I agree strongly with your other comment that every couple needs to have this conversation before the issue comes up. I think everyone has to make their own decision. I take issue with the fact that abortion is normalized in our society. I do not agree that this is an issue of agency over your body--it i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 03:02 AM
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Ooh you know what your comment made me think of. Rmv in Disney couples. How Aladdin, in a way, marries "up" with Jasmine. You pointed out all these ways Jasmine isn't a good representation of kindness, femininity, etc. Does she marry down? Well yes bc she's a princess--but no bc she doesn't have the best personality. She and street rat Aladdin are actually a good match. Contrast with Belle and the Beast, another commoner/royal love story--Belle marries up bc of her kindness, femininity, etc. And…
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 04:49 PM
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Yeah can I just add that technically he put that straggler on the boat.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 04:31 PM
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No. No one said you should get pregnant trying to force the father to stay with you, that's ridiculous. My point is that the kind of man who, upon finding out his partner is pregnant with his child, urges her to get an abortion--is not father material. He is putting his needs above that of his child. And in our society, what is his need, really? What possible want does the average American, who lives better than the majority of people on Earth, need to fulfill. The same is said for the woman. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 10:09 AM
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they did not want to keep it or they would not have aborted it i think it's interesting you ask if they're willing to raise the kid without the father. it's already difficult to raise a kid. In our society, young people are very selfish, and it is even harder. It is a very strange world where a father can just walk off with no consequences. It is even stranger when a young woman can have an elective abortion. We normalized it but it isn't normal at all. Sorry but this is just my opinion. I'm tal…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 09:37 AM
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No. Something I noticed by 25 was that all of my friends who had abortions didn't end up staying with those partners. No offense. But what kind of man aborts his own child?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 09:18 AM
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I would love to read this! ! ! I can't let you go without defending my favorite Disney couple though. Jasmine has her flaws, but Aladdin wasn't exactly a prince. bad dum tss
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 06:50 AM
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Omg this is so true. Courting is just not a thing anymore. Guys aren't helping when they call others who do it beta, and girls aren't helping with their scornful rejections and lack of gratitude. Anyway once the roles are established, I think flirting is great fun.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 06:43 AM
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goes to buy tickets in my area This event was CALLED OFF. shakes fist
/r/RedPillWives09/12/16 06:37 AM
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I came here to say this AND your flair says Pepe!? It's meme magic.
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 08:40 AM
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I didn't read through the comments so sorry if this has been said before. Some things you wrote really stuck out to me; in some ways, I am like you. This sounds to me like simply a personality trait. Are you familiar with MBTI? It's a personality test, anyway, some of the types just have a different approach on things. I am an INTP. Early on when i found rpw, I read a study about women of this type in long term relationships. I remember in particular one woman who said her marriage was so succes…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 08:29 AM
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Then it really isn't possible for him to be what I had previously thought There's your problem right there. What were you thinking, that the man you already married would become? You have a dream in your head, and he's not changing to fit it? He sounds successful and like originally you liked or at least knew these things about him. But I do have sympathy for you about the mood swings. I don't think you should armchair diagnose him as a psycho. If anything he may have an emotion or mood disorder…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 07:16 AM
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I have been in your shoes before. The best thing is to leave him. He just doesn't have it in his heart to commit to a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 07:04 AM
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I seriously can't believe you are allowed to post here, but I'll take it up with the mods. Everything you are saying shows a fundamental misunderstanding of the female imperative in relationships. You're also admitting to harming women. Men who downgrade and plate women are not the kind who are safe to have relationships with, you become another "breed" of guy who isn't really safe for women to be around. I have a huge problem with this because you are basically falling into the trap that femini…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 11:22 PM
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Yeah, you're right, guys who love their moms make excellent partners, but guys who were abused by their moms are the worst.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 11:00 PM
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100% agree. Especially with all the PUA stuff and the fact that there is good in every man, it's easy for him to show face and pretend he's not a loser. Also our culture has kind of created and fostered this loser male archetype so I've found that really hard to deal with. I think a lot of these guys are just victims of their circumstances, it's hard for me to balance being both sympathetic to men (he's just getting in his feet) and protect myself (he's never going to have the space for a woman …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 10:54 PM
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Are you 21 like your flair says? You want to hold off on injections for as long as possible. Once you start, you need to keep going back. I have no problem with it, but 21 is too young in my opinion. You'll lock yourself in too early and it will creep up on you and look unnatural that much earlier as well. Try to invest in creams, spa treatments, even laser for a few years before you get injections. I think there is some cooling gel good for under eye puffiness out right now.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:05 PM
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I felt like the new Star Wars was especially guilty of this. How dare they break up Han and Leia.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:00 PM
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Yeah his post is one of the more ridiculous things I have read. His scale does not make mathematical sense at all. If we are lining all women up to get x/10 a woman can absolutely be an 8 even if she is past 30. Look at women like Melania Trump, Heidi Klum, and Salma Hayek. Will an older man go for the younger woman every time, no, there's too much dissonance there for a relationship. What you said about an 8 & 10 couple makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:53 PM
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Mama's boys were what I had to look out for too. I've come to the conclusion that a single woman can really unintentionally damage her son to the point he will never really be able to have a healthy relationship with a woman, almost like he's retarded.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:41 PM
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I think they are trolls. They have a fundamental misunderstanding of what the wall means for women. Age is inevitable. Letting yourself go is what I look out for. I'm going to scale that wall.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:37 PM
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Although I attribute it to the low confidence I had in my early 20s, this was my experience too. I dated men severely below my league and they all went through phases where they seemed hell-bent on shaking my (already minimal) confidence. Since finding rpw I had to ask myself why I ever went out with those guys...It was a mistake due to not knowing my own worth. When I was 25 I dated a guy in his 40's who lived with his mom. Now I find out he is at least 10 years older than he told me he was. Fa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:31 PM
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How old are you? Do you want to be married before you have sex? You need to be better about vetting men. Men do not like to wait. Decide if he is someone you want a ltr with and the relationship should progress naturally.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:06 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:01 PM
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That's a great thing to say! I did say that I'm not ready to have sex but I could have made my interest in the future more clear. It's just ... disappointing, if he loses interest or suspects you're playing games after that. Obviously guys with options don't like to wait. I know if he doesn't respect my wishes then he is not the right guy for me, but every couple I know barring the religious is a hook up that turned into something more, so I feel some social pressure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 01:59 AM
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I respect you as a mod and of course you have every right to delete my comment. I also tend to agree with your opinions on posts so I was surprised by this. Let me try again without being snarky. This post struck me as particularly anti-feminine and advocates emotional abuse. There are several lines that suggest manipulative behavior from a fear based perspective and intentional devaluation of the female imperative in relationships. (Best time to push the envelope? Marriage requiring work is a B…
/r/RedPillWives03/11/16 01:27 AM
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Haha yeah it is :D choo choo get on that train! But in all seriousness, vote for whoever you want. Every vote, even not voting and especially voting third party, is a political statement.
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 06:06 PM
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The other side of the wall
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 05:28 PM
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Make America Great Again
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 05:26 PM
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I'm an INTP! Negotiator
/r/RedPillWives02/11/16 05:24 PM
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There is a way around this, and it has to do with tax codes. Follow the yours, mine, and ours principal and put assets in trusts and create a corporation for the shared wealth. He has to have a very clear picture of what belongs to you as his wife so that if there is a divorce, each party knows what they are entitled to. I saw a thread about it on MRP a while ago, the guy had it all worked out basically that while they were married, he would fund a corporation they were both the owners of and ne…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:26 AM
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Insightful answer! Thank you. I think you identified the root of the problem... I have felt all my life that I have to protect others and that it fell to me to ensure people were comfortable. It is difficult when my desire to please coincides with a request I'm not sure I want to fulfill, and is worse when it includes the fear of rejection.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 08:27 AM
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I love to read, here are some I like: The Six Battles Every Man Must Win - It's from a Christian perspective but the wisdom applies to every good man. Read it to understand what men struggle with in their lives. On the same note I strongly recommend "The Things they Carried" and "On Killing" if you're dating/married to a guy in the military. IME these guys are a little weirder than the general population, definitely more walled off, and these books help explain the military perspective. The Mast…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 05:39 PM
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Right. I am saying that I think people are being unfair to you, and the idea that you can vet how good a partner a woman will be to you by her n count is naive.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 12:56 AM
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There are too many men from trp on this sub. Every rpw knows men from trp rarely make good partners, while a woman can't even find rpw unless she's invested in becoming a good partner to her man. I have a pretty low n count. Most women I know in ltrs/marriage have a MUCH higher n count than I do. They all suggest I lighten up. I'd love to, with the right guy. Of my friends with red pill acceptable n counts: 1 I suspect is sexually frigid, and the other was a "unicorn" who cheated on her husband …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 11:26 PM
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You are sort of the male version of the cc rider female here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 10:52 PM
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I know this is the red pill narrative, and I appreciate the unhappy ending for all that you included at the end (because it's logical to me but no one brings up this obvious conclusion, so thanks for that) but this just hasn't been my experience, it's not reflective of my experience, at all. All my struggles and difficulties of dating have been due to people (myself included) shirking their responsibilities. As a woman, I was never interested in bedding a 9 or 10 the way men are--I've always bee…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 10:49 PM
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I think his comment is overall excellent. I am just nit-picking a little bit right now (not very rp I know.) But the CDC statistics look that way bc of the religious right which does not encourage education and strongly discourages divorce. I think we have to take rp and apply it to our lives and community. In some communities it is just unrealistic to expect the woman to never work or it would be bizarre not to pursue an education. But children get a huge sense of safety when their mom is at ho…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 07:03 PM
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If the woman is much less attractive than the man I usually wonder what kind of witchery she is up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 09:02 AM
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Let's not start arguments using anecdotal evidence. There is no debate on whether divorce rape exists. Your sister might be an exception, but usually "divorce rape" would be called "alimony" or "child support" by a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 08:49 AM
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I'm really struggling with this realisation. I've turned down a lot of sexual opportunities in an effort to keep my n count low out of respect to my future husband. (Idealist, I know.) But none of the men I've dated have asked or cared. Meanwhile most of my married friends behaved like sluts before they were married, except for the one who married her high school sweetheart (her n count was 1: him) and promptly cheated on him after the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 07:07 PM
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This is a false statistic, that article from fbi that says 96% terrorist attacks carried out by non Muslims, defines all these random things as terrorist attacks. If you read the study the article is from, you see the author mixed/mis represented the numbers, it's 96% of terrorist attacks by Muslims. http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/pages/articles/loonwatch-94-percent.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:57 PM
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These posts are so true. Everyone should listen to this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:51 PM
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Was Hitler wrong though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:49 PM
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This. There's no way a 10/10 man looks 25 or younger unless that's your quirk. Young men have little to no social status or money. It's young women that are attractive, not young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:47 PM
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Wow these comments. Women try to change their man because we want things in the relationship we can't get unless you give them to us. When we meet, you aren't committed, you don't see a future with us, you don't fit with our ideal of a partner because that would be crazy, we just met. This isn't an arranged marriage. We need to grow together. That's going to involve some pruning, from both partners, to fit in each other's lives. There is a saying, the man is the head of the house but the woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:40 PM
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What? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:32 PM
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I just want to say how much I agree with your comment. Last year I got really into self improvement. This was red pill but also trying to understand my own psychology and the patterns in my life. Red pill dynamics almost perfectly emulate narcissistic/codependent relationships. A lot of red pill advice for men boils down to treating the woman as a source of narcissistic supply and dropping her if she doesn't comply. What you wrote about cluster b is really interesting and fits since narcissistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:28 PM
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My favorite is how they think they can spend their 20's and 30's screwing around but then settle down when they're older with a virgin church girl. That's not how churches work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:02 PM
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Because this sprung from another thread topic that this proves he and others just totally missed the point from. That hamster wheel analogy is great when after someone totally missed the point then they write something this long, I mean some people just want to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:27 AM
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I didn't say that. I said I would love him even if he had horrible facial scarring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:22 AM
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I'm not blue pill btw. I'm probably one of the most anti feminist / red pill / almost black pill women you'll meet. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:20 AM
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This confuses me because you're saying it like it's a bad thing...Of course I would feel bad if a guy I'm dating dumps me. Especially if I feel he's a catch...what man/woman wouldn't feel bad after that unless they're a psycho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 09:18 AM
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Omg just let it go, yes you're right but having sex for the first time could be meaningful for a guy too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:26 AM
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Most of the men say is not valuable and to lose it, but the women seem to like it. I am not with the guy I lost it to anymore but I think it would have been sweet if we lost ours together. Hey maybe like some of the guys on here he was lying :) <3 ~
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:24 AM
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Come on isn't that kind of sexy, like phantom of the opera/sandor clegane status... If I had a husband who was like really sexy I wouldn't care if he was missing an eye or something XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:10 AM
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This is so interesting because this happened to me too. I used to think it was shallow to look at a man's body but now I love muscular guys, I am not sure if my tastes are changing with age or if I'm finally confident enough to admit what I like...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:08 AM
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https://www.truthorfiction.com/clintonfriends/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:05 AM
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Ok not that one, Im happy to have my originals, but slapping a guy who wants his mommy is tl;dr of my last relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 10:25 PM
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Interesting, this list applies to men too. I've had relationship with each type except the middle one (But I have girl friends who do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:56 PM
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Actually this is hilarious and describes my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:44 PM
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You can look it up for yourself if you think that. Because you're wrong. I don't know the inner workings of politics our running a country and I don't know why they did it. But those people are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 09:33 PM
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I'm sorry, I missed the part in the article where Melania had the women murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 04:40 AM
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since we're talking about politics, you might like to see this https://archive.is/nvFro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:03 AM
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Everyone's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 11:38 PM
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Well this might be one of the first times talking to someone online that I actually have the article saved! http://www.vanityfair.com/style/2016/07/welcome-to-the-new-prostitution-economy And I don't want to sound like I'm, arguing with you or invalidating what you're trying to say, or anything like that. But 50% is just a ridiculously high number of people to get doing anything. I think barely 50% of Americans vote, for example. Even 5-10% of people doing anything is enough to be a trend/ see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 11:36 PM
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It wasn't just one place, it was all over the internets haha. I kept reading that enthusiasm was the best trick, and I honestly like it so that was easy for me. The other tip I have is this bit of knowledge: supposedly, women like to feel their "whole body" being loved during sex, but men are really ALL about the penis. Like I read somewhere that guys don't really care if you're touching other parts of him, but women like parts other than the vagina to be touched. I don't know if that's true for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:51 PM
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oh ok, congratulations :) i agree with you about erotica. supposedly I give great blow jobs, but I've never seen what I do in porn. I learned it all from reading! I think guys don't get better at sex simply because they don't have to. It's not a priority for them. They don't even want to be especially good and have the woman get attached, they just want to get off. Will probably change once they meet a girl that they like and want to keep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:40 PM
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If love really doesn't exist then yes, I think all women should become sugar babies. Men who are RP I always wonder the corollary too--why do you even pursue women, just get a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:34 PM
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This is the answer for me, and it is the same reason I don't have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:33 PM
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it's already happened, then only gay/bi/fluid guys can also use this strategy in their youth, it happens for a generation or two (which it already did) and that's why we are where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:31 PM
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This is interesting because it seems to be bringing up some different stuff from your original question. Forgive me but if you're not talking personally, I don't know what you're talking about exactly. It sounds like you're describing your friends behavior and the behavior you see around you, do you mean that you yourself don't participate in casual sex with these guys? You're saying that when you were young you and your friends talk to each other about how guys like to be touched, and watch por…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:24 PM
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Do they not give you people lunch breaks? Why is it so important for you to argue this with me? Oh, right, THAT'S YOUR JOB. I'm only half joking at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:06 PM
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It's the internet. You can be whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:01 PM
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No way, straight guys can sleep with women they're not really attracted to all the time. There's a biological imperative for them to do so. If you're a guy and you might die tomorrow and there's an ugly woman who wants to bone...why not? Just do it. It might be funny. If you're a girl and you might die tomorrow and an ugly guy wants to bone...well first, that's every day of my life. Second, I might end up taking care of his ugly baby. It's a bad deal. Speaking as a straight woman sleeping with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 08:00 PM
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no, because you said you are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:51 PM
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In that case I think it's chemistry. Please remember too they describe it to you as a tornado of sex but who knows if you would enjoy that sex with that person? You have to find someone you're compatible with. Men (people tbh) only change if they have to, to get what they want. If the guy doesn't feel like he has to improve, why should he? If he has sex, and you're thinking "that wasn't great, I wish it were better" what incentive does he have to get better if he doesn't care about pleasing you?…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:50 PM
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These kind of assumptions just gloss over people and try to pin them all in a certain kind of box. It's kind of disgusting because I'm sure you are not the kind of person who likes to label others, yet when it comes to politics quick to insult others who don't agree with you. A big part of this election is the supreme court nominations (a bigger issue than what some shit head said about touching women, which we've all read worse here on reddit) but this narrative is being pushed that this is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:42 PM
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Shooting women in the back of the head is more Alfalafa, right? That's what happened to several of Bill Clinton's ex lovers. Only Monica Lewinsky went on trial but even she said Hillary Clinton threatened her, I think the whole thing about Trump talking about groping women was just a timed political move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:39 PM
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Your comment should have been deleted, I really do believe you are from CTR when I read things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:37 PM
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I can't tell exactly from the information you've posted but it sounds like you are a female having casual sex. Casual sex is usually not as satisfying for the female partner as the sex she has in a committed relationship, for exactly the reasons you bring up. You can teach the person what you like. He's not going to toss you around if he doesn't know what you're cool with. You're not going to feel safe being tossed around if you barely know him. Sex isn't a thing you are good or bad at, it's som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:34 PM
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Women take a passive role in the dating scene because females take a passive role in mating. It's true for humans and it's true for most animal species. Changing your gender is all the rage right now in our society so you're welcome to switch if you think it's so much easier for women. Feminism is WGTOW. I can support myself, have casual sex, and even have children all without a man thanks to the miracle of feminism. (Yes I'm being sarcastic. This is true but it sucks as far as gender relations …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:25 PM
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I could have written this. Feel free to send me a PM if you ever need to talk. I'm not going to lecture you on vetting men. You sound smart enough that you knew the risks going in and just took a chance. I did too and people always insist the problem was vetting--I'm not denying that's part of it, but no one is perfect and if we all waited for the perfect partner no one would ever get together. A big part of the problem in modern dating and divorce is people being fickle and deciding there's som…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 10:38 PM
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No. You are making so many assumptions with your comment that I don't have time to respond to all of them. This is a forum for women to get advice from a red pill perspective. Taking advice from the opposite sex is frowned on in your forum and it is in this one too. There are reasons for that. Second, as defined by their position divorcees are not in a good position to give marriage advice. I am sorry to sound harsh, but it's true. It's just common sense.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 06:36 AM
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Wtf happened to this forum that a bunch of divorced men are giving us advice
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 09:00 AM
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I get attention from all smv levels of men. From low value it is definitely more annoying. I notice high value men are much more gracious at accepting when I am not interested. This is a big difference between low and high value men. For example, the times I have dated a high value man but ended things because I didn't feel a connection, he has always left me a parting gift. I think for women (at least for me) the emotional connection is paramount. Yes, the attention is validating especially fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 11:38 PM
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Sorry I just think it's a bit of a cop out. Of course he prefers dating in the gay community--he is gay. It doesn't make the plight of straight men "infinitely worse" than the plight of straight women just because this one gay man prefers to be the receptive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 11:11 PM
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I thought really hard about your question. I agree with /u/redpillnobody about the RP MFF polyamorous relationship; and I hold the unpopular opinion that a man cheating on a woman isn't as awful as a woman cheating on a man. I am saying this because I think I am more sympathetic to your arrangement than most. I also think that your boyfriend IS committed to you. You didn't provide enough details in your original question about WHY you feel that he doesn't respect you, but you do here. ALL of the…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 06:43 AM
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I agree with you. I find it strange that women do this. One time, I was on the train with a friend of mine, and 2 guys approached us. In my opinion, every time men and women talk there's some undertone of flirting, but these guys were just talking to us--and she shot them down SO HARD! I even told her, you have a boyfriend, but I don't, so I don't mind a bit of harmless flirting! I was very shy and awkward growing up, so I think your envy is misplaced. Imagine feeling that way and having people …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 01:34 AM
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But that's not what I meant at all...I don't demonize men for being attracted to me. I love that men are attracted to me, it's just annoying because I'm not trying to get attention from ALL the men, I'm just hedging my bets so that when I meet that guy I actually do want, he will want me too. So all the guys I don't have feelings for get caught up in that. I think your reason of wanting to connect emotionally with a girl is a bigger factor for pursuing relationships than most guys want to admit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 09:31 PM
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This is great and perfectly describes my frustrations when it comes to dating. As a female who gets a lot of male attention, I would agree that it's validating but not in the way many guys think--I'm grateful for the attention, but it doesn't mean anything to me. It would be like posting a video online that got 1,000,000 hits but lots of dislikes. Male attention by itself does nothing for me except confirm that people saw the video. I say dislikes because, as a woman, I am way more concerned wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 07:33 PM
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Your parents might not have taught you these environmental lessons, but they did teach you to be compassionate towards other people and to make decisions for your community, not just for yourself. Environmental concerns were brought up at school and you saw the problem of overpopulation. You're not selfish. I'm just pointing out that not every culture shares these values, and you're not part of the group that is experiencing exponential growth. Since these groups are mutually exclusive, it is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 07:13 PM
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That's just not true. The population is growing in places that are terrible for the environment. I agree that a single Chinese villager doesn't have the kind of negative impact that a single American does, but on a whole, the overpopulated nation of China has a much greater negative effect on our planet than America does, who often leads the world in environmental reform.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 06:38 PM
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As someone who once chased around a guy I had a crush on for 6 months, this confuses me. You're having sex 1x / week with a guy you love and you've each given 6 years of commitment to. Isn't that better than any alternative that DOESN'T involve the man you want in your life? Also your problem is easily solved by asking him to sleep at your house.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/16 04:35 AM
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Well I can see their point too. Like, why should you limit the size of your family when the population is growing in parts of the world that don't have the same kind of concern for the environment. You could argue that having more kids in this culture is better since you can raise them to try and bring change and awareness to other cultures that don't share those environmental concerns. And I don't know about asians/hispanics "devouring" demographically but it is true that with lower native birt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 03:25 AM
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I think it's sweet that he built his woman a studio.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 01:52 AM
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Yeah that is basically what I was getting at. I was just curious since from a population standpoint its altruistic not to have kids, the planet just can't support this many people. It seems like white people and first worlders make this a conscious decision, which is curious to me since third world populations are exploding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 01:49 AM
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I didn't mean it to sound like I'm lying about it, (I tell people I would like to have kids in the future) I meant that there is a discrepancy between how I feel and the practicality of getting pregnant right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 01:42 AM
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I ran the data, and according to this website, you're only in the top 6% of Americans instead of 4% worldwide. https://tall.life/height-percentile-calculator-age-country/ Bottom line, you ARE exceptional :P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 11:09 PM
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Yes. The only reason the feeling gets lost in people like you describe is because of domestication. Our natural body wants very much to have children (true for most women. of course there are always exceptions.) Societal pressures reduce the need to have children and to take care of them. Because there are too many people now, and not enough space. It's subconscious but you describe the results. Third world women have many children, first world women do not. It's kind of the same explanation for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 09:29 PM
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Can I ask what race/ethnicity are you and your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 09:21 PM
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My thought is: Yes attractive people get away with more. This is because people want something from them (probably sex) so they give these attractive people what they want, hoping to get what they want (attention from the attractive person.) It's nothing but an exchange! This isn't an problem for men, this is an problem for everyone. Attractive women get away with way more than fat sloppy women, Attractive men get away with more than fat sloppy men. I also think your comment about the celebritie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 09:18 PM
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oh my god you are so confused The idea that women could meet a guy and just fuck him because he's alpha says more about the woman, than the man. Dividing men into alphas who fuck barsluts and everyone else waiting for sex is a beta is silly. I know who my alpha is and we waited a very long time to have sex. Stop hanging out in bars!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 01:59 AM
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I don't think you understand women. Women don't want to have contact with millions of men. This is revolting lol. Also, why can't a man keep his sexually attractive girlfriend attracted to him??? Do you think that sexually attractive women don't feel attracted to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 01:53 AM
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He is not giving credit to women's promiscuous past to excuse them from sleeping with their husbands, and the examples you brought up are women living a completely different lifestyle (analogous to Marriage 1.0) than what he is talking about. He is saying that in our society, where promiscuity is encouraged, women end up sleeping with men they are not very attracted to. Sex today is like mutual masturbation for most people. He's saying women should wait to have sex until they meet someone and ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 01:49 AM
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In my opinion, these guys are not really "Red Pilled." Guys like Roosh and many of the moderators and active posters on TRP. If they were really red pilled, they would see how their actions affect society outside of a purely hedonistic, sexual perspective. They will complain all day about feminism and its impact on society, then go out and give sexual attention to the kind of woman they profess to hate. A truly red pill man wouldn't be so desperate for sexual attention from females that he kept …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 01:13 AM
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No, I don't see that, men are really vilified for cheating with a younger and hotter woman, socially, but women are not as vilified when they file for divorce or ask to break up. Not all women trade up when a better option comes along and not all men do, either. It's harmful to men to perpetuate the stereotype that "all men cheat" when they are the ones who get more socially punished for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 12:57 AM
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You don't date or sleep with men who plate you. Plating women and being plated is a mindset, it doesn't change based on how much time you've been seeing each other. The guy you are interested in either has on his mind: I want to fuck her OR I want to fuck her and I want a LTR. And even if he is ready for a LTR it doesn't mean he wants that with YOU, so first you vet and then you take a risk. If you are really valuable to him he will not want to let you go. The problem with most TRP guys is they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 12:50 AM
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Definitely I think you should listen to VigilantRedRooster and others who have more knowledge and life experience than me, HOWEVER I would like to offer my 2 cents. My parents are in a very traditional and red pill marriage. For me to watch, it has been a model relationship. They are also from Europe. My dad drinks nearly every night. However, he never gets "drunk". I have seen him get a bit "silly" 3 or 4 times in my life (not counting playing his music too loud and singing.) In my family's nat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/16 05:54 AM
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Yes. You are waking up. There is much more to the red pill than what is found on its Reddit message board.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:06 PM
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I think this is a normal part of growing up and something everyone goes through. IMO our society is no longer healthy and what you went through (first committed sexual partner dumping you) is way more traumatic than anybody wants to admit. In most societies throughout human history, that connection would only be severed if she died suddenly, or after several years once u were bored with each other anyway and you were rich enough to get a second wife. So the best thing to do is accept that this i…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 06:56 PM
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There was this famous actress, I can't think of her name, but scientists in the 70s polled a bunch of people and determined she had the perfect female face. She's married to this butt ugly real estate agent and they have 3 kids. I knew a beautiful model in her 20s with a gorgeous body who dated one of her photographers. He was in his mid 40s, but he looked older, and was fat. Women care way way more about how you make them feel than how you look.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:19 AM
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Ok I'm from rpw and I had no idea that you guys thought the woman was supposed to push for exclusive. I have never nor would I ever do that. I feel like that is just so foreign to a woman who has been raised to let men lead. like would you expect a woman propose to a man too??? I think you screwed up by saying "No" you don't like her. So in her mind probably she's trying to get the modern woman frame that this is just sex (biologically impossible imo.) She's not gonna have sex with you multiple …
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:08 AM
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I agree with the puppy thing, but too much dread makes a kicked puppy.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:39 AM
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It's a comfort test. She is trying to get closer to you. You say yourself you don't open up to her. She wants you to so that she will feel more comfortable around you and not feel regret about fucking some strange guy.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:35 AM
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Would your parents or his parents maybe take it? My prayers are with you at this difficult time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/16 07:57 PM
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Love it. Needed to be said. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/16 05:36 AM
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This is silly advice, a man can wait as long as he needs to to get a woman into bed with him, especially if he can control his sexual appetite around that woman by having sex with others, masturbating, or patience. Often times the long wait and her reluctance are what makes the conquest sweeter.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/16 11:29 PM
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(2/2) Those are my thoughts on some of what you wrote, and dealing with the theory of TRP. Regarding your relationship with your dad, I'll give you some more specific advice. It sounds to me like for most of your life you've been exceptionally concerned with pleasing your father, to the detriment of your sexual relationships with men. Pleasing the strongest man in your life is a good thing and a definitely RP trait. However, if we were back in time when marriage and social relationships were enc…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 03:32 AM
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(1/2) Is there a way to mark my post for women's-eyes-only? Haha. I found your post very interesting because I too am an analytical person and found in the red pill an interesting framework to view love, relationships, and life. I have been reading rp theory for about a year and a half and this led itself to more specific texts about sociology, culture, psychology and politics so I'll try to give you some of my thoughts regarding your specific situation. You might totally disgree with me but I c…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/16 03:32 AM
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I love that man. Why isn't he taught in all the schools? Rhetorical question.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/16 03:08 AM
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Originally I had something in my response that apologized for sounding harsh. Believe me when I say I'm only trying to help you and (speaking from one woman to another) I've behaved more embarrassingly than you describe yourself here, so no judgement. With that said I really don't think my analysis of your mindset is that far off, even if you regularly have sex and you're sure he isn't cheating. You literally ask "what should I withhold in order to encourage him to commit to marriage." The answe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/16 02:59 AM
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I will give you my perspective based on what you wrote here, of which there are a few things that stuck out to me as decidedly problematic: "I am trying to find a balance of wanting to prove to him that I am wife material but also not giving him the milk for free." Honey, it is too late for that. If you withhold sex from this mindset all you are doing is using sex as a weapon. You don't need to withhold sex to prove that you are wife material. Either he sees you as wife material, or he doesn't. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 07:22 AM
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Drink more water. Drink water immediately after getting up in the morning, drink water with every meal and throughout the day. Stop drinking soda and coffee. You really should not be drinking anything except water. Everything else is a treat. It's okay to have treats, but recognize them as such. I cut my food in half whenever I go out, and only consider eating the second half if I'm still hungry after the first. Try to curb your sweet tooth by developing a taste for other flavors. When you set t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/16 11:07 PM
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Please read Ojisan's comment again. I think he has a better understanding of what I'm explaining here. Your comment embraces fallacy. My response ended up being kind of long so let me just say I don't mean to attack or alienate you or anyone else here with this response. This is kind of an advanced expansion of my first comment. Here it is: Men and women are paired animals, like every other mammal on this planet. If there were no men, humanity would have already ceased to exist. Not because huma…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/16 10:46 AM
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I agree, guys do play a lot of games! lol. I also think they're reluctant to give the "girlfriend" title and are unsure, in this climate, of what to do and say to a girl. A guy told me once it is so humiliating for relationship to end, that it hurts so much that is one reason they don't go for it so seriously. So I think this happens because they're nervous about getting hurt. I second all the advice about giving him the opportunity to show you his good side without judgement on your part. Try t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/16 09:44 AM
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My parents are red pill. My dad was something of a Chad when he was young and eventually settled down with my mom in a relationship with very traditional gender roles. The funny thing I didn't realize until recently how free spirited my mom was as a young woman, quite unwilling to let anyone tell her what to do. I guess she trusts my dad and listens to him. I felt very safe as a kid and they're still together even though we've seen so many friends and family divorce, so that's why I would like a…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/16 09:23 AM
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I am sorry this happened to you and it is really terrible and unfortunate that your father treated you and your mother this way. It is not red pill for a man to hurt his family because his family is his legacy, it is something to be coveted by others and appreciated by himself. Yes it is a bit idealistic but it is the only way to have pride in situations like this. I believe pain runs in cycles through families so please be careful with your own life.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/16 09:10 AM
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Yes and it's what women have been advocating for hundreds of years and typically looks like conservative, submissive to a moral authority outside yourself, and stay at home. For women red pill looks exactly like that. There is too much confusion lately on this forum over it. The only reason male red pill forum looks different is because of legal issues, progressivism, and feminism destabilizing our culture in the west. If you were really red pill you would advocate for it too. Red Pill women kno…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/16 09:02 AM
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The clothes don't make the woman. Work on your self-confidence first.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 05:45 PM
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WOMEN can absolutely go their own way. In fact, women going their own way is what started all the changes in our culture that led, many many years later, to movements like the Red Pill and MGTOW that grew up from the muck that women left behind them. Throughout history, men and women have been entwined. In early history, male disposability was extreme, but roughly a quarter of women died in childbirth. Women were considered more valuable for their ability to birth children, and men were consider…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 05:39 PM
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I'll trade you some manners for it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 04:26 PM
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Or dare I say it...goyim D:
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 04:32 PM
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No, please calm down. You don't need to talk/act like this. Your comment is worded like a man would respond to the question. She asks why do guys post here and you explain why you post on trp network. Well, if you're not a guy, she's not talking to you. You're a girl, you should know your reasons for doing something are not why a man might do the equivalent behavior. (I really don't think most men here are here because they care about women's rights.)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 04:22 PM
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His advice is not Red Pill. Don't believe everything you read. His advice is self-serving to men who like "sluts" and lots and lots of men, who usually live alone and who you may remember from your youth as a "dirty uncle", like sluts because those are the only type of women he can get laid with. Bonus: sluts are usually young and hot, so from trp perspective this equals good sex. The red pill is about becoming a better person, accepting painful realities, and making choices that serve God and y…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 04:07 PM
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Yeah, this place looks like a bathroom in North Carolina
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:50 PM
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Your name makes me think you are a girl. Your comment is worded like a boy's. The fact that you're talking like a boy and upvoted above all other comments proves her point. This is supposed to be a place for women, but it is not being upheld or supported by women.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:48 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty embarrassing. The funniest part, to me, is that most of these guys have not taken the true red pill, so most of their advice is VERY BLUE.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:45 PM
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I just don't get where you're coming from. First, I never tried to reform him. Lots of people at my high school gosipped about him, that he was a slut, and a bad guy, stuff like that. That's why I said he was the "bad boy" type. But I didn't try anything on him, we simply started dating. Second, I just don't see how you can make a generalization like all bad boys are inevitably leeches. It's just so ridiculous. My dad in his youth was pretty "bad", definitely a player, among other unpalatable qu…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 07:22 AM
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Haha, I hope you are joking. That's ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 05:58 AM
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I think this forum might now be "guys justifying their poor behavior towards women" more than a discussion between women of our sexual strategies. People are downvoting you and arguing with you because it is mostly men on here now. No man who reads trp isn't or hasn't been upset about how much his worth is tied to his income. But the fact is, a woman making more money than the man she is dating puts the man in a tough position. He is no longer in the provider/protector role when it comes to fina…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 05:56 AM
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I say I am a rpw but sometimes I wonder if I am even a girl, lol. I hate weddings, and the idea of being proposed to in any impractical way embarrasses me. I only like the ring because I'm sentimental. Everything you wrote about your friend makes me want to drive my car into a brick wall :P The thing is I think guys kind of like women like that, who tell them exactly what they want in one way or another.
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 05:08 AM
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You're right about this happening in the future between the same sex. So, basically, I am picturing a future where no one has any friends, lol. Or more likely: no one is married, everyone is "friends", no one gets to be jealous, and everyone fucks everyone else. A nightmare ~_~
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 04:40 AM
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This is exactly what happened to me. I was dating my h.s. sweetheart, he was my first everything. He was a reformed "bad boy" for me. I was like the OP graduating on the fast track while my boyfriend could only return to school later. We were incredibly happy until our responsibilities shifted. I was actually making more money at school than he was working. I believe he resented me, or didn't feel good enough, or something, because he just stopped trying: stopped going to work, got fired, didn't…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 04:31 AM
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I agree with you, I personally feel that femininity is attacked in our culture. The only reason I even entertain the idea of "rape culture" is because I can totally see irrational, vile hatred directed at the most feminine women. I mean I see it with just about every feminine characteristic: beautiful models (for some reason I am supposed to accept plus sized models) motherhood (having an abortion is preferred to early pregnancy) SAHM (why don't you work) supporting your mate (Can't you stand up…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:37 AM
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Option #3 is different for every relationship, what it looks like will be different between any two people. The first two are playing games. Only when people are honest about what they want from the relationship and themselves, what they want their life to look like, can they find the person who fits with them.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:18 AM
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This post is excellent, thank you. Sex should be just as you say. Waiting for an arbitrary declaration or tossing it out are equally destructive. Personally I have sex when I want to, with men that I trust. The idea of using sex and commitment as part of a game pisses me off immensely. If I'm having sex with you, you can bet I trust you, I like you a lot, and I'm hoping that this reflects the intimacy in our relationship. I can't do anything except trust that your intentions are honourable to me…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:13 AM
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If that's the class of people you are from, and plan on staying in and marrying in then this isn't something you should worry about. Date men who share your views and values. But if you fall in love with a poor man it probably won't work out if you can't cook and clean for the reasons other posters said.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 04:57 PM
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There have been many studies done that show if you live with your partner before marriage, the likelihood of you two getting married is low. If you don't care about getting married, living together in a (I'm assuming) committed partnership is ok. But if you want to get married, DON'T live together to test the waters first. It's usually not going to work. A man has little incentive to pop the question when you two are already playing house. Kind of like how he has little incentive to upgrade you …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/16 05:38 AM
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Do you have friends? I'm serious. If you are good at making friends, getting a boyfriend is so much easier. You don't have to join a class because you're some predator looking for a guy. You join a class hoping to meet new people and make a human connection. It's so much easier to see who a person is, their values, etc. through the initial lens of a common interest. It's much harder to meet people through the colder approach of online dating.
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 10:18 PM
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You've got a lot of good advice I don't feel the need to repeat, and I hope we see you back here with updates :) There is one thing I wanted to comment on from this part of your story: I tried not to show him how disrespected I felt, and I didn't make a fuss over it. It sounds to me like you are ignoring your feelings, you are putting yours at the expense of your partners. You don't want to have a relationship with this dynamic. It doesn't work. Your date #2 says he felt disrespected, but what a…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 10:13 PM
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Don't expect better of people than they expect of themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/16 11:36 AM
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From the rules: This is a spot for like-minded Women to objectively and realistically discuss sexual strategy. Content therefore must serve for the benefit of women. Anything deviating from this goal is off topic. Male-centric advice is not permitted. Do not give advice to women which is primarily intended to benefit men, or *is based around male desires without considerations for women's desires or goals.* Male users will be scrutinized more closely for compliance, but this rule applies to both…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/16 05:34 PM
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I love this post! I have so much to say about it. "The most important factor when it comes to attracting and gaining commitment from high quality men: psychological femininity." This is an important point for single girls like me to remember. Low-quality men react to psychological femininity the same way they reacted to attraction in grade-school. Hair-pulling, ribbing, and bullying. Many times in the courtship stage I've found myself having flashbacks to the playground. Although it's discouragi…
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:15 PM
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In my experience being the youngest, thinnest, longest-haired lady in the office results in all kinds of strange and mysterious accidents being attributed to me. Be prepared to be bossed around by any woman larger than you since you are obviously not taking any of your work seriously. Dressing better than your manager can get you fired but male supervisors are great and will often give you small presents.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/16 04:55 PM
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I expect him, you, and other RP men to avoid posting here and offering advice to RPW. I don't expect him to map out a game plan for me and I don't care what his experiences are like. I can go on TRP if I'm curious about the psyche of plate-spinning men. His being jaded is absolutely not my problem, and any justification of "I was bit once so now AWALT" only serves to further sympathy for commitment-phobic men, which is antithetical to female rp values. Men like this do not commit and it is not m…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 10:34 PM
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I think it is a meet-cute story and might work out between you two, but be careful of investing so much in a guy who hasn't invested in you. Keep losing weight and go to the concert, but in the meantime be open to whatever life throws at you (maybe a guy closer to home?) Because guys can sense when you really like them and get turned off. Also as someone who has over-invested in poor partners it is much harder to break it off or if they decide to break it off than if you go in with a clear head.…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 06:32 PM
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Considering all the messy comments from men on here, yours is not the worst.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 06:20 PM
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I don't know why you guys are downvoting Whisper, she is correct. Every girl who has ever been dumped knows that this is true. A man can promise you the world and sleep with you and dump you the next day or after 20 years of marriage, for whatever reason, because people have free will. RP strategy focuses on making this less likely to happen (for both parties) by securing emotional investment from your mate, being the best possible mate for that person, and proper screening in the first place. B…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 06:17 PM
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i realize you wrote a lot and things are changing around here, but I don't think your post is appropriate to be on RPW. It's the kind of thing I would expect to see deleted because it is so far out of line with RPW values. We generally don't take advice from men about women especially from guys like you. You were taking advantage of a woman who wanted kids at the prime of her life by using her as a plate. Although her strategy wasn't RP, her goal was and you ruined it for her. Now, you say you a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/16 06:05 PM
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First, get some kind of birth control. Really even the family planning method works for some people. There is no excuse for you risking pregnancy and a possible abortion because for whatever reason, you didn't want to take a pill or wrap it up. Once that is taken care of I bet his tune will change. I was going to suggest you initiating more often since that seems to be the rhythm in your relationship, but at this point if you're not even being safe about sex then it might just look like you're t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 10:15 PM
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If you really read TRP and RPW then I think you know exactly where you stand and what's going on here. You say, "Women would literally KILL to have a man look at them and treat them the way my SO treats me." And you also say "I just need a guy who's MORE ALPHA THAN ME." You're reading all this stuff about alpha/beta behavior and trying to use it to justify why you aren't attracted to this guy. You're even trying to justify changing him! One thing I've noticed the women in LTRs on this sub emphas…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 07:23 PM
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I think it is helpful advice regardless, because let's say your husband does have PTSD; instead of blaming your problems on his illness and perceiving him as damaged, you work on building intimacy, trust, and understanding in the relationship. I think Laura is right when she says the quirks that attracted you seem pathological later. I know personally I'm surrounded by confident, attractive people who turn into narcissists whenever we disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 01:20 AM
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I would get out of the mindset of "men never ask me out." Lots of guys probably do want to date you, but don't know if you are available or interested. Think of it from his perspective. Guys are expected to be the pursuers in relationships and therefore experience a lot of rejection. Therefore, they like to approach women who appear receptive to their advances. Smile, make a burst of eye contact with a stranger you find attractive, take the initiative and set your mat down near someone handsome …
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 06:46 AM
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kids do not do better in daycare https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/eric-bettinger-why-stay-home-parents-are-good-older-children unless you and your wife are dumber than the state http://freakonomics.com/2014/03/26/dalton-conley-answers-your-parentology-questions/
/r/ThankTRP22/09/15 07:54 AM
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I don't want to sound like I'm jumping on you because I think even noticing you have a problem with your fiancé and seeking to our solve it shows self-reflection and deserves encouragement. But this white/poc argument will trap you in a victim mentality. First, the majority of people around the world are not white and live by red pill truths so the idea that this a thread for white people is ridiculous. The ideas espoused here are actually more common in societies of so called people of color. I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 10:14 AM
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My mom. With the way American culture is today, especially here on the West Coast, I don't think I'd even be able to imagine what a woman is supposed to do for her family without her in my life.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/15 05:17 AM
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I don't understand this. Most RP women are marriage minded, and won't waste our time in dead-end LTRs. HOW ARE WE EVER GONNA FIND EACH OTHER.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:08 AM
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Avoid men who are not in a place to commit and who bring up any red flags for you. Men who live with their moms, men who are unemployed, married men, men in jail, men who live with their baby mamas, and "players" are not going to change their lifestyle for you. If a man doesn't have space for you in his life, he's not going to make that space after you have sex.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 05:41 AM
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The point of holding out for sex isn't to play games with him or try to get him to want you so bad he commits. This is a recipe for disaster, as some men will even lie to you, say they want to be exclusive, and then leave you after sex. The point of waiting to have sex is to weed out the men who only have one thing on your mind! So yes, you will have "trouble" if you're thinking this way. If you're dating someone, and he realizes you aren't going to put out easily, then fades away, you let him g…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/15 07:32 AM
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Are you approaching women? The more women you approach, the more likely you are that one will give you attention.
/r/seduction15/08/15 04:16 AM
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In my experience, men who move quickly commitment-wise are not trustworthy. They have a scarcity mentality when it comes to sex so when a woman does come along who will have sex with them they rush to lock her down. This doesn't mean he actually likes you or has the feels (and, he's explicitly told you he doesn't.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/15 07:22 PM
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This is what I need to find. Thank you. I've a bad tendency to think a man's going to "change his mind" when he meets me, instead of looking for one who's made the decision himself.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/15 02:16 AM
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I live in a very large city on the west coast. The sex education taught to me at public school was very extensive, starting in 5th grade and again in 8th grade. Absolutely no mention of fertility or a positive view of reproduction except for some anecdotes about how our sex drive will peak in our mid-thirties. We did have to watch a video of a woman giving birth which shocked me out of wanting children until I turned 24. I read somewhere this curriculum helped dramatically reduce inner city teen…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 09:50 PM
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Alpha is a mindset/attitude and the top ranked male in a social hierarchy. PUA is a man who has studied game theory and is good at picking up women. Alphas score with women because women want to score with them. They take what comes to them (or not), and women come to them, because women have a natural biological drive to mate with the top ranked male in a social hierarchy. PUA game women into sleeping with them. Game theory is tricking women into thinking they want to sleep with you. It is ofte…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:11 AM
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