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| 23 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now? | EliPepper | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 11:33 PM |
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| 1 | Important lesson of 2015 I learnedThis is a really great post, OP. I've actually started dating someone, well on our 5th date, and I think I'm slipping back into beta mode. Your post is making me realize I got to keep up the seduction game. I still haven't gotten past kissing and it's 5 dates in! Because I was becoming the "old me." I can see that her interest in me is slipping. I gotta turn this shit around quick! I mean, I don't idolize her, so it wouldn't be that big of a deal, but she's hot. Now I've reset myself and getting… | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Put away your damn phone.This. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?I hope this post is true. TBH tho, most of the girls I know, look at full beards and say "ewwww" so definitely not popular in my circle. I personally hate the hipsters lumberjack beard look that has been in fashion. And same with the twirly mustache some of them have rocking. It's like this current decades "mullet." | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 07:45 PM |
| 3 | For Those in a BindUnless you look like a model, yes. I cut my hair, and game improved a lot. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 09:48 PM |
| 3 | [Need Advice] I speak too fast and my tone sucks! How do I improve this?It kind of IS the solution for every guys problems! And it works! | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 10:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you make your exgf believe you want to start again?That sucks bro. Use your powers of seduction for good, not evil. There's plenty of other chicks you can hook up with. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?I gotta be honest man, I totally disregarded your text. But fuck if you weren't on point about a lot of stuff. She did say she wanted to kiss me and want my hands on her. But she was trying to stay faithful to her new guy. I didn't act on it. One, because she suggest it first, so she had the power. Two,because I've already had sex with her and I was really trying to update some perceptions of me because I hate the fact that I was so beta in the past. Three, she would have fucking regretted it bi… | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?I updated my post with a lengthy rundown. but you are right. To be honest, I'm still in love with her. Just not waiting for her. Sometimes, timing is shit. Anyway, the night went awesome, and I feel great about things, and I'm moving on. So I'm feeling really great about things. I got a lot of closure and it was really positive. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Well, I think it's an aspect that if you talk too much, or share too much, it can get tiring for the other person. So it's more reigning myself in. Changing my personality for the better. The night went great, and I updated my post. Turned out great. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Thanks. And it worked. I updated perceptions, it went really well and now I can move on. She admitted that she was still really attracted to me. We parted as friends. super long edit to the night, but that's the gist of it. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Thanks. We were strong friends before and both agreed to stay friends after. So it's not really that dramatic. I gave a long update to the night. But it went well, and I'm back to being super awesome. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?I like your style. This is how I want it to work out. Good points! | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Yep, that's my plan. I am treating it like a first date of girl I just met. Except for the "getting to know you" stuff, it's game on. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?100 percent this! Yes! This words what I want to do, perfectly. And she liked my dick, so I'm ahead of the game already. ha ha Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Yeah, actually I'm that weird guy too. She's the rare breed of chick that gets tired of talking about emotions real quick. I was always the talky/feely guy. And I'm changing direction. Not just for this situation, but for all situations. I talked too fucking much in the past, with every chick. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Thanks. I only text in reply. I have never texted her first since we broke up. She texts me a couple of times a week and I reply back. Usually just keeping it light, talking about gym time, things like that. You mentioned you had a similar experience. How'd it work out? | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Don't really wanna blow her off, because she would think I chickened out, I doubt she'd see it as I don't care. I think causally meeting her, thinking nothing of it, treating her as an old friend, but being plenty alpha is the way to go. Thanks for your input! | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Yep, kinda what I was thinking. It's tonight, and after thinking stuff over, and the panic has died down, I'm just gonna go with the flow. Won't overthink it, treat it like any date and just be on game, but not be invested. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?I like this. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Yep, definitely a great example of how being too emotionally invested messes with confidence levels. I have been on so many first dates lately. I've chatted up girls on busses, in parking garages. Never nervous on dates. But this girl, because I'm into her, nervous as all out. I'd rather go out with 20 strangers than have a conversation with a chick who dumped me after 3 months of dating. I'm learning a lot here. Thanks. Sometimes, I just overthink shit. ha ha | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?Yeah, like really fucked it up! I'm pretty annoyed that I put out it there to her that I still have feelings for her. Oh well, I'll never make that mistake again. Thanks for your advice, man. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Ex-gf asks me out to dinner. Possible to prove that I have balls now?You, my friend, are exactly right. I just added an edit about my change in attitude. I added that before I read your comment. I fell back into old bad habits. The difference this time? I know they are old bad habits. Thanks for your input. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How To Stop Being NeedyI gotta raise my hand and yell, "Me!" when I read this. I just fucked up my last relationship because of this very reason. Why didn't I find this sub months ago? I'd still have that fucking girlfriend if I had read this fucking sub. And the guy who replaced me? I bet he's got his shit covered. Goddammit! Fuck! Ok, lesson learned. Today is Day 1. Alpha now. | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Any guys interested in an online personal development support/discussion group?Is it too late? I want in! | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 06:32 PM |
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