Elitesandbaninis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Needy LTRs and what that means about me		Elitesandbaninis	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 03:10 PM
6	Current self to past self: "I told you so."		Elitesandbaninis	/r/askTRP	10/05/21 06:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Driving in the Fastlane Needed to hear this today	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/22 07:42 PM
3	How to EXIT Western Convid hell and fuck juicy Latinas in Mexico Curious - Is OP in violation of this in his original post?	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/22 06:36 PM
10	I lost my chivalry after the divorce What was she like before she went batshit? Were there red flags?	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	25/01/22 09:37 PM
2	Don't Get Married I don’t understand why a judge is involved. Is the assumption that a breakup will trigger a lawsuit?	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/21 11:18 PM
3	Don't Get Married What are the dangers of cohabitating?	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/21 08:47 PM
1	Working out without headphones Why not both	/r/askTRP	17/06/21 01:37 PM
2	Should I restart dating app profile after not using for 6 months? There is a subreddit devoted to improving your dating app score and setting up your new account to maximize its success. Can't remember what it's called though.	/r/askTRP	16/06/21 04:50 PM
1	Do you go dutch with LTRs or pay for them? I have kept a splitwise with my last two LTRs and it has worked wonders	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 03:35 PM
3	LTR wants to go to a dance with another dude I had this happen to me with my LTR when I was in HS. Some family friend of hers invited her to his prom and I said I was fine with it. The night of the prom she calls me to tell me that when he came to pick her up he went up to her room with her and asked her for a BJ so she decided to not go with him. This is coming from the same girl who a year later showed some other dude her tits while we were still dating. The point is you can never really trust her, and you definitely can't trust other du…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:31 PM
1	Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep again How do you practice meditation? Edit: Sometimes i struggle falling asleep because I also have a busy mind. I have learned that it does not take a lot to fall asleep even when I feel most anxious (disclaimer, it has failed in the past when I was in a state of crisis). Headspace has sleep meditations which have helped me learn how to make myself fall asleep. Basically you want to first slow down your breathing, then shift your focus to relaxing (one body part at a time), then you just count your b…	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 04:29 PM
3	Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep again Practice meditation to learn how to control your thoughts. Then you can try a guided sleep meditation. Assuming your issue is an anxious busy mind	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 11:50 AM
5	Any metal heads here? What do you listen to at the gym? Lately, The Devil Wears Prada. The new Zombie EP is pretty sick	/r/askTRP	21/05/21 05:06 PM
1	Current self to past self: "I told you so." I really appreciate actionable items. When you say monk mode for 2 years, doesn’t that mean no dating? Can you elaborate on what that item means here? I don’t want to be a total hermit I feel like that will just intensify and broaden my feelings of resentment.	/r/askTRP	11/05/21 02:12 PM
2	Needy LTRs and what that means about me Internet, friend.	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 08:31 PM
2	Needy LTRs and what that means about me It turned into a comical routine. Like clockwork, I would receive said text addressing the same feelings. Then I would say I'm sorry she felt [repeat feelings she has expressed] and I would get RIPPED apart for not being truly sorry.	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 08:29 PM
2	Needy LTRs and what that means about me It is true that I did not really like my past LTRs. This one, I really did like. It was the first time I've felt a strong connection and genuinely felt like I loved someone. I never told her because I didn't know if it was just a result of my own anxieties (hadn't established a complete upper hand yet). The feelings started to fade as her irrational insecurities became more and more apparent. I just got annoyed by how childish she came off. Ironically enough, the moment she opened up to me about…	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 08:26 PM
4	Needy LTRs and what that means about me It's exhausting. I thought I was doing what I needed by sending her little texts throughout the day, visiting her on our "away from each other nights", and still, the next day I would get a text expressing sadness that I don't care enough. It literally feels impossible.	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 05:31 PM