| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Divorce is “catching”… | ElizabethRose87 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:57 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Yeah! I’m actually very curious about your lady & your experience. Different strokes for different folks, so I’d appreciate learning from your experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:55 PM |
| -1 | I think I'm finally 'getting over the hump'.Read your story this far on Reddit. I’m sorry for your situation. How you describe her above is very sweet, but I doubt she ever felt the same for you. And I’m sorry it wasn’t likely mutual love on that level. Have you dated? Might not help at all but sometimes seeing the other fish in the sea can help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Not sure where to turn nowIf her location was off… that is highly suspicious. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Not sure where to turn now“you put her in her place” Yeah I see why you’re here. She’s a grown woman. That’s trash and no grown ass woman would tolerate you speaking to her like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:48 PM |
| 0 | I think I'm finally 'getting over the hump'.🤍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Curious if anyone was aching for or really looking forward to get divorced and found that is was harder than they imagined it would beDo you know the rough estimate she had to pay in lawyer fees? Curious. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Curious if anyone was aching for or really looking forward to get divorced and found that is was harder than they imagined it would beI wish I was on here enough to know how to give awards cause that’s funny lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Curious if anyone was aching for or really looking forward to get divorced and found that is was harder than they imagined it would beI wish I was on here enough to know how to give awards cause that’s funny lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?You do seem to have a decent head on your shoulders. I do hope she appreciates you. I do wish you the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?I literally thought you were kind of sweet as your comment implied you worry about loosing your lady, which I think is sweet & nice and adorable in an attractive way… and then you insulted me 😅 like okay maybe say it nicely You can just say “I don’t think that’s true and this is why…“ or “I disagree because…” You can tell someone you disagree without insulting someone (although I know that’s asking for a lot on Reddit 😅) I don’t think I’m “generally” wrong, but women are individuals so exception… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?How are the rest incorrect? If I’m wrong can you elaborate? I’m a slob too. But I do also understand the importance of cleaning. Does she? One reason I married my husband is because he’s good at cooking & cleaning and that is very valuable to me. Has your lady told you she doesn’t like flowers? I mean beyond you insulting me, rude okay - But also if I’m wrong I’d like details as to why you think I’m wrong. What has your experience been? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 12:18 PM |
| -4 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Statistically marriage is less advantageous for women and more advantageous for men. There’s been research and you can Google these findings. Just because you believe it’s true, that doesn’t make it true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Awww 💕 You seem to be really trying. I do hope your girlfriend appreciates it. Look. Keeping a (decent, not psycho) woman interested in you is really not that hard if you’re a decent, hard working, man. Buy her flowers. Yes, they are a waste of money. But not really if it means you keep her love and affection. Get her flowers every anniversary, Valentine’s Day, and every time you get an oil change (I’m not joking). Seriously this WORKS. It’s worth the money as it keeps her happy. Tell her she ha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?K cool so you’re just sexist. See why she left you - | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?That’s bullshit. Most states have no fault divorce so she literally can’t get more than half, which is not in her favor. I know exactly ZERO women divorced who got the house in their divorces. Yeah it happens but not that often these days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?10 losers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?I’m a woman, and this is true. Yeah we *can get sex anytime… but first of all Ew, GROSS - women typically aren’t sexual like that. Secondly STDs. I don’t want to have sex with most of y’all. Most women DO NOT want to sleep with you okay 🫠😅 Quality men (our definition of a quality man, not your definition) is EXTREMELY rare. And yes some women are unaware of that. Or don’t understand what a quality man looks like. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Most states are no fault now so women don’t have any law on their side anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:05 AM |
| 0 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?This is the most toxic thread. Y’all need help. Psychologically. Statistically single women are happier. PERIOD. You can fraking Google that. And reading these comments, I’d rather be single than date these awful men in this toxic thread. I’m married FYI. I’m a MARRIED lady. Got married 4/20/24. Been with my man since 2021. Women should only marry if the man is worth her damn trouble, hard work, and energy, and y’all with these toxic comments are not worth our time. 100% divorce support of bulls… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Statistically in 2025, most women today have more money than men & more assets. So… that’s bullshit | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?lol okay. The Christian god & the Muslim god are not “moral”. They both killed children, which is ALWAYS immoral. Also they don’t exist… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Toxic response. Not all men are one thing & neither are women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why couldn't I have a healthy life and marriage?👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Why couldn't I have a healthy life and marriage?Helps to find a male therapist. Mark Hutton, MA on YouTube is an example of a good therapist that’s a men’s and neurodivergent advocate. Wife has to be willing to see this kind of therapist though… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Am I in a toxic marriage?Living alone is awesome! I lived alone for about.. 8 years in my late 20s to mid 30s. I literally don’t think there’s a better way to learn yourself on a deep level. You have your own little bubble where you can be and do whatever you want. Decorate how you want. Dress or don’t wear clothes however you want. Have whatever house rules or cleaning schedule you want. It can be a wonderful way to heal as a person. It can be a wonderful way to learn your needs vs. wants. It can a wonderful way to lea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I in a toxic marriage?lol. But no for real I’m married and I’m not like that. If she has hit you ever, that’s abuse. Being a woman is not an excuse for violence. It sounds like she might have a personality disorder or is just old fashioned manipulative. You’re going to leave eventually. If you’re posting here, you’re just getting the courage to do it and figuring out when & how. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 04:34 PM |
| -15 | I used to be nice… I feel it fading.Being “nice” is meeting a bare minimum. Bare minimum isn’t going to get you a girlfriend or wife. When women complain that there aren’t nice guys out there, they mean that a lot of men have low emotional intelligence and can’t meet a bare minimum expectation of kindness and empathy. Being a nice guy doesn’t win you extra points if you’re still a loser with nothing else to offer. Being a nice guy doesn’t win you extra points if your general or intellectual intelligence is still lacking. Being “ni… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Wife won't co-operate with divorce.She likely won't ever agree to a divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 14 | Wife won't co-operate with divorce.I'm a woman, so I know I'm not the ideal person you were asking to respond. Based solely on your post, this sounds like someone who has an intense focus on draining as much out of you as possible - your time, your money, your sanity, everything. Some people gain immense psychological pleasure from using people in this way. Some people literally don't know how to survive any other way. This could either be due to upbringing or psychological makeup or both. They don't know how to achieve independe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 3 | (29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance..You're still pretty young. You have time to find someone else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | (29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance..Girl Here - Get a new girl. There are plenty out there. Travel. Experience a no drama life. Buy or save whatever you want. Don't fight for someone who isn't fighting to make you happy too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Women who appreciate you.Finding appreciation is not about finding impoverished women to connive into a imbalanced, manipulative relationship. There are kind, appreciative women everywhere if you know how to find them and treat them with respect and kindness. Your mindset is LITERALLY why there are so many charity organizations focused on getting women educated and out of poverty so that they can empower and economically care for themselves. No one should be "appreciative" of your bullshit. Incel mindset in this group i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/21 05:42 AM |
| -5 | A meme I wish I had seen in my early twenties.*This page just becoming an incel hub. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Trying to deal, but I can’tShe “doesn’t feel like she can bring her whole self to the marriage” anymore. This comes at a time when I have overcome a lot of huge personal demons including a long unemployment stint, a huge feud with my dad, and a year plus long battle with depression. She has spent most of the last month away visiting friends, leaving me alone. At a time when we should be fighting for our marriage, she has abandoned me. Maybe she feels like when you were fighting through that first stuff you abandoned her. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/21 04:54 AM |
| -7 | For most men here this is old news..but Marriage is A RacketShe was a billionaire before. They're marriage made her a billionaire. She also worked for Microsoft before they were married, and the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation was a joint effort. She raised three kids with him. She earned her half. They were married 27 years. It's not like she came into his life two years ago or something. She's not a gold digger. She knew him in college. He married his equal. They just grew apart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Bill and Melinda Gates divorce after 27 years of marriageThey're rich enough they can pay people to take care of them. They both have friends for companionship. They don't need to stick it out. They're both wealthy enough to die in peace by themselves. I do expect Bill will date again. He may already have someone on the side. I think Melinda is entirely uninterested in caring for Bill in his old age. She seems entirely uninterested in sticking it out. She'll ride off into the sunset enjoying a peaceful end to her life with friends. She knows he has en… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/21 02:19 AM |
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