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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
80	Just saw a post about a young lady wanting to change her negative mentality on men. I believe since it's men who cause this they are the ones who should change it. I did not go out of my way to see them as predators, they did it to themselves. They can undo it. I totally agree! Trying to alter our perceptions of the reality of men only allows their terrible behavior towards women to continue. It’s called rug sweeping. It allows an abuser to continue abusing so we can “keep the peace”. No thanks! I have no intention of taking the blame for men’s failures. If they want women, as a whole, to think better of men, as a whole, then they can put in the effort and work themselves. They can start by holding themselves and each other accountable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 08:16 AM
138	"Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo M I always hated my ex watching porn. I was called a prude, an ice-Queen and various other names like I was the problem rather than his perversion. That’s just one of many reasons why he’s my ex, but I’ll never tolerate it again from any partner. It’s a huge red flag. I’d rather be alone than a stand in for a porn star.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 05:53 AM
2	How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub! So true! Not interested at all!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 04:14 AM
1	Every time I see a disgusting male habit on r/relationships or r/datingadvice and the woman says: “What should I do? Except leave him? 😅🤡” Please continue enjoying your manbaby I guess. I saw a post today where a woman was asking what to do about her boyfriend spitting in their food when he cooked because he liked the consistency! He used spit instead of adding more water if the consistency isn’t right. Apparently he does this whenever he cooks but OP said he didn’t cook a lot. Ummm... how is once not once too many for any woman?! Ladies demand better or walk away from these slobs!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 06:53 AM
2	Cry me a river In other words “be my mommy and love me no matter what I do because you should suffer for my insecurities so I don’t have to”. Pathetic! It’s so infuriating to see men blame women for their failures or expect us to overlook them because life is so hard for them! Bitch, it’s hard for us all! Be a fucking adult and handle your shit instead of asking us to overlook your failures because you’re too weak to fix yourself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/20 04:51 PM
2	anddd... blocked!!! Ew! Just gross!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/20 06:39 AM
10	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜 First Valentines Day alone in 22 years. Wasn’t much different. I don’t have a single standout memory of a special Valentines Day. I’m sure there were some where he brought me chocolates and or flowers but nothing I can recall clearly. If anything this V Day was better since I wasn’t feeling neglected. I worked in the morning, hit the grocery store and came home. I made myself a delicious dinner, watched the news then binge watched some TV and got drunk. It was great. I believe this Valentine’s D…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 10:30 PM

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