EllaBoDeep Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing? It’s not harming me at all! Demanding the bare basic respect I deserve is tremendously beneficial. You should try it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 11:28 AM
6	At what point does sexualization become objectifying and dehumanizing? Your definition of choosing love is accepting being groped at inappropriate times and choosing not to be mad? I’ll pass. If anyone regardless of their relationship with me grabs my boob mid sentence of a serious conversation the relationship ends that moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 04:33 PM
7	Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused? That is exactly how the conversation would go and people regularly ignore how common those beliefs are. I was 11. My parents, the police, a peer, and every single adult in my life told me I shouldn’t have “allowed” that adult to touch me. Excuse me? What exactly was my 11 year old 90 pound self to do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 04:17 PM
5	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women I can’t recall the name right now but there is a documentary about sexual violence on college campuses that digs into this phenomenon. It basically shows that predators on campus are a small percentage of all men but a very high percentage of women are affected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 12:35 AM
7	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Something that always gets left out of these conversations is that the amount of men who are violent/won’t take a NO is not proportional to the frequency which women encounter those behaviors. Abrasive and violent men get rejected a lot and, therefore, cast a wide net with women. This is why so many women are cautious around all men. We’ve experienced these behaviors multiple times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 07:08 PM
5	Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally? I can say from experience that a lot of this is from how we were raised. My family pushed hard for gendered roles up to and including punishment causing me to leave home at 17. My husband’s mother taught him to load a dishwasher and mow the lawn and had him convinced that was all household chores because she would do all the rest while he was asleep. He had to learn how to take care of himself as an adult. My mother in law still pushes this garbage and we’ve had several blow out fights because o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 02:23 PM
0	90 percent of open relationships are destined to fail. I’m a former swinger now polyamorous. Polyamory is becoming more common as it’s been getting more media attention. There a quite a few swingers who simply never explored it because they simply never realized it was an option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 09:31 PM
33	Men are frequently referred to as entitled yet no one talks about the way women behave when they don’t get what they want or how often the ugly friend cock blocks when there is a genuine interest between you and a girl Bingo. If this is happening a lot it’s because she’s afraid to reject the man. He’s coming off as aggressive and she’s looking for a safe escape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:16 PM
1	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? Every artist is different. Mine won’t do names of romantic partners but children he will. I’m not sure about memorials but I imagine he would be ok with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 12:44 PM
7	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? My tattoo artist has a USA with flags on both sides. It used to say Susan. He was young and dumb before he became a tattoo artist and won’t tattoo names because of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 01:17 AM
4	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them You read that backwards. They are unsuccessful because they are using abusive tactics and most women will run from that. Because of that, they try with many women in the hopes that a few will be afraid enough to just cave. It’s a major reason why so many women have stories of badly behaved men when most men aren’t like that. The same man can scare dozens of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 08:26 PM
12	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them It likely isn’t anything about you personally. Men like that have an understandably low success rate with women. So, they throw the abusive behaviors at a larger amount of women knowing that a few will accept those behaviors	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:52 PM
2	The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. I can’t recall the term for it but this is due to the fact that psychologically we are much more likely to remember things that are unusual. The boisterous social butterfly with a plunging neckline is remembered but the dozens of average people seen everyday are not. This leads to people vastly overestimating the prevalence of lots of uncommon traits. The internet has made this easier as well because you can easily find online communities where people with similar interests gather. It’s easy to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 08:11 PM
12	Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility? That’s what women in my age range have been told for years. “Don’t have kids if you can’t afford to give them a good life” Then, when these women take that advice, suddenly, everyone’s concerned why they aren’t having kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 04:48 PM
1	If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women? Any place where socializing is expected. The bar, any social gathering, concerts, etc. If I’m doing something necessary or something that takes my focus then read the room and don’t bother me. It’s really less about the location and more about having the social skills to read body language and situations. I’ve been hit on lots of times walking the main road in my city. Sometimes it’s no issue and others have been annoying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 02:23 AM
12	Do conservatives have lower rates of sexual misconduct? I was raised in a conservative family and sexuality abused by said family. I can only speak for myself but I didn’t report because 1) the consequences would have been severe and 2) I was raised from a very young age to believe that we don’t talk about those things outside the family and 3) I was a slut and horrible person for “letting it happen” even though I was 8 and younger. Using reporting as a baseline is flawed from the getgo because so few ever report.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 09:16 PM
9	Why men should prioritize their sexual needs I am polyamorus and you hit the nail on the head. Men who want equal polyamory are rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 07:27 PM