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As women we are programmed to give people the benefit of the doubt, especially men, because it is the “nice” thing to do. When you finally realize that you don’t always have to be nice, because a lot of times they sure as hell aren’t, then all the things change. For the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 05:01 PM
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It’s day after the first date. I’ll hold on to hope. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:09 PM
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Oh I have those at least 😂 Even a few nice hoodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 02:56 PM
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BTDT 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 02:56 PM
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BTDT 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:59 PM
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I’m just now getting back into dating. But if I know what kind of phone you have on the first date, you’re not going to get a second one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:42 PM
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This is why they ghost. They hope maybe they can creep back in some time. Nah man, that’s why it’s called ghosting. You’re dead to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:40 PM
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Yes. I work in this field. The dental staff can tell. And yes, it can bruise your palate, but is very rarely a serious injury. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:36 PM
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Excellent point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:22 AM
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There isn’t a recipe for everything? Well damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:57 AM
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I am slowly increasing response time, and replying with shorter messages. He texts paragraphs at a time. I am admittedly new to this, (divorced for a little over 2 years, with a one year relationship after) and I really appreciate this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:55 AM
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I have 6 matches right now I’m taking to. That’s because enough for me. Plus real life. And that’s very true. I approached it as a “professional” thing too, and it’s not meant to be. He wasn’t behaving “professionally” at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 03:40 PM
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Right? He’s the VP of finance at a huge company. I knew he would at least be “professional” enough to reply. But why he’s couldn’t have just said this in the first place.. who knows. And online dating is on pause for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 12:39 PM
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Yep. I knew he would, but I wasn’t sure how quickly. I got this about 15 minutes later. “Hi (redacted). Thanks for your note... I’ve been crazy busy but also thinking the same thing. Good luck to you too!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 10:49 AM
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I get it. I’m sorry you’re going through that. The “not knowing” sucks. I’m finding it gets better and easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:05 AM
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And done... “Hey... I just wanted to clear the air. I’m pretty sure you feel the same way, but I’d rather it actually be said rather than implied. Let’s go ahead and cancel Saturday night. I don’t want to waste your time and vice versa. You seem like a really great guy and I hope you find what you’re looking for.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 02:03 AM
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True. We all have dealbreakers. This is one of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:43 PM
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I don’t drink. I don’t see the issue. He didn’t either when we agreed upon the date initially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:33 PM
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I had an invite to go to a party on Saturday night, so unless he magically becomes a different person before then (sarcasm), then I’ll plan to go to the party. Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:40 PM
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