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| 20 | Don't send nudes. EVER.In the late 2000’s when the list by Craig still had the personals, exactly one time I sent a pic of my boobs to a random unknown guy. Never met, knew his name, nothing. A few years later I was amusing myself looking at ads and lo and behold, there were my boobs. Random dude was using my boobs to solicit pics of other women’s boobs. Thank god no one else in the world except my ex husband knew what they look like so there was zero chance of them being used against me, but it was an eye opener. NEV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | A reminderMy son was telling just a couple of hours ago about the girls at his alt hs. 15 and three kids, a 17 yo who has a 40yo bf, and several others who give it away freely. It made me sad for these girls. After not being taught the difference by my parents I went nuts after hs and gave it away to anyone who showed interest. I always thought after that they were now my bf and how they loved me. Nope, not a single one. I want to talk to younger me and the girls at that school and tell them sex is just t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:21 PM |
| 12 | A reminderI’m very grateful to myself for waking up and realizing that sex does NOT equal interest in me as a person and especially not love. I can get laid every day of the week by a different guy if I chose to, but f that. I’ve been alone and celibate for 14 years. I can hold out forever waiting for a decent guy who is interested in me, not just getting their dick wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 106 | Is there anything more suddenly feeble than a man being held accountable?I find a little bit of joy that Harvey is getting more and more charges dumped on him. I believe the women (always have with no doubts), and the same with the Cosby accusers. Never had a doubt in my mind that what they said was 100% true. They ruined lives and deserve to serve every last day they get behind bars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!Omg they totally do! 😂😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:47 AM |
| 9 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!I like fishing, so that doesn’t put me off. It’s the pissed off look in the rest of the picture that does. And the up nose ones. And calling me hun or any other pet name that kills it for me. They can’t seem to help but shoot themselves in the foot (no pun intended LOL). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:50 PM |
| 73 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!I also love it when they aren’t smiling-at all. They look pissed off in every picture, ‘cause that’s attractive 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:26 AM |
| 35 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!Omg yes! Literally all the blue collar guys in Wisconsin that I see do that! I’m dying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 19 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!Yes, several bathroom selfies but also the gym pics! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:17 AM |
| 40 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!It’s the same in Wisconsin-hunting gear and fish or deer. I keep seeing this one guy who also has either a rifle or shotgun, with the tight white tshirt over the beer belly, standing in his driveway. It’s just weird! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 28 | Going 50/50 🤡My ex never grasped that concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:15 AM |
| 7 | For whatever reason the older I get the more I come to rely on quotes to draw strength when filled with self doubt. I particularly love F. Scott Fitzgerald. Tomorrow I tell my BF of 10 years It’s over and a week later I’ll be in my own place. Been feeling really anxious but then found this gem!!I rely on quotes too. I print them and put them on my bedroom wall so I see them and read them daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Preach.For me this applies to the people at work. They are nasty, vicious mean girls. I had to learn to not let them bother me. And in a relationship should I ever be in one again, hell no. Not gonna happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 01:08 PM |
| 3 | This type of energyIt took a while longer to be able to value and give a crap about myself because I was still being abused by my mother’s husband, but since going no contact two years ago with them. life has gotten pretty good. I can see clearly what a true dumb ass my ex was/is and how shitty he treated me. Never. Again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 8 | This type of energyThank you, like was terrible the first few years getting my bearings, but I’m over it now. I still call him dumb ass to my parents because it amuses me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 312 | This type of energyI wish I had said no, i wish my parents had told me what a piece of shit he was and that they could see how shitty he treated me. Sigh. But hey, the divorce was good. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020Thank you. I’m learning to take to heart the words of wisdom, things I knew but others verbalize which makes me remember it more and more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 6 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020Ahh, I like that. Thank you. I reddit on my cell and can’t see everything that the sidebar contains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 6 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020Lvm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 12:41 PM |
| 14 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020The twisted sister lyric “no, we ain’t gonna take it. We’re not gonna take it, anymore” comes to mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 12:38 PM |
| 13 | Don’t you dare be tempted to “fix” a bum!!I dropped that rope 3+ months ago. Don’t miss him a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Well god damn.Good old you tube, why pay for anything? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Well god damn.Please do tell. I don’t have cable so I don’t get to see this show. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:33 PM |
| 24 | Women according to LVMI seem to be a tease And a feminist, who knew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 83 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.I love that expression, ugly manbaby community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 01:04 PM |
| 6 | On top of not walking alone at night, parking in between vans, dressing a specific way, rejecting men, let's also add being a passenger in Uber on the list of things that will get women raped. 🤦🏾♀️He asked if I needed help yes. I lived on a dark alley, no one the see or hear anything if I screamed or if he forced his way in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 10:09 AM |
| 22 | On top of not walking alone at night, parking in between vans, dressing a specific way, rejecting men, let's also add being a passenger in Uber on the list of things that will get women raped. 🤦🏾♀️A few years back I went out to eat alone, which took tremendous courage to do. I took an Uber there which was fine. The one on the way home cancelled the trip but still picked me up. I thought cool, free ride all of the two blocks (across a major road, hence the Uber). We get to my door, it’s dark because the post lamp was for shit, it took me a few attempts to get my key in the lock. The guy started to get out of his car, thank god I got the key in right then and yelled got it and went in and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenMe too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 01:15 PM |
| 15 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenI’m printing this out and hanging it on my bedroom wall. These are all things I know but I need to commit them to memory so I can remember them in the moment. Thank you for posting this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 01:15 PM |
| 3 | FactsThe last guy I was with was 9 years younger, and it was the best I’ve ever had. He was smoking hot in my eyes and worked out like a fiend, it was the kind of experience I hope to repeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 11:52 PM |
| 13 | FactsThat’s my goal, a decent guy I like looking at. When I see a guy, if I can’t picture being naked with him, then it’s a no. He could be the nicest guy in the world, but if I can’t picture it, it’s a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:48 PM |
| 7 | FactsYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:46 PM |
| 6 | FactsSo, so true. I have aged pretty well but the men I see, well, they haven’t. I’m about ready for another break from online dating for a very long time. The thing is, I date younger (less than 10 years younger, I’m 47). The younger men are seemingly all scammers and the ones my age look soooo old. And the older men, boy they sure have a thing for me. I can’t date older because my mother had me at 16, so older creeps me out. It’s entirely psychological, but I haven’t gotten past it yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:45 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: Delete, block, move on.Thank you for the reminder. I have cut off my entire family in both sides and the guy I was supposed to be friends with for 10+ years. Him I want to email but I know damn well he won’t respond. I remind myself of this daily but it’s nice to see it in writing in my face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Felt like this belongs here!My ex husband does this shit hard core, trying to solve my problems. My secret nickname for him is still dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 01:25 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, this is exactly how you respond to nudes 👌🏼🔥I like that, I’ll have to remember that one. Now I need a follow up when they message me, I don’t respond at all, then they get pissed and angry “what, you don’t want to talk to me. Stuck up bitch”. Anybody got something for that or is just plain ignoring best for that? It’s what I normally do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 11:51 PM |
| 3 | A way to combat fuck boys sliding in your DMsThat is an awesome idea! I will use it the next time I get a dick pic just to see the reaction! Thank you so much for posting this, it has brightened what was an otherwise craptastic day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcYes, this. So much this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | A man who loves you will do anything to make you happyI’m horrible? How? By recognizing that I deserve better than to be treated like a shitty afterthought? By recognizing that is someone wants to be with me they will put the effort in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 12:02 AM |
| 5 | A man who loves you will do anything to make you happyAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 11:55 AM |
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