Ellista Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How much of our own toxicity should we embrace? You sound like you're an actual narc. I suggest therapy and avoiding getting close to people if your intention is to hurt them, for their sake	/r/seduction	21/06/22 11:48 PM
1	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... In what delusional world is this ideology not also transactional? You expect her to put in effort for a second date, which she must be the one to contact you, and it has to result in sex otherwise the relation is terminated. That’s a transaction, m8. You’re trading dates for sex. Furthermore, if she’s going on a second date with you, she’s attracted to you. Not fucking you doesn’t mean she’s not physically interested in you. It means her standards are different than yours. You could easily avoid…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 07:22 PM
6	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... He said if there’s no sex, there are no further dates. Her value lies in whether she fucks him or not. Just because he doesn’t explicitly state “I only value her for sex,” doesn’t mean it’s not implied. This man is dumping and uninterested in girls if they don’t have sex with him. Therefore, we can conclude her value is nothing more than sex.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 07:08 PM
-15	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... This is where men are flawed. They keep thinking about relationships as some sort of “strategic game.” Women don’t think like that. I don’t think like that. I don’t plot out how I’m going to obtain and control my bf with tips and tricks. I tell him my goals and what I want. Nor is it a secret that I dress cute for him and do shit that makes him happy, because his happiness makes me happy. I choose to wait to have sex until commitment and trust are achieved. It’s not easy to leave a marriage, and…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 06:30 PM
-6	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... Manipulates and projection-deflects. The classic combo. Keep twistin’ dat psychology, Psychological_Radish. It’s not working on me.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 06:08 PM
-2	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... Actually, this is just another form of manipulation. As there isn’t just one type. You’re basing her value on whether she puts out or not and doing exactly what women are trying to avoid: being discarded/used based on sex rather than who they are as a whole, and you’re dishonestly repackaging it as if you’re not disregarding her beliefs, feelings, and basically anything that makes her more than a vessel for your dick, rather than a human. Then you further proceed to gaslight, by redirecting blam…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 05:58 PM
-11	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... Spoken like an experienced manipulator.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 05:08 PM
-12	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... The girl was probably being tongue in cheek to avoid a negative response and keep the convo light-hearted on a topic that probably has men discarding her consistently. Little did she know, you’d be upset by semantics because you think sex should be automatically owed to you otherwise. NO ONE should be handing out their emotions and bodies like they’re candy. That’s how you get used and discarded. Respect, love, trust, and sex are and should be earned, and you shouldn’t be freely handing yourself…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 05:05 PM
-1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? I would have if there was anything of valid substance to respond to. All I read was "I'm an unwell incel." Boys, they're easy to obtain, but I don't want one. Don't have cats; two doggies. Animals > Humans	/r/seduction	15/06/22 11:57 PM
-2	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Get well soon.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 10:36 PM
19	Are we as men working too hard to get women? This perspective of degrading women to a “hole” is probably why the vast majority of single men are single. We sense that shit out and then we discard it like the trash it is. If women spoke this way about men, men would be yapping up a storm about men-haters and then make a YT vid crying about it because they’re slaves to pussy and have no redeeming personality traits. It’s funny how men had to create a group to announce their departure from traditional relationships like idiots who announce th…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 09:34 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? We can tell when you’re trying too hard, which comes across as disingenuous and like every other dude trying to get a hit. Even if you are serious and respectful, we’ve had the experiences and displeasure of giving try-hards a chance. Both of my brothers weren’t particularly attractive, but they both secured wives by being genuine friends first and foremost. Not a prize to be won, fucked, and displayed to his buddies. All of my serious bfs have been my friends I knew for no less than a few month…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 09:14 PM
1	I got a girl by ignoring her Women who chase men who ignore them likely have a mental illness like BPD. Speaking from experience. I learned in adolescence by my family that love is being neglected, and to strive to be loved by people who are hard to obtain it from. I’m aware of this fact, but rewiring my 33-year-old brain is extremely difficult. Having promiscuous, compulsive sex is also a symptom of Borderline Personality Disorder. If you don’t intend to be kind, serious, and honest with her, then let her go now before you…	/r/seduction	13/06/22 07:10 PM
10	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? Perhaps you're the outlier, but most men brag about their conquests among their buddies because it's a form of status and achievement among bros. I consider men to be more valuable when they place value onto themselves and don't fuck everything that walks. Sex does not determine value, obtaining sex does not determine value. How you treat others and goals of integrity/morality are what gives one value.	/r/seduction	30/04/22 05:15 PM
50	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble? It's purely egotism and a badge of status among men. Which is ironic because men prioritize appeasing other men's perception of them, rather than the woman they're in the relationship with. AKA, the person who matters more. It can extend to other things such as mental health disorders, and just being horny af, but I don't think that is the case for most men, considering how unsatisfying rando sex is for most people.	/r/seduction	30/04/22 04:56 PM
1	Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all ! I'm seeing an issue here. You are asking women in situations/locations that are not meant for romantic social priority with a stranger. That is a huge turnoff to most women, because we don't go to the library, super market, or a coffee shop with the sole intention of creating a longterm romantic relationship. We go to study/read, buy groceries, and eat/drink/read, respectively. To us, or at least to ME, these things are very obvious, that I would wonder why it's not obvious to you. Thus, I may b…	/r/seduction	14/04/22 08:53 PM
4	Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all ! If you’re ugly, have bad social skills, and approach during/at inappropriate time and place, then absolutely. Being physically ugly can hinder you if you’re extremely ugly, but even most ugly people can land a date if they have charisma. Success rate is even higher if you date within your attractiveness-level and approach women in social settings instead of places that aren’t, and especially make friends first and foremost. I think that’s how most relationships start: as friendships.	/r/seduction	14/04/22 06:14 PM
1	Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all ! Where did you typically try to approach women? Would you say you were the same level of attractiveness?	/r/seduction	14/04/22 06:07 PM
1	Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all ! What happened in your worst rejection?	/r/seduction	14/04/22 05:06 PM
1	How do I look? You don’t need to change your glasses. Lots of guys like the sexy librarian look. But I wouldn’t make any changes for a man. Do them for you. Men will like you as you are and when you love yourself, bb girl.	/r/seduction	13/04/22 01:44 PM
1	How do I look? I don’t think you look boring or insecure. That smile looks genuine. And you look comfortable to me, which has its own appeal of confidence. Boring and insecure people tend to shy away from the camera, don’t smile as brightly, and look like they’re suffering. I don’t see any of that. I also think you are pretty. I think the top commenter is just projecting all harsh negativity because he’s not sexually attracted to you. Which is okay. Beauty is subjective. As a person obsessed with health and nu…	/r/seduction	13/04/22 01:38 PM
1	Sex Ruining "Friendships" Hard to know with very little context. My guess is is that they liked you so much that your denial gave them the intel that it's never going to happen between you two. In order to move on and heal quicker, separation expedites this process. /shrug	/r/seduction	05/02/22 06:15 PM
1	Sex Ruining "Friendships" Women don’t typically plan the long game of making friendships just to fuck. That’s a guy thing. I think what happened is, they got to know you and began to like you. Thus, when they were ready, wanted the d.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:59 PM
3	What's your opener for girls at the gym? I don’t recommend hitting on girls at the gym. It is not the time and place for most women. The gym is not a social hotspot, it’s meant to get fit and sweaty. Try a social event/location like a bar, party, club, or any other type of gathering where the priority is socialization. If the priority is not socialization, then you significantly decrease your odds of success.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:54 PM
1	How do I start a conversation with a girl online? This is very creepy and likely to scare her. Do not message a girl by obtaining her info indirectly. Also, smiling doesn’t mean she’s romantically interested. I’m sure you’re a good guy, but this is not the play. You automatically have permission to access her if she is the one willingly giving you her info.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:50 PM
1	Hey guys need help You said she wants to remain your best friend. Sorry, bud, that’s a no. I think you should remain friends and find someone else to be romantically involved with. Unless you can’t get over her, then sadly, you may need to part.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:46 PM
1	Need some perspective It’s possible.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:43 PM
5	How should you ask her if she has a boyfriend? That’s smooth. I’m already willing to give it regardless if I do or not. jk	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:39 PM
-2	I hate the fact that if you're even off your game for one second, its enough to completely kill a girl's attraction to you That happens with guys too. Ive gotten carried away myself. You gotta act like you’re not too interested, because otherwise you look desperate, and honestly, these games are dumb. There’s a woman who won’t care to play them. GL finding her.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 02:35 PM
1	I revealed to my wife I was molested, and she’s no longer attracted to me. There’s a lot of toxic masculinity in this post. Instead of seeking help from toxic people, get real help from a professional therapist. You’re going to completely destroy yourself and your marriage, otherwise. You need real help that is actually helpful.	/r/askMRP	11/01/21 10:26 AM
5	[Mod] Posting Rules Correction, attractive women don't have trouble getting sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/13 07:11 AM
2	What's the point if women are going to hit the wall anyway? The thing is though, sexual desire decreases as we age. How do you force a woman to have sex who doesn't want to have sex? We all think we know how we'll be in the future, but we really don't. We might say we'll still be sex addicts in our 50s, but you can't know that for sure. I'm sure most women who love their husbands want to fuck the shit out of him in her 50s, but the truth is, many women just completely and utterly lack that desire as they age. This is why I feel marriage should be and is …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/13 06:53 AM
1	What's the point if women are going to hit the wall anyway? True. I do think good men are extremely rare.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/13 06:42 AM
3	Girl game: How to get your man to be a better man I'm sure most people, if not all people, who say that are joking. Ninety-nine percent of the population doesn't want to get fat. It gradually happens over time, unwillingly.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/13 02:40 AM
6	Welcome to Red Pill women What did you mean by "Men, being the less discriminating gender?" Are you actually saying men are less discriminating than women or am I reading this wrong?	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/13 01:27 AM