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| 2 | Do you think most of the problems in the SMP come from people trying to punch above what their SMV can handle?Like you had to meet your friends for the first time somehow Being stuck in the same place for eight hours a day. School, then work. Now your best bet is some kind of persistent social gathering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do we automatically assume lying or truth in cases of sexual assualt?The burden of proof is generally on the accuser. The person accusing someone else of sexual assault, or the person accusing someone else of false testimony? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 10:48 AM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Well that'll teach me to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | So what sex acts will you never do again? And why?Her judgement was fine, you were supplying weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Bunch of women describing red pill teachings without realizing when asked how they feel about casual sex (Taken from TRP)They don't realize men do exactly the same. If I'm hunting deer, I don't care how salmon behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 04:54 PM |
| 8 | CMV: I don't understand how anyone can take relationship advice from /r/TheRedPill seriouslyIn every kind of relationship. If you have enough money to tell your boss to go fuck himself, all of a sudden work is way less stressful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/18 04:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.Odds are if you're this guy right now you're dating neither, but we're ignoring that for the sake of the thought experiment. The assumption is that both are guaranteed to happen, you just have to pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Would it be possible to have a gay-only male society?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.One could equally argue that by artificially restraining yourself you are likewise distorting the supply/demand curve. A rational self-interested person is not going to base their dating habits on what is a statistical rounding error. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Would it be possible to have a gay-only male society?You really need to learn not to conflate not giving a shit with conceding that you are correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:42 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.First off, it's hardly foolproof, I know of 3 abusive guys in real life. All of them go from partner to partner and have never had problems getting women. Because they are good at talking to women, and because they have a history of being desired by women, not because they are abusive. Women who knowingly date guys who have been abusive to other women are stupid, sure, but the reason why they do it is not because they think he's going to be abusive to them too. Abusive men tend to be highly char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.Women fear it because they are people, and people fear things which are painful, and rejection is painful. Everyone fears rejection as soon as they learn that it hurts. The people who are successful are the ones who got rejected until it stopped hurting. The reason that women don't typoically approach is mostly not because they fear rejection (though it is a factor), they don't approach because they don't generally need to. Men approach them often enough that they could drown in dick juice. Also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Would it be possible to have a gay-only male society?I'm out, learn to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.What I define quality by is irrelevant; for the purposes of this discussion it's whatever makes a woman a more desirable prospect. The reason that this is irrelevant is because the things that I find attractive in a woman (beyond a few very broad things like general cleanliness and wanting to have sex) are probably unrelated to the things which make a woman attractive to you. If you were to implement the above, you would lower your standards until you were successful with women who you still wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 12:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.It depends on the woman. As we move toward the platonic ideal of whatever you want to stick your dick inside, she becomes more high quality. As we move further away from that ideal, she becomes less high quality. Presumably you won't try to date women who you are neutral or negative on, but "yes I would hit that" is not binary; there are levels to this shit. You'd presumably fuck Gianna Michaels, and you'd presumably fuck the cute girl that you see at the library, but you'd value the experience … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Am I a good long-term material if I am financially successful but didn't finish college?Is it even possible to improve social skills as an adult? Yes. There are literally classes that you can take, and if you're making as much money as you say you are they wouldn't be a terrible idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 11:47 AM |
| 43 | CMV: Men should focus on good looks first, then maybe personality.Pre-selection is a thing. Much like how it's easier by far to get a job if you already have one, it's easier to get with one woman if she can see that you have already been approved of sufficiently well by other women. It's one of the ways that she can see that you are unlikely to physically harm or kill her, which (despite what you may believe) is one of the primary criteria by which women select mates. So you're best off not waiting until some arbitrary point to start pursuing women; the longe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Would it be possible to have a gay-only male society?And where would they have gotten that idea, I wonder? Shit, IDK, maybe I literally answered that question in the post you responded to? Women think that men only want sex because their only interaction with men is about sex. Holy moly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Well?You do understand that a value judgement cannot be objectively wrong, right? Words have actual meanings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Well?what point are you making? That you keep conflating insurance with the thing that it is insuring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Well?They really are. Sorry for your loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What are your dealbreakers? Please include your gender as part of your answer.Huh, interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Would it be possible to have a gay-only male society?There is no contradiction. Women think that men only want sex because their only interaction with men is about sex. This says nothing about what men are actually focused on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Well?I could just as easily say “So live a less shitty lifestyle.” to repulsive self-hating fat people, but this site decided that was wrongthink. You could, but that would be avoiding the point, which is that everyone has a body. Nobody is required to have a car to maintain the ability to be a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Well?For people in most parts of the country, owning a car is not optional if you want to work and provide for your family. So live somewhere less shitty. You cannot be without a body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What are your dealbreakers? Please include your gender as part of your answer.HIGH LIBIDO/NON-VANILLA: I have a low libido and don't have any sort of kinks. After the initial honeymoon phase I have no interest in having sex more than once a week. I don't want to get pissed on, "dominated", choked, call you daddy or any other weird shit. So how are you for physical affection outside of sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Well?i didnt have my health insurance card ... Again, health insurance is not health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Well?Completely untrue. You aren't legally required to get auto insurance if you don't own a car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Well?Why does that have any bearing on whether that discrimination is morally acceptable or not? Because you can choose not to have a car. You cannot choose not to have a body (without dying). By your logic, discrimination is ok as long as it doesn't affect your health or safety. For example, a company could decide to pass up women for promotions in favour of less qualified male candidates. Yep. I'm all about private discrimination. Government? No, government needs to treat everyone equally. This dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Well?Having a car and having auto insurance are not the same thing either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?Stop thinking there is a magic answer that will help you because no matter what the advice or assumptions or even research that shows a plurality of success... it won't work for all women. Of course it won't. Not all women are going to find you attractive. All women are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Well?You're using an arbitrarily determined condition to justify discrimination in some cases but condemn it in others? ...being alive is an arbitrarily determined condition? Oh, also, while driving is not strictly necessary, neither is health insurance. The comparison is not health insurance to driving, the comparison is having a body to having a car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Wall Street Rule for the #MeToo Era: Avoid Women at All Cost - BloombergIn any other scenario I'd gladly soak up any attention I get from a woman like her, but frankly it's left me uncomfortable and paranoid in those meetings. Just record it all with your phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Well?Not having health means you are dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Well?Not having a car doesn't necessarily result in you dying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 03:31 AM |
| -10 | Why can men be charged more for car insurance, but women aren't charged more for health insurance?Cars aren't necessary to live. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/18 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Do guys ever care about women beyond the sex they provide for the men?I went outside once. It was awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 03:26 PM |
| 5 | The redpill should teach men to be more aggressive rather than "self-improvement".If that's confidence then most people on this planet aren't confident. Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Or can you explain how on one hand, it is fair to put a woman in a position where she must either have an abortion or face financial abandonment from the father, but on the other hand it's unfair to ask that a father provides financial support to their child. Because one involves a person being able to make a choice, and the other does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Don’t you think you should guard yourself from men who will force you to have sex? Discriminate against the ones you don’t trust or who express a desire to be have sex or who say they wouldn’t stop...? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Yeah, and then you have abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Kids are the future. They deserve economic prosperity. Nah, fuck 'em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!The grandparents are the reason that the parents exist, therefore the baby is entitled to child support from the grandparents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!Agreed. Ban abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Consenting to sex is not consenting to being a father!As a taxpayer I don't consent to going to war with Iraq. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Do guys ever care about women beyond the sex they provide for the men?It's vanishingly uncommon, but it wouldn't shock me if it happened occasionally. Some people juggle geese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?And the law is based upon ... the limitations of biology. Nope. (And the widespread reluctance to support other people's kids.) This is what it's based on. Child support laws stem from long before abortion was remotely legal. Legal parenthood is only tied to things which are biological facts (DNA etc) because that's what the government has put in place. If the political will existed to make mothers solely responsible for the kids they choose to carry, it could pass tomorrow and biology would hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 12:32 PM |
| 15 | Q4RP: How are these following articles about toxic masculinity attacking and blaming men?In theory there is nothing wrong how toxic masculinity is conceived. In practice it involves ludicrous shit like men being willing to demand better pay being a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 09:16 AM |
| 23 | Q4RP: How are these following articles about toxic masculinity attacking and blaming men?https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Motte_and_bailey "Of course toxic masculinity isn't attacking men! Look at all of these things which we both agree are a symptom of the way that men are socially obligated to perform. Now that you've agreed that toxic masculinity is a perfectly useful concept, back to manspreading." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Do guys ever have girl bullies?They certainly seemed very serious about it, it didn't feel like they were being playful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Do guys ever have girl bullies?Back in grade school I had an incident where a couple of girls two years younger than I was threatened to beat me up. I was very confused, because they were physically much smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?All of the laws in the world can't change the fact that fetuses are carried inside women's bodies, not men's. And all the biology in the world can't make me support your child. The biology is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 05:28 AM |
| 2 | What's your opinion on ghosting?Yeah, while people do unkind things all the time without being fundamentally bad people, this chick has done an unkind thing because she fundamentally lacks empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on ghosting?It went fine, no arguing because we didn't need to talk about it and I was able to leave without feeling too sad about it. He stopped coming to school later though. Not having to see him def made school easier. lol what a cunt Ghosting is fine if you've told the other party that it's over, you don't need to maintain communication once you've communicated that the relationship is done. Just avoiding the discussion entirely is cowardly. Note: This does not apply to abusive relationships where one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What does this subreddit think about "spreadsheet guy"?Men that don’t give a shit about women aren’t improving their wardrobe and hitting the gym. Have you heard of the gays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | What's the reason behind this overemphasis on trangenderism?Yep, that's essentially my thought process. It's a lot easier for some people to justify wanting to be a man than it is to justify someone not wanting to be a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?I have a vasectomy, honey. My point is solely that you're being disingenuous as shit by claiming biology as your get out of jail free card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?Yeah, no shit. Biology, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What is Frame and how does one build it.Frame is about being the cause of things that are happening in your life rather than reacting to everything around you. Imagine two guys. One works a job that he doesn't care about, has a girlfriend who essentially runs the relationship, and just kind of goes with the flow. The second works a job that he gives direction to, has a girlfriend who is along for the ride, and makes what he wants to have happen happen. The first guy has weak frame. The second guy has strong frame. Notice that I have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?I wouldn't have to worry about compelling you -- other men would do so, because they don't want to pay for your bastards either. Now that you've acknowledged that child support is a legal construct, surely you'll acknowledge that there's nothing but political will in the way of men being able to opt out of a woman's pregnancy. Or you won't, because you're a woman and inherently illogical, yadda yadda yadda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.As one poster here pointed out all that matters legally are rights of the child. Which are a legal construct. Father does not have legal obligation to the mother. He has the legal obligation to the child. He has a legal obligation to the child which manifests as a legal obligation to the mother. Because it is the child (living breathing human being) that has rights. If it doesn't exist it has no rights. Yes, and? Why should women be unilaterally be able to eliminate their relationship with the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 08:36 AM |
| 6 | What's the reason behind this overemphasis on trangenderism?Trans women also represent a rejection of masculinity, at least in the mind of transphobes. It's like atheism or being childfree in that respect; you'll get hate from some religious people and parents just because your existence forces them to acknowledge that they are the result of choices rather than simply being the default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 08:12 AM |
| 0 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.No not really because in case of abortion there is no human being to be responsible for Yes, and? and they are both absolved. Against the will of the father, perhaps. The woman has a unilateral choice after pregnancy begins which eliminates the baby as a legal (and actual) reality for her. The man does not. Equivalent would be giving up baby for adoption. Giving a baby up for adoption requires both parties to agree. If the mother wants to give it up and the father does not, the father can gain f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.Equivalent doesn't mean exactly the same. They're equivalent in that they both eliminate a legal responsibility to another human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.Only insofar as it doesn't directly kill a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 07:26 AM |
| 0 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?So get the snip, wrap it up or be prepared to deal with the consequences of busting a nut in a fertile woman, eh? What consequences? You can't compel me to support you, you're too weak. (You being women in general, obviously). Just biology, honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?Whether or not your waist fits behind a sheet of A4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 12:33 PM |
| 0 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?Women have extra options because the baby is inside their body. Women have extra options because child support was legally instituted. It isn't biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 12:28 PM |
| 0 | What should be done about reproductive coercion against men?Your ability to avoid parenthood ends at ejaculation... Your ability to compel me to pay for your kid ends at making me want to do it. Just biology, honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.The male birth control pill is not equivalent to abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | U of Michigan profs claim to have found the optimal internet dating strategy.Of course they do. They get hundreds to thousands if they're attractive. Why put in the effort before they've demonstrated to you that they find you attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | U of Michigan profs claim to have found the optimal internet dating strategy.Consider the difference between a manufacturing company and a tech company. A manufacturing company's production is limited by the amount of factory it has built or acquired, the inputs from material, and every other physical thing that goes into making a product. A tech company presses a button and creates another copy of the software. You are getting mad at tech companies for not abiding by what you think success should look like. Let's say that Guy A can craft one new long interesting persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to relationships and sex, how much advice from women should I listen to and take in?Just like listening to Warren Buffet won't (by itself) make you successful in investing It will if you take the advice that he gives to anyone who doesn't have the time to do a lot of research: invest in indexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 10:15 AM |
| 7 | Do women care about height in dating?It's absolutely to avoid men flipping out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What are the (1) weirdest and (2) most damaging misconceptions that Red-Pillers have, in your opinion?You say this like you think that it doesn't validate the outlook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Red pill says fuck other girls while in ltr. What do you say?Fetishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Bayes theorem and datingTrump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 06:30 AM |
| 0 | Q4BP: What are the (1) weirdest and (2) most damaging misconceptions that Red-Pillers have, in your opinion?Fitness (except the type that get obese), femininity, style, sophistication, independence, charisma, sociability, etc, all tend to improve as women get older. Yeah, but her looks decline, so what do I care for the rest (absent a prior emotional connection)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP: What are the (1) weirdest and (2) most damaging misconceptions that Red-Pillers have, in your opinion?That it is a marketplace, that there are buyers and sellers, that some products are simply more attractive than others, and that part of the reason that some products are more attractive than others is that they are just better marketed. Absent some kind of understanding of sexual dynamics that includes these concepts, you are lost. You have no idea what you're doing, no plan to achieve what you're after in the world of relationships and you may as well just be flailing on your bedroom floor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/18 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Is war abroad important for gender relations at home? Does the end of war (since inventing nuclear weapons) have any great significance?This ain't it, Chief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Is war abroad important for gender relations at home? Does the end of war (since inventing nuclear weapons) have any great significance?Is pushing r r rrrrabits in a country an act of war? What about pushing more rrrrabits from outside, in, during "peace" time an act of war? He's just posting question marks because this doesn't make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/18 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Why Don't Men Value Success In Women?I don't particularly care how much money my partner makes because I don't have any desire to rely on its existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/18 12:01 PM |
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