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Yup. Probably shouldn't really be looking at those seriously.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 05:55 PM
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The Coolidge Effect happens in both sexes... sometimes more than others. I'll give you the same advice I give chicks... if your fundamental needs aren't being met in a relationship, you shouldn't be in it. Of course, you tell them that you have an issue and if the issue cannot be worked out in a satisfactory manner, then it can't go on, and be ready and willing to do just that. This is not dread game, it is allowing them the opportunity to fix the problem. Either it's fixed satisfactorily, or yo…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:52 PM
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Bro culture, I think, is the closest comparison in the US...
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:46 PM
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Go into martial arts... and I don't mean a McDojo. Find somewhere that works on the body and the mind of their students. And, yes, you probably do need therapy. You may be against it, but if you haven't tried it, personally, I'd suggest it. Also, go to the student mental health services at your college... most have them, and they will likely be better equipped to find you help. That said, if you're not liking college, dependent upon how you feel about your major, you may also try a trade, like c…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:36 PM
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Pokemon GO. Find and join your local Pokemon GO Discord channel, and go on raids. If you have any hobbies, art, reading, whatnot... look on Facebook for local groups that may include those. I know I'm part of a local Illustrators group that has meet ups every week. Another thing might be, if you're into art, something like a drink and draw night. If you live in, or near a bigger city, there might a Dr. Sketchy's Anti-Art School. It's basically a drink and draw. You can go to a bar with strangers…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:21 PM
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I fell into the whole red pill thing by accident and activity online... mostly in the form of arguments, and stuff. I tend to go on long YouTube benders where I just randomly go on a trail of videos that seem interesting. It was toward the end of one of these benders that I ended up coming across something involving MGTOW. Now, to be fair, I've been on the side of Men's Rights for a long time, and backed the Men's Rights Activism (to a degree that many feminists would probably balk at). When I c…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:06 PM
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Eh... that article simply proved what I already knew, having been a child, and having been around enough children in my life (including my own)... children are selfish/self-centered and only care about personal reward (in the girl's case, her appearance, in the boy's case, a pizza party).
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/18 02:07 PM
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That savagery is practically artistic. Respect.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/18 12:46 PM
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If you want something serious, a better question is, "are you willing to play a fatherly role to that little girl?" If you're not, move on. She needs to find someone who will actually be a a father for that little girl, who she can respect and love, and who will love and respect her back, otherwise you're just contributing to the potential future fuckery that little girl goes through, mentally.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/18 10:39 AM
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I get it, generalizations are king, here. -_-' All these generalizations really make me feel like I've been a deviant all my life, though... I mean, I already knew that, to some degree (more of a do-er than a be-er), but this sub REALLY makes that deviation stand out like a Yankee girl in a Southern cotillion. I guess that's a slightly ironic comparison for me to make. Though, I'd have to politely argue that I believe that acting on kindness, generosity, compassion and patience are all "doing" t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 10:16 AM
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That Loved by no one or Respected by no one dichotomy is ridiculously fallacious. There is no way you can be properly loved, in a romantic sense, without respect. I wasted a whole day trying to figure out why my brain had so many alarms going off over it and why I had such a hard time negotiating the differential (personally, I'm a "respect"-loving kinda gal). It wasn't until I put that together that I realized my issue was that it's a stupid comparison that takes a very important aspect of love…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 03:23 PM
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I'm kinda Pro-life... in the respect that I wouldn't, personally, do it, but I don't care if other women choose to? Before you chose that route, though, I would strongly think about it, rationally. Run through the scenario in your head, think about whether you'll have that regret or guilt that many women who actually desire children who end up having abortions end up going through. Do you want to do that to your body? Adoption? A possibility. There are a lot of childless parents out there who wo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 02:36 PM
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An upside of you having a kid, already? Your fertility is tried and true. So, if a man wants more kids, and they know you're open to having more, then that may be a good thing... along with the whole "No dad in the picture." That's something women who are already mothers have over virgins... you never know when one's fertility-defective until you break it open. /bad humor That said, I genuinely believe there's someone out there for everyone. So, yeah, to the right guy for you? I don't think havi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 02:14 PM
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How was I impolite? I am assuming my use of the word crap? I'll change it. The sentiment is the same. I apologize for the language.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 07:34 PM
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we adapt to our friends, our babies, our families Eh, reading things like this makes me feel kinda defective. I don't do this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 09:08 AM
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he's also odd, he's intelligent enough to want a deep connection and realises he probably won't get that with an Ariana grande look alike. Odd is awesome, as is a deep connection. Nice catch.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 06:58 AM
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Make a list of everything she wants and desires in her ideal man and then honestly and objectively compare herself to every criteria and/or item on the list. Include everything - deal breakers, non-negotiables, basic wish-list...essentially everything. I'm curious... what if the entirety of that list is practically synonymous with herself (short of a few traits that make the man, well, inherently a man [ie a penis, the ability to cause a tingle, etc.]), but is still considerable (due to various …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 06:43 AM
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I'd say, "Physically, I'm a virgin, as I haven't had any penetrative sex. I have had oral sex a couple times, but that's it. So, I'm more off-white than snow white."
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 04:18 AM
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Take care of yourself for that baby. That's it. You are trying. Maybe show him appreciation, and just thank him for how much he's doing, and apologize that this pregnancy is so difficult. I'm guessing you've been determined to be high risk. For your sake, and the sake of your baby (as well as your family)... chill. I doubt your husband would be very grateful to you if you kept pushing yourself and ended up losing ONE of you. This is the kind of situation where your husband/partner is supposed to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 09:57 PM
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Go to church. Volunteer for your local conservative political groups. See if there are any groups for housewives in your local area. Gatherings such as wine tastings, or something... Summer festivals that churches hold might also be good. However... just have to point this out... An "echo chamber" is when you have people around you who only repeat the same things as each other and share the same talking points. This very sub could be considered an "echo chamber." If you want to avoid an echo cha…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 09:32 PM
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He says that divorce rates have never been higher Pardon my phrasing, but bullshit. He's probably going off that whole stupid "50% of marriages end in divorce" statistic. That's complete horse shit, because 1. when that number was come up with it included the numbers of people who got divorced in subsequent marriages (their second, third, fourth, fifth, etc.). Unfortunately, when you lump them all together, the Zsa Zsas and Larry Kings all ruin the number for the whole by artificially inflating …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 08:29 AM
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From a joke about former President Calvin Coolidge: an old joke about Calvin Coolidge when he was President … The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown [separately] around an experimental government farm. When [Mrs. Coolidge] came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told, the President…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 06:10 PM
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Get a house that has over 8k sqft and see how that works out for you... especially with kids/2+dogs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 03:03 PM
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Of course not! Gotta stay pretty for hubby.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:58 PM
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Depends on the house, I'd say. Personally, just as a housewife, my primary focus would probably be on cooking healthy well thought-out meals (not these 30 minute or crock pot deals, usually) and keeping the bills/appointments/etc. in order (as that's part of the job that too many people forget about, it's basically like being a personal assistant/finance manager/etc. who makes sure shit gets done), cleaning isn't a HUGE thing? There isn't usually much to do when it's just two people, unless one …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:53 PM
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If she's working while the baby is asleep through the night, and only getting around 5 hours of sleep, herself...her baby is not losing out on much. The issue isn't about her mothering, it's about her messiness.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:34 PM
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<3 Matthew HusseyIf you work, you're not a housewife. A housewife is a wife whose job is to keep the house in order.. Seriously, the definition: a married woman whose main occupation is caring for her family, managing household affairs, and doing housework. I'm sure if you didn't work, then you'd likely be better at being a housewife. Maybe you should propose that to him. Seriously, as others have said, outsource. You're a working woman in what is, hopefully, a partnership. Since you both have j…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:23 PM
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If you know you two are on a marriage track, and that's in your future, then don't let yourself feel guilty. It was perfectly normal and understood (often a blind eye was turned), in older generations that people who were engaged (ie on the marriage track) would have pre-marital sex. In Colonial times, in the New England area, it was found that 30-40% of new brides were, in fact, pregnant when they got married, they were likely having sex with their betrothed, or a boy courting them who ended up…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:17 PM
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Maybe the Coolidge Effect's hit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 02:06 PM
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I guess I'm lucky that the guy I'm with has a breeding fetish. >_> My only suggestion would be trying a sex therapist? That's the only thing I could think of. They would be the most likely to be able to help it so that you can both have the benefits of the whore, but while appreciating the Madonna. An interesting study (just ignore the bit about the Patriarchy), but the fact that they have lower relationship satisfaction is not particularly surprising: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 01:23 AM
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Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:11 PM
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That was the case, I'd say, in Hugh Jackman's situation. And he seems pretty happy. Can't shake a stick at 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:03 PM
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You mean you don't like anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:51 PM
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Supposedly, the more intelligent a man is, the more inclined toward monogamy and fidelity he is. At least that's what some studies I've read found. Very famous men also tend to be above average in intelligence. So, that may be one reason? However, that doesn't mean that they won't necessarily cheat on their spouse, they just have the good sense to lock down a good one. Though, there are things that can be done to incline the man to be more likely to protect the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:47 PM
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That would certainly explain why casual sex is more likely, then. I wonder how many of those 100 men are gay versus how many of the women are lesbians, which would likely skew it even further for hetero or bi people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:45 PM
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Fairness was invented so children could win arguments. "Just," "equitable," "honorable," "impartial," "unbiased," take your selection of more "adult" words, then. Though, I would argue that that aphorism is silly. Fairness was not invented by children. In fact, children had very little in the way of fairness when the term first came into use for such a meaning (1450 AD). Statements like this are always baffling to me, although they usually come from the person who complains they weren't taught s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:34 PM
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Instead of "sometimes", how about "almost never"? Don't believe me? Go up to a college graduate and drop references like, "he just crossed the Rubicon", "we're caught between Scylla and Charybdis" or "covalent bond" and see if you aren't Two of those I would expect someone who studied Greek/Roman Literature/History as a major to know. And the other would be expected from anyone who is a Chemistry major, at least. Quite frankly, we learn about covalent bonds in basic high school Science, at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:17 PM
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Oh? How often do you ignore your workplace superiors without consequences? I don't. I am there to do a job and I am a hard worker. As such, the only thing I need to know is what my job entails. Then I do it. My immediate superiors have almost ne-ver had to actually give me directions. My last immediate superior in a job was a woman, and we brainstormed together what I would be making. So what? And regardless, if you have a job, you always have to answer to someone. For example, I answer to my cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:31 PM
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Very true. Men who actually continue to put effort into their relationships are wonderful. Anyone who does, honestly. Women can get complacent, too. Sadly, too many people get complacent, and that's likely why they want to bail, or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:14 PM
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Lawl, pretty much, sounds like!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:10 PM
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My grand aunt did that, to some degree. Never got married, still isn't married. Is over 80, and has happily lived her life. She had a male companion, for a long time, before he passed, who was as close to a boyfriend as she ever had, I guess? They didn't live together, but they did things together. I don't see her regretting the choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:08 PM
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Sometimes people (and people includes women) want to improve themselves in knowledge, enlightenment, and education. To learn, to grow. That doesn't happen while you're stuck at home tending to kids and husband. And it sucks that the woman was held back after helping her husband to reach his goals. Talk about a selfish hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:05 PM
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Lawl. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:31 PM
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I'd like to know how many men can supplement a woman's potential income with his own and have it equal out... especially if she has a high-paying job like physician or attorney. And you don't always submit to a boss. You do your job, required by the company and in a contract you entered into. A boss can be sued for harassment, and has to treat you as a proper employee. And... in some cases, the boss is a woman. And in even other cases, the boss is the woman, herself. And she said any swinging di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:29 PM
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Yeah, I imagine there's a lot more casual sex in the really big cities. I live near a city, but it's not even in the top 50, population-wise, and it's a pretty conservative area.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:21 PM
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Sometimes you just find guys who are interested in dating, and are the relationship type instead of the casual sex type. This has been my experience most of my life. In my circles, it's more likely that a guy wants to date me rather than just bang me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:46 PM
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Because it was a phase I went through as a young teenager. Just one of the steps in finding myself. I assume it was something about my father and his side of the family (traditional Mexican), and how my brother always seemed to get more positive attention and encouragement to be "tough," even though that just wasn't how/who he was (he's very much a Ferdinand). So, I tried to compensate by being a huge tomboy and part of that went on to become feminist. Eventually, I just decided that I was a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:14 PM
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Except it doesn't really compare how (straight) men rate women, specifically, compared to (straight) women judging men. My point was that what a [straight] man finds attractive will not necessarily be corroborated by what a woman thinks he finds attractive. If the study specified something like this, then I'll have to read the actual study a bit more in-depth, but as far as I can see, they were just trying to go for objective attractiveness, not what the men/women found, personally, to be sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:19 AM
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Ohhh, you're talking about men judging themselves. I was talking about judging others. Yeah, I'll totally agree that (unattractive) guys tend to over-inflate how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:38 AM
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I would agree that (straight) men, in general, are bad at judging male attractiveness. My brother is one of the few exceptions, but he's also ridiculously shallow, in general, and understands what attracts females in appearance. However, I think straight women, in general, can also be pretty bad at judging what straight men find attractive, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:55 AM
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Yes, when they see a mismatched couple. That is a set of people outside of their selves. The problem is that many 6/10 girls will ignore 6/10 guys, not having the self-awareness that they're 6's as well. Guys have the same problem, and often will view themselves as hotter stuff than they generally are, in reality, too. People should probably hover around their lookmates, unless one happens to "luck out" and hit it big with someone 2+ higher than themselves. So, you'd think the same thing if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:17 AM
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Yeah... probably helps that I'm not a feminist, anymore, I guess. I make a pretty awful one. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:10 AM
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Personally, I think benevolent sexism in relationships (particularly) is helpful to the relationship. Women are patronized, and men are treated like grown children, too. The moment they get sick, "Aww, poor baby. You need me to take care of you?" or... like something portrayed here: https://youtu.be/hTQGwikWNso?t=1m49s Yeah, yeah, Disney's not the best example, but the way she acts toward him is very much infantilizing, but he's also this super-macho type, too, despite the way she treats him lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:37 AM
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Very true. I won't argue. But, even the most attractive guys aren't physically hot to every woman. Some... they're just not their type. It's natural to be attracted to physically ideal types. However, since guys aren't often told "I want a HOT guy," but rather "I want a FUNNY guy" the unfortunate guys don't put the two and two together, unless they're red or black pilled, and even sometimes they're not even in that aspect. So, throw in, "I want a HOT, funny guy." Nothing wrong with stating facts…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:30 AM
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Troll where women are looking for dick. Flirt - something more people need to actually learn. READ BODY LANGUAGE... if you know how to read a woman's body language, you'll know which ones you have a shot with, and which ones are shooting you down. If a woman gives clipped answers and doesn't further a conversation, gives a strained smile, looks away from you, a lot, body turned away or legs crossed away from you, or gives you a glare, then you're not getting anywhere. Look for a genuine, friendl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:30 PM
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It's not just female "dark humor" actually. There are men who find violence against men to be funny in certain contexts as well. Neither sex really finds violence against women to be very funny, in general, but it can be. I think that has to do with social programming. Of course, I wouldn't find an image of a guy with his dick lopped off funny, in itself. However, throw some clever context wording on it, or something, and yeah, you'll probably have people who find it funny. Show a picture of an …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:37 PM
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And some of us don't have to settle for looks OR personality, we can have both. Never implied one had to settle. But, for many girls, looks is a faster lady-boner-killer than a lame (not "bad" per se) personality. The guy could be dull as a box of rocks, but if he's good-looking, he'll likely get lucky (and girls will often make excuses, giving him a personality when he lacks one). If a guy were ugly, even if he was some personality mix of Ryan Gosling, Keanu Reeves, LeBron James, Barack Obama, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:29 PM
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You would "just" break it? Well... at least in that case he'd likely still have some function (if painful) left?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:53 PM
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No offense to Stephen Fry, but he's full of shit if he says this is the case for all women. I am very sexually attracted to men, at least, attractive ones (ie ones I find attractive, which may not line up with the general consensus, all the time, but I do have a thing for broad shoulders, narrow waists, lean legs and arms, nice faces and tight tushes). At best, I find penises to be interesting, and more attractive than a vagina. I don't see them as ugly at all, in general, and have yet to, perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:17 AM
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He should disclose it from the beginning. Why? Because communication and honesty is generally the best policy. If the chick leaves and that makes it harder for him to spin plates? Oh well. But, he owes it, if nothing else, to himself to make sure he's got a means by which to say, "You knew what this was when we started." However, I would hope that the wife would also be informed, and that this is an open marriage type situation, not a cheating one. Otherwise, I hope the wife finds out and has ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:05 AM
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Women who say that personality is more important than looks are generally lying... both to the person they're saying it to, and themselves. Now, I will say that there are likely chicks who do look at personality, and would take a beastly type person with a beautiful personality, but this is a smaller percentage than women would like to actually believe. If a guy's a 10/10 in a woman's eyes, she'll FIND traits of his that she likes... whether he's actively attempting to portray them or not. If he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 04:48 AM
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