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| 2 | Any good tips to when to sexually escalate Conversation?Please don’t sexually escalate before meeting it’s gross | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | We are creating a wiki for beginners.I don’t know if is already in the plan or if it makes sense at all, but maybe doing a pov for men and a different one for women would be helpful as well? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 92 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan TorresOh god, this hits home. I had a LV ex who would NEVER listen (or change anything) to whatever I was trying to say when I was convinced that “communicating” is the only way to make things work. He didn’t listen because he didn’t want to, he didn’t want to because he didn’t care. It took me long to realize, but I’m glad to see this get validated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | As the weather gets colder, walk dates are no more. They have been replaced by requests to meet at a stranger’s house for the first time.Believe me Pickmeishas fall for it. I had a roommate who would actually invite men over that she never met before. They just come in, fuck her, go out. It made me super uncomfortable to watch, and especially have to be in the same space as those scrotes and then have to listen to her boast about her sexual “endeavors” and how sexually liberated she is. (She once called her friend a pride because she was in an LTR and has only ever slept with that one guy.) That, combined with a lot of other anno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Where's the lie?????Yes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Where's the lie?????Actually the only reason she got married so quickly was that so she could start trying for a child, according to her. She’s worried about her fertility decreasing with further health treatments related to her UC so it’s not like she really has a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 10 | Where's the lie?????How sad. They’re literally setting a mothering pattern for their men. Like hey look, you don’t even have to work hard for a ring, I’ll give it to you on a silver platter, just please propose and don’t leave me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 32 | Where's the lie?????Yes that’s exactly how it happened. And yeah funny that you mention her proposing, because she actually initiated the proposing by going down on one knee and giving him a keyring, then a while after that gave him her grandma’s heirloom and told him it’s now his turn. She tries to rationalize it as feminist gesture and how a man proposing doesn’t mean anything to her, but I feel like if that were real she wouldn’t have manipulated him into re-proposing the way she did. Her name is Hannah Witton, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 124 | Where's the lie?????A certain youtuber/influencer last year made a video about how she offered her boyfriend her grandma’s ring asking him to use it to propose to her when he was “ready” (she also gave him a deadline). My mind is still trying to compute how that works. They’re married now, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | My flair got upgraded 😎You’re right about past bad decisions being the catalyst for finding this sub and going on this inner-work journey. We’re all here to grow. Glad you’re taking the flair in good fun, and hope they change it soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 6 | My flair got upgraded 😎Omg what did you do to earn that? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 9 | My flair got upgraded 😎I just realized this flair exists... not sure how I feel about that. I thought this sub was about empowering each other, not putting each other down. Makes you wonder who’s the real pickmeisha here. Maybe I’m exaggerating, but it’s quite saddening to see we’ve turned against each other(or the mods have turned against us). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on The Five Love LanguagesI’m only going to comment about the physical touch thing since I haven’t read the book. Yes, some men could be using that approach to guilt-trip you into the kind of sex they want, but as someone who has physical touch as one of their primary love languages, I just simply crave to be held and touched and cuddled by the person I love(and yes, sex too, but mainly non-sexual touch). If I don’t receive touch, I can’t feel any love. I had to end a long-distance relationship because my partner at the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 110 | Pushing buttons on purposeMy LV ex was exactly like this. He loved to joke about things that he knew would trigger me (sexist or racist “jokes”), shit-talk people I like, make fun of my insecurities, or just insist on discussing inappropriate topics he was fully aware I do not enjoy talking about, all just to get a negative reaction out of me. Asking him to stop always made it worse because he would then start doing it on purpose. When I would eventually snap, he would grin and say “You look so cute when you’re mad.” or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?I’m really sorry you had to go through that. I hope girls after you were able to see how much of a scrote he is early enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Excuse me whatIt stand for “Change my view” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 5 | And that’s on periodtRight? Men are too cowardly and only do it where they know no one can see or hear them and where they know you’re too vulnerable to get help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:02 AM |
| 11 | And that’s on periodtIt’s just the truth!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:51 PM |
| 9 | Excuse me whatHonestly it happened to me recently by someone who made it seem like he wanted a relationship and whom I was really into, and yet the moment I had sex with him, he turned into a completely different person and dumped me later that week. Your comment kinda hurts because you’re invalidating a very true experience that happens to many of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Excuse me whatIn the past whenever I posted a screenshot here with the usernames my post got deleted... just trying to be safe. But you can find it in the purple pill sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Excuse me whatPurple pill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Excuse me whatOmg right?????? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Excuse me whatI bet they’re a bunch of incels being salty over women not dating them and insisting that us lowering our standards and giving them a chance will cure world hunger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 17 | Excuse me whatIt’s always annoyed me when men talk about this “post-nut clarity” or whatever they call it. Oh really bro? Maybe get glasses next time you date a girl before you sleep with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?The first one just sounds... sad. But also oddly specific. I hope you’re not talking from personal experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:46 AM |
| 7 | Situationships 101I reported him and unmatched when he started acting like a douche. You’re right, I should’ve done it sooner, but I thought maybe making a point would change the way he acts or talks to women. Was a bit naive of me, I admit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:30 AM |
| 15 | Situationships 101He meant sexually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 134 | Situationships 101The other day I was chatting with a guy on Tinder and as I asked him what he was looking for he said the exact above. Something along the line of “spend a good time together and have amazing sex, but with no pressure to commit” so basically an fwb where only he gets the benefits. So I called him out on it. I said that men don’t make any sense and that he’s literally looking for a relationship but doesn’t have the guts to put a label on it. He directly insulted me, called me a prude and made a ra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 7 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰This is hilarious!!! So gooooood I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Look at us poor men suffering agugugu why is life so unfair nNnnNn women have it so easy i hate those bitches why wont they let me fuck them aaaaaaLiterally the post was like “women’s only problem is not feeling safe but men have to work hard to become rich”. Bruh i didn’t know your not being rich was worse than my fear of being assaulted thanks for enlightening me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 27 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.I’m sorry that happened to you. Looking back, do you feel like there were some foreshadowing red flags that you’ve missed but that could’ve saved you the hassle? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 26 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.That could be the case yes. It might be that he’s too fucked up to understand but it might also be that she doesn’t know about FDS strategies and didn’t vet enough. But narcissists are very well at hiding it, especially if paired with sociopathy then they can very well appear as the nicest people you’ll ever meet. What would you say are red flags to look out for, aside from the obvious stuff, that could mean someone is a narcissist or just a manipulative scum that could change their mind in a da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 6 | they did it to themselves. 🤷🏾♀️When I was 19 I had a boyfriend who hated paying for me,with the excuse that he was broke(and yet he always got himself new gaming and computer gears, like top tier expensive shit) so whenever we went out to eat he would take my share when paying cash and hand them to the waiter himself, and when paying with card he would take mine and pretend it’s his, all just to show off in front of the waiters that he was the one paying for us both. It was ridiculous but somehow my old pickme self stayed wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:26 AM |
| 17 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂I wish I had FDS when I was a young stupid teenager/20 year old. I had a boyfriend who would treat me like shit in front of his friends every time I would hang out with them: act the exact opposite of how he would act around me, openly insult me, refuse to let me hold his hand, make fun of things he was fully aware I’m insecure about, make misogynistic jokes about me just to make his friends laugh, and then gaslight me into believing that’s normal male humor and that they all like me and I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Everyone’s on their phones everyone can shoot you a five second textNeeded this right now. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Oh my god 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 15 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡That’s what the current me would do. However, this occurrence sadly happened during my pickme days and way before I ever heard about FDS. Back then I felt like I had to pay for myself if they expected me to, even though that one date was very humiliating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:29 PM |
| 20 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Another guy once made me go out of the bar to look for an ATM in the middle of the night in an area I was unfamiliar with just so he wouldn't pay for me.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 3 | something to send your pickme friendsWhat annoys me is that they don't only make excuses for the men they date but also the man that I date! Like okay you want to chase LVM go ahead, but when I complain about a date with a scrote don't come at me with oh just cut him some slack, oh stop being so picky, oh he's just busy you should text him first, oh cmon that wasn't harassment it's normal for men to act like that and for us not to enjoy it. No susan none of that is normal good luck finding a man who will ever respect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 31 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡A guy once had the audacity to ask me to split the bill when all I've ordered was one single cheap beer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?We had that conversation but she completely ignored me because apparently her horniness is more important than our safety, so I gave up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 17 | Epiphany on the "mEn aRe ViSuaL cReAtuRes" argument and the implication that women aren'tWomen are WAY more visual than men. We put a lot of time into our appearance and men don’t even NOTICE that we wore a different style of makeup or that we curled our hair. They can’t even tell color shades apart. Fuck men claiming they’re visual. It’s an excuse for him to shamelessly look at your ass in public while his girlfriend is sitting to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:28 AM |
| 28 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?I’m not german but I live in Germany. My german roommate is a pickmeisha and watching her interact with guys is such a nightmare. She’s always chasing someone new, sleeps with them on the first date or as soon as they make a move, is perfectly fine with house dates, even on the FIRST date with fucking STRANGERS she met on tinder, and makes up excuses for them when they disappear after sex. She keeps in contact with those assholes and actually stays nice to them after they dump her, probably hopi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:24 AM |
| 2 | OCYou sound so much like my ex it’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.HAHAHAHAHA this is my new favorite phrase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Just got this hate message after my most recent post. Even their username is actually poking fun at our sub. Goes to show this person is so pressed that they made an account for the sole reason of infiltrating and harassing us. I’m disgusted by his words.Is there a way to keep them out of my inbox in the future? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 19 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.Ahahahaha I would’ve stopped him right there and then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 64 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.Oh god you just reminded me of a guy who wanted to go down on me twice and both times he was just licking my pee hole. It was so uncomfortable and he wouldn’t take direction. Bruh the clit is literally the most obvious part of the vulva how can you be so dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 30 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.You bet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 30 | Just gonna leave this here. I’m sure he didn’t even apologize about the fact that he basically broke his promise, as small as it was. Heck, I’m sure he even forgot about her after he got his dick wet and finished. I hope she wakes up and leaves this man-child.Bingo. I was baffled that no one told her to leave his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?Sorry, didn't know I had to do that. I'll be more careful next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?I told someone on a comment there that they should read FDS and omg the hate I got for it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?Omg yes this!!! How fucking illogical are men??? Gender of logic who?????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 22 | Men are Casually Comparing Themselves to Predators and Thinking It’s Solid Logic.What the fuck did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 59 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?Men think anyone rational enough to have self-restraint is a nun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 4 | I’m out of words.Someone send this poor girl a link to the FDS sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?I know right? Fucking male entitlement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?I found the exact same problem on lesbian apps, couples, and men and poly people everywhere. Most lesbians are welcoming of bi people though, as long as you don't give the vibe that you're one of those who have a boyfriend or just want to experiment. I understand where they're coming from because these things frustrate me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 45 | Why are there so many men on tinder who are poly or couples who are looking for a unicorn?THIS. I’m bi and whenever I’m swiping on women at least half of the profiles are pickmes who write “lookin for a threesome for my boyfriend.” , or they hide that fact and match with you then act super nice and flirty while texting for a bit until they drop the “I have a boyfriend, wanna join?” bomb. Most of the time these girls are straight and the boyfriends tend to be very ugly which makes me speechless at the entitlement. I usually block immediately but it’s so fucking annoying that they keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 21 | I know, block and delete, but I still enjoy these screenshots from women who are taking no nonsense. (Not Me)Gross. SLAP 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:23 PM |
| 103 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.Imagine seeing your girlfriend get raped and getting whiny about how she didn’t let you rape her like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:37 AM |
| 1 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Amen to this! 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 4 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.I need help getting into my brain that this mentality is wrong... I grew up thinking a good feminist always pays for herself and never allowed guys to pay for me on dates, and offering to pay for them instead. That only attracted LVM and put me in unpleasant patterns. I’m trying to unlearn that conditioning but whenever I see these kind of posts a voice in the back of my head tries to tell me that it’s right and I shouldn’t expect another person to pay for me because we’re two equals. I try to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 10 | 🙄Definitely leaving... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 10 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘He wasn’t even rich. He was cheap and yet somehow tricked me into thinking I couldn’t do better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 24 | Scrotes Rolling Up To Comment on FDS LikeCouldn’t be happier about discovering this male-free sub. This is literally the least toxic and most supportive subreddit I’ve been on and that says a lot about male presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Blocked a LVM who tried to come crawling back after 4 years 😒Yass Queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 20 | Cheers to thatAmen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 19 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘When he said you won’t find anyone interested in you that’s better than him, I felt that. I stayed in a toxic 3-year relationship because my manipulative LVM ex kept telling me that I’ll never find someone who would want me like him. I had low self-esteem and was scared of being alone, so I was convinced he was right and stayed with him for 3 years instead of ending it before the first year. These men are scum. Unmatch him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 91 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...Omg why would a “friend” try to test you like that if he’s known you for 8 years and already knows who you are. Sis you’re way better off. Thank god he revealed his true colors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 20 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...The scrote do be mad. What a man child I actually laughed really hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsI hope this sub never gets shut down. It’s my new favorite place and the community is very warm and welcoming. I never felt this kind of support in any other sub and that says A LOT. Thank you all for doing the work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 20 | When you feel rushed into a date and there's minimal effort, a sexual vibe/undertone/hints, he wants to be matched with younger women, chill date, etc. The guy is looking for a hookup only.This all sounds too familiar. What grosses me out is to realize they all do this knowingly, and are very aware that they’re pushing boundaries in order to escalate to sex. And yet feel no remorse about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 61 | We decline these kinds of datesA moment of silence for my pickme realization. I was on a drink date last year with a guy that pulled the “next round is on you.” I didn’t really feel the need for a second round, especially that I’m a lightweight and told him so, but he insisted and made it sound like I had to repay him so I agreed. The problem was that the bar didn’t accept card and I had no cash. Instead of him offering to pay instead, he made me go out of the bar to look for an ATM and get some cash so I could come back and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:53 AM |
| 50 | A Man Seriously Compared Not Being Able to Comment on FDS to Nazi Germany.They even infiltrate fucking lesbian spaces! Many girls looking for girls on OLD have told me stories about being cat-fished by men, and I always keep finding male profiles in women-only dating apps. Some just use their real photos and don’t even try to fake it because they think they’ll get away with it and that their magic dicks will turn lesbians. THE AUDACITY! It makes me sick to my stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:33 AM |
| 10 | My cousin 18F has been talking to this 28M guy and I think it's gross for him to have matched with her in the first place. She says he's looking for a relationship and seems trustworthy but to me, this is predatory behavior. I need FDS arguments to convince her that he's shit and not to meet him.I’m sorry you had to deal with this LVM. It’s just disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 12 | My cousin 18F has been talking to this 28M guy and I think it's gross for him to have matched with her in the first place. She says he's looking for a relationship and seems trustworthy but to me, this is predatory behavior. I need FDS arguments to convince her that he's shit and not to meet him.Oh my god. I bet it boosts his low self-esteem to match with teenagers after a divorce. How old is your husband if you don’t mind me asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?Isn’t it obvious that I’m faking it in that case? Everyone and their mom knows that move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Hey ladies, I need advice about dating on OLD.I've been using OLD for almost a year now and to be honest the worst dates I've been on were always the ones I dreaded going to. It's like a gut feeling telling me not to go and I ignored it a few times but quickly learned my lesson. If you don't feel like going, don't go! Plenty of fish out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys feel about the term "Bitch."I sometimes would refer to myself or my besties as bitches, since I know they don't mind and we all do it playfully. I do get very offended if I hear a man use it, though, because they always say it as an insult. I think words hold as much power as you give them. I personally like reclaiming words that are meant to be insulting, because I feel empowered by it, but only when I use them about myself and similar people. Another example: as a bisexual woman I love calling myself queer because it's a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?I always give people the benefit of the doubt. But I guess you’re right, most of these men know what’s on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 8 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?Saying that you’re leaving when there’s a lull in the conversation sounds like a good idea. You’re right, I really don’t owe these strangers anything, let alone my time and peace of mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 18 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?I hate when they try to pressure you when you make an excuse. Like get a hint dude!! Good on you for leaving and not giving in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 16 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?Having an escape plan sounds great!! Never did that before but definitely will from now on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 11 | How to cut things short or walk out of a bad/boring date? And how to speak up instead of being too accommodating?I do try to do that sometimes, but it sometimes doesn’t align with what I’ve said previously and then I’ll get the “But you said you don’t have plans tomorrow!” Not to mention that when the excuse isn’t convincing enough they try to talk you out of it or insist that you stay longer or that they can take you home if you miss your train. Typing this out made me realize I’ve been dating the lowest of LVM. Aside from that, yes, I’d love to become a bad assertive bitch as well, which is why I made th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, do you use dating apps?Can you please tell me how you say no and set boundaries in a polite way? I struggle with saying no because I always feel like I’m being rude. I know I shouldn’t be accommodating to men but it’s easier said than done. In the past I found myself giving in to walk dates and they were all as boring as I expected them to be so I know I don’t want that anymore, but I don’t know how to communicate in an efficient way that I’d rather do something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing.I would’ve unmatched/blocked way before that conversation carried on. What a loser! You weren’t being a bitch at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 7 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”That's disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”Was the exact right moment after he started pulling away or before I gave in to his sexual advances? Because if it’s the latter, then yes I can see I was infatuated and blinded by emotion, but if it’s the former... idk, I hate one night stands and feeling like someone only needed me for one night before disposing of me. Maybe that’s what kept me coming back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:28 AM |
| 14 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”He just matched with my best friend lol (she swiped right on purpose just so we can see). I’m still thinking if I should tell her to text or ignore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 7 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”Thanks for your kind reply. I’ll ready the handbook and start applying it to my life. Everyone’s responses have been amazing, I already feel very at home in this sub 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 9 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”I know right? Like yes I did consent to have sex with you but where the fuck did I consent to casual sex after which I get dumped? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:20 AM |
| 12 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”I LAUGHED OUT LOUD!! Sis he was so bad 😂 The type that mercilessly dry-fingers you then jackhammers away until he’s done so he can roll over and sleep. All that and I still looked at him thinking he’s hot. Oxytocin is a bitch. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:18 AM |
| 9 | What is one sign guys should look for on a date that says you should definitely/definitely not try hooking up with me after this?Sometimes I’m attracted to someone but would still prefer to wait | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 05:18 PM |
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