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ConversationElusiveAbs/r/seduction11/07/25 12:01 PM
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perhaps your fancy dance moves are being seen as tryhard. chill groove with the music and sprinkle fancy moves like seasoning and adjust to taste.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:59 PM
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don’t beat yourself up, she likely has many other guys texting her. so unless you’re very attractive, try to hook her in convo before suggesting a next step or make it a smooth next step when she’s online.
/r/seduction20/03/26 05:43 AM
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Immediately 😭😭
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:35 AM
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dance choreographer
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:55 PM
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yeah what if you say hi and get put on the sex offender watch list, can never be too careful
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:53 AM
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this guy fucks
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:15 PM
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been there and learned this that if a girl is really into you, she doesn’t make you solve puzzles, she makes it easy as guys we like to think about improving our game but sometimes we just gotta move on to better players
/r/seduction05/03/26 12:01 PM
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you might want to go to a therapist to smooth over that autism first. body language and eye contact are the base you’ll fix with this and build upon.
/r/seduction04/03/26 04:40 AM
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that’s a long time buddy to coast on just conversations! i’ve seen girls lower interest in weeks. it’s a lack of continuity, you’re not on their mind after you’re out of sight. maybe few will still be interested but most will fade unless you respark.
/r/seduction04/03/26 03:39 AM
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finished dinner and chillin, hbu?
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:07 PM
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how long was the gap?
/r/seduction03/03/26 04:08 PM
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facts, even the shy ones find a way
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:17 AM
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People just tend to stick to friends they’ve known for longer like from school or college. I’ve made friends outside this too but they need to see value hang out with your ie you’re good looking/fun/dance well, etc That being said, some groups just suck, why not just exit them and hang out with groups that do respond?
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:35 AM
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If you’ve done solo game in nightclubs, any tips?
/r/seduction01/09/25 05:01 AM
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Why not?
/r/seduction25/08/25 06:01 PM
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Damn, didn’t need that last line, why so salty on a weekend. I can buy into the common complain/gossip thing that works. But how do you flip when a girl is really venting ie an emotional pour of venting. Girls do that so someone listens, the vibe is so different. Explain with an example hotshot.
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:54 AM
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Is this why I get a dopamine hit when taking a shit after a long wait? I’m doing a tactical wake up call
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:12 AM
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Did you do something?
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:08 AM
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I’d only change opening where instead of just talking about yourself, comment on something common about work / something she’s wearing/eating, something in the moment. Then bridge to flirting.
/r/seduction22/08/25 02:50 AM
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Highway to friendzone
/r/seduction22/08/25 02:40 AM
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What kind of a pussy man makes eye contact for weeks without saying hi
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:13 PM
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Challenging but here’s what I’d do. Try non peak hours with less rush like breakfast? Order something with a specific request like blue cheese or whatever, something out of the ordinary and make a comment on it when picking up. Hey does this have the blue cheese I requested, her mhm yeah. Me: thank you so much, btw I see you here so calm and focused in this rush, I could never imagine myself being so calm under such stress and people. There’s my cue to engage, if she bites, I’ll make her laugh u…
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:07 PM
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What does this even mean? Care to explain with examples?
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:59 PM
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OP report back with reflections. Was it having extra time or energy? Or I think it could also be that when you’re unemployed you have nothing to lose no stress and can be carefree calm abundant, maybe women pick up on that?
/r/seduction20/08/25 03:20 AM
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So poetic brought a tear to my eye
/r/seduction20/08/25 03:18 AM
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Reads like you’ve been an introvert for a long time and you’re currently not comfortable to joke flirt, etc. because it conflicts with your identity and comes across as disingenuous. Approach convos with the intention of having fun, do it with your friends/coworkers first, guys too. Slowly you’ll get comfortable then start approaching girls you don’t know. You’re not being fake, this is just something new to you and you need to accept that.
/r/seduction13/08/25 05:05 PM
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Stop being a pussy, don’t overthink, reach for your groin, are you balls still there? Feel them fill your palm, man up and go for what you want buddy. Be confident. A smirk here is meant as a confident playful smirk, add an eyebrow raise as if saying - what’s up bby gurl.
/r/seduction11/08/25 05:02 PM
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You suggested passively “could meet” and yet ended up having sex… and still doubting if she wants to meet again. Man I don’t understand EU dating
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:45 AM
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Yeahhh there we go player. Wanna share what you changed to make this happen?
/r/seduction10/08/25 02:48 AM
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Revisit her saying you’re not sure if you’re doing this exercise properly - an excuse. Smile and say you know I didn’t come here just for the exercise, I was wondering if you’d like to do XYZ this Saturday. It’s a yes or no, either way you won’t carry regret and build your confidence. If she says no, casually say - oh that’s ok, I had to ask, have good day and leave gracefully. Don’t be awkward, the calmer you are, the more natural and easy this feels. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/08/25 03:29 PM
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pornhub music plays
/r/seduction09/08/25 01:31 PM
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Haha I felt the same about my physiotherapist some time ago till I figured she was married :/ So here’s how I’d go about it - Physios are into fitness, chat more and find a common hobby, eg: trekking/cycling/running and suggest doing one together, preferably in a group/public situation. Connect with her during activity, post activity you grab a coffee or food etc.
/r/seduction09/08/25 01:31 PM
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Firstly why does your comment have such a complicated phd thesis vibe? Secondly, it’s male nature to scan for physical attractiveness and often not look beyond at least in the initial stages. Some of us mature into having more perspective which comes with experience and having options. So it’s nature first, perspective later.
/r/seduction09/08/25 01:25 PM
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What if someone has something from each of the 3 categories?
/r/seduction09/08/25 01:18 PM
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You are lack of self respect
/r/seduction08/08/25 04:51 PM
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I have thought about this quite a bit, so here’s my perspective. When you call a person a prize, it means people want to talk to them, be in their company, even chase them from a romantic/sexual intention. As guys, we have very basic filters for what we think is a prize, it’s mostly on physical attractiveness. Now, girls also look at physical attractiveness first - as in how muscular you are how good looking is your face, how is your grooming, How is your fashion, Even how you smell. But then, a…
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:16 PM
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You just paraphrased what you already said. Catered how specifically?
/r/seduction08/08/25 12:45 PM
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What do you mean you catered your personality to fit the girl’s needs?
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:56 AM
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I’m curious, would you say you’re attractive and/or muscular? Also how you balance this with flirting? As in banter, flirting needs a certain joyful smiling energy and quiet gaps are quite the contrast.
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:04 PM
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Point 2, what is talk to guys in dominant mode? Like you piss on them when talking?
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:29 PM
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Well, instead of wondering, why don’t you ask mark how he operates? I’d like to know too.
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:37 PM
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Pull back then, see if she replies. If she does, great. If she doesn’t, well then you got your answer. Trying harder at this point would only display desperation and drive her away. Also, I don’t understand why are you focused on flirting on text instead of setting up the next date?
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:30 PM
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I’m more curious about what made you ask this? Because girls that approach are either seen as bold or easy depends on who’s on the other side.
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:14 PM
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It means you’re boring to them, you don’t spark any emotions. And as a good looking guy myself, I can tell people expect more of you since halo effect. And if you behave like an NPC past the good looks, it brings some disappointment. Well, stop approaching conversations logically/factually, go in to have fun. Look up and learn how to joke, banter, flirt, etc. Practice banter with your guy friends first. And lastly, don’t be afraid, good looking guys have much more leeway and bigger margins for e…
/r/seduction03/08/25 05:00 PM
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Ayyy playa share back to the community. What tips helped the most?
/r/seduction03/08/25 04:54 PM
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Well, where are you looking currently?
/r/seduction03/08/25 04:52 PM
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So nice to see a woman ask such a question here, I rarely see any. Talk to everyone casually, simple. Turn off your overthinking. Guys you’re not interested in are great practice, just don’t give any obvious signs like close proximity, touch, lingering eye contact or extra warm smiles, keep it friendly gym talk casual talk, crack a joke or two. Use safe situational openers like are you using this? What’s that exercise you’re doing? Those are cool shoes…. Talk to guy trainers first, easy wins bui…
/r/seduction03/08/25 04:44 PM
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The guy who becomes best friend didn’t evoke a strong attraction response from the girl, be it physical or emotional from banter/flirt or sometimes both. He just had regular conversations like a regular friend would. Now this is important in the start but without escalation and closing he gets friendzoned. The guy who evokes attraction and escalates into dates and so on, fucks her.
/r/seduction28/07/25 03:59 PM
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I thought I was being generous with that, did you look at the mindset? Judging and objectifying a woman he doesn’t even know. “when we used to talk online she seemed like a innocent shy girl, but one day when she came to office in a black outfit i saw how huge her tts where and i got flattered and can deny the view.”
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:18 PM
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How do you keep the conversations going in a workplace? I talk about work, catchup, shared interests. banter, etc all good but i only have strong connections with maybe 1-2 women at work, with others it seems to die down after a few days.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:10 PM
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Made his rounds in the morning as in he’d just go around the office greeting and talking to people? Wow I’m inspired, thought like this never came to my mind.
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:04 PM
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Then live with that, a girl isn’t gonna approach you that’s the truth
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:04 PM
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Sounds about right or to give you an alternative POV - he wanted you but didn’t wanna cheat on his wife
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:22 PM
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Huh this is weird, I for one would’ve escalated for full play in this situation, if you’re leaving what’s a better way to say goodbye. Since nothing really happened, looks like it was just for the thrill or fantasy of an office romance without actually cheating on his wife? And now that you’ll no longer be in said office, it’s time to close this chapter and avoid awkward goodbyes.
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:12 PM
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First of all I wouldn’t ask “can I join you”. That’s just weak energy imo, I’d go up and talk and read the room to see if they’re open to me. Then would’ve established safety early and escalated slowly from there. Suggested to light a small campfire, roast some marshmallows or something, talk tell stories play games or whatever and find ways to get physical touches going. Play shot games or kiss or slap or whatever… all of this while reading the room. But no big loss, without a roof type situati…
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:04 PM
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This one is still tricky, without a condom is a strong sign but with condom,.. you never know if she’s into you
/r/seduction12/07/25 07:30 AM
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Made my day, cheers
/r/seduction12/07/25 07:28 AM
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Appreciate this, thank you. Makes sense, if I was looking at a 10/10 hot girl I’d be nervous too, so opening super easy situational regardless of eye contact shows calm leadership, this is good. PS. First conversation was never a problem, I’d open and get them laughing but in subsequent convos, they’d dart eyes, I got it was nervousness but didn’t know how to proceed there. Calm confidence is the way
/r/seduction12/07/25 07:27 AM
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This is sort of making sense but could you elaborate?
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:30 PM
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Girls don’t just approach guys for sex like that what the fuck 😂. I haven’t even seen this in movies. If a girl is interested she gives signs, it’s the guys job to approach. I can’t stop laughing at your comment, this can’t be real “if a girl didn’t approach you for sex she doesn’t want it” 🤣🤣
/r/seduction21/06/25 08:00 AM
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Publicly be fun and social with other girls, move on with your life. This may or may not get her attention back but you win regardless.
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:48 AM
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Is this satire lmao
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:41 AM
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Get in her FOV, if she looks, bam smile, approach if she smiles back. Go up to her and talk about how this train is always late/crowded/walking there is tough/if she’s wearing something nice can also lead with that
/r/seduction19/06/25 07:40 AM
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That’s some top tier reflection my man, appreciate you sharing the learnings. So even in pressure, the guy who doesn’t let external dictate the frame, leads and sets the frame wins. But there’s also a balance to be struck. Leading is great but imo you should also pull back a bit to see if they chase, he’ll I’d even chat up another random girl to dictate: I’m the fun prize and confident enough to socialise anywhere. Now you’ll do better next time ✌️
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:12 AM
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How did you fumble? Didn’t engage them enough to get some emotions stirring? Didn’t start physical contact?
/r/seduction18/06/25 02:37 AM
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