ElyonVonTiri Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Straight out of the dude’s mouth! I know a guy who’s always munching on bell peppers. Like it’s an apple.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 03:42 PM
119	on being told (over and over) that I have "walls up" This. I’m finding with most things men say that there’s no point even attempting to explain anything to them. They won’t get it because they simply don’t care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 02:57 PM
23	How'd You Find FDS? I honestly can’t remember and I always wish I could. It was probably 2020 after a breakup. I feel like I was googling if I was crazy or had BPD because I felt like I was going crazy. A part of me thought I was allowed to be upset for how I was treated during that relationship, but you know “if a women acts upset she must be crazy.” So I wanted answers. And I’m pretty sure that’s what led me here. At first I just read posts here and there. My sister recalls I would send her FDS posts occasionally…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 01:35 PM
18	Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them. The stark differences in what we preach here and what they preach to each other.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 06:21 PM
39	Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” men God yes! This has always been a huge turn off for me, and I suspect for more women than they realize. This goes for all men in general who say this or act accordingly. They’ve always been the rudest and most disrespectful. Insulting me or anything the first chance they can. They can’t honestly think that behavior is attractive. Then again, some men do thrive on being a shitty person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 07:51 PM
2	It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄 What’s REAL here is how comfortably they speak about their hate for us, yet they still want to “date” us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 03:49 PM
108	The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women do Ding ding ding! He’s absolutely jealous of her horse and the time she spends there. I dated a guy who got jealous of the time I spent with my GAY guy friends. That’s next level jealousy just like this guy is. It’s possessiveness and I hope she realizes and leaves! Edit: And even my ex wasn’t murderous as this guy clearly is! He sounds dangerous honestly. There are few reasons to put down an animal, but that is not one of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 07:53 PM
28	The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women do Not only was her horse there before him, but! (and besides the fact that he’s batshit crazy for suggesting she put down her horse), relationships are not a forever guarantee. They would have us sell our soul for them to have their way, then leave us anyway. And since riding horses is something that brings her joy, he wants to sabotage her happiness. What ever happened to happy wife, happy life (gf here). She stops riding and then he’d be asking her why she’s not happy like she used to be 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 07:47 PM
34	That time I walked out on a date after his first sentence Stories like this remind me to raise my standards even higher! That they’re never too high. You’re a role model! 😁	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 05:04 PM
14	Reaching out to make amends for former pick-me ways Not experience, but real time. Your post just gave me the confidence boost I needed to apologize, something I’ve been wanting to do for yours. Over a decade ago in an old friend group, one of the girls broke up with one of the guys. And I went out of line asking her if she would stay (probably because he asked me to ask her). But later on it made me sick to think about things I said to her. He was a classic narc and started being emotionally abusive to her. They were LDR and she had moved states…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 12:36 AM
2	Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of consideration For now she stays for my sister. Long story short but my sister living with her ended up pregnant and isn’t working right now so until she does and I guess they both leave together.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 10:26 PM
47	Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of consideration My stepdad does that. He “forgets” for days until my mom does it. She gets tired of “nagging.” But he never forgets to play world of Warcraft for hours, go outside to smoke repeatedly throughout the day, go to the store to buy cigarettes and junk food while forgetting to buy dog food…then when she gets home from work tells her she forgot to buy dog food, constantly makes a mess in the kitchen but NEVER cleaning up after himself “doesn’t know how to use the dishwasher” or hand wash dishes. Glad I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 07:16 PM
204	I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 It’s always about control. Thinking she doesn’t get to decide what she wants. And his reply triggered me so bad, not someone you want to be in a relationship with. Good riddance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 04:03 AM
29	This made me so sad. This woman has to watch her mother be abused by an LVM. 🥲 Watching my mom (openly) go through something similar. LV stepfather, and she can’t leave right now. Honestly she probably never will. Hearing stories and seeing women go through this hurts my heart and makes me want to be alone forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 03:32 AM