EmTWasHereYall Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex? This isn't fair to OP, who aligns with you and acknowledged this when she first posted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 10:26 PM
32	Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex? That's true, and that would have been a big red flag. But he had the cast right there on his phone and went on to still (a) get the co-lead blatantly wrong and (b) have no notion of a universe where he might be wrong about that too. Plus, it's not like everyone needs to memorize the cast of every movie, but if you're going to appreciate someone's performance maybe it's good to know who they are. It was also the start of a pattern of him not being nearly as smart as he thought he was/tried to pre…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 10:23 PM
131	Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex? You dated a bright first grader.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 09:36 PM
21	Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex? Oh, and the guy who's dog was named "Dog".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 09:18 PM
62	Never Feel Obligated to Give A Guy A Chance Unsolicited rejection texts are simply the best.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 08:58 PM
120	Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex? This exchange on the first date: Him: Oh, Amadeus! I love that movie. Matthew Broderick is so good in it. Me: Oh, Matthew Broderick is in it? I didn't know that. Him: Yeah, he's Mozart. Me: Interesting, I thought that was Tom Hulce. Him (looks it up): You're right! Anyway I also like that other guy who's in it. Me: F. Murray Abraham? Him: John Malkovich! Turns out if you're convinced the wrong people are in your favorite movie you'll be convinced about a lot of bigger wrong things too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/21 08:52 PM
2	The Ick Okay but did you sleep in that bed later or crash on the couch or at a friend's place? Inquiring minds need to know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 06:27 PM
2	Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this? For what it's worth, this piece been circulating online for decades, has never been accurately sourced and could have easily originated from early chain emails. Something to rile people up and make them feel better about how things are in the present, vs. an actual document from the past. Not that there isn't some truth to it. This Snopes writeup from 2001 is a good rundown: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/how-to-be-a-good-wife/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 05:57 PM
1	A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍 Can't decide if this makes me more or less sad than the woman who brought a can of soup to eat at her hookup's (disgusting) house.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 03:18 AM
16	Elle will forever be #aspirationgoals I always thought her becoming friends with her romantic rival was a bigger relationship arc than her getting a new boyfriend!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 03:11 AM
4	Women are constantly bombarded by marketing and advertising, from a very young age, and how that reduces women's sense of self, how both marketers and men viciously try to make women feel unhappy and inadequate. This sketch remains as relevant as ever https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnOaiwBcQfM	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 02:47 AM
13	What’s the worst neg you got? I got meta-negged on a date once. "I mean, I'm only a four who cleans up to a six, but you could be pulling eights and nines!" As in “wow, you sure are lowering your standards going out with me.” Natch he said I could "pull" eights and nines, not that I was one myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 02:59 AM
16	In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl. I think it’s literally written for philosophy classes to have debates over.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 01:48 PM
14	#1 😂😂😂 of course they won't admit being one If he has a story about a woman throwing a drink at him, eventually you will want to throw a drink at him too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 06:09 PM
1	They got mad because they were caught Classical Greek men married women to produce kids, but saved their real romances with for other because only men were worthy of true love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 05:57 PM
4	A LVM and a pick me on a walk date It could be a deliberate word choice to make it sound like you have an emotional problem, but this guy for one wasn’t a good enough writer to figure that out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 05:07 PM
15	A LVM and a pick me on a walk date I did, briefly. This was just before I started lurking on FDS. Not that I ever wanted to see him again, but I struggle with the urge to not have anyone think poorly of me/make BS like this make sense. (Like wait, what, when did we even have a chance to be intimate??) Not worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 03:49 PM
35	A LVM and a pick me on a walk date An OLD connection that started with “But it’s soooo nice out, can’t we go for a walk instead of sitting in some restaurant/bar?” later ended with a deranged wall of text saying he wouldn’t be pursuing this further (it had been a month since we last talked) bc I never offered to pay and “didn’t value intimacy” like he did. (I wouldn’t make out with him in public). I think he spent like $30 overall and I almost Venmo’d him half just to make him look pettier. The point is — when he offers a walk da…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 03:06 PM
31	Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them? I’m so terrible about second guessing my observations that I wondered if my Rothy’s were adding a few inches of height.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 10:44 PM
137	Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them? I’m 5’4 and have gone out with more than one “5’7” guy who was eye level with me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 09:39 PM