| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use them | Debate | EmbarrassedDrawing98 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:26 PM |
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| 1 | Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days?Trust me, the guy is quite short and has a facial disfigurement though it’s not severe and his partner is absolutely stunning It proves that most men could attract women with enough effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:57 PM |
| 0 | Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days?Probably some since he has pictures with his gf and posing with other women when he looked to still be in uni Still doesn’t negate my argument. Incels could just become successful and accomplished if they really wanted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:52 PM |
| -2 | Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days?It proves appearance isn’t all that matters and that most men can attract women if they just put in the effort The guy does work a prestigious job though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 03:47 PM |
| -3 | Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days?I know a guy who has a facial disfigurement and is very short and is marrying at a young age to a very beautiful woman. Incels have zero excuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 02:55 PM |
| – | Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them?Counter argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableSoooooo many men are utter trash. They bring NOTHING to the table. It’s astonishing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableLOL men are all such pathetic losers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableMaybe if men actually tried to get a high paying job and become wealthy they wouldn’t be single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.What makes you think I have mental illness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.Most people who frequent this sub probably have a little mental illness, especially the men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.That’s not at all an untoward and rude question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.You said 75% of women aren’t single What are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.This is just you spewing false bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:28 AM |
| – | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themOk what do you think the true distinction is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themWhat negative connotation is there with singles events? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themExactly! It’s all a convenient way to escape responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themI am an introvert dude. Most of the dates I’ve been on were from apps- but apps in 2025 don’t work for men so I am suggesting you meet your partner at a hobby group or community event | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themObviously don’t attend a hobby group if you aren’t genuinely enthusiastic about the hobby For me, I enjoy hiking and practicing photography in my free time, so hiking and photography are good groups to join. I also enjoy exercising and trying new restaurants so groups centered around these are optimal for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themhttps://www.southdenvertherapy.com/blog/how-couples-meet-where-most-couples-find-love-2025 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themMiami Florida | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themThere’s a vice article titled run clubs are the new dating apps. Must be pretty popular to meet people at social groups if it’s shifting people off the apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themExactly. Hobby groups are the way to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themYes I’ve attended several hiking and photography hobby groups. We go on group hikes or photography walks. Events where members of the community meet. They are ALL over the United States. They could be holiday events or something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themYes you can go to hiking meetups where you can go on a group hike or you can go to a photography meetup where you can join others in your interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themThe way people meet their significant others has changed drastically over the last decade. According to recent studies, the most common ways couples meet in 2025 are: Online Dating – 50%+ Through Friends – 15% At Work – 10% At College or University – 7% At a Social Event or Party – 5% Through Family – 4% At a Religious or Community Gathering – 3% In Public (Coffee Shops, Bars, Gyms, etc.) – 3% Through Hobbies and Shared Interests – 2% Other (Blind Dates, Speed Dating, Travel, etc.) – 1% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themA group where people come together to enjoy hobbies like hiking photography or sports | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themUnited States, every city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themThere are ways to meet that aren’t harassing strangers when they are going about their day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themPlenty of people meet their partners at hobby groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themYet many men here stubbornly stick to the apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:35 PM |
| -1 | Men aren't approaching women due to a lack of social skills, merely because they are taught not to.Exactly. If you don’t have a social circle don’t expect to meet women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI said well above average. Can every man be well above average? Is that even possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manNo wrong many MANY relationships are started through hobby groups and meetup social events | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou don’t even know my age and given your a senior software employee I have the suspicion you’re a good 5-10 years older than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manWhy should I have to become a body builder and a millionaire when there are broke and out of shape men with wives and girlfriends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manSo you admit to have any measurable success on dating apps or in dating at all in 2025- you need to be well above average. So again no wonder men are choosing to give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manCan you see why men are choosing to check out based on what you’re saying? Nobody wants to put in endless amounts of effort for the chance that they might have success in dating or some people might entertain them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manNo I’m not muscular but I am fit. I hike every week. Honestly am working on the muscles aspect. Yes, I have a good haircut, well fitting clothes, wear scents, and I previously had a job at a prominent company making a good salary (laid off now and looking for another job) Why should I have to be putting 110% into every area for an average woman? Who the hell are you to tell me I don’t deserve dates unless I’m well above average in every category? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manThis is genuinely what seems to be the issue. I’ve been told I’m decently attractive but I just don’t know where to meet women out of school I don’t have a big social circle, meet up groups are all older people, cold approach isn’t welcome and doesn’t work most of the time, bars and clubs are not optimal for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manThank you for the gaining advice. I drink protein shakes to add to my daily calorie count. Would you be able to review my photos and tell me where I’m going wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manCan you review my photos and tell me where I’m going wrong? I would really appreciate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manI actually have a chiseled face and jaw. I do need to put on muscle though I’m thin. I already utilized a professional photographer and it didn’t help so I’ll have to get another one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manNo im pretty sure it’s because my profile doesn’t stand out. Women are not the issue here. I need to improve it with even better photos of me doing action shots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them?The subject of this post is about men consuming porn as a substitute for pursuing women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them?Yes it is. Not only is it supporting an industry rife with ambiguous consent, which should be the main reason to avoid it, but it doesn’t lead the men who consume it to be strong productive men. Men who consume porn waste their potential rather than improving themselves to be good men who are desirable to women. Nobody will convince me that consuming porn isn’t ethically wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them?Watching porn is wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manIt’s extremely extremely hard for me to get any matches on an app and I have no idea what I’m doing wrong. I get zero matches on apps and I don’t know why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 12:34 AM |
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