| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | No you’re not working too hard to get women | Conversation | Embarrassed_Glass826 | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:03 PM |
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| 1 | No you’re not working too hard to get womenExactly, I wouldn’t bank on cold approach, but it’s certainly possible. I’ve met and dated many women and even befriended women through cold approach. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | tips for Coffee shop conversation?Personally I don’t care if I get rejected and having to set right next her. You don’t know if she’s going to reject you or not. That’s a losers mindset. You don’t want to miss an opportunity waiting for the right time. Who cares if she does reject you and she’s near you afterwards??? You have not to care, the fact you approach makes you a man that goes after what he wants. You’ve already won! | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl for her number and then she told me she doesn’t give out her number to strangersThere’s an abundance of girls, move to the next one | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Another night, another failure to do anything.I would try to take a step back emotionally from trying to get these Home run type of results and focus on the fundamentals. I also suggest finding a wing man. Lastly, try this line. Go to a girl at a bar/club and just straight up ask her if she wants to be friends. Some will say no, some will say yes. Then go from there and talk or dance, etc… You need to take pressure off of yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What is the right and healthy mindset to adopt if you’ve never had success with women before?There’s an ABUNDANCE of women. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | I (25F) don’t know how to find guys/ get datesIt’s not hopeless, you just have to be patient and try to measure your expectations. You can meet people through online dating or cold approach but most people even in 2022 meet their partner through friends/social circle. I recommend really diving deep into socializing at events, community gatherings, and making new friends etc... It might take a few years before you’ll see results that you’re satisfied with, but it’ll be worth it. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | 5 quick lessons from cold approaching todayYou don’t need a workshop, just go up to women and be honest. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | where to liveLower east side | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:30 AM |
| 3 | going to nightclub with group of girl friends ?Going out with girls is the easiest way to meet more girls. Especially if they’re cute/hot. Girls beget more girls. Other girls will notice, and when they do just say hi my name _____, what’s your name? It’s really that simple. You have tons of social proof. If they don’t notice, just approach anyway. You can’t lose! | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:25 AM |
| 3 | 5 quick lessons from cold approaching todayThe great thing is 25 is very young, you have a lot of control over your dating life. Also, not sure what you’re looking for, but 18-24 is a good time to casually date. People often change and are finding themselves in their 20’s, so it’s a big risk to settle down under 25 years old imo. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 3 | 5 quick lessons from cold approaching todayThanks! | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:13 AM |
| 4 | 5 quick lessons from cold approaching todayI mostly just asked if they were single, but with a genuine compliment before I asked. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Where the women at?Shopping | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Almost 16 in a new country, should I be trying to approach girls or focus on myself?Do both | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Zero confidence with really attractive women…Btw, some women like “players”. Some women like men who can attract lots of women. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Zero confidence with really attractive women…Just say “hi, how is your day going”. Even if you’re really nervous, half of them will still be interested in you. They might it find it refreshing or cute that you’re humble and nervous. Eventually your confidence will build. A lot of times, you don’t need to be great with women, you just need to say SOMETHING. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you do to get over women you genuinely like?I only read the headline, but meet more women. Like ten times the amount. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just do day game | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree, don’t overcomplicate this. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ask her what’s she doing that day or weekend, then go from there. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety?Start small talk with strangers who you are not attracted to. Get comfortable with small talk and have conversations. -Try to start organic conversations with women without flirting or hitting on them. Think about how no one cares about you. Once the interaction is over, they will forget about you. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If she leaves you on read, just move on. There are an abundance of women. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | I almost made my first approach.It might be for some women, others will like it. There are no hard and fast rules. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | I almost made my first approach.Ask if her if she’s single. Or Ask if she can recommend any good books. Or Ask her about her tattoos. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:17 AM |
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