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Inner Game Embarrassed_Peace277/r/seduction07/02/25 07:07 PM
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Energy you bring 100%. Because that effects tonality and body language naturally, which are significantly more important than words used in communication.
/r/seduction02/04/26 08:38 PM
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I get it man. Loneliness can make you turn to a girl you’re unnatracted to, then you start caring about them (not necessarily becoming attracted). It makes it much harder when things end. But hey, you need to live your life, i’m sure you both learned something from it. A rule i have is always leave them better off than when you found them (this is something i had to adopt because this feeling of guilt wouldnt go away). Having a conscience + using seduction techniques can work, and i’d say it’s a…
/r/seduction23/02/26 08:55 AM
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Yes female solo travellers do frequently visit tourist areas (Borocay and Manila for sure). It’s safe and the ratio is pretty balanced Similarly to Sri Lanka, it’s generally a peaceful and serene place, night life is perhaps a little quiet for being a popular tourist destination but is still present. Local women - as it has a lot of religious influence, traditional parenting styles are commonplace and are often pretty close minded about hookup culture. However dating apps and western influence i…
/r/seduction19/07/25 09:32 PM
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Damn in the UK its the 5th most popular SM platform
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:32 PM
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Dude everyone knows about it, Reddit just has a stigma for being uncool to use compared to other social media platforms
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:05 PM
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You’re disregarding a lot of nuance regarding human sexuality Testosterone is just whatever - if you eat enough, get 8 hrs sleep, have lean muscle and arent elderly you’re likely at the upper end amongst your peers. I agree it plays a solid role in attraction and deficiency can ruin your game, similar to how a deficiency in virtually any other hormone would, but for the average person it’s not as significant as you think, otherwise women would be universally attracted to the hairyest, strongest …
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:13 AM
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Brother its not TESTOSTERONE. Women are repulsed by men who take steroids. The natural range for testosterone isn’t statistically significant at all either. At least some sexual dimorphism is a preferred trait by women across the board. Health and virility is important, and sort of entry level way to get dates at all. No one will respect you unless you take care of yourself. It doesn’t mean women will bend the knee wherever you go
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:30 AM
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The main struggle of texting is lack of context. Tonality and body language are a huge part of communication and likely the area you excel in. I would try sending voice messages or video call if they’re open to it or just try to meet asap. Play to your strengths
/r/seduction05/03/25 02:36 PM
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I’m glad you got out of that downward spiral and picked yourself back up. You mentioned this chick who had a bf, that’s awesome. Maybe befriend her and her BF if they are ok with this, not only will this combat loneliness and keep you out of that rut but you’ll be able to get an understanding of how they vibe together. Dating apps are a bit of a nightmare, and texting isn’t for everyone. Try not to chat to someone too long before meeting, because not only is it boring, it kills the tension too. …
/r/seduction08/02/25 09:48 PM
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Was it explicitly said that she wants something serious? Or how was it insinuated that gave you this feeling? Girls usually seek consistent attention and bonding. I think this is one of those logistical things where honesty is important, you could say something like “it’s a shame you live so far, because i had an amazing time and i’d like to see you again. But i can’t commit to an LDR” I’d prioritise speaking your truth rather than overanalysing if you sound rude or not, it’s the fair way to app…
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:50 AM
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Tease and flirt with her, be bold, but do it because you find it fun pushing her buttons a little, It shows you’re interested enough to have fun with her, but you still don’t care a lot about what she thinks of you. Try to simply assume there’s some chemistry. Again it’s a balancing act so don’t overdo it, especially without any kind of reciprocation. If she’s smiling easily she’s acting positively not neutrally, so just be a bit more savage with your approach and assume it’s because she likes y…
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:43 PM
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I’m sorry but isnt the main objective of seduction to find someone who you’re sexually and/or romantically interested in? If she leaves you cos you like to eat puss or even be a sub, then move on
/r/seduction04/02/25 11:38 AM
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-When you’re fingering use your palm or thumb to stimulate her clit, like a see saw motion. -When eating a girl out suck it whilst licking/moving your head and the sensation will resemble a vibrator. -When inside her, use all of what you have - as deep as comfortably possible, and slow. When she gives cues or she’s getting wet you speed up. -If you’re in doggy for example reach around and rub her clit - it’s rare for guys to do this and many girls require clit stimulation to orgasm. This will ma…
/r/seduction02/02/25 07:52 PM
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Idk though, apparently men who are brooding can also be seen as, if not more attractive than those who smile. Likely depends on the woman. There’s a place for strong silent types, but you may have to take more initiative.
/r/seduction02/02/25 01:13 PM
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I’m a 6’4 guy, people have frequently called me attractive too. The one thing that changed my approach anxiety for good was - just make lots of friends, regardless of who they are (yes even women). This alleviates the pressure, and makes you come across as a chill guy who just wants the best for everyone. This in turn will train you to be sociable, command attention and become interesting. One day it will fall into place, and the women you befriend will want romance instead.
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:58 AM
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Username nearly checks out: amanda-tea = a man to tease
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:39 PM
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Yea a meme or just say a random ass thing that happened to you or something. i’m a little weirdo over text anyway so if you can adopt that idgaf persona over text at the start of the interactions, you can just send anything and it wont seem out of character
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:35 PM
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I tried following the advice of wait X amount of time between texts, or do not double text etc. Didn’t work for me. As soon as i switched to a more natural texting style and had options my success improved. My advice - If a girl is investing, be respectful and respond in a timely manner, if she isn’t respect yourself and retract some attention. Have your own shit going on so texting 24/7 is hard for you. With regard to double texting, just do it if you feel like it, there’s not much to lose. I u…
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:54 AM
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Yea that’s just dumb though. You’re acting as if people are incapable of listening to advice without reflecting on it or maybe applying it to find out if it works. Advice is only harmful to the naive, narrow minded or to those who don’t take action. When women give advice, they’re explaining their nature. Doesn’t mean you should follow it, but there’s value in listening.
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:24 PM
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Situational, there’s good and bad advice from women. And the same with men. Those who are woke are woke. No need to overcomplicate matters by ruling out advice solely based on gender. Take everything with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:49 PM
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I think strong eye contact usually means a lack of nervousness or submission, but clear interest. Or their interest bypasses all other dominant feelings
/r/seduction24/01/25 12:29 PM
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Direct eye contact is a sign of being attracted, but usually when you know the person well. Quick glances followed by looking to the side or even better down are great signs she may be interested.
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:39 AM
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When i got my first girlfriend and lost my virginity at 20, i felt severely underwhelmed. Sure it was good, and gave a slight confidence boost, but all those years of obsessing over it. It was not worth the hype, just my experience. It’s human nature to seek what we don’t have, once you’ve achieved this you’ll want to move to the next thing. We often glorify sex and romance, we collectively attach it to our self worth and identity. We’re all socialised to care about this stuff deeply, and our in…
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:57 AM
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Excellent advice right here
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:11 AM
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Hey man, just want you to know that dating and sex isn’t the be all end all, it’s just good fun to experience. It’s like wanting to die because you haven’t been skydiving before. The only problem is your body will do everything in it’s power to procreate, and that’s why you feel like a failure. It’s an illusion. Do what you love and become truly content on your own, and welcome any connections - whether that be friendship, family, elderly people etc. just don’t be lonely, prioritise health menta…
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:01 AM
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Yea my main argument is it’s just more nuanced. Giving few compliments as possible as a hard rule is a little extreme. It’s all about balance
/r/seduction23/01/25 08:02 AM
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Idk if you’ve ever looked a pretty girl dead in the eyes and said she’s pretty, but it literally works lol. Women are insecure of their looks regardless. Soothe their neuroticism, express why she appeals to you unapologetically and with conviction. She will never forget it
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:25 PM
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Imo it’s all about balance, you should reflect often on your character and desire change if appropriate but don’t lose yourself for the sake of women, people like to connect on a raw human to human level still. Adapt your behaviour too much and you become robotic
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:07 PM
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Women like to feel validated and committed to, if it’s genuine then you should just do it
/r/seduction22/01/25 07:44 PM
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In general i agree, if the interaction progresses to a more sexual nature then getting personal is the way to go
/r/seduction22/01/25 07:36 PM
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Focus on exchanging attention with push/pull without it being overly clear that you want her straight away. Keep the mystery but add value and conversation.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:23 PM
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Bubbly, cute and excitable is definitely a vibe. But you’re right it’s the opposite of being a seductress. You’ll have to shift your persona to appear more mysterious, calm and confident. As for some tips you could explore: -Inner game; breathe deep, try to keep calm under pressure, move slower and with intention, try to avoid hesitation and be unapologetic with your actions. -embrace silence and focus on body language; eye contact is subtle but speaks volumes, adopt the ‘f*ck me’ eyes technique…
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:19 AM
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The issue is, from experience and studies on womens sociosexuality. The vast majority of women are seeking full on commitment from someone of high value. Most women claiming they want short term, don’t take apps seriously and want validation or there’s often something wrong with them. So basically you have to limit your options - and often settle for lower quality women, or break hearts. You’re much better off just hitting the clubs if you want a chance of decent hookups. If you still want to go…
/r/seduction16/01/25 09:26 PM
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Are you sure that asking dumb questions is the problem? Has she explicitly stated that? Cos any normal person would embrace someone being at least curious about their interests, and respect you for being honest about not knowing. If your questions are really that hopelessly tragic to the point of being incoherent or not enjoying the conversation, then maybe you’re just not compatible? She may now be sensing that you’re ‘going along with it’, as if you’re trying to appeal to her, which is a turn …
/r/seduction11/01/25 09:04 AM
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Similar boat bro. All the attractive girls from work have shown extremely high interest and i’m messaging all of them as kinda ‘flirty friends’ for a bit of fun. They gossip a lot and i don’t want that reputation of sleeping around at work. But my god is it hard not to smash all of them
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:31 PM
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Accept the bitter resentment you have, it’s there for a reason but then let it go by realising it’s pointless mind chatter similar to the sound of rushing traffic. Become fulfilled by focusing on yourself - health, fitness, finances, hobbies, wellbeing etc. focus on socialising and making new friends over a relationship, speak to hot women in the same way, see if they can wingman you etc. Become indifferent and embrace it. You’ll find life more enjoyable. Do all this and you’ll change yourself, …
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:01 PM
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Impossible to read, please repost
/r/seduction17/11/24 10:13 AM
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I feel the same despite being a grounded person, It’s like one big social/energetic shit test. I believe part of being grounded is being ok with not being grounded, try to excessively force it and you’ll have an awful time, and so will she. Had a date last night, i just rolled with my anxiety, admitted i was a bit nervous, cracked jokes, teased each other and i just said what was on my mind. She opened up to me a lot and the date went very well. Obviously do whatever works for you, for me preten…
/r/seduction17/11/24 10:05 AM
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She probably likes checking you out and thinks you are cool, body language is very telling. most of us are guilty of checking out other girls occasionally when in a relationship and women are no different, keep it in mind as an option but respect her boundaries and relationship status. I would just go down the playful friend route and see what happens, if cheeky and flirtatious is part of your personality then that’s perfect as you can banter in an authentic way which will make her decide what t…
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:16 PM
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Confidence in the most simple form is turning thoughts into actions with self respect
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:13 PM
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Well male/female friendships often don’t work, it’s a more intricate dynamic. Some of his female friends he stated are more authentic, and he’s trying to find other women that meets that same standard
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:39 PM
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Not really, he’s just stating facts about how he is being treated by his female friends vs male friends, the gender is irrelevant and he never made any generalisations about women, just stated they are in fact female friends who are acting this way. There’s nothing wrong with setting boundaries and deciding who you hang out with.
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:17 PM
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Ad hominem + ‘trust me bro i know facts’, what an insightful response.
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:57 AM
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Being a loser is subjective to each individual. I’m sure some famous celebrity would think we’re losers. You might have a short friend who doesn’t go to the gym who has a better personality than you and the girl wants him, in her eyes you are more of a loser in this situation. Doesn’t make you a loser. What does looks have to do with anything we’ve spoken about? Women unanimously prefer personality to looks, please don’t talk out of your ass. If you’re good looking and it works for you then fair…
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:10 PM
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I’m not saying you should cry and talk about all your problems to strangers, because most men aren’t like that anyway. Most men (especially here) swing more towards the repressed/robotic side of the spectrum which limits the authentic nature of interaction, take introverts for example (like OP); they feel overwhelmed in a social setting because it ‘drains their energy’, the reason is often because they feel social pressure to be something they are not or overly self conscious about how they inte…
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:37 PM
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The people you’re mentioning are those who accept they are losers but have a negative image of a loser, they’re resisting it and hating themselves for it which leads to low self esteem and approach anxiety. Accepting you’re something and hating yourself for it is not true self acceptance, accepting who you are unapologetically is true acceptance. I don’t care if you watch anime all day and do nothing else, if you accept yourself and own the shit out of it, women will find it attractive. It makes…
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:57 PM
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At the same time putting up shields around you to hide your emotions is the definition of toxic masculinity and insecurity. Being honest, intentional and expressing your emotions openly is the key to any good relationship or hookup. If you feel anxious, allow yourself to be, if you roll with it and accept it (ie allowing yourself to be vulnerable) the anxiety dissipates, if you resist it the anxiety will amplify. If you feel the need to cry to girls you approach, you have a deeper issue that nee…
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:38 PM
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Mind elaborating?
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:28 AM
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Flirting is a skill you improve on with experience, if you repeat the ‘I thought…fck it..’ mantra, you will learn very quickly, respect for taking that leap. You went with safe, relatable topics of conversation to gain experience, again this is perfect but don’t expect a high success rate on this alone, if you found this most comfortable just roll with these topics on each approach for a while until it becomes second nature and flows more naturally. Eventually you will get bored of the same topi…
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:07 PM
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And there was nothing interesting or funny that happened when you worked together? Ok then if there’s no current rapport then just tell her you always thought she was cute and you want to hang out, keep it simple until you gauge her personality a bit more
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:58 PM
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Work is hard because you can’t speak your mind when there are other colleagues are around, but speaking your mind is exactly what you should do if you get time alone - if you like the conversations or think she’s pretty, tell her that and say you want to hang out, shameless honesty has a high success rate with me, and the best part is you will get an upfront answer
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:52 PM
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Talk about banter at work and stuff as an opener then progress it into saying you think she’s cute and you want to hang out
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:38 PM
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I wouldn’t listen to Google, try to be vulnerable and focus primarily on listening, the objective is to get them talking. If you ‘act mysterious’ you’ll likely alienate yourself more and may come across as arrogance IMO, you’re trying to talk to girls not win an oscar
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:51 PM
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Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be dominant - as soon as you do you will try to escalate the interaction just because you’re trying to adopt a dominant persona and not because she wants it to escalate. You only need to show your intentions and initiative to escalate 1 or 2 times, but then it’s up to her to push back. It’s the push and pull method. This will establish dominance because it’s making her aware that she should add value to the interaction too otherwise it won’t go anywhere…
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:20 PM
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If i recall correctly, ‘Skinny Fat’ is a more common symptom of low test, being skinny in general is a sign of under-eating which will consequently make your T level drop. When T levels are low oestrogen typically rises, and oestrogen is commonly stored in fat tissue. If you live a highly active lifestyle you need to eat a lot to fuel that muscle because there is a strong correlation between muscle tissue and testosterone. So my question is, have you ensured you meet your daily calorie needs?
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:16 PM
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My simplification is this: Be healthy mentally and physically. A more detailed explanation - exercise like a beast, meditate, eat well, drink enough water, get enough sleep, have a good selection of friends, break out of your comfort zone, find interesting hobbies. When you have fulfilled these basic needs (although often overlooked) your personality will shine through, you will seek new experiences, your anxiety will be low, your skin will glow and you will feel amazing. Nature is perfect, wome…
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:04 PM
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Although it’s probably bad advice, i’ve met a few partners from work. Festivals and car meets are my other go to options, not a big fan of cold approaching in shops or on the street personally
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:01 AM
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