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OYS #5 (Old ones: #1, #2, #3, #4) 31yo, 5'77", 176lbs, BF 12% (navy method), wife 29yo married 3, together 7, she's currently pregnant Lifts: DL(5x5) 100kg, IBP Dumbbells (3x12) 44kg, Pullups 3x10, IBP Barbell 3x10 64kg. Now everything is what I can do from home, because we're quarantined. Still weak, yeah, I know. Books: NMMNG (2x), TRM, MAP, half sidebar (advanced reading misses a lot), MMSLP, SGM, WISNIFG 50%, Meditations, Now starting WOTSM. Mental: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius really open…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 09:50 AM
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she really is just the teenager of the house I keep coming back to that conclusion over and over. Every fight, every bad attitude and tantrum she throws, I can't help but feeling I am dealing with a 15 year old. Not saying I am the shit, but it is really noticeable.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/20 05:18 AM
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She uses strong emotion to shame you into not enforcing This has been the go-to plan for a while now. Well, whenever shit hits the fan. I notice it now, but also notice NOW while reading the comments that that shit works with me. Goddamn. Alright, fuck her feelings. This is unacceptable.
/r/askMRP05/03/20 05:29 AM
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worrying if you are beta or alpha is almost always beta. That was a great insight. The more I THINK about being Alpha or not, the less I am. I mean I guess in the beginning, it is a bit of acting before it becomes internalized, but still. Also, thank your answering this. I will make a plan for what I want my life to look like! While I do have a MAP, it's just smaller points, no real goal of what I want my life to look like. Just some general things that I deem necessary. But no vision of myself.…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 05:01 PM
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I gotta be honest, that was my initial thought. I accepted the "you can't fix others" a while ago, and considering this, I wonder if she can even properly provide for the kid, if she can't even take care of it while it's unborn. Which would then result in me leaving. I guess I'll have to see how she does when the kid is born. I will definitely talk about it, though. I can't just sit there, doing nothing.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 04:41 PM
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OYS #4 (Old ones: #1, #2, #3) 31yo, 5'77", 176lbs, BF 12% (navy method), wife 29yo married 3, together 7, she's currently pregnant Lifts: DL(5x5) 209, IBP Dumbbells (3x8) 108, Pullups 3x8, Military press 3x10 100 lbs. These numbers will be outdated soon, I bought a proper program for the gym (Achilles). Enough LARPing around! Books: NMMNG (2x), TRM, MAP, half sidebar (advanced reading misses a lot), MMSLP, SGM, WISNIFG 50%, Meditations by MA (50%). Mental: Last weeks OYS and the comment by Aloha…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 08:16 AM
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I’m gaming her all day without any overt sexual stuff, bedtime comes, she puts on some lingerie IN FRONT OF ME and she snuggles up on my chest expecting me to initiate. I don’t initiate and get up after 20 min That was interesting from your baby shower OYS. Because I always thought when she finally is ready for sex, even puts in some effort, then you go and have it. Or was that not enough for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/20 07:30 AM
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That was exactly what I did. Midway NMMNG thought I figured it out, and literally nuked any shit-test until the word "divorce" fell.
/r/askMRP02/03/20 12:18 PM
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Yeah your post here opened my eyes to a whole new ballpark. Never crossed my mind that the environment could be this directly influence it. Understandable why your wife can't let go, because that will be in her hindbrain forever. Unless until the kids are old enough/moved out I guess. Still interesting. That's why I love this sub. So much knowledge!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 05:20 PM
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Oh fuck this hit home hard. Reading it I realize how stupid that is to "needing to do something for sex". Damn. My mind is still fucked up. You're having some very basic realizations, good, but they don't hit the true point of most of the material. So go read it again. !!! I am not thinking of selling the house. I want that! I just made some mistakes with the mortgage which I need to pay teaching-money now. Generally, you are correct though. I have no real plan set up for me. What I want. Where …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 08:56 AM
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As an upcoming parent I am interested in how you handled the situation with the kid?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 08:42 AM
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Man, I love this sub. No bullshit. No excuses. No pampering. Just the harsh truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 08:31 AM
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OYS #3, back from being banned (boy was it needed) (Old ones: #1, #2) 31yo, 5'77", 176lbs, wife 29yo married 3, together 7, she's currently pregnant Lifts: DL(5x5) 209, IBP Dumbbells (3x8) 108, Pullups 3x8, Military press 3x10 100 lbs. Noticed that I blinded myself and thought these numbers are quite good. Haha, no they're not. The phsyical needs some more training. WAY MORE. Goals: I am gonna cut first, until we see some abs, and then bulk some more muscle. My #1 goal right now though is to be …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 08:15 AM
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Thanks! Why is it excellent to turn it around? I feel like it makes it harder to see any progress because of pregnancy and the initial time with the kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 05:36 AM
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OYS #2, first one here. Current theme, basing myself, avoiding mental traps. Still a weak faggot. 31yo, 5'77", 176lbs, wife 29yo married 3, together 7, she's currently pregnant Lifts: DL(5x5) 209, IBP Dumbbells (3x8) 108, Pullups 3x8, Miliary press 3x10 88lbs.Some weak shit right there. Long way to go before I have some proper strength. Goals: DL 5x5 with 330lbs. A loose goal is to pick up my wife with ease. Currently not the case... Mission: Lead myself. Find my older self (i.e. personality) wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 03:02 PM
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I fall into that mental trap as well a few weeks ago. I thought, there is just no point with her anyway, since I just vetted wrong. Big mistake! Considering what a weak faggot I was (still am), that wouldn't have changed shit. The mind really is a rationalization machine.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 02:39 PM
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haha great comment! Made me laugh! And you're goddamn right. Thank you! Haven't read SGM yet, you're right. Faggotry confirmed!
/r/askMRP17/01/20 03:41 PM
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Ha, good point. My mental point of origin isn't my wife, it's MRP now. "What would MRP do?" Goddamn! Alright, back to the starting point. Thanks!
/r/askMRP17/01/20 12:21 PM
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I did understand it right, then. Perfect. Thanks!
/r/askMRP17/01/20 08:46 AM
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Goddamn, that sounded quite interesting to read and shake head.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 06:07 PM
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About the drinking and vaping. I suppose those are just habits, and not real addictions. You can never unlearn a habit, you can only alter it. Look at it this way, your mind thinks, "Trigger, Action, Reward" I.e. "I just ate something (Trigger), when I vape now (Action) I get a dopamine rush (reward)" You can't change the triggers, unless you stop eating alltogether. But you can exchange the action. Hence why so many ppl eat snacks instead of smoking. The habit still exists, but they stopped the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 04:00 PM
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Can you unpack that for me? I don't want to project anything into your comment, and rn I don't see how I play an Alpha Chad game if I truly don't care who I have kids with?
/r/askMRP13/01/20 05:39 AM
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Am I the only one who doesn't care about the kids factor? My wife is pregnant right now, and obviously I am on MRP, so things are off. But if it ever doesn't work out with her, I just have kids with another woman and win at evolution. I am by no means an Alpha Chad, but I cultivated that mindset for a long time.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 08:00 AM
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In fairness though, the replies are liquid sarcasm and quite funny most of the time. But I get it, it's not really helpful for new guys coming here.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/20 08:57 AM
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The second part is generally a key thing I noticed in other situations. I am nowhere near even close to being MRP approved, but I did notice that whenever I changed an approach on something, it does take weeks before she finally accepts the new me. Until then she - as you said - waits to have her suspicions confirmed. We're creatues of habit. And if a person you know suddenly acts differently, you wait for them to slight back into known behavior before you accept the new self. Otherwise, you wou…
/r/askMRP10/01/20 12:57 PM
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Thank you, I needed that call to earth. I should give myself more time, you're right. And her as well. I guess pregnancy is just too different to normal behavior to really judge anything. Well, I def started out more Alpha than I am now, or was through our marriage. I never played right to the shit tests, I know that, but I did have a DNGAF attitude in the beginning. So, yes, there will be suspicion, but I don't care, I want to be different, more Alpha. So either it works out or it doesn't. But …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 06:49 AM
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I guess there isn't a "aspiring alpha" wardrobe so I guess I should choose what I like and what I want to be at some point?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 03:31 PM
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I might have converted height or weight wrongly, I am not from the states. I'll double check. Thanks for that alpha beta image. I didn't think of it that way as of yet, but it makes sense! Any details on the forced part?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 12:32 PM
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What a great reply! While I am not fully in his situation, that shit fucking helped! Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 08:15 AM
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First OYS! - starting 2020 strong! I unplugged a few months ago and went Rambo McFucktard through the anger phase. I am finally coming clean and accepting, made a MAP and will start out 2020 properly. 31yo, 5'77", 165lbs, wife 29yo married 3, together 7, she's currently pregnant Lifts: DL(5x5) 187, Squats(3x10) 66, IBP(3x8) 143, Curls (5x5) 80. Those are the main. Gotta find other exercises to train curls because currently it hurts my ankle joints. Goals: DL 5x5 with 330lbs. Bold goal, but we'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/20 07:59 AM
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ED due to excessive alpha The fuck? I've never heard that before! How's that supposed to work ? haha
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:13 AM
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That reads like your MAP is just too focused on her, isn't it?
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:12 AM
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Thank you, I recently had the same discovery while reading MRP. My wife is pregnant, and I was like, "Does the MAP even work with her hormones off due to pregnancy?" Then it clicked. I still operate in her frame. Changing myself to get her to spread the eagle. Fucking stupid. But it bears repeating until it's finally hammered into the brain.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:08 AM
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I have a question about the "walking away" after the cheat threat as a noob: What if she just follows you around? Which is what I would guess would be happening with a furious woman shouting shit like that? I feel like just ghosting her is weak as shit? Or do I literally need to leave the house?
/r/askMRP07/01/20 01:45 PM
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Exactly what happened to me. Had great, wet, touching, moaning sex with the wife after months, and BAM I was back, begging for sex days later. I can only imagine what gone through her head at this point, "This motherfucker is stupidly easy to control." Be aware of the pussy-spell AT ALL TIMES.
/r/askMRP07/01/20 09:48 AM
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