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Emergency-Action6788/r/askMRP31/05/24 11:33 AM
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Emergency-Action6788/r/askMRP29/05/24 11:49 AM
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Emergency-Action6788/r/askMRP30/05/24 11:31 AM
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Emergency-Action6788/r/askMRP01/06/24 11:07 AM
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I agree that vision is an essential part of frame. I interpreted the concept of the tetrahedron of frame as: your vision is supported by the three pillars of frame. I agree that the vision I wrote might look uninspired to someone with stronger frame, but I'm working on the assumption that my capacity for a more impressive vision will improve as the foundation of my frame is strengthened. Did you find that expanding your vision first helped you when you were working on your frame?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 05:44 PM
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In my two months here, the common theme I've seen in the advice given here is that frame is everything. Horns prompted me to realize that the action I take is not important, but the reality of where the action comes from is everything. In that vein, this post is my attempt to see if I am on the right track in establishing my own frame as I understand it from sidebar and Rian stone's book. I could describe the shit tests I faced this week, or my attempts at game, but that seems like someone with …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 03:27 PM
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OYS 9 48yo, 6'2 201#, married 17y, boys 15/11 Goals: raise my boys into men, find inspiration outdoors, move west in 7 years. Physical: Lifts: BP 165x6, SQ 165x10, PU+20# 5x3 Goals: lift 195 in BP and SQ and PU +50 Intellectual: Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, BoP, MAP, TWOTSM, Frame Reading: praxeology: dread, the rational male. Goals: learn about masculinity and my masculinity. Learn about game. Emotional: I have been thinking a lot about what it means to "do the work" here. What I have come up w…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 11:52 AM
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Maybe I did not write that clearly. I didn't mean my feelings like does that feel nice or does that feel bad, but does that feel like it was done authentically from the man I want to be, or did that contain validation seeking or attention seeking motivations. My goal being the establishment of frame, so I think we are in agreement here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 06:01 PM
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OYS 8 48yo, 6'2 205#, married 17y, boys 14/11 Goals: raise my boys into men, find adventure outside, become the man I envision Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, pook, rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM. Reading: MAP, praxeology: frame Lifts: BP 165x7, SQ 165x10, PU 6x6x8. My lower back has been sore after squatting for a few days each session for the past week. I'm going to stay at this weight to give it time to catch up before increasing weight. Finance: continue already implemented changes to improve money in. …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 11:48 AM
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It sounds to me like It hinges on who you are truly doing it for. If I am doing something because I want a certain reaction from someone else, I'm a dancing monkey. If i do something because it is flowing from my own frame, it's authentic. The actions could even be the same in both cases, but since the former is an act, it will be sniffed out.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 09:01 PM
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Both good links I hadn't seen before.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 08:11 PM
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Do you have a good resource for learning reverse kegels? I think you posted one about regular kegels a few weeks ago and it was awesome
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 05:44 PM
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What did you disagree with in pook?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 03:27 PM
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To restate your words in my own mind - So as a high value man that brings high value to every situation, giving women the feels is a way to bring high value in this kind of social interaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/24 03:21 PM
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OYS 7 48y, 6'2" 201#, married 17y, 2 boys 14/11 Goals: become the best version of myself. raise my boys into men. Lifts: BP 155 9x3, SQ 155 10x3, PU 6x6x7 Hobbies: rock climbing, motorcycle riding lessons, house renovations. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, BoP, sidebar, TWOTSM Reading: MAP, praxeology: frame Wealth: continue maintaining gains in my business. Improving my interactions with customers using skills from how to win friends. Identified finances as a yellow energy blocker from MAP, so I'v…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 12:33 PM
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Thanks for this. Your link describes me to a T. Going to refocus on frame this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 10:42 PM
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I appreciate it and I'll keep working on that. If you could clarify, I think I'm still a bit confused. When you read what I wrote it sounds like I'm validation seeking from my wife? From myself? From reddit? Do you think self validation is acceptable? Like mowing the lawn and taking a second to enjoy my work?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 06:48 PM
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Maybe, but I took your advice previously about validation and have been thinking about it for weeks. This session with my wife felt different to me from the past because my actions were motivated by my own desire to have sex and not to get a cookie from Mommy. I instigated instead of waiting for her permission. I told her what was going to happen instead of lying there or spending the whole time trying to please her. As the judge of my own actions, I feel validated in myself that I set a goal, l…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 03:40 PM
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I appreciate your challenges. But that comment has almost nothing to do with sex. I'm enjoying all aspects of my life more than I have in years.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 03:14 PM
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Thank you, I'm going to meditate a lot on this comment. I read here that if they are not emotional they are not horny. I've been applying this when she is talking about work or whatever shit she goes on about. I try to see if I can stoke her emotions in the story. I cheer her on when she talks about something she's proud of, I talk shit about the bad guys in the story. This seems to apply to what you are talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 02:47 PM
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I'm loosely following the 10 levels of kino, so I've been doing non sexual touching throughout the day. Pass in the hall, squeeze the shoulder. Sit in car, touch the thigh. Talking at dinner, touch her hand. I've been doing this with women I know that have shown some IOI too. High five and touch the small of the back etc. This particular day, I was feeling an abundance of masculine energy and desire, so I escalated kino more based on that with some shoulder rubbing and more butt grabbing. I was …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 02:11 PM
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OYS 6 48 y, 6'2" 203#, married 17 y, 2 boys 14/11 Read(ing) NMMNG: rediscover masculinity, examine relationship with father WISNIFG: verbal assertion to replace fight or flight Pook: respect is all. TWOTSM: masculine nature is creation and consciousness, feminine nature is chaos and emotion MMSLP: alpha behavior creates desire MAP: just started How to win friends and influence people: flattery vs affirmation. I flatter my wife and likely others with compliments, this may be validation seeking. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/24 11:56 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate this advice. I find the "levels" posts helpful to get me to slow down with this process and make sure I build the strong foundation everything else seems to be built on. Your comment helps me to see the forest not just the trees.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 07:03 PM
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Oys 5 6'2 203# 48yo, married 17 y, boys 14/11 Read(ing): NMMNG: fear driving nice guy behavior WISNIFG: used broken record to get broken earbuds replaced out of warranty. Used negative inquiry, fogging and negative assertion when wife was bitchy(possible shit test) the methods in this book have been amazing. Just trying then, despite not having confidence it would do anything, have made me feel like I can handle any conflict situation while staying in control and not activating flight or flight.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 12:31 PM
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Great post
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 04:57 PM
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NMMNG talks about abandonment from a parent, and when I reread that I'm going to think about it. Have you found it to be valuable to try and figure out the origin of these faulty thought patterns? I was thinking more along the lines of wherever it's from, it's here now and needs to be dealt with.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 06:32 PM
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Must have been looking for validation. Seems so stupid to say it out loud, I just never realized it because I was always defending and explaining and not paying attention to my own brain.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 05:17 PM
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Major pussy. That stops now
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 01:45 PM
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OYS 4 6'2" 204# 48 yo, married 17 y, boys 14/11. Read(ing): NMMNG: fear drives nice guy behavior WISNIFG: flight, flight or verbal assertion dealing with fear MMSLP: increase alpha behavior TWOTSM: fuck the world like you fuck your woman Pook: true nature of women SMV: Lifts: rock climbing 2 hours X2, BP 155 9x9, curls 35lb 9x7, PU 6x6x7, 5k run 24:53 Focus on hair style this week, new weight loss goal of 200# Money: continue enthusiasm with patient interactions. Goal of 100 visits/wk, 400/mo So…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 11:20 AM
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I take this and the previous comment to mean that my shifting the location of her appreciation to the bedroom is still looking for appreciation and validation. Thanks for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:23 PM
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I've been thinking of this issue a lot this week. As I'm focusing on frame and the concept of holding frame or winning the frame battle, I notice that I can use compliments during an interaction with someone to establish myself as the judge of the other person's actions. I think compliments are absolutely a subtle frame challenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 11:44 AM
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Thanks brother, this is good nuance.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 05:10 PM
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Dare vs deer was a great post. Thanks for the link
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 04:15 PM
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OYS 3 6'2" 207lbs 48yo, married 17y, 2 boys 14/11 chest fly 50lb DB 7x2, rock climb 4 hrs, curls 35lb DB 9x2, BP 145lbs 9x2, erg 20 min alternating 1m sprints, PU 5x5x7 Reading NMMNG - connected with the chapter about regaining masculinity. Goals to increase male friendships, so I invited men I know over for dinner, and to a running race. Next book WISNIFG. SMV: Looks: continued previous changes, also had my old, favorite steel watch repaired and shared wearing that instead of smartwatch. Looks …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 11:59 AM
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I'd love an explanation of what you mean by that. Reading Nmmng and analyzing my use of covert contracts now. I didn't see how this applies though.
/r/askMRP03/06/24 03:23 PM
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She was probably trying to negotiate desire with herself. In nice guy world I do everything right and she's probably telling herself she should want me, but she can't figure out why she doesn't. I think women are no better at deciphering their woman brains than we are.
/r/askMRP31/05/24 02:41 PM
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Sounds like you know what to do, but don't have the mental strength to do it. I find meditation to be like lifting weights for the brain. Gives me an extra moment to decide what to do in stressful situations.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 05:10 PM
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I was coming here to say that you pay the pediatrician to deal with this. You are captaining the ship through a maelstrom and she is panicked. You are doing a great job staying calm and handling everything, but you don't want to be the one that has to deal with every bullshit concern of hers. You have other things on your mind. Refer her to the pediatrician with every concern.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 07:13 PM
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I thought I'd put it here and maybe other guys would want to comment on the topic. Plan is to do one each day.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 04:49 PM
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My brother in Christ, God gave you that sword to use towards your vision. Unless your vision includes supporting naked drug addicts fucking while fat betas film it, then use the energy you get from denying yourself to create and produce your goals You can do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/24 11:39 AM
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Thanks brother will do
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/24 05:52 PM
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With regards to correcting her: i have done this too much. I'm seeing now that even when she is trying to do things consistent with my wishes, eg cleaning up, I will correct her if she doesn't do it exactly as I would have wanted. This crushes her feminine desire to submit and follow my lead. I'm thinking that as long as what they are doing is in line with my vision, I will let her do it the way she thinks is best.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/24 12:38 PM
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Oys 2 6'2" 208lbs 48 yo, married 17y, 2 boys 14/11. Tons of unexpected and intense emotions this week related to unplugging. Sadness, shame at my past beta behavior, anger. Channeled anger into exercise, shame into motivation and just let the sadness come out. Exercise: 2x Rock climbing 2hrs, BP 145 9x2, chest fly 45DB 12x2, tricep press 50lb DB 9x2, lateral raise 30DB 8x2, erg 20 min. Added 2 sessions of finger hanging 3x5 and pullups 3x5, which I used to do and had wanted to add back. Goal: sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/24 12:26 PM
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Oys 1 48 years old, 6'2" 212lbs. married 17 years, together 23 years, 2 boys 14, 11 Hike 15 min/mi pace 4 miles 5x wk Rock climb 2 hours 2x week 5.11 on lead in a gym BP 155 8 reps X2, curls 35 DB x16, lateral raises 30lb DB x12, tricep press 50lb DB x24 rowing machine 20 minutes hard My primary outlet is Rock climbing, it's mentally immersive, whole body exercise that leaves me exhausted and had been part of a weight control and strength building for 6 years. I was 267 8 years ago, got down to …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 12:58 PM
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