Emergency-Cap1821 Archive

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2	Un consiglio a tutti quelli che leggono qui su questo sub: prima si accetta la teoria redpill prima si vive meglio, basta solo darsi un valore o farselo dare (essere oggettivi al massimo), così si riesce a capire quale femmina avere al proprio fianco. Saluti a tutti. You didn't in your wording of the post, but the ideology of redpill does tend to perpetuate and create stereotypes about gender and relationships that can be inherently harmful, which is the reason why many people in this subreddit have left it. I just don't really feel like this is a good place to promote redpill ideology, and your motives may not be entirely altruistic in creating a post like that in this particular community. But I wish you all the best in life and hope it treats you kindly.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/26 07:13 AM
3	Un consiglio a tutti quelli che leggono qui su questo sub: prima si accetta la teoria redpill prima si vive meglio, basta solo darsi un valore o farselo dare (essere oggettivi al massimo), così si riesce a capire quale femmina avere al proprio fianco. Saluti a tutti. Respectfully, I completely disagree. You can have self worth without demeaning people of the opposite gender or who have different ways of expressing their masculinity! Very few things in life are black and white, so to say all women or all men are a certain way is an incomplete perspective. :) You will live better when understanding the nuance of human behavior and seeking connection and care rather than success and superiority. You are worth more than to be told what it means to be a man! :)	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/26 07:06 AM
5	Is there a way to suppress my desire for love or a romantic relationship? Hi, I am a woman who came across your post! This is what I would say to someone in a similar situation. :)) Rather than trying to suppress it, use that desire for connection to open your mind up to the many different kinds of people all around you, and their perspectives on things! Prioritize healthy, respectful friendships with people from all backgrounds and genders, and you will learn so much about life, relationships with people, and how to connect with different kinds of people. You may mak…	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/26 04:47 AM
2	The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn't Aww, thank you! :)) Just now seeing this, hehe. 😁 But yeah, I hope someone finds it helpful. Have a lovely day, y'all!	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/26 01:02 AM
5	The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn't And perhaps that is something that you can look inwards to figure out too, if you haven't already. What have I been told I should want by other people, and what kind of person do I, outside of all the loud voices telling me what I should want, think I could be happy with? Who could I see myself considering a lifelong best friend that I would want to be faithful to and share my everything with? Try to focus on what makes them who they are, not what they look like or how much you can change them. …	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/26 07:40 AM
6	The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn't I guarantee that for many women, those things are much more important than one's appearance. But it also depends on the woman! Not all women are the same, and we therefore enjoy different things about a person and/or their appearance, but at least for me, appearance is always secondary to how a person treats me, how they treat others, and whether or not they have good personal hygiene. :)) A person's personality and habits are what you may have to live with forever. There is no guarantee that th…	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/26 06:48 AM
4	The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn't As a woman, I wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't trying to actively better themselves, but yeah, I don't mind dating someone who isn't as materially successful as I am! Success isn't everything! You can be successful and not be a healthy person to start a relationship with. I think just finding someone who is genuinely trying to be the best version of themselves is what I like. To know that they want to be kind and build a good life for themselves. That is what I find attractive! People wh…	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/26 02:06 PM
34	The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn't Hey! I am a woman who came across your post. :)) I am glad that you are having better experiences with dating and that you realized that the redpill way of dating and making friends can be a bit of a scam. Good on you for not giving up and recognizing that redpill was negatively affecting your relationships! ☺️ To any men that are having a hard time with dating, I would just like to say that I think that it is best just to be yourself, and not focus on building up a persona to attract women. We …	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/26 01:47 PM
3	Can I still be considered exredpill if I'm into pickup? No problem! 😁👍 Anytime! I agree, yeah, the validation aspect of it can be a big factor for why guys enjoy it in many cases. I am glad that you are seeking a healthy relationship and not just chasing acceptance and approval from strangers/peers! That is already a good thing! Constantly chasing a fleeting feeling without real commitment and care seems like a pretty crummy way to live life. :)) And yeah, I guess it does kind of turn women into a drug, I had never thought of it that way! If you ever…	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 04:27 AM
7	Can I still be considered exredpill if I'm into pickup? There is nothing inherently wrong with talking to women in public, but pick up artists who post things online are an invasion of woman's privacy. I don't think anyone would like pictures and videos of them uploaded onto YouTube or another platform without their consent, especially for the viewing entertainment of random men who will rate their appearance and/or call them rude if they reject the guy filming. Rather than getting into pickup, try to talk to women who know and trust you or who are i…	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/26 04:03 AM
12	Long live the red pill! No, respectfully, I think a man who is in touch with his emotions, can respectfully coexist with many different kinds of people, and isn't preoccupied with appearances and coming across as weak is emotionally and mentally strong. There is nothing wrong with healthy masculinity and expressing yourself in a masculine way! There is, however, everything wrong with attempting to convince men that there is only way they are allowed to be a man, and telling them that women are meant to be taken advanta…	/r/ExRedPill	08/07/26 04:08 AM
1	It is said that women are more emotional than men? I'm not the woman who posted about her dad, but I get that, wanting to leave behind things that cause you pain or make you feel ashamed of intrusive thoughts. I struggle a bit with anxiety, and my emotions can mess with me a lot too, sometimes in ways that are harmful to my success and self confidence. It can be quite frustrating, and sometimes I feel a little broken because of it too, but I have found through the years that I can also use my experience with it to empathize with people who are o…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/26 04:45 AM
6	It is said that women are more emotional than men? Agreed! I would much rather be in a relationship with a man who is mindful of his emotions in a healthy way than one who pretends he is always fine! I would like to know that he is comfortable enough with me to let me be a part of his life, even the hard and scary parts. :)) There are also, however, potentially dangerous expressions of emotion, especially in the case of anger. I would want to be sure that his anger was not something that led to a physically and emotionally dangerous situation fo…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/26 01:54 AM
1	How to get loved one out of red pill content? How long does this phase last? I think that, while there are probably people who fit the boxes you describe, all women are different. Just like all men are different! And different women want different things! I, as a more feminist women (which simply means that I believe in equal treatment of people regardless of gender, not that I dislike men or think all men are the same), want someone who sees me as an equal and that I see as an equal. We may each be better at different things since we are different people with individual…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/26 01:26 AM