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| 2 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tAww, thank you! :)) Just now seeing this, hehe. 😁 But yeah, I hope someone finds it helpful. Have a lovely day, y'all! | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 01:02 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tAnd perhaps that is something that you can look inwards to figure out too, if you haven't already. What have I been told I should want by other people, and what kind of person do I, outside of all the loud voices telling me what I should want, think I could be happy with? Who could I see myself considering a lifelong best friend that I would want to be faithful to and share my everything with? Try to focus on what makes them who they are, not what they look like or how much you can change them. … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/26 07:40 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tI guarantee that for many women, those things are much more important than one's appearance. But it also depends on the woman! Not all women are the same, and we therefore enjoy different things about a person and/or their appearance, but at least for me, appearance is always secondary to how a person treats me, how they treat others, and whether or not they have good personal hygiene. :)) A person's personality and habits are what you may have to live with forever. There is no guarantee that th… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/26 06:48 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tAs a woman, I wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't trying to actively better themselves, but yeah, I don't mind dating someone who isn't as materially successful as I am! Success isn't everything! You can be successful and not be a healthy person to start a relationship with. I think just finding someone who is genuinely trying to be the best version of themselves is what I like. To know that they want to be kind and build a good life for themselves. That is what I find attractive! People wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/26 02:06 PM |
| 29 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tHey! I am a woman who came across your post. :)) I am glad that you are having better experiences with dating and that you realized that the redpill way of dating and making friends can be a bit of a scam. Good on you for not giving up and recognizing that redpill was negatively affecting your relationships! ☺️ To any men that are having a hard time with dating, I would just like to say that I think that it is best just to be yourself, and not focus on building up a persona to attract women. We … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/26 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Can I still be considered exredpill if I'm into pickup?No problem! 😁👍 Anytime! I agree, yeah, the validation aspect of it can be a big factor for why guys enjoy it in many cases. I am glad that you are seeking a healthy relationship and not just chasing acceptance and approval from strangers/peers! That is already a good thing! Constantly chasing a fleeting feeling without real commitment and care seems like a pretty crummy way to live life. :)) And yeah, I guess it does kind of turn women into a drug, I had never thought of it that way! If you ever… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/26 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Can I still be considered exredpill if I'm into pickup?There is nothing inherently wrong with talking to women in public, but pick up artists who post things online are an invasion of woman's privacy. I don't think anyone would like pictures and videos of them uploaded onto YouTube or another platform without their consent, especially for the viewing entertainment of random men who will rate their appearance and/or call them rude if they reject the guy filming. Rather than getting into pickup, try to talk to women who know and trust you or who are i… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | It is said that women are more emotional than men?I'm not the woman who posted about her dad, but I get that, wanting to leave behind things that cause you pain or make you feel ashamed of intrusive thoughts. I struggle a bit with anxiety, and my emotions can mess with me a lot too, sometimes in ways that are harmful to my success and self confidence. It can be quite frustrating, and sometimes I feel a little broken because of it too, but I have found through the years that I can also use my experience with it to empathize with people who are o… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/26 04:45 AM |
| 6 | It is said that women are more emotional than men?Agreed! I would much rather be in a relationship with a man who is mindful of his emotions in a healthy way than one who pretends he is always fine! I would like to know that he is comfortable enough with me to let me be a part of his life, even the hard and scary parts. :)) There are also, however, potentially dangerous expressions of emotion, especially in the case of anger. I would want to be sure that his anger was not something that led to a physically and emotionally dangerous situation fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/26 01:54 AM |
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