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| 4 | When She Says She Wants Out, Step Aside and Show Her the DoorBrother, I could've written this myself. I'll just add that when you're going through it and people say things like, "it gets better with time," etc... I am learning that this saying is actually true. It used to almost piss me off hearing that, as it sounds so cliche, but it's a cliche for a reason. This is an opportunity to really look at yourself, your life, and so on, and make some independent decisions as to how you want to spend the rest of the limited time we all have. Don't get me wrong, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/25 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Wife left me todayCan confirm this is true | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Club I thought I’d never be inThis is fantastic advice. Adding to Step 2, do not directly negotiate or discuss anything having to do with custody, splitting assets, etc... Create a firm boundary there, and only discuss the day to day things that need to be done (e.g., the immediate needs of the kids, household, etc...). The only thing I'd add to Step 3 is find a solid therapist. You may need to see more than one until you find someone who is both helpful and a good fit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I hate this shit.came here to say the same thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 01:46 PM |
| 3 | The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about.Let me also add another true cliche: progress is not linear. What I mean by this is that the path to feeling better is not a straight line. There will be times when you're feeling more confident or upbeat about your life, followed by being bummed out. For example, I know when my ex eventually pairs up with someone, there's a part of me that will be really bummed out. I am preparing for this. On a smaller level, when she sends me a shitty text, it's going to annoy me. The key is, IMHO, is to reco… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 4 | The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about.Great post. We just finalized our divorce (26 years, 2 adult, 1 school age kid). The financial aspect sucks but I know I'll be fine in the long run. For me, it's all the things you listed. To all the dudes reading this, let me be one more person who will reinforce the idea that things do get better. I'm not 100% out of the woods, but compared to a month ago, I'm way better. You have to have a support system. This forum is nice, but spend time with good friends, find a solid therapist (easier sai… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 12:31 PM |
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